"I'm Glad I Never Met Your Parents" || FULL DISCLOSURE || EPISODE 1

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Castillo sits down with his first love, ex girl friend Riette because he feels he owe's her a big explanation.
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  • @TRENDCNTRL
    @TRENDCNTRL2 жыл бұрын

    PART 2 OUT THIS THURSDAY 8PM!

  • @dan98221

    @dan98221

    2 жыл бұрын

    Despite people's feelings of Castillo this poor woman didn't want this video going out and should not have she didn't choose this to happen to her just more black people tearing each other down for a little fame and money

  • @1conqueror.651

    @1conqueror.651

    2 жыл бұрын

    No wonder he’s special like me, his name is Joseph aswell.

  • @k11_yic

    @k11_yic

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@dan98221 neither of them wanted it out trend central scammed them

  • @dan98221

    @dan98221

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@k11_yic very feminine behavour from trend central and for views aswell

  • @icecool4125

    @icecool4125

    2 жыл бұрын

    You got them consent signatures yeh? Lol

  • @cantw84u2die
    @cantw84u2die2 жыл бұрын

    Bro he had me dying when he started to explain his link pyramid 😭😭😭

  • @randomsl4yer540

    @randomsl4yer540

    2 жыл бұрын

    The sad thing is that is not supposed to be funny but so is😭😭😭

  • @Emanuel-bm9vn

    @Emanuel-bm9vn

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@randomsl4yer540 🤣🤣 man on a serious note Castillo needs therapy, this mans moving mad

  • @crashbandicoot430

    @crashbandicoot430

    2 жыл бұрын

    Man didn't even get to the inconsistent links and the one/two time ting💀

  • @Habibi_6812

    @Habibi_6812

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Emanuel-bm9vn yeah it’s funny and kinda sad since it’s not his fault it’s his childhood

  • @stinga_

    @stinga_

    2 жыл бұрын

    He didn't have to go in details. She probably did taste pussy on his lips 🤣. He just cut her deeper.

  • @Zombie101
    @Zombie1012 жыл бұрын

    All I know is, Castillo isn't a broken person, he's just been through a lot of pressure and pain now out on all digital platforms brev

  • @12tribes61

    @12tribes61

    2 жыл бұрын

    Stop making out that castillo is the only person victim of a hard life. Life is hard for most people that are not rich!

  • @Zombie101

    @Zombie101

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@12tribes61 🤣👌

  • @omni-god8514

    @omni-god8514

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lmao

  • @moisesvelez1147

    @moisesvelez1147

    2 жыл бұрын

    LMAO....brilliant!

  • @Mazwun

    @Mazwun

    Жыл бұрын

    @@12tribes61 Pressure And Pain out on all digital platforms brev 👌🏾

  • @chanceazula8893
    @chanceazula88938 ай бұрын

    I know his heart jumped out of his chest when she called him Joseph 💀

  • @thulfiqarmma
    @thulfiqarmma2 жыл бұрын

    Castillo :I never wanted kids Ri: Is that why you abandoned yours? Castillo:Sniper out on all digital platforms

  • @spirigrow2303

    @spirigrow2303

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😭

  • @cool_cat007smoove3

    @cool_cat007smoove3

    8 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂. The Sniper with the " P " on his breath 😂😂😂

  • @plaan_b

    @plaan_b

    Ай бұрын

    😂

  • @user-ed4jl1wq9h

    @user-ed4jl1wq9h

    15 күн бұрын

    6 other links , how do these men find the time and energy, nasty unhygienic behaviour

  • @ribzsays
    @ribzsays2 жыл бұрын

    trying to keep up with castillo’s logic is an extreme sports

  • @kingamar8780

    @kingamar8780

    2 жыл бұрын

    Relaaaaaax! 😆😆😆🤡🤡🤡🤡🤣

  • @charleeharris2976

    @charleeharris2976

    2 жыл бұрын

    The fuck bois are out and about in this thread today! Yes! These men are engaging in mental gymnastics

  • @dapztvofficaldapz218

    @dapztvofficaldapz218

    2 жыл бұрын

    Looool for real

  • @shacutehuntyssssx

    @shacutehuntyssssx

    2 жыл бұрын

    Fr

  • @sayeeed1303

    @sayeeed1303

    2 жыл бұрын

    Now you know how most men feel when dealing with women

  • @dayjee1
    @dayjee12 жыл бұрын

    Castillo coming with the Maslow’s hierarchy of needs 🤣😂😂

  • @michelleadebiyi2341

    @michelleadebiyi2341

    2 жыл бұрын

    omds bye😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @innocentbeautytreatments3287

    @innocentbeautytreatments3287

    2 жыл бұрын

    Stop it I haven't even got that far yet but I hope he doesn't try it 🤣😆😂😕

  • @raiyyan2031

    @raiyyan2031

    2 жыл бұрын

    Omg business studies 😂😂

  • @smsofficial4809

    @smsofficial4809

    2 жыл бұрын

    Man said psychology a level

  • @michelleadebiyi2341

    @michelleadebiyi2341

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@smsofficial4809 init😂😂😂😭

  • @thehierophant1314
    @thehierophant13142 жыл бұрын

    As a man, I think Castillo tried his best to explain himself. I don’t I have even heard a man ever admit that getting girls is an manhood accomplishment. Or a man brave enough to admit it was a coping mechanism for all his failures. But now when I look back. A lot of players use “getting women” to rub it in other men’s faces. This is why a lot of players will get tired of sleeping with single women and purposely go to sleep with other men’s girls and girlfriends, or even talk to the girlfriend’s guy behind his back. It’s a sick way of trying to feel you are “better” than other men and a coping mechanism of “if I am not good enough as a man, I can still screw your chick, and I will know and you won’t know, and that makes me feel good” it’s that sense of thinking that drives men to sleep with other men’s wives and girlfriends. I was never able to pick two and two together, but now, I am able to see it. Also, when Castillo was saying it’s not the same thing. I think what he meant is that, men can cheat and not be emotionally attached. Women usually, when they cheat, the relationship is over, since usually women tend to be emotionally involved. So the problem is he called it “love”, she is right, you can’t love a woman and cheat on her. Castillo is maturing but I don’t think he is still there yet to understand, having an emotional affection towards a woman does not mean you love her. He had feelings for her, but he did not love her. A man can have feelings for a woman and still screw around because we can seperate feelings and sex more easily than women. I think that’s what he was trying to say. That’s probably why he didn’t want to explain it because he did not even understand that it’s not love you have for her. It’s feelings. Kudos to being open and honesty, and kudos to giving her the cold harsh clarity that she needed. Hopefully she can heal and I actually hope she finds someone who will treat her better. Personally these two should not be together, he has put a really huge scar in her, she will heal but the scar will remain. And it’s never a good thing to be around someone who left you with permanent marks. The disgust in her face tells me, even the sideways looking and talking to him in such a condescending way like, “so you think now you can support a child”, that tells me she is completely done and absolutely has no respect for him ever. Fellas, if a woman reaches this point. Just apologize to her, make the things you have to make right, pay every thing you didn’t pay her, then leave. It’s over. Done!

  • @k2jnr450
    @k2jnr4502 жыл бұрын

    In a weird kind of way Joseph actually comes across as a nice guy. If most of you can get pass your outrage at his historical behaviour with regards to cheating and his seemingly cold and unempathetic feelings towards his family and child. It actually becomes very very clear given the trauma he experienced throughout his formative years as to why he felt/feels this way. The situation is a tragic one, hopefully he'll continue to heal and gain some type of closure and liberation going forward.

  • @fuckeries

    @fuckeries

    2 жыл бұрын

    He’s the worst kind of f boy. The nice, charming type.

