"I'm Trans For Attention" - Okay..
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Is gender dysphoria required to be considered trans? Let's talk and react to some differing opinions.
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So what are your thoughts? Is gender dysphoria required to be trans?
@AllStarrKo
4 жыл бұрын
Blaire White YES!
@sahibsingh9897
4 жыл бұрын
Blaire White obviously
@miagillispie1177
4 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah it is!
@pvncat
4 жыл бұрын
Blaire White yes lmfao
@109games6
4 жыл бұрын
Obviously
Imagine calling out Blaire on her “transphobia”, while misgendering her at the same time.
@whatisthis1958
4 жыл бұрын
ikr, if they're going to be stupid at least be consistent with their opinions
@wayfaring_stranger_
4 жыл бұрын
RIGHT!?!? Makes no damn sense.
@adrienf3242
4 жыл бұрын
lmao exactly
@natalyavalasquez9121
4 жыл бұрын
Alex Ownn that’s a joke not to mention this person looks like the knock off version of Avril Lavigne
@Moody.Morgan
4 жыл бұрын
That was so ridiculous, you could just see the sad little life behind that tweet!
Trans without gender dysphoria is like gay without same sex attraction
@ursulabuffay1481
4 жыл бұрын
💀💀💀😂😂
@cellothere5723
4 жыл бұрын
Ursula Buffay I love your username! Friends is such a good show!
@jermworm2467
4 жыл бұрын
literally
@OOTurok
4 жыл бұрын
Well... if you use the old deffinition of "gay"... There are lots of "happy" heterosexual people. 🙄
@snorgonofborkkad
4 жыл бұрын
It's like saying "off" is a television channel.
"I'm trans and I don't have dysphoria" So... you're in drag then
@jw1864
4 жыл бұрын
YES
@taydenfire3867
3 жыл бұрын
I hate people who say you don't need to have it to be trans you do there is some trans people who have less strength with their dysphoria then most people but you still need to have it
@jessemick8436
3 жыл бұрын
Honestly.
@blackharvest13
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah i was thinking of a mesh of non binary and drag.. wich isn't trans
@SiobhanS1868
3 жыл бұрын
ikr
Their logic: *A male can be gay without being attracted to males* 🤷🏻♂️
@inkajoo
3 жыл бұрын
it's literally the thinking of 6-year olds on the playground... "HEY GUYS I'M GAY/TRANS TOO!" ... they just want to feel special
@lillymoore2277
3 жыл бұрын
actually, i say a person that goes by him and said he was lesbian and another person got mad at me for just saying he's STRAIGHT.
@TeamFriendship8600
3 жыл бұрын
"Hi. I'm Shaneeqa. I was born with a girl penis. I'm trans but I don't have dysphoria. I'm also gay, but I'm only attracted to women...not that any of them are attracted to me."
@mercuricchow
3 жыл бұрын
@@TeamFriendship8600stinky
@roninlviaquez
3 жыл бұрын
Why wouldnt a man be able to be gay without being atracted to males?
Imagine claiming that you don't need dysporia to be trans, threatening a trans woman of physical violence and misgendering her and thinking you're not transphobic lmao
@immortalnub
4 жыл бұрын
I don't understand. Why are we talking about male feminists?
@sarahbarabe8470
4 жыл бұрын
Whenever I see people like the trender in the video it just makes me think "bro this is just a dude who likes dressing up in women's clothing and can't leave it at that because attaching gender identity to it is more woke and less creepy"
@serenidyx2582
4 жыл бұрын
Like a pot calling the kettle black.
@ogrehaslayers605
4 жыл бұрын
Yuri Bazzone and appropriating her gender for yourself! Gawdzuh!!!!!
@EmmersonSprocket
4 жыл бұрын
"Stop being transphobic, you man!"
I'm a lesbian woman who dresses super masculine. So much so, that people will refer to me using male pronouns. I've run into people who ask me if I'm trans and who will say things like "are you sure you're not trans?" Yes! I am not dysphoric! I am comfortable being a "manly" woman. This doesnt mean I have another gender identity. Being a masculine woman is ok. Being a feminine man is ok. Those two things do not necessarily constitute a new gender identity.
@jac5450
4 жыл бұрын
Yesssss! When did that become a thing? Even Boy George is confused and they came for HIM.
@Aristogeiton367
4 жыл бұрын
I feel you! I wish I would've known sooner that it's ok to be an androgynous girl. I felt awkward for years, thinking there must be something wrong with me for dressing differently. Now I label myself as a tomboy/androgynous lesbian and I feel way better. Masc girls barely get any representation it sucks.
@kotabenjamin453
4 жыл бұрын
Preach girl. I personally don't really believe in the nonbinary (nothing against people who do) for that very reason. A masculine female isn't any less of a woman, just as a feminine male isn't any less of a man.
@pythosdegothos6181
4 жыл бұрын
I am the hetero male version of yourself. YES, I really dislike how people insist you must be trans in denial, (usually stated by trans people) based on how one dresses, looks, and or acts.
@fluffygreysocks6703
4 жыл бұрын
THIS. I’m lesbian as well and while I don’t stray too far on either side of the femme/butch scale, I’m usually into more “manly” women, and I feel like the dating pool is slowly dwindling b/c all of them are identifying as trans now. I’m sure some of them are and they don’t mean any harm but... it kinda sucks.
My hot take: Saying your trans and never experienced dysphoria is like saying I’m gay but I’ve never liked the same gender. Which if someone said that they’re gay and never have liked the gender would get lots of hate & backlash lol.
@arieljean5173
2 жыл бұрын
Why not though? You can call yourself whatever you want. Whether others perceive you that way is another story.
@trixicenby999
2 жыл бұрын
Gender dysphoria is having to do with Body, so your implying that people can't be trans if they don't feel wrong in their body?
@Chyna55.5
2 жыл бұрын
@@trixicenby999 Yes. we are implying that.
@trixicenby999
2 жыл бұрын
@@Chyna55.5 So basically you don't think non binary is a thing?
@Chyna55.5
2 жыл бұрын
@@trixicenby999 never said that. trans and non binary aren't the same, thats all dont be stupid
It's painfully obvious these people hate you because you're infinitely more attractive. It's really as simple as that
@bellaxxi4116
2 жыл бұрын
And that is 100% a fact. Jealousy is dangerous
@Randa959
2 жыл бұрын
Agree! Blaire is gorgeous and people honestly hate others for being attractive...its disgusting.
@SquareNoggin
2 жыл бұрын
It's a big part of it; but she's also based af and doesn't get swayed by peer pressure at all. Seems like a lot of people in the "gender" world really resent individuals who don't cave to peer pressure and shaming - the fact that Blair is also super hot is like the icing on the cake.
@CrankyBarista
2 жыл бұрын
Thats half of it... I think it goes beyond looks, but also jealously of the fact she has self worth and esteem. Which clearly, these haters are lacking.
@thelthrythquezada8397
2 жыл бұрын
Imagine having a kid and thinking you are raising them right (respectful, polite, civil) only for them to show their butt on the internet ONLY because that person is "prettier". I never understood teasing, or bullying someone for that reason (for any reason) I would lay into my kids rear hard!
Being trans without dysphoria is like saying “I have anxiety but I’m never anxious”
@dannysilva3210
4 жыл бұрын
@Madeleine L Yea
@hazel3390
4 жыл бұрын
"i don't have anxiety i just like to shake and cry on command (:"
@reply4732
4 жыл бұрын
Somebody in the comments said "It's like saying 'you don't need to be attracted to women to be lesbian'"
@pajamas_the_emo
4 жыл бұрын
oh my god your profile pic gives me life
@username9885
4 жыл бұрын
Periodt
“You don’t need gender dysphoria to be trans.” is like saying, “You don’t need to have a problem with your insulin to be diabetic.”
@amyclements995
4 жыл бұрын
Or "you don't have to be overweight to be obese"
@mikeallevesque18
4 жыл бұрын
Someone who says "you don't need dysphoria to be trans" are the same kind of folks on tumblr who are like "you don't need trauma to have DID". 0.0
@beefortebrea9386
4 жыл бұрын
@@mikeallevesque18 or "you don't need trauma to have ptsd"
@supereggtartersauce6464
4 жыл бұрын
That’s a good analogy
@OliverStClair-wc8tq
4 жыл бұрын
Super egg Tarter sauce Thank you
You can be a masculine woman without being a man. You can be a feminine man without being a woman. Gender expression isn't the same thing as gender identity, welcome to 7th grade Health class
@Chelbasaur
3 жыл бұрын
Do they really teach that in health class now?
