I RELAXED MY NATURAL HAIR AFTER 13 YEARS!😱
Hey girl, welcome to my channel.
So yea I did the thing. I relaxed my hair after 13years cuz I couldn’t keep up with my morning sickness and detangling and styling every day. I braid hair for a living, after being on my feet long hours my hair is the last thing on my mind. Once I found out I was pregnant, I had 2 options. Cut it (bald) or relax it. And I’m so glad I did, because it’s just easier to style for now until I can get past this first trimester and can put more effort into my appearance. I just don’t wanna look the way I feel right now 😂
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Yesterday, I relaxed my natural hair after being natural for ten years. I watched your video along with a few other videos of ladies who relaxed their hair after years of being natural. I felt like I could relate to you more, as you were natural for 13 years. Since I got home from the salon yesterday, I've felt so sad. So depressed. I'm so disappointed in myself. I woke up crying with somewhat of an identity crisis. I regret relaxing my natural hair. I want to loc my hair next year and thought I'd want to relax here one last time before I get locs, and I am also in a season of life where I am pretty busy and don't want to take all the time to care for my natural hair like I used to when I was younger. I miss my natural hair. I regret relaxing. It's not 24 hours yet, so maybe after a few days I'll be okay emotionally. Sigh. Life is truly a journey.
@cocoamonroe6312
3 ай бұрын
🤗 ❤
I’ve been natural since 2013 and I’m completely over it. I was just following a hair trend to be honest 😂. Imma texlax my hair my bday month.
@ShesWilling
Жыл бұрын
Ayyye! Do it girl even if you don’t stay relaxed a break from natural is not a crime
@momonie4
Жыл бұрын
It's NOT a PERM it's a PERMANENT RELAXER...PERMS R 4 PEOPLE WITH CAUCUS HAIR!!!!
@eveali3177
Жыл бұрын
And now you’ll follow another trends u
@NoName-sp5dp
Жыл бұрын
@@eveali3177 definitely not a trend
@Cravenn5
Жыл бұрын
@@NoName-sp5dplol right definitely not a trend❣️
Beautiful 🌺. I'm happy that you are happy 😊
I love long, natural hair on women with African hair types, but it does seem like it takes a lot of time & effort, if you want to keep the curls defined. When I was pregnant with my second son (26 years ago) I cut my hair short and dyed it for the first time - so sick with morning sickness - it was the right decision then. Now, I’ve got the time and will to grow out and take care of my gray hair. There is a time & season for everything. Your hair turned out really shiny & beautiful. Happy pregnancy & baby. 💞🙌🏾🥰👶🏾
@ShesWilling
Жыл бұрын
Yea morning sickness will ruin all plans lol but thank you
I relaxed my hair yesterday and i am loving it
Sis your hair is sooooo beautiful 😭🔥🔥🔥
you did such a good job! most people on youtube apply the relaxer from the roots for some reason and it almost never processes and makes their hair have a bunch of different textures
I relaxed mine yesterday for the first time in 6 years and I'm currently silk pressing it and I have absolutely no regrets. ❤
Looks so good!!
Looks beautiful and looks good on you I relax after 2 years just wanted a change and I love it
@ShesWilling
Жыл бұрын
Thank you and yes definitely needed a change I don’t regret it
GIRL! I LOVE I❤ GOOD JOB!!
@ShesWilling
Жыл бұрын
Thank youuu☺️
It came out beautiful I just relaxed my hair I am 5 days post relaxer .I love it
Perfectly done. Great job
@ShesWilling
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🤍
Wow, your video came up on my timeline today as I've been trying to figure out what to do with my hair. I'm tired of the natural hair. It's too much work. You are so brave to transition back to a perm. Your hair turned out really nice too. 😍
@ShesWilling
Жыл бұрын
Girl yes don’t be ashamed to say you tired of being natural. Do what’s best for you in this season.
@jackiegill
11 ай бұрын
Omg me too! I've been natural for a couple of years and I'm just struggling... decided to go back to relaxer and after seeing these comments I'm sure I made the right decision for me. This video was awesome and just what I needed to see! Great job! ❤😊🫶🏿✨️✌🏿
It came out beautiful the style really suits you❤️
@ShesWilling
Жыл бұрын
Thank you ☺️
You Are Absolutely Beautiful Either Way Queen!🤗😊🙏❤️🌹🌞🌈
@ShesWilling
Жыл бұрын
Thank youuu☺️
Welcome back sis!!!!! Because, Natural I could NEVA!!!!
If I spent 13 years natural and my hair wasn’t at least past my shoulders I’d give up on life
I'm gonna buy a flat iron and attempt to straighten my hair before deciding on a relaxer. I never straightened my hair natural so I want to give it a go.
I remember a few years ago when we all had that guilt to be natural to prove self love to people. Yeah whateva. My hair is hella work and no one is trying to help me with it. Do what makes life easier for you
Did you also trim on relax day?
How did you dry it ?
New subbie 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽 absolutely gorgeous
@ShesWilling
Жыл бұрын
Awww thanks for subscribing 🤍🤍
Hello ! what relaxer did you use and where did you purchase it?
@ShesWilling
Жыл бұрын
Hi I used motions and just my local beauty supply store
Suits you
@ShesWilling
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
Looks like lots silk presses
So yall done got educated on what relaxers do but yall still returning back to it oh OK o ok
@ranandiebraut7425
Жыл бұрын
If you have straight hair and dye it it's the same. We all use chemistry on our heads.
@DeeDeeKarol
Жыл бұрын
They hate themselves 🤷🏽♀️
@DeeDeeKarol
Жыл бұрын
@@hustlelikebrussell7593not like chemical relaxers so stop it.
relaxing your hair while pregnant is actually insane
Good Luck, not me!
13 years, and it is so short. I have been natural for almost 3 years, and it is double your hair length, and I cut the end when I see split ends
@ShesWilling
Жыл бұрын
Clearly everyone’s hair grows differently but yes I’ve shaved my head a few times in the time frame. Think before you speak
@matildadonkor7313
Жыл бұрын
OK good for you
@TM9_
Жыл бұрын
Weird flex, but okay
Why are women cutting their hair, I mean not all women, but there's a new thing where you see a a lotta women cutting their hair above the shoulders, or even shooter than that. Some are even shaving their heads?! Nah, sorry, but I'm not into women who cut their hair or shave their heads, looking like dudes. No disrespect to any ladies who do cut their hair above shoulders, or shave it off
@truthordare197
Жыл бұрын
No one cares about your opinion
@sophiam9886
11 ай бұрын
Nobody cares what 👉you👈 like.😅 Why are you guys always running up to us, IN OUR SPACES, telling us what you don't like? 🗣We don't care. 🤣🤣🤣
It came out beautiful I just relaxed my hair I am 5 days post relaxer .I love it
It came out beautiful I just relaxed my hair I am 5 days post relaxer .I love it