I love all of you for supporting me! 💜

@Alritealritealrite

Жыл бұрын

This video will help even more people. I remember when all of this happened, it triggered a lot of people with that type of OCD. It shows how misunderstood OCD is.

@pipsterhb3693

Жыл бұрын

So thankful for you and your heart for helping people🙏🤗💝

@fairygurl9269

Жыл бұрын

*Here's to Healing Thru Interconnectedness 💞

@TheGoldfinger71

Жыл бұрын

Dude, you saved my life!

@JaceMonje

Жыл бұрын

It was your videos that helped me identify my false memory/driving OCD and got me to seek treatment. I am very grateful to you and the work you continue to do. Thank you, Nathan!

people’s ignorant reactions to OCD themes is exactly WHY people don’t get help. i know for myself i was terrified of talking about the SO-OCD and ROCD themes because i was afraid of being perceived as a dumb homophobe. i can only imagine how POCD sufferers feel about their thoughts and experiences. OCD attacks what you LOVE, CHERISH, and VALUE. it is not the same thing as being a bigot or sociopath. your videos have made such an impact. people need to know that they’re not alone.

@charlenepang

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! It was a struggle for me to open up about my SO-OCD theme because of the exact same reason you have.

@p8735

Жыл бұрын

@@charlenepang you are not alone in the slightest ❤️ people of all sexual orientations can develop this theme and it indicates 0 about your character. keep leaning into uncertainty!!

@slugbro2883

Жыл бұрын

You and i are in the SAME exact boat with themes and experiences. I hate explaining it to people because they think i’m just in denial

@p8735

Жыл бұрын

@@slugbro2883 understandable, friend! you don’t have to reveal your themes to everyone, they have to earn that trust and vulnerability from you. but also, in ERP you learn that people don’t need to understand for you to be okay. it sounds awful and terrifying, but if someone thinks you’re gay or whatever sexual orientation you fear, that is something we have to sit with and know we will be okay regardless. it takes a ton of time but just know OCD wants constant certainty and by starving it from it, we get better ❤️

I’ve had POCD and I’m not a creep. You have helped so many people, don’t stop making videos.

@Smiley35S

Жыл бұрын

Exactly because if you were this wouldn't bother you. You're doing amazing!

@annabellemoore4214

11 ай бұрын

@@Smiley35SThank you so much! 😊

@SammynAlgeria

11 ай бұрын

did you recover from it?

@Smiley35S

11 ай бұрын

@@annabellemoore4214 you're very welcome

@annabellemoore4214

11 ай бұрын

@@SammynAlgeria Yes, I did. I am so much better now.

The OCD community loves you Nathan! Thank you for all you do.

dude, i’m 16, i found you a few days ago, you have changed my life, i’ve been suffering and hating myself for so long now and i had no clue what was wrong with me, now i do, you changed my life forever, thank you so much, i’m looking to get help or a diagnosis soon, i haven’t told anybody about my problems yet though.

@alchemist1111

Жыл бұрын

No matter what type of thoughts are invading your mind, if it is OCD they are not a part of you. If someone is riding in a car and a thought pops in to take control of the steering wheel and you are hit with anxiety over that thought it’s because you are truly disturbed by that, “why did I think that? Does it mean I want to do that?” The answer is no but OCD will continue its attack on you by making you question that. Someone who would do that won’t have anxiety over that thought, they might ruminate in it. It’s like an enemy with access to your mind who can find the best weapons to attack you with. This can be overcome, you’re not crazy and there is a normal life ahead of you without all this noise in your life. God bless.

@sethty

Жыл бұрын

@@alchemist1111 wow thank you

@garrygrewal4321

Жыл бұрын

These episodes started for me after watching "are we living in a simulation" or "are we living in the matrix" yt videos.. also,, i used to watch videos about if god exists or not and i was pretty much convinced that it didn't exist so it made me believe in the matrix theory more But suddenly a thought came in my mind when I was eating that "what if it's all just a dream?" What if I'm all alone in this imagination of myself and all these PPL are just my own fake imaginations... It sucks but when I chill out with my Bois i just forget about it but it keeps coming. I'm 15 and idk why the f*ck is it happening to me but i for sure have lost many feelings and I've changed alot that i don't really care about this

@alishadkhan62

Жыл бұрын

@@garrygrewal4321 Well Brother! You're not alone, let them come, They are just thought think positive, bro if this all your imagination then you're the king. do whatever you love doing, you can be Superman, Batman Anything. love live laugh. Don't focus on powerless, meaningless thoughts, Just accept whatever they are saying and move on.

