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@leahstarz2345

3 жыл бұрын

HI ( I was first lol)

@emielbouckaert1520

3 жыл бұрын

Ok sounds good

@jdwmyt

3 жыл бұрын

Q: How does the ocean say hello? A: It waves.

@jakevanduine

3 жыл бұрын

YAY

@mehcomix4361

3 жыл бұрын

Ooh that’ll be so cool!

4 days is 96 hours 5760 minutes 345 600 seconds one second is enough to get one punch. let that sink in before saying it's not big.

@wockstarsavv

3 жыл бұрын

thank you for this comment!

@Bella-fm4zx

3 жыл бұрын

Hey is it okay if a put copy and paste? I am going make sure they know I copied and I found it from you I already have the comment made if you wanna see it but it is clear that I found it from you

@topaz6995

3 жыл бұрын

345600 seconds. each one spent fearing for your life. who ever said or is saying "only 4 days?" needs to be more empathetic.

@reichr

3 жыл бұрын

OML Thats actually true- maybe its actually 5 seconds but, yeah

@themadlad7051

3 жыл бұрын

It can take less then a second to get punched accutally so its even worse, i hope these people who kidnapped them burn in hell

4 days- that's 96 hours of just torture and abuse....people are so ignorant i swear

@jakeknight9885

3 жыл бұрын

Fr. 8 seconds is incredibly long for bull riders. Imagine 96 hours of torture 😣

@alessandrahernandez7016

3 жыл бұрын

Ong I wouldn’t even last an hour

@masonm4925

3 жыл бұрын

jordan it's not 96 hours strait but yes it's annoying they say it like it's nothing

@jasdil7928

3 жыл бұрын

Time

@fredericliebert4099

3 жыл бұрын

Wait who The fuck said tuhat wasnt a Lontoon time

Those jail times make me sick. 19 days. Kidnapping and violating a CHILD should be at the LEAST like 50 years. Absolutely unforgivable.

@marissa._

Жыл бұрын

It should be death penalty!

@kittyratrawr

Жыл бұрын

@@marissa._ i'm fine with that!

@xarathos5168

Жыл бұрын

Anyone who would sexually assault a child deserves a painful death

@manojayyappan2970

Жыл бұрын

no it should be life in prison

@Arcadiabaezz

Жыл бұрын

Atleast 20 badgillion years😻😻😻😻

Once a creep kidnaps a child, they should NEVER be released from jail.

@Colecruzin

Жыл бұрын

Afuckinmen

@Chocolicious_Star

Жыл бұрын

and should be tortured very badly (:

@sighems

Жыл бұрын

LITERALLY… nobody would change after willingly kidnapping

@shloprop4751

Жыл бұрын

At a minimum they should never be let out ever.

@Spinzgoat

Жыл бұрын

@@PydroAJ kidnapping doesnt mean rape, torture or any of those things you listed its just taking someone hostage

Saying “iT wAs oNlY fOuR daYs” is like saying they only cut off your feet and only ONE of your hands you have your other hand your fine

@bois-se8id

3 жыл бұрын

When did he say that

@Lore.n

3 жыл бұрын

SADBOYS production he never did, she’s saying that people who told her that

@strudel3200

3 жыл бұрын

@@bois-se8id its just an example.

@satanssweetheart8197

3 жыл бұрын

SADBOYS production it’s just an example

@rooracleaf561

3 жыл бұрын

Would you rather spend four days in an unfamiliar place, or PERMANENTLY lose 3 pretty important body parts. It really isn’t the same. Yes, it would be better if they never went at all, but leaving with all your limbs after a 4 day stay with a stranger is much better than dying

only 4 ?! How dare everyone who says that. I saw and interview about a woman being abducted for "only" 8 hours in these 8 hours he tried to drown her 4 times, raped her multiple times, choked her, beat her so all her rips were broken and she had inner bleeding plus multiple fractures..again in "only" 8 hours. Image having to go through this for 4!! days

@PopsJoe

3 жыл бұрын

That would even feel longer. Imagine waiting 10 mins while bored, it feels longer than it should be. More so when you are in a dangerous situation without any guarantee of escape. Every hour would feel like an eternity, it would would be scarring mentally and emotionally. What really sucks after this is you'll never be the same after these kind of incidents.

@ladymercy5275

3 жыл бұрын

They were trying to help the person move on, emotionally. Your outrage makes you feel exhilarated, and is predicated on a lack of empathy, ironically.

@starrynight1165

3 жыл бұрын

@@ladymercy5275 what are you on? Invalidating someones trauma isnt going to help them get over it, itll just make them feel worse.

@pearl92391

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, 4 days isnt nothing.

@ImBlueDaBaDeeDaBaDaa

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, time means nothing if you're put in a stressful, painful situation. It doesn't matter if it's a few days, or even a few minutes, or even a few SECONDS. In that moment, every single second is horrible, and intensified. Every moment dragged out to seem like it lasts longer. The fear stays with you, changes you. People who told her that to her face clearly don't understand, and they don't care to either.

Imagine going through major rape or sexual assault, and people say," It was for only 4 days. It wasnt THAT bad." It doesnt matter how long it is,it is of the trauma that the victim has

@YukiSilverFox72

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, like when someone says they are wary of dogs because one bit them in the past. A bite/attack can range from moments to a few minutes. Or even a car crash. These events can happen so fast but leave years of trauma to resolve. People drown in 3 feet of water and in 10 feet and so on. Don't discount what has happened to a person.

@DAREDEVIL-dm4yh

Жыл бұрын

What kind of people are they??? Man 😔😔

@EggsToYourBacon

Жыл бұрын

​@@YukiSilverFox72 Exactly. The most traumatic experience of my life only lasted about 10 minutes, but it took me almost 10 *years* to start recovering.

@asshatslovejohnnydeppjohnn8377

11 ай бұрын

-come over and see ‘johnny depp harrrases women online absolute proof’

@armdick1801

10 ай бұрын

No like being r3ped once is horrible in itself but over and over for 4 days where you can’t escape and then someone has the audacity to say it wasn’t that bad what the actual hell is wrong is people

“4 days ain’t that bad” I can’t believe there’s people like that. I bet they would be crying and sobbing from just a couple minutes of what they went through.

@BobBob-vy9ds

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, a lot of the times when ever I think of someone going through a r@p3 then I forget and often times am in disbelief that it could really only last less than ten minutes sometimes, yet the person is still most likely scarred for life.

@Nekcrop

10 ай бұрын

if I spent 20 minutes in a car being kidnapped I would literally shit myself

@FancyCat-jw2qz

9 ай бұрын

@@NekcropIf I spent TWO SECONDS in a car being kiddnapped I’d pee and poop myself

@luna_elvenstar

3 ай бұрын

FR the SECOND i am in that car i have passed out from terror😭😭😭

Who ever told that brave woman, "4 days?? Thats not that bad!" Is a rotten and sick person.

