As a baby boomer and a therapist it saddens me to see how disconnected socially and emotionally these generations are.

@lizziebkennedy7505

4 ай бұрын

@pebbles848That’s not generational, that’s just parents not getting it. Every Gen has it. I’m 59 and I let my 86 yo mum go to vm constantly.

@user-bs4tg9oh7d

4 ай бұрын

Speak for Yourself

This was a brilliant interview that shows how much the internet has really affected the mental health of the younger generations.

@lizziebkennedy7505

4 ай бұрын

Parents, families, too. Not just ‘the internet’.

Im 53 , married for 29 years to the one man , very happily, we have 4 young adult children, and Im so grateful I was born in the 70s, I text my kids , and see them in person , see my friends in person and do not overwhelm myself with social media , I dont spend much time on it at all , prefer nature and company of my pets , family and friends. Worries me so much for the future , attention limited to a few minutes, and too much technology! Such a lovely conversation and insightful .

@lizziebkennedy7505

4 ай бұрын

We are not all the same.

@UrsaBella

3 ай бұрын

does his age make you feel old? This would make me feel old instantaneously and I would be worried once I hit 60ies...I cannot relate to a 30 years old man because he is of my son's age we are a generation or two apart.

@joannaandblueskies9435

3 ай бұрын

@@UrsaBella married for 29 years not to a 29 yr old lol

Well this explains why these generations are unstable, unsettled, restless, depressed, scattered . . . Very sad that they have noting stable to grab ahold of. 😢

@angelhelms9533

6 ай бұрын

the lord

@ljscheible6007

6 ай бұрын

@@angelhelms9533 yes the Lord Christ Jesus. God does not change. He is the same yesterday today and eternally.

@lizziebkennedy7505

4 ай бұрын

Please. They have different things to you. We attack what we don’t understand.

I'm 51 and use whatsapp, signal, fb messenger. I use technology all day everyday with my work. I do feel for the young generation as they'll never get to experience the world we had pre internet. It was so free from the constant distraction of technology.

@modholly1

5 ай бұрын

I also use all the apps, I work in tech too, and there is no way I would ever call someone (I'm 53).

@carla89cc

5 ай бұрын

​@modholly1 do you feel like you're just hiding from life.. hiding behind your phone?

@marjo-electron-libre

3 ай бұрын

@wordsw: the same for me, I'm 50 and use tech to communicate because I am working on internet. But I'm always amazed at how little other people my age know about the internet (apart from WhatsApp and sometimes Facebook), probably because they don't work on the internet. I communicate with my aunt by... letter lol but she's 84. Not easy for me.

I love this. I'm 70, I had a telephone in my room on a 'teen line' which was offered to parents as part of the main telephone connection in the house but a separate number to talk to my friends. We had cooking and sewing class in high school. I remember feeling panicked in 3rd high school year when they were preparing us to make our academic choices for college because I had no idea what I wanted to do with my future at age 16. Also, my parents bought me an old car for $75 when I got my drivers license and I was thrilled to have wheels to drive to school. I think social media creates unrealistic expectations and a lack of gratitude for what you have. I really related to this video!

@danitapowell2291

5 ай бұрын

I’m 64, and I have never heard of a teen line. Was this in the UK?

@gloryb-tv

5 ай бұрын

I loved the teen line. Or at least a phone jack in every bedroom + moveable phones.

@imalrockme

5 ай бұрын

if you look back, you should realize you had comfort for cheap prices. Things aren't like that, anymore.

@swisschalet1658

5 ай бұрын

@@imalrockme We have plenty of comfort for cheap prices, right now! Everything is extremely convenient compared to the past, you have no idea.