@garrygrewal4321

Жыл бұрын

@@alishadkhan62 broo that's what I was thinking (if it's my imagination i can be whatever I want and it'll make me the god of this world,lol) and yes I've started caring less bout them

Having thoughts about harming others or doing something doesn't mean you really want that for them. The fact that you feel tormented by those thoughts is proof that thats not who you are. An average person will never understand that. Tell all this to a person with OCD and they would know right there and then who you are and how those arent you. To all those out there suffering from intrusive thoughts i want to tell you stay strong you are not your thoughts

During a time in my life where my anxiety was out of control, every day while I worked I’d have your videos playing in my ear, and it always helped calm me down. If I was about to have a panic attack, I’d go right to your channel. My days would have been so much more difficult without you. Thank you for what you do, Nathan, and I’m so sorry this happened to you.

@FernandoVazquez-ro1nw

Жыл бұрын

Even though what you were doing with his videos was a compulsion, I know what you mean. Nathan is amazing. He has helped a lot of people.

@alexisleanne94

Жыл бұрын

@@FernandoVazquez-ro1nw for sure, it absolutely was! At the time I was navigating a scary space mentally, and it was one of the things that gave me relief while also teaching me more about what I was dealing with. With time I was able to incorporate his teachings into my everyday life and things got a lot better for me. Very thankful for him and his videos!

@GreekHouseEffect

Жыл бұрын

I share a similar experience, too. His work is truly invaluable

@gymnasticsgirlie0647

Жыл бұрын

@@FernandoVazquez-ro1nw Technically you're right, but I don't think it's humanly possible for someone with OCD to just go seamlessly through ERP without taking breaks for some reassurance here and there. Especially while trying to live a nomal, everyday life and not having time or energy to constantly sit with unbearable anxiety.

@Smiley35S

Жыл бұрын

If it wasn't for him along with the Dare app I wouldn't be getting my life back on track.

We need to RADICALLY educate people about OCD at this point. Nate I wish you the best, man. ❤️

I am so sorry that this happened to you. That was terrible and you 100% didn't deserve any of it. That said, I am SO incredibly PROUD OF YOU for every single thing you've mentioned in this video. That is so hard and you are amazing. Even though you are still working through this, you have enough heart/care for both yourself and others to bravely open up and put this out there in order to heal, encourage others, and call out this boorish behavior. There is never an excuse for inciting violence like this and that person should absolutely be banned. You are strong and awesome and while it's a highly regrettable circumstance, it's still freaking fantastic to see a therapist actually doing the hard work in front of us and not just spouting recommendations when they're not currently in the pit. Congratulations at proving that you are the real deal and you're not afraid to do the hardest thing. You've earned every bit of all my respect for your honesty, transparency, vulnerability, determination, hard work, and outright grit. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

@ocdandanxiety

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your support! It really means a lot!

I am so angry that this happened to you. You’ve helped so many of us with our OCD and helped us through the toughest time of our lives. We’re here for you and love you!!!❤

i feel like the definitions of anxiety and intrusive thoughts have been watered down on the internet and got stripped of their real meaning intrusive thoughts can be extremely dark and distrurbing that's why ocd is considered as a debilitating illness its themes can be REALLY unsettlling and the fact that we not only have to live an internal battle but we also have to be surrounded by people that show no empathy whatsoever towards us is very sad ...

Thank you for continuing to fight the misinformation of OCD even when your life was threatened. This is such a powerful story. Thank you. You've saved so many people's lives with your videos and I'm so glad you're continuing to make them.

It hurts that the kinder person you are, the more you expect people to treat you kindly, but when someone very slightly and even indirectly disrespects you, it is gonna be a shock!! Be proud Nathan for what you do. I am sure you’re SAVING LIVES. God blesses you my brother 🙏🏻💙💙

We're living through such a difficult time with social media. It can easily destroy someone's life and all it takes is for uneducated people to warp the truth to their advantage and out of context. I'm sorry you and the OCD community had to be victimised this way and I sincerely hope this person learned their lesson.

@DMAN590

Жыл бұрын

They learned nothing. They never revisited the topic. Just used NP as a punchline in a segment and moved on.

@embroideredragdoll

Жыл бұрын

These people complain about false accusations all the time you’d think they’d be better than that.

Fancy attacking this man, he is helping to save lives and minds. Thank you for helping us.