@susiem.2068
3 жыл бұрын
@@Chelbasaur Yes, in some places
@leeriches8841
2 жыл бұрын
It was called being a tomboy when I was younger. Sporty Spice was like the poster girl of tomboy fashion and culture.
@alabama.worley
Жыл бұрын
@@leeriches8841It's literally personality/temperament. The literature has been clear on this for decades (at least).
Your analogy of having depression and not being sad was so SPOT ON. That was the perfect most simplistic way to put it.
@Holistic-Hallucinations
2 жыл бұрын
Actually, hilariously enough, you can have depression without being sad. Depression can affect some people with anger only, as it is one of the many things it causes. You can have ADHD without being hyper too, by having a massive daydreaming problem and attention issues
@christinepan.1149
2 жыл бұрын
I've been diagnosed actually, it's not exactly being sad all the time, it's mostly feeling alone and unfulfilled without necessarily meaning that you are alone. Like for me at least I am surrounded by some wonderful people in my life but once I get home my motivation to do even the most simple tasks is lost like I'm making a huge effort to even get myself to study for thirty minutes, I oftentimes don't take care of my body when I don't have to go outdoors and people always tell me to text them but I don't even want to go on my Instagram feed for two minutes. So basically I'm always at home feeling like doing nothing although knowing that I have to keep up with everything for my own well being. Also my sleep schedule is terrible because I experience sleep paralysis multiple times a night.
@trixicenby999
2 жыл бұрын
Depression isn't simply sad.
@bbbb8285
2 жыл бұрын
I have had depression and a better way to describe it would be apathy.
@DJ-cm8xj
7 ай бұрын
Guys while you make a valid point, the analogy still made sense imo. Perhaps using anxiety in this context is better… but the point is the same
There is a difference between cross-dressing and being trans. A big difference.
@kiko485
4 жыл бұрын
Richard George I mean, this sort of mindset is coming from the very same brainlets who say thing like “clothes don’t have a gender” so I’m not surprised tbh. 🤷🏽♀️ This is why we need people like Blaire, Rose of Dawn, and Arielle Scarcella.
@richardgeorge9226
4 жыл бұрын
@@kiko485 I agree entirely, but the media loves their shock factor. The media is going to tend to put the crazy SJW "autismgender, genderflux, nonbinary" people in the spotlight, not Blaire.
@manta-ray1980
4 жыл бұрын
I'm female and I wear male clothes. They're just incredibly more comfy.
@pathetic2399
4 жыл бұрын
A difference that a lot of transgender people and allies for some reason fail to differentiate, especially if the cross dresser is male.
@pathetic2399
4 жыл бұрын
@@manta-ray1980 Women being accused of being trans for “cross dressing” is rare anyway because women wearing male clothes isn’t frowned upon nor is it ground breaking in western society. Women do it all the time. Now if you’re a guy wearing a dress or something, that’s another story. Will probably be called gay, or beat up, or have actual LGBT people trying to force an identity on you.
People who threaten to hurt someone over having a different opinion scares me.
@numberonebinguslover
4 жыл бұрын
I agree, Ned.
@sagisdoodleverse9696
4 жыл бұрын
Lol my dad says I'm better off dead if i was gay. 🤷🏻♀️
@interestingusername2633
4 жыл бұрын
Sagi's Doodleverse bruh wha
@isthataspider7410
4 жыл бұрын
I know people like this in person 👀
@user-gz7kt7vf1g
4 жыл бұрын
Ned Flanders same like it’s just an opinion not that deep 💀
I can't imagine how frustrating this must be for trans people. I am fem af, but identify as androgynous with no plans of altering my gender, and people get MAD at me for it! I am constantly told I have internalized transphobia
@HkFinn83
3 жыл бұрын
You’re hanging out with the wrong people
@lh2435
3 жыл бұрын
Such idiots......Just do you.
@gingeranagram2467
3 жыл бұрын
Because you're not assimilating to the mob. If you're confident in yourself to do your thing, that makes you a threat because you think for yourself.
@leeriches8841
2 жыл бұрын
In what way do you identify as androgynous? Just curious as when I was born in the 80s, androgynous fashion was all the rage and nobody was telling anyone wearing it that they need to change their sex. I guess my style could be labelled androgynous too as I just wear simple plain clothes that either men or women could wear, I'm boring like that.
@kelseykjarsgaard5774
2 жыл бұрын
Wtf any that even mean
I love that you're respectful to all that watch! 💕 I'm not LGBTQ nor Trans, I'm just a straight Catholic girl. Even so- You still respect my beliefs without making me feel bad. You're my favorite creator! 💕
@bellaf.799
2 жыл бұрын
I also am a straight Catholic girl and I love Blaire! Even knowing she’s “trans”, She’s a woman, I accept her as a woman, and I wouldn’t think twice about it or he at all uncomfortable seeing her in the ladies room.
@diegojaviersj
2 жыл бұрын
I love how much support she gets
@greenbeans9748
2 жыл бұрын
I'm Catholic too, but I'm part of the LGBT community. You're allowed to believe whatever you want. 😄 It's okay if we don't support the same thing and if we all did, this world would be very boring. That being said, I like Blaire a lot too! I like how she's not afraid to be assertive, values her own opinions without knocking others down, and can laugh off people who are hostile instead of getting scared of them. I wish I had that much confidence!
Blair doesn’t like trenders but she still uses their “trans” pronouns. She’s such a an icon
@AlexCruz-fm6fe
4 жыл бұрын
Lmao. Same~ she is such a queen. Though, I must admit. There is only one time I didn't refer to them as their preferred pronounce. And it's because he was tricked into going transitioning and I don't condone enabling their delusions. (I am referring to Chris Chan also, him trying to get into LBGT and going after Lesbian coochie is what sets me off)
@fredders1
4 жыл бұрын
AshShuRee using people's preferred pronouns doesn't make you an icon, it makes you a decent person. respect people's pronouns whether you agree with them or not
@LaylaIsDreaming
4 жыл бұрын
@@fredders1 Respect must be earned
@katilm81600
4 жыл бұрын
Yes we love a consistent queen 💗
@bomanf2196
4 жыл бұрын
i think it’s because she can get demonetized for misgendering someone, she said it in the past in a video about jessica yaniv
I love how these people act like Blaire is invalidating trans people but they’re the ones suggesting that throwing on a wig and lipstick makes them a woman and making the entire journey of actual trans people seem like a joke..
@EmoPunkgirl144
4 жыл бұрын
Not only that but as a woman it's kind of offensive that they think you need to have hair and makeup like that to be a woman. There is so much more then just how you look and its very annoying to see these people act like this.
@bedtimeat8
4 жыл бұрын
Dude no, lets not police people and demand that they go through invasive and expensive surgeries to live as the gender they want.
@mattyfromhell
4 жыл бұрын
bedtimeat8 It’s not policing people, and nobody’s saying they can’t live how they want, but it doesn’t make them the other gender. You guys act like saying “you’re not trans” means “you’re not a valid person with valid feelings and experiences and you can’t live how you want or express yourself how you want”. No. It means you’re not the medical, scientific, factual definition of what being transgender and having actual gender dysphoria is.
@zeynepgonen1011
4 жыл бұрын
Ok boomer
@mattyfromhell
4 жыл бұрын
Eliza Meth Clever, are you 11? Just sharing facts :) Go read a book.
BLAIREE YOU LOOK SO CUTE YOU LOOK LIKE SNOW WHITE I CANT GET OVER THIS SOFT GIRL LOOK
@allyypatraaa2329
3 жыл бұрын
she looks like dorothy from wizard of oz to me she's so pretty
@thatprocrastinatingwriter6995
3 жыл бұрын
Hello my name is Svenya. I like growing huge gardens, and hate going outside.
@sincerelyjessie1921
3 жыл бұрын
Me too! shes an idol of mine. I dont usually give a fuck about celebrities but i love how she carries herself. Shes smart with a very sharp, purposeful anger about her. i love it !♡♡
@niecedspain3568
3 жыл бұрын
She did have more than one surgery.