@mcnugsbitch7266

3 жыл бұрын

I wouldn’t say that. I think they just don’t understand because they haven’t experienced anything like it

@Bilbosh4ggins

3 жыл бұрын

They’re probably 12 ur olds that think they can say anything bc “it’s just a word”

@bhavikakosambia3307

3 жыл бұрын

I'm a little scared tht they had to suffer much longer and thts why 4 days seems less?

@Bilbosh4ggins

3 жыл бұрын

bhavika Kosambia r u saying that bc of longer experiences 4 days seem less?

@TheseUseless

3 жыл бұрын

The majority of kidnapping victims will be dead, by then.

CHILDREN CANNOT AND WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO CONSENT TO ANY ADULT SEXUAL ACTIVITY.

@Shadow-vd7es

3 жыл бұрын

And that’s a fact

@anderson-skatervibe775

3 жыл бұрын

@@Shadow-vd7es nice

@theunicorn1167

3 жыл бұрын

Period.

@MrSlimeMan01

3 жыл бұрын

Fax

@monbub

3 жыл бұрын

Amen.

I know this video is old, but as a survivor of kidnap & rape by multiple people (including family members) I have to say I am incredibly proud of what the 2 women have done. My long, multi-year story isn’t public & never covered by the news, so I don’t know what it would be like to deal with the emotional trauma in a public way, but I do know how I dealt with it in a very private, hush-hush environment. My trauma wasn’t recognized, nor was there any justice served. I was shamed as a child if I mentioned anything about what I went through. In fact, in January of this year (2022) did I finally admit to someone what I went through. While I have openly talked about a few things, I’d hid the entire horror from my husband, kids & friends. I appreciate you supporting surviving champions who have been through living hell & came out with a an immeasurable about of strength, grace, empathy & resilience in order to help others understand how to do the same, no matter their story or own experience.

@icyhot9850

Жыл бұрын

I'm so proud of you for continuing on with your life and for continuing to do so. It's terrible you went through that, and I'm so sorry it all happened. But I'm glad you can open up about it now and heal further. Thank you for living, internet stranger :)

@blorblin

Жыл бұрын

You are so strong and I hope you can live your life freely from now on.

@jdot3345

Жыл бұрын

@@icyhot9850 Thank you friendly stranger! There are no words that can ever express how appreciative I am for the kindness, support! Thank you

@jdot3345

Жыл бұрын

@@blorblin Thank You so much! After finally opening up about what happened, I definitely noticed a more positive shift within myself & my relationships which is amazing!

@Diana3229

Жыл бұрын

Can’t imagine how incredibly difficult that must have been. I hope you are in a better environment and can continue to heal. Sending love your way ❣️

When i was 15 i met a girl online. We started talking and she said something along the lines of "we should meet up in person". I was seriously debating it but decided against it in the end. I don't know if this was a dangerous person or if this really was the girl like she said. If my parents didn't teach me about internet safety i'm pretty sure i would have gone. Knowledge is power.

@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans

Жыл бұрын

in 2020 i talked to this boy on playstation messages, (his voice sounded maybe 16) and we never really talked much and when locations were mentioned, he said his actual state but i said a general location (north/south/east/west) and i never even specified in what country either but then my father found out and i lost all devices up until the middle of 2021 that time alone was filled with the most crippling depression i’ve ever felt, but it was for the best, i guess

@goofyahh_9215

Жыл бұрын

My dad once told me even if the person IS who they say they are its not worth risking it because it could cost your life

@cooldog69

Жыл бұрын

W parents

@porfiriato84

11 ай бұрын

Dude I'm surprised I never got catfished or got in any danger after meeting so many girls thru dating apps. I don't do that anymore but yeah you just never know. So many creeps out there

why is no one talking about the fact that the kidnappers got like NO JAIL TIME

@K.Adler1120

3 жыл бұрын

It pisses me off too much to even think about it....

@urdaddy8801

3 жыл бұрын

It's becuase the cjs look out for their own. Why do you think rich people get like no jail time? They're also rich. Same with rapists.

@strawberrymilkshake9074

3 жыл бұрын

@@davidela9022 all child molester and rapist, once undeniable proof is given, should have an immediate bullet to the head! Natural selection. Then they can't ever hurt anyone again. And people will be deterred from doing it. People will continue to do this if they know they'll be out of prison in no time.

@Kelslshea

3 жыл бұрын

Strawberry Milkshake in my opinion, that’s the easy way out. I respect your opinion, but pedophiles get treated so poorly in prison (as they should) and I feel like it’s much better for them to have to go through the torture that they put on others.

@Kelslshea

3 жыл бұрын

david Ela I respect your opinion as well my dude(:

I can’t believe someone actually told Alicia that “oh four days isn’t that bad/long.” Trauma doesn’t have a shelf life.

@TestChannelOfcourse

3 жыл бұрын

Yes it does

@zenzonerzz4789

3 жыл бұрын

@@TestChannelOfcourse no, it really doesn't...

@missmadison9258

3 жыл бұрын

FamousBump Elaborate.

@zachbocchino5501

3 жыл бұрын

People who think that a minute is fast they clearly have not done a plank. Some people are idiots.

@mono8476

3 жыл бұрын

I mean, when u compare it to people who hv been kept it captivity for months or longer (like jaycee dugard), then yea. But in no way am i discrediting wat she went thru. Im just saying theres worse out there EDIT: btw im not referring to the trauma. Im referring to the sentence in commas

When I was 13, my best friends older brother, who was a decade older than me, attempted to convince me to sneak out and get in his car via AIM messenger. I almost did. At 13, I thought it was cool that someone older would want to ‘hang out’ with me. When I look back on it, it gives me goosebumps imagining what could’ve happened. I wish I had more knowledge about how to interact with people online. I can’t blame my parents because at that time, the internet was so new.

@certifiedgreg_rose

9 ай бұрын

Thank god you didn't get in that car.

@obzidian3746

6 ай бұрын

Or maybe he really wanted to hang out🤷‍♂️

@char6081

4 ай бұрын

@@obzidian3746shut up

@the1Goatee

2 ай бұрын

@@obzidian3746 💀

@EditorRosalind

2 ай бұрын

@@obzidian3746 😶😶😦😶

As a SA survivor, Every minute that things went on, was a minute too long. It’s absurd that someone would say that four days being KIDNAPPED, TORTURED, and ASSAULTED isn’t “that bad”. And it was live streamed? The hell. The ignorance of some people

If someone told me “Just 4 days?” I would have responded with “Well, how many days have you spent in a strangers basement getting tortured and sexually assaulted?”

@PusheenPoprocksIsTired

3 жыл бұрын

I know right??? Like, excuse me, have you gone through the situation? No, you haven't, so stop pretending like it's no big deal. People can be such idiots.

@MADEbySOUL

3 жыл бұрын

Say “rape” for some reason “sexual assault” makes people not take it seriously.