Thank you for all that you do. Im so sorry you’ve been bearing this weight for so long. You’ve done a wonderful job of combating the stigmas and misconceptions associated with ocd, and it’s unfortunate that others used their platform to attack you and try to silence you due to their own ignorance. Your channel has done wonders for my mental health and anxiety/ocd recovery, and I’m so incredibly grateful that you didn’t delete your channel in spite of this. You’ve set a great example for the rest of us, and your bravery won’t go unnoticed. Much love ❤️

You know how much you’ve helped us all, Nate. You’re a great guy. You’ve done a great service and we are forever indebted to you. Your videos alone, for the public, people like myself you have helped severely thank you. You help us so much; I hope someone can help you as you have helped us.

While this wasn’t my theme of OCD, I wanted to share with you how thankful I am for your channel and how much you help people. Last year I was in the scariest place I have ever been mentally, and your videos quite literally were the only thing that made me feel safe, like I wasn’t losing my mind, that I could trust myself. Now, with ERP and in my case medication, I can see how deep in I was. But when I had nowhere else to turn, your videos were there. Thank you. I am so sorry this happened. Thank you for not deleting your channel.

You’ve saved a lot of lives and reduced a lot of suffering. Thank you Nathan.

Nathan, you have saved my life in more ways than one on multiple occasions. In my worst moments of OCD I was contemplating and even loosely planning suicide. Your videos were sometimes the only things that got me through. PLEASE never leave this community, so many people love you!!! We look up to you as the amazing educator and professional you are! You’re so knowledgeable and professional. The person who posted that tweet about you is NOTHING. He has no training or education on the topic. Continue to do you my friend.

@amanikhan1568

5 ай бұрын

I completely agree with everything you said. Nathan and his videos truly saved me too, in some of my darkest moments. This channel is honestly a blessing in my life ❤️

It fills me with a profound amount of sadness that you had to experience such dark words come from someone so publicly. It breaks my heart that this individual made you feel so monstrous for no other reason than this person being afraid of something they don’t understand. It’s no excuse to spread pain and hurt, and I am so so sorry. I just wanted to say that there are so many people who’s lives you have saved by being truthful and honest about the OCD community. Having the condition is so isolating and discombobulating, but you have crafted a safe space where not only are we heard but we are fought for. Thanks for always fighting Nathan 🌱 we stand by you, always.

Wow. This made me really emotional for so many reasons. OCD nearly took my life multiple times before I was diagnosed just this year, at the age of 30, while I've had it my entire life. The person who made that comment has no idea how damaging and reckless and HARMFUL it was, especially someone with such a large platform. I am so sorry you had to go through this on such a massive scale, I can't imagine the toll that would take. I hope for a world one day where OCD is destigmatized and understood better. I recently found out through an obituary that my OCD therapist who helped me through the worst of my OCD passed away. It was a complete shock and I still don't know what happened. I still have our last conversation on NOCD saved, this is the last message he sent me that I would like to share: "Keep using ERP and don't let the down days take over. Keep pushing thru!"

This incident was really triggering for me, I can't imagine what is was like being at the centre of it. You're an awesome human who is helping so many people, and I'm so glad you were able to pull through.

For every person that thanks you for helping them (here or anywhere else), there's 50 more that feel that way and just haven't expressed it yet. This is my first time thanking you, but seeing your videos changed my life 2 years ago. You helping SO many people out there, more than you know

There’s a massive difference between having a thought that’s not wanted, obsessing over it and having massive fear than there is to a thought thats wanted and you get aroused by.

@bigbrainbull4861

Жыл бұрын

That isn't helpful. What if I'm scared that I might be aroused by a thought I don't want to be aroused by? Stuff like POCD wouldn't be an issue if that aspect wasn't already a concern.

@Bigdogstusks

Жыл бұрын

@@bigbrainbull4861 your brain is playing on your fears. Let the thoughts come and go. If you’re not acting on your thoughts then it’s just a thought that you are obsessing over. If you are acting on them then you are what you most fear. Live and die by your actions not your thoughts.

@bigbrainbull4861

Жыл бұрын

@@Bigdogstusks I appreciate it and perhaps that would be helpful to others, but when I hear that, it just causes me to go down a new rabbit hole questioning whether or not any action I do, or have ever done, could be interpretted as "acting" on those thoughts.

Nathan, when I had a massive wave of anxiety 2 years ago, watching your videos quite literally kept me sane. I can't thank you enough for that. Thank you for having the courage to put yourself in a vulnerable situation in order to help people who are suffering with anxiety and OCD. I pray for peace for you and your family. Love ya dude.