  • @bandokaysauntie7638

    @bandokaysauntie7638

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@fuckeries sniper out now on all digital platforms

  • @beez7758
    @beez77582 жыл бұрын

    She supported him through everything at his lowest and he still cheated. Lord.

  • @kareemdabo4716

    @kareemdabo4716

    2 жыл бұрын

    Less be honest dis guys got to be living in a simulation

  • @oluwatobiogundele218

    @oluwatobiogundele218

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s pretty common though. I get it’s sad but I don’t get why people are acting surprised.

  • @KushQueen9

    @KushQueen9

    2 жыл бұрын

    We can never heal anyone, that's why it's better to walk away. I've learnt that lesson.

  • @lilithrosa9309

    @lilithrosa9309

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@oluwatobiogundele218 yes because almost all men are cheaters who are incapable of loving women which is why you use them for money

  • @oluwatobiogundele218

    @oluwatobiogundele218

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lilithrosa9309 men can love women, most men are just brought up to believe they can get away with stuff like cheating. Don’t use anyone I don’t agree with that. The problem is how we raise men and women right from childhood. Women are always told there virginity is precious, men aren’t told that. Women are told not to have sex with people because they can get pregnant, and they’re even told men can get away with it because they’re not the ones that’ll be pregnant. So most men think it’s okay to cheat. Personally I think it’s stupid to think it’s okay to do something you know will hurt your partner

  • @DavidMalbranque
    @DavidMalbranque2 жыл бұрын

    This is a masterclass in gaslighting, this guy said “You shouldn’t be sad” 😩

  • @sophiajasminex9024

    @sophiajasminex9024

    2 жыл бұрын

    She shouldn't be sad because she doesn't have to deal with him is what he meant,he has to live with things he has done day in and day out

  • @patricedaniel9092

    @patricedaniel9092

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sophiajasminex9024 p

  • @ICavalcadeI

    @ICavalcadeI

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, he meant she doesn't have to deal with him anymore and that it wasn't her fault, lmao

  • @ashfoyowa6689

    @ashfoyowa6689

    2 жыл бұрын

    You don't even know what gaslighting means. He isn't gaslighting. He's actually being honest with her.

  • @gwopele

    @gwopele

    2 жыл бұрын

    man said gaslighting 🤦🏾‍♂️ a man cant even say the truth anymore without it being labelled

  • @messy1693
    @messy16932 жыл бұрын

    her: can i take a break castillo’s brain: it’s not looking gd brev

  • @Lastdayone
    @Lastdayone2 жыл бұрын

    Ladies, it’s ok to be the one who got away. Learn to leave without closure. When you don’t they will dangle it in your face as a means to bring you back. A truly healed woman wouldn’t have even showed up. He’s still playing her.

  • @sharaskii

    @sharaskii

    2 жыл бұрын

    FACTSSSSSSSSSS😩🙌🏾

  • @inthahous87

    @inthahous87

    2 жыл бұрын

    There is a cheque on the table that is why calm down Michelle

  • @Lastdayone

    @Lastdayone

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@inthahous87 I’m pretty sure it’s not. Even it is, it’s certainly not worth putting yourself through emotional and mental turmoil. Like I said a truly healed woman isn’t showing up to be gaslighted. Paid or not.

  • @inthahous87

    @inthahous87

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Lastdayone sure Michelle I understand.

  • @CC-mms
    @CC-mms2 жыл бұрын

    Look at double standards... He almost had a seizure when he thought she cheated on him, yet his behaviour should be tolerated?!!

  • @savagejama6501

    @savagejama6501

    2 жыл бұрын

    He never said his behaviour should be tolerated this whole vid is about his confessing his mistakes

  • @gwopele

    @gwopele

    2 жыл бұрын

    he didn’t say his behaviour should be tolerated though lol

  • @facadecharades517

    @facadecharades517

    2 жыл бұрын

    Females be extra sometimes

  • @CC-mms

    @CC-mms

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@savagejama6501 He didn't HAVE to say it. He is gaslighting her with what he is saying and the moment he mistook what she said his reaction wasnt pleasant, yet she has to sit there and be triggered!

  • @anubis8918

    @anubis8918

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@CC-mms how is that gaslighting?? U idiots think because you use certain words your automatically intelligent and correct?? He knew she didn't cheat because he knows the type of woman she is.

  • @onlyeish
    @onlyeish2 жыл бұрын

    When he said ‘i’m the one who should be sad’ and she said ‘Are you SICK’ i lost it😂😂😂😂this man is FINISHED.

  • @ntandokhumalo7986

    @ntandokhumalo7986

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wait. I'm get to that.

  • @jordondeannon5501

    @jordondeannon5501

    2 жыл бұрын

    I doubt he's finished lol

  • @onlyeish

    @onlyeish

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jordondeannon5501 definitely done for 😂☠️

  • @goatclips2222

    @goatclips2222

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@onlyeish he’s been saying this since day can’t be finished

  • @Kumari_44

    @Kumari_44

    2 жыл бұрын

    Not condoning his actions. But how can he be ‘finished’ when he’s been telling everyone from day 1 what he’s like & that he’s a player… and girls still run after him full well knowing that cos they love their bad boys, Regardless. Sounds to me like its more the girls who are ‘finished’ for *knowingly* making poor choices in men. But hey. Dont shoot the messenger 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @W.I.F.E
    @W.I.F.E2 жыл бұрын

    They both are heroic in sitting down to have this conversation one and second in front of a camera for others to see. My hope is for those who see to learn from it for future generations sake. The reality is both of them played a role in the destruction that transpired. Yes ol boy is wrong for lying. Yes ol girl is wrong for ignoring what she obviously felt was there if she had to leave him. The most beautiful part of this ugly truth is that WE ALL get a chance to see how the turmoil that we as individuals bring into relationships when we don’t take the time, don’t acknowledge, and or sometimes don’t even know we need to deal with and heal through before any building of romantic relationships. Great content 👌🏽

  • @h.a.r.m.o.n.i.e
    @h.a.r.m.o.n.i.e2 жыл бұрын

    The way she keeps repeating what he says to make sure he knows what his saying 😂😂😂

  • @christinaoforiatta9395
    @christinaoforiatta93952 жыл бұрын

    I’m utterly terrified of running into a man like this. He’s soo detached from how his actions affect the women he’s dealing with, it’s scary.

  • @JAY-jk6dh

    @JAY-jk6dh

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is his past give it a rest

  • @ducktsu7767

    @ducktsu7767

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@JAY-jk6dh bro. you cant move past shit like this unless you’re genuinely remorseful, it’s not in the past if you’re still making excuses for it instead of making up for it

  • @Dawn4j

    @Dawn4j

    2 жыл бұрын

    talking about the others like he is talking about objects. it's disgusting.

  • @downs9724

    @downs9724

    2 жыл бұрын

    Let me translate Christina's comment for us guys. ''I'm utterly attracted to men like this.'' Thank me later.

  • @Oakland510

    @Oakland510

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@downs9724 facts. Women say they hate these men , but in reality……

  • @Rocklee077
    @Rocklee0772 жыл бұрын

    In conclusion, he lost a gem. She was with him at his lowest.

  • @charleeharris2976

    @charleeharris2976

    2 жыл бұрын

    Men rarely stay with women who were with them at their lowest. Why? Because when she look at him willnot be the same as a woman who met him at his peak. It is all ego for men.

