please PLEASE remember to take your time and do not rush into transitioning. i would never want anyone else to have to experience something like this. the transitioning and detransitioning rate has been on the rise lately. transitioning has very permanent and serious affects on you so just please be aware of how serious transitioning really is. not to make this into a serious rant but you have so much time, take your time and you will discover who you are.

@rovichi8297

4 жыл бұрын

It WAS destroying her body in the sense that she took medication for something she didn't have, in the same way that if you take an antidepressant when you don't need it, you might get seratonin disorder. This article should've been more of a nuanced position of making sure you're ACTUALLY trans before you transition because it is permanent and not everyone is or will be transgender even if they want to be, instead of saying it doesn't work and it won't work for anyone and it's "mutilation"... if you're not trans and you transition, YOU WILL GET DYSPHORIA. YOU CANNOT JUST SAY YOU'RE TRANS AND YOU'LL MAGICALLY BE TRANSGENDER. In my opinion this is the result of people saying that you don't need dysphoria to be trans, non trans people transitioning, and then the dysphoria they gain leaving them extremely mad at the trans people who told them that they didn't need dysphoria.

@sherlockholmes6346

4 жыл бұрын

Love how u like your own comment 😂

@kaiballam8811

4 жыл бұрын

hey sam! i’m trans and have been out for a year. i have a supportive family who have supported me and have helped me get in touch with specialists. i’m in the uk and want to go private so i can be seen quicker and i’m 100% positive testosterone will make me a lot happier. would you say 16 is too young? :)

@raidenmira9916

4 жыл бұрын

I’m off t 😰

@Y33t__

4 жыл бұрын

Glad that Sam and others show that not all trans people aren't confused Other LGBT thinking their different.

"I once got into a car crash so now no one should be able to drive"

@wilkobye9533

4 жыл бұрын

Honestly? There is a high mortality rate with traffic we should just make everything trains. *Cries in gay and disabled and unable to drive*

@deydraniadiancecht8298

4 жыл бұрын

There's a huge difference between getting into a car accident and making the insane decision to pretend that you're someone you're not.

@wilkobye9533

4 жыл бұрын

@@deydraniadiancecht8298 ya car accidents are dangerous as fuck and could end your life as well as that of others. Being confused about who u are is a very chill thing the worst outcome of that is some harm to yourself and the annoyance of others. It's rather unlikely it would put anyone but you in any danger at all so it's not really a problem..

@jessih.8338

4 жыл бұрын

It was the car commercials....I'm so sorry you suffered....

@frisonietdeprins

4 жыл бұрын

More like: "I once got into a car crash because I though I was ready to drive on the highway after my first driving ed class ever, so therefore no one should be able to drive."

“I stopped testosterone cold turkey without even seeing my doctor” -wonders why her hormone levels are way off-

@torrinashley6076

4 жыл бұрын

I mean, that's what I did when I went off testosterone twice

@nitrosophelin

4 жыл бұрын

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...

@usskren

4 жыл бұрын

yes, and have yo tried stop taking Antibiotics in the middle of a cold? It happens the same

@MC-tl5bf

4 жыл бұрын

yeah u should always ease off gradually, sudden hormone changes can cause problems

@hatsunemikussnzbmindcontro4444

4 жыл бұрын

Realy smart ,..

This sounds like a transgender fan fiction by a straight person. Especially when she says “I forced people to play along with it.”

@kairi4640

3 жыл бұрын

It really does lol. I want to live in that world where everyone is just accepting and encouraging you to be transgender. 🤣

@bradleybruvva3021

3 жыл бұрын

@@kairi4640 for real! Me too. I don’t understand what people get out of being so hateful.

@violetsonja5938

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, this story sounds a bit fake. As a cis person, there are some inaccuracies here that make it sound like someone didn't do research. Could be they exaggerated in the story, could be they are really that impulsive and don't pay attention, but IDK...

@ghrasta.

3 жыл бұрын

What gets me is she says she practically transitioned only a couple weeks after starting hormones, idk how it works in America but where I live you have to live as a man without hormones for a full year before you’re waitlisted for surgery

@lainoid1180

3 жыл бұрын

*cis person

This feels like a cis person who’s never seen a trans person looked up the side effects of hormones and wrote a fanfic without any more research

@rebeccasam3434

3 жыл бұрын

yep

@magnarcreed3801

2 жыл бұрын

I’m curious what are all the side effects? Why would taking t make you gain weight?

@pissapocalypse

2 жыл бұрын

@@magnarcreed3801 He said it in the video. Men naturally have more muscle so being on testosterone would give you a little more muscle, and muscle weight a lot more than fat. She gained muscle lol

@magnarcreed3801

2 жыл бұрын

@@pissapocalypse She described gaining fat, or at least that’s what it sounded like to me. Just threw me off a bit.

@pissapocalypse

2 жыл бұрын

@@magnarcreed3801 She might've. I think hormones might cause people to lose or gain weight but dont quote me on that. Other factors like depression and anxiety can definitely make you lose or gain weight, but I really doubt it was the testosterone that made her gain over 50lbs

The whole article is basically: "I took cold pills even though I don't have a cold, and I'm mad about it"

@hootenholler5105

3 жыл бұрын

Check out Keira Bell’s case she won in the UK. The judgement reading is interesting.

@kumashock4074

3 жыл бұрын

Lol or like putting gorilla glue in your hair

@beccastewart758

3 жыл бұрын

"...so now i'm mad about it. therefore, people with a cold don't take cold pills."

@Vyper78

3 жыл бұрын

@@kumashock4074 don't be racist please. We don't need that here.

@kxromi4820

3 жыл бұрын

@@Vyper78 What-?

sounded like if the people around her were okay w her being a male, they wouldve been okay with her being a lesbian

@Wren796

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah like, I'm also pretty sure it's easier to just come out as lesbian than going through the entire process of transitioning

@patrickmaybe2197

4 жыл бұрын

that’s exactly what i was thinking. it’s a lot less life-changing and obviously who she always was.

@slym0th

4 жыл бұрын

duckyodino as a bi peep, I agree!!

@gracienoble2880

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I know way too many people who are accepting of gay/bisexual people, but are also transphobic. Not so much the other way around. Generally if they're find with you transitioning then they'll be okay with your sexuality. Coming out as gay is also a lot cheaper than letting that internalized homophobia lead you to believe that being attracted to the same sex means you're the opposite sex.

@getinthevan9935

3 жыл бұрын

Damn boi that's kinda true tho

love how she skipped the social transition stage with the people she was closet to. like using a new name and pronouns with a friend for a few days to see if it gave her euphoria???

@taramcgettrick8464

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Try out a new set of pronouns and name with a friend or family member. Change your hairstyle or wear clothes associated with your gender. Research terms. I thought I was agender, genderfluid and a trans boy before realising I'm non binary. It took me over a year to figure it out.

@screamqueen3823

2 жыл бұрын

Truth. Social transition is a very important step.

@ginathecookie

2 жыл бұрын

yeah.. thats what you do

@elettradelpin230

2 жыл бұрын

The fact is that she never understood what being trans was really about. She wanted to transition because she thought it would have made her life easier, not because she felt dysphoria. She thought that she had to PUT UP (sorry if it caps lock I don't know how to underline it) with the discomfort of being perceived as a man to get to her goal.

@sck-2658

2 жыл бұрын

@@elettradelpin230 this! She didn't tackle her internalized homophobia and decided to be trans 🙄

Hi Sam.... I’m new here and so glad I found you. I’m a 57 year old woman and you have gifted me with insight I was lacking. Thank you for that. Lisa

@alle_sind_eins161

2 жыл бұрын

It's so nice to see someone from an "older generation" still keeping an open mind and still trying to learn. Maybe there is hope for us trans people. Thank you for that, I hope you stay healthy and happy.

