I can’t imagine anyone presumes to know another person’s sexual orientation simply by the length of their hair.. that’s insane

@joeychan948

4 жыл бұрын

I think it is really horrible judging people by the length of hair! Before you know it that person might have gone through chemotherapy! It is just disgusting. Even if they are homosexual so what?

@marieradatsz4126

4 жыл бұрын

People are so sad today you are so beautiful and feminine your hair looks fab xx

@tracyvieth6870

4 жыл бұрын

But true. When mine was pixied, people thought the same thing. Its crazy.

@itshalo837

4 жыл бұрын

I get that comment too and it infuriates me so much

@lilymarie7112

4 жыл бұрын

A lot of people are presumed to be straight when they have longer hair as well.. just a cultural thing

Imagine a woman had cancer and undergone chemo and their hair was growing out from that and heard comments about her being a bad mom. People are INSANE to think hair length indicates sexuality in this day and age, what in tarnation.

@hibak8196

4 жыл бұрын

💔

@scrambledmegs3478

4 жыл бұрын

I actually did lose all my hair to chemo, and I can't even count how many people have made these types of comments to me too. I don't care if people think I am gay. I care because they're using it as a derogatory term. Being gay should not be offensive... it amazes me how these assumptions are passed onto our kids too. My almost 4yo daughter told me she wishes I had long hair so I could be beautiful too 💔❤ I think it's just time to start accepting people for who they are.

@klarielizgrubb7596

4 жыл бұрын

Hey. MeganRae sorry about that

@callieshufelt

4 жыл бұрын

Right!!! I wear wigs for fun and I've heard so many people making comments about it being a wig and I don't care. I'm not trying to act like it's not a wig, but I think about the fact that these people don't know if i am wearing a wig because I lost my hair because of cancer or alopecia or whatnot. It's just insane.

@alishajennings2013

4 жыл бұрын

I read an article on facebook, a woman was trying to get the same point across. She had lost her hair during cancer treatments and one of her nurses gave her a scarf and her daughter told her she thought it was pretty so she wrapped her head and went to McDonald's and the woman at the drive thru window was making fun of her and called her a stupid white girl and said she did a horrible wrap job. It upset her and ruined her 1 good day. People make assumptions and hurt people and make themselves look ignorant.

When I was going through chemo people thought I was a lesbian all the time. I was just like...nope, just trying to survive here. 😂

@wanitaconnor1400

4 жыл бұрын

Humans are a horrid species

@MohiniDabarwal

4 жыл бұрын

Oh man! I hope you are doing better 🤗 like your sense of humor about it too

@jmsl910

4 жыл бұрын

Anna Rocha i am SO SORRY that happened to you anna. i hope you are well now

@lisarosebud6404

4 жыл бұрын

Me too...I just smile n keep moving along. We are proud to get some hair, n it is cute n easy..

@fatimaguilford8645

4 жыл бұрын

Crazy stuff 😂😂, Glad you seem well now.

When I was growing up in the 70’s everyone’s mum had short hair, everyone. Since when did short hair on woman mean you were gay, it always meant you were married with kids and too busy to have long hair to deal with.

@LDM805

3 жыл бұрын

It was the standard mom cut!

@chiarascura7574

2 жыл бұрын

I don’t believe what ST says . I am sure that didn’t happen in the way she depicts it .

“Gay” is not an insult. “Gay” is not characterized by masculinity or short hair. Shame on them (and anyone else who does this) for stereotyping a sexuality and using it as something that’s negative.

@vanessaveiga9257

4 жыл бұрын

People judging you on how you look is an insult. If they thought she was gay for a legit reason then that's different. Because of how you look is just wrong.

@rianneprystupa

4 жыл бұрын

Vanessa Veiga People judging you based on your looks IS wrong. Using “gay” as an insult is wrong. Stereotyping an entire sexuality is, again, also wrong. The negative connotation behind the word “gay” is the issue here.

@rianneprystupa

4 жыл бұрын

Nathan Ramsay Pronouns and sexuality are two completely different issues. The problem I’m seeing presented here is the negative connotation behind the word “gay” and why people need to stop using sexuality as an insult. In hindsight, also stop being offended BY sexuality.

@savannapierceshimomura

4 жыл бұрын

Not to mention they pitted her children that’s horrible!

@rianneprystupa

4 жыл бұрын

Savanna Pierce Exactly. There seems to be this preconceived notion among parts of society that any sexuality other than their own is something that is negative. In other words, “you’re different from me, so I don’t like you.” It’s irrational and completely ignorant. Children don’t care about sexuality unless you teach them to. Homophobia doesn’t just come naturally after birth, it’s taught. The only reason anyone should pity an LGBTQ’s kid(s) is because they’re growing up in a world full of prejudice and morons.

imagine actually being a gay mom and people saying these things about you. De y’all preference has nothing to do with parental abilities at all

@hade_5870

4 жыл бұрын

Someone told me I could not raise a child because every child has a father and needs his father in his life. I told this person that my child has a family of friends, genetic and emotionally connected people. That he will be loved every second of his life and he doesn't need a father because he has the whole world laying right in front of him and we will walk side by side. And when the time is right he can walk his path on his own whatever path he wants to take we'll be there.