  • @mobdealin1220

    @mobdealin1220

    2 жыл бұрын

    So busy judging not understanding bruh life started fucked up so he was living fucked up

  • @pro-non9887

    @pro-non9887

    2 жыл бұрын

    *Sniper out now on all digital platforms bruv*

  • @ohgeazy

    @ohgeazy

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@pro-non9887 lmao

  • @user-mq9lx9im3x

    @user-mq9lx9im3x

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@charleeharris2976 sniper out of all digital platforms

  • @cecerollerskates4527
    @cecerollerskates45272 жыл бұрын

    Castillo is an energy vampire, a dangerous one and women are soul tied to him. Castillo your grandma discouraged you from having children doesn't mean you should not have them and now you do, oh well get involved or stay gone.

  • @grimori

    @grimori

    2 жыл бұрын

    White court vampire. Dresden Files readers know.

  • @gambino596

    @gambino596

    14 күн бұрын

    FACTS

  • @patiencemwanyalo8899
    @patiencemwanyalo88992 жыл бұрын

    he had me gone when he said" I put you up there like a queen" sometimes we really die for closure but this one's beyond

  • @Bigmo_898
    @Bigmo_8982 жыл бұрын

    “U just used my government name” bro she been saying it for the past 5 mins 😂😂😂

  • @KM-ze3tr
    @KM-ze3tr2 жыл бұрын

    I admire this woman so much. Throughout the whole thing she maintained her composure so well, got straight to the point and handled herself well despite all the hard things she was hearing. That main ain’t shit and she deserves so so so much more. Hope she gets what she truly deserves which is a faithful man that’ll take care of her and stop with these lies and excuses.

  • @nikigracevlogs

    @nikigracevlogs

    2 жыл бұрын

    💯 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @almared8467

    @almared8467

    2 жыл бұрын

    A man shows loyalty through taking care and supporting his women in every way possible not through his sexual exclusivity, but a women shows her loyalty through sexual exclusivity. get it through your head people, A high value man shouldn't have to exclude his sexuality for one women, but he have to take care and support his women.

  • @KM-ze3tr

    @KM-ze3tr

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@almared8467 if you can’t be faithful then get with people who also don’t want to be faithful. Leave the good people alone. End of.

  • @ojasimon1187

    @ojasimon1187

    2 жыл бұрын

    Eeeeeediat

  • @markadamson2102

    @markadamson2102

    2 жыл бұрын

    But did she tho?

  • @dylanblue2271
    @dylanblue22712 жыл бұрын

    Speaking as a man, I can see that he's ultimately a toxic person and a narcissist, regardless of how nicety and calmly he presents himself to people. He compartmentalises and justifies in quite a sociopathic, detached way. Do not get into a relationship with this charming, manipulative sociopath.

  • @jaypey8253

    @jaypey8253

    2 жыл бұрын

    Everyone has trauma. Stop preaching like you're perfect dude. Who cares if you're a man. You're probably a weirdo in real life anyways

  • @themarathoncontinues4211

    @themarathoncontinues4211

    2 жыл бұрын

    You aren’t saying anything women don’t already know. Freedom of choice bruv

  • @dylanblue2271

    @dylanblue2271

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@themarathoncontinues4211 No, but I think it's important for other men to acknowledge it. Anybody can be fooled by a manipulative, sociopathic person, man or woman.

  • @themarathoncontinues4211

    @themarathoncontinues4211

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@dylanblue2271 100%. I agreed with most of what you’ve said, but the last sentence telling women not to get into a relationship with him was interesting - I don’t think any women are planning to/want to be in a relationship with this guy logically. Unfortunately, some will fall trap to his games due to a combo of factors

  • @dylanblue2271

    @dylanblue2271

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@themarathoncontinues4211 Fair point. I agree. I think we all need to be better at understanding ourselves and other people, and avoiding negative patterns and behaviours.

  • @aa_sxch247
    @aa_sxch2472 жыл бұрын

    He’s very intelligent and honest , I do feel really bad for her tho but I do respect him for explaining everything truthfully

  • @SuperMillwall

    @SuperMillwall

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well.. Not that honest when he hid the fact he cheated on her for how many years? 🤦🏼‍♂️

  • @gianih9929

    @gianih9929

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@SuperMillwall he`s honest about the cheating

  • @divBy0

    @divBy0

    2 жыл бұрын

    Whats the fcking point in explaining all this after they broke up other then to hurt her. I don't see the point

  • @Castro_3k

    @Castro_3k

    2 жыл бұрын

    The point is to give her the honesty she always deserves even if it hurt her she’s bitter but you gotta forgive yourself an ppl look at her hate she has in her heart

  • @austinmacc

    @austinmacc

    11 ай бұрын

    It's not truthful. Truth is he didn't give a shit about anyone but himself. Standard tingz. Just admit it. Done deal

  • @Queenversachi
    @Queenversachi2 жыл бұрын

    It’s so obvious why Castillo didn’t want this to come out. I feel for the girl so much

  • @kaybash9015

    @kaybash9015

    2 жыл бұрын

    he didnt want it come out? you mean this video or the child ting?

  • @lucasmorrison4667

    @lucasmorrison4667

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kaybash9015 this vid he made a tiktok about it I think

  • @sgetv-

    @sgetv-

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kaybash9015 the video, the people on this channel were black mailing him. He also didn’t sign a contract for them to release this

  • @sierranovember2479

    @sierranovember2479

    2 жыл бұрын

    The concept of this show was his idea and Andy stole it.

  • @user-oe6xh5qs4b

    @user-oe6xh5qs4b

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is staged you fool

  • @deajonez90sbaby
    @deajonez90sbaby2 жыл бұрын

    I think he needs to sit down with a therapist. He needs insight to his inner demons

  • @savagejama6501

    @savagejama6501

    2 жыл бұрын

    What insight does he need if he knows what he did was messed up

  • @deajonez90sbaby

    @deajonez90sbaby

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@savagejama6501 I hear that but when he talks he sounds like a child changing the subject. He went from talking about the hierarchy of the women he slept with to a 20p fight, making everything about himself without actually acknowledging his ex’s pain around the cheating. He needs a therapist.

  • @KushQueen9

    @KushQueen9

    2 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely!!

  • @Apizzaslice

    @Apizzaslice

    2 жыл бұрын

    It better be a male therapist 😶

  • @julia97531

    @julia97531

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Apizzaslice that therapist would be bias then. u need the opposite..n i can alr detect ur male

  • @kaymye5259
    @kaymye52592 жыл бұрын

    He didn't love her. He loved the benefits he was getting out of her. He also knew he didn't have the tools to ensure she'd stick around so instead of being honest and freeing her from a bad situation, he just played along until she took the rose tinted glasses off. 😕 You wouldn't jeopardise a good situation just because you thought you could get away with it, if you truly cared for your situation.

  • @bonganimtshali9144
    @bonganimtshali91442 жыл бұрын

    1st time seeing Cas being so vulnerable 🤦🏽‍♂️no digital platform 🤣.

  • @immortal7436
    @immortal74362 жыл бұрын

    I hope this lady heals emotionally and mentally, I hope she continues to glow as the beautiful woman she is. I hope after Castillo she raises her standards in terms of men

  • @benardattec916

    @benardattec916

    2 жыл бұрын

    Took words right out of my mouth! I hope she is okay because the disrespect smh

  • @dagmawechecol9497

    @dagmawechecol9497

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sniper out on all digital platforms

  • @Oakland510

    @Oakland510

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@dagmawechecol9497 big man ting brev

  • @Oakland510

    @Oakland510

    2 жыл бұрын

    Women say they will but they pick these dudes all the time.

  • @dagmawechecol9497

    @dagmawechecol9497

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Oakland510 then complain

  • @JC-tf6im
    @JC-tf6im2 жыл бұрын

    This whole conversation was for him. She sounds like a wonderful girlfriend but he didn’t like himself. It sounds like he has done alot of growing or atleast reflecting from those times. This is actually a great conversation to have if she was healed from it, since she isn’t this was just further traumatizing her.

