• Listen WITHOUT ADS: go the end of the video and hit the replay button (1:06:14) • Spotify link: in the description 00:00 Hey Violet - Better by Myself 03:17 Zedd, Kehlani - Good Thing 06:46 Lizzo - Good As Hell 09:23 Olivia O'Brien - Love Myself 12:57 NIve - Who I Am 16:22 Sigrid - Don't Feel Like Crying 18:53 mxmtoon, Carly Rae Jepsen - ok on your own 22:22 ROLE MODEL - alive 25:25 NIve - Liberated 28:37 Keisha Shade' - Get Over It. 30:49 gnash, RKCB - feelings fade 34:49 Clinton Kane - So I Don't Let Me Down 38:25 Jeremy Zucker - not ur friend 41:20 DEAN, Eric Bellinger - I'm Not Sorry 44:51 Halsey - You should be sad 48:15 Sigrid - Don't Kill My Vibe 51:16 Waterparks - I Miss Having Sex But At Least I Don't Wanna Die 53:30 GALXARA - Jealous of Myseld 56:39 Ava MAx, Lauv, Saweetie - Kings & Queens 59:35 blackbear - do re mi 01:03:02 5 Seconds of Summer - Old Me hi! ♡ Self-love. 2 words we hear from everywhere. "we should love ourselves more" "we should embrace our flaws”. But it’s not that simple. It isn’t as easy as telling yourself: “you know what? from this day forward I’m gonna love me for being me and I am gonna be more confident” and be done with it. No. It is not something u can achieve overnight. Self-love and acceptance is a journey. During the whole quarantine thing, being locked inside my home all day every day, I finally had time to reflect on my life, my choices, about people in my life...It gave me the opportunity to think more deeply about me and my mental health. I thought about stuff I wanted to work on, things that were in a way of my happiness and self-confidence; And I worked on that. I was self-conscious about my height for as long as I can remember. But you know what? Last month I wore boots with high heels. Was I taller than almost everybody I passed on the street? Yes. Did it bother me? No. I couldn’t care less. Last week I made few phone calls I’ve been putting off for so long, and It wasn’t that bad after all (I don’t know why I was so terrified). Did my hands shake for like 30 min after the call and could I hear my heartbeat in my head? Yes. But it passed and I felt so good after. I used to LOVE painting, just for my own enjoyment. But ever since I started to look for inspiration on Instagram and Pinterest, I began to compare my work to others so much. If my painting wouldn’t come out perfect why even bother in the first place. I forgot why I started to paint to begin with - a creative outlet. My creative hobby turned into something I began to hate myself for. I started to feel like I wasn’t good enough. But good enough for WHO? That was the question I asked myself recently. I don’t post my art anywhere, I painted because of the sole enjoyment of it. So, I decided that in march, I will pick up my tablet an draw a picture a day. Just one quick picture. And I fell in love with drawing again. Am I good at it? I don’t think so but I like it so it doesn’t really matter does it. I also stopped telling self-deprecating jokes and started to speak more positively about myself. Self-love is that it isn’t only about the superficial stuff (as important as being confident in your own body/skin is). It’s about acknowledging the fact that you deserve better from others too. You deserve to be treated well; you deserve to be cared for the same amount you care for others. Cutting ties and ignoring people that don’t make you happy, people that always put you down, people that don’t care about you the same amount you care about them, people that don’t believe in you. It is about growing and being comfortable in your own company. You learn as you go, you accept yourself for your failures and find strength in them. Be yourself in every situation because your soul is precious and beautiful the way it is, and you shouldn’t feel the need to change who you are for other people. The importance of your own well being is just as important as getting an education, going to work, hanging out with friends. Loving yourself is no small feat. Some days you may feel as though your confidence will never be the same or happiness won’t go back to normal. We all have our ups and downs. But it will. You will feel joy, find confidence, and know yourself in a way you never did before. Your life is precious and is worth everything and more. You deserve love, respect and honest. You deserve to be treated well and to be noticed. You deserve to live your life the way you want to. You don’t however deserve to be hurt even by yourself. Sorry for it being so long. I just wanted to share a bit more from my own experiences. If you did read it till the end though, thank u. I love you all so much Remember to care of yourself, stay healthy and remember you are loved more than you know. I’m sending y’all a big hug. Love N.♡ ♡ Spotify link: open.spotify.com/playlist/7knDYZUw90NY3M6nN9ewRC?si=dyHPL8SlRiGhFlcxupzFvQ ♡ Apple music (by lovely @Willow) - music.apple.com/us/playlist/im-going-to-make-very-beautiful-life-for-myself-no/pl.u-gxblqq4u585V3JY ♡ Timestamps are in the pinned comment ♡ Background: I used the app called "windows 98 simulator" ♡ my ko-fi page (if you want you can tip me some money): ko-fi.com/sunsetdreams ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡ If you see any ads on my videos I am sorry, I sadly can't do anything about it. I don't make any money off of them, it's monetized because of copyright - the money from ads goes to the song owners. To fix this you can: a) go to the end of the video and then replay it from the beginning b) install a good ad-block on your browser

@enak0e

3 жыл бұрын

12:57 wrong NIve song on the above listing, but love that I discovered this artist through you anyways

@nautilume7114

3 жыл бұрын

You're an angel, thank you!!

@halfwitch13

3 жыл бұрын

Hi, thank you for making this playlist. And your effort for making caption, pls don't delete it. It's a nice reminder for us.. xoxo

@crystalalbright2544

3 жыл бұрын

Smile for Me!

@Rie_Bot

3 жыл бұрын

hey may i ask a question? what do you use to make those villain playlists? thanks :))

to all those reading this: take care of yourself. go grab some water. eat a nice snack. take a nap. shower. just go make your life just a little more enjoyable, even if it's temporary. make the present memorable while you can. much love

@brii9756

3 жыл бұрын

u r so nice, thx

@melissa4589

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much

@HeWhoDoesntExist

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, kind stranger

@nesser52

3 жыл бұрын

I'm starving

@user_celia

3 жыл бұрын

thank u so much

I'm proud of you and everyone else who has made progress in self-love. It's one of the hardest things to achieve.

@v1s54l8

3 жыл бұрын

thank you! i had very mild anxiety last month but i just recently cut my hair and feel very confident

@just_ellie_7422

3 жыл бұрын

@@v1s54l8 I'm glad to hear that! I bet the new haircut looks amazing

@melodiemonnier8722

3 жыл бұрын

I tried but i can't... any advice?