@appleorange754

4 жыл бұрын

@@hade_5870 well, my father ditches me, my sibling and my mom. I think people are fine without a father, sometime better not have one.

@aafukuda

4 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@marcelina4958

4 жыл бұрын

I actually think a child do needs a mother and a father. It is something that cannot be replaced with having a second mom or second dad. And a cirle of friends will not satisfy this need either. It doesn't mean a single mom or dad cannot love their child because I am sure they will love the child. It's just sad that there are children without loving dad or loving mom. I wish evey child had that.

@fre580

4 жыл бұрын

Lol I'm gay and my partner has 3 kids. We live in a very small town and I am pretty sure we're the only gay moms in town. Everyone is super nice and we're the moms all the other moms want to sit by at kid events. People in this 1 horse town don't even care so it blows my mind that people in more populated areas care enough to say something.

Imagine having cancer and someone says this to you because your hair is short

@annarocha3254

4 жыл бұрын

Happened to me all the time during chemo. People are silly.

@lovejaklyn6672

4 жыл бұрын

Currently bald because of chemo but starting to grow out my hair now and I wear big earrings and pink/red lipstick when I go out because I don’t want people eyeing me thinking I’m gay because of my hair.

@S_u_n_Flower_

4 жыл бұрын

@@annarocha3254 Jesus loves you

@S_u_n_Flower_

4 жыл бұрын

@@lovejaklyn6672 I pray God heals you!

@averys8938

4 жыл бұрын

@Wreghn Wohali bc it is not ok that people assume that your gay bc of what you look like

I know this doesn’t relate to being misunderstood as being gay just by your looks but I’m a 16 year old girl and my boyfriend is 17 his mum had him at 17 and now as she is older had other children including a boy and girl who is 2 and 3 years old. When me and my boyfriend take them places we get so many judgemental looks and whispers around us thinking that they are our children and more than a few times people saying things like “I hope that isn’t yours” and other things that really annoy me. They judge me for “having kids” at a young age even when I Havnt and it really upsets me when especially people say mean things like that because my boyfriend had a teen mum and what she had to deal with actually being a teen mum.

@valeriadelrio-rodriguez4953

4 жыл бұрын

I can somewhat relate to that. When my brother was a toddler I was a teen. So when id go to the grocery store w.him some people would look at me w.a face or ask if i was him mom. I would feel SO SO insulted and annoyed. Like a) do i look old enough to have a kid mind u I was in middle school.. And if i was really mad I would tell them how i was 8 when he was born so I wasnt even in puberty so no way in human bio would I be his parent. They made me feel old and insulted by invisibly calling me irresponsible when he was my bro. So I can relate

@S_u_n_Flower_

4 жыл бұрын

@@valeriadelrio-rodriguez4953 SAME! At least in my mind I have had so many weird looks when I go to the store with my little sister. Another thing is when I got a haircut the lady cutting my hair was asking about her as my sister and then said I hope that is your sister. Like I was 11 when she was born...

@somethinggood9267

4 жыл бұрын

Just be like"yup, gave birth at 12", and walk away. ; )

@honeylavender22

4 жыл бұрын

I can relate to this. I was a nanny from age 19 until 22 and I got so many dirty, judgemental looks when Id take them to the park.

@missygirl831

3 жыл бұрын

I had this while babysitting! It's funny, I wasn't even actually old enough to have some of them.

I have to say, you and I have very different views on a lot of things, but I LOVE this. Thankyou for making it clear that we can all be different and still be kind to one another. Politics, religion, sexual orientation, weight, lifestyle- whatever it is- no one is better or worse than anyone else for living their life, so long as they are not doing harm onto others. 🖤

@forestfairy8025

4 жыл бұрын

Also- love your pixie cut. It looks adorable. You are an adorable momma. Straight, gay or somewhere inbetween doesn’t matter to me at all.

@ashweemarii

4 жыл бұрын

Forestfairy it’s really terrible how it is in America right now. It’s feeled with so much unkindness... it’s like nobody knows the word nice anymore and I think more people need to speak out. Make a movement.

I really can’t understand people who are just rude by nature. Like how? It’s just so much easier to be nice

@pothosplant

4 жыл бұрын

It likely comes from a place of pain in the person themselves. Like the saying, "Hurt comes from hurt"

@pollypockets508

4 жыл бұрын

It's a mix for me. If someone doesn't insult me directly, I'm nice and cordial. Of course. But if someone insults me or my loved ones, I'm not gonna just sit there and take it.

@pollypockets508

4 жыл бұрын

I am rude to people who like Cannon in D or play it. I hate thar song with a passion.

@pancakeandpushup

3 жыл бұрын

Yes indeed! Some people are rude by nature. And we are only human sometimes we get offended and boom! You loose for sure. Better not to get down on their level delete or block immediately. 🙃

@daniellejohnson2373

3 жыл бұрын

I used to be really nice but after all the abuse I've endured from relationships and child abuse I've become cold hearted and mean only because I try to protect myself from being hurt again

I get it but I wish you'd acknowledge that actual gay mothers go through this and no matter how long or short there hair is they deal with that. This is a bigger issue than a pixie cut. edit: this is in no way hate towards Sarah, Ive tons of her other videos and love them. I just think there's a bigger issue here and wanted her to acknowledge it.

@imamuggle02

4 жыл бұрын

Totally agree.