  • @baybeetacoo8734

    @baybeetacoo8734

    2 жыл бұрын

    He continues to be selfish. He now wants to bear it all cause he now has began his healing process and is coming to himself (his true self) but isn't caring for the woman he claims to love Madddd

  • @DarkNinjitsuMaster

    @DarkNinjitsuMaster

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@baybeetacoo8734 shut up

  • @loopybrogaming1149

    @loopybrogaming1149

    2 жыл бұрын

    Castillo a king

  • @seeker995

    @seeker995

    2 жыл бұрын

    Then it ain’t no conversation he was the one who did her wrong a lot which he admitted it’s to “grow” his audience and explain his offenses away it’s good to know but then to act like that’s enough when he can’t even apologize just justify without truly understanding why she feels the way she feels isn’t good for either party she’s not a therapist

  • @loopybrogaming1149

    @loopybrogaming1149

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Self-First 2022 hello

  • @gyalsnextman4725
    @gyalsnextman47252 жыл бұрын

    He’s so Brutally honest I love it

  • @abz_9040
    @abz_90402 жыл бұрын

    Wow this is so deep man. Castillo you’re fully on the path of self awareness. I actually fully understand your reasoning. I think it’s quite deep and people will struggle to understand unless they’ve embarked on a journey of self discovery!

  • @arjarekajille
    @arjarekajille2 жыл бұрын

    He’s speaking from GROWTH. She’s a beautiful woman! SHE was NEVER the problem. He’s finally giving her closure. He needed to get that off. She needed that to continue to heal as well. Blessings to both! 🙏🏽

  • @gmunna704

    @gmunna704

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank u.. only thing I’d say her only problem was choosing him which is a big problem but u right all in all

  • @krystingrant6292

    @krystingrant6292

    2 жыл бұрын

    He's not growing at all.

  • @Dhgsfgdc15665

    @Dhgsfgdc15665

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yhyh give closure to the whole world shiiit I'm slow that's normal these days lool

  • @Dhgsfgdc15665

    @Dhgsfgdc15665

    2 жыл бұрын

    Nah i like Castillo but bringing ya ex Infront the whole world is just straight disrespectful Duno y she even came on fk that

  • @gmunna704

    @gmunna704

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Dhgsfgdc15665 bro nobody brought her.. she agreed to come and signed release forms.

  • @TanyaSuper23
    @TanyaSuper232 жыл бұрын

    “Never wanted to let you go because you was keeping me ALIVE….”this man is so broken he used her as a power source. These men be attracted to strong women only to break them!!!

  • @shabdine

    @shabdine

    2 жыл бұрын

    Real real real thank you for your comment

  • @shoazdon7000

    @shoazdon7000

    2 жыл бұрын

    You got it twisted, he loved her but he’s a fucked up guy. He’s a player always has been, she knew that about him. If you look at his life story you’ll understand why he is the way he is

  • @shabdine

    @shabdine

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@shoazdon7000 oh shut up

  • @charleeharris2976

    @charleeharris2976

    2 жыл бұрын

    He is an energy vampire. Just sucking the soul and life from women.

  • @SJoy91

    @SJoy91

    2 жыл бұрын

    Women do that all the time with good men on so many different levels

  • @dennisdonald309
    @dennisdonald3092 жыл бұрын

    We actually need to deep what Castillo is saying. This guy is A BROKEN MAN. I hope he’s healing. Its not an excuse for his bullshit behavior but this guy is bruised on the inside. His spirit is broken into pieces

  • @AB15151

    @AB15151

    2 жыл бұрын

    What are you a therapist. Stop projecting

  • @bandokaysauntie7638

    @bandokaysauntie7638

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@AB15151 are you dumb

  • @ohgeazy

    @ohgeazy

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@AB15151 I am a therapist, and he’s not far off.

  • @AB15151

    @AB15151

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ohgeazy I'm also a therapist, and yes he is

  • @nm-1-m159

    @nm-1-m159

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I understand that tbh. His little clips that he makes is like he's experienced all that before and it's happened to him

  • @tammyedwards4077
    @tammyedwards40776 ай бұрын

    This brother is BROKEN! He needs healing. This queen dodged a bullet

  • @Incognito-by3jt
    @Incognito-by3jt2 жыл бұрын

    Ladies please never settle for men like this

  • @ladyofspa

    @ladyofspa

    2 жыл бұрын

    🎯

  • @rodneyking8030

    @rodneyking8030

    2 жыл бұрын

    that what most immature girls want unfortunately

  • @dabaddie3281

    @dabaddie3281

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@rodneyking8030 most?

  • @Kayanamae

    @Kayanamae

    2 жыл бұрын

    Most black guys from London

  • @themarathoncontinues4211

    @themarathoncontinues4211

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Kayanamae stop bringing race into everything

  • @taii419
    @taii4192 жыл бұрын

    Castillo should write a book called “How to Emotionally Manipulate Women.” Ladies never lose yourself loving a man. When a man is going through trauma, it’s not your job to heal him.

  • @anubis8918

    @anubis8918

    2 жыл бұрын

    How did he emotionally manipulate her?? She knew he was no good and stayed with him.

  • @MT-ip9rs

    @MT-ip9rs

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@anubis8918 facts

  • @Mrdavid_noir

    @Mrdavid_noir

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bad advice

  • @denzel9455

    @denzel9455

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah but women always believe they can change someone even if all the red flags are right in front of them.

  • @julia97531

    @julia97531

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@anubis8918 male detected

  • @adzyygelirtech2460
    @adzyygelirtech24602 жыл бұрын

    Shes a really good girl..Proper woman you can recognise class. Hes a cool cat too and can really relate to his honesty and struggle

  • @lovinglife1010
    @lovinglife10102 жыл бұрын

    Castillo makes me physically sick. 🤢He has the audacity to take this girl on this show to humiliate her like this. Girl take it as a blessing that the relationship ended.

  • @voiceofreason1829

    @voiceofreason1829

    2 жыл бұрын

    He is brave to admit all

  • @CeceNaturalful
    @CeceNaturalful2 жыл бұрын

    When she said she needed a break I totally understood. As much as I rate Castillo I still would have wanted to box him if I were her 😂

  • @optimisticrealismx5829

    @optimisticrealismx5829

    2 жыл бұрын

    Why,he was actually nice and opened himself here ,he gave her compliments ,she on the other hand was uptight, ignorant and closed..she makes black women look bad.

  • @gracygeorge6919

    @gracygeorge6919

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@optimisticrealismx5829 he makes black men look bad lol

  • @AJOSUE

    @AJOSUE

    2 жыл бұрын

    I was like damn, my guy didn't have any emo while saying it...

  • @CeceNaturalful

    @CeceNaturalful

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@AJOSUE you saw that too

  • @CeceNaturalful

    @CeceNaturalful

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@optimisticrealismx5829 no doubt he did but I think she was processing all the disrespect and almost reliving it in front of us. That's ruff

  • @BeautyOfFat
    @BeautyOfFat2 жыл бұрын

    She wasn’t ready for this convo, she hasn’t healed and putting that into perspective this convo shouldn’t have happened.. not online anyway..

  • @Phoenix-gu5lm

    @Phoenix-gu5lm

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is who he ain’t wanna tell her

  • @pudddingpie

    @pudddingpie

    2 жыл бұрын

    I know right, she hasn’t healed then he’s telling her he wanted to have kids then cheated on her with multiple women. I feel bad for her it’s actually sad to watch, you can see she’s such a caring woman and didn’t/doesn’t deserve this. She’s crying and he’s kicking back nah man it’s not it

  • @mightymorphinniqz9235

    @mightymorphinniqz9235

    2 жыл бұрын

    I don't think she wasn't ready, I think she was over it because it was supposed to happen a long time ago. As she rightfully said his thinking is backwards, it may make sense but is it right? Plus it's on camera on his terms because he's able, was she able?