Great video! I'm 60 in US and drove from east coast to west coast with my 24 year old niece last summer. I only used my phone to take an occasional picture and to text or call my husband and son to let them know I was alive and well during our progress 😂 My niece was on her phone constantly producing pictures and videos with interesting poses to send to her friends while I was taking in the beautiful scenery and engaging with people I met along the way. It really seemed as if the trip for her was more about getting content to post on social media rather than enjoying the actual experience of looking up from her phone and really experiencing the sights and sounds or engaging with new people along the way. It's nice to hear that in Australia younger people actually want to spend time with the older generations because here in US it seems just the opposite. Your video really gave me alot of insight to better understand my 24 yo niece and 29 yo son. Thank you!

I am a boomer and this was interesting. The younger generations need to chill and stop comparing themselves. Enjoy life, yes, plan ahead but enjoy now! You are you not a clone of others. You don't have to have everything now, things come with hard work and take time to happen. I bought a studio flat in London when I was 31. I was given furniture and items until I could afford my own, I didn't have a Smeg fridge and matching kettle!!!! I value the things I have and have worked for. I love my technology and would not be without it but it does not rule my life and replace real friendships. I am grateful I did not have all this technology when I was younger but I love it now for the conveniences that I choose.

This was great. I hope you do more interviews like this. It helped me understand my children's generation better. I am 57. Children 32, 26, 23. This conversation has helped me rethink how I communicate with my youngest. Thank you

@fabulous50s

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching Michelle ❤️

@chloewolf9201

6 ай бұрын

Yes it was so great. I really hope you do more of these. It’s extremely interesting.

@bonniehenderson2560

5 ай бұрын

Great interview, thank you so much ❤

@susanodonoghue7562

5 ай бұрын

An excellent interview. I found it extremely enlightening for me. Thank you! I look forward to seeing more interviews of this sort. ❤

@carla89cc

5 ай бұрын

Yes me also

Good honest conversation. I'm a baby boomer and was so surprised the first time I heard my generation's name used as a pejorative. We were taught to at least be polite to our elders, instead of verbally distaining them to their faces.

@traceytrotter9934

6 ай бұрын

I was going to say the exact same thing!

@mallorygraf8574

5 ай бұрын

Really? I'm a late boomer and definitely remember the older boomers (the ones in their late teens and 20s) being quite disrespectful of older generations esp the Greatest Generation during the Vietnam years. I was only 10 during that time but I remember the college kids saying "Never trust anyone over 30" and the older generations being called war mongers and worse.

@katemiller7874

5 ай бұрын

Yes they very disrespectful.

@lizziebkennedy7505

4 ай бұрын

What is with all the judgement? If you are under 60 you are Gen X, not a boomer. So many older folk telling young ppl to be different, and saying their time was better. But we massively trashed the earth, and ours was the age of the rise of rampant consumption, both of which are now being billed to these young ppl. We have no right to tell anyone else how to live.

Great discussion! I’m glad I’m not a young person with the stressful pressure of social media. Very sad!

I’m 63 and I enjoyed this very much. I’m very old fashioned and do things the way my mother did. I love my life and being a homemaker. My generation believes you work with what you’ve got and live within your means. Money isn’t everything, not a priority because God enriches my life in ways that money could never provide.

@faith4390

5 ай бұрын

Absolutely!

I'm 58 and I don't get the younger generation in communication! I started "going out" with my husband in 1983 and we married in 87 and never looked back. He's always been my person! Sounds like you may have been in the same boat! I still work and haven't made a million still!

Nope I dated one at a time. Wow I’m blown away by all this.

I miss the 80s. However the mobile phone would of been handy without the social media. Imo .

@fabulous50s

6 ай бұрын

I agree Chloe ❤️

@GermanShepherdDaphne

6 ай бұрын

The late 90’s were the best.

@katrinjohnson9831

5 ай бұрын

Late 90’s and early 00’s had the best compromise - an information centered version of internet on computers and maybe a dumb phone in your pocket for urgent situations. Imo it was social media, smart phones and reality shows that really changed it all in a very stressful and scattered way. /Born 1980

@katybug1966

2 ай бұрын

You can get a new flip phone - or delete social media!