@insomosisytmusicandsports4393
2 жыл бұрын
She's fucking beautiful and intelligent. Very sexy
That’s like saying I don’t medically have anxiety I just identify as having anxiety. Say what?
@willma2625
3 жыл бұрын
Not really... Because everyone can be anxious and experience anxiety. So you could absolutely say you have anxiety, without having an anxiety disorder.
@FakeVenatus
2 жыл бұрын
@@willma2625 It’s pretty obvious in this situation they’re referring to the people identifying with the medical disorder.
@wholethedogsout880
Жыл бұрын
@@willma2625 its you missing the point for me
“I could take her out from a distance” is NOT referring to milkshakes.
@Linuciukas1992
4 жыл бұрын
TravelingSolo that’s what I was thinking 😬😬😬😬😬 she taking her out with a milkshake 😭😭😭🤯🤯
@bananasrock42
4 жыл бұрын
Maybe they were planing on throwing a millshake at her from a car window.
@icemachine79
4 жыл бұрын
It's a good setup for a joke about creamy substances and a certain deadly virus that isn't SARS-CoV-2.
@Ch3lRae
4 жыл бұрын
TravelingSolo 😭😭😭😭😭💀
@WafflingWillow
4 жыл бұрын
Must be a lot of acid in that milkshake if she(?) really plans on "erasing" Blaire 🙄
I’m a vegan, I eat meat. We exist. Is all I’m hearing
@FlorenceIsOnFire
4 жыл бұрын
K E HAHAHA.
@RamaNasikkar
4 жыл бұрын
I'm a virgin, I have sex every day. Yes, we exist.
@CurbHopper111
4 жыл бұрын
Technically that could be accurate if the meat is free. If either nobody bought it and it was donated by a grocery to a food bank, or for example, a co-worker bought it, didn't like it and offered it to others before throwing it away. Vegan is more about what you purchase and support than what you put in your mouth, and goes beyond just food. Then there's a "plant based diet," which is all about the food and what you eat. The two often overlap since most vegans are plant based, but they're not the same thing. Especially considering that many plant based eaters are not vegan. Actually I just now remembered a documentary on a group of dumpster divers in NY and a few of them were vegan but will eat whatever they find. A better example would be, "I'm vegan, but I purchase meat."
@Hoebafett
4 жыл бұрын
Holly Ball ok?
@CurbHopper111
4 жыл бұрын
@@alyssaa1328 If someone doesn't contribute to animal suffering but has limited options (or even doesn't) and gets their food from a food bank or a dumpster, then I'm not going to turn them away and tell them they can't label themselves what they want or follow a certain philosophy, especially when they work so hard to follow that philosophy and avoid contributing to animal suffering. Which is what veganism was to me. A philosophy and a practice of that philosophy, not a diet. A plant based diet is just a result of veganism. I also don't consider any being to be food, from a moral stance. But biologically speaking flesh does act as food and has done so for humans for a very long time. Since near the beginning of human evolution humans began eating flesh and started producing a special stomach acid to digest it and absorb the nutrients. So yes, flesh as food is an option for us since humans are omnivores. Biology and facts doesn't care about anyone's morals, and not everyone has the luxury of turning away free food. My definition of veganism was developed many years ago before it became popular and the crazies took over the vegan internet space. Not that I'm complaining that it's popular now. The pros far outweigh the cons and this is what we always wanted. But in the past veganism was, first and foremost, about the animals and what we can do to end their suffering, or at least not contribute to it ourselves. When it did come to the people it was a more pleasant and open minded community. We didn't shame someone because their practice or interpretation of the philosophy didn't look exactly like ours. Now it seems to be more about the people rather than the animals, including gatekeeping and drama surrounding around who's vegan and who's not. Not my cup of tea and is partly why I distanced myself from the label. I just hope the concept is able to forge ahead despite the nonsense drama.
All of the transexual people that I’ve met have just wanted to live their life in peace and pass, these people don’t want to live in peace they want everyone to cater to them, they want to be spectacles for public conversations.
@e.starling141
Жыл бұрын
This is so valid!
“I’m trans for attention and I don’t have dysphoria” Then your not actually transgender
It's like saying "you don't need to be attracted to women to be lesbian"
@andie5031
4 жыл бұрын
Those people are out there 🤢😷
@jessicagoel4532
4 жыл бұрын
Have you been on SJW twitter lately? “Bi lesbians” are the hip new thing 😭
@alexialioness
4 жыл бұрын
You can't be non-binary and be lesbian. Non-binary is no gender and lesbian is a girl who likes girls. How does that make sense? If you are lesbian you are a girl. Idk I don't get it and I'm Lesbian.
@outtathepantry
4 жыл бұрын
@@jessicagoel4532 What? How do people do that though???
@arthurturp9008
4 жыл бұрын
Ppl do it's called political lesbianism
Dysphoria isn't just a prerequisite to be trans, it's literally the cause of being trans itself
@Clara-zr7bt
4 жыл бұрын
Natatatatatat Like if you have say alzheimers and u take alzheimers meds, thats okay. In fact, its good. However if someone who doesnt have alzheimers takes alzheimers meds, they will give themselves heart conditions, etc. Being trans is the same way because transitioning is how you treat dysphoria. If you transition without dysphoria you will literally give yourself dysphoria.
@ronrolfsen3977
4 жыл бұрын
@Grayson Land Sure but different causes can result in the same effect. Just because everyone with gender dysphoria is trans, does not automatically mean that everyone who is trans has gender dysphoria.
@dylancole1910
4 жыл бұрын
Another reason that transitioning is a big deal is that Disphoria isn't just a symptom of being transexual, it can be a symptom of many mental, physical, and psychological disorders. People need to be evaluated for things like dysmorphia first , eating disorders, untapped trauma, DID, BPD, and many other things that can cause gender or body dysphoria. This is why establishing that Gender dysphoria is a necessary symptom for being trans, people are either making mistakes they know they might regret, or they have that one disorder where they want to believe they have mental and physical disorders for attention or validity of self and it's sad and scary.
@ronrolfsen3977
4 жыл бұрын
@@Clara-zr7bt Actually cholinesterase inhibitors for example (medication used for Alzheimer's) has other uses. It's not that uncommon for medication to have multiple applications. So why could transition not be a treatment for other uses? Playing devils advocate here b.t.w. Just following along with your analogy.
@MissMolly3377
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
Gender fluid sounds a lot like the old term of "cross dressing"
@trixicenby999
2 жыл бұрын
But it isn't. Cross dressers don't identity as another gender
I personally know a man who actually did begin to transform into a woman. Then stopped and wanted to go back. And admitted openly to anyone that would listen that he had done it for attention. Now I’m not saying he is the majority but they does exist and it’s not transphobic to say that.
@user-ie7tz1qe2d
Жыл бұрын
he is really responsible and brave. all the lucks to him ❤
"Do you need gender dysphoria to be trans?" Yes. The answer is yes. Otherwise, you just like crossdressing. There's nothing wrong with that, but they're not the same thing. Not even close.
@andie5031
4 жыл бұрын
Yes omg. I'm a female who cross dresses and due to folks like this I was straight up confused about if I was trans. I'm not because I don't have body dysphoria....I just like a style of clothing!
@BelieveMontana
4 жыл бұрын
@@andie5031 bless you and your levelheadedness
@stevencollins7851
4 жыл бұрын
@@andie5031 Right? I have a friend who isn't trans at all, but she prefers dressing male most of the time. There you go. I, on the other hand, am trans as *hell* but I don't have the guts to dress female a whole lot yet. Gotta let estrogen do more work first.
@eaglebearer
4 жыл бұрын
It's kinda like someone arguing that they're a schizophrenic even without hearing voices or seeing delusions. They just identity just because.
@erikascencen
4 жыл бұрын
Her bullyin vid got leaked too gounlimited.to/embed-u54nshwyibr7.htmlgounlimited.to/embed-u54nshwyibr7.html
Threatening to drive to a woman's house and kill her is un-ladylike.
@dextrician5932
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah whats happened to assassination by poison, much more refined if you ask me.
@kopykat6843
4 жыл бұрын
@@dextrician5932 Real women still do that lol. Trenders didnt get the manual.
@nothanks4469
4 жыл бұрын
Not very gentlemanly, either, lol. This person is obviously disturbed.