@darleneroberts3726

2 жыл бұрын

this comment made my day :)) only a few members of my famy will ever be supportive of me and my decisions, so seeing this just makes me glad that there might be trans children who dont have to have transphobic parents/grandparents :)

@imchansbf

2 жыл бұрын

THATS GONNA MAKE ME CRY OMG

@wonderbookk

2 жыл бұрын

OMG LISA WE STAN ☝️😩

@fbiopenup559

2 жыл бұрын

LISA WE LOVE YOU ❤️

My sister, a female since birth, has her driver's license marked as male, by accident and hasn't bothered to change it and I dont know where I'm going with this.

@patienceRachel

4 жыл бұрын

Jajsjshs I'm crying

@carifoo2001

4 жыл бұрын

it would be a good idea for her to change it because women get lower car insurance rates.

@friendlyneighborhoodgoth

4 жыл бұрын

when I got my drivers license when I was 16 the DMV gave me no restrictions even though I'm legally blind. so legally I can drive without glasses, however that would be a very bad idea

@jayw7914

4 жыл бұрын

Hahahah my sisters passport says male

@madamelbduchessofawesomene8862

4 жыл бұрын

Tessa Red same with me!!

Detransitioining is sad But just because you regret doesnt mean other people will

@brittaolson6550

4 жыл бұрын

DoodleBird Are you the person in the article? I’d be shocked if that was a real person.

@loonaot12

4 жыл бұрын

@@Moebz818 cool no one cares

@omk573

4 жыл бұрын

@@loonaot12 if you don't care then why would leave a comment their comment is totally relevant to thw conversation yours isn't

@SupraMan38

4 жыл бұрын

agreed

@findingalexandernohate2508

4 жыл бұрын

@@SupraMan38 you inspire me so much Sam. Never stop making videos. You save lives

She is blaming everyone but herself, it’s her decision.

@ernsttrekiew198

2 жыл бұрын

Don't they realize that all of their psychotic problems can be solved by a gram of fentanyl mixed with a fifth of bourbon?

The way she felt when she was all on testosterone is how some trans people feel in their pre transition body.

"If you're not trans, thanks for watching. You're really cool. Glad that you're interested in the subject." Me: ... 🙂❤️

@mia-qd5lm

4 жыл бұрын

also me: :) 🥰

@kj147

4 жыл бұрын

😁❤

@apexyl5135

4 жыл бұрын

KUKAKYOTOTOKYO i’m not trans but i am gay, and i’m a fierce ally of the rest of lgbtq+ because i’m proud to be who i am, and i want everyone to be just as proud.

@BunnieAvocados

4 жыл бұрын

Im pan but same 😊💕

@art_games_and_writing9778

4 жыл бұрын

Not trans and straight here! I just absolutely love the lgbtq+ community in general, plus I love learning more about all of them 😁❤️ Side note: Sam is the best boi and we stan 👌

“Mutilated? No. That’s sex.” -wise words from Greek sculpted man

@meganbreezemansker1993

3 жыл бұрын

Mmmmmmhmmmmm

@scarlett3772

3 жыл бұрын

Mutilated? No. Actually very very pretty boy.

@reya7853

3 жыл бұрын

zeus could n e v e r

@SarahStudt

3 жыл бұрын

He ain't wrong

@KaelWrit

3 жыл бұрын

and money

2:46 the bit about "can date their (same-sex) while looking like the opposite sex" gets me. It's quite clear that she Doesn't view Trans people as they are. She quite clearly just wanted to get over her internalized homophobia.

@sallyface00015

6 ай бұрын

Exactlyyyy If I'm a lesbian, and my girlfriend is transitioning, I can't say I want to still be in a relationship with a transgender boy if I like girls like tf

I love how TERFs talk about trans people encouraging others to transition. Here you are telling people to not rush into things. I am a post op trans woman. I tell people that they shouldn't transition unless they need to. If your sexual anatomy doesn't bother you; it's probably best not to radically alter it. If I regretted my SRS I would be screwed.

@rebeccasam3434

3 жыл бұрын

And a person is trans (or cis) regardless of whether they do anything about it. A lot of people can't or don't want to do surgery but are still valid

@MidnightEkaki

2 жыл бұрын

Idk some people dont feel dysphoria but wish to pass and go through with it.

@ilikedarknes3351

2 жыл бұрын

i definitely think people should put a LOT of thought into it before they start physically transitioning, I think before physically transitioning people should live as the gender they think they are identify as it and all and imaging how it would be if they were a cis person born as the gender they think they are and if that all feels right then they should definitely be able to transition

@arizonagreenbee

2 жыл бұрын

@@MidnightEkaki But there's still a ton of thought and decision to put into this. I can't transition, but I know that if I could I'd still put thought into it.

@omniscient.nescience

2 жыл бұрын

@@ilikedarknes3351 Social transition is such an important step! For me personally, I approached it bit by bit, taking notes as I went as that was how I processed it best. I asked my sister and friends to try using they/them pronouns for me. Then a different name. Bought a binder and switched up my gender presentation. Gave my new name when ordering coffee and started introducing myself as it when meeting new people. Figured out what I liked and didn't. Talked to other people in the trans/nonbinary community. Only after I had done all this, and was as sure as I felt I could be in my nonbinary identity did I consider what parts of physical transitioning I wanted. Coming to terms with yourself can be such an emotionally stressful time, and it's best to be logical and calm when it comes to stuff that's gonna last a lifetime.

so basically a homosexual that is uncomfortable with homophobia? Well mate that's all of us

@Gee-xb7rt

4 жыл бұрын

the whole story sounds off, the whole "but think of the children" sounds like some anti-lgbt political propaganda.

@TheLiana1102

4 жыл бұрын

@@Gee-xb7rt I would really like to know where she is from, because most places make you wait a year, even like in the UK I think you have to wait like 2 years or it maybe even longer before you can be put on hormones specially if you are using the governments insurance. I do not know the exact law for Canada but they are probably likely to be one of those places that doesn't make you jump through so much hoops as the US.

@Gee-xb7rt

4 жыл бұрын

@@TheLiana1102 I can't remember her name, there is a trans youtuber from Canada that hit puberty and was getting more masculine features and then they started her on hormones. Canada's insurance is by province, so as a disclaimer it could be different elsewhere. I really don't know where you can just go in and pick up hormones unless you are getting them on the black market, which unfortunately a lot of minorities down here in the South have to resort to. This story didn't sound like someone desperate for hormones though, it sounded like some anti-lgbt nonsense, all you got to do is add "I found Jesus and a husband" at the end.

@beestille5487

4 жыл бұрын

Preach

@abid3500

4 жыл бұрын

Sally that gurl__Julia I’m from the UK and my best friend is ftm and now that he’s turned 17 he’s been put on the waiting list for testosterone and it has something like a 40 month long waiting list so he probably won’t get testosterone until he’s at least 20 :(

This article is total bs, but here I am to say: It’s okay if you think you have your identity figured out, and then realize you were wrong. I used to think I was bisexual, then realized I was actually asexual and biromantic. Pretty much everyone in the LGBTQ+ community once thought they were straight/cis then realized that wasn’t them. Sexuality, romance, and gender is complicated, and it’s okay if it takes you a while to figure it out.

These detransitioners made me doubt myself. My whole life I felt like a guy. I expected male puberty so when I ended up getting periods it crushed me and I felt like my body was betraying me. With loads of haters and my own Mother rejecting me I'm back in the closet being depressed as all heck. I'm back to where I was in my teen years.

@EclesysGalaxy

2 жыл бұрын

mtf in the same situation LOL

@bugesophagus

2 жыл бұрын

I am currently in the same position. It's really depressing.

@1paidtheway850

Жыл бұрын

Wait what happened ?

@madeline_from_celeste_real

9 ай бұрын

How are you now?

“At 18, I wasn’t even old enough to buy alcohol” *Laughs in Canadian*

@sunnytheboo6122

4 жыл бұрын

;-; im moving to Canadian

@gygyuri2194

4 жыл бұрын

*Laughs in European*

@joana8615

4 жыл бұрын

And here i am, laughing in Swiss

@Hi-wu1se

4 жыл бұрын

In France you can buy alcohol at 16, but not hard alcohol. Hard alcohol comes at 18

@lilia3944

4 жыл бұрын

*Joins in German*

She literally started by sounding like a “not like other girls” post

@cursed2622

4 жыл бұрын

GalaxyWolf875 😂 ikr

@iceheart9044

4 жыл бұрын

Off topic but where’d u get the pfp?