@Camila-tb9wd

3 жыл бұрын

@@melodiemonnier8722 i havent achieved self love about my personality and who i am yet but if it helps i can talk about my body, which ive been struggling a lot. i still have hard days but i just like to think about all the AMAZING things it allows me to do like enjoying the rainy days without being completly freezing, rinding bikes during the sunset, going on walks and seeing all kinds of the most beatiful birds, dancing to my favorites songs that really make me happy, which also includes doing high school musical perfomances with my friends (our favorite movie in common) and a lot of other things, i really just try to be grateful and also something that boost my confidence is to dance in front of the mirror with just my underwears, and also, wear confy and baggy clothes, it helped during the process. i really thought that i could live my best life if i changed my body but i was so completly wrong, instead i lost myself and found out that what i really needed was to take care of and love myself, yes, it is hard, but you got this !!

@cathawk9848

3 жыл бұрын

@@melodiemonnier8722 I know you probably can't do this if you live in like a city of something. For me its dancing to some dope music in the middle of nowhere, under the moonlight, while wearing nearly nothing. Alternative Get dressed up in your best outfit. That one outfit that you feel most alright in. Then just do whatever, but while being awesome.

In the past weeks, I'm just in a survival mode. Procrastinating until the very last minute in my exams and school works. Taking exams without even touching my reviewers. I just wait for the days to get by since I can't see the future. I really wanted to change. I'm always trying but also fail everytime. This playlist really helped me to try again in loving myself and be a better version. I just danced with the music with my eyes closed. I'll just try and try until one day I can finally be proud of myself.

@mere_serendipity8275

3 жыл бұрын

You've got this ❤ little steps are valid We're all different and sometimes we should take our time and listen to ourselves

@anstry1494

3 жыл бұрын

Best of luck, you'll definitely be proud of yourself one day. just keep it up

@maddi3cd974

3 жыл бұрын

God, I relate to this so much. I have had the worst grades I’ve ever had this year. The past couple months my procrastination has been so bad that I’ve accumulated overdue and late work in pretty much all of my subjects. It’s really upsetting sometimes because in past years I worked hard in school and was a straight A student. Just seems like this year my motivation and ability to focus have completely gone. And obviously my problems don’t hold a candle to the things a lot of other people have to deal with, and I am grateful for the privelages, and good things and people I’ve got in my life. Just, I’ve struggled a lot lately thinking that I’m inferior to my friends and classmates because I feel like I’m a mess so much of the time. A lot of the time I just see them and how they’re able to juggle so much and stay motivated enough to keep up with school, and it’s hard realizing that I’m struggling so much just to stay afloat. I’ve been trying to change my mindset though. Cause I’ve realized that when I berate myself like that it only makes me feel worse about myself. It only makes me have less motivation to go and try to get anything done. I don’t know if this would be helpful to you at all, but one thing that has helped me, is just telling myself I’m not a bad person because I’m having a difficult time at the moment, with whatever it is. That might seem kinda obvious, but sometimes when I’m so in my head and upset with something about myself, it really helps give me a shock of logic. I just try to remind myself that I’m not stuck in a corner, even if I try to change things and I fail or don’t do as well as I’d hoped. I always have the power to do at least one small thing that can make my situation a small bit better. Sure, maybe I won’t be making any drastic changes by doing this, but I’m still doing something consistently that will make dealing with my problem a little bit easier, every day. So I just try to focus on the small steps, small things that’ll make my issues seem a little smaller, every time. Anyways, sorry for the novel of a response, but I just wanted to let you know, hey, you’re not alone. And all this to say, we got this. Might be slow going, but we’re entirely capable. The fact that we’re trying is something to be proud of already. We’ll get better, our struggles will too, and that’s another thing we can be proud of. :)

@Narra7925

3 жыл бұрын

@@maddi3cd974 Thank you for your long response. I read it for a few times so that I would always remember this. I'll try your trick to realize that we're not a bad person just because we're in a difficult situation rn. We can do this! Also I read a post about this: "Hi, I know that you're tired and scared of not being good enough and screwing up again, that's why you continually blame yourself, putting all the pressure. There'll be time like this, but please don't forget that your worth isn't based on what you accomplish. Take one step at a time. shirlyn."

@lilyniOwO

3 жыл бұрын

@@maddi3cd974 i feel you... the worst part of mine is I am going on a shopping spree, wasting all my money but i cant stop...

THATS RIGHT! LOVE YOURSELF QUEENS AND KINGS, YOU GOT THIS. I KNOW EVERY AND EACH OF YOU CAN GET THROUGH ANYTHING.

@stickwashere5248

3 жыл бұрын

@Wendy Seddy WELL I'LL HERE TO TELL THE ENBIES THAT THEY ARE SO VALID AND LOVED. YALL GOT THIS!! STAY STRONG BESTIES!! YOU GUYS ARE STRONG AND CAN GET THROUGH ANYTHING

@brookesscrapbook7266

2 жыл бұрын

Avvaaa Maaxxx vibessss

@romyjmeow

2 жыл бұрын

@Wendy Seddy We are Royalty! Warriors! Monarchs! Conquerors! Champions! Uhh... what else... Bosses, Coole Beans?? Idk, I like "monarchs" the best :D

@Creation_kitchen

Жыл бұрын

@@romyjmeow 😂😂😂 Thanks man

hey, you. yeah you, the person reading this comment. you’re so beautiful and i’m so proud of you for going on a self-love journey. i know you can do this, just never give up on yourself 💖

@raihanazhakupova2271

3 жыл бұрын

I love you too ❤️

@codey7701

3 жыл бұрын

Thank youuuu. You as well!!