@sumaiyakhan3498
4 жыл бұрын
Facts aha 😂
@boo5868
4 жыл бұрын
*not very humanly*
How TF can you flick between male and female "Even during the day?" Like I'm a man, and I really like going in to the Body Shop and smelling all the nice smelling things, and trying all the skin creams and shit, even though I NEVER buy or wear skin cream etc. I just like doing it now and then. Now that's a stereotypically female thing to do. Does this mean I'm non-binary?
@TheBelovedPanda
4 жыл бұрын
Enjoying something traditionally seen as fem or masc occasionally is not genderfluid. As someone who does Identify with genderfluidity but not necessarily considering myself trans, I'll try to explain it as clearly as I can. So, I have days where I am comfortable in my birth gender and I am ok with being called by my birth name and the associated pronouns. But there are some days where I can hardly look at myself in the mirror when changing because I can't stand to see the parts of myself that are associated with my birth gender. Some days it makes me incredibly uncomfortable to hear people use feminine pronouns and terms in reference to me, because on that day, I might be more masculine leaning. Some days I wish I had a packer and a binder, while others I am very much comfortable and happy with my body. Basically, my dysphoria and internal thoughts on my gender often shift, usually gradually, sometimes suddenly. I hope this explanation was clear enough.
@screamtoasigh9984
3 жыл бұрын
B9y, It seems like you just like scents. 🤷🏼 Scents and lotions are are from of self care (DBT) they are relaxing. They (scents) also are an important part of memory formation and recall, and have links to sexual attraction - (search for "pumpkin smell sexual"). There is actually erectile tissue in the nose (some people actually sneeze when they orgasm - things you learn from reading rom-com books 😂). I don't get why it'd be an issue tbh.
@mikimartinez9178
3 жыл бұрын
I mean, scents are not limited to women and there are even jobs (with men) whose only job is to smell stuff, forgot the name but smt with perfume
@iBeFloe
3 жыл бұрын
That’s what I will never understand about “non binary” / “gender fluid”. I just don’t believe you can “feel” you can flip like that. Especially doesn’t help their case when all they’re doing is being a feminine stereotype. That’s just clothes. Blaire said it herself that she’ll wear sweats & whatever too, not just the clothes we see her wear.
@aprilrae6551
3 жыл бұрын
You probably a feminine male. Nothing wrong with that. There are also masculine females.
"I was assigned male at birth" is such a weird sentence to me.
@ehrichan6726
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I totally agree with it cause it’s feels like whenever someone uses that term it feels like a ten years step back. And I get called “transphobic” by trans idiots whenever I refers MYSELF as mtf. So annoying ,-,
@leeriches8841
2 жыл бұрын
Should be 'I was CONFIRMED male at birth.' Doctors ain't 'assigning' anything at birth, it isn't a bloody multiple choice question 😂
@CrazyBlogMoments
Жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing when I heard that person say that sentence.
@diarmuidkuhle8181
Жыл бұрын
@@CrazyBlogMoments It's a term appropriated from intersex people. The ONLY time that anyone is EVER 'assigned' a sex is if the infant is visibly intersex (ambiguous genitalia, for instance) and there's doubt as to what the raise the child as. Too often such an assignment included medically unnecessary 'corrective' surgeries which could ruin that person's sexual function for life, never mind be disastrous in the case of the intersex person developing with an identity opposite of the sex assigned. It's offensive as well as simply factually incorrect for others to claim this term.
@CrazyBlogMoments
Жыл бұрын
@@diarmuidkuhle8181 I agree with your thoughts. Thank you for replying.
why does every person who hates blaire always... look.... like that...
@Laurap01
4 жыл бұрын
Jenna Raut Jealousy
@zxyatiywariii8
4 жыл бұрын
@@Laurap01 Absolutely. That's the only explanation.
@minuishaq631
4 жыл бұрын
Envy
@genno3714
4 жыл бұрын
I have noticed that too.
@DarthFurie
4 жыл бұрын
Because they're jealous as hell and it makes them sick that Blaire transitioned so well
If someone likes dressing like the opposite sex but isn't dysphoric, why don't they just call themselves cross dressers? Whatever happened to that?! There's nothing wrong with saying "I'm a cross dresser"...if being lgbt is no longer taboo than why isn't cross dressing?!
@helpme2719
4 жыл бұрын
If I'm not mistaken, the second person featured in the video used to call themselves a crossdresser.
@stefaniefanny9949
4 жыл бұрын
Crossdreser isn't woke enough.
@wonderingmind8547
4 жыл бұрын
Oh dear Drink Your Nail Polish... Have you not heard? By transtrender rules the umbrella for trans has expanded and now they are saying genderfluid, crossdressers, drag queens, and femboys are all trangenders. Going so far as to call femboys transphobic because they say they aren't trans. This is our world now, constantly being told by this group or another what we are by their own standards. I don't wanna fit inside a box!! Can't I be a bio female who likes pastels and kickboxing?!😭😭
@44mamst
4 жыл бұрын
DragQueens
@beefortebrea9386
4 жыл бұрын
@Tonya Antony cross dressers are drag kings/queens and they've absolutely gone beyond just being a fetish.
As someone who has bad dysphoria I hate when people say u don’t need it to be trans!!
@silver4831
Жыл бұрын
It's because they aren't trans and think being LGBT is somehow special.
Sometimes I want to do my hair nice, put on makeup and wear a dress. Sometimes I wear pants. By this crazy persons definition; I am trans.
This person: doesn't respect Blair's pronouns Also this person: Blair is transphobic!!!1!
@comandlikes
4 жыл бұрын
Katherine Byers seeing blair you gonna reach so hard to call her a he !!
@xxflameaminoxx
4 жыл бұрын
WHILE Blair respects THERE dysphoria!
@andreisdead2830
4 жыл бұрын
Brittany D Well i mean, she won’t respect them but she’ll use they/them pronouns for them, rather than purposefully calling them other pronouns
@ItalianValentine
4 жыл бұрын
Brittany D At least she'll use they/them pronouns most of time instead of acting childish like the other person was.
@frankycool45
4 жыл бұрын
You can disrespect someone and still hold an opinion about them .. That's usually why you don't respect them ... It's childish but it's how most people act at some point or another ...
i don’t understand how this could possibly be a controversial idea. why would you put so much money, pain, and effort into changing your entire body and gender identity if you weren’t experiencing a motivator like gender dysphoria? it explains why so many non-dysphoric trans people don’t even try to pass-they don’t want to be seen as the gender they call themselves. it’s so bizarre that one end of the trans community suffers to be who they truly feel they are, while the other contorts their natural identity to be seen as unusual.
@WolfJulia2001
4 жыл бұрын
Because all these posers want to jump in the "trend"
@dutchik5107
4 жыл бұрын
And danger. Plenty of people spend a lot of money and pain in like tattoos, piercings and other body mods. But like identity?nah. Trans isn't self expression like that.
@sarahg2653
4 жыл бұрын
Well-said!
@r-platt
4 жыл бұрын
So if transvestites aren't changing anything except gender expression on a temporary basis, are they transgender?
@transgoddess31
4 жыл бұрын
To be special
yes!! Thanks you Blaire!! i am 40 yo gay man and i like to crossdressing when i am going to clubbing and i do a good job crossdressing that people think i am trans but i do correcting all the time because i dont have dysphoria. i have found a lot of crossdressers they do transition because they want the attention but not because they have dysphoria. Thank you Blaire !
"To deny it is... to be in denial". I just love Blaire so much.
Isn’t trans without gender dysphoria just cross-dressing?
@ColorfulBallerina
4 жыл бұрын
That's what I thought....
@sophiatroanska1432
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. It’s simply not conforming to gender norms. It’s gender EXPRESSION. Not identity. I could dress butch and still be a woman.
@frankycool45
4 жыл бұрын
Gender Variance
@frankycool45
4 жыл бұрын
@Scoobi Hu That's getting off on your own gender ( which btw , wouldn't trans women prefer themselves as women in a sexual context or is that a problematic perspective ? )
@frankycool45
4 жыл бұрын
@Scoobi Hu either way , where does it come in with this comment thread ? "Usually found in males" is that part really needed or is that just a way to pin something onto the general male population ?
I'm a millionaire .. I just don't have the money.
@aa.4639
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@audreyreid3969
4 жыл бұрын
Playbackjunkie you need more likes on this lmao
@immortalnub
4 жыл бұрын
@@geminislytherin949 That one is actually possible.