@goosedotjpg

4 жыл бұрын

Ice Heart picrew.me/image_maker/94097

@Athena_420

4 жыл бұрын

Ok weeb

@goosedotjpg

4 жыл бұрын

Athena I am a weeb. What’s your point?

i fucking love that sam uses self-grandizing humor. so many people are "haha i hate myself". but sam, as he says, is sculpted by the gods

Stories like this absolutely baffle me. They do literally 0 research on hormones/transition, don't socially transition properly, and just go straight into it... I'm 23 and only just started hormones last year though I've been out as trans since I was 14 but had known since I was 11. ALL these years I've been researching, going in and out of gender clinics, etc. And I never forced myself into anything I wasn't explicitly ready for. It's a long process (unless you have money to go private), and it's just... Ridiculous to me how they make it look so ~easy~ to fit their own narrative that "trans ppl r bad >:("

wild. i lost 50 pounds on T because i stopped being so depressed and began to feel more comfortable in my body.

@nebula2578

4 жыл бұрын

i know..i mean, the logic is just wonderful! makes full sense. **cough cough** sarcasm **cough cough**

@ghostlyxero9030

4 жыл бұрын

It's more of a genetic thing I think, I started T and gained a bunch weight 😅

@nyct0phile

4 жыл бұрын

@@ghostlyxero9030 your appetite probably increased with your happiness maybe? not that they're the same, but that's why a lot of anti-depressants result in weight gain, because depression suppresses your appetite. it can work the other way around though, like if someone used food and/or binges often to cope with their depression, feeling happier means they dont need to run to food as often, so they lose weight.

@ghostlyxero9030

4 жыл бұрын

@@nyct0phile yeah that's definitely true

@ashleyk8406

4 жыл бұрын

Nyctophile I use food to cope sometimes and I still gain weight on antidepressants ugh, so it’s not all black and white. Actually it’s almost _worse_ when I’m happy in a weird way because I’m not always worrying about what I eat or how I look to other people. Now that might sound good but its effects aren’t. But yeah that is true for a lot of people.

“same sex relationships while looking like the other sex” ..... can someone else also see what’s wrong with that statement.

@inkii-y

4 жыл бұрын

YeAH

@Axel-wh2gy

4 жыл бұрын

It technically is correct bc sex is usually defined based on genitals. (Sex and gender are different)

@M1N1SQU1RR3Lx

4 жыл бұрын

Axel yes, that’s true it is different, but she is speaking of being transgender, not transsexual. i’m mostly pointing out her ignorance of not fully understanding what it is being transgender and rushing into it. she, herself, doesn’t realize there’s a difference between sex and gender.

@cheapypeepy9150

4 жыл бұрын

@@Axel-wh2gy sex is based on a whole profile of different things. Otherwise it would be simple for castor semenya to flash her junk to Olympic officials to stay competing as a female runner and leave her naturally high testosterone levels alone

@turquoisecrow4513

4 жыл бұрын

Sounds kinda terf to me bro

Her complaining about having support makes my blood boil. There’s still thousands of trans men and women grateful for still being alive and being treated the bare minimum by their peers. Suicide rates for trans people are still high. Transphobia is still an ongoing thing that affects millions of people. There’s countless of trans people who have unsupportive parents, friends, therapists, and more. That feel like ending their lives because they feel like no one is supporting them and appreciating them for who they are. And this woman, has the nerve, to be so ungrateful and petty-

@user-mi8xf8tq1z

2 жыл бұрын

Okay so the emotions and experiences of trans people are valid But the emotions and experiences of de-transitioners are not valid?

@ancuruadh6027

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-mi8xf8tq1z The emotions and experiences of bigots are not valid no... Especially when they're lying about everything anyway... >:K

@barnacles62

2 жыл бұрын

A high majority of older trans people said they wished theyd never done it. It was they were not happy inside, and thought becoming a whole other person would change it. They were wrong....

@tarathoughts13

6 ай бұрын

i don't think it was having support - i just think that she wishes that people had questioned her a bit more about it (like her family and friends) and not just played along with her, which i get in her situation, but if a family member comes to me and says 'im trans' and they say that is what they really want (which im guessing she might have) then i would support them to an extent and just tell them to be careful and to know what they are doing, there's not much that you can do honestly. i agree maybe they should have been more careful with her, but i do understand why people are more supportibe.

@theboxygenie

4 ай бұрын

​@@barnacles62 Source? Because that sounds like bull

Personal Note: I love being transgender, i thank the Divine, the universe, nature and what ever made me born transgender. Trangender people, all LGBT people really are the rare gems of humaninty. Came out as trans in 1977 before the word transgender was in common use. I understand other people mileage may very but i have to put out the counter point, transgender people can be content and happy...this trans lady is....

@revamyers02

2 жыл бұрын

ive struggled w my identity a lot the past couple of years. i came out as trans ftm when i was 13, although i was technically i was outed in front of a courtroom during a custody battle. bc of me being outed i really struggled with feeling like my identity was mine and i often struggled with the thought that i was faking it or i wasnt trans enough. when i was 15 i forced myself back into the closet because everyone around me was ignoring everything i had to say about who i was so i thought that maybe i was wrong about myself. i wasnt, but i was only 15 and super susceptible to the opinions of other people around me especially the opinions of my family. i dressed more femininely than ive ever been comfortable with to overcompensate and try to convince myself that this is what i wanted. after a bit i realized what i was wasnt really me and that i should stop listening to family that dont *really* care about my happiness. so when i was 16 i discovered other genders like non-binary and genderfluid. i started to experiment with pronouns and different identities. eventually i settled on they/he pronouns (although now im thinking abt minorly changing my pronouns to he/they) after turning 17 i started to use the term genderqueer to describe my gender, but im starting to consider myself transmasc as well because i want to transition both socially and medically to present more masculine. i desire to be seen and recognized as male in society even if im technically genderqueer and not completely a guy. sorry for the long spiel i just did let me get to my point of this reply haha i wish that some detransitioners (especially like the girl sam is talking abt in his video) would understand that not everyone is faking their feelings abt being another gender than they were born as and i wish that theyd stop pushing this rhetoric that bc their transition experience was bad or didnt help them that, thats the case for all trans people im currently really unhappy with my life because i am unable to transition. i never recame out after determining that i really am trans and that i was wrong abt being wrong and i dont plan on officially recoming out until i move out. i see a medical transition making my life so much better in the long run anyway! sorry for this reply idek why im telling my story. maybe bc i thought the little bit you told abt yours was really cool lol. i hope youre doing well! and i also wanted to thank you. people like you are the reason why being trans is just a *little* bit more socially acceptable now. you came out during a time where it was much more dangerous to be out as trans than it is now. you were super brave to come out in the 70s and i really admire that :)

@irit.wiseman

2 жыл бұрын

@cofiking23

Жыл бұрын

Ur just crazy. Madness loves spirituality more than anything. Its the most potent source for sustaning delusion.

this sounds like a girl who rushed head-first into a mistake and is now blaming everyone else and calling themselves a victim

@0verth1nker60

4 жыл бұрын

Atyana Thomas lmao true

@rattling.casket

4 жыл бұрын

gabbie hana who?? 😷😷😷😷

@cryptidboyo

4 жыл бұрын

*claps*

@verysmallcat

4 жыл бұрын

yup. pretty much. every single detransitioner i read about transitions within a year or 2 or like couple months.

@teatea6443

4 жыл бұрын

Sounds like what terfs do

It rubbed me wrong when she said “I didn’t look like I was gay, I had long blonde hair” ...femme lesbians exist lol

@wendywright4659

4 жыл бұрын

then again we all knew what she meant. thats literally the least problematic part of the article for me. the girl is obviously so stupid she couldnt even write a compelling fake article

@ombrenightcores4153

4 жыл бұрын

“Mom, Dad, I’m gay,” “What?! But you’re blonde!!”

