I Think My Teammate Is Sleeping With Our Boss
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"What is my role" literally nothing. Mind your business lady.
@mikenelson8377
11 күн бұрын
Eh, not if promotions are on the line. Then it becomes illegal and unethical.
@edwinrodriguezjr3978
11 күн бұрын
Ya I seen someone get whipped for getting in business
@sitcomchristian6886
11 күн бұрын
If it was your spouse and their coworker, would you have the same opinion?
@The-Best-Version-Of-You
10 күн бұрын
karen alert
@anonymouse9833
9 күн бұрын
@@sitcomchristian6886yes. It’s happened to me and this lady is just putting her job at risk if she starts pointing fingers without proof.
It is good that she has morals and values, but for her own sake and career she needs to stay out of it. If she knows, I guarantee others do to, and it will all come to a head without her involvement.
STAY👏🏻IN👏🏻YOUR👏🏻LANE👏🏻
@lanagraham4587
12 күн бұрын
Completely agree!!
@sitcomchristian6886
11 күн бұрын
Or, you know, speak up against something effed up.
Deloney's advice is horrible. Co workers are not your friends. They are your co workers. No way this ends well. Either you caught them and they will hate you for it. Or they are innocent and they are insulted by your accusation. Mind your own business or get your resume together.
@TonyCox1351
11 күн бұрын
And they completely glossed over the fact that this is her BOSS. You better have your resume printed out and in-hand, and a six month emergency fund ready to cover all your expenses, before you even think about confronting your boss over something like this.
@eff9266
11 күн бұрын
so spot on. not her business. they are not her underage kids.
@SwimSweetie100
11 күн бұрын
Exactly. Huge difference between ‘friend’ coworker and legit close friend
@user-st6nt4ou6f
9 күн бұрын
Excellent
Many of the comments are focusing too much on the caller and completely ignoring how inappropriate it is for a boss to have sexual relations with a subordinate. For those of you accusing the caller for "being jealous," or "nosy," you need to be educated on what an imbalance of power is. It's hard to "mind your business," when so-called religious "Christians," are flaunting an office affair, especially when one of them in married.
@christinahek
10 күн бұрын
Of course, you have an opinion, but it's work. Unless it impacts the job, shut it. We're not the genitalia police for coworkers. If I were actually friends with one of them, I might say, "People see you and it's not a good look," but prepare for backlash and getting into a mess.
@andresortiz560
10 күн бұрын
I wonder how many of these commenters would say the same to their spouse’s coworkers if they were put in that same position.
@juliea.
10 күн бұрын
@@andresortiz560 good point!
@kurtjames9487
9 күн бұрын
Thank you. I suspect a lot of people in our culture get defensive because they know they lack character as well and they enjoy their own "relationship" with their work husband or work wife.
@juliea.
9 күн бұрын
@@kurtjames9487 yes, very true!
It creates a hostel work environment. It needs to go to HR .
@moniqueengleman873
11 сағат бұрын
That is a stretch dude
None of your business. Trust me, you will not be appreciated for your candour.
@sitcomchristian6886
11 күн бұрын
Appreciated or not, the truth will set you free.
@jennyj0007
11 күн бұрын
@@sitcomchristian6886 it's not her truth to tell
I love how everyone in the comments say don't say anything. But if their partner they got married to was cheating on them and everyone knew they would want someone to tell them. be the change you want to see in the world.
@eff9266
11 күн бұрын
i wouldn't want anyone to interfere my relationship and come to tell me this about my spouse. our business. we'll manage. thanks. ignorance is bliss.
@javanburton
11 күн бұрын
@@eff9266 good to know make sure you tell your friends and family if you ever see my wife cheating don't tell me. Personally I think they would judge you more for that but whatever float your boat.
@anonymouse9833
9 күн бұрын
Haha my ex did cheat on me with a coworker and I’m glad people let me figure it out instead of putting their own livelihoods at risk over office rumors. This lady doesn’t even have any actual proof, she’s just annoyed they spend so much time together. If she calls them out, she better get ready to find a new job because she’s making herself the drama
If it is happening at work, it isn't private or personal. They 100% made it her and everyone at the office's business by bringing it into the workplace. Favoritism and/or relationships change the dynamic of the workplace and will effect everyone in their team. A boss cannot manage a team fairly or effectively without boundaries. Her career and potential for upward mobility will be affected sooner or later.