@meyu1468

3 жыл бұрын

Sirama This. I despise when people label something like forcing a peck on someone’s lips as sexual assault. Was it not good to do? Yes. But was it sexual assault? Absolutely fucking not. It gets downplayed so damn much that talking about rape even sounds like a joke. People literally use rape as a joke these days, like “don’t turn around or i’ll rape u”. I can’t take it, it’s so fucking insensitive.

@leamartin8392

3 жыл бұрын

Right? 4 days must seem like a lifetime, when you don’t know if you are going to live or die. Being terrified for every single second of that time must really mess with your head.

@brittanyboudreau3514

3 жыл бұрын

Seriously!? Could you imagine someone just torturing you for even an hour?

“Just four days? That’s not that bad!” This is the problem I have with today’s society. No amount of trauma is bad enough. We downplay and compare every incident.

@agaz2272

3 жыл бұрын

It is so retarded to measure drama with a certain amount of time. Jesus Christ. Agree 100%

@starfruit3575

3 жыл бұрын

AG AZ don’t say the r slur!! It’s ableist

@Iiterally

3 жыл бұрын

So freaking dismissive. “4 days??? That’s not bad.” If you were held captive in a dungeon, deprived of socialising and sunlight, and then r*p*d against your own will... 4 days will feel like 4 years.

@gachaeris9732

3 жыл бұрын

star_fruit Retarded isn’t a bad word so many people saw there a words that people say that are worse

@adrienagreste1762

3 жыл бұрын

I think 4 days is horrible even an hour could be horrible

this is the most terrifying video i've watched compared to the nutty putty cave incident. i don't EVER wanna trust strangers. i feel so bad for Alicia too, she got rap*d and tortured, it was terrifying to listen. i learned from this video, i'm never letting go of anyone i know and love.

@Jappa3

Жыл бұрын

Oh yeah I remember the nutty putty cave incident…

@bakon1210

Жыл бұрын

holy crap 101 likes?

@darkthu_draws

Жыл бұрын

@@Jappa3 the hell is that

@Jappa3

Жыл бұрын

@@darkthu_draws some dude got trapped in a cave upside down in this very narrow area, he was stuck for days until he eventually passed away. Dude was an experienced cave explorer whilst also being pretty flexible, which is the reason why very few people even managed to reach him

@darkthu_draws

Жыл бұрын

@@Jappa3 ye I just watched it I was curious, that thing is scary

I haven't been kidnapped, but I have been a victim of brutal abuse, sex trafficking, torture, neglect, and a list of other things. And what I gotta say for those who wanna victim blame and for those who want to minimize or degrade all of us who went through those traumas and traumas of all sorts, walk in our shoes for the amount of years, months, hours, even minutes of the trauma we've faced. People need to be aware of these things and need to be taught how to avoid being in these situations. These girls are heroes in my eyes. They deserve every inch of respect. They are trying to make a difference for this world by talking about what they went through and teaching kids and adults how they can avoid these experiences. These women are brave. They don't just speak for themselves, and they don't just speak for other survivors of kidnapping, but they speak for all of us who went through some serious trauma and are our voices. For that, I thank them very much.

Why would someone ever say "only four days" like that's fucking disusing .

@cloudedcreator

3 жыл бұрын

Right

@ktvvitch8323

3 жыл бұрын

I agree, she was terrified for her life... she knew the day she was rescued that she was going to die.... don’t down play the trauma she went through by saying “only _ amount of days”... the time period doesn’t matter, it was traumatizing and shouldn’t have happened..... PERIOD

@yea9677

3 жыл бұрын

It’s only four fays

@lily_Hef

3 жыл бұрын

@@yea9677 are you kidding me?! Four days is a long time. For you to even comment that is disgusting

@bbycheetahgirl

3 жыл бұрын

@@yea9677 you can't even spell right so you're clearly not educated

Once my therapist said to me. “Trauma might have been a few hours or even a few days, but for trauma survivors it is like a million years long. Your brain keeps repeating that event pretty much everyday and you keep reliving which makes it feel like that”

@yiting7456

3 жыл бұрын

🤯

@careygrubb6649

3 жыл бұрын

So true ❤️

@alaskankara

3 жыл бұрын

Trauma could also be a few seconds for all that matter. A car accident, an explosion... I've been through a very bad earthquake that damaged my house quite a lot 4 years ago: it lasted less than a minute but I still have ptsd from it

@starzforever7905

3 жыл бұрын

Camila Chávez That’s basically PTSD

@a_gurl596

3 жыл бұрын

Basically: ADHD

"I didn't know that I wasn't the only 'special one' that grandpa had." This shot chills down my spine...

@Dreamingforinfinity456

14 күн бұрын

Honestly But what exactly did he mean when he said “special one”

I’m honestly in constant fear of being kidnapped. I side-eye people suspiciously when my gut and intuition says to, I stay away from creeps, I watch true crime to defend myself, and then hearing voices who speak out about educate me. Hope these women are doing okay.

@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans

Жыл бұрын

my father has been teaching both me and my brother self defense at the gym i’m so grateful for him for that, i know not everyone has that

@elvenkind6072

19 күн бұрын

@@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans Great dad. I've been thinking of figuring out some way to make my son join a self-defense thing of some sort, because he's a fragile, very kind and good nature and have Asperger, but with low self confidence I think.. I've been training HEMA (Historical European Martial Arts), and can probably knock out almost anyone if I just have a stick or similar, it get built into muscle memory, and tried to bring him once, but he thought it was scary with the swords, and perhaps too rough for him. Do you have any advice of what made you interested in it?

Im sorry, LESS THAN A YEAR FOR REPETEDLY RAPING A CHILD?!?!?! I can't even fathom how that judgement could be just in any way.

@crystalwolcott4744

3 жыл бұрын

It's so messed up. I can't even press charges against the man who repeatedly sexually assaulted me as a child because, get this, the statute of limitations is 7 years in my state. Seven years after he stopped he still had complete control over me financially and since I was still a child I wasn't even fully aware that what he had done was wrong.

@supergabee

3 жыл бұрын

Crystal Wolcott I am so sorry that you had to go through that. I hope that you were able to get help to deal with that and that you are able to have an absolutely beautiful life from now own.

@keylimetea

3 жыл бұрын

Rape charges aren’t taken seriously enough and neither are pedo charges... like they should get the death sentence

@tibetanmonk385

3 жыл бұрын

Welcome to the American justice system

@youratowel97

3 жыл бұрын

Crystal Wolcott I’m so sorry that happened to you.. I hope you’re in a better place. ♥️

It doesn’t matter if you were kidnapped for an hour, a day, or a year. Being KIDNAPPED is terrifying and horrible.

@amethystt_

3 жыл бұрын

exactly.