  • @GMULANO

    @GMULANO

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mightymorphinniqz9235 agreed

  • @EastStandGG

    @EastStandGG

    2 жыл бұрын

    Views and money lol

  • @blackwomensisterhood7522
    @blackwomensisterhood75222 жыл бұрын

    It’s the deep wave ponytail for me 😂😂😂

  • @selhurt
    @selhurt2 жыл бұрын

    I feel for this chap, I can so relate to him as I was when younger. Needs to just focus on himself, in terms of self development, and loving and accepting yourself, for the good, bad and in between

  • @Jomorrison28
    @Jomorrison282 жыл бұрын

    Castillo: “Are you alright?” Her: “FUCK YOU”. 11:56 💀😂😂😂

  • @AyishaKezia

    @AyishaKezia

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂

  • @higabgjan1021

    @higabgjan1021

    2 жыл бұрын

    😭😭😭

  • @mstackzz3236

    @mstackzz3236

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @mightymorphinniqz9235

    @mightymorphinniqz9235

    2 жыл бұрын

    I felt that sigh

  • @jhardworkpaysoff474

    @jhardworkpaysoff474

    2 жыл бұрын

    savage

  • @jaysho1441
    @jaysho14412 жыл бұрын

    She hasn’t healed from the situation nor is she ready to talk about it! He didn’t love her, he saw a woman who genuine cared & loved for him. He wanted to keep her there for that, love is pure and genuine.. I hope she gets closure fr

  • @rheadee33

    @rheadee33

    2 жыл бұрын

    That what I’m seeing, he needed her to be his safe place but love?? I don’t think he truly loved her.

  • @Ihavemadeit999

    @Ihavemadeit999

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@rheadee33 right!! He didn’t value her as a person but only liked the energy she was feeding him. It’s all about him

  • @checharles5224

    @checharles5224

    2 жыл бұрын

    Women usually do this too. Stringing on. It’s just that now guys are using the same tactic. This guy is obviously a bad boy as well. Women will be drawn to his nature

  • @deemills495
    @deemills4952 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣 question - pause . Im gonna get to that ! Looooool legend 😆

  • @nikolairose2739
    @nikolairose27392 жыл бұрын

    This might be one of the realest conversations I've ever listened to.

  • @robertfrempong6047
    @robertfrempong60472 жыл бұрын

    Reitte is so beautiful and patient. She deserves so much better!!!

  • @brunocingolani2975

    @brunocingolani2975

    2 жыл бұрын

    Low it this is so staged, big up Castillo tho

  • @checharles5224

    @checharles5224

    2 жыл бұрын

    But she chooses to date a bad boy like so many and when they’re older and no longer youthful and know they don’t deserve a good man that’s when they want a good man. Beautiful girl like her probably rejects a lot of good men non the daily. It’s that simple. Unlike men being single for them is a choice.

  • @Kemist94

    @Kemist94

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@checharles5224 alot of assumptions there.

  • @AWKWARDCONFIDENCE

    @AWKWARDCONFIDENCE

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@checharles5224 she was young and had no idea. She was being lied to. You really underestimate the power of feelings, age, inexperience and low self esteem. You make it sound like a girl chooses to suffer and wants a heartbreaker. Obviously now if she made this mistake to find another man like this then we cannot feel bad for her but this was her first love and she was a teenager

  • @checharles5224

    @checharles5224

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@AWKWARDCONFIDENCE okay I’m willing to concede given that you’ve provided a strong rationale. Yes maybe she was young. But we see a lot of girls going down the path I stated. Men and women live completely different lives. In the context of long term relationship Men want a woman who can bring her sexual exclusivity to the table. Her full pair bonding capacity, minimal emotional baggage and trauma, compliance. This type is ideal for long term goals such as marriage and children. When you put yourself through the grinder of hook ups and dating fkboys you come out the other end a different person. This woman was damaged by this man. You can see it in her face, hear it in her voice. She’s going to carry that in to the next relationship and the one after. Part of the reason this is happening is lack of guidance. Women are having children out of wedlock to unsuitable fathers and raising girls who have no understanding of their true worth and the constraints and limits of that worth. A lot of them have no understanding or concept that men have their standards too and that attraction and relationship value will diminish as you age and are nolonger young. You don’t want to be a 30 year old woman 👵 in a situation where you’re competing with 22 year olds for the same 30 year old man. Women are born rich and sue poor. Men are born poor and die rich.

  • @qwerty07poster
    @qwerty07poster2 жыл бұрын

    I felt my man when he said "he failed at everything and getting links was his only accomplishments"

  • @azeezahmeed9871

    @azeezahmeed9871

    2 жыл бұрын

    😅😅😭

  • @EARART

    @EARART

    2 жыл бұрын

    Regular man shit lol

  • @nicolemorris2487

    @nicolemorris2487

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s sad

  • @aschronicles5006

    @aschronicles5006

    2 жыл бұрын

    It’s fucked but I kinda get it. Getting gyal was his only source of validation

  • @user-rt9ui6ge5d

    @user-rt9ui6ge5d

    2 жыл бұрын

    This comment makes the most sense

  • @user-mo8bp4tb5g
    @user-mo8bp4tb5g2 ай бұрын

    Castillo Is the MALE VERSION OF A SLAG LOL 😂😂😂😂

  • @kiddothemoon9493
    @kiddothemoon94932 жыл бұрын

    Motto of the year now is : “ I’m gonna get to that “ Saying that shit every occasion 😂

  • @kirstycard7494
    @kirstycard74942 жыл бұрын

    When she said “I don’t mean I went elsewhere” and he had the nerve to say “Thank God” while knowing what he was about to reveal.

  • @Gchild2k6

    @Gchild2k6

    2 жыл бұрын

    Cut the crap. She used the word step out because she actually stepped out. She is a 304 hence why she attracted Castillo.

  • @serokapo8429

    @serokapo8429

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Gchild2k6 tf is 304

  • @Gchild2k6

    @Gchild2k6

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@serokapo8429 Put it in your old style calculated and read it upside down. H * e

  • @teacup5589

    @teacup5589

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Gchild2k6 he a 304. She should get checked dealing with this man.

  • @VolumePerfection

    @VolumePerfection

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@serokapo8429 it means a hoe

  • @perfectstranger5475
    @perfectstranger54752 жыл бұрын

    Even after seeing this, women will still go for a man like Joseph

  • @SummerTyme2023

    @SummerTyme2023

    2 жыл бұрын

    Man like joseph 😂😂😳

  • @Moneybellz

    @Moneybellz

    2 жыл бұрын

    😭😭😂😂🤣

  • @louisemitch4649

    @louisemitch4649

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @shutop7321

    @shutop7321

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @Yourboylenz

    @Yourboylenz

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @alexandrobest8623
    @alexandrobest862310 ай бұрын

    I can't watch it without a smile.. No serious words out of his mouth make think else than ''sniper's out on all digital platforms''

  • @oceansunflower5894
    @oceansunflower58942 жыл бұрын

    I give this guy salute for trying to tell 🙏 God continue to show him love🙏🙏🙏

  • @romeytube26
    @romeytube262 жыл бұрын

    “It was still an income people do worser things than you” she appreciated the little job you had and still cared for you. Damn bruh. 🤦🏾‍♂️ women don’t come like that often in these treacherous times!