I went back to college to get another degree at the age of 58 this last January. I purposely took as many classes as I can in person instead of online. And I'm enjoying being around the younger students. When I went to college, everything was in person so I really think I prefer in person anyway. My daughter is 28 so this episode really resonated. I will send it to her so we can talk about it. I definitely know my daughter thinks she should already be a millionaire or already have kids or already this or already that. And as for #4, she does feel like she can never own a home and I think that puts even more pressure on her that she has to be this high earning person so that she can buy a big nice house someday.

Best thing I’ve watched on KZread for ages! 😀

@fabulous50s

6 ай бұрын

Thanks so much for watching ❤️

I am Gen X and really enjoyed this, I had many of the same experiences as Schellea, but also understand some of Heather's challenges. Excellent, honest discussion, making reality and perspectives clearer for both eras. It's rich and fulfilling to have friends of all ages, especially when they can talk openly and candidly. We are all here together trying our best to thrive and connect. Understanding and supporting each other benefits everyone!

@fabulous50s

5 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your beautiful comment Ardis! Sending you a big hug 🤗❤️

@amygregg1658

5 ай бұрын

This was a wonderful discussion! I’m the same age as Schellea and so appreciate hearing Heathers’s analysis of the generations. She is so insightful! And I have to say I’m puzzled by the appeal of Snapchat 😆

Young adults plant their own burdens in their thoughts, The needing be liked/attention. insecure and afraid to try for fear of failure & rejection. The cycle of lacking. Stop stressing, its better.

I am with you Schelea on communication. All those multiple apps sound crazy!

I'm 52 and have 2 young adult kids. Although I literally live on the other side of the world your conversation is very recognizable and eye opening. Still, I am happy to be old fashioned!

I loved this chat! What wonderful idea. I am a Gen Xer with kids who are both Gen Y & Gen Z. I often feel like my generation was an ideal time to grow up in and my kids generations have created such pressure, anxiety and depression for them. I think Heather described it beautifully about how they tend to feel less than because of all the external pressure they are subjected to. I think it has caused a lot of strife in their lives. It makes me sad that even their relationships seem more superficial and the inability to commit to another is such a difficult thing for them to do. I feel that life was easier in a lot of ways and more joyful when I was growing up. There was more family/friends around us, community involvement and people you really could rely on. The joys of dating a person (taking time to get to know someone before getting benefits) are lost on the younger generations. I love the younger generations, how could I not, they are my kids. I think that coming together and learning from each other is so important because when you come down to it we just want to share that important connection, learn from each other, support one another and have fun together.

Great video to watch. I am 55 and my kids are 27 and 25 so I could totally relate. Thanks Schellea!

@fabulous50s

5 ай бұрын

You are so welcome! 🤗

This was really interesting - thanks for putting it together! I'm 56 - GenX. It's good to learn the reasons why the younger generations do what they do. There does seem to be so much more pressure on the younger gens due to technology. They seem to be viewing their life in terms of what would be content-worthy rather than relaxing and enjoying the present moment based on what they themselves want to do vs what their followers would want to see. This was great! Based on today's video, I guess I'm old fashioned too lol. Have a great weekend! Kris K from Connecticut USA ❤🌞

I really enjoyed this video. As the 55-year-old mother of two adult sons I want nothing more than to continue to be a part of their lives, and to share the things that I’ve learned over my lifetime that will make their lives easier. This video was very eye-opening.

@fabulous50s

5 ай бұрын

Thanks so much for watching Melanie ❤️

@katemiller7874

5 ай бұрын

Same. That’s how learn by hearing what other generations have to say.