@kcourtney6826
11 күн бұрын
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@pamelaliegh
11 күн бұрын
It becomes a hostile work environment when married bosses mess with single subordinates. I’ve worked in these environments. Don’t let anyone at work know you think anything. Quiet. An anonymous tip to HR. Then keep your head down and let it play out while polishing your resume.
@nancyfrazier2329
10 күн бұрын
As a retired HR manager I agree.
As Christians the hardest thing to do is holding other professing Christians accountable and to do it in a loving manner because you love them
Don't waste anxiety on your coworkers problems
This is a great example of when you should mind your own business. I’ve worked places where coworkers were cheating with each other on the regular. I thought it was disgusting but it wasn’t my business to get involved in. Just do your job and go home. These things always come to light at some point or another
I have worked in two offices where the supervisor was having an affair with a subordinate. In both cases, the subordinate was given greater opportunities and significant attention over the rest of the team. The boss was not leading the team. As a result, productivity nosed dived and the teams eventually fell apart.
@user-ec3rm9wr1n
12 күн бұрын
Preach baby 🙏🙌🙌🙌🙏
@helenahanley
11 күн бұрын
But what is the company policy about supervisor having a romantic relationship with a subordinate. That's the question.
@user-ec3rm9wr1n
11 күн бұрын
@@helenahanley nothing of course 🙄🙂
You guys realize the horrifying evils that have been perpetuated because people decided to "mind their business" and not say something was up, right?
@FabriceLabako
9 күн бұрын
This isn't a war or a homicide. It's just an affair. I don't care if my boss has an affair with a co-worker or if my co-worker cheats on their spouse. It's none of my business. I there for work not investigating other people's private relations.
Why do so people always feel the need to stick their noses where it doesn’t belong? She turned herself into an investigator for no reason.
@Ryan-wx1bi
11 күн бұрын
If my wife was cheating on me, I'd want one of the co workers to tell me
@eff9266
11 күн бұрын
if your wife is boss, she would just fire the long sniffy nose. or just raise his salary. and you ll never know.
@ErinWilke
11 күн бұрын
If there is a relationship it will effect everyone in the team. Even if it's just loose boundaries and favoritism, it is her business because it will effect her and her career
@2Ryled
11 күн бұрын
@@Ryan-wx1bi there are people you can tell their partner cheated. And the partner convinces their spouse otherwise. Or the spouse blames you for their breakup, not their spouse.
Yikes. This lady better get her resume ready because getting herself involved in the drama is not going to end well.
Coworkers are not your friends.
Everyone telling her to mind her business, and while I understand that logic, I would be very uncomfortable if my boss was blatantly hooking up with one of my coworkers
Lady, if you want to fix other's alleged wrongdoings, just join the police.
@sitcomchristian6886
11 күн бұрын
Lol the police don't do that...
@Orenoryori
10 күн бұрын
The police do a great job of that…
Everyone’s saying she should mind her business but if theyre being so out there w their relationship then they did it to themselves if a person gets involved. Also this could be weighing on her knowing this man is married. They are making others feel uncomfortable with their relationship so theyve lost the right to not have others in their business. I think John is right. You mention it to the one u have a personal connection with and say “hey just letting you know it looks really weird and he’s married so do you think its weird youre doing all of this with a married man” maybe the friend doesn’t see how weird and out of line she is. I think she should just say something to the friend and if nothing changes then F that and mind ur business. Let them implode themselves. You did ur part
@rosemaryjackson3679
11 күн бұрын
Nicely put (fyi my first opinion was “stay out of it” .. came around to your thoughts.)
@jazpoop7976
11 күн бұрын
Exactly! People saying to mind your own are looking pretty sus
@thescramble4309
11 күн бұрын
@@jazpoop7976Yea the fact people are saying mind your own business means they’d want the same treatment if they could get away with it . Unless…. Unless it was their wife getting railed by the boss! Lmao but whatever, people are shady !
@shanchan8247
11 күн бұрын
@@jazpoop7976No its just that we know she's sticking her nose in something that will come back to bite her. And she has no reason to do it. I think she wants her boss and is jealous.
@jazpoop7976
11 күн бұрын
@@shanchan8247 she wants her boss?! What indicates that?
Ok, so my advice is to stay away from all the drama and gossip at work. It is never going to get you anywhere. It pays to be friendly and helpful and get along with your colleagues and boss, but please, for heaven's sake, DO NOT get involved in their private lives.
John, sometimes you have to read between the lines. This woman has feelings for her boss...period!