@chromenjones2373

4 жыл бұрын

I love how she's talking about being gay as if it's a physical trait that people can see. Yeah, if you're gay, it shows, the gayness will radiate out of you to alerts everyone.

@nonabonn

4 жыл бұрын

She literally described what I look like & I'm a flaming homosexual lmfao

@KingOfGaymes

4 жыл бұрын

Ombre Nightcores this comment made me lose it

When the norm to be straight is so strong that you change gender just to not be gay.XD

Fun fact over 90% of people who transition (I have this info from Samantha lux and correct me if I’m wrong) said it saved them from commeting su1cide so i belive you shouldn’t rush it but it’s really helpful to a lot of people mental health

@Bunneeee

2 жыл бұрын

True

@SamuelSamuelSamuel1

2 жыл бұрын

I knew a girl who detransitioned bc the Jehovahs witnesses didn’t allow it. She than killed herself bc she couldn’t stand being a guy… Glad I left not much later :/

And this kids, is why being Trans, Gay, Hetero, etc. can't be a decision.

@mattnelson9010

4 жыл бұрын

Precisely

@vamperkillzshy

4 жыл бұрын

Why can't it be?

@mattnelson9010

4 жыл бұрын

vamperkillz because this girl was jealous of trans men therefore she tried to become a trans man, but she is not a man so doing so causes great distress. Had she actually been a trans man with gender dysphoria it should have helped. Do you understand? :)

@Ajia_No_Envy

4 жыл бұрын

@@vamperkillzshy Yes it just can't. I didn't put much thought on what gender I prefered since I do like acting feminine but immediatley I knew I liked being male. Also I did try to make it seem like i was a girl (it really wasnt that hard for me to do) and I felt like it wasn't me.

@unknown_bitch6734

4 жыл бұрын

@@vamperkillzshy The 2 replies above mine pretty much said everything I wanted to say...

Girl straight up just hated herself. Calling herself a “dyke” in a negative connotation and admitting to her internalized homophobia. She just wanted a reason to feel “straight”. Which is not a good reason to transition. The whole article is a her problem being insecure and I pity that :(

@janine2957

3 жыл бұрын

@Mr S overweight people losing weight? they hate themselves! me going to the hairdresser to change the color of my hair? wow girl stop hating yourself!

@glitzerkeks6390

3 жыл бұрын

@@janine2957 i really dont think you should compare transitioning with losing weight or getting a haircut. in order for a person to make such drastic changes to their body there should be a lot of psychological help in the first place to make sure that this is something that will actually help the person and isnt dont out of wrong motives

@LatinChickWithMedley

3 жыл бұрын

I feel like someone should have caught on with her issue and told her. Unless she didn't tell anyone

@tealablu3759

3 жыл бұрын

It’s sad. It’s like her only reason for doing anything was to make the people around her happy. And no one sat her down and asked her about it

@_whatnext_9319

3 жыл бұрын

Isn't that where most of this stuff stems from? Hate for one's current self?

She had a problem, but being trans wasn’t the answer. Sometimes we’re all confused and that’s okay but try your best to identify your feelings, and even if you detransition just don’t claim that transitioning won’t make you happy, because there’s lots of people who genuinely have dysphoria and that’s why they transition, not because they want to date a gender without being judged.

i told everyone I was a lesbian a while ago. my mom found out when she read my friend and I's conversation over text back when we thought we liked each other. I have been questioning my gender for a bit now, and I think I'm settling down to he/him pronouns. But, after watching how she said she thought she was because she liked girls, makes me second guess myself. I feel way comfier with being a guy than I will ever a girl, and try my best to hide my chest in safe ways. My mom has been saying that I'm too young to even have to question myself and sexuality so much. But again, watching you say you knew at 8 or 9 helped me. My whole family is really religious and tried their best to support me when I came out as a lesbian, but I'm scared as to what they'll do if I say my a guy. My friends at school are calling me Toby and use he/him to refer to me, and I smile just thinking about it. sorry this was so long, i just needed to get it off my chest

@HangryOnPaws

2 жыл бұрын

Proud of you for coming out to the people around you. You're so brave, Toby. 👍😊

You know she wasn't honest with her therapist. She was probably lying to get what she wanted and not participating earnestly.

@Rubarb84

4 жыл бұрын

Cathy Reed sad.

@marvalice3455

4 жыл бұрын

It is sadly really easy to do

@pivinne5536

4 жыл бұрын

E MacPherson no blood test, no. But brain scans? Studies have shown that men and women have visibly different brain structures, and that trans people have the brain structures of the gender they identify as, not the gender they were born as. That is what creates dysphoria.

@cathyreed538

4 жыл бұрын

@@elizabethmacpherson0989 but if she had expressed what she does in her video and worked with a therapist she wouldn't have had to transition to discover she wasn't trans.

@soulcats3551

4 жыл бұрын

E MacPherson any good gender therapist or even general therapist could probably have told her she should be thinking more about this before starting hormones if she was honest. she clearly just went to a shit one. if she had 1) gone to a better therapist and 2) honestly told them some of the reasons behind wanting to transition (wanting to present as a straight couple with her girlfriend), i’m pretty sure the therapist would’ve been like maybe u should reconsider lmao

So she became a trans man because she wanted to date her girlfriend and not because she experienced any kind of dysphoria

@zebruh2794

4 жыл бұрын

@IzumiRiceBowl, yes

@trashcan3537

4 жыл бұрын

Yep, pretty much

@lunawolfheart336

4 жыл бұрын

yup sigh

@PixelBytesPixelArtist

4 жыл бұрын

little known fact you can be gay

@user-me7tr1hf6j

4 жыл бұрын

IzumiRiceBowl yea

This entire story is just her admitting that she chose to be trans

I'm getting my top surgery in 1 month and can't wait!!!! I've waited 49 years for this moment and I know i will never regret it and be so,so happy!!

Another title - "Lesbian girl had such intense internalised homophobia that she thought transitioning would stop it" OR " Lesbian thought being Trans was choice"

@rockybalboa6514

4 жыл бұрын

It's actually what they do in the Iran to homosexual people. They are only allowed to live their sexuality if they transition into the opposite gender.

@danacherlin1863

4 жыл бұрын

Right?????? Girl sounds like u just wanted to be a butch lesbian n u were scared

@calvinthestormfreak

4 жыл бұрын

shut up i used to be gay

@kuinceybanac-aricayos8148

4 жыл бұрын

Getting professional help is the first thing to do, make sure that is the path you want to take.

@acuriousspoon843

4 жыл бұрын

lol its weird how she hated being gay so much but she had no problem with transgenderism. most homophobes have a problem with both, and if its only one then its usually being gay.

Turns out transitioning doesn't change: * Homophobia * Transphobia * Shitty decision making

@genuinelyweird6358

3 жыл бұрын

ReAlLy?!?!

@familiacraneo4306

3 жыл бұрын

*or other persons prejudices (they will judge anyone not cis and/ or straight. Transitioning won't change them either)

@soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342

3 жыл бұрын

@@familiacraneo4306 Always gunna be some pointless haters out there who will crap on you no matter what. EF em lol. Let em die mad : )

@Cloudaddy220

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao it doesn’t make you any less of a complete asshole either

@twighsparklezz

3 жыл бұрын

@@soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342 #letemdiemad

Beyond duality, there's YOU. With all your complexity and beauty. Life isn't black or white, male or female. Life is. Much Love to All 🖖☀️🙏🕊️💕💜 ⚛☯️️♾️☯️⚛️

@cisvaughan6937

3 жыл бұрын

Yep. And if you believe in reincarnation, we all probably do so many lifetimes as both that it's going to change by itself sooner or later, change and change again...

This lady made a mistake (and that is truly unfortunate), but she doesn't have to drag real trans people down just because she wasn't trans

Sam: Testosterone. Captions: To sauce thrown Te scarce their own Test lost hair loan Toss coster drone

@umbriel7051

4 жыл бұрын

This needs more likes lmao

@Thinkinboutace

4 жыл бұрын

this is absolute gold

@frannyb99

4 жыл бұрын

I'm less than a minute into the video imma turn or captions now 😂

@simonslair3048

4 жыл бұрын

now it's normal :(

@kaotickitten

4 жыл бұрын

Fuck I love this.