@misschris325
4 жыл бұрын
Yet;)
@OliverStClair-wc8tq
4 жыл бұрын
I wish I was the exact opposite of this statement...
Blaire is actually such an intelligent woman, I absolutely love all your videos
I love how you break everything down. I am a heterosexual female. But I am watching your videos to help learn about others because i am ignorant right now on the subject because I have never opened myself up to it. Love you Blaire!
I don’t understand humans.
@theodaytona1382
4 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Pople same jere
@unknown_Fe
4 жыл бұрын
Same
@vivomran
4 жыл бұрын
Reindeers are better.
@miagillispie1177
4 жыл бұрын
Girl me neither
@PenguinBooks365
4 жыл бұрын
This!
I love Blaire. She simply makes sense. I don’t understand how she is controversial.
@lilak7181
4 жыл бұрын
Katie J I think 90% of the reason why Blaire is considered “controversial” by the people who think so is because she’s openly right wing/republican
@maevecostello710
4 жыл бұрын
I love her too she’s awesome
@moonlessmoogle
4 жыл бұрын
PC culture sadly. Full of nonsense and easily offended people.
@yoda105
4 жыл бұрын
@@lilak7181 honestly like lmao, you don't have to agree wit someone's every single opinion to like em. Stan blaire😌
@suitdoggy4707
4 жыл бұрын
Honestly half of them don’t watch her and just follow rumors or shit someone else has told them about her.
‘Being bald without having hair’ 😂☠️ I’ve been bingeing your channel ALL. DAMN. DAY. And I am loving everything. I feel called out when you look right at me and say ‘I know this isn’t your first video, I know you’re going to watch a few more’.
Moral of the story, don’t say you’re transgender/transexual if you’re only a cross dresser. You can’t biologically be a transvestite.
Aren’t these the same people that claim makeup/clothing have no gender? So why all of a sudden does changing your clothing and putting makeup on make you a totally different gender/trans? Make it make sense.
@haydenjones5861
4 жыл бұрын
I mean makeup really doesn’t have a gender because it’s an art form to many. But surely, clothing is categorized by gender lol.
@fredericabernkastel8354
4 жыл бұрын
@@haydenjones5861 in that sense women shouldn't be allowed to wear trousers. Or is a cis girl suddenly a man for wearing jeans? I mean, apparently clothes have a gender..
@mackaylacook148
4 жыл бұрын
@@fredericabernkastel8354 clothing definitely doesn't have a gender but i think when people say it's put in different gender/sex categories it's because of how the clothes are tailored women and teen girl clothing are tailored to the female body and men and teen boy clothing are tailored to the male body, the clothing that isn't categorised in both would be unisex
@paytonmcdaniel5453
4 жыл бұрын
Sophie Meow How is a dress obviously for women when men are the ones with hanging genitals. Seems like it would be more comfortable for men.
@jupitergreen8421
4 жыл бұрын
Emily Beckett THANK YOU
As a trans woman I’ve been saying these things for years, and I get hate for it.. thank you Blaire.
@Cleanwhitebeige95
4 жыл бұрын
Luna M you are stunning btw
@TheCheeselover411
4 жыл бұрын
Luna M off topic but you are so stunning
@MultiBeerme
4 жыл бұрын
I remember in a time before marriage equality, making complaints about the LGBT community ignoring anything that had to do with trans people and was preaching the T should be dropped from the acronym. Mostly on the grounds that orientation and gender are two totally different concepts. However, once same sex couples were able to get married, all of a sudden trans people mattered, like the LGBT conglomerate needed a reason to continue existing. Though it's funny how TERFs started preaching the same thing a decade later but for a bigoted reason.
@Cjiscj777
4 жыл бұрын
Same here, Luna!!! And it looks like we gotta keep saying it. 🙄 You have a wonderful day, okay? Much love to you and yours. ❤️
@irene.5830
4 жыл бұрын
Luna M okay but you’re drop dead gorgeous 🥺
I'm non-binary, and I have dysphoria. There are different levels of dysphoria, but you shouldn't transition if you don't have dysphoria
@cradica
6 ай бұрын
I see what you mean, I am a cis male but sometimes I feel dysforia when people tell me "you can't do this, you're a guy"
My mother told me about transgender people when I was very young. She had a friend who had had the surgery. It was no big deal in my house. It was just a given that sometimes something happens and people are born into the wrong body. It was a very easy way for five year old me to understand things. I’m gen x btw. In the 1990s I learned about the Kinsey scale in psychology class. That scale wasn’t new then and it certainly isn’t now. I also learned that if the wrong hormone is released or the right one isn’t released during the gestational stage in which genitals are formed that it can result in any number of things happening one of these things is that babies who are genetically male but at the stage of gestation where genitals are formed the testosterone is disrupted then that baby would be born as genetically male but anatomically female or the opposite in the case of a person who is anatomically male but genetically female. That idiot who threatened you is a menace.
I'm a drug addict but haven't used any drugs in my entire life...
@chrism6018
4 жыл бұрын
This is deep
@BlueDauntless
4 жыл бұрын
Make it make sense!
@noodle2269
4 жыл бұрын
ɮօʊռсє օռ ժᎥռցʊร and I hope you don’t actually think they’re being serious
@ginelleiammarino7195
4 жыл бұрын
Lie's Exposed TRUTH Restored I’m an Atheist but I pray to Jesus. I’m vegan but I eat meat. I’m a virgin but I have sex.
@PandaMan02
4 жыл бұрын
it is very possible to be a drug addict without using drugs your whole life, far more possible than really being trans without being dysphoric. wanting to be a dragqueen doesn't make you trans.
I think they’re getting transgender and “cross dressing” mixed up
@noct8225
4 жыл бұрын
and gender expression 😑
@hex9077
4 жыл бұрын
Izzy what
@robinthrush9672
4 жыл бұрын
Eddie Izzard calls himself trans now just because he's a transvestite.
@solanaseraphina
4 жыл бұрын
I'm a cis-straight gal but I'mma just say... The concept of gender fluidity and non-binary gender is sooooooo dumb
firstly- her makeup looks so good in this video! ahh second, people forget dysphoria can be felt in different ways for ppl. when i was younger my dysphoria was extremely crippling, but now that i’m older and know how to manage my mental state and pass to how i’m comfortable, it eases me most of the time. as long as you’re uncomfortable with your assigned gender, you don’t have to constantly feel like u wanna kys over it like how a lot of ppl think dysphoria is
I'm asexual and I understand so much about how all these people changing definitions of my sexuality so they can fit into that bubble. Like for the longest time I thought being asexual was having the lack of desire for sex and now it's just about the "attraction" and having "low libido" doesn't make you asexual and it's really frustrating that i feel like I'm being pushed out of the asexual umbrella in a way.
@mercuricchow
3 жыл бұрын
,,Hi, I'm asexual, I'm sexually attracted people."
@trixicenby999
2 жыл бұрын
If you feel like your asexual and don't feel need to do the act nor want you, then identify as asexual:). It's a big spectrum afterall
@amyrat151
Жыл бұрын
I've read many people say shit like, "I am in a romantic relationship, we have sex, I initiate sex at least half the time. I also watch porn regularly and masturbate. I'm asexual." So many losers out there are so desperate to be some kind of label. Sadly, the LGBT+ community is suffering the most from these assholes who want to be "opperical." JLongbone came up with that word.
@dawnriddler
Жыл бұрын
This also! I thought asexual meant having no desire to have sex whatsoever. But now it means not experiencing sexual attraction but you can still enjoy sex. And they are doing this with every sexuality now. Things used to have strict definitions, but now everything is an umbrella term and fluid.
@AllyRoseGarden
6 ай бұрын
I had low libido too
Blaire could sneeze and at least 12 people would be offended
@neptunethecat1884
4 жыл бұрын
How dare she sneeze 😒, she's so arggggggggg
@takke9830
4 жыл бұрын
This comment just proves that you have no idea about what the other side is like but it surely must be compfy in your little echo chamber.
@user-hanging-at-the-hanged-man
4 жыл бұрын
Takke Okay good for you sir/ma’am/pal. ☺️
@takke9830
4 жыл бұрын
@@user-hanging-at-the-hanged-man I'm surely enjoying myself in open discourse.