@landonkuenzi8330

3 жыл бұрын

Yyyyeeeeeeeessssssss

@mattheo4709

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@reynakondaveeti8346

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly it’s a traumatic experience that I would imagine you won’t forget

@shutupidiot4006

3 жыл бұрын

Yea and the kidnappers should be torture just like they did to them

One thing about when you are kidnapped, yeah it may have only been hours, but it may have felt like days, and if has been at least 48-72+ hours, then it seems like the days merge, and the only things you can really think about is death, hope, and the how helpless you are. Its a sad, painful, traumatic experience.

@vecina_101

Жыл бұрын

Yup I agree and it’s true. When it happened to me all I could think about was if I would be killed and all I did was pray. Also yea even a couple hours can seem like years and years.

The fact that it was all live streamed is traumatizing yet it was her life savor.

“4 days? that’s not that’s bad!” most abducted children are murdered within 24 hours of being taken so like... 4 days is actually REALLY bad

@eclipseisbmyt666

3 жыл бұрын

It was like a slow murderer

@MN-ys2pe

3 жыл бұрын

Even worse most places don't take missing reports until its been after 24 hours since the person has gone missing. I'm not sure about this though I've just heard it somewhere

@eclipseisbmyt666

3 жыл бұрын

Hay Thi That is only a myth, however I believe that myth is starting to become a fact...

@BecBoops

3 жыл бұрын

@@MN-ys2pe this is not true for missing kids

@MN-ys2pe

3 жыл бұрын

@@eclipseisbmyt666 I hope it stays a myth and not become reality

As a kidnapping survivor myself. This video was so well done and well handled by Anthony and it felt so nice to watch this and feel less alone in such a scary world. Sometimes I watch back at this video again for the comfort. Thank you Anthony ❤️

I remember being groomed by lots of men when I was 12 (2009) it really is scary. Luckily I didn't meet anyone as they didn't show up and I went with my friend to the cinema so I wasn't alone and another time my mum read the messages and called the police to protect me but they definitely sent extremely explicit messages and showed explicit things on camera as well as asking me to. I feel lucky for never being captured physically but it's still traumatising and I can't imagine the fear these women felt, I'm so happy to see them thriving now.

It’s awful how they are letting her abuser out on her birthday, it’s totally ridiculous

@vertigowastaken9534

3 жыл бұрын

It’s ridiculous they let him out period.

@dcchaos6409

3 жыл бұрын

Seriously like what a greeeat birthday gift /s

@zassassin4950

3 жыл бұрын

LudoTheMeh exactly

@Dubstequtie

3 жыл бұрын

@gamingwith me here is not the time for stupid memes.

@sorriari

3 жыл бұрын

if i were making the decisions it would be therapy, mood stabilizers, fifty years of prison, and possibly a mental institution

For the “only four days” people, remember, a thousand days of evasion is better than one day of captivity. Trust me.

@edelleaa

3 жыл бұрын

to those people, i would like them to experience what she did just for 1 day since 4 isn't that bad, 1 must be easy for them...and see how not bad it'd going to be for the rest of their lives. obviously i don't really wish something like this to happen to anyone but comments like that are so incredibly ignorant i can't even believe it

@giornogiovanna4456

3 жыл бұрын

@@edelleaa agreed

@Aiden-fb5rh

3 жыл бұрын

Preach

@craftcorner3312

3 жыл бұрын

Wats evasion )sorry about the speling)

@faithlynn821

3 жыл бұрын

@@craftcorner3312 to evade something means to be free of it, to avoid it. in this context: evasion = freedom

I'm so inspired by Alicia and Jan for being strong enough to come out and speak about that in this video. Alicia is honestly working so hard to prevent others from experiencing what she did, because she went through it and no one deserves to go through what these brave women went through. Lots of love to anyone who went through such a thing, you don't deserve it and if you haven't overcome it yet (which is a huge step) then I hope you do.

When I first started going online, my mom sat me down and drew a diagram with just two circles, one smaller and inside the larger. She said “the smaller circle is the people you can tell everything to, inside the bigger circle is things you tell some people but not others, and outside the circle is people you can’t share anything with.” Then she had me go through and put a dot for where family fell on that scale, friends, and online friends. When I was done she explained the dangers of meeting people online and made sure I was aware that I can’t tell people online anything that could lead them to me. I think that every parent needs to have this conversation with their kid

He’s going to be released on her birthday. That is horrible.

@a.l5320

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah ikr

@drista6648

3 жыл бұрын

these people don't deserve to be free they deserve nothing they deserve to be hated by everyone fear for their life i don't care if this is dark they deserve nothing. nothing

@arianan2601

3 жыл бұрын

The fact that he’s gonna be released at all is horrible..

@brady9618

3 жыл бұрын

The fact that people like this exist

@Shreksleftnutsack

3 жыл бұрын

@@drista6648 for a second I thought you were talking about the kidnap survivors

19 DAYS FOR KIDNAPPING A CHILD FOR 4 YEARS? WHAT THE HELL-

@samb2814

3 жыл бұрын

ikr

@savageskittlez4896

3 жыл бұрын

They should get 50 to life

@milknotes9918

3 жыл бұрын

WHAT THE HELL

@akiramireina1244

3 жыл бұрын

IKR TF

@Its-kien

3 жыл бұрын

like i don't understand why people just wanna make people lives worst and just kidnapped them like ugh-

Kidnapping is one of my biggest fears and it breaks my heart to see how much they suffered, I wasn’t “kidnapped“ but I was often trapped in a room with my abu$!ve boyfriend for many months every day. It makes me feel better that there are other people out there who have experienced it too. But I hate when people say “you have to forgive and forget“, So, I have to just ignore his touch every time I ever shower, or his glares whenever he sees me?! I hate these people. And “just four days?“ Just. Four. Days. Of. FVCKING. HELL!

Giant respect to the victims that can tell about the experiences.

I hate that people actually say stuff like “It was only 4 days”. It doesn’t matter if it was a few minutes, a few hours, or a few days, it’s still a very scary and certainly traumatic experience. A lot can happen in a few minutes and she was there for 4 days! These ladies are so strong, I can’t imagine how scary it must have been to be abducted and feel that sense of hopelessness and not knowing what’s going to happen next.

@anshsrivastava3293

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah. Death can happen in a few seconds

@sumacberry

3 жыл бұрын

Who tf even says that- "only" 4 days- this one of the major reasons why people are afraid of opening up.

@minikawaiiworld3429

3 жыл бұрын

So true...i feel when ppl are ignorant they need a taste or wakeup call. Though I don't wish that on anyone.

@thatgirl4652

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr they annoy me so much. The worst part about judging someone is that you can never know what they went through. You always tend to imagine in the negative way.

@yopawpaw7408

3 жыл бұрын

4 days..... do people not know how quick death is? It only takes a moment for people to decide to end your life even when its not your fault.

the fact these people are allowed out of prison makes me beyond angry and disgusted.