@cyoohoos
12 күн бұрын
I thought the same thing. Otherwise…why is she obsessed with the time he spends with someone else?
@user-ec3rm9wr1n
12 күн бұрын
@@cyoohoos she is afraid they go freaky over her job and kick her out for freaks nights duh 🙄🙄
@eff9266
11 күн бұрын
like she is somehow able to prevent it? and remain friends after such "conversation" or co workers at minimum
@user-ec3rm9wr1n
11 күн бұрын
@@Dogmeat47 the latina burning pu******
@figand_fern3997
11 күн бұрын
mm hmm
Well, one thing’s for certain……one of them is trying to get a raise 😳🤷♂️🤣
@segason6
11 күн бұрын
Or both 😉
If my boss is canoodeling with a coworker, it IS my business, as it affects everyone on the team. Caller is uncomfortable. Likely so are other people. When boss makes the workplace uncomfortable, a "hostile work environment" even, with their sexual behavior with a subordinate... it's a problem worth doing something about.
@eff9266
11 күн бұрын
getting hung up on is what actually makes karens uncomfortable about it. just don't. and live your life.
@maryannelawless4447
11 күн бұрын
I think it wouldn't be as big of a deal if he wasn't the boss. If he's sleeping w an employee, while he's married, that makes for an awkward work environment. Also, the wife deserves to know.
@jasonmorgan5275
10 күн бұрын
“Hostile work environment” 😂😂😂
I think shes a bit jelly actually 😅
@JustinCase780
12 күн бұрын
John should have asked her that question because it certainly sounded very possible.
@Zumcho
11 күн бұрын
Same. She knew way too much about their activities together. She sure is paying attention.
@dudeorduuude5211
11 күн бұрын
Your comment is why we don't listen to advice from you, and listen to Delony. Also, heads up, your family and friends pull their hair out around you, because you have takes a teenager would have. She is a religious person at a religious organization. Jealousy isn't top of the list of what runs her. You watch too much p*rn.
@eff9266
11 күн бұрын
paying attention and paying her private detective. or a few.
@iRRichiee
11 күн бұрын
I dont think shes jealous so much as she just is desperate to be seen as a better person than everyone else around her…
Wow. These comments. I think the advice is sound in this situation. The nuance, or intuition of the caller is important. Seems like lots of commenters here might be projecting, or maybe have something to hide.
@BassBwoy3
11 күн бұрын
I agree. If they are actually friends, she shouldn't be concerned about telling her 'friend' what's up. Depending on how the 'friend' reacts, that will tell you in an instant whether they really are 'friends'.
@DarthFurie
11 күн бұрын
I'm just not interested in my coworkers' lives or business, we're not friends or associates and never will be 💀 I go in, do my time, and leave. Love what I do, couldn't give a rip about my coworkers as long as they perform at their jobs
@ErinWilke
11 күн бұрын
@@DarthFuriethat's fair, but every person and workplace doesn't have to operate the same way you do
@SwimSweetie100
11 күн бұрын
It’s just not worth the absolutely headache getting involved will cause
She needs to go to HR. That would give her cover. Going to the woman would allow them to hide their actions. HR could potentially monitor phones at the workplace and get knowledge from other employees. Do an investigation. The supervisor may retaliate if she talks to the woman. Or, it may be nothing is going on. But the appearance is questionable. She needs to consider moving to another company.
Nope …. Nada…. Negatory … do NOT say anything to anyone. Find a different place to work
@user-ec3rm9wr1n
12 күн бұрын
They go after people 😮🫢🫢🤢...
I am thinking she needs to mind her business.
This is literally the type of person absolutely no one wants in their circle, Im surprised John didn’t tell her not to read the comments…
Possible lawsuit: I worked in law firms for years, and what people need to understand is that if this relationship is between a supervisor and a subordinant, and it goes awry, the company is now open to a sexual harrassment lawsuit. It is because of their heirarchy in the firm. It is not equal. You go to HR to protect the company. It is not being nosy.
Something very similar happened at one of my previous jobs and I quit. I didn't respect my boss anymore and realized he wasn't the person I thought he was so I quit.
I was in a similar situation except it was my colleague and mentor having an affair with one of our college students while on campus. Walked in on some awkward situations. My feelings are that is is no one's business what people do in their personal lives, but if your shady behavior is causing coworkers anxiety, then a talk needs to happen with HR. If you're going to cheat on your spouse at work, don't be so brazen about it. Drama has no place in the workplace.