I’m 67 and I text or call. My girlfriends and I talk on the phone. My granddaughters do most of the Snapchat. I only had one boyfriend at a time. I believe it’s our age. My friends and I catch up when we talk. We worked and had God in my life. God gave me what I needed. All the rest is extra. We were happy with what we were able to get and want. What was good for me is not good for someone else. My husband and I milked cows and ran a farm. Our friends had other jobs. We respected each other

@dianestevens5237

6 ай бұрын

Me too, I grew up on a dairy farm. When I was twelve I could drive a tractor, do a load of laundry and fix a meal. If I wanted to do a school or church activity I would usually have to walk or bike

I don’t use all those apps. So invasive of your privacy.

This was truly amazing and being 55 myself it resonated so deeply, especially how Heather and you talked about respecting the Generations and Adulting. Thank you for an enlightened Session! ♥ 🌹

I loved this video!!! I am 59. I have 2 daughters in their mid-thirties. I remember I resisted texting on phones, I wanted to hear their voice. I resisted Facebook, even then I thought it was intrusive. I quickly learned that I had to get with the program. My generational change is literally that I had to change. Young people don't see it that way because they are changing all the time. Example: Fads. I fad could last in popularity a year when I was young. Now, it's over in a couple weeks if that. Loves from USA.😊

@fabulous50s

6 ай бұрын

You’re so right Diandra 🙌 i’m sending you a big hug from Australia ❤️

What a wonderful way to help bridge and understand each generation ❤

Loved this! Thank you. The disappearing messages really upset me when it happened and I didn’t understand why a friend would do that! Now I do, haha! Also, teared up at the last misunderstanding - so true about not feeling “wanted, or valuable” for the older generation, and judged by the younger. Well thought out and expressed. Thank you! ❤

Thanks for the great conversation! I enjoyed it immensely. I'm 70 and I have children ranging in age from 25 to 50, and I can see the range of differences you talk about. I use texts, What'sapp and email but I really don't like the pressure of responding to any of these just because people message me. I feel like my life and my time are my own and I will initiate or respond to a conversation when I have something to say or have put thought into a response, or when I have time. I don't want to be expected to respond to people immediately. One of the big lessons I learned in my life is that just because a question is asked, doesn't mean it has to be answered, and it is useful to think about the framing of questions and how they drive conversations in certain directions, and why I might, or might not, want to reframe questions and conversations to take them in a different direction. Much love to both of you!

I'm 68 almost and the dating thing is definitely that if you hooked up, then you were boyfriend and girlfriend! So then you didn't date other people

@fabulous50s

6 ай бұрын

Yes, it makes more sense doesn’t it 🙌

So the moral of the story is…social media has ruined our lives. Thank god my childhood was in the 70’s and 80’s. And NO…a disappearing message? Never even heard of it 😂😂

I loved this so much. We need more of these open conversations. I'm up for anything that bridges any gaps and unites us. After listening I do feel incredibly grateful growing up in the 70's without social media. Love you Shelly, you are a sweetheart.

I'm also 56 and I only dated one person at a time and I send text messages to my family

@fabulous50s

6 ай бұрын

Sisters ❤️

@pamelahicks5066

5 ай бұрын

I was 15 when I meet this boy and then starting being boyfriend and girlfriend, got a going steady ring, then later a pre engagement ring, then engagement ring. We got married, this happened all in 3 yrs. I am now 69 and we are still happy with each other. To God be the Praise.

I love this type of discussion! I am 57, my daughters are in their 20’s. I’ve taught them practical, hands on life skills, they are often surprised that their peers don’t know these things. Teach them money management too!

I am 53 and I have to agree with you Schelea, in every single point. I am happy grateful for our generation! 🙏🏼🤗

The problem is the new generation don't want commitment. It's sad 😢

I am 56 and so glad we did not have social media growing up. I feel this might be some of the cause of the younger generations mental heath issues today. Even for myself, I stopped using FB because I found I was comparing myself, what I have and even my relationship with my children to what I saw others posting. (unintentionally of course). After all, people only post the good things in their life. So if you are feeling depressed and see these feeds all the time, it could start to weighing on you. That is one of the reasons I am so very grateful for finding your channel, you are the pedestal of positivity. XO (do people use the XO anymore LOL!!!)