@Jessie-xg2du

4 жыл бұрын

And it's so wrong people are so dumm

@sydneymccarthy7015

4 жыл бұрын

The Truth I can’t believe how ignorant you are . How is being gay evil ?

@emilie2667

4 жыл бұрын

@The Truth "stole that baby". You know that sperm banks are a thing right? A woman can have a child regardless of her sexuality. And even if they adopted them, its so terrible that they where adopted to a loving family instead of kept with a family that didn't want them (which they probably had good reasons to and putting them up for adoption was best for them and the child) huh? And God is going to straighten out what? If he didn't want people to be gay they wouldn't be gay, and gay people have always existed so how is he going to "straighten it out"?

@demolitiontyler9563

4 жыл бұрын

@The Truth HSSHSHAHHAHA WTF

As a gay man who doesn’t believe god exists or in religion itself, you constantly inspire me to be more open to those who’s believes differ to my own and simply be in agreement to treat them as much a human as I would anyone else. I’ve also simplified my life and the things I own because of you and it really feels like a breath of fresh air, so thank you.

@chiarascura7574

3 жыл бұрын

Dear gay man If she claims to feel insulted when called lesbian , what does it say about her views on homosexuals !?

@rebekahlochridge4449

3 жыл бұрын

@@chiarascura7574 he needs prayer

@audreymeyer601

2 жыл бұрын

@@rebekahlochridge4449 trust me love. We don’t want your prayers. We’re happy. That’s what matters.

@maragoldenlove

2 жыл бұрын

@@rebekahlochridge4449 you should stop acting like you're in a place to judge people. gross. the entitlement is appalling. I wonder what needs "prayer" in your life? care to share? because I'm pretty sure you're not without "sin'. its also hilarious how you don't see in his comment that he is a good, non-judgmental person, who despite having differing beliefs from this KZreadr, is able to be open and learn things from her and accept her for who she is and have it positively impact his life....unlike YOUR JUDGEMENTAL SELF apparently. I think you might be the one who needs some prayer and soul searching in your life before belittling others for their sexual orientation based on your religion that half of the world doesn't believe in. Truly, take a look in the mirror.

@rebekahlochridge4449

2 жыл бұрын

@@maragoldenlove actually I DO deal with sin like literally almost everyone . I'm not judging, I love him just like I love you too . I used to think I was a lesbian and I still struggle with an eating disorder . Im not perfect sadly but hate is definitely not the way !!

I’m as gay as the sky is blue and not ONCE, in my whole entire life, has anyone every assumes I’m gay. You know why? I have long hair. I feel you girl! 😂

@carliedaniel7667

4 жыл бұрын

Ew gay

@julez_gee9001

4 жыл бұрын

@@carliedaniel7667 RUDE

@Bea56601

4 жыл бұрын

@@carliedaniel7667 sad little person you

@heatherluna5075

4 жыл бұрын

Funny💗💗💗

@carliedaniel7667

4 жыл бұрын

@Natalie Wilson who said I think you're depressed if you have dyed hair I dyed my hair brown lol so not I🤣🤣

I never had the 'gay' label happen to me. However I've seen it happen with friends and co-workers. Plus homophobic remarks that come with it are awful. For those that are LGBT, I treat them with respect. I show my support and I'm happy to have people that make any positive influences on my life regardless of sexuality. I cannot stand to work or be with people that have a horrible attitude.

@gentlemanfox1326

4 жыл бұрын

@@Sherlock245 Straight people like you are so narcissistic to think you're the only sexuality on this planet. Grow up!

@gentlemanfox1326

4 жыл бұрын

@@Sherlock245 What? Do you get an award for having a gay friend? You sound dumb. Let me guess what kind of friend you are to them... Letting them know how broken and sinful they are. That's not a friendship. That's you trying to change them. Religion needs to be abolished! It's time humankind progresses forward.

This breaks my heart!! I love and appreciate everything you share and put out there especially in a here where is can be very volatile space. Thank you for always sharing and being so brave!! You are beautiful and you are SUCH a good mama!! Sending TONS of love! Xo! 💕💕💕

People assuming she’s a bad mother because of a haircut? SMH damn man sometimes I really hate the world we live in

@chiarascura7574

3 жыл бұрын

You believe her ? I don’t

Are we just skimming over the use of “kerfuffle”?? This bought me great joy 🙌🏽

I’ve had people think I’m gay, not based on the length of my hair (my hair is like 4 or 5 feet long lol) but because I’ve never been in a relationship before. It drives me crazy, because there are lots of reasons someone has never been in a relationship before. For me I chose not to date during high school because I wanted to focus on myself as an individual. And right now I’m only 18 years old. I am not gay, but I love everyone no matter what their lifestyle or beliefs are. 💕

@nvae7252

4 жыл бұрын

Same boat here, even my fam had to ask me that question 😝🤣🤣

@Alexis-pk2tn

4 жыл бұрын

Same girl

@naomimay82

4 жыл бұрын

My daughter is 17 1/2. She has never dated anyone because she is too busy with high school, marching band, and work. There is nothing wrong with not dating anyone in high school.