  • @no.6377

    @no.6377

    2 жыл бұрын

    The women with such low standards are usually the targets for guys like this so...😞😞

  • @kingst0nianuk542

    @kingst0nianuk542

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes he will theyll be loads of women lined up for him....

  • @__santss
    @__santss2 жыл бұрын

    This is like the worst environment to have this conversation 😩… she’s strong !!

  • @gurlwhowants2dj

    @gurlwhowants2dj

    2 жыл бұрын

    I wouldn't come back until I had enough therapy and anxiety meds to deal with him lol

  • @user-mo8bp4tb5g

    @user-mo8bp4tb5g

    4 ай бұрын

    BOOM Shes Strong yh

  • @jazs2300
    @jazs23002 жыл бұрын

    Mens fav line is “i don’t have to explain. It’s just different”🤣🤣

  • @kadelu1137
    @kadelu11372 жыл бұрын

    She seems like a class woman. 👌😊 Hope she finds a respectful and appreciative partner

  • @summersummer9888
    @summersummer98882 жыл бұрын

    Ladies, this is not love. Love is about respect, honesty, transparency, consistent with his actions, nurturing each other, communication, being supportive. He’s gaslighting her, he’s insecure, lacks self respect, community dick and misogynistic. Run for the hills, never ignore red flags and always listen to your gut instinct.

  • @a.b5625

    @a.b5625

    2 жыл бұрын

    😭🤣

  • @bedazzlinbeauty

    @bedazzlinbeauty

    2 жыл бұрын

    period pooh

  • @observermanj8904

    @observermanj8904

    2 жыл бұрын

    Nope he can love her and sleep with other women they have literally NOTHING to do with each other

  • @lauracruz2029

    @lauracruz2029

    2 жыл бұрын

    Actually they can feel in love, but love alone is not enough for a relationship hence why you listed those other attributes. And love definitely doesn’t come collectively with those other things you need to work for them, and for people who are broken and live a certain way it’s even more harder to do those things.

  • @kakz100

    @kakz100

    2 жыл бұрын

    Nobody’s perfect he was obviously young and stupid at the time, he’s obviously matured and learned in life, and she obviously didn’t deserve the pain but you both need to get over yourselves.

  • @ShootersShootPodcast
    @ShootersShootPodcast2 жыл бұрын

    The way the camera was on her when she was taking a break like it was an episode of Maury 😭😭

  • @DCODev
    @DCODev2 жыл бұрын

    The difference between this man and many men, he has the backbone to bare it all and come 100% clean. Right or wrong, weak or strong, he speaks a level of facts and accuracy that most men don't have the courage to stand on. Best of luck to this bruv!

  • @its_just_me3214
    @its_just_me32142 жыл бұрын

    My ex basically strung me along while I was grieving and vulnerable and told me he did It because he didn’t want to be alone and I was pretty. A big whole grown man, that’s his reasons and the hell he put me through he doesn’t understand why I don’t want him back 🥴

  • @richardmcnulty1944
    @richardmcnulty19442 жыл бұрын

    It doesn’t take a psychologist to see this guy is a narcissist and has severe deep rooted issues.

  • @quickie17

    @quickie17

    2 жыл бұрын

    Of course it don't he says it himself

  • @electriccommander5077

    @electriccommander5077

    2 жыл бұрын

    Narcissist ?

  • @onikapinkk

    @onikapinkk

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@electriccommander5077 someone who doesnt care about his partners feelings. manipulative, and making your partner in general feel bad

  • @jayreidy5317

    @jayreidy5317

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@onikapinkk You know what yeah I honestly don’t get narcissistic vibes from him, and I’ve experienced one, he just seems so stupidly clueless

  • @onikapinkk

    @onikapinkk

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jayreidy5317 No i agree. Atleast he apologized and explained himself why he done it. I don’t necessarily think that hes a narcissist cause he actually felt bad for what he did but just cause he apologized and owned up to his mistakes doesnt mean its a good thing either cause people will apologize to you but you wont forget what they have done to you .

  • @libbydaramola4217
    @libbydaramola42172 жыл бұрын

    Anyone else getting blue therapy vibes from this new series love it 😂

  • @ICavalcadeI

    @ICavalcadeI

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, except Blue therapy was fake lmao

  • @pegobrown9204

    @pegobrown9204

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ICavalcadeI uh huh an this is totally 100% real I bet it was one take, no cuts an edits for them to say the lines better

  • @kareemdabo4716

    @kareemdabo4716

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ICavalcadeI it was fake but styl cold tho

  • @ICavalcadeI

    @ICavalcadeI

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@pegobrown9204 if you follow Castillo, you'd know this is actually real. Plus he's talked about/is pretty open about the madness he used to get into. Idk if the other couples they'll show are real, but this one definitely is. This footage wasn't even meant to be used for this show, it was meant to be used for a different one that Castillo pitched.

  • @ICavalcadeI

    @ICavalcadeI

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kareemdabo4716 ya it definitely was, I just found it weird how obviously it was fake but people still denied it with their chest

  • @dondappa
    @dondappaАй бұрын

    It’s strange. I find castillo so funny, and this whole thing makes me laugh. But I can tell that this woman is actually a good person who doesn’t deserve that treatment. Equally as flawed and damaged as Castillo is, he’s very likeable due to his honesty at this point.

  • @DS-wq8oq
    @DS-wq8oq2 жыл бұрын

    6:06 “U just used my government” This guy is too funny😂

  • @burntyellow
    @burntyellow2 жыл бұрын

    Imagine being one of the links he didnt give a fuck about watching this

  • @commanda3536

    @commanda3536

    2 жыл бұрын

    😁it iiis what it iiis😁

  • @oneshak

    @oneshak

    2 жыл бұрын

    they’re just a link for a reason, they shouldn’t get in their feelings

  • @aishaa927

    @aishaa927

    2 жыл бұрын

    It’s actually scary a man would go as far as meeting your family all the while knowing he don’t give a fuck. Streetz is COLD no wonder no one wants to be vulnerable anymore.

  • @kieronndj5004

    @kieronndj5004

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @gwopele

    @gwopele

    2 жыл бұрын

    they probably didnt give a fuck about him either.. a link is a link

  • @pudddingpie
    @pudddingpie2 жыл бұрын

    She’s a beautiful woman, her beauty is shining from within. Castillo man I’m glad you know it’s bad karma for you cuz she’s a keeper!

  • @Willy_Jean

    @Willy_Jean

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's her fault lol. Everyone knows how he is. There is so many men out there, if she wanted a nice guy she would get one. She know what she was getting herself into. No sympathy here

  • @cutieluxs247

    @cutieluxs247

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Willy_Jean you’ve never been in love looool

  • @kemal3599

    @kemal3599

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@cutieluxs247 that response right there is why so many women get taken for idiots. You don’t just fall in love, she chose to spend extensive time with him, sleep with him and do all the other things that led to her developing feelings for him. And she chose to do all that knowing full well what kind of man he is. That’s a dumb choice that she’s entirely responsible for.

  • @cutieluxs247

    @cutieluxs247

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kemal3599 tell that to every woman who’s fallen in love with an idiot. She deffo should’ve left him, but it’s easy to say outside a relationship. All I’m saying is don’t judge people, you have no facts to have opinions lol

  • @itsmeprincess6342

    @itsmeprincess6342

    2 жыл бұрын

    @1204StrikesBack shut up let’s see how you look like

  • @hrf1954
    @hrf19549 ай бұрын

    I swear if any of my exes call me up to tell me some bs like this they better be prepared to get kicked in the chest

  • @cecerollerskates4527
    @cecerollerskates45272 жыл бұрын

    Sadly Castillo is a narcissist blaming his trauma for his inability to feel or have emotion only through selection. He is a sociopathic narcissist and chooses to stay uneducated. A child definitely doesn't need a parent around who does not love THEM. As for the young lady, wow she is so classy and smart and I am really proud of her, loved the way she ended the chat and moved on.