What a fun discussion! Loved this! I am definitely on the older generation side of things, but love to learn from those younger and hear their perspectives. It brakes my heart that some feel under valued or are made to feel under valued by those of a different generation. Each person has value and something to share.

@fabulous50s

5 ай бұрын

I totally agree ❤️

This was interesting. Yes, please do more.

@fabulous50s

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching Linda ❤️

This is quite possibly the most valuable video you've ever posted. 💗

I'm 62. 1- no I don't expect instant but I expect a response. I use text. I like the simple life, no multiple ways to communicate. I do use messenger on with 1 or two ppl. Rare calls. 2- For me, friends with benefits cheapens life and its lack of self respect. But also the guy would pick you up at your home and you go on a date. Now it's not wise to do that. 3- Talk about life, world, friend happenings and fun things. Yes I look up inspiration from the outside world. Glad it's not so insular. 4- no way. I just live in the present and appreciate what I have while saving. I still question my life purpose at times. 5- I can't look fast enough but it's not like I don't care. 6-: I love the spirit of those in their 20s. I do feel as though I'm too old to be with them or that what I can offer is not wanted.

@fabulous50s

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your insights Mary ❤️ I’m sending you a big hug

@kimrothe

6 ай бұрын

I agree that the kids in their 20’s don’t want to listen to our advice. I’m 58, live in Texas, and have 3 kids- 31, 27 & 26. When I try to give them advice, I get the eye roll 🙄 or told that it’s not done that way. I try to tell them to learn from our mistakes, we just want better for them than what we had at their age, but I feel like it goes in one ear and out the other. If they want to know how to do something, they just google it instead of asking us. Or if they do ask and they don’t like what we’ve said, they google it (and most times google tells them the same thing, so then I just smile). I also don’t get the friends with benefits mentality. In the ‘80s if we did that, you were considered a tramp or a playboy. I married my high school sweetheart, we started dating at 15, got married at 18, and will celebrate 40 years together in May. My oldest daughter got married at 29 after being with her now husband for 7 years. She did not date around with other guys, they were committed to the relationship. My younger daughter isn’t interested in marriage, but I don’t think she does the friends with benefits. I think she only sees one person at a time if it seems serious. My youngest is in a relationship, albeit long distance, but it seems serious right now. I just want them all to be happy and healthy.

This was great!! I'm 55 and my daughter is 27. This was very enlightening!!! Thank you!! :)

Very enlightening! Yes more interviews like this! Schellea I feel exactly like you do!

I did enjoy this. I asked my nieces 25, 30 and my son 35 why they feel the need to post everything. Why do you care what your friend is eating at 11pm? Is it the dreaded FOMO? If so why? They couldn't really seem to grasp that I thought it odd. Girls/young women seem obsessed with being"on". I like a drama less life and Gen Z, Mills seem to crave it. Did we fail them? Why are they so lost?

I really enjoyed this conversation! I'm so glad I grew up when I did, I see kids having their lives scheduled from an early age. I also used the phone to have conversation and it took me awhile to adapt to texts and receiving responses, lol! I don't get the disappearing messages/photos either. I dated one person at a time. Looking forward to more! 😊

It's quite sad how much social media rules the lives of the younger people. It's false and has taken over the human need for face to face communication.

This is right on. There is such a huge gap in relationships and understanding between different generations now. A large part of that has been brought on due to new technologies throughout the years and changing expectations because of that. More conversations like this need to be had so that each generation can have a better understanding of what each of us has to offer, regardless of age.

I LOVED it and shared with my 25 year old daughter and (25yrold) nieces and 85 year old Mother. I also really got the giggles over how similar my (59) and your experiences are. Bravo and make more videos like this!

I loved this video, thank you! I watched it last night and then watched it again this morning and had my husband watch it with me. I'm 57 and he's 67 So he's a babyboomer and I'm Gen X.. It really really helped me understand how different the younger generation is. I do feel sad that they feel so pressured to have money at such a young age. We didn't have that.