TL;DR: I transitioned because I wanted to be straight, without any dysphoria and regret it. I regret something I rushed into without any consideration and you, a trans person with dysphoria, will regret it as well

@emmanarotzky6565

4 жыл бұрын

Why did she even think she could escape homophobia by pretending to be trans? The same kids who make fun of you for being gay would also make fun of you for being trans (if you were actually trans).

@tonydarcy7475

4 жыл бұрын

It sounds like that’s what happened. When I was 17, I also hated that I was gay, but I didn’t think I should transition just because I wanted to be straight as that doesn’t make any sense. These people should think these things though better (and her therapist should have also known the right questions to ask to work out if someone has gender dysphoria).

I know this story is just so fake, but it still scared me so much that I just had to take a break from the video and sob it out. It shouldn't have to be that scary... I shouldn't have to be scared like this

@HangryOnPaws

2 жыл бұрын

I might track down the article and expose it. If I do would you like me to post the results in this thread?

@gothicdancecrumps9687

2 жыл бұрын

@@HangryOnPaws yeah, I'd really appreciate that. Thank you

Hi, Afab nonbinary here. When it comes to my transition, I’ve thought about going on T a few times, but I know if I’m not fully comfortable with going on it, I just won’t. Because that’s a commitment I need to make with myself I don’t think I ever will, but i’m fairly young and can work that through later if it comes back up again. Just take your time folks, doesn’t make you any less trans than you are, make sure you think it through and are 100% on it. And if you are, then go for it!

"At 18 I wasn't old enough to buy alcohol" **Laughs in European**

@dr.sigmundfreud3030

4 жыл бұрын

Same thought here **sips beer at age 17** greetings from Germany

@kortmann9

4 жыл бұрын

*laughs in Aussie* What softies!

@sevo9433

4 жыл бұрын

AshyVinc indians go the hardest, our classmates’ parents buy us beer

@bot8762

4 жыл бұрын

*laughs in canadian* ahh children

@alexiaa4316

4 жыл бұрын

In my country it's way too easy to buy alcohol when you're underage. I'm 15 and bought a bottle of vodka at 7am without even being questioned....

“I didn’t look like I was gay” is there really a look to being gay tho? Anyone can look any way and be gay

@FlyingBisonSuperiority

4 жыл бұрын

Michaela she left her rainbow at home

@proudscorpio46

4 жыл бұрын

Y’all are so mf sensitive 😂

@michaela5928

4 жыл бұрын

Venus Tv no I’m just saying there’s not a specific look to being gay idk how that’s being sensitive lmao

@pizzabandit5131

4 жыл бұрын

Venus Tv Lmfaoo girl you played yourself. byeee

@reeddior

4 жыл бұрын

Looking androgynous tends to make you look “gay” according to society, it’s more on the extreme end of things that people seem gay, like really feminine guys and really masculine girls (style and presentation wise not things you can’t help like being thicc or lanky)

Ok, I get it now. She’s mad that she’s not a “hot guy”. 🙄 Girl Bye👋🏽

“Am I obese and in danger of having a heart attack?” *pause “YES” Lmao you are precious never stop being you 🤣

So uh, this girl is so deep into her stereotype abt being a gay girl that she thinks if shes gay she cant have barbie blonde long hair and wear dresses and if she likes girls she should be a guy....?

@amberb.6395

3 жыл бұрын

It seems she’s never heard of femme lesbians I guess

@rebeccasam3434

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, she's either mind-blowingly clueless, or doesn't exist.

@imannatasha3302

2 жыл бұрын

She's very homophobic it seems

@quillmorningstar8713

2 жыл бұрын

I've met people who say they are going to transition just because they want to marry gay men... Those types of people are making us real trans individuals look like that we're faking it and that infuriates me.

@oop5488

2 жыл бұрын

@@quillmorningstar8713 wtf…

Sam: " But you know what's bigger..? " Me: " Your di- " Sam: " These lies. " Me: " Oh.. "

@rosek1282

4 жыл бұрын

Bob the blob I mean Sam looked down so I thought it was that too

@Lesbo.dragon

4 жыл бұрын

I THOUGHT THAT TOO

@mate01176

4 жыл бұрын

omg same !!!!

@ksdtsubfil6840

4 жыл бұрын

Me: *gay noises intensify*

@itchyballsack9132

4 жыл бұрын

Bob the blob I thought the same thing

You’re so calm discussing every topic in every video it’s really nice

From my research, exogenous T can raise your cholesterol, thicken your blood (polycythemia -- basically too many RBCs), and it can tip the balance into (pre)diabetes if you are predisposed to it (or if you gain 50 pounds, like she did). Of course, you gain the muscle mass and perhaps fat too. It also sounds like she did have shitty doctors, but it sounds like she was not taking care of herself, working out, etc. The thick, puffy, discolored skin? What's up with that? Meh. She wasn't trans. It does seem like there are easier ways to deal with being gay and having internalized homophobia. You can go to therapy. You can stay in the closet. Not recommended, but it's a lot simpler than transitioning.

I love how the girl just said testosterone made her fat Me: oh honey it ain't the testosterone

@jackdawjames7696

4 жыл бұрын

Weeber drawings SNDBDHD YEAH PREACH

@YojmaxDjabox

4 жыл бұрын

junk food entered the chat

@Abadonedaccount123

4 жыл бұрын

It's that chocolate cake girl. Put it down Karen

@femboyrules7594

4 жыл бұрын

Facts

@RianLyons

4 жыл бұрын

I’m on T and have LOST weight since I’ve been on it. She’s lying about everything. Right-wing, transphobic propaganda.

“I was always different from other girls, I wore boys clothes- I was a classic tomboy.” “You wouldn’t have been able to tell I was gay from just looking at me. I had long blonde hair, wore makeup and carried myself rather femininely.” ...Uh?

@Alkid_Sunrize

4 жыл бұрын

1 sentence is about her childhood, while the 2 one is about her teen years.

@nitrosophelin

4 жыл бұрын

*one of these things is not like the other*

@nitrosophelin

4 жыл бұрын

@Rebekah L I'm talking about the whole thing with being a "classic tomboy" and then saying about how outwardly feminine she was

@doink17

4 жыл бұрын

You can’t tell anyone’s sexuality by looking at them anyways

@sadie3285

4 жыл бұрын

“YOU DONT LOOK GAY” “SORRY LET ME JUST-“

she really just confused internalized homophobia with dysphoria and now shes blaming the entire trans community for it

@Bunneeee

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao

I hate stories like that, I was pretty young when I had the disconnect. I was maybe 4-5, I thought about it when I was about 19 and I spent every day thinking about it till I was like 23. I have been on T almost 2 years and I'm happy about it 100%

gets paper cut " IM NEVER USING PAPER AGAIN SO YOU CANT EITHER"

@sabotagingmyself

4 жыл бұрын

Are you serious? I mean, how can you even compare these two things. Paper cuts don't change people's lives, unlike transitioning. Dude, really, think before you speak.

@getinthevan9935

4 жыл бұрын

@@sabotagingmyself OMG I am zambi and take things sooooo literally

@getinthevan9935

4 жыл бұрын

@@sabotagingmyself you need to shut up bro if you aint gone help or be nice go away stop watching a trans vid if you don't like talking about it lol

@byo0

4 жыл бұрын

@@sabotagingmyself ...??

@fairytalearts810

4 жыл бұрын

@@sabotagingmyself ever heard of an analogy?

Am I the only one that gets kinda offended when people call us “transgenders” like dang didn’t know me being trans got rid of my identity as a human being

@ciel2815

4 жыл бұрын

Well, when they talk about transgender people, the correct way to refer to them is "transgender." Although I understand that it sounds somewhat abrupt, but it is the correct way to say it xD

@ashleyk8406

4 жыл бұрын

I mean, it’s not really any different than saying “blacks” or “whites”. It doesn’t imply that you’re not human. It’s just a part of you. We all have something we can be identified by. I guess “transsexuals” sounds more natural in the plural form, but I’m not sure if that term has fallen out of favor or not.