@julianpratt526

3 жыл бұрын

Hi

@rocki7426

3 жыл бұрын

what's even worse is that a lot of rapists don't even get a day behind prison bars

@thefuryofthedragon8715

3 жыл бұрын

@@rocki7426 In Saudi Arabia, rapists are beheaded then their heads are thrown down to the crowd and they are hanged

@cricketjuice

3 жыл бұрын

TheFuryOfTheDragon we should normalize that

@julianpratt526

3 жыл бұрын

@@cricketjuice i love your pfp

Hearing this is so disturbing. I hate the feeling, and I can’t see these things too often. Alicia and Jan are so strong.

It is so traumatising to think there is at least, AT LEAST 70,000 CHILDREN are missing as we speak💔 They will be in my prayers

I've noticed that a lot of other interviewers and documentaries refer to kidnapping survivors as "victims" whereas Anthony refers to them as "Survivors" Mad respect for you, man

@willo4719

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I noticed that too

@joanna4655

3 жыл бұрын

This. So much of this. All of this. Calling someone a victim is so awful. No. We survived this. We are survivors, damnit. 💙

@minicloud450

3 жыл бұрын

They are Warriors amazing! ❤️

@dinopines9191

3 жыл бұрын

Survivors are some of the bravest people I know. They are survivors. ♥️

the fact the man is going to be released on the girl's BIRTHDAY is horrible. You'll never look at your birthday the same.

@tigerplays-roblox4405

3 жыл бұрын

😡

@bluemood6125

3 жыл бұрын

THE JUSTICE SYSTEM IS S*$& (I don’t usually swear but this is a serious topic)

@PassionPno

3 жыл бұрын

He's back in jail.

@lilscenechick1995

3 жыл бұрын

Filth like that should be purged from society. Call me an edgelord. They just re-offend. Nobody worth "rehabilitating" would ever do that to another human being.

@jinkieez

2 жыл бұрын

@@lilscenechick1995 exactly. sadists like him don't deserve a life, they are only a danger to others

alicias story reminds me of the toy box killer, poor girls, they mustve been going through a lot after these experiences. Being kidnapped is my worst fear ever! My heart goes out to these strong brave survivors.

"it was just 4 days" 4 days and a lifetime of trauma.

For reference to people who say “4 days isn’t that bad”: Sexual assault can happen in seconds, and that can be a life altering event. Imagine how much assault can happen in in 4 days, even one.

@LeneChibi

3 жыл бұрын

My trauma happened in 10 minutes. I can't even imagine what it's like to endure even 4 days of torture. My heart is broken, I want to protect all of them :(

@decaf-but-tired6488

3 жыл бұрын

LeneChibi I’m so sorry that happened to you!

@iamkitty1192

3 жыл бұрын

Ray Of Fucking Sunshine oh my gosh that’s horrible

@DesertThorns

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly, it only takes one moment to ruin a lifetime.

@someasiankid6323

3 жыл бұрын

@@LeneChibi F

They actually made a Netflix documentary about Jan’s story called “Abducted in Plain Sight”. It explores her case much deeper and is honestly so sickening. I cannot imagine the trauma she must still live with...

@hollymaha4937

3 жыл бұрын

I thought I recognised her story. wasn't there a whole thing about her kidnapper also romantically and sexually manipulating her parents so they allowed him to abuse her more.

@s0lastsummer7

3 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry I gotta be that girl! I have it pulled up on my screen rn, and it's "Abducted in Plain Sight" although I guess perhaps it translates differently in other languages? Regardless, if you start searching Jan Broberg, it'll come up in the results so you can find it that way. 😊

@reysay6974

3 жыл бұрын

s0lastsummer7 Oops sorry it is actually “Abducted in plain sight”. Thanks for the correction💖

@reysay6974

3 жыл бұрын

TheBananaCat Absolutely agree! I’m sure she has forgiven her parents for everything and in the end it definitely is the perpetrator’s fault. But I cannot get over the fact that her parents were so passive in the whole situation, due to their own emotional dilemmas, that they failed to protect their own daughter from that sicko. They even allowed him to share a bed with her!

@musio3438

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I saw that

Here's a tip: if your a teen and you want to meet an online friend irl, have an adult and/or a group of your friends go with you. If they don't have ill intent then you can introduce them to some people in your life, no harm no fowl, and if they do have ill intent their likely to not do anything if you're not alone.

@chrisgomez1840

2 ай бұрын

another tip:be careful wat info u give to strangers online they can use dat against u

You know, this is the second video I watch from this channel (the first one was about the morticians). At first I thought that it would be anoying because Antony seemed to me like someone who would try to make fun of the situation just to keep it "chill". I have been surprised with how sensible and gentle the conversations have been handled so far. Loving it!

In my opinion even one day is terrible and awful..

@ivonnecaradenacho3726

3 жыл бұрын

heck Hours and Minutes are awful

@derpoverload

3 жыл бұрын

When she said she was tortured for four days I was shocked and horrified. Every second must feel like forever.

@kivella

3 жыл бұрын

Even milliseconds and nanoseconds...

@bluemood6125

3 жыл бұрын

derpoverload yea and people have the ordasedy(sos I’m bad at English) to say OnLy FoUr DaYs

@lukagikic9077

3 жыл бұрын

In my opinion, even a few seconds is atrocious

Pedophilia will never 👏🏾 be 👏🏾 a 👏🏾 sexuality 👏🏾.

@d5madeit

3 жыл бұрын

its sad asf this world is literally legalizing it and making it normal

@alexisstormy

3 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏

@elisabethjones9576

3 жыл бұрын

PERIOD

@JC-cn9yj

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes on rare scenarios people don’t act on being sexually attracted to kids but like so rare it should not be legal period

@PastelFire99

3 жыл бұрын

Children cannot consent. That isn’t an opinion, it is a FACT.

Im so grateful that these girls are safe and got saved and god blessed them!!😊

I love Anthony Padilla's way of interviewing. His videos are always fun and interesting and never biased. Thanks for creating such wonderful content!

That one girl, not only was she kidnapped, but tortured. I can imagine how much that destroyed her. Mentally and physically. Thank god for that man who recognized her. Who tf would respond with “ONLY 4 DAYS?!” someone was tortured and almost killed. And THAT is your response?!

@anonymousmoose193

3 жыл бұрын

StrawberryCowCharlotte wait who said “only four days”

@Arasie_Saros

3 жыл бұрын

@@anonymousmoose193 some random person said that to her. Idk how someone can be okay with saying that.

@mogbama

3 жыл бұрын

they forget she was literally 13

@atarice8897

3 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY

@haleybutler5796

3 жыл бұрын

Who tf is that dubm like omfg it was probably the worst four days of her life like i cant imagine how hard that was i feel so bad omg

"He's going to be released next year on my birthday" I can't imagine the anger and the pain she must feel toward the system. I have no words, this is disgusting.

@nopenopeson2370

3 жыл бұрын

I literally tore up. The system is fucked man

@cecefernandes5657

3 жыл бұрын

Even I'm so angry and upset over it so I can't even begin to imagine how she could be feeling towards it. It's deeper in than heartbreak and terror....💔

@ThatCuriousArtist

3 жыл бұрын

The death penalty has a place.