@pankhuripatel6627

3 жыл бұрын

But it feel really hard. Whatever I do, I always end up messing everything up. I got addmission in one of the best college but my grades are declining day by day. I feel I am the worst daughter and I am not worth of anything I am getting

@barneyyuyy1901

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!:)

@diyapradeep5639

2 жыл бұрын

@@pankhuripatel6627 YOU'LL GET THERE!!!!!!! CHEER UP all u need is a tiiiiight hug, so go get one girl

i used to have this "good girl" persona. being the oldest daughter, people expect great things from me. and i did. but i never once happy. the one thing i love most doing in this world is drawing. but someone precious to me once said "ur talent is useless" and i should be more responsible and be more realistic. so i did everything to maintain my "good girl" persona and that persona i created wasnt me. i feel empty, hurt and miserable. having good grades, enter one of the top university in my country, taking major that is labeled as 'marvellous, smart people thing.' after years and years of hiding my true self, there was this rope inside my mind and it just snapped. i feel numb and hate myself every single day. i start not to caring about my grades and study. i hate what i study. it just so against what i dream of. the total opposite of what i love. my grades are failing and my friends are progressing. i feel left out. i feel lonely. my dream is i want to start living a life i dont regret and loving myself more. but everything rn feel so out of place. i pray that one day, i can finally be free.

@minanina5985

3 жыл бұрын

Hey, so... I get what you mean, I was like that too, everyone around me expected so much and I started setting my standards too high, so high that I felt like I was failing everything I did, and I stopped studying.. and went to drawing. I want you to know that, we have this life to do whatever we want, it's YOUR life, not anyone else's. You need to do what YOU want to do. It'll probably be hard and take a while, but please be patient and KEEP GOING! I'm rooting for you

@NeziesStories

3 жыл бұрын

Girl, I personally don't know you but after reading this comment I thought it was me who wrote that. I FEEL YOU so damn much!!! I'm the oldest daughter too and had all straight A's throughout high school but entered college right when the pandemic began so I began slacking. I wasn't over my "senioritis" and I was so used to an organized in-person education so learning virtually all of a sudden threw me wayyyyyy off track!! I feel disconnected from most of my friends as well and feel hella left out from those that have been striving with their studies during the pandemic. And girlie, when you said "My dream is I want to start living a life I don't regret" I almost CRIED! I literally told my family this yesterday that I don't want to be wasting my life trying to live up to society's standards in order to make a living for myself. Isn't it funny how society is basically saying that "To make a living you have to stop yourself from truly living"? Like GOSH DANG! I just want to open a coffee/tea shop and listen to people tell their stories like through open mics and whatnot. I don't want to be stressing out 24/7! Everything feels out of place for me too but let me tell you something. I think it's a sign I saw your comment today because today is the day I started catching up on my missing assignments out of all days! I slowly feel like I'm getting my life back on track. I'm not completely ok yet but I'm getting there and I guess that's what matters. One small step at a time. It can get better! I'm going to give you my email and Insta username so contact me whenever or never. It's totally up to you if you want to and do what you're comfortable with! Anyways, lots of love from one girlboss to another!

@susannah8342

3 жыл бұрын

Live the life YOU want, not what everyone else expects. It's YOUR life, don't let anyone tell you different.

@june4573

3 жыл бұрын

i could relate with you on spiritual level. i thought i wrote this ... maybe start doing something you truly want without them knowning would help?

@djantisocial6827

3 жыл бұрын

You are amazing and strong. Do what you love, before everyone else must be yourself. Don't let anyone tell you who you are or what to do. You are the main character of your own life, and only you have a say in what you do.

You're not just making playlists... you're probably saving lives and changing them...and you healed mine🥰 thank you...and I hope you're okay wherever you are

@sunsetdreams

3 жыл бұрын

That means so much to me. I- thank u for the beautiful words. and i'm glad u feel better ♥ I hope u're okay too♥

@flamingo6252

3 жыл бұрын

@@sunsetdreams I am.. and I'm glad you appreciated my comment... It actually makes me think that in this world, there are people who truly care.. you're a gift to this world...so don't ever forget that!! ..thank you so much..❤️

@CherryBerryFashion

3 жыл бұрын

@@flamingo6252 You are so sweet

@Creation_kitchen

Жыл бұрын

Reading this whilst listening to the music just makes me cry 🥺

@kilariinazuma8273

Жыл бұрын

DharrMann reference? X')

I just spent what felt like forever just crying under my blanket. I finally just decided to find some lofi and think for a while since i feel like shit. This playlist kinda caught my eye so I was like fine why not. But the comment section is so nice and positive and the description under the playlist was kinda nice to read I’d probably still be sniffling and wallowing in self hate and pity if I didn’t choose this playlist. I don’t actually feel much better but at least I don’t feel like crying as much anymore.

@redvinet6591

3 жыл бұрын

I know it probably doesn't count for much seeing as self hatred really is a weird battle that doesn't allow you to see what other people see, but you seem like a really really cool person. im proud of you for choosing some lighthearted lofi and thank you for bringing yourself to the point where you can feel better!!!!!!!!!!!!! ill be rooting for you :)

@leximastin7826

3 жыл бұрын

a song for that is Way Less Sad by AJR, its hype and lets you know its okay to not be okay

@salmafarag4377

3 жыл бұрын

I know this is a little late but you are loved, I don’t know why u were crying but you’ve got this baby. Just know your worthy from yourself and that your perfect in every way 🙂

After breaking down for an hour. Now im listening to this playlist cuz bish aint loosing her self-love and confidence over problems.

@sindhujasai1345

2 жыл бұрын

That's my gurl! Go get that croissant filled with self love!!

@giingerbread5140

2 жыл бұрын

YES QUEEN

@yd6484

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly 🙏👏👏♥️

@Wow-pg9wr

Жыл бұрын

PREACH 🎤

I feel like people aren’t told enough about the importance of self-love. It’s lovely to see that being put out, your message is very inspiring. Thank you!

In LOVE with this retro aesthetic

@v1s54l8

3 жыл бұрын

ikr

I don’t know who needs to hear this or read this but, you’ll get it. Everything you’re working for, working towards, everything you deserve and want. You’re going to get it.

@barneyyuyy1901

2 жыл бұрын

I know this is late but thank you soon much for saying that. This made me want to keep going. Ly💞💞

@matybaybump4565

11 ай бұрын

I claim your words🙏🏾❤

listening to this while avoiding all the projects I have to do for school

I feel so lonely. I lost friends and have no body to talk to, I just wish I could find someone that is a true friend. Thanks for this playlist! I feel a little bit better now!