@ayasinx8797

4 жыл бұрын

I'm 28 and still never been in an "official" relationship. I'm just so used to being by myself and I'm quite content. Though sometimes I wonder if I am actually gay. But I'm very certain I'm attracted to men so.. xD

@leahbrandman7549

4 жыл бұрын

T Pink If you’re attracted to men, you ain’t gay, love. You’re just sensible in waiting for the right guy. Hold your head up high and don’t let the doltish haters cause you to question your sexuality. They are just be ignorant and obnoxious bullies. They know nothing. Everyone knew I was straight I high school even though I never dated. I had a reputation for being attracted to guys (not in a gross way). I hope this helps you!! What you’re going through is totally normal, I promise. 💓💓

I struggled with feeling “feminine” and in touch with my sexuality when I chopped my hair. Long story short: no single aspect of someone’s appearance makes them gay

@christengardner1466

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed I had a mental breakdown and cut all my hair off I'm not gay. People kind of confuse me sometimes I don't get why it bother some so much.

When I was 22 I decided to shave my head and donate my precious virgin long hair, people would always assume I was gay or weird instead of asking my reasons to donate my hair, I did it because my grandmother died of cancer, and I wanted to honor her. It was really hard for me to deal with harsh comments about my short hair, but thinking about my reasons always soothed me. People can be really mean out there, stay kind and true to yourself and others is the best way to manage harshness of the world we live in.

Girl I know the pain with the short hair and people assuming your gay. I had a side shave for a while and dyed my hair blue. People assumed then that I was gay. Then I wanted to get rid of the color and go back to may natural. So I decided to shave my head and kept it shaved until it was all my color....I was training a new employee and he interrupted me to ask if I was gay because I cut my hair like a boy...

@suzieshouse3boysandadog854

4 жыл бұрын

Sierra Pratt shame as I would like immune short but fear being judged as something I’m not. Poor Sarah she is just trying to be a good mum.

@MoonFoxASMR

4 жыл бұрын

I hope you reported his comment. That is completely inappropriate in a workplace.

@TheSierra546

4 жыл бұрын

Oh I ended up firing him. Once I told him I wasn't gay he started making passes at me then getting upset that I wasn't pursuing them. (I have been happily married for 8 years with 2 kids)

@KhatunaTurmanidzeX

4 жыл бұрын

@@suzieshouse3boysandadog854 and she is

@Karrambide

4 жыл бұрын

Sierra Pratt my cousin keeps her hair short, but is gay. Nobody should say that to u, hun.

I honestly would turn around and tell those people "hey! I'm not gay I am married to a man and I am a wonderful mama. However if I was gay id still be a kickass mama. " I have a pixie and it gets annoying but you have to be above their negative thoughts. Teach your children better than what those ppl were taught. Its just hair.

Your hair looks amazing! I've actually been considering a pixie cut myself since watching your channel! You are such a strong, radiant woman and mom!

I just recently found your videos.. You're an awesome mom, setting a great example, and instilling important values. And honestly love the hair cut on you!

I’m married and have a son and another baby on the way. I’m also not straight. I happen to have a similar taste in fashion to Sarah, but it’s totally separate from sexual orientation. People can like the styles they like and not necessarily be of any certain orientation. And regardless, no one should be pitying children based on whether their parents are gay or straight. What matters is that parents love and provide for their children. Pity kids without parents, not kids with loving parents who may or may not be gay.

@whitekallie75

4 жыл бұрын

'Pity kids without parents, not kids with loving parents' THANK YOU!!!! If people would stop focusing on the race/religion/sexuality/etc. of the parent(s) and focus more on the fact that they are loving parents, we wouldn't have as many issues. Coming from another LGBTQ+ community member!

I feel for the mamas & dadas who are gay and get treated that way! Not right at all :( one love ❤️

@neeblablaba

4 жыл бұрын

The Truth get fucked

@emilie2667

4 жыл бұрын

@The Truth Yes, lets worry about the gay parents when there is abusive, alcoholic, drug addicted, piece of shit parents out there.

Everyone being rude at her, and I am here like if it was me seeing her at the groceries I’ll be like “dang! Wish I’d had her bone structure to look as good as her!” God bless you a lot girl!!

Hey Sarah, I have recently started watching your videos, learning a lot of new things from you, your minimalist videos have inspired me a lot. Lovely message you put out there that we are called to love everybody. And about you getting ppl perceiving you in a mean way....don't care about them. Your are doing some fabulous work ❤❤

I have such a strong “who cares?” attitude that sometimes I have to stop myself and realise “wait.. some people do care about this.” Like I genuinely do not understand people who are disrespectful towards others because of their religion / sexual orientation etc. I don’t even have the energy, time or nerve to get upset about stuff like that. For example I hear stories about women wearing a hijab having difficulty finding a job and it’s like... WHO CARES WHAT SHE WEARS ON HER HEAD?

@LizMelody

4 жыл бұрын

I have the exact same mindset. It baffles me how much people care haha

@LizMelody

4 жыл бұрын

@spooky katt We are talking about being accepting and understanding of how people look, their sexual orientation, their religious beliefs, etc. I think you took "who cares" a bit too literally. We aren't going to pass judgement and be mean to those who are different. There is no need for you to call people idiots or fools just because they think differently than you.

@summerbreeze3358

4 жыл бұрын

@spooky katt Wow. What a nut-job person you are. Hating Chinese, Muslims, Latinos and anyone non-White? Sick neo-nazi.