@carltonbanks2351

3 жыл бұрын

@@ThatCuriousArtist I'm normally against but I'm not even going to argue on that, some people just deserve hell.

@cloudyisaliveandhere

3 жыл бұрын

God...and on your birthday? Not a good gift at all...

This video made me almost cry 🥺 their so strong, for sharing their story and living a lovely life, despite what they have gone though. It reminds me that no matter what happens to you in life you can be strong and move through it.

These two are so brave and inspirational...I cant even fathom how traumatic these experiences must have been

Stupid people: ONly fOUr dAYs Could be just me but I’m pretty sure any amount of time spent being tortured in a basement is too much time spent being tortured in a basement.

@rocki7426

3 жыл бұрын

bruhh imagine having to go to sleep 3 times in a row inside a torture basement, not even knowing if you'll wake up 😭

@soapmeister7713

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@jayden7736

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly I couldn't even imagine an hour of torture. Torture is torture either way and people who think "4 days" isn't bad should learn that so much can happen so easily in such little time

@allisonhogarth2983

3 жыл бұрын

XRYING 5 minutes of torture would break me forever. one minute.

@s0apy-_-bubbl3s

3 жыл бұрын

10 minutes or 10 hours. it’s still torture

It's amazing how 19 days can seem like nothing to a criminal but 4 days can seem like a lifetime for a victim

@hahaoml2812

2 жыл бұрын

I was just thinking this

@lilyyyy7306

2 жыл бұрын

i was was kidnapped by my biological father when i was five, only for 24 hours. but, it felt like days

@hilol2220

2 жыл бұрын

@@lilyyyy7306 i’m so sorry about that. i hope you’re doing okay.

@lilyyyy7306

2 жыл бұрын

@@hilol2220 i am doing better! thank you for asking!

@hilol2220

2 жыл бұрын

@@lilyyyy7306 that’s good! i’m glad to hear :)

If I was kidnapped, I don't think I could think straight or even bring myself together enough to try and get out of a kidnapping situation. These people are amazing ❤

It’s so incredible to watch these types of videos and see the kidnapping survivors point of view and see how they escaped and what happened to them!

“4 days?! That’s not that bad!” 4 days of torment = a lifetime of painful memories for her.

@itsfrance6500

3 жыл бұрын

Also u don't know it won't be 4 days ur not counting, it seems much longer

@heyimhere7048

2 жыл бұрын

@@itsfrance6500 and u wont even know how long it will last Its useless to say, “u will be free in four days” or something

@jclyntoledo

2 жыл бұрын

People are mean, it takes effort to actually care and put yourself in the other person's shoe's that's why most can sympathize at best but not empathize.

@Why-jl7sy

2 жыл бұрын

Amen sis

@sobosoup

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly I live a perfectly normal life and it feels like an eternity to me. Imagine for someone who, A: doesn’t know how long they’re gonna be there. B: getting beaten and r*ped all the time. And C: You probably think you’re gonna die so you don’t even try to keep up to date.

19 days. 19 DAYS?! WHAT THE ACTUAL HELL IS WRONG WITH OUR JUSTICE SYSTEM?!

@cassidy7285

3 жыл бұрын

ikr she got more of a punishment than he did

@vanilleistee4763

3 жыл бұрын

If you payed the wrong taxes on accident you get five years by comparison

@dayis7721

3 жыл бұрын

we don't have a justice system. we have a legal system. it sucks.

@laserdonkey6469

3 жыл бұрын

Everything

@kukguroki4179

3 жыл бұрын

Its america obv it’s horrible. Only china cares about rape

I was groomed online by child predators for four years. They brainwashed me into thinking that they loved me when I was just an object to them. And I felt like I had no way out. I finally got the courage to stop engaging in it, and I was lucky enough to not be in a position where I was forced to continue. Stay safe on the internet.

This is just so mind blowing to think about. I just cannot imagine. I am constantly trying to teach my kids to be alert and safe as possible but u never know it could be anyone. These women are amazing!!!!

“iT wAs OnLy FoUr DaYs” yeah four straight days of torture. That’s nothing! Only 96 hours of T O R T U R E. why would anyone say that that’s so stupid

@annaairahala9462

3 жыл бұрын

Imagine saying to a rape survivor "Oh it was only 15 minutes, it wasn't that bad" She was gone for 4 days, FOUR DAYS, that's not a short amount of time nor does it make it any lesser.

@Claudiris

3 жыл бұрын

@@seanraftree5905 You're misunderstanding the comment. @LucidDreams said how the people who say "it was only four days" are horrible human beings, and that they don't agree with the statement.

@pooew

3 жыл бұрын

He might of sexually abused her, and he definitely could of killed her. That four days probably felt like a month..

@MaxStoryTeller92

3 жыл бұрын

Because of the fact that people LOVES to remind you that, somewhere else, there's people suffering more than you.

@voorhees7275

3 жыл бұрын

As a CHILD

4 days. 4 straight days. That is a LONG ass time. 4 days is 96 hours. 96 hours is 5760 minutes. 5760 minutes without love, a family, pain. And she was a *child* I'm sure every minute felt like an hour. Every second passing by, and it feels like you're never going to go home. And to ever blame these people for what they had to go through is disgusting. These woman are strong, and empowering, and brilliant. Never downplay a persons suffering, ever.

@zootednoodle2639

3 жыл бұрын

this comment deserves more likes.

@s0lastsummer7

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly, EXACTLY. She had no idea she was going to be saved. She thought she had more time before her own murder, but she thought that time was going to be spent being tormented and raped indefinitely. The strength and courage that young girl showed.... to fight strategically for more time, knowing that time would be the worst time of her life.... wow. Powerful.

@Ax00xL

3 жыл бұрын

I remember watching an interview with a guy who was kidnapped for "only" 40 hours here on youtube and I remember seeing some salty comment about how that's not even 2 full days and the guy's a pussy, because I guess man aren't supposed to get hurt by this? Seriously, the length of it or their gender shouldn't invalidate anyone's trauma.

@dskshs

3 жыл бұрын

also, she didn’t know how long she would be there and that just is worse

@katharine8006

3 жыл бұрын

@@Ax00xL I agree. A lot of times, men have their emotions invalidated because of their gender. I feel like it's way too often that men who are sexual assault survivors or just assault survivors in general feel like they aren't allowed to be upset about it because "men are supposed to be strong" or even worse "emotions are for women!"