@carmenzonneveld3996

3 жыл бұрын

you can always send me a dm on instagram :) @carmenzonneveldd

@carolinepatricia29

2 жыл бұрын

my dm's open if you're looking for a friend @squidward._.420

This playlist is seriously worth gold... I am struggling with loving myself because I feel like I am never enough and I will never be considered beautiful because I don't fit society's beauty standard. The truth is, we are all human!! We are all beautiful and the beauty from someone else doesn't take away from your own. You are all stunning, people

I broke up recently. I am very depressed and sad but I know it's no use worrying about someone who hurt me. It was a life lesson and I can look forward to future! Family, friends, my goals and adventures. And eventually also to meeting someone who will respect me, to share my love and life with. ♥ But being alone is not a failure, one should love themselves and be the most important and supporting person in their life. Love yourself and don't let anyone dull it or take that love away.

@aldiyabeisembay5750

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so proud of you 🤩 your so brave and amazing 💓 never stop believing in yourself :)✊

@serenas.8586

3 жыл бұрын

I also broke up recently, i'm the one who took the decision but still it hurts bad.. we were in a long distance relationship, and love didn't failed us, the distance did BUT things happen for a reason, I'm a strong believer in that. Anyway, it was just to let you know I know what you are going through and i wanted to give you this advice : Do things you never did before. Dare to live wildly and try new things, discover yourself a little more everyday and you will be okay i promise

@danaisnthere

3 жыл бұрын

same. I broke up wit my bf long distance 9 days ago. Being sad and crying all day WONT help me. I am grateful bc i learned a lot of things that i WONT repeat and don't want in my life. I just wanna be successful and my right person will come in the correct time.

@danaisnthere

3 жыл бұрын

@@serenas.8586 same haha. Well i love him with all my heart but he just got tired of distance and started looking girls while he was with me. I just missed the person he was a month ago bc he just changed so fast... Well, things happens for a reason and im still grateful bc now i know what i dont want in my life.:)

@raihanazhakupova2271

3 жыл бұрын

I am with you 😍

I'm like 3 songs in and already hell fucking yes, i needed this so badly

This is the quote I live by, "I think I'm the worst, so I act like I'm the best" I live by these words, I think that I am horrible so infront of everyone I act like I think im the best.

@FollowerofDuck

3 жыл бұрын

yk, i used to do the same thing and eventually i actually started thinking that i was the best 🧍‍♀️

@rupalr1861

3 жыл бұрын

I dint understand, wont it make you feel like an imposter instead?

@aldiyaromirbayev5593

3 жыл бұрын

What does it even mean?

@riss2509

3 жыл бұрын

same ik im stupid and clumsy cuz ik the clumsy part is true and i have no clue were i got from but today it was raining so i danced infront of all the kids at my school and they looked at me but people like being around me. i live by "She never looked pretty, she looked like art, and art isnt pretty, its not supposed to be pretty, it was ment to make you feel something

@headofathousandsheepswool

3 жыл бұрын

@@rupalr1861 A little. But the thing is that when you act confident, people will think you are. And people like confidence. So if you act like you have everything you need, like you don't want friends or a partner even when you're cripplingly lonely, people are drawn to that. You may just get what you want by acting like you don't need it or already have it, It's the law of attraction. And when people constantly compliment you and you find friends through your fake confidence, that will eventually give you real confidence. You will feel fake a lot of the time. When I come home and sit with myself for a bit, and I realise that I'm not quite who people think I am because I'm not as strong and confident as I act, it hurts. But it does build confidence to be surrounded by people who like you, and to build the strength to say no to toxic people no matter how bad you want their attention because you deserve better, that can come from essentially faking it until you make it.

I am so afraid to fail and to not have enough life in me to get through it

@linablz

3 жыл бұрын

no, believe in yourself, you can do it ,we can do it. sending virtual hugs to you

@riss2509

3 жыл бұрын

i always say no regrets cuz im never gonna have regrets in life, and i once was so deppressed and scared to fail but its apart of life and once i fail its like skateboarding i get back up ive fallen more then i can count but each and everytime i tried again.

@bridgetparker3650

3 жыл бұрын

No true courage without fear. You've got this!!

Good as hell by Lizzo, why can I perfectly imagine Harry Styles singing this song and rocking it?

@carmenzonneveld3996

3 жыл бұрын

exactlyy yes love harry

I’m currently drowning in missing assignments with a lack of motivation to start on a single one. The last day to accept late work is in 17 days for one of my classes and I need to get all my late work done within 3 weeks. I’m playing this playlist and will force myself to start. It’s going to be hella painful but wish me luck 🤧✌🏼️ Edit(s): I’m hoping to keep myself accountable through this... 5/4/21 (DAY 1): oh god I don’t even want to open the page to see all the missing assignments I need to do- 5/5/21 (DAY 2): I opened the missing assignments page and it’s not looking pretty 😅 5/6/21 (DAY 3): Didn’t do anything and I feel pretty bad... ☹️ 5/7/21 (DAY 4): I did an assignment but it was one that needed to be done last minute. Haven’t done any late work yet. But I guess doing this assignment was better than adding another late assignment. 5/8/21 (DAY 5): I was at an event all day that provided extra credit opportunities! But I didn't get to start on any of my late work assignments... I did win first place in a poetry slam contest though! 5/9/21 (DAY 6): Didn't do anything cause I'm burnt out from being on Zoom meetings all day yesterday... Plus I celebrated Mother's day today! Happy Late Mother's Day to all the moms reading this. You're awesome!!

@bearbear7039

3 жыл бұрын

Hey just wanted to say I'm proud that you're trying. Congrats on finishing 6 assignments in one day! I know that you can finish the rest, be proud of yourself

@NeziesStories

3 жыл бұрын

@@bearbear7039 Hi Allyson!! Thank you so much for the encouraging message and for your support, it means so much to me! I've updated days 10-15 in case you're interested. There have been some pitfalls but you're right, I should still be proud of myself for just making myself GO THROUGH IT!! Thank you once again and I hope you have a lovely day/night wherever you are :))

@sindhujasai1345

2 жыл бұрын

Hey there, I am an arch student who just finished one big fat assignment before due date. I am pretty sure you know that you are an amazing person with so much potential and you're trying and look omg how your grades improved i couldn't be more proud!! I was proud of myself too lmao so yeah..that's what i wanted to say hehe

@NeziesStories

2 жыл бұрын

@@sindhujasai1345 Hi Sindhuja!! Thank you so much for the sweet comment! It means so much to me 😊 AND YES GIRL!!! I’m so happy you were able to crush that fat assignment 😎💪🏼 You should feel proud of yourself cause you’re amazing as well!! I wish you the best of luck on your finals 🙏🏼 If you’re interested, I’m working on my weight loss journey right now and I’m updating a comment on this video with daily/weekly updates: kzread.info/dash/bejne/fplssLR7p5O1iag.html Thank you so much once again! :))

@unknownstardust_

2 жыл бұрын

I loved following along! So proud of you and you're awesome! Keep it up ! :D

I was looking for a playlist like this to listen to while I admire my body haha, I'm proud that I'm reaching out a point where I can say I'm starting to embrace my whole self, I want to take care about my life, body and mind and maybe it sounds a lil bit cheesy but I'm falling in love with me and it feels so good after a lot of years treating me like I was shit and I didn't deserve nothing.