@familyguy160

4 жыл бұрын

I care because women are being thrown into jail and beaten in public for not wearing hijab. Women are being honor killed in America and canada its not a third world problem only. So plz carw and be kind to women who wear hijab.

@user-rt9sw4lw7d

2 жыл бұрын

The presence of these comments makes me feel that the good is still there. Thank you for the purity of your hearts

I'm sure you did this but since you can't tell from the video I just want to say to all the new Mama's...... NEVER PUT YOUR BABY IN THE CAR SEAT TO NAP UNBUCKLED OR UNSUPERVISED. A tiny baby will slouch down, drop their chin to their chest, and cut off their air supply. Always buckle them in so they stay at the proper angle and position. Also please always keep it on the floor. I know an edited video is just a quick snap of a much larger experience so I want to make sure anyone watching knows how to keep their little ones safe. Hugs!

@NitrEmo

3 жыл бұрын

THIS THIS THIS THIS!!!!!! A car seat is never good for a baby to sleep in. In the car, while the car is moving, it just happens to be the safest available option, but even then you should do frequent stops and take the baby out every once in a while. NEVER EVER let your baby sleep in a car seat outside of the car. EVER!

I love your hair style! It looks so pretty and inspires me to go short again. Also you are a really great Mama! I can tell from seeing you interact with your kids. It’s not easy to keep your calm like you do.

As a new mama and a bisexual, I’m so sorry you were treated like that. Although I’m a mother and married to a man, doesn’t mean I don’t get treated like this. My parents still assume I’m “going to cheat on him with a woman” and it hurts to know they don’t take my marriage and my family seriously. I’m very happy with my life but some people will always judge others regardless simply because they don’t understand or agree with you. Just remember He loves us all and His judgement is the only judgement that matters

I love your pixie cut!!! And love your family so much! God bless you ♡

Amen! Can't we just be kind?! Also, I think you look beautiful and feminine.

@othersuchwhatnot

4 жыл бұрын

...much as many gay women also look beautiful and feminine.

Guess Im ignorant too bc I was under the impression that all Canadians were nice 🤷🏻‍♀️

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4 жыл бұрын

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4 жыл бұрын

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4 жыл бұрын

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4 жыл бұрын

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4 жыл бұрын

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"The freedom of the individual ends where the freedom of others begins." - Kant. Stay as you are and work on accepting/tolerating the opinions of others meaning nothing to you. They are the ones to be sorry for as of their limited horizon so you don't have to waste any energy on them.

Short hair is convenient. 🤷‍♀️ I also think it suits your face shape, and looks really cute. Someone’s hair shouldn’t be a reason for anyone to assume your sexual preference. People are jerks and I’m sorry.

I’m in love with your haircut. Two years ago I shaved my head, and luckily all of my church friends were super supportive, even older people. I thought they were going to judge me, but I was so wrong, I used to get so many compliments ❤️, by the church members, and the people outside of church. They made me feel super confident.

Sarah!!! You are amazing and I stand with you on this! Btw, I absolutely love your hair and have been thinking about getting a pixie cut too!

That is a great message and so healing! People will never change though so I've realized that the best thing is to ignore people and do not care what they think or you'll always feel unsettled.

I can't imagine how you're feeling. I hope you know that you rock this look so well! Stay true to yourself and grow out your hair if YOU truly want to.

This is so true! When my hair was really short I would get the same responses from ignorant people. I hope you put them in their place!!

@fabulouslifeinchrist1349

4 жыл бұрын

I did not get gay comments but people told me not to cut my hair and grow it out. One pastor even told me to so I can get a man. Lol. Smh. Ok, I don't tell you what to do with yours. I grew it out for a wedding and kept it longer. But, rude opinions about people's clothing and fashion are so uncalled for.

You’ve honestly been an inspiration to me for many years now. I’ve been a subscriber since you were pregnant with ivy! Absolutely love what you are doing and I have nothing but respect for you. Ilysm!!’❤️😁

Man I feel ya girl. I love how you explained this. Well said You are so considerate of all people. Thank you again for spreading good news and righteousness for the world I’d be honoured to have you as a mother, friend or even teacher

Love your perspectives on this! A few years ago i decided to get a pixie cut, i then had a family gathering coming up and i asked my best mate of 10+ years to come with me for support, they had met her before so she was well known by everyone. We started noticing these odd little comments and hints towards us and i couldn't quite figure out what was going on. I then ended up asking my cousin who told me that everyone thought that i had all of a sudden turned gay and was now in a relationship with my best friend, all because i had a pixie cut. I realized in that moment that people really don't know how to process change all to well and need compassion to adjust. I was of course shocked still because it really didn't even occur to me that was how i could be seen by others, i had always taken my friend with me to family events and they had met past boyfriends. I am also a very open and honest person so if i had have been interested in woman i would have had no shame expressing that to them, but yet they still all whispered behind my back and only came clean when confronted, all because they were uncomfortable because of their own internal judgement. But still! All because my hair was short! craziness! I've also recently shaved my hair off and yes a part of me was a little worried i would be judged again but then i realized anyone's judgement of me is irrelevant! =) i actually watched your video were you shaved it all off just before i did mine, and i remember you were so so happy with it, and so i'm so sorry that joy was taken from you, but im also inspired by how you choose to love regardless of the judgement, that's true strength! my goodness thats an essay! ha! but it's my way of saying, i see you, i feel you and i thank you for your opinions =)

I actually envy that you can wear your hair like that! I could never pull it off! You are amazing, don't listen to the haters!!