I'm 53 and I absolutely love young people. I love talking to them. Sure, there are some young people who are lazy and don't want to work but there are people my age who are lazy and don't want to work. One thing I love the most about young people is they don't put up with being disrespected. They demand respect and fair treatment. Older people think that way too. They only difference is young people have the courage to expect it. I have found myself getting a little braver is expecting fair treatment!

Great conversation between generations of women! Very interesting and clarifying!

Interesting conversation, thanks! 59 Don't know or care where my phone is 90+% of the time. Just doing my thing on my own or with people. Don't want to be glued to a phone, especially considering the radiation risks with mobile phones..

@cristinatanase539

6 ай бұрын

I’m the same, always get in trouble with my family for forgetting my phone at home.😅

@kirlygirl7863

6 ай бұрын

@@cristinatanase539 Oh thank you! Now I can say I'm not the only one! YOU are my new best friend. 😅

I really enjoyed this!! It totally helps both generations feel more seen, heard and validated!❤

I have 5 daughters, ages 28-33 and I'm 64. This was SO helpful! I know I'm old fashioned but this is such a positive spin on it. Thank you!

I’m also 56 and we dated one person at a time. We certainly didn’t equate dating to buying a house and having to have multiple choices.

Great conversation. Great to hear the younger gen would like the knowledge of the older, and the truth of her statement that the younger just don’t want to be told they are all wrong. No one likes that and it’s totally understandable. Loved it.

@fabulous50s

7 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts Sufani! I'm glad you enjoyed the conversation. Stay strong and fabulous 💪❤️

Great discussion! I always wondered what the “we’re just friends” meant. Sounds like too much sexual freedom going on, and that’s why we didn’t do it back in “the day”. I think it’s called morals. This information is all so sad for our younger generations.

I loved this chat. I see this with my older, adult children. Though they also understand how things were when I was growing up, so they are good about not leaving me in the dust when it comes to technology. I do feel sad that they have all these fast-paced pressures and constant information dumping on them through their phones.

I’m glad that I am older than the internet, I’m 53!

This was enjoyable and eye opening.

@fabulous50s

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching ❤️

This is an eye opener to me. I’m just shocked at the newest generation.

How can we turn this around? This sounds so dysfunctional. I feel deeply for the new generations, they miss out on all the mystery and nuances of life. Thank you for being so brave to expose this!

The unfortunate truth for the youth today is that unlike us who had personal interaction with our friends which I personally feel was sooo much better. I miss those days of that phone cord stretching across the house to get away from prying ears lol!!! I see it in my kids lives how anti social they are in real life but on line they thrive. To be fare friends have been made but for me growing up we hung out with the kids in the neighborhood and got called in for dinner not by phone but by your name and get home now shouted out lol. Now it’s get off ur phone, computer etc

@sandralulu777

6 ай бұрын

Yes, I feel what you said exactly as I lived my life as if I wrote these experiences. Well said. Have a happy day.

Wow! Thanks for doing this. It made me be able to relate to the younger generation better and I am 55! My kids are 1 millennial and 2 Gen Y!

70’s and 80’s Never dated 2 people at the same time… broke up once you realize it’s not going to work

I don't like disappearing messages cos I like to look back sometimes at what people have said, then delete when I want to. I feel my husband looks far too much at messages and things on the internet that I've taken 2nd place. I miss the times before internet but I know it's helpful too. Friends that I'd lost contact with from school reconnected via FB groups which was nice. If they'd have been WhatsApp groups I wouldn't have found them. Then I wouldn't have found you and your fantastic exercise prog if we hadn't had social media.😊.