@turkishmusicguru

3 жыл бұрын

I also create Aesthetic Playlists on my channel 💫🙃 please give me a chance too^^

@redvinet6591

3 жыл бұрын

thats literally so inspirational. you deserve to fall in love with yourself

@waddlewaddle02

2 жыл бұрын

i'm proud of you bro

@barneyyuyy1901

2 жыл бұрын

@@redvinet6591 I agree:)

sometimes i feel very overwhelmed by anxiety and i know lots of people feel the same. i want everyone who's reading this to know, that we're all human, we're all loved and appreciated, our feelings are valuable regardless of anything ✨ love y'all

Such a good playlist for taking breath in our busy lifes.

I was crying every night this week, but today I decided that I should start letting myself be happy and to stop living in my own personal pity party for once. To start my journey of self-love and care. I understand my mistakes in a more deeper level now and I’ll use that understanding to be a better version of myself. This playlist helped me feel more free from my own head, so I’m thankful for that. Thank you so much for this playlist and to whoever is reading this, I wish you love and light in your lives. I don’t know you, but I love you as a person and know that you definitely are good enough. Treat yourself like royalty, love. Bye bye, stay safe, and have a splendid day!

Take time to read the description. It's beautiful and worth it.

glad to have found this channel, nice to find someone who shares my tastes in music :)

Oh gosh I'm here super early today! I read your description and all I have to say is I'm super proud of you! It warms my heart to hear other people's stories of personal growth and self love. I've spent all of last year and this year so far learning to love myself, and I'm a completely different person for it, and I'm glad to say I know my own worth, and I love myself now. My biggest goal in life is to always be working on becoming a better person, because there's always something to learn. :)

@sunsetdreams

3 жыл бұрын

aw thank u so much! ♥ it means a lot. Working towards being a better person and recognizing that there is so much to learn is so important, and for what it's worth, I'm proud of you ♥

thank you so much for the playlist, it's absolutely great. and I'm really thankful for your text either, don't delete it as it gave me a support which I really needed for a long time. With love, M

its crazy how you need something. and it comes to you ! i was just procrastinating and lying around feeling like shit . this made my day . and that description is so relatable it almost made me cry . Thankyou !!

If you're ever having a hard time loving yourself for who you are, don't bottle up those emotions in fear that if you tell someone you will be a burden. If you're afraid to tell your friends, don't be, they will love you the same they always have, they will help carry your weight, they will hold you up until you can do it by yourself and afterwards they will still love you, they will not hate you nor be bitter that you needed help. I lost a friend because they kept their demons bottled up because they feared being a burden on their friends and because of this it eventually became too much. If you or someone you care about need help be honest with eachother, let everything out, and afterwards, you may feel sad, angry, maybe even defeated but eventually you will realise that by letting it all out, a small weight will be lifted from your shoulders. I hope everyone struggling with their mental health can find the help they need and can eventually learn to love themselves.

These past months, all i've been trying is to keep myself alive, and survive. I have a relationship and it isn't going healthy, but we're trying. I lost my mental stability, and my confidence :> It took some time, but i realize i need more time for myself, i need to be motivated, and i need to love me, this time I'm putting myself first. This was the motivation I needed to continue life.

@redvinet6591

3 жыл бұрын

i'm aware that im kind of an outsider in this situation, but for what it counts, you deserve to love yourself. the fact that you're still here and living makes you stronger than anyone will ever know and I'm so proud of you. I've been in my fair share of unhealthy relationships and I know that they're anything but easy to deal with, but I believe in you. good luck on healing, I know you'll be able to get through it! i promise it's possible

@deseeridwaynesalazar718

3 жыл бұрын

@@redvinet6591 tysm🥰🥰

@hankersoree

3 жыл бұрын

relationship at 12? haha

@deseeridwaynesalazar718

3 жыл бұрын

@@hankersoree lol how do u know? hahaha looks like someones judging based on how i look. xD

@hankersoree

3 жыл бұрын

@@deseeridwaynesalazar718 idc

Lately its been hard to do life With everything thats been going on in the world its been hard to be happy and love myself but I realized that sitting around and feeling bad wont help the situation. I deserve to feel love and to be loved I want to live a life that I will look back on and smile sure there will bad days, but I just have to remember that even in the darkest room one candle can light it up and I think with some committing and growth I can do it sry for the rant XD I just had to get that out anyways I hope anyone reading this has a good day bc you deserve love too

@_SENSORED

2 жыл бұрын

youre Family Loves you your Friends Loves you your Pets Loves you and ILY

Thank u for this playlist , lately I was feeling down due to mental health and was nearly unstable , music helped a lot so I keep listening to it when I m doing my homework and music helped my insomnia now I can sleep totally normal . Please don't delete the message in the description, it's so inspiring . Take care Love yourself Drink enough water Sending virtual hugs ♥

@sunsetdreams

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so happy to hear you feel better. ♥ I truly wish you all the best. take care! sending a virtual hug back ♥

this is music to the soul, i'm glad i found it

I did it guys, I'm finally learning how to love myself :')) My inner child is happy rn. Thank you so much for making this playlist, you're saving lives fr.

thank you for the time to make this playlist and for writing the description. I got to that point where I said to myself "No I do not deserve to be treated this way. Why? Because I don't like to be treated this way. That is reason enough." And yet reading your story made me tear up. I guess even when you get to that point, you still need to hear those words :) Keep repeating and one day they will be a part of my life instead only a thought.

I needed that hug, so thanks.

I am truly so glad I found this video. Lately times have been really tough, and all of the songs here and the description really helped me get past this. We all deserve happiness and the best for ourselves, take a second to take care of yourself

@redvinet6591

3 жыл бұрын

im so proud of you for working on getting through whatever it is that you're going through. keep trying because ill be rooting for you!!!!