@shanchan8247
11 күн бұрын
Unless you're in the relationship with them, how would their affair cause you anxiety? Its not good to be that emotionally invested in every person you meet. Your setting yourself up for unnecessary stress.
@JustinCase780
11 күн бұрын
Please stop with the HR is the answer to little pet peeves of nonsense.
People you work with are not friends. Contact HR, ignore it, or leave.
She's the type to go to HR over someone bringing spray cheese to work 😂😂😂 Mind your business ma'am!!!
@JustinCase780
12 күн бұрын
100% ... And, throws out other peoples food from the office refrigerator after she deems it a day too old.
@BeautifulStranger
11 күн бұрын
@@JustinCase780 😂😂😂😂😂
@alberttang6955
11 күн бұрын
I once had a coworker who would file complaints because she didn't like smelling the food other people heated in the break room microwave.
@JustinCase780
11 күн бұрын
@@alberttang6955 Was her name Karen Gettalife?
@theshunnedBandersnatch
11 күн бұрын
This is so oddly specific 😂
Leave it alone the co worker will learn never mix business with pleasure The co worker will lose their job wether they stay together or not You stay out of it protect your job
Mind your own beeswax!!
@coreywiley3164
12 күн бұрын
Literally just said this to myself. What u don’t know won’t hurt.
@jazpoop7976
11 күн бұрын
Their beeswax is making other people uncomfortable
@AJZona-AJR79
11 күн бұрын
@@jazpoop7976 so what?? penises make me uncomfortable in a females bathroom but I have to put up with it. 🙄🤡
She’s jealous
She ever thought about just turning her head to the left & minding her business
If you have to call a show on this subject, you have more problems than others.
one time i asked a coworker friend if she was ok. she was pregnant w her 4th child months after admitting her husband beats her. she was so offended by me asking if she was ok she ended the friendship.
I think the caller works for Joyce Meyer Ministries! Which is super awesome! Back to the topic at hand, I feel for this caller. I just hope it doesn’t backfire on her big time so that the coworker and boss can keep their jobs and secrets.
Ive had this happen. Causes unfair advantages and pay raises.
CRAZY to be here early enough to see no comments. Thank you for the upload
She never mentioned she was worried about her friend being in a dangerous situation. All she cared about was reputation and being a Christian, etc. I hope I never get to work with someone like that….
@mikeysflag1519
11 күн бұрын
As christian we also say mind your own business.
I really, really wish John Deloney would do reaction videos to these calls! This would be one I'd love to know off the record of what his thoughts were. I'm cetain after the call ended, he laughed endlessly 😂
We learned who were "up the bosses butt" regardless of gender, and avoided them like the plague socially in the workplace. When the entire set of staff avoids " toady boy, or girl" the boss begins to see their pet is isolated, and ive seen behaviours adjusted. Speaking up rebounds back on you.
Whatever she does, she has to be comfortable with the idea that it could lead to her losing her job.
This is the silly content I’m here for! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Them fools are entertaining… 🤣🤣
Haven’t heard a lesson in using the “I” language for a while. If your “intent” is sincere I believe for you it was good advice. Good luck with that.
People can't mind their business😂😂
Does she know for sure that they are doing something wrong?
"...make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should work with your hands, just as we told you, so that your daily life will win the respect of outsiders..." 1 Thessalonians 4:11-12 It's right there in the good book.
Leave them be, it isn’t her business.
She sounds jealous. Get it together and shut your mouth. It will all crash down on them.
I have such mixed feelings about this one. As a Christian myself, I understand the importance of integrity at the workplace, especially if it’s a Christian company. At the same time, is this affecting her work, job, and working relationship with her boss? If not, I don’t know if I would say anything.
@KidYale
11 күн бұрын
Same.
It would cause favortism. I also suspect its against company policy. Dont listen to the Twerps that Love sin and evil in this chat, they are heading straight down to a fiery place . Find out what the policy is and act from there. Relationships with subordinates causes favoritism and unfair advantage. I applaud you caller ❤
In situations like this, before I did anything, I would ask myself what outcome I expected by approaching my coworker (or boss) with my suspicions. If an affair is happening-does she expect them to automatically stop the affair and go back to business as usual?? Does she expect her coworker/friend to bare her soul to her? Then what? They go to HR together? Their boss gets fired? If theres no affair-how does she see them working together after this conversation? Or what if the coworker shares her unfounded suspicions with their boss? Either way, things are about to get super awkward/uncomfortable at work between the 3 of them.