@Materva-hv6sz
4 жыл бұрын
well at a time when a sneeze can put you on a ventilator thats understadable
Imagine it. All these men dressed as women saying they are trans haven't done 10% of the work Blaire has done to become a woman, yet have the balls (hehe) to claim Blaire, who actually looks like a woman, is doing it for attention. The difference, when I first saw Blaire, I thought she was a woman. When I first see them, I immediately know they are men dressed as women. Edit: It's OK to be a cross dresser. There is NOTHING wrong with dressing up like a woman to make yourself feel good. But don't call yourself trans, when you are clearly not, then attack others for doing it better than you.
@trumpydog9441
4 жыл бұрын
@JW McCabe Agreed. I'm a delivery driver. I spent at least 4-6 hours a day alone in my car and I use that time to talk out loud and deal with my current financial or person problems. Doesn't mean I'm gonna go on meds. I'm the "one of the guys" chick because I grew up with all boys and liked video games and legos and played in the dirt and mud, collected bugs and lizards. Back then it was called "Tom Boy". Thank God I was born back then or I'd probably be some poor 5 year old little girl forced to be a boy by stupid parents.
@kennethcouncillor6713
4 жыл бұрын
There's no such thing as ppl doing it better than others it's not a competition
@trumpydog9441
4 жыл бұрын
@@kennethcouncillor6713 If it wasn't a competition to them, they wouldn't be using their platform to put Blaire down for having different ideas. Do you even watch the videos? Did you not read the death threats? The hate comments? It is a competition to them. It isn't to you or me, because it doesn't directly affect us. Take a step back and REALLY look at the difference between REAL trans women and cross dressers, then see which group is more aggressive towards to other.
@daskampffredchen9242
4 жыл бұрын
I am more passable when I dress up for CosDay then most of these trans-trenders
@ashpretz1052
4 жыл бұрын
@@trumpydog9441 There is a lot to gain defaming someone to prove they aren't a wolf in sheep's clothing, deflect, blend in and project.
8:45 they just described being gender fluid. that is not transgender.
Trans community: "Science validates transgenders Blaire: "Gender Dysphoria is the real trans science" Trans community: YOU'RE A BIGOT!!!!
Everyone gets way too offended these days. Blaire is a straight talker, she is very logical and that's why I like her.
@MayteraMarble
4 жыл бұрын
Zoe Austin I couldn't agree more. She is very level headed and quite often misrepresented by her detractors.
@victorgowor9362
4 жыл бұрын
Yess, also her videos are getting better and she's really respectfully explaining the topic so I don't get it
@Leo-yu4oy
4 жыл бұрын
That's what made me Sub to her in the first place. I seen my first vid of hers last year and She is straight to the point, Doesnt beat around the Bush and goes straight into a discussion about the topic of her videos.
@victorgowor9362
4 жыл бұрын
@Brittany D where did you get this from ahahabahha
@Leo-yu4oy
4 жыл бұрын
@Brittany D how tho when she brings up the logic in almost everything 😂
Imagine looking like a literal ogre and calling Blaire "he"
@noortjelief1987
4 жыл бұрын
You have so many relationships in this life Only one or two will last You go through all the pain and strife Then you turn your back and they're gone so fast Oh yeah And they're gone so fast, yeah Oh, so hold on the ones who really care In the end they'll be the only ones there And when you get old and start losing your hair Can you tell me who will still care? Can you tell me who will still care?
@keeganstershic1522
4 жыл бұрын
noortjelief1987 👁👄👁what
@vyentro29
4 жыл бұрын
noortjelief1987 👁👄👁 I’m confused.
@noortjelief1987
4 жыл бұрын
@@keeganstershic1522 Of you know, you know 😄
@guinevereinthefield176
4 жыл бұрын
noortjelief1987 👁👄👁 uh?
being someone who at an early age realized people treat you differently when they feel sorry for you. i truly think others like me may have realized and continued to use this as a tactic or skill to "survive" in life for lack of better terms. victimhood mentality seems to be close to the root of many of the problems we see arising today. the further root would be are there entities or groups out there conciously attempting to foster victimhood mentality in the population of ours and other cultures?
Blair you are absolutely right! What you say makes perfect sense. I understand gender dysphoria and I think most straight people can understand and accept that. It’s harder for straight people like myself to accept or understand the “I’m trans for attention “ people. It’s not that I’m transphobic or un accepting, it’s that it doesn’t make sense
I love how Blaire is treated as a radical person when all she's doing is being sensible lmao
@rebeccaconlon9743
4 жыл бұрын
In this day and age, it's radical to be sensible...
@beefortebrea9386
4 жыл бұрын
@@rebeccaconlon9743 these days, it's radical for you to be anything except an SJW fourth wave feminist
@angelexperiment1698
4 жыл бұрын
Not necessarily sensible to gatekeep and give transphobes ammo to hate trans people even more. Just let people express themselves Jesus fuck.
@ZombieSazza
4 жыл бұрын
Yes, folk have become so progressive that they’re regressive and being a sensible, sane person who uses science somehow means you’re a “radical”. I hate 2020, so fucking much.
@lovenpeace319
4 жыл бұрын
@@angelexperiment1698 The people that claim to be trans without gender disphoria are the ones that give ammo to transphobes. I do agree with letting people express themselves but many of these people take it too far.
So basically, he just wants to wear makeup, dresses and lingerie. Definitely not transgender, but a cross dresser.
@karinisvetcool
4 жыл бұрын
And that is fine as well! I think nowadays it's easier to 'just be trans' than to be a crossdresser. One is seen as part of LGBTQ+, the other as creepy
@jessicadeines
4 жыл бұрын
For sure its great but as someone who has lived 35 years on this earth and having struggled with gender dysphoria its a little hurtful to have been seen as someone recently transitioning just for attention.
@OzzieOzzieOzzieOyOyOy
4 жыл бұрын
@@jessicadeines It’s bloody ridiculous what people will do for attention. I’m so sorry about your very real struggle, unlike the idiot Blaire is talking about.
@FIRING_BLIND
4 жыл бұрын
@@karinisvetcool you may be onto something. Perhaps this is why the meaning of trans has changed to become an umbrella term for most people
@FIRING_BLIND
4 жыл бұрын
@@jessicadeines oof, people actually think you would do that? I believe trans can be used as an umbrella term, but to actually physically transition is such a big deal its not something done lightly in most cases. Like, I would never assume someone would go to those lengths simply for attention. That's awful. On the overall topic, I'm not sure. Maybe transexual needs to become a popular term again to identify those who wish to physically transition, but trans could still be used as an umbrella term for other gender identities? I dunno, I'm a gender nonconforming cis woman, so I don't know if I have much room for input here.
5:07 shirt says "Forever Alone" This is self awareness at its finest!!
that gender fluid person"Vera" needs to watch silence of the lambs, a lot of similarity ...it puts the lotion on it's skin.
Notice how none of these non dysphoria 'trans' people ever actually transition and just wear clown makeup lol
@Khai-MediaCo
4 жыл бұрын
And this is why clowns are creepy. lol
@rebeccaconlon9743
4 жыл бұрын
It's when most of them take the extreme image of a woman, take Picasso and food colouring and crayons and go "bam" I'm a woman because I coloured my face to look like a panto dame
@sarahbarabe8470
4 жыл бұрын
I'm willing to bet its just a classic case of man with weird fetish likes dressing up as a woman but that that's weird and you don't get any woke points for that
@janicealtamirano359
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly ! And shitty horrible makeup at that. Doesn’t even look cute !
@EmmersonSprocket
4 жыл бұрын
They got their dress on sale, but they got their body for free.
in all seriousness, why is it when someone disagrees with blaire, their first move is to misgender her? like i don’t get how that makes their argument any more valid, it just makes them seem like a child.
@nekoboygames7786
4 жыл бұрын
Bc they belive its ok to be transphobic to ppl like Blaire, myself and other trans ppl that disagree with them.
@grimdarhk
4 жыл бұрын
Also they say he, while looking like men.
@ogrehaslayers605
4 жыл бұрын
Grim Darhk yeah, that guy Blair was talking about is just a dude in drag. He’s also a transphobe.