@puplover8952

3 жыл бұрын

@@redvinet6591 Thank you so much for this! I don't think you understand how much this was needed, you're a real gem :)

i love the villain/hero playlists but this and the chill study session one are so good!! The old windows visuals are so nostalgic and relaxing. I hope you keep making these! :) congrats on your personal growth too, and thank you for putting some good vibes back into the world with what you do.

”Pretending and acting like you don’t have needs will not make you more ”likeable” or ”easy to love”, it just attracts people in your life that are unable or unwilling to meet your needs.”

Lately I've been working on my anxiety and self-love and I've come a looooong way from where I was a year ago!! Playlists like these make my day better, so thank you lots 😚❤️

@barneyyuyy1901

2 жыл бұрын

Good for you!do you have any tips?:)

@claranadine1086

2 жыл бұрын

@@barneyyuyy1901 Definitely! Personally the main things that helped me (besides getting sufficient sleep/water/exercise) were 1- getting a job I actually enjoy. During my last two years of highschool, I had a job I absolutely HATED. I thought I'd hate any job, but it got so bad I just quit my job out of the blue. I've never felt more freed in my life 😂 Literally solved most of my anxiety problems. I began working for my friends cleaning company a few months later, now I'm a self-employed housekeeper making a lot more than before. I love my job, and in two years I have more than enough saved for college! Life's too short to have a job you hate. 2- make time for yourself. I discovered that if I didn't make time for me to be alone, I would get super stressed. About once a month I go out on a "date" just by myself. Dinner, my favorite drink, going to the movies... It charges my mental/emotional battery and makes me feel more in control of my life. Of course I still have my bad days, but they're way less frequent and not as bad as before.

hey, i wanted to let you know this playlist really helps me! i have a hard time loving myself and this playlist puts me in the right mood to try my best :3 Thank you a lot

i deserve all the love this world has to offer and im gonna give it to myself :(

LOVING THIS SO MUCH! This is exactly what I was looking for! Everytime I see the people or my friends with beautiful and fantastic "Disney" love stories, I envy them so bad. I am so tired of unrequited romantic love and even when I thought that it would be true love, it was actually just a game for that person. Felt so stupid and sad for so long... And had wait so much for that significant other... But now I´m gonna give an end to all this. It´s ok to feel like this, it´s ok to cry. Instead of giving so much care in possible relationships and always breaking my heart, it´s time to shine for myself and keep going, keep smiling! I truly believe I can do it, and you can as well! So, let´s shine brightly together baby. You worth it KING/QUEEN! Sending you a lot of love!

After listening to some of your playlists,youtube recommended me this video.And i think youtube is literally the best for me i was going through tough times.i just wake up everyday then live in my head.Yesterday i decided to take care of myself and embark on this self love journey.It is really hard to stop living in my head.But let's just try.I hope at the end of this journey i will be more happier and be myself.And thank you for reading until now.And thank you to the creator for amazing playlists! I may try to live like a main character from now on... and you who are reading this U CAN DO THIS. WE CAN DO THIS. We will go through tough times. but i would like to think of it as a life lesson and i hope the one who is reading this will be happy. And make the best out of your life. Thank you. (im not good at cheering up but i hope i did a lil bit to you!) And lots of thanks to the creator! U got a new subscriber!

I found your account 2 days ago and this is exactly the playlist I needed 💛

I used this playlist to finish my missing assignments because I feel like I won't be my best self with bad academics. ill update my progress soon;) REMINDER!: you can't love someone else without loving your self first

@beatrizdriedger162

Жыл бұрын

update?

my goal: to act the way i want w/o constantly worrying about how i look n to be more confident about my abilities & looks

last week i decided to start my self-love journey, hasn't gone too well yet but hopefully i'll get there soon

the description just gave me a new point of view sort of. i could relate to so much of what you described. i currently post my art and you made me understand defintely that it sucks some of the fun out of art. about the self love stuff as well. ive been neutral tk myself but i’ve been horribly insecure the past few years and now i want to cry because of how far i’ve come. i’m not insecure about my legs or my smile. i can recognize now who isn’t a good influence for me. ive recognized that i need some self love and for the first time i’ve started to seriously make a big effort. and i’m going to KEEP making an effort until I not only tolerate myself but i LOVE myself. ive had countless times i tried to fix everything in one night and being demotivated after. i finally realize that it’s through my consistent efforts is how i’ve gotten this far and will keep on going further. ive been talking to people at my school more and i’ve stopped wearing a mask because i said to myself indirectly “you know what, i don’t care who sees my smile because it’s beautiful and i’m beautiful.” i haven’t made as much effort as i’d like on my self love journey so far so i’ll stop writing for now and i’m gonna read the description again and do nice things for myself. remember guys, self love doesn’t happen overnight like everyone tells you. it’s a journey, and i am rapidly advancing forward. I DESERVE BETTER!!! I FUCKING LOVE MYSELF!!!!!!

Really good Playlist I just see the titles and it looks great ^^

really needed this kind of playlist and the vibes it has, thanks so much for all your hard work!

This has become my favorite playlist on by KZread, well done! Songs fit the ending of my 5 year relationship/engagement very well.

ahh your music taste-!! if you end up doing another one of these "let me feel low" by cavetown is really good :D

I'm so happy for you finding something good in quarantine! ♥ Self-love isn't easy you really have to work to achieve it and you did such a huge step, I'm proud of you :) I know how difficult it is, I have my package too and I needed years to work on myself and my life. And to being tall: My 'little' sister is a head taller than me and was always said she 'couldn't' wear high heels. She did it on one point (for a wedding) and looked drop dead gorgeous :) I bet you did too ♥ Keep your head high - If you feel pretty, you are pretty!