@lanedehnel587

4 жыл бұрын

Ashley Kleinvehn If you’re still calling black people “blacks” I feel like that’s a little effed up

@ashleyk8406

4 жыл бұрын

Lane Dehnel Examples: “Blacks won the right to vote.” “Blacks killed in hate crimes.” “Whites migrated to the suburbs.” “Many whites did not like the new civil rights laws.” None of those phrases sound weird to me. In fact it could very well sound like something out of my history textbook.

@ioooooooooooooooooooo

4 жыл бұрын

sorry, you can’t be a human and a transgender. gotta separate the sensible (humans) from the non-sensible (trans) (joke, if this offends you let me know and i’ll delete it)

Regretting my decision is one of my biggest fears.

As a cis lesbian who was a, “tomboy,” growing up. Of course I did consider my own gender identity, as I think everyone should do. But I came to the conclusion that I was a woman, so I didn’t transition. It is not the fault of trans people that she started taking t even though she wasn’t trans, it’s her knowingly pretending that she was trans and losing to the people around her.

She hated being gay and decided transitioning would fix everything? Not a wise decision, she's also blaming therapists for her not thinking things through.

@nb_knight5251

4 жыл бұрын

nah i gotta agree that a therapist who will diagnose dysphoria after like, 9 hours of knowing someone is probably pretty bad, but on the other hand we don't know thats she didn't lie to them in those sessions

@peapotfairy

3 жыл бұрын

@@nb_knight5251 it really seems like she is misrepresenting things. But on the off chance that what she is true, that was indeed a really bad therapist.

@notmemolina149

3 жыл бұрын

@@nb_knight5251 exactly what I was thinking they might both be at fault and from what I’m reading she probably had a bias since she said she wanted the transition by 19 so she must’ve rushed to answer to the unprofessional shitty therapists because she felt pressured to act in a way she would get her transition done

@jessiewolf3076

3 жыл бұрын

Im afab cant decide if FtM or demiboy :/ im bi and i prefer men so when i trasition i would actually be more gay then im now soo.. idk if that make sense.

@jessiewolf3076

3 жыл бұрын

@Sey no more i meant more gay from the view of society becouse i mostly date men and now society sees my as a women so when i transition to man then from their point of view i would be more gay even thou my sexuality didnt change :D it make sens in my head but idk

Being a lesbian is not socially accepted, hmmm... I’m gonna tell everyone I’m trans, that should be better!

@MissingSirius

4 жыл бұрын

The line about passing was telling. What she wanted, it seems like, was straight-privilege. From what I've seen, detransitioners seem to be gay girls with internalized homophobia who see transitioning to being a straight male as preferable to being a lesbian.

@AlcoholHasAProblemWithMe

4 жыл бұрын

Well I'm both gay and straight you see I'm genderfluid...

@Pipes570

4 жыл бұрын

@@AlcoholHasAProblemWithMe Genderfluid is expression, not a gender, you cannot physically change the sex of your brain from male to female.

@gio1884

4 жыл бұрын

holly hell Lmao Trisha Paytes logic

@GabriallScott

4 жыл бұрын

@@Pipes570 "im both gay and straight" "I'm gender fluid" Clearly this person was making a joke. Cmon it's a Sam Collins video haha Sam is king of Sarcasm so it wouldn't be crazy to assume that his fans would make sarcastic jokes too... lol

Who takes changing their gender so lightly? That's a HUGE life decision & not something to do just to "fit in" or having "pride" over what other people think. This person is definitely a dim bulb.... if there's any truth to this story at all. 🙄

This is the kind of stuff my mom would tell me to convince me not to transition 😃 Like, I've noticed that people who detransition usually transition for the "wrong" reasons (The story my mom told me was that the girl transitioned because she was sexually assaulted and hated her body, so she transitioned to become a man. Then she detransitioned because she liked feminine things)

Just sounds to me she was just a lesbian and over thought it Thanks for so many likes damn 💕

@Nepthu

4 жыл бұрын

Trying not to sound phobic, but many of the lesbians I know look/act like men. The difference between them and a transgender man seems razor thin.

@semenandgayuncle

4 жыл бұрын

Well it isn’t razor thin, trans men are rlly different than tomboys and butch lesbians

@morangoroxa7687

4 жыл бұрын

Regan Ngo Thank you for clarifying that because many people like to classify us both as the same thing. Lesbians are comfortable with their own body therefore they identify as women.

@dannysho4693

4 жыл бұрын

Nepthu Lesbians: can be masculine and often are. Trans men: have gender dysphoria. Want to be called he/him. Called by male name. Want to get a penis (not a strap on). Get rid of female chest. Go on T. It’s not razor thin my friend

@fureurrnocturne

4 жыл бұрын

Nepthu It’s really not. Being masculine and being male are two totally different things. Butch/tomboy lesbians still identify as female and acknowledge that, they just aren’t feminine.

*Mum:* I love chocolate” *Girl:* “I want to like chocolate” *Mum:* “Here, try some chocolate” *Girl: “EWWWWWWW! I HATE CHOCOLATE AND SO WILL YOU!”*

@hatsunemikussnzbmindcontro4444

4 жыл бұрын

The Thinking Being i like chocoletooo 😋🙋🏼‍♀️

@just_foxy35

4 жыл бұрын

*chef kiss*

@lemonweirdo

4 жыл бұрын

The Thinking Being how in the world can you hate chocolate🤯

@alexanderson9842

4 жыл бұрын

Thinking about it. Chocolate and genders are exactly the same. Huh, the more you know

@catsarecooI

4 жыл бұрын

Me here eating chocolate right now: 👁👄👁

She transitioned due to the stigma of being a Lesbian, and she didn't want to stop transitioning because she didn't want to deal with what people would think of her. She stopped using hormones WITHOUT consulting with her doctor first. I'm sorry that she Transitioned when it wasn't what she needed, but she shouldn't act like everyone will have the same experience as her. I hope she is doing better, and is more confident with herself as a Lesbian

dude your top results actually look so good! how did you heal the post op scars so well? genuinely looks like some greek god work *chefs kiss*

"I lied to my therapist and friends and doctors that I was trans, and they didn't tell me I was wrong! Therefore it's all their fault and also the fault of trans people for existing! Definitely not my fault at all!" That's... kind of the vibe I got from that article. But more importantly, thank you for making this video Sam, I appreciate you! Rock on.

@ApequH

3 жыл бұрын

It's like disliking the fizz on your straight hair, telling a hairdresser you want a perm and being mad you ended up with curls. Just make peace with the fizz (Not a perfect analogy I know)

@xxx-ie9ic

3 жыл бұрын

@@ApequH kzread.info/dash/bejne/do2DmZSGeMXZl6g.html&ab_channel=AreaEightyNine For some reason I was reminded of this. XP

@brigc7755

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!! Like that therapist was 100% shitty and if her experience is not super exaggerated she probably did SEVERAL things wrong while on hormones ( though i truly dont know anything so i could be incredibly wrong) but like??? its her mind and what she feels??? its not her friend's place to say whether or not she's trans and her therapist and doctors prob thought she thought abt it for awhile so ofc they didn't question her.

@xxx-ie9ic

3 жыл бұрын

@@brigc7755 Yeah!! I'm like smh! (facepalm) How dare they believe her and support her??

@hithere6199

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah this junior boomer Karen really needs to stay in her lane and get some perspective. And unfortunately people like her present it as "saving the youth" when really the moral of the story is "don't transition if you're cis." I rate this article gross/10 for misleading all our parents.

lmfao this girl went "ahaha, what if i was male... jk... unless 😳😳😳"

@loudand_clear4883

4 жыл бұрын

Hormones: There is another😈

@elliotholm184

4 жыл бұрын

omfg like for realll tho

4:25 idk where this person went where they can just get hormones immediately after coming out. it took me years of therapy before i even saw a doctor, and even going to one of the most pro trans doctors in my state, i had to be identifying as trans for more than three years to even get prescribed anything, and i had to wait almost 6 months for my insurance to approve my shit. like yeah of course when youre not sure about something and you dont even take time to experiment with your identity and find out who u are before you make life changing decisions shits gonna go wrong. maybe if this person tried identifying as a trans man for a couple years before trying testosterone she would know if it felt right before everything was suddenly irreversibly wrong.