If she's getting promotions and opportunities or lighter workloads over everyone else then yes its a problem. If not (which i doubt) then id just go home and gossip about it to my family
@FaithAndRepentance
9 күн бұрын
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NO!! Bad advice! Not ANY of her business! A booger is completely different from an affair!! None of Caroline's business!! ZERO!! I don't care about other people's integrity!! The only integrity I should be concerned about is my own! Bet you're wrong about how it will be received!!
I was in a very similar position. I said something to the person I knew (the Christian girl) and she reported me to HR. Well worth it if it made her steer away from blowing up a man’s family. One day when she has a husband and a family, she’ll understand.
You should always tell people if they have a 🦇 bat in the cave - just like tags - you should always say your clothes tag is sticking out - like a tail of a shirt - you need to tell a guy your tail is sticking out
Just think, all the " mind your business people" would simply look the other way if their friend was having an affair. Sad
If she genuinely considers the co-worker a friend, let her know the perception in the office is she is involved with the married boss. (The fact that she had to call in to a show to ask this question, tells me she is not that close to the co-worker or she would have spoken to her already - tbh Caroline sounds a little jealous - just an observation.) There is a power dynamic with the boss and co-worker which is a bigger problem than him being married - as far as HR is concerned anyway. HR will look at it as a liability - potential sexual harassment lawsuit IF things go sideways. It's a bad outcome all around. People, to protect your heart, brain and your job - don't get involved with people from work.
If this girl says mhm yeah one more time I’m jumping out my window!
It sounds like they're having a relationship together and budding romance. Is that now illegal? It's not an affair, right? The company should probably figure out breaking up the direct report conflict of interest if they're going to be together. In any case, not this ladies responsibility to figure out.
@sitcomchristian6886
11 күн бұрын
The boss is married to someone else. And HR might have issues with him dating a subordinate (especially given that he's MARRIED). Plenty of issues here.
@thestorybehindthat5236
11 күн бұрын
@@sitcomchristian6886 oh I missed the part about him being married. Yea, that's messed up. I think John should've warned her to prepare to lose her job. In my experience this kind of thing doesn't end well for the whistle blower. I had an issue with her getting bent out of shape that two adults who like each other and might end up married to one another was something she felt the need to bomb. It's a bit meh to me for a boss to date a subordinate, but I know lots of old people in my church who ended up together like this. One little old lady was a voice teacher to her male student and a couple years older than him and they ended up together married for 60 years. There are plenty of instances that aren't nefarious exploitations of power. But yea, if he's married then this is definitely screwed up.
I used to work in a school where a male teacher who worked at the school lived across a street from the school he worked at. Everyday for lunch he took the same married female teacher to his house. They walked out together and walked into the school together. Everyone knew about the affair.
@alyssamurphy2002
11 күн бұрын
Uggghhh. Imagine being the husband and EVERYONE KNEW AND NO ONE TOLD HIM! Terrible.
@figgityfly
11 күн бұрын
@@alyssamurphy2002 Her husband didn't work at the school. It is terrible, but It was not our business to tell him.
@JustinCase780
11 күн бұрын
Half of our teachers in High School were getting down with each other...it was so obvious. 😅😅
@eff9266
11 күн бұрын
but none of you guys of the "it's terrible!" type has ever thought that you will never guess whether the husband or the wife of the cheater would appreciate you informing them or send you to hell because they d never known and wouldn't ever want to know if given such an option. "ignorance is bliss." citation. how about that
@alyssamurphy2002
11 күн бұрын
I mean basically the whole town knew. When he found out I bet he would have wanted blood that everyone was too cowardly to tell him he was being cheated on. That's like witnessing a robbery at your neighbor's house and not calling the police. He could be raising a kid that is not his.
Why is it weird to not go to lunch with someone of the opposite sex? One of my rules of thumb is no one on one w opposite sex lunches, period. Unless its management. Two or more women then okay
Did she talk about how happy she is in her relationship on a scale.🤷🏽♂️😳🤦🏾♂️
It would be uncomfortable to work around. I wonder what I would do? I think I would make sure I had the correct information first. E.g. maybe they are long time friends. Maybe talk to the coworker, gently, yes. The mind your business advice the whole comment section is giving... maybe? Probably time tonfind a different job.
@eff9266
11 күн бұрын
the only reply karen will get will be - so what? is it any of your business?