  • @jaypey8253

    @jaypey8253

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol all these females in the comments chatting shit. As if you have perfect relationships. Acting like saints who never done anything wrong

  • @Dragoncam13

    @Dragoncam13

    2 жыл бұрын

    People become sociopaths because of Truama and life experiences bruh,you literally contradicted yourself

  • @johnsliva1798

    @johnsliva1798

    2 жыл бұрын

    you a psychologist bruv?

  • @jaypey8253

    @jaypey8253

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@johnsliva1798 ofcourse she isnt, another female talking shi online as usual, probably dates fboys and has terrible relationships too.

  • @miben1109

    @miben1109

    2 жыл бұрын

    Actually hé is nog blaming his trauma

  • @Mychannel-so8kf
    @Mychannel-so8kf2 жыл бұрын

    “I’m gonna get to that…” “I’m gonna get to that…” 😂😂😂

  • @candiceg3092

    @candiceg3092

    2 жыл бұрын

    Everytime😂😂

  • @KM-ze3tr
    @KM-ze3tr2 жыл бұрын

    He’s a fuckboy, she’s a good girl. Sad to see trashy men take advantage and suck good people into relationships when they’re doing them so wrong like he was. Hope she finds someone who deserves all the effort she was putting in the relationship 🤍 strong woman x

  • @jaybossupsettinz1615

    @jaybossupsettinz1615

    2 жыл бұрын

    Everyone know he's a fuckboy n she still got with him that's on her.. these chicks think they can change a nigga

  • @Mr.Singhhh

    @Mr.Singhhh

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jaybossupsettinz1615 exactly….

  • @anubis8918

    @anubis8918

    2 жыл бұрын

    And she's a eediat for staying wid w man that only had 20p to his name. Nuff of you girls like being with these bummy guys because you think it puts you in a position of power and control. You don't wanna be with a real man who's lead you will have to follow and dictate how the relationship is ran. Furthermore most man aint getting gyal like that to even have the opportunity to cheat

  • @whoneedslovewhenyouhaves..859

    @whoneedslovewhenyouhaves..859

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@anubis8918 please just shut uuuup🤣🤣

  • @bisibamidele4584

    @bisibamidele4584

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@anubis8918 Lol this is why I say you men are confused breads when a women stays with a man that is financially well off they are gold diggers only with a man for money, they are opportunists never want to help build a man only want to take blah blah. Now we have a perfect example of a woman being with a man for who he is as a person, supporting a man financially, mentally and emotionally. Investing and building up a man and she is a dickhead for staying with him because he had 20p to his name?? There is no winning I swear

  • @christmasboy07
    @christmasboy07Ай бұрын

    Ill only speak for me.. when you’re able to look in the mirror and acknowledge when /how/why you’ve been a monster moments/stretches in your life , then things slowly begin to change inside of you .. its necessary for us all .. Convos like this have to be had .. and to call yourself a man you have to acknowledge ( then embrace) your dark side too .. real life experiences keep teaching me not to judge .. growth is ugly.. salute to them both on their journeys

  • @freshpaige20
    @freshpaige20 Жыл бұрын

    She wasn’t ready for this type of conversation she not fully healed from the relationship. From the very beginning she wasn’t listening to better understand him. She was just listening to respond. She obviously still in love with him. This whole conversation brought up so much trauma that she been trying to avoid.

  • @judithblue81
    @judithblue812 жыл бұрын

    Nothing worst than being with someone this emotionally handicapped. They will do selfish, heartless , irresponsible things and still confuse it will love, still find a way to make it about them or still try to make you feel like you should be somehow grateful they “choose you” . RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN! sorry for this lady, maybe scarred for a long time

  • @shadowlessgam

    @shadowlessgam

    2 жыл бұрын

    Worse*

  • @JDNMikaili

    @JDNMikaili

    2 жыл бұрын

    I don’t know. I see a man who thinks with raw emotion. For him it’s not about who’s right and who’s wrong, but what’s right and what’s wrong. Life isn’t black and white and he’s giving his reasoning for his decisions. His decision were clearly dishonest but he’s allowing her to understand the layers of his decisions.

  • @nonibbb

    @nonibbb

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@JDNMikaili YES, what a refreshing comment

  • @tc644
    @tc6442 жыл бұрын

    We can’t keep playing victims with our past experiences. Using them as a excuse to be a not so nice person. Like I always say to friends who have experienced trauma, your past doesn’t define you! Neither should it scare you. You can choose to either hold on to the past or rebuild and create a better and stronger you. I.e self love/self worth. With the right help and support , I’m certain he will be able to identify his behaviours, patterns and own emotions pertaining relationships with women, friends and society.

  • @ladyofspa

    @ladyofspa

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hes trying to heal, but this is not the most productive for her. Just pain on top of a wound, now dump his wounds on top of her.

  • @savagejama6501

    @savagejama6501

    2 жыл бұрын

    It wasn’t his past tho, he was living a shit life while he was in the relationship, if ur talking about when they were together

  • @iamqueencandace

    @iamqueencandace

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hes not playing victim, his younger life has shaped him in the man he is today, so it all plays a part, they say it takes a village, he needs a country. I can hear his cry for help...

  • @tc644

    @tc644

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@iamqueencandace if you listen to his explanations on his behaviour then and now…. He refers to his past upbringing. I’m not bashing him or anything as such.. because I too have experienced a traumatic past, that I held onto for years and I can honestly say just by not seeking the right help, support and doing silly things at the time. Made me into someone I didn’t like, and affected my personal relationships and my mental well-being. Took a lot of work to change that but I tell you now! I’m comfortable with who I am today and things have been amazing than Before those Times.

  • @MarioSuper14

    @MarioSuper14

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@tc644 kudos to you first of all for bettering yourself! I agree that I don’t think he’s using his past as an excuse but people need to realise that it’s okay to sit down now years later and explain WHY he was the way he was while taking accountability for why it was wrong. Through trauma a lot of peoples distorted views and behaviours become okay and very normal to them at the time until you get the help and unlearn the toxic behaviours

  • @Haizdan
    @Haizdan2 жыл бұрын

    “You just said my government name bruv”😭😭😭😭😭

  • @killerbean4328
    @killerbean43282 жыл бұрын

    When Castillo says “And I’m gonna get to that…” you know his next words are gonna wound her.

  • @crazy4chingyjg
    @crazy4chingyjg2 жыл бұрын

    This needed structure, they needed a therapist or somebody there to steer the conversation properly..felt like castillo was repeating himself about the same thing too much

  • @ladyofspa

    @ladyofspa

    2 жыл бұрын

    🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

  • @missnaimansdiary4724

    @missnaimansdiary4724

    2 жыл бұрын

    100%

  • @aishaa927
    @aishaa9272 жыл бұрын

    Ladies this is why you don’t date broken men. It ain’t worth it. Too many broken Black men wreaking havoc on young black women.

  • @ladyofspa

    @ladyofspa

    2 жыл бұрын

    Broke soul, mind, heart, wallet.

  • @AlphaTSH

    @AlphaTSH

    2 жыл бұрын

    And vice versa

  • @jr5296

    @jr5296

    2 жыл бұрын

    The same can be said about black women...

  • @angelb4946

    @angelb4946

    2 жыл бұрын

    BINGO.

  • @angelb4946

    @angelb4946

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jr5296 only demographic of people that compare themselves to the women in their community. sad.