I saw all that happen and went to war for you Nathan. I am also a casual viewer of crowder so it really upset me at how willfully ignorant they were being. Really also made me question their critical thinking skills.

@h7pubg

Жыл бұрын

I used to watch crowder every day but that was my breaking point, have not watched an episode since, it was hard because I was struggling with many forms of ocd at the time, and I used the show as a daily routine to do while i exercised. how is it that hard to understand that the point of this ocd theme is that it literally targets people based on something they morally detest, just as it did when I was unaware of ocd, had an intrusive thought of harm while holding a knife, and ruminated and was fearful of that thought long after. I could not trust crowder for anything in good faith after that.

Never Stop, you are a light in this OCD community. With you all the way!!!!

This was so amazing. Way to face your fear, rise above the trauma of being bullied, and live your values. I count myself incredibly blessed to have found you online and to have you as my therapist. Your videos truly help people who are struggling. You have such a great ability to explain, teach, and offer tools. My favorite part is that you are practicing forgiveness and extending grace during a very difficult experience. Powerful message of seeing the humanity and encouraging understanding and empathy. Keep on keepin’ on!

I’m sorry this happened, some people are so quick to react to something without taking the time to understand it, super ignorant and harmful :(

I barely can express all the support and understanding that Nathan has provided to me. His videos about OCD/Anxiety has been a shining light at the end of the tunnel since the last summer. Thanks to Nathan I decided to reach out for professional help and for now I'm a much more educated and resilient person that I never thought. His example inspired me to serve as an source of courage for the people around me.

I remember this. I’m so sorry you went through all that. As a therapist and a person with lived experience, I truly value your content. There is so much misinformation on this topic and it’s heartbreaking (and maddening -including what happened to you). Keep doing what you’re doing. You are valued and appreciated!

That’s horrible and definitely proves there needs to be wayyy more education on the topic of ocd. Glad you are feeling better!

You're a hero. Thank you for all that you do.

so sorry you had to go through this. glad you’re doing better now!

You are an absolute legend buddy! Everyone is winging it!

Thank you for continuing to support the community!! ❤

I’m so sorry you went through that! Your videos are so so helpful!

You are great, keep doing what your doing !!!

So sorry for this❤ Tough to hear about, but important

You’re the best! So glad you’re here 🥰

I am so sorry this happened to you!! Thank you for making this video!!

We are with you Nathan! Thank you for the work you do 🎉

Thank you for all you do and I’m so sorry you’ve been through this!!

So sorry you went through this. You have been a great help to me in the UK.

You got it right- we stand with you and are proud of you. You're the man.

Thank you Nate! God bless you and the work that you do!

you're incredible, keep it up dude WE LOVE your work so much.

Sorry for what you went through, and thanks for you kindness many of us are going through alot due to shame and anxiety

You’ve helped me when my ocd was at its worst, thank you!! Much love

Your videos helped me through a really hard time. Thank you for persevering!

OCD is hell a real burning hell, it's like a bully lives rent free in your head, you feel like you're a monster for having intrusive thoughts, you don't feel like you can trust yourself and that ending it all is the only solution and the amount of times I've reached this conclusion... And people who are brave enough to talk about the taboo and telling us that you don't have to feel this fear, that you're not your thoughts and how to get through it and how to cure it are fucking gems and if anyone try to hurt them in any way i swear to god Imma be the monster that I think i am.

Thank you so much for speaking honestly about this subject and for not deleting your channel, which has helped so many people.

I’m so grateful for you and your videos. They have saved me so many times

Thank you for all you do. Your videos help so many of us.

All your videos have really helped me mate, don't stop what your doing

I'm so sorry to hear this. But the amazing work you do out weighs this horrible incident. Thank you for sharing and keep up the great work.

Thank you for everything you do Nathan

Really sorry to hear this, Nathan. It must have been a real shock when you came across the tweet and saw your well articulated advice about OCD manipulated in such a horrible, bullying way. It was also really uplifting and encouraging to see how many people went on to explain how misguided and ill-informed the guy's tweet was. I hope you're feeling a lot better about it all now.

Thank you for continuing doing this important work!!! We appreciate you!!

You are a great person, you don’t deserve to feel bad

Thank you for all you do! You are important to the OCD community.