@fabulous50s

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching Kim 🙏 I’m happy you are here ❤️

@delphinehamilton6799

6 ай бұрын

Don't have to go there

Loved this! I’m close with my daughter and son and yet I still learned new things about how younger minds think and younger people choose to communicate. Our son recently helped us to know about words used by younger generations in texts that we would find offensive and awful, but they use as compliments. I won’t share here to avoid making you blush or delete my post to you… 😂

loved this conversation and comparison. loved to hear more of this and learn about it. my boys used to tell me about friends with benefit but now I know that there is something like this out .

What a great video! Shelley, I love all of your videos. Been watching for a couple years now. I'm almost 56. We had our children late in life, So our youngest is 18. This was very interesting. Would love to see more! Nice to meet your friend, Heather. Thanks for letting us be a fly on the wall for your sweet discussion! 💝

@CheezNrice4u

6 ай бұрын

I’m on both ends, I had two young and one older, 39,36,17 so I’m all over the place in a state of confusion😮

I’m with you Schellea, I’m with you, in our generation things were very different, but then came the new generation, loved this video, please do more 👍😍🤗🌺

Very relatable ! I'm 58 and my daughter is 24. A few years ago, when she first got with her boyfriend, they'd been together ( in my view, at least !) for about 3 months. Then one day she messaged me and said, "guess what mum.. ! " I replied , " omg , sounds exciting, what ? " She came back with, "I have a boyfriend !!!!!❤" I was like wtf !! you've been with him for ages !? So definitely true that today's Gen Z and Millennials have a whole different process with regards to dating, relationships and the labels attached to it !

What a lovely composed classy young woman! The generations do things differently. It’s not always one is particularly better than the other. It’s just how we all evolve as time moves on!

That interview was fabulous. I am 54 and my kids are 24 and 22. We have a great relationship but still I sometimes feel there's a huge generation gap between us.

We didn't have mobile phones until we were in our late 20s imagine teenagers today growing up with no phone and no Internet! Interesting talk 😊

So informative and articulate. Loved listening and learning about the differences in generational thinking and attitudes. We are the same people with the same needs but with very different influences. I’m 69. Thanks and please do more.

@fabulous50s

5 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your comment! Have a beautiful day ❤️

I would love more of this by the way! So interesting and helps us all to connect at different ages.

69 here...this was excellent. I will understand my grandkids better because of it.❤

I'm 65 and life was much better back then nicer world nicer people.

I am 56 your age and my daughter's age is Heathers. My daughter is married and she never put up with the dating without an exclusive relationship or she just dumped the guy. In my day we just dated or broke up if it did not work out. There was no text messages/social media so when you broke up you did not have to see that ex person. Thank goodness LOL!! We had so much more privacy. The younger people it seems everyone wants to be a megastar and it is really drama and showoff. . How horrible to have to feel like you need to compare themselves. At that age I was just having fun working and traveling the future was the future. Oh boy I have more to say but that is ok. I am really glad I am the age I am. I will do my age they can do their age. This was a great video. :)

🎉🎉🎉 This was sooo AWESOME 🌟⭐️🌟⭐️ I could reply forever. First I’d like to say that you both look absolutely BEAUTIFUL !! Shelia your hair is stunning gorgeous and you just look so pretty !! And this young lady I love her bob cut with that dress, I’m in love with her dress! It’s lovely !! I’m 55 and what a fabulous talk !! 🎉🎉🎉

Enjoy your season and try to respect-and be kind to-those who are before and after you in age 😌 Thanks for sharing this Shellea-very interesting!

@imalrockme

5 ай бұрын

Specially, given the fact that we are all chatting and sharing opinions about a video that's available in this platform. So I really don't get some opinions like "it used to be like this, we called on old telephones and sent letters and it was great..." Well, people clearly don't miss those days so much as they keep using YT. My 2 cents.

This was a wonderful conversation.❤️❤️❤️

This was great. Very enlightening. I don’t get Snapchat. I am 65 and I need something to go back and reread.🤦‍♀️ My children are 45 39,32 and 29. The generations are so different. Thanks for sharing this and all your health and exercise videos. You are such a kind , beautiful and sweet lady! ❤🥰

This was SO FUN! And relatable! I am 67 and have a 30 year old son…. We are like the two of you! I absolutely agree that we are the keepers of knowledge and I appreciate when those younger than me seek me out for advice.. and I often catch myself quoting my Grandmother! Do more of these, please!