  • @bambii6679
    @bambii66792 жыл бұрын

    Castillio much respect for being honest, even tho u didn’t have the right words sometimes.. u gave her closure. she don’t see it now but she will in the long run. Man are just different when it comes too falling in love

  • @morebymya
    @morebymya2 жыл бұрын

    He's speaking from a place of growth....without really understanding how to grow. Bless both of them.

  • @WEA-mr5lj
    @WEA-mr5lj2 жыл бұрын

    Can you IMAGINE this was a woman saying that shit to a man?? He’s sick

  • @ladyofspa

    @ladyofspa

    2 жыл бұрын

    🎯🎯

  • @ashfoyowa6689

    @ashfoyowa6689

    2 жыл бұрын

    He's a man not a woman. We are not the same so stop comparing us

  • @lizzie5496

    @lizzie5496

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ashfoyowa6689 both people in this scenario were in a relationship. Doesn’t matter the gender. One used the other’s trust and love to feel better about themselves, expecting them to fully commit to them whilst sleeping around within the relationship. If a man wants to cheat on his committed girlfriend, how is it any different for a girlfriend to cheat on her committed boyfriend? They’re both shit people, doesn’t matter the biology behind it. If a man can’t commit because “ooo my penis needs variety i have biological needs and i wanna spread my seed!!” then go date a cave woman who’s gonna be fine with it - don’t find someone willing to commit to just betray them behind their back. It’s 2022, women choose not to have children or care for a man their whole lives. Men can choose not to be cheating horn-dogs.

  • @Theglortube

    @Theglortube

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Dr Flu there isn’t

  • @ogsmartass2625
    @ogsmartass26252 жыл бұрын

    Lord please protect the women that feel that they can save these men, amen.

  • @shabdine

    @shabdine

    2 жыл бұрын

    This men’s are poisonous ☠️

  • @wackywolly
    @wackywolly2 жыл бұрын

    When he sat there alone waiting her to come back i just expected him to say "Sniper out now on all digital platforms" XD

  • @queenjay3881
    @queenjay38812 жыл бұрын

    His closure was for himself, all it did to her was bring the pain that she never healed from back up. I hope she finally mentally, physically and emotionally heals from his toxicity

  • @flawntasia
    @flawntasia2 жыл бұрын

    A true definition of, "no matter how much you do for a man, it can never be enough". Even to this day and time he's still making excuses. Sir acknowledge your nonsense, apologies and keep it moving. Please and thanks

  • @jayslater7017

    @jayslater7017

    2 жыл бұрын

    That quote applies to women wayyyyyy more than it does to men

  • @user-ep7fu1rv7r

    @user-ep7fu1rv7r

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jayslater7017 lol

  • @emanx222

    @emanx222

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jayslater7017 lol you know that's not true and it's hilarious you think that lol

  • @jayslater7017

    @jayslater7017

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@emanx222 No, it almost certainly is true. Not for all women of course. You can give your all for a woman and she still won’t appreciate you.

  • @emanx222

    @emanx222

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jayslater7017 oh I agree with that but I don't agree that it applies more to women although to be fair, I could be wrong

  • @Monkeyboy7824
    @Monkeyboy78242 жыл бұрын

    cameraman was mad wierd trying to get angles of her crying in the back, like cmon let her breath a sec!!

  • @gwarnc.yk1

    @gwarnc.yk1

    2 жыл бұрын

    Fr

  • @kunt9670

    @kunt9670

    2 жыл бұрын

    Want them to put the words “she cried” on the screen grow up…….

  • @haddingtoniangcp2464

    @haddingtoniangcp2464

    2 жыл бұрын

    He did his job, whoever edited it kept it in.

  • @jr5296

    @jr5296

    2 жыл бұрын

    So, the camera man isn't suppose to film? lol are you stupid?

  • @timeless_heritage

    @timeless_heritage

    2 жыл бұрын

    I don't agree w/ the action but that's what he's paid for innit Same w/ papperazi capturing intimateoments. It ain't right but that's what gardeners clicks

  • @TheMindalteringlady
    @TheMindalteringlady9 ай бұрын

    I appreciate his willingness to open up. I wish she could understand him better. Yet I’m empathetic to her hurt.

  • @IndyFreeman-iq5he
    @IndyFreeman-iq5he20 күн бұрын

    “I’ve kind of been honest about a few things, do you get what I mean?” 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @naturally_curious_
    @naturally_curious_2 жыл бұрын

    Drinking game. Every time he says “I’m gonna get to that” take a shot 😂😂

  • @coolinbythebay5326

    @coolinbythebay5326

    2 жыл бұрын

    Drunk aff is the outcome 😂😂

  • @naturally_curious_

    @naturally_curious_

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@coolinbythebay5326 😂

  • @Knowonenew
    @Knowonenew2 жыл бұрын

    She had me glued when she said “is that why you abandoned yours”

  • @AB-my8ww

    @AB-my8ww

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ahahahahaha what a plot twist

  • @takurai1232

    @takurai1232

    2 жыл бұрын

    he doesn’t have kids you fucking nob😭

  • @era_682
    @era_6822 жыл бұрын

    I'd like people to close their eyes and think about the dirtiest, filthiest, deceitful, and most incriminating things they've done to people... Now would you dare call those people, put cameras up, and truthfully confess your actions in front of them for the world to see & judge? 👀 Big up to yaself Castillo, you're now at peace. You've done something a lot wouldn't do. And to my beautiful sista, you're stronger than most. Believe me!!! Just stay strong and don't let a hurtful past define your future.

  • @osialiu1030
    @osialiu10302 жыл бұрын

    My God, this guy is evil. He doesn't even know how bad he is

  • @ladyofspa

    @ladyofspa

    2 жыл бұрын

    🎯

  • @kareemdabo4716

    @kareemdabo4716

    2 жыл бұрын

    He’s a funny guy but feeek he is acc heartless

  • @captainawsomebenson

    @captainawsomebenson

    2 жыл бұрын

    He even wore the black forces 😭

  • @EARART

    @EARART

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wouldn't say evil, that's a bit harsh

  • @anubis8918

    @anubis8918

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hes not evil. Hes got 2 schizophrenic parents.what do you expect

  • @curlygirlleskie2646
    @curlygirlleskie26462 жыл бұрын

    It’s sad but I’ve seen a lot of men having this hierarchy of women the way he’s explaining, it’s definitely an ego thing with them.

  • @tontonbonnet7397

    @tontonbonnet7397

    2 жыл бұрын

    The problem with men is that the ones that are truly confident and not intimidated by women are usually players. It’s an ego/power thing but some also use sex and female attention to mend trauma. It’s sad

  • @anubis8918

    @anubis8918

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@tontonbonnet7397 or maybe variety is the spice of life and we just like the feeling of different girls. Stop with the psychoanalysis man.🙄

  • @tontonbonnet7397

    @tontonbonnet7397

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@anubis8918 I've had the privilege of being raised by men with multiple wives/baby mothers and experiencing a player phase myself. Variety is the spice of life but there truly are always roots behind everything. You will come to understand once you decide to

  • @natedoggm89
    @natedoggm892 жыл бұрын

    The narrator hahahhahaa had me creasing in first 20 secs

  • @showkingsent
    @showkingsent2 жыл бұрын

    For a guy who seems to "keep it real", he was extremely fake to the one person he should have been real to. He seems to have hit a place in life where he has finally sat down and assessed himself and his life for what it is and was without lying to himself and to the one and only person that mattered to him. May his growth, empathy and knowledge of self keep expanding into a better person.

  • @nikolairose2739

    @nikolairose2739

    2 жыл бұрын

    He wasn't exactly raised well. He had no father figure. He was likely on demon timing for a long time and is only now changing for the better the older/wiser he gets.

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