“If you’re not trans thanks for watching youre really cool.” Awwww Sam! We love you too 🥰

This girl was obviously impulsive and can't own her mistakes, at least not the right ones. But there is social problems to blame, it's the homophobia that led her to hate her own sexuality and desesperatly trying to scape society's prejudice, and bad therapists. People accepting trans people is not the social problem here.

@thatsonyou6093

4 жыл бұрын

The problem is that this girl is probably fake

@taliapaintings3132

4 жыл бұрын

Laura Lorenzi also stubbornness, she said she would have let it kill her, before admitting her mistake, and that same stubbornness is what lead to blaming trans ppl

@paulai.santiago6885

4 жыл бұрын

I think this all started when her father didn't accept her, and kicked her to the curb. Maybe that's why she felt so much hatred.

@k3th.b.w122

4 жыл бұрын

•happy• •always• the majority of a child’s problems come from bad parenting. 🤧😢 It’s just in today’s world blaming bad parents doesn’t happen psychologists come up with a new disorder.

@paulai.santiago6885

4 жыл бұрын

@@k3th.b.w122 it is sad. I'll never understand why people kick their kid out because they are gay or pregnant. That's terrible parenting.

I.... i can’t with this girl. She literally followed to do this because she was unhappy with herself, and then she jumped right in to meds. Smh.

@malecmagic5584

4 жыл бұрын

awkward me I mean I’m 14 and I’ve came out a year ago and I’m starting t Friday! But tbh she should’ve waited and looked more into it

@jacobclement3706

4 жыл бұрын

Malec Magic Yo so happy for you! I’m 13 turning 14 and I live in the UK. Getting private treatment I hope! I’m on hormone blockers right now but I really need T. V depressed and my body image issues are slowly killing me 😂. Tell me how it goes 🤪

@malecmagic5584

4 жыл бұрын

Jacob Clement I’ll definitely update you!!😂 and don’t worry you’ll get it soon!!

@e13kid

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, that's why people are against every medical professional being bullied into prescribing hormones in case they lose their career and life for daring to question somebody.

@PruNiichan

4 жыл бұрын

@Matt H. you really have to educate yourself. Transition is the actual help for gender dysphoria. Or would you rather people invent drugs (when you already assume people are drugged when they are not lol) that block your personality, your true self? Don't you think that would be worse? Would that be your ideal treatment for people with a disorder you can't grasp how it feels like because you don'T have it? Or do you have actual ideas how to solve Gender Dysphoria without suppressing a persons individuality and mind?

Hell, I LOST fifty pounds after I starting testosterone and *reversed* my already existant pre-diabetic condition. I actually had the energy to move around without dysphoria and depression keeping me confined to my bed. I feel sorry that she had so many health problems but stop making them *our* problems. We've got enough!

Sam, thank you for putting the needs of vulnerable people ahead of a desire to promote or to fight against any agenda or ideology.

Uuugh, one of my friends sent me this article trying to "prove" my best friend (a sixty one year old transgendered man, soooo, pretty sure he's not "confused" ) is going to regret starting T again. Both of our eyes rolled so far back we could see the nineties.

@raintoso

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@hlichr7957

4 жыл бұрын

I DIED

@avanikolluru0904

4 жыл бұрын

Lol ily gurl, that was a good joke u made

@jadorianempire9754

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@annieguske216

4 жыл бұрын

I'm glad that your trans friend has a person like you in his life

Her complaining about having constant support pisses me off. Some people can’t get that love and support that they desperately need. It makes me angry and I’m not trans. She was complaining about how her friends were supporting her and her parents were letting her get a therapist so she could transition. This whole article is fucking gross

@madhurimapremkumar2341

3 жыл бұрын

I get that this girl had support was a good thing, but that no one was even the least bit concerned about her health and told her "hey yk don't rush into this ok?" is a bit worrying to me. I can see her issue with that.

@gabrxael

3 жыл бұрын

@@madhurimapremkumar2341 In the real world, she could’ve been closeted for years. People normally don’t ask “oh when did you decide”, because that’s rude. No one would know if she had just decided or has been in the closet for years. All they’d want to do is support her.

@madhurimapremkumar2341

3 жыл бұрын

@@gabrxael It’s their *friend*. What if she was rushing into something that endangered herself. Why would you be more concerned abt someone being absolutely sure they wanted something than abt someone not being so? Why is the first thought when your friend gets irreversible surgery not “I hope they know this is what they want.” and “What if they’re sure and me asking if they’re not is rude.” Why would you care more about rudeness than safety?

@gabrxael

3 жыл бұрын

@@madhurimapremkumar2341 Because it would be denying someone’s emotions to question who they believe they are. She TOLD them she was trans, new pronouns, new name. She was SURE about it. And so they accepted and supported her. Your first thought should NOT and NEVER BE: “What if they’re faking it”. She KNEW she was faking it, she even said how she was lying to her therapists to get their approval. They were just supporting her, and she should have realized how stupid her thought process was before making a life-altering decision.

@madhurimapremkumar2341

3 жыл бұрын

@@gabrxael Potentially denying someone’s emotions is a risk I’m willing to take when the consequences of doing this can be huge. I would react the same to any potentially dangerous action one would take, like joining the military or getting plastic surgery. Someone questioning you on whether or not you’re sure about an incredibly expensive procedure that can harm you is someone I’d rather have near me than someone who will support every decision I make blindly. I can’t see why you wouldn’t be for people being questioned about a procedure that is as expensive and health impacting as transitioning into another sex. I’m not saying the woman who is detrans is not to blame for her actions, I’m just saying blind support isn’t something that helps people at the end of the day.

"my hair is big, but you know what's bigger?" OKAY I FELL FOR THAT ONE- ....ehe, uh, what do you mean i should get my mind out of the gutter??

So she hated being a lesbian, so she wanted to become a man... can you say internalized homophobia...

“While transgenders could date their same-sex significant other while looking like the opposite sex.” Feels really icky and problematic to me, because it’s showing her lack of acknowledgement towards the validity of a transgender person’s new identity, it’s implying that they’ll never truly change their gender and that’s so rude and untrue. It’s also pretty clear from the article that she was dealing with a lot of internalised homophobia, jealousy and self-hatred that manifested into a series of uneducated decisions and eventually into what looks to be unwarranted resentment, envy and judgement towards the transgender community

@Cemhta

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, i was surprised that Sam didn't address that. She thought transgender guys were still "lesbians" or dating someone the same gender... That is like the basis to a homophobe/transphobe and she definitely got EVERYTHING wrong.

@devonmunn5728

3 жыл бұрын

@@Cemhta yeah she already had some incorrect assumptions about trans folk

@soapybagle

3 жыл бұрын

Part of it is her trying to make an excuse. “If I transition, I’ll be ‘male’ and then I can date girls and be straight.” It’s her internalized homophobia. And then after transitioning didn’t work for her- since she didn’t need to do it and thought it was basically just a costume- she’s transphobic because “I regretted it, so will you.”

@maximellow5745

3 жыл бұрын

Especially because trans people definetly can't just exist and date their partners happily. Dating as a trans guy is extremely hard. Most women just see you as lesbians or man lite and men see you as a fetish. And even if you manage to find a partner a lot of people around you see you as not a man and treat you like shit. People who believe that trans people can just casually exist with no problems are ignorant.

@devonmunn5728

3 жыл бұрын

@@maximellow5745 yeah and with this girl you can see that she viewed trans men as "lesbians taking it to the next level" which is obviously bullshit so she already had uneducated views on trans folk

this girl said the only opinion she will ever care about is her grandfather’s but then proceeded to say she didn’t want to quit testosterone cause she was afraid of what people might think 🤔🤔

@turtlepenguinXkizuna

4 жыл бұрын

mte like the entire thing is precisely about her caring way too much about what literally everybody else might think and not even stopping to think about what's actually right for her :/

@kellyellie5466

4 жыл бұрын

Literally

@Vampxiii_

4 жыл бұрын

N P H exactly

@Ice-im9zk

4 жыл бұрын

IM WEAKKKKKKKK

@laura8512

4 жыл бұрын

N P H There can be some middle ground. Instead of believing the world should cater and center around you only, make efforts to bring others in. Of course you should be true to oneself but always keeping others feelings a priority. Give understanding of others as a marker in life. If everyone is about their self this will become a lonely world.