I am so proud of these women for sharing their stories. What a traumatic experience they had to go through. Even an hour being kidnapped could feel like a day. It must be hard for sharing what happened, and I hope these men who had kidnapped you both stay in jail for life and starve. All kidnappers should just go crawl into a hole and stay there forever. Proud of you both for surviving such a horrible time and getting out. So sorry this happened to you both at such young ages, however it is in the past now and I hope kidnapping never happens ❤️ Focus on the future now, live your best life, and try not focus on those traumatic memories that may flash back. Support and love to you guys and again, so proud of you ❤️

man this hit kinda close to home, I was never kidnapped but I was sexually harassed by my guy friend and he's going after my sister now, I literally bust into tears.. I can't imagine how those two felt.. I'm so glad their safe now

@AyaDassai

Жыл бұрын

Please tell someone ❤️❤️ Keep your sister safe

To all the toxic people who say “only four days” it was four days of hell.

@julietphilips2329

3 жыл бұрын

who is even saying four days

@julietphilips2329

3 жыл бұрын

who is even saying four days

@d3adyoutubeaccount

3 жыл бұрын

tiffany philips Watch the video first Moron

@aang3267

3 жыл бұрын

The people saying those things deserve 4 days in hell

@elizabethbooknerd5429

3 жыл бұрын

4 days too long

So many people downplay and blame these women because they don't want to think that something like this could happen to them. We need to stop victim blaming and downplaying the impact of abuse.

@jemadamson2715

3 жыл бұрын

I got that a lot in comments from when i was on a tv show talking about abuse from a guy. I to this day never knew how to respond to those comments until now. People at work found the episode and i heard comments like that from them as well. It was even harder in person lol but now i know what to say! Im extremely grateful for this video.

@coolworms7297

3 жыл бұрын

exactly!

@elishaso

3 жыл бұрын

Victim blaming and gaslighting is so toxic

@Theconfusedace

3 жыл бұрын

People sometimes get on my nerves

@atarice8897

3 жыл бұрын

@@Theconfusedace mhm

She is very right about it happening a lot within homes and people avoiding talking about it is very true, thanks for telling us your stories ladies, very strong 🥰

torture can make even an hour feel like an eternity, just imagine yourself being tortured for an hour, I cant imagine how she felt during those 4 days.

“Do not question yourself. Do not judge yourself. Take your time with yourself. You’ve fallen down before and you got back up. That strength is still in you” Such powerful words to live by. This narrative applies to everyone, abduction survivors or not. (P.S. for anyone who doesn’t know Alicia said this in the video)

@qt4906

3 жыл бұрын

Well said!👍

@aliza1973

3 жыл бұрын

true thatttttt ....🥰

@Official.Youtube

3 жыл бұрын

I never expected a dog to say such things

@auggieb618

3 жыл бұрын

Avinash Jain I myself am not a dog, but my profile picture is of my dog, though. :-)

@auggieb618

3 жыл бұрын

Judah Hernandez I was clarifying and trying to make the point that this comment/topic shouldn’t be joked about.

it especially is horrible when you trust someone and then they kidnap you

@shadowmoon5775

3 жыл бұрын

Sleep over

@t-bone8976

3 жыл бұрын

Shadow Moon Bruh..... just nah fam. 😐.....

@knedy7646

3 жыл бұрын

Yes😟

@thepeopleperson360rblx3

3 жыл бұрын

Y’a Imagine if was someone that you trust the most terrifying i swear

@linad7271

3 жыл бұрын

@@shadowmoon5775 omg being kidnapped at a sleep over is my worst nightmare

Thank you very much for sharing this video!!! I hope everyone will pay attention, especially those who have children.

It requieres a lot of courage to talk about things like these in such detail and stay put. I really respect and admire these two brave women for this and for finding the strength to survive and live. ❤️💙

Love how Anthony respects everyone who is on his show no matter their situation or wellbeing

@xxnoisysisterxx1361

3 жыл бұрын

yess

@cosmixdust

3 жыл бұрын

yess

@captaindystopia

3 жыл бұрын

everyone should do that.

@emielbouckaert1520

3 жыл бұрын

Yess

@volcanoacid1

3 жыл бұрын

Call it opposite of keemstar

“Only four days, that isn’t that bad” it is not okay to minimize or compare trauma. All trauma is horrible and all trauma survivors are immensely strong.

@hi-rz6oo

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this comment -from someone whom experienced trauma

@leeeverett7388

3 жыл бұрын

Yes but 4 days is better than multiple years or never getting found, she wasn’t even gone for half a week, every second feels like forever I get that, I also get that she went through extreme torture and 4 days seems like a lot, but again it’s better than getting tortured for years

@dani-uy7gl

3 жыл бұрын

Lee Everett its not a competition how about we feel greatful she didnt go thru that even more😺

@julianajuju4917

3 жыл бұрын

@@leeeverett7388 I don't intend on changing your mind, but in my opinion, it is still severe. This topic is so graphic that a person that hasn't been traumatized before in that degree wouldn't understand. Either 4 days or 4 years of a traumatic event so personal, violating, and dehumanizing, you would never forget it.

@lilyodonoghue163

3 жыл бұрын

Lee Everett ni Mac m s

Having these conversations with children is so so so important!

when i first heard jan's story on stephanie's channel, i felt so terrified and sad and hurt imagining a child going through such thing specially her case was the 'complicated' kind because it's a family friend. i was crying so much at the first encounter of her story. it could have happened to anyone specially with the type of situation she was in. i always go back rewatching this to hear jan tell the story herself. she was so vulnerable at that moment and i would have been so scared as a kid if i was the one in her position. she was so brave for everything she did and no one deserved what she had gone through. jan, you are such an inspiration to young women and female kids. 💛

Could you do a day with sex trafficking victims? I was sold into sex slavery when I was very little. I'm out now but there's so much misinformation and a lot of us are brushed off and ignored. Not getting the proper help we need after escaping.

@whoa8363

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing. We empathize with you, and appreciate your voice. It would be lovely if you could clear up any misinformation to better educate us

@aqilahsdead

3 жыл бұрын

whoa Letting you know that you’re probably one of the strongest human being ever. Its so fucked that you and other people have to go through that. I hope you have a blessed day x

@vicks99vl

3 жыл бұрын

I hope you're better now and I'm so sorry you had to endure that, you didn't deserve that

@wiam510

3 жыл бұрын

I wish u r doing okay now please take care of yourself

@ziadirayene9879

3 жыл бұрын

Im sorry that happened to you, and i hope you're doing better now ♥

Just being raped is bad. So being held captive, tortured and raped for “only four days” would be terrifying and if you don’t think so than I’d love to see you live through it.

@clairejohanson515

3 жыл бұрын

I agree. Imagine how long 4 days of school testing feels like. Or being grounded for four days. Add being kidnapped, raped, and tortured on top of that. It makes me sick to think that people actually say that to others. Even 5 minutes would be enough to be killed, she survived FOUR DAYS. Back off.

@alyssahill1275

3 жыл бұрын

I understand it's sad that people wouldn't think it's "that bad," but I wouldn't wish that on anyone. So instead of saying "I'd love to see you live through it" maybe it'd be more appropriate to hope that person would think more about what they said and understand the circumstances. Not a good thing to say, but I doubt they understood the full story.