@whatteamwildcats4033
4 жыл бұрын
I've had a girl litterally deny my race because I disagreed with judging black woman for their choices with their hair. The mindset is, if you don't agree with me obviously your not legit and therefore I can deny who you are
@TiTi-pm4my
4 жыл бұрын
Especially when it often seems to be the same people who relentlessly bitch and moan about being misgendered themselves (and when they clearly haven't put the work into transitioning like Blaire has which just 🤷♀️🤦♀️). It doesn't make sense.
If you say you dont need it to be trans, it takes away it not being a choice.
There are different labels for trans specifically, Transvestite, Transgender, and TransSexual. I still don’t like that Trans and/or Transgender became an umbrella term to cover all three and more. This person seems like a cross-dresser or gender fluid maybe?
@leeriches8841
2 жыл бұрын
I'm pretty sure 'transvestite' is taken as a slur these days even though that's what this person is.
Imagine calling someone a scum and a bigot and then misgendering them *ON PURPOSE* that is so hypocritical
@Therebesquare
4 жыл бұрын
Then threatening to K I L L someone who has an opposing opinion
@rebeccaconlon9743
4 жыл бұрын
It's not surprising... They go to extremes for attention... Like their parents didn't hug them enough or their creepy uncle hugged them too much...
@LoanLeaf
4 жыл бұрын
@@rebeccaconlon9743 LOL omg
@ZombieSazza
4 жыл бұрын
They view Blaire as the “wrong kind” of trans, but don’t you dare misgender Yaniv ya fuckin bigot!
Back in the 80s, everyone knew that Boy George was a man with makeup and Annie Lennox was a woman with short hair and a suit. No one made up these weird categories. It's just fashion...
@emilian7052
4 жыл бұрын
Yet they had internalised homophobia and transphobia
@KaienShirayuki
4 жыл бұрын
I agree. Tomboys and femboys were a thing. Same goes for crossdressing and drag. Now drag queens need to have ridiculous amount of make-up to not be confused for transtrenders. Being a tombo/femboy is labelled as being trans. I'm rather feminime guy, but I'm not trans ffs. My sis is so tomboy people are confused what pronouns should they use.
@QueenHannah
4 жыл бұрын
@@emilian7052 that's why he said his sister is a tomboy🙄 Edit: wow you removing your comment and replying with the same emoji.
@emilian7052
4 жыл бұрын
@@QueenHannah oh sorry hannah🙄
@dylancole1910
4 жыл бұрын
Lenny Pearl I know it's madness
"Im trans but i dont have dysphoria" NO NO NO!
@dylanmahanets6603
3 жыл бұрын
But what about if u change in every way to being female, and completly lived that way but don't have dyshoria?
This video should be re-released as it has EXTREMELY valuable information
Its like saying: "hi! I'm gay, but I've never been attracted to the same sex as me" Edit: tysm yall for all the likes in such little time, I didnt expect just making a point would get so much love! 💖
@alaynabaker7428
4 жыл бұрын
n5225playz i actually know some "bi" girls that would never date a girl😭
@Grk149
4 жыл бұрын
Alayna Baker the dating apps are also full of bi guys that will not even interact with anyone who is gay. Go figure :)
@n5225aj
4 жыл бұрын
@@alaynabaker7428 I hate people like that 😭
@n5225aj
4 жыл бұрын
@@seeawn I agree
@n5225aj
4 жыл бұрын
@Adrian Knappertz literally yeah
blaire with her hair curled hits different
@ieh2845
4 жыл бұрын
Sean Edmonson she wears them rn, just curled them instead of straightening
@seeawn
4 жыл бұрын
Oh sorry I couldn’t tell, I don’t know too much about hair lol. I just knew that recently she hadn’t been wearing them in a few videos
@caitlinwarren461
4 жыл бұрын
@@seeawn probably bc extensions blend in more with curled hair
@leequalmann3903
4 жыл бұрын
Regardless, Blair always looks amazing.
@kora4185
4 жыл бұрын
It’s so cuuuuuuuuuuuuute I can’t 🥺🤍 totally support her doing more ‘romantic’ styles (or whatever you call this)
"I'm depressed, I don't have depression." 😑😑😑
What happened to like 5 years ago when everyone was against labels 😂
I’m trans-intelligence. I’m smart, I just choose to be stupid.
@Ell.06
4 жыл бұрын
😂
@abbiiON
4 жыл бұрын
lmaooo💀
@Cjiscj777
4 жыл бұрын
This comment is underrated! Thank you so much for the laugh!!! Things be getting wayyyy too serious. We need laughter. Keep spreading your awesomeness. ❤️
@dutchik5107
4 жыл бұрын
I also am trans intelligent. I am real fucking dumb, but I identify as smart. Now give me a degree
@ibukimiobruh7160
4 жыл бұрын
this made me laugh 😂😂
that’s like me saying, i’m a lesbian but I could never be with a girl, ew!!
@anniedominguez9307
4 жыл бұрын
This is already happening with he/him lesbians (men who call themselves lesbians) and lesbians that are married to guys, not girls, guys. but their lesbian identity is still "valid"
@Champ0222
4 жыл бұрын
Annie Dominguez some lesbians or gays are married to the opposite gender because they didn’t know any better. There could also be a slew of other reasons
@PrunelleLeroux
4 жыл бұрын
kenny If you identify with masculinity to the point where you need to call yourself He/him then.. You don’t identify as a woman. So you can’t be a lesbian.
@user-zu7bq6yo7e
4 жыл бұрын
@@PrunelleLeroux It wasn't done because they were so masculine they identified as a man(or didn't identify as a woman) it was because it was *unsafe* for people to know they were a lesbian so in order to safely date women and present masculinely they referred to themselves as a male. It was for safety, they didn't ACTUALLY identify as men.
@nolikeshomestuck1304
4 жыл бұрын
kenny He/Him lesbians who go by that for safety reasons are valid and understandable. What is not valid nor understandable is lesbians exclusively going by he/him pronouns. Saying that pronouns do not equal gender (e.g. I’m a female but I only go by he/him) is an open alleyway for people to misconstrue the importance of pronouns. Recently, TERFs have been saying pronouns don’t equal gender therefore misgendering a transperson is okay. That is what saying “I use he/him but I’m a women” is causing. It is allowing more transphobia to arise whether intentionally or not. Pronouns were made for the reason to identify someone as a male, female, or otherwise. He/him pronouns are male pronouns for men, not masculine identifying woman/GNC women. She/her pronouns are female pronouns for females, not feminine identifying men/GNC men.
I'm glad you safe and didn't get hurt from that one crazy person! I also agree with you, the point of being trans is having gender dysphoria! That's 100% a fact.
I know I’m late but I completely agree with Blaire. Why does “Trans” have to be this umbrella term for anyone who isn’t cis? Why can’t “Gender” be the umbrella term if people really need one. Everyone has a different path in life and a different journey. The journeys of a transgender person and someone who is gender fluid, where they may be similar in some respects, are not the same. We experience different things, we live different lives. The word transgender literally comes from the Latin prefix “Trans” meaning “to change from” or “to change to”. That’s why we have cisgender from the Latin prefix “Cis” meaning “the same as”
trans being backed up by science should be a good thing, it shows it’s a real thing. but anyways..
@MissCracker
4 жыл бұрын
But gender itself isn’t backed by science
@frankycool45
4 жыл бұрын
It just shows not liking your own gender is a real thing
@frankycool45
4 жыл бұрын
@Andrew R I didn't do anything ?
@EmmaxoOCE
4 жыл бұрын
ɮօʊռсє օռ ժᎥռցʊร that sucks, sorry about that :(
The second that person referred to Blaire with male pronouns they took any validity or believability for anything they might’ve said afterward.
@inkuii
4 жыл бұрын
David Pavlas Yeah, when I first found Blaire’s channel a few years ago, I was honestly shocked to find out she was trans.
@wafflefalafel9442
4 жыл бұрын
“You’re invalidating trans people” >Continues to use the wrong pronouns with Blaire Uhhh...hypocrite much???
@mackenzieshrum3243
4 жыл бұрын
Agreed
I used to have such extreme gender dysphoria that it would drive me insane. As I've gotten older, I started to just.. accept myself for who I am rather than drive myself crazy for something that I will never have physically. I wish I could be a certain way but I can't honestly and I've accepted that y'know?