My mom would see this video and think "oh! My child isn't ready, they're being influenced! Even the trans man said it!" And I'd be here like "ahahaaa.... yeah,I've felt this way for 5 years, completely sure in my decision"

1:40 wtf what does that even mean? I'm a "traditionally-feminine-presenting" lesbian. Am I less of a lesbian because I present myself in a traditionally feminine way? The worst part is I HAVE had people telling me that irl, ugh. Like "you don't look like a lesbian". Really?

@SamuelSamuelSamuel1

2 жыл бұрын

Bro watch the deleted scene in “But I’m a cheerleader” it’s on KZread. That’s what they think “Looking like a lesbian” is 💀

“My pet dog died so nobody can have dogs now.”

@Noah-lo9vb

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao more like "I lied to a doctor to get pills to use to kill my dog so nobody can have dogs now"

@koopicaca7882

3 жыл бұрын

No one can eat cake cause I’m on a diet

@thebreloomcheese2884

3 жыл бұрын

No one can eat at McDonald’s because I didn’t like the egg McMuffin I got two years ago

@theentirecastof_eeef

3 жыл бұрын

I convinced my mom to get me ice cream and i'm lactose intolerant, but its her fault and no one should ever eat ice cream

so she mainly just had internalised homophobia, so she's going to tell every transgender person they shouldn't transition? and she's blaming others for treating her as trans when she wasn't, when she said she thought she was?

@SupraMan38

4 жыл бұрын

that's what bothered me sm because everyone is different

@angelbrowning2509

4 жыл бұрын

@@SupraMan38 yeah, it's kinda bothering me too, so I don't blame you. But she really shouldn't tell other transgender people not to transition, because she made that choice, and come to realise she wasn't actually trans.

@gamerwes9169

4 жыл бұрын

She basically transitioned so she wouldn't feel judged for being lesbian lmao I'm done with the internet😤 who gives a shit what other people think of you no need to pretend to be someone you aren't just so people won't judge you

@masonisntonfire

4 жыл бұрын

Gamer Wes yes preach

@hollyhell3772

4 жыл бұрын

It wouldn’t be surprising also if she had to fool her therapist and make her believe she is trans for her to get hormones that quickly. For example saying that she always felt that way when that isn’t true because that’s what therapists look for when they test you

just like any major decision in anyones life, if you do it for the wrong reasons, AKA do it for other people other than for strictly yourself (and saying its because you 'wanna hold hands with your GF without being discriminated as a woman for it in public' is not the strict self reason you think it is), then yes, you are doomed to regret it.

I’m non-binary and appreciate the more recent videos Sam has done. Since I know this is an older video and I haven’t seen recent comments that demonstrate anti-fatness I just want to pop in to say that people can gain weight including trans people for a variety of reasons. And weight gain isn’t a “problem.” Sometimes weight gain can be a symptom of a illness. Just like sleeping isn’t a problem but sometimes we can understand that we’re depressed because our sleep is part of the things that we look at to evaluate depression. But other times weight gain is just bodily variation. Fat people are just as worth as thin people. Fat trans people are just as good as thin trans people.

@GlitchyOnAChair

2 жыл бұрын

10101001011001 look binary codes scary

I'm sorry- "while transgenders could date their same-sex significant other while looking like the opposite sex"? That sentence just reeks of transphobia, no matter how I look at it.

@mike-sm2oy

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@nyumyu4265

3 жыл бұрын

Lol it’s funny she thinks it’s that easy to be a trans person publicly like at all in the world we live in.

@raiza4996

3 жыл бұрын

And internalized homophobia cause she literally changed cause she didn't wanna be a girl dating a girl.

@faye7199

3 жыл бұрын

I dont think you should hate her on this. Many gay people have internalised homophobia at first. Some suffer from it forever. Sometimes you are more harsh to yourself than others. I don't care if someone has diabetes, for example, but if i had it I'd be pretty upset (please dont be offended for my analogy, i meant well by what i was saying! )

@QuikVidGuy

3 жыл бұрын

@@faye7199 the amount of lying and blatant lack of experience talking about anything trans-related makes it pretty clear this wasn't some honest mistake, but at least a partly fabricated story

I’m 66; I transitioned at 45. While, I wouldn’t recommend waiting as long as I did (it was a different time), please know that there is LOTS of time to confirm that you are making the right decision. The original militancy of trans activists was to overcome unproved reasons for obstructing transition and to validate who we are. However, thèse successes led to too little responsible and informed medical oversight and in the last 15 years as the percentage of adolescents presenting as gender dysphoric has dramatically increased, the issue is compounded by normal youthful exploration for one’s identity. In the past that self-discovery might involve how one dressed, makeup, acting out, being a Goth or Emo or even exploring same sex partners. Now, unfortunately, some have access to hormones which effects are permanent emotionally and physically. Proper medical guidance and therapy is absolutely essential. Your video was well balanced and I hope compelling for your young audience. The whole purpose of a well-monitored and gradual transition particularly with a therapist or psychologist is to allow you to explore and experience the implications of transition before it is irreversible. Stopping transition is not a failure, it is as much a success as completing transition-a journey of discovery leading to who you really are.

@sock_boy

4 жыл бұрын

Aaaa this made me so happy to read. Y'all are SO valid and just. Eeeeeeee. This just made me happy thanks ❤️

@justaspiral13

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks 🤗

@ambroseghost1351

4 жыл бұрын

I’m genderfluid I’m still trying to find who I am and this made me so happy to read the ending you are valid and thank you for sharing your story!💕💕

@mariaf8363

4 жыл бұрын

QUEEN YOU ARE AMAZING AMD VALID

@sourcandykisses5661

4 жыл бұрын

A

9:47 She was probably on estrogen blockers too, so she stopped taking T and her hormone levels ended up dangerously low

Than you for starting this important conversation. If someone starts transitioning it should be because they are truly trans. We hear success transition stories all the time, but I’m only now beginning to see the side of regret and I truly believe both are important conversations to have.

if she was dating a lesbian and she transitioned i don’t think they’d want to hold her hand anymore-

@unregisteredhypercam2142

4 жыл бұрын

It’s homosexuality not homogenderality.

@girIonIine

4 жыл бұрын

ᅳb e l l yes, but if you were attracted to strictly females

@Wallflowerz3356

4 жыл бұрын

That’s so insulting to trans men when “””””lesbians”””””” say they like trans men

@santiv4

4 жыл бұрын

ᅳb e l l that heavily implies that straight trans men are lesbians, which they clearly aren’t.

@egarcia7071

4 жыл бұрын

Their girlfriend might not have been a lesbian

“The Transgenders, that sounds like a movie”. *~Sam Collins 2019* *The Transgender Avengers*

@MykeThaOrphan0209

4 жыл бұрын

Omg yes

@neonnightskies

4 жыл бұрын

I thought more about Transformers but I guess that works too

@hollyhell3772

4 жыл бұрын

Great, now I wanna draw all the Avengers genderbent, thank you hahaha

@jskhfsdkfnhskmdkfnhjksmmdf1269

4 жыл бұрын

Ava_31 the transvengers

@potapobob3769

4 жыл бұрын

I am legit in a WhatsApp group called The Transgender Avengers 😂

I questioned my gender identity for several years and for a few years I went by a different name and pronouns. I ended up realizing I had other internalized stuff and I no longer identify as trans. And that's ok. It's okay to questions yourself, but if you choose to rush into huge medical decisions without taking the time to figure it over then that's on u. It's not transgender people's problem that this peraon didn't give themself time to ask themself questions and do some internal reflecting.

I love this man so much