THE FIRST SONG HPOLYLYLY WHAAT SO AMAZINGGGG

from now on, i will listen to this playlist and read the description everyday, every night to remind myself to love my insecurities more and just live the way i want, not trying to become someone im not by changing who iam just to to get the attention of someone whose not even interested in me. and i will also start becoming a strong and confident person. (i rlly love the description and ngl i cried. Ty. :) love from ph

I love the way this playlist starts off! And the rest of the playlist of course

I don't know why but this combination of songs make me feel so damn motivated to get up and clean my room, do the work I procrastinated, and feel more confident. Thank you so much for making this incredible playlist

I always had insecurities of the discolorations in my skin, i had them since i was a kid and with the body and skin positivity going i started to love myself and accept myself more. And its so gratifying, btw im obssessed with this playlist. It just makes me so happy vibing with it. To anyone on the self love or self care journey, no matter what type it might be, i wish you guys the best. Drink more water, listen to your favorite music, maybe do shadow work, and do a self love journal. Love you all

@sj04-g3-hannaharaneta5

2 жыл бұрын

You are beautiful

@sj04-g3-hannaharaneta5

2 жыл бұрын

You are valid

@sj04-g3-hannaharaneta5

2 жыл бұрын

You are worthy

i've needed this so much lately, thank you

When i feel that i lost my self . I always listen this. It make me think that I am happy without anyone and i can be the best, and i can bring my better self. 🥰🥰

This mix had helped when I was feeling down...really down. I often come back here because I enjoy the mix, even though I don't like all the songs. Anyways, just wanted to drop a quick thanks for uploading this, I've bee subscribed since the first time I've listened to it ^^

Im 31. And struggling. I failed every college major I tried in my 20s. I am now in hugh dept and work in a "dead-end" job. I almost have no money and to do anything. I live in absolutely shitty appartment. Depsite of that I never had friend trhough my life. Not even a girlfreind. Never had a hug, a kiss or a realationship. I have zero contacts on my phone. The last message I recived was in January - from a Bot. What the hell should I do? How is this life supposed to be worth living. I missed out on so many things and its not getting any better. I love myself but I am lonely, isolated and poor. How should I Continue? What the point man?

@lotteamie2376

3 жыл бұрын

there's always reasons life is worth living. start with loving the little things around you, nature, plants, clouds... start romanticising little things. (journaling, reading, painting whatever makes you feel happy). this is so much easier said than done but a great first step! also just try out new random hobbys that don't cost you a lot; writing, dancing, singing, drawing... make your apartement happy; re organise, paint the walls whatever. socialising; this may be hard but just starting random conversations with people ( in real life or online) can help! talk to a stranger you see at work or the supermarket.. this might be hard but is worth it! (you can also socialise by making a social media platform sharing your story, probably lots of people relate!) for the job/money part; when socialising you can ask people about their jobs/ advice. money is difficult. start searching for a job you love whilst still working at the job you have now. if you're certain you've found something that's slightly better than the job you have now, do it! from there you can work to eventually, well the best job ever. :) I know this is a lot of work and honestly exhausting, i get your thought, i really do. start with little things; don't put too much pressure on yourself. each day do a little thing that works towards your goal/ what you want to do! maybe even write down your goals and put it on your wall so you're reminding yourself what you're doing it for. i know all seems hopeless now, but i know it will get better for you. there's so much life left to live. pretend like your life is a movie -- with a happy ending of course. lastly i just wanted to say you. are. loved. im 100% sure there so many other people out there who will love you when they meet you! i hope that this helps a little bit. YOU CAN DO IT . i love and believe in you :) from, a stranger on the internet-- who already likes you and hasn't even had a real life conversation with you.

@Butterfly_towards_jannah

3 жыл бұрын

@@lotteamie2376 Thank you for your advice! I need it too

@lotteamie2376

3 жыл бұрын

@@Butterfly_towards_jannah happy to help :)

@elias1255

3 жыл бұрын

when you're considering killing your self its when you are open to see yourself and the world as it is, whatever that means to you, I'm not gonna say my reflections but an advice: you got access to internet watch movies (pirate all) I watched a lot of classics in my broken phone sleeping on the floor of my room because i don't have air conditioned and in summer its 44 C where I live.

@ceooflonelinessinc.267

2 жыл бұрын

@@elias1255 Where are u from?

ok but HELLO EDITINGGGG. DUDE THIS EDITING IS CHEFS KISS ISTG GOOD JOB

Just made myself egg fried rice and now I start to crochet again. First time in a year. Self appreciation time is relaxing!

This is the kind of attitude we all need for exams! Keep it up y'all, you are doing awesome. Even the first step to self love is a step. Take your time to move through it all and keep a song in your head.

That screen you had while the music unlocked a memory from my childhood I didn't even know I had missed so badly. Thank you.

the way i click on this video and the music start and i was like, "yeah let's do this."

i am so thankful for you're doing this ❤

Firstly, this playlist is AMAZING. Secondly, I have seen lots of people sharing their experience in the comment section so here's mine. My exams ended a few days ago and my life was a total MESS. I was so freaking tired both mentally and physically. I have anxiety and I have mental breakdowns a lot. I planned on getting my life back together and restart everything fresh. I have made my mind that I will enjoy my life and my company more now and I am. After the exam ended these few days I am enjoying my life, hanging out with my friends, dancing, singing out loud. And not caring about my insecurities at all (I know it's hard but you'll get there too) I am also focusing and planning about my life. Little by little with small steps, not pressuring myself and doing everything because I feel JOY and HAPPINESS. I am getting back on track of my life but then I realised there is no track of life you just have to fly like a free bird. And in doing all this this playlist is helping me a lot so thank you so much for this playlist. And if anyone here is reading this I don't know you but what I know is that whatever you are chasing whatever your goal is. Whether it's loving yourself, accepting yourself, getting your life back, be happy or anything, I know you can get there and trust me a positive attitude is everything you need to do it. If I can you can too. I believe you, I trust you and even if you feel like no one loves you (which is clearly not true) you should be there for yourself. You gotta love yourself. Best of luck for your journey :)

As always this is gold !

I just got my heart broken a few days ago, been struggling with my self-worth, for some reason thinking that without them I'm- nothing- This helped me a lot, I'm starting to realize that I'm worth tons, even if I'm going through a rough patch or if I'm not with who I used to love. Thank you!