Just found you love your videos. You are absolutely adorable. I love the piece where you your sister and the kiddos were in the living room filming the sweater gift. The entire shot was so color coordinated....loved it!

Sarah ur really inspired me in many ways u have such an amazing personality and there is so much love and warmth I just enjoy all ur videos especially the ones with ur kiddos .People judge anyways and all the time so just don’t bother ur doing a wonderful job god bless

You’re awesome, I’m a young Christian momma/wife as well and I cannot agree with what you had to say about this topic and love enough!! amen, amen, & AMEN. Also I LOVE your hair!!! 😍

Love you girl! Keep the pixie! It’s so cute ❤️ I just don’t understand people sometimes 🤦‍♀️ Thanks for being true to who you are and continuing to shine bright for the Lord!

We are called to love people, you're amazing and what they talk about says more about them and what is on their heart than about you! Keep on keeping on❤

Oh sweet Sarah. I’m so sorry. When your voice broke into a cry I got teary! You are such a sweetheart and honestly if it’s anyone who can pull off the pixie cut it’s you. I would look butch for sho but you darling do not. Proud of you. Lots of love. Ps love the comment below on judging the sexual orientation of someone based on their hair, totally insanity! I 100% agree

Short hair and tomboy girl here, I feel this HEAVY

There’s so much I disagree with you about but I fully agree with your message of loving one another and being kind to one another

I just discovered your channel and am loving is so far. You are right we need to just love one another and respect eachother. I think your hair suites you and to only grow it out if that is what you want to do. Don't let others opinions dictate how you feel about your appearance! You are beautiful inside and out just the way you are!

Literally you hair is half the reason I watch ur videos! It's literally brilliant so gorgeous you should keep it!!! ❤️

🤬 the haters! I saw you’re hair cut and was like “hot dam! She’s beautiful! Wish I could rock a pixie!”

Haha you leaving the house to do errands sounds like me..😂🤦‍♀️...forgets everything

Sarah, You are such a ray of beautiful sunshine. Thank you for your honest videos. :)

I loved that coat you had in the beginning with the fur! Looks cozy!...and I love your hair just the way it is! ;-)

I have always suffered from migraine but believe me my condition hs improved a lot aftr I js cut off my hair...and my inspiration is you😍.I don't care if I look pretty or not but I do feel better for sure.

Wow, imagine being a gay parent, that would be extra hard 🥺

@thehippiecatholic

4 жыл бұрын

We need so much more representation of gay parents in our storytelling and media. I’m working on a novel right now and one of the main characters is a lesbian parental figure. Discrimination is rampant. Just for being a Catholic and an LGBTQ ally, I’ve gotten a crazy amount of hate in my comments and have been harassed before. Just for being an ally. I can’t even imagine what it’s like to be an LGBTQ Christian/Catholic. It breaks my heart 💔

@whitekallie75

4 жыл бұрын

the HippieCatholic I'm in the LGBTQ+ community and raised in a VERY prejudiced, Christian family (and I'm a Christian myself) and it's definitely rough. Hearing those hurtful comments from someone else never compares to hearing it from someone that's supposed to love you 💔

@thehippiecatholic

4 жыл бұрын

It's K's Life that’s horrifying that your parents have treated you like that. I support you immensely and though I do not know you, I can already tell you’re a lovely person. Know that you’re an image of God and hold onto that no matter what. My platform is LGBTQ Affirming, so if you ever feel like you need moral support, you’re always welcomed to join the conversation there 💕 God bless

@whitekallie75

4 жыл бұрын

the HippieCatholic my mom is the only accepting one out of the entire bunch. It gets rough and it's been hard basically 'losing' my entire family. Thank you for your kind words!

@thehippiecatholic

4 жыл бұрын

It's K's Life i lost my mom’s entire side of the family, except for my mom, but for completely different circumstances. I support you and I can relate to the pain in a certain kind of way ❤️

i'm sorry you have to go through this Sarah! sending love to you and your family

Tbh you loook good in you're hair !! And i thought first when i saw you "i wish i could rock short hairr like that ".pls dont cryy!! Sendingg love from Indiaa❤❤

I’m a long-ish haired lesbian and people assume I’m straight, lol. Definitely not the same stigma, but I kinda feel you there.

@thehippiecatholic

4 жыл бұрын

That’s why it’s so important to listen to people and let them tell you their sexual orientation because they’re the ones who will know it best. I like your peach profile pic 🥰

@christyyang93

4 жыл бұрын

Lol same... I’m a Long-haired lesbian ... still get the straight vibes from people

@gwenthomassss

4 жыл бұрын

I have long hair and people used to think I was a lesbian?? It makes no sense

@jenniferconnors8220

4 жыл бұрын

same girl, same. I've gotten, " you dont LOOK like a lesbian"... or "youre too pretty to be a lesbian"...or "what a waste of a woman". Lovely right?

@S_u_n_Flower_

4 жыл бұрын

Jesus loves you! Come to Him!