You are SO brave! Thank you for sharing, and sending you love and hugs and healing Nate❤

I’m so, so sorry this happened to you. Your videos saved me from some of the darkest moments of my life and led to me finally getting a diagnosis and the help I’d needed for almost 20 years. And I know I’m just one in a sea of others you’ve so positively impacted. I just want to express my appreciation and gratitude for all that you do. Thank you. And thank you for sharing your story. I wish you the best as you continue to heal!

I’m so sorry you had to go through that. You’ve helped me and so many people feel understood and I can’t thank you enough for that! Your content is truly inspiring and life changing ❤️

You have helped me tremendously and I’m so sorry this happened to you and the OCD community. Thank you for sharing.

You’ve gotten me through the toughest of times. I’m sending a big hug. Thank you for everything you do!!❤

Your courage is just AWESOME!!! 🎉

I love you, man! Thanks for being courageous enough to be so vulnerable.

Keep strong, we need You and support You!

Thankyou for this video and the video mentioned in this video. Very happy to hear that helping people played a role in your recovery. All the best!

Nathan, your coaching has saved many many lives. Thank you for all you do.

❤❤❤ Your work is sooooo important. I am so awfully sorry to hear this happened.

Take care, Nathan!!! Thank you so much for your videos.

Thank you for all that you do, Nathan! You have a heart of gold, and I am so sorry that happened to you

You’re an amazing person. Thank you for sharing your story and being real and vulnerable.

Thanks for all the work you do. God Bless You!!!

Your videos always give me hope for better times and the strenght to fight. Thanks

I am so so sorry this happened to you. Youre videos have been incredibly helpful to me during some of my most awful times. Do not stop what you're doing and well done on making it this far!

Your videos held me over while I waited for my first therapy appointment. You are appreciated.

You are truly amazing. Your vulnerability and courage are going to help so many people.

You’ve helped me so much in my life and I am forever grateful for that, why someone would attack you is beyond me. Keep doing what you’re doing it’s helping so many people dealing with anxiety and ocd.

Nathan, you offer so so much help to so many people - this just highlights how desperately more awareness is needed around this subtype of OCD, which in my experience is one of the MOST COMMON and least discussed. You change lives, keep going and we can keep going with you ❤️

Thank you so much. You have saved so many lives. We love you and we are here for you.

I’m sorry this happened to you, I don’t think I could’ve handled something like this as well as you despite your struggles. I’ve never had a diagnosis but I’m thankful for your videos for helping me with my intrusive thoughts they’ve honestly been the best thing for me and I constantly recommend them to anyone who’s struggling with ocd or intrusive thoughts. I don’t where I would’ve been without you.

You going through this experience just further amplifies your credibility as a therapist with all of us.

I am so incredibly sorry Nathan for what you had to endure! We are all HERE for you the same way you have been here for all of us! We will support you no matter what. 🙏🏽❤️

Love you Nathan and thank you for all you’ve done and continue to do🖤

I am so sorry this happened to you. You helped me more than you could EVER know when I was diagnosed with OCD. I appreciate you!!!

i’m so heartbroken this happened to you, your content has always been nothing but incredibly helpful, it has truly helped me and so many others in such a meaningful way. Thank you for talking about these tabu topics and making people feel less alone, giving them hope. Truly, thank you for what you do Nate

Thank you for being such an amazing support and advocate for us with OCD! You’re amazing.

Nathan, I'm so sorry you went through all that. :( Thank you for all you do to help the OCD community, especially people suffering from the mental anguish caused by some of the trickier sub-types. So glad you are feeling better. Thank you for sharing

Thank you so much for sharing this story. You are truly an incredible human being. Your help means so much to so many people.

I was one of your patients a few years ago, I am so glad that others across the world get to learn from you about their own OCD or the OCD of those around them that they care about. Thank you for making these videos

First time ever “liking” or commenting on a KZread video. Thank you for sharing. Wish I’d had resources like your channel years ago when I was in the depths of ocd and learning to understand it.

I am so sorry this happened to you. It sounds like a nightmare to anyone, but especially for those of us with OCD. I'm really glad you're smiling for real now. You're a positive force in this world.

Grateful for you and your videos! I'm healing because brave people like you choose to talk about the hard and taboo things ❤

You’ve been an absolute gem!!! Please never stop making videos I can’t explain how much you’ve helped me with my mental health! I’m so sorry you went through thissssss!!

You are a hero dude!!! A light that keeps a lot of people alive ❤️‍🔥

Nathan, you are a great human being! You helped me so much. Keep doing what you do!