.-. i feel numb cuz i just find out the thing i've been dreaming of wanting to be is impossible for me to achieve...But then coming across this playlist 💖 I think I won't give up just yet :)

This playlist is BOMB! I already had most of these in my personal playlist in my phone! Always listen to these to keep me going, remember how hard I've worked for, and know I am only human. I hope everyone else enjoys these songs and remember YOU ARE AMAZING! ♥♥♥

Love title, love playlist, love picture track, you´re awesome. I wanna live now

I'm in love with this one omg!! And I finally found someone who likes NIve too

After my heartbreak and uncountable breakdowns. I thought it will take long to feel the peace again. Here I am still breathing and kicking! (Healed and dreaming again) I feel so good and this music hype me up. For broken souls that trying their best to move forward, you are doing great! I'm proud of you.

hi, I found this playlist two years ago, I was in my graduation year, feeling so lost, losing any scenes of life, then I found your playlist and I read the words written below, I don't know but it gave me a push to continue and to fight, two years again I am here again, not feeling so much well although I could make it for two years, I am turning to here looking for the thing that made me fight back then again in your words, I don't know who u are but I am really thankful for your words

this playlist has been popping up on my recommended for a few days now so I finally decided to listen to it, what you shared is beautiful, my family and I recently lost my dad to covid so now it's just my mom, sister and I. We've decided to take care of ourselves the way our dad would want us to. We started setting routines and going to gym, participating in local sports such as sqaush and spending much needed family time together. It feels good and healthy. We spent a long time after my dad's passing just not really living, we were just there but we weren't doing anything mostly due to grieve our farther was our everything he kept the family together. So in the past month or so we decided to start with our very own little self care journeys. We had enough of sitting around and doing nothing the best way to honor our late dad was to do the things that would make him proud. My sister has always been self conscious and so have I for that matter but my sister made one of her goals this year to be more confident and start a KZread channel like she's always wanted to do, I want to start my art again and improve to where my dad was (he was a beautiful artist) and I want to start modeling again.. being comfortable with myself and accepting myself. It's been going good so far and I've started to influence my friends and boyfriend to do the same which makes me feel even better about myself especially since they were in bad states themselves. I'm far from where I want to be but I don't want to give up its still a long journey but I believe every single one of us can make it. As long as you put your mind to it, it makes you feel relieved and better about yourself your life will feel balanced as if everythings starting to fall into place. My family and I have had a rough journey from our house burning down to not the best extended family... miss treating us to my dad getting sick for two years to him passing away in December 2020, and a lot more things I don't want to share too much❤️ but we're making it work and we're pushing through, honestly it feels a lot better. I wanted to share my experience in a 'short' message to let people know it is possible and it feels amazing too. You can do it I believe in you ❤️

*the description 🤍* Thank you for making my day,really appreciate it,God bless✨💕

thank you so much!! i read your description and your journey of self-love. last year of highschool was total hell for me, I missed almost all of my assignments, and I was always past the deadline, i cried so much and November was the first time i had an anxiety attack and i felt like i couldn't breathe while i was stressing so much. january, febuary, and march was the same as well. i felt like i didn't improve. i pushed people away and i don't tell them I'm hurting because I'm afraid they might not understand me and they might judge me though... in January i talked with a friend and she told me i might have adhd, and when i read all the symptoms i felt it so much. my mom doesnt believe i have adhd and just thinks im lazy and lacking will power, i also dont want to self diagnoae, but my struggles are valid. and i feel less alone that there are people who struggle with executive dysfunction like me. i let go of my internalized shame (which didnt happen overnight, its a battle ive been dealing with since junior highschool), and at this present moment, i really do feel lighter. changing the way u talk to yourself also has a big impact! i changed the way i talk to myself and (at first) i ironically talk abt how sexy and successful i am (LMAOOAO) and guess what!! i somehow manage to embody that confidence. now i feel at peace, and even if im still unsure, i have confidence in my life and what i can do with it!! thanks for this playlist

i hope that eventually you get to be proud of who you are. it may take a few months, years, or even a lifetime. i'm proud of you for trying and it may be hard at times, but i know you'll get through this. you will become the person you can love and be proud of.

Thank you so much for this! Been on my own little journey with rediscovering my own self-love that I seemed to lose my spark with a long time ago. This makes me happy to see others are working on their own self-love as well, and we have things like this to support and encourage us. And it's even better this popped up for me at seemingly the perfect time! Good luck to all of your working on your self-love journey, it's a real trip but it's worth it. And don't rush yourself, it's a process. We're always constantly growing.

This whole playlist helps me lean into the introverted self-care mom side of me. I love the subject and the style of this video is chef's kiss. Thank you for this.

Awww thank you! Your message made me teary-eyed. I also love drawing, but I kinda stopped because I was ashamed of how ugly it seems to me compared to my sibling who is so good at it. She's my roommate so it's really embarrassing for me. But, you're right, what matters is I enjoy it.

Thsi playlist is so beautiful, i`m feeling so good.

this makes me think so much as i answer my english modules. there is still so much to life than what we are experiencing right now and i think what we all could do is just go along with it until we can finally afford to get off the flow and start really living the way we want and being able to do the things what our younger selves wished once upon a time.

i just see that playlist, so great for starting my day!

This playlist seriously helped give me the strength to power through SO much work. I'm currently working on 22 co-op job applications in addition to illustrating part of a zine while also doing school full-time, and dancing in my chair while I did all that made it so much more manageable. Thank you!!!

Thank you for making this playlist!! I've been searching for one for self love and good vibes and i found this one and I'm so happy 😊 thank you so much 🥺

totally coming back to this playlist and comment section when im feeling low cause *chefs kiss*

I just wrote a long message to someone in my life who I love a lot but can't be with anymore because of how much I'm going through with myself and my life journey and your playlist was the first one I found when I clicked on youtube. Thank you you're a godsend in my eyes and I never knew how helpful music is with self-healing. Hopefully, I can find myself and heal. Thank you again. - zori

you literally dont know how much i needed this even if i did not know this existed

thank you for making this playlist, i needed it. i know there are a lot of souls like mine right now. just know you guys that we can talk and make each other's feel better. just know that there is a small piece of you missing but it takes time to come back to you, as long as you want to open and accept things and love yourself more, i am sure it will come faster. stay alive, stay lovely. you are so precious. write your best story

thank you so much for this playlist. I've been through a hard situation. My dad died recently, and we used to be best friends. i miss him so much!!!! I'm a little lost right now, with no direction. Just friends and my family to happy. And this playlist and you text in description made me smile and cried like a baby. I miss him, always will feel, but i'm here, alive and thats what matters. I'll find my way into this crazy world. I promess to you dad, i'll!!!!!!!! if you are reading this, LET'S ROCK THE WORLD

The description spoke to me on so many personal levels😭

Please don't ever delete your journey that you shared it helped me immensely to read that and know that I'm not alone I mean something we always know but seeing it just hits home so thank you deeply for sharing it means a lot- I hope you have a wonderful day and keep drawing 😊