I just buzzed my hair, in lockdown, and I hope someone does say this to or about me, I will say... “Even if you didn’t mean to offend people who are gay, it is offensive and hurtful." I would not tell them my sexual orientation, it is none of their business. This is just bullying, plain and simple.

I LOVE YOUR HAIR!!! You are an incredible mother and showing your kids that strength and femininity are one in the same and have nothing to do with someone’s hair. Do what feels best for you and your family but those other people have their own fears they are dealing with - so don’t let them impact your heart love (easier said than done I know) 😘

Sending you love! I got the same remarks in public for my short hair and my different views It’s so silly how it’s still all stereotyped You’re beautiful 💖💜💖 💯

First time watching her and she seems like a great person, it’s just sad how this world 🌎 can have so much hate and not enough love ❤️ & acceptance 🥺

First off, by growing your hair out to “appear more feminine,” you’re directly validating the mentality these people have. There is nothing inherently feminine about the length of someone’s hair. Second, I understand you want to love everybody, but you’re presenting the experience you had with being called gay as some sort of horrible, demeaning insult that you’re having to deal with. That is wrong. Imagine how gay women must feel watching what you’re saying. There is nothing wrong with being gay. There is nothing wrong with being a gay woman. There is nothing wrong with being a woman with short hair. There is nothing wrong with being a gay women with children, as long as those children are well taken care of and YOU know that they are. As long as you know it, it shouldn’t matter what anybody else thinks. There is nothing wrong with being a straight women with short hair and children. I don’t believe you had ill intentions by any means, but please be more mindful of the way you present these comments that you find so insulting. Please rock your short hair if it makes you happy and continue loving your kids as you clearly do. If someone wishes to remain ignorant and judge you without knowing you, let them live in ignorance. But please strive for mindfulness and open-mindedness in your own life, because that’s all you can control.

@emmagnolia4271

4 жыл бұрын

Nicole Gabriel from the way she was speaking I don’t think she meant that she found people saying she was gay insulting it seemed like the people were saying rude or derogatory things about gay people or her “being gay” and that’s what she was disgusted with. I don’t think she articulated it as clearly as she meant to but I think she was just trying to say that people are horrible for being so nasty about who they thought was a gay woman. I don’t think she would’ve responded this way if it was only ever people asking “are you gay?”

@prakashkesadabahargeet3746

4 жыл бұрын

This comment is everything

@melanied8381

4 жыл бұрын

Wow, well said Nicole Gabriel! I totally agree with you. That same rationale should be applied to other areas of judgement: racism, religion etc.

@Moonstone_Wolf

4 жыл бұрын

Nicole Gabriel thank you for saying this!! I couldn’t have said it better!

@donnamuller6460

4 жыл бұрын

I'm in my 60s and was considered very attractive in my day. I'll tell you why I don't think this thing even happened AT ALL. I homeschooled our 6 kids for 19 years, so we were out and about all the time. I've had EVERY length of hair, including shorter than Sarah's, in addition to growing out a bald head from chemo due to breast cancer. In all that time, not a word or inuendo was spoken to or about me when my hair was super-short. The story just doesn't ring true, sorry.

I absolutely 100% love and agree with this!!! ❤ You are amazing!!!

I think the pixie cut really suits you. I love your channel your so real and raw and I love that your open about your devotion to Christ

I’ve been watching your KZread videos for over a year now because I love your advice on parenting, minimalism, and generally being healthy. I agree that yes people should NOT be making assumptions based on your appearance HOWEVER, I have to say I’m disappointed you didn’t outwardly say that being gay is not an insult. You’re so afraid of strangers thinking you’re gay when it’s not an insult unless you think it is.

@LS13.

2 жыл бұрын

No I think it’s just disrespectful to her husband. The issue was assumptions, even after knowing her channel people saying shes gay but doesn’t know it yet etc etc..... that is very insulting to her family.

I had no idea that’s something you (and your kids!) have to deal with in public! Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable. Stay awesome!

Oh I love your purse. The color and texture look amazing! Do you mind sharing what brand it is? Btw, LOVE your pixie cut. So cute. Forget rude people. Do you.

I’m sorry you go through that. I love your hair !

I used to have short hair just like you, maybe even a little shorter, when I was in my early 20's because I wanted the old school Wyona Ryder haircut. But back then no one commented on it like they did to you but they would tell me I should grow out my hair. When I first cut it the hairdresser told me he didn't think I should cut it because I am a woman. I cut it. I am so happy today that I did because it grows back! I am so thankful for my hair and honestly, it's fun to try new hairstyles. And new colors. I have tried so many haircuts and colors and it's so cool to know today. Today I am all natural, haircolor and letting it grow but if anyone wants to go for a specific haircut or cut it short, go for it! It's so refreshing and I felt very feminine in my short hair. Follow your heart.

@malloryg4251

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing! I think a lot of people have that reaction to women cutting their hair short because they see long hair as more "feminine," "sexy," "youthful" or whatever. It's one of the many ways a woman is "supposed" to look in order to be appealing to men. But femininity is not defined by hair! There is so much more to it and I don't like the fact that women are often reduced to our physical characteristics, as opposed to being embraced for who we are and how we carry ourselves. I have super long hair right now and I'm dying to cut it short (it gets in the way and I want a fun haircut!!), but I get so many compliments on it now and I'm dreading the negative comments about cutting it. "Your hair was so beautiful- why did you cut it??" Anyway, that's my rant ; )

@Brbljiva

4 жыл бұрын

My hairdresser asked me not to tell anyone that she cut my hair. Because people would think that she doesent know whats pretty and I was almost baled. hahaha at that time i found it as a compliment and didn't mid at all. In fact i loved it. I think its better to have these hair crazy periods while u are in 20's and without kids. :)

that's how lgbt+ people feel every single day!!