@FaithAndRepentance
9 күн бұрын
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None of her business unless she is a very close friend, none!!
why is this her business? because she feels morally superior? Also, something tells me that they arent actually friends and are more coworkers, who she finds annoying
This is the completely wrong advice. She wont be thanked for it and will likely need to find another job....soon 🙈
She’s jealous.
If it doesn't affect you then it's not your business, sometimes I wish there was a second commentary cause here recently johns been getting pretty soft or being super one sided I remember when he would say this isn't jerry springer and actually ask hard questions
Why do all these women sound the exact same? Voice and cadence and everything.
OMG... I live in St. Louis... I'm trying to see if I know this lady... 🤦
I’m so glad the comment has restored my faith in humanity. This Karen needs to mind her own business!
@FaithAndRepentance
9 күн бұрын
People like you and them are the reason I lose my faith
She will harm herself......one can't fix mankind.....
Why do you care? Why is this your concern? You should've kept ot real with her
The fact that she knows about their weekend activities is weird. Has their “relationship” affected work at all? If not let grown people be grown people
serial cheaters will do anything to anybody
The caller’s replies (mmhmm, mmhmm) to Deloney’s possible choices with consequences sound very Karen-ish. I would not care if my coworker was sleeping with my boss. And who gives a sh*t if they’re self proclaimed Christians. People swear Christian = good and integrity. Give me a break. Girl, go to the gym or go the library and mind your business. You sound bored with your life.
@eff9266
11 күн бұрын
library or gym are too difficult for the karen
Stay out of adult business
What other people do is their business. Unless they are actually close friends with you it’s not your business to say anything. Close friends give each other permission to speak into each other’s lives. Coworkers do not. He may be hurting his marriage by engaging in an inappropriate relationship at work, but that’s his business. Even if you say something and it stops the relationship, he has already hurt his marriage regardless of you interfering or not. Just because something is morally wrong or you believe it is morally wrong It does not give anyone the right to speak into someone else’s life who is doing it. Unless they’re actually hurting someone, it’s not your business to step in. The man’s wife is already been hurt therefore you’re not stopping that hurt by stepping in.
How about just mind your own business unless it starts affecting you directly? Where did all these people get the idea that it's their place to jam themselves in the middle of other people's personal situations without ever being asked?! This woman just wants to be able to tell herself she is a better person than the people she works with. It's not good enough to just think it, she needs to rub others noses in it.
I'm 30 seconds into this, mind your own business! I love the comments
Mind your business. They have to live with the consequences..🤫..If its so uncomfortable go spend more time in church. 🤨🤦🏾♂️🙄
nosy lady
How do u no he hasn't been separated and started dating this girl they don't hav to tel u everything along as ther not fkn in office n ur walking in then mind ur own be different it were u I bet lol
What a strange call. Leave them alone lol.
They go to lunch together…should I tell on them? This is why I’m literally scared of Christians. Everything is seen through this weird prism. And it’s none of your business! These are consenting adults!
@cyoohoos
12 күн бұрын
True Story: My ex and I moved a lot. If a new neighbor introduced themselves and started with “I am a Christian”…we AUTOMATICALLY avoided them
@jazpoop7976
11 күн бұрын
Weird prism called integrity huh
@sitcomchristian6886
11 күн бұрын
Lol scary Christians....ooooo.... Btw, the Mind Your Own Business mentality is precisely how awful behavior perpetuates. So thanks for that.
Some people can not stand to see other people in love and happy. This woman is the type that wants to destroy their happiness.
@AshleyLebedev
10 күн бұрын
Stop. She may need to mind her business and they may be in love and happy but if they are cheating, it’s not just love and happy.
Its none of this woman’s business what her coworkers do. MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!!!!
Mind your business.
It’s not her business period.
everyone saying 'mind your business' is morally bankrupt. good on you for forbidding evil!
@erinnkemp
11 күн бұрын
😅😅😅
@eff9266
11 күн бұрын
😂 so?
@SIGSEGV1337
11 күн бұрын
@@eff9266 You're next.
@sitcomchristian6886
11 күн бұрын
Lol they don't want to hear that. "mind your own business" and let evil perpetuate.
Good lord Tf cares .. mind your own business and get your own life.. wow lady Who’d want her for a” friend”
My your own damn business.
Just mind your effin business. These are the type of people on “Next Door” complaining and getting in people’s business for no reason other than having no life.