@lqa77
3 жыл бұрын
I used to wish every night I'd wake up as the opposite gender. As I grew older, the dysphoria started to resolve and now at 30, I can remember what it felt like but I don't have those feelings anymore. Wish I knew what it was that 'fixed' it but I think for a lot of people it resolves itself. Scares me how many kids are going on puberty blockers and never have the chance to organically decide after growing into their body if transitioning is something they really want. I had dysphoria all the way up through my mid 20s but it was manageable starting around age 18. I don't know the answer to this 'debate' other than case by case and that it's really not my place to decide for anyone else or their kids. Shrug.
@megauser8512
3 жыл бұрын
@@lqa77 Exactly--case by case makes the most sense here.
I feel like life would be so much easier if we didn’t need to label things for people that don’t understand. If we could all just be who we are and love who we love without judgment from other people we would not be fighting this fight. I refuse to label myself. I love who I love and I am who I am. And I accept all that you are! Do you ❤️
knew a "gender-fluid" girl who said she felt masculine when she was angry and feminine when she was feeling caring towards someone and stuff.. I'm sorry but that's stupid and sexist. women are allowed to feel anger and men should feel caring and nurturing too, there's no limitation to that. often I feel that "trans by essence" is just perpetuating stereotypes.
@katatonic726
4 жыл бұрын
We all are masculine. We all are feminine. No matter who you are you have both and they aquire different traits. Its just like yin and yang, we have balance that makes us whole (when we are healthy and at our most optimal the balance is where it needs to be).
@katatonic726
4 жыл бұрын
But its REALLY strange how that person felt as though the more aggressive "maculine" and more peaceful "feminine" were changing her gender and making it fluid. I feel as though THAT mindset specifically is very unhealthy because it invalidates tomboys for instance, and pretty boys for example... i feel as tho that kid needs to read a book and do some more critical thinking on their own for a few years before they go on calling themselves "gender fluid" based on something so.... elementary to literally everyone 🤔 despite the fact that everyone is different, its something we ALL have in common- its just at varying degrees and can wane and wax throughout people's lives.
@katatonic726
4 жыл бұрын
I like what you said about stereotypes though, because i think you are right on, there's definitely something to that- i gotta think more about that!
@b1izz186
4 жыл бұрын
@@katatonic726 lol my thoughts reading every comment on this video
@GPrinceps
4 жыл бұрын
Transgenderism *IS* perpetuating stereotypes. I'm not saying that gender dysphoria isn't real -- it is. But pretty much any form of transitioning involves stereotypes, which is why trans women often appear more feminine than actual women. Some trans people rise above it, but for a lot of others, especially those that *don't* even experience GD, being female basically amounts to "I like high heels and pink lace", which is stereotypically associated with femininity.
Can we talk about how Pretty Blaire looks
@karahmarie6558
4 жыл бұрын
when does she not look that pretty? im lowkey jealous
@willowlee3952
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah her hair and skin looks great in this video
@oliverisboring6041
4 жыл бұрын
yes we can
@Jo_Wardy
4 жыл бұрын
No
@boringname3657
4 жыл бұрын
@@Jo_Wardy I can see why...
I love how you speak the truth about the trans community and you’re a trans person you know what they’re doing to children and things like that and I am praising you for it you go girl❤
What can cause another to transition without gender dysphoria??? Attention.... To fit in.... Clout.
It's like people forget that cross dressing is a thing and has been forever. Cross dressing ad being trans are different.
@Abby-dy2cm
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Sometimes I dress like a guy for fun, but I am still a woman.
@lacvna.
4 жыл бұрын
exactly. nowadays, the internet brings things into the extreme. i've heard a few stories of people who were told they were trans when they werent
@shanebeckett3557
4 жыл бұрын
Yep that's right and I think alot of these so called trans that put no effort beside dying there hair and a lil makeup are just loving being labelled trans and getting the attention of either being a woman or a trans . When my mates dresses in drag and gets all done up you can't tell but it takes him a good couple of hrs he live getting the attention from men a woman might get and gets flirty ASF but it's just having fun. It's not he's identity and alot of these teams at the end of the day are just cross dressing with long hair and a lil make up...
@DejanNiquen
4 жыл бұрын
@@shanebeckett3557 But Vera is not only make up and long hair. She is on testosterone, she had physical changes in her body. She IS genderfluid, so sometimes she tends to be more masculine and she still has her male genitals, but it's not fair to her to just put her in the crossdressing group, knowing that her transition was more than just pink hair and make up. I agree is more complicated, because it's not a full transition. But I think is something else than just crossdressing. This is a part of her identity
@tin2001
4 жыл бұрын
People who were cross dressing as part of everyday life used to be transvestites. No surgery - transvestite. Surgery - transgender. Was easy to tell the difference because the words hadn't lost their meaning into the void of the politically correct.
I met a girl last year who has been pretending to be on Testosterone for 3 years. Her voice has not changed a bit, she posts T updates with literally no physical change. There are absolutely people out there who use the trans label for attention.
@emilian7052
4 жыл бұрын
Wow imagine being that sad to pretend to be on t
@kiko485
4 жыл бұрын
Pim WOW 😳
@livewellwitheds6885
4 жыл бұрын
wtf
@pim7149
4 жыл бұрын
@@emilian7052 What bothers me the most is that people enable it. Usually she posts "it's my t anniversary :)))" on a certain date and every one just falls for it and sucks up. It's very sad, yes
@user-zu8fw4wl8e
4 жыл бұрын
don’t be shy, give us the @ :)
My two cents: you definetely need gender dysphoria to be transsexual, not necessarily to be transgender (a broader term). I firmly believe the use of the term transsexual would solve all our semantic issues. Unfortunately many extremists in the community don't seem to like that term being used and I was often lectured/attacked/silenced.
@chcamerica22
2 жыл бұрын
People don't like that term because transsexual implies changing one's sex which is impossible. Stick with transgender.
@apatheticstoic7916
2 жыл бұрын
@@chcamerica22 Nah, I am not sticking to an extremely broad term if my medical record is on stake. I get what you mean, but I am sure those people will live on.
Jim sterling fits the category of trans for attention. He actively disregards any who discusses the topic of gender dysphoria such as Buck Angel. Says it all really, pretenders be pretending. Love you Blaire keep being awesome.
Vera: Im trans and dont have dysphoria me, a trans man with dysphoria: so a cis man with fluid gender EXPRESSION. nice
@dylancole1910
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly, why have all these gender identities for literally just forms of expression. I mean, that's like saying if you dress up in a Halloween costume on Halloween you could identify as creepyfluid or something... I have no problem with guys and girls who like to crossdress, but if you have no disphoria, you can't call yourself trans--eccentric maybe, as having gender variant STYLE but never trans; because then you invalidate transexuals who are actually aiming to be stealth at some point, and just want to live their lives with out having to explain their gender and receive unwanted attention.
@ryeuhnbrus8287
4 жыл бұрын
And who was it that said gender is fluid again? LOL
@kb6090
4 жыл бұрын
@@dylancole1910 i guarantee there are people out there (by there i mean tumblr) identifying as creepyfluid, lol
@nosirsirsa4741
4 жыл бұрын
I watched the whole video of Vera. She doesn’t just say „Im trans and don‘t have dysphoria“, she says, while she may not be transitioning into something that is fixed, she has TRANSITIONED out of the life of a cis-gender male, is on testosterone blockers, has developed a bust etc. and thats why she puts herself under the umbrella-term „trans“. It doesn’t mean you have to agree with her definition of trans (= transitioning in broader sense) and there is a discussion to be had, but not even mentioning her main points seems like Blaire is putting her out of context.
@IceQueen975
4 жыл бұрын
One day, maybe, they'll learn that aesthetic preference isn't a gender...
say it with me: gender expression is not the same as transitioning/being transgender.
@Mqstodon
4 жыл бұрын
Nobody sais it is, and that has nothing to do with genderfluid people
@cjd.346
4 жыл бұрын
yes exactly thank you
@OpossumOnTheMoon
4 жыл бұрын
RosesBubble genderfluid isn’t a thing
@frenchgunner4665
4 жыл бұрын
YES
@bonniebuckner3399
4 жыл бұрын
I had an Annie Hall period(suits n ties, and am not nor was I male identifying.
I've only recently discovered your channel. I have to say, I find you so inspiring, articulate and the scary word these days - truthful! People who don't like you are either misunderstanding, jealous or threatened by you in some way. Keep up the good work.