Being called "gay" is not insulting!

@agoogleuser169

4 жыл бұрын

a French lady in Switzerland it is not, but people say it in an insulting way which still makes you feel insulted.

@indiaxlovee

4 жыл бұрын

a French lady in Switzerland to you lol

I think your hair is super cute! I love it! I tried it but with my curls it just didn’t work for me.

This isn't related to anything but wow she's really pretty

@user-im7li2ec9s

4 жыл бұрын

@Katie Uh what???

@plant3890

4 жыл бұрын

@Katie What did he do? ;-;

@kolobok4491

3 жыл бұрын

@katie what’s wrong with complimenting someone?

So sorry that people are being rude. It's really none of their business!

Love your hair and your style in general. ❤️ Just be the beautiful YOU you are. Forget haters.

Stay strong! I love your videos and I wish I could pull off a pixie cut. Please don’t ever change because of other people’s ignorance. ❤️

It makes me sad that many people feel insulted to be seen as gay and/or want to change themselves, their hair, the way they dress, to stop those instances from happening.

@Stevie-oy8zj

4 жыл бұрын

Doglover 1002 same. But she is religious so makes sense unfortunately

@KassieJane

4 жыл бұрын

that's not at all what she said, nothing is wrong with being gay, that's what her whole rant is about. She's mad about the fact that people made outrageous assumptions about her entire personality and ability to mother children based off of her appearance, and them also thinking gay = bad mom. Watch the video again.

@alexandra6864

4 жыл бұрын

@@LouPendergrass11 i agree.

I had a short pixie haircut for three years. I had so many people who thought I was gay or something. It was bothersome at times. But it was when I went to Bible college, that it really hurt me. I had a girl tell me that she didn't think I'd last long at Bible college because I looked so different. I've grown up in church my whole life, was saved at age seven. I went to Bible college to learn more and study the Bible and theology and because my hair was short, I was looked down upon. Thankfully not everyone there had that opinion. I met my husband of five years there. He said he fell in love with me because I was so different. I looked unique and that made a great impression on him. 💕

Your pixie cut is gorgeous. Its shiny and healthy and frames your face beautifully☺.

This is so sad... I have the same cut and I love it. I also feel lucky that the people around me did not make any comments what so ever. You don't have to grow your hair, just keep it how you like. You don't need to change, they do.

I actually think you look amazing with short hair it really suits you, I love your style. I can't believe some people in this day and age 😞 I have a shaved head and I love it, would never want to go back to long hair 😁

I’m so sorry that you have experienced this. I’m imagining how hard it would be for gay people to experience what you have. You are so stunning and it’s amazing to me that people just assume a woman with short hair (pixie cut) are gay. You seem like a wonderful mum / human being and thank you for being so raw xx

i used to get these samaritan boxes in my country when i was a kid!!! that was such a joy to open it. thank you for doing it to bring joy to some kids somewhere!

Hi Sarah, I found your channel today and I'm loving it, I've already watched several videos. I am Brazilian, I live in Rio de Janeiro and I am learning English. Your haircut is beautiful, I love it! God bless you and your beautiful family.

Wow! I never thought that you would be dealing with that kind of stuff just because of your haircut! First let me say: PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don’t grow your hair back because of other people’s opinion! And not that mine counts anyway, but you look so soooo good with your short hair. I feel it matches your personality and type the best out of all haircuts you’ve had so far

"We are called to LOVE people" 🎉🎉🎉🙏🙏 Thank you! Its my firm belief. I leave the judging to Jesus, I do what I am called to do. If I am asked about my faith and what and why i believe what I do, then i will share. Until then, I work on me, and I love.

Just found your channel and really enjoy ! First , I love your pixie! Second it is all those ignorant people we need to feel pity for!!!

You're a Beautiful and Strong young Woman!! Shame on anyone for judging you!! I guarantee They are the ones with sad lives. Wish them well and realize they are just sad folks themselves. Hugs from Napa 💕

This popped up in my recommended even though I have very different moral and political beliefs than you... but I just have to say, those comments you got about people pitying your kids because they view you as ‘gay’? They’re rooted in homophobia. Please teach your children that those people are confused and when people are scared and don’t understand something, they can be hateful and can cause damage to other human beings. Being gay is NOT an insult, it is a way of being. Brush it off. One love! 🌈✊🏻❤️

OMG!!! You are such beautiful person In & out. I've learned so much from you, you're an incredible human. Keep doing what your doing because your one of the reasons I even get on KZread

Hola muchacha! I just want to say I’m so thankful I ran into your videos! You seriously have a talent for inspiring people and beautifully in and out! People that will criticize you in anyway are haters! You keep doing what you do girl!!

I watched 2 of you're videos and I already love U. You are so funny and easy to relate and lovong you're haircut. Girl you rock 😘