@user-rf2cg4cx5i

3 жыл бұрын

@Nathan D. Larson how is your comment relevant?

@theonionsystem7779

3 жыл бұрын

@Nathan D. Larson wtf are you going on about?

@DoctorSib

3 жыл бұрын

@Nathan D. Larson Sorry, are you defending pedophilia?

I'm so proud for them for being so brave for sharing their story being kidnaped is hard to share on the internet I can't imagine the stuff they have been through it must have been so hard for them they were so young when it happened.

One thing I've always remembered is to be comfortable with being uncomfortable. For there to be change, you have to get used to being in situations or being a part of conversations that are hard to swallow.

Imagine saying: “that’s not that bad” to someone that has been raped, beaten and kidnapped for four days I-

@savannahssuffering

3 жыл бұрын

Anonymous bruh are you making this a gender competition, keep that on tiktok my dude

@ihjtmq

3 жыл бұрын

@Anonymous Well yeah obviously, but the VAST majority are men. Plus starting a sentence with "I felt really sorry for these women *but* " doesn't look too favorable for you

@Chrismosis

3 жыл бұрын

@MB i have seen cases of women commiting equal or worse crimes, i am not saying that there aren't horrible men out there that commit terrible acts against women. but there are just as many women commiting terrible act to men and the truth is that the justice system is far less fair to men than it is to women, women often get lesser sentences for the same crimes, and the system has a nasty habit of siding with women no matter the circumstances, with questions like "what did he do to make her mad?" the male version of "what was she wearing?" once again i am not trying to make light of what happened to either of the women in this video or anyone else for that matter, just saying that horrible things happen to both sexes and are commited by both sexes.

@crazygal9957

3 жыл бұрын

@@savannahssuffering we get that this happens to men too, but you're dismissing what happened to her making you apart of the problem

@mickey5712

3 жыл бұрын

*_KIDNAPPED IS KIDNAPPED MK_* (sorry I'm just saying that kidnapped is just kidnapped it doesn't matter how many days or the gender or age oof this might look like I'm saying it's good to kidnap but it's just the opposite of that qnq)

I wish schools taught THIS. That rape is a horrible thing, that no man or women should have to ever be afraid to walk down a street. In Health we had ONE paper that mentioned rape and it wasn't even factual saying things like "women get raped because their clothes provoked the man". We need to stop teaching "boys will be boys" or "it's okay because it's a girl" rape or molestation is never acceptable. Schools and parents should build stronger generations that don't tolerate rape and know how to defend themselves.

@waterwolf982

3 жыл бұрын

My school teaches us this, and human trafficking, substance abuse topics, and more important subjects

@a.l5320

3 жыл бұрын

Water Wolf we need more schools like yours!

@waterwolf982

3 жыл бұрын

Katherine Alberca I agree 100%

@teatalkfam5427

3 жыл бұрын

The whole "women get raped because..." Is so wrong. Most of the time women that are raped aren't even wearing revealing or sexual clothing or anything of the sort.

@nadiar.4638

3 жыл бұрын

@DudeImJasmine no its some sick perversion people have or some sick way to feel like they are in control. And the people who are supposed to protect everyone (police and justice systems) are not doing much to stop it. So ofcourse if you can get away with it, it must not be very bad behaviour and those people will just continue to do the same thing

The survivors are so brave to say something it makes me sad that this happened to them.

I was 9 when a middle aged man approached me in a coach parking lot in KL asking me to help him with luggage. My gut told me to find my mom. It’s unbelievable how my life could’ve ended at the age of 9

Wow. The way Anthony speaks to people is so respectful and empathetic. He is so good at what he does

@rhiannon2028

3 жыл бұрын

He asks what we all want to know but in a respectful way that leaves them feeling comfortable!

@-AnnaDeWitt-

3 жыл бұрын

It could be because of the anxiety. I believe my anxiety is partly the reason I am so empathic. Regardless of the reason, Anthony seems like an amazingly kind person❤️

@hanaeve__

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed 100%!

@ars0on

3 жыл бұрын

Better than Shane Dawson

@chloejenkins7922

3 жыл бұрын

I got the same last name than you

The fact that these men got little to no sentence for their horrid crimes is so infuriating.

@emilyy9008

3 жыл бұрын

exactly, murders tend to get at least 50-60 years, but these abductors didn’t?!? they were planning on killing the victim, imagine if the girl was found a few hours later she could have been killed. they deserve so much more jail time.

@WicusIsntOkay

3 жыл бұрын

I wish I could get justice, but it's impossible. I'd have no proof. It's been years.

@emilyy9008

3 жыл бұрын

Jamie Robb-Morrison that’s terrible, really shows how great our justice system is

@ailemi

3 жыл бұрын

sometimes even the female abusers get no time

@MzMinnie789

3 жыл бұрын

It’s so difficult to arrest them as well because in cases of child abuse the child usually doesn’t come forward until they’re an adult. Then where’s the proof? Also kidnapping/ sexual abuse happens behind closed doors between two people. The criminal system is unjust and doesn’t protect survivors!

I watched a documentary about Jan's case. That man spent years manipulating, blackmailing, and brainwashing the entire family, including Jan's parents, all to get to and have access to Jan. It was sick. She's so brave. The mental recalibration you would have to do to recover... I can't fathom the strength.

These woman are so strong I’m so glad they survived to teach us the importance of being safe on the internet they deserve so much

“oNlY fOuR dAyS, tHatS nOt bAd” imagine going through ur worst fear for 4 days and then just dying, like drowning. Imagine drowning for 4 days just suffering then dying after all that pain.

@mredder1518

3 жыл бұрын

She wasn't drowning tho

@darlinqdolls5248

3 жыл бұрын

IMAHACKER it was a example.

@RandomDogWithRizz1015

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@jules5841

3 жыл бұрын

in my opinion it's much worse because they survived. I can't imagine living with that sort of trauma. it almost makes it seem like dying would be the "easy" way out.

@miniaturemushroom4825

3 жыл бұрын

Jason Green it’s a example

being kidnapped even for an HOUR would be so terrifying.

@kayquesada47

3 жыл бұрын

alizasucks for 5 mins even. These horrible people. Thank goodness these people r alive today to tell their tale, since not a lot of people have survived💔

@editswyaofficial531

3 жыл бұрын

just a second would be traumatizing

@luzi8044

3 жыл бұрын

@@c4tm0chi45 kid

@ven.9531

3 жыл бұрын

@@c4tm0chi45 ehh ur mom is just crazy not a witch

@ven.9531

3 жыл бұрын

@@c4tm0chi45 can I make a anime about this

i watched a documentary some time ago about jan's case, and she did not nearly completely the full story here. a horrendous case from start to finish. my deepest sympathies to both of these women, and i hope the both of them have been able to recover from their traumas

i remember watching a documentary on jan's story a while ago and it will ALWAYS stick with me. honestly all of these stories will.