I moved to Amsterdam and became lonelier

Met up with 30 strangers from the internet and learned a thing or two about community. Oh and hi youtube i'm back (:
Big s/o to Micaela / micaelaacastro

Пікірлер: 33

  • @NatalijaP
    @NatalijaP13 күн бұрын

    “If today was the last day of your life, would you want to do what you’re about to do today.” -Steve Jobs

  • @JasmineWuMeeee
    @JasmineWuMeeee5 күн бұрын

    I moved to Amsterdam last year and resonate a lot with your video!! I just recently wrote an article about how "people can feel lonely even when being surrounded by familiar people" and I also find myself so alive when connecting with strangers maybe we can connect in Amsterdam sometime.

  • @amana_bou
    @amana_bou25 күн бұрын

    Thankyou for making this video🥹 I actually live in amsterdam and have been dreaming of moving away, genuinly believing ill be so much happier. But this video made me realize that im romanticizing this other place along with a romanticized version of myself that doesn’t ever feel lonely. So maybe the place im living isn’t the problem

  • @christornes577
    @christornes57713 күн бұрын

    Were all just longing for connection made me cry 😢. U know nowadays with social media It’s like a collective of loners.

  • @gwensvani
    @gwensvaniКүн бұрын

    Such a beautiful video 🥹🧚🏻‍♀️⭐️ good luck on your journey!

  • @chesternl
    @chesternl5 күн бұрын

    You probably are not in great company and that is why you rather choose to be alone. ;) this is a typical twenny phase. In the past I could relate to this. Its the dynamic in friendships and values that is also undergoing a metamorphosis. Adam is a lovely city, but you will get to bond with the city as love and hate “het is ingewikkeld” relationship.

  • @nabila.s.h
    @nabila.s.h25 күн бұрын

    Wow.. exactly what Micael said about meeting strangers is the fun part but actually developing deeper connections is what I really struggle with. Good storytelling❣

  • @JasmijnOonk

    @JasmijnOonk

    25 күн бұрын

    Same here 🥺

  • @mr6sg
    @mr6sg4 күн бұрын

    Brussels is same or worse.Everyone comes here to find a job in the E institutions. Very competitive. No real friendships among expats. A lot of gossip, superficiality, racism and exploitation: precarious jobs same interim agencies scams. Expensive rentals and scams also. As a result, many people leave completely broken down.😢

  • @ValeriaTraverso
    @ValeriaTraverso6 күн бұрын

    Amazing ! I would like to join you , am also creative, based in Amsterdam, on my side also expat so you can imagine the loneliness feeling it is something I do have to deal with, almost daily... and a community is also what I would need ❤

  • @wiolamysza1490
    @wiolamysza149025 күн бұрын

    Such a great subject, in love with your style of story telling, cannot wait for more ❤

  • @bibijanee

    @bibijanee

    25 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much❤️!!!!

  • @charlottehoskens6400
    @charlottehoskens640023 күн бұрын

    I really relate to this. Thank you for sharing, makes me feel less alone

  • @micaelaacastro
    @micaelaacastro25 күн бұрын

    Loveee 🥹 so honored to have been part of this one ❤️

  • @smailtom5622

    @smailtom5622

    24 күн бұрын

    Aaah it was youuuuu!! I thought bibi cloned herself at first hahah

  • @Bruno_Kay
    @Bruno_Kay25 күн бұрын

    Dope! I'm a creator from Amsterdam, love the idea of creating a community around this out here! Let's gooo.

  • @checreates
    @checreates15 күн бұрын

    Bibi this was sooo beautiful!! I looove the flip from beginning to end. Lonely to community. Question: do you script your videos after you’ve lived them? Do you journal to process? Your stories have such clarity AND also the hard in between moments, so I’m curious how you build your script. Sincerely, a fellow sensitive soul who is itching to express myself on video, too.

  • @bibijanee

    @bibijanee

    12 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much!!! I do indeed script after i lived the experience, sometimes i journal but to be honest im not suuper consistent with it. Thanks sm again🥹❤️

  • @GoldenKay19
    @GoldenKay192 күн бұрын

    Very nice deep and aesthetic video 💖

  • @liza4279
    @liza42792 күн бұрын

    Beautiful video!

  • @smailtom5622
    @smailtom562224 күн бұрын

    Loved this bibi 🫶🏼 ben heel trots!!

  • @jujubesification
    @jujubesification4 күн бұрын

    Not being lonely means you have to make real connections with real people. It takes time.

  • @iamfrenchfriezineu
    @iamfrenchfriezineu2 күн бұрын

    Come to Lisbon ! ❤

  • @fmshk97
    @fmshk97Күн бұрын

    how can i miss on this meetup :( when is it happening next time?

  • @evarosevdh
    @evarosevdh25 күн бұрын

    Aah so beautiful 🥹!!!!

  • @Bamisoepje
    @Bamisoepje17 күн бұрын

    Crying from the start

  • @TanniTalks
    @TanniTalks24 күн бұрын

    I love your audio girl ! So crispy! Can you please tell me how do you that? i am using adobe premier pro and a rode wireless go ||, but they never get like yours

  • @bibijanee

    @bibijanee

    18 күн бұрын

    Omg thank you!! I used the wireless DJI (first edition) in most shots. I sometimes like to mess around with 'audio repair' in Premiere Beta, when i feel like the audio is messy

  • @ojasdasarwar5131
    @ojasdasarwar513125 күн бұрын

    yayyy bb lesgoooooooooo

  • @baa.voilaa
    @baa.voilaa2 күн бұрын

  • @sabineebeanie
    @sabineebeanie25 күн бұрын

    This is so beautiful, Bibi 🥹

  • @bibijanee

    @bibijanee

    25 күн бұрын

    Thanks Sabine🥹❤️!!