I just turned 60 last week. I am old fashioned. I hate the new world. I miss the old days.

As I age I want to be able to communicate effectively with all age groups. It doesn't matter whether I like it or not, it is what it is. Thank you for this video. It is very helpful. I would love for all generations to see this.

I try to stay open to change. The true litmus test for myself is to ask, how is that working for you? When I see young people medicated, depressed, and living life in theory only, I have to ask the obvious. Why? Loved this vid! Very informative. Thank you so much! Very helpful.

What an interesting, humble and insightful talk, thank you! ❤ Late 90’s and early 00’s had the best compromise imo - an information centered version of internet on computers and maybe a dumb phone in your pocket for urgent situations. I think it was social media, smart phones and reality shows that really changed it all in a very stressful and scattered way. /Born 1980, so borderline gen X/Y

@imalrockme

5 ай бұрын

yeah, but YT is great, right?

Oh, that was so beautiful. Thank you for making this type of content, it helps me understand my children more and it also deepens my desire to share with them all the good that I have to offer from my own life but rooted in the will of God for our lives. I’m with you Shellea, sometimes is very sad to look at the way the world turns today but I’m also so proud of the effort my children , nephews, cousins and friends make to hold on to the good I have to offer. We respect and learn from each other

As a Gen-Xer, my generation did not have social media. If we wanted to communicate with each other, we used an actual telephone. If we wanted to get information, we went to the local library. We also went outdoors and communicated face-to-face as opposed to using dating apps. Generation X never got the respect they deserved, but we persevered; even though we were ignored and misunderstood. #generationxrocks

This was entertaining to see the way different generations view themselves. I am happy to be my old age and just continue to grow, accept, and give back. Great video!

Loved this talk! I'm 59, soon to turn 60. I feel like I have kind of kept up with the times. My children are 39, 29, 27 & 25. I have always felt like i was the "cool " mom and we always had the "Kool Aid" house. You know the house where everyone hung out. Point #1 I totally use different platforms, but not disappearing messages. So NO snapchat. I mainly use Text messages for communicating with clients, I use whatsapp and FB messenger for close family and friends and I use Signal for my sons, one of them is military. Funny, because we even have my 81 year old mother using different platforms too. Although she has a hard time naming them, but she understands the differences. I totally remember as a kid, being at the mall or the movies and would find a pay phone to make a collect call to my mother; she would not accept the charges, but knew it was time to come pick me up. I think kids in general see how we lived as they were growing up, and think that's how it's supposed to be right out of the gate. So not the way it is! The younger generations have too many influences telling them they are not successful unless..... fill in the blank. It's sad really.

That was a really interesting interview, thank you, and at 61, I’m definitely with you Schellea! Life seemed so much simpler when we were young - BC takes on a whole new morning now - Before Computers! The technical age has brought us so much, I love how the internet has enabled me to take fitness classes in Australia, Canada, France and the US; have a well being coach in Canada and take live art classes with teachers in Croatia, India, the US and Japan - and all the while I am sitting in my house in a tiny village in the south of England - it’s amazing. BUT social media comes at a price and I really feel for the younger generation trying to navigate their way through the ‘comparanoia’, peer group pressure, time pressure, information overload and addiction that it brings. It’s tough. It’s why taking time to stop and breathe and listen to our bodies, engaging with people face-to-face and spending time away from screens and in nature is absolutely crucial for all our mental well-being.

This was a great eye opening sit down ..thank you I thoroughly enjoyed it❤

Ohh I did all the same here in the Netherlands, I am 70 now… very interesting conversation!

@fabulous50s

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching Marion ❤️

I'm 52 so you know who I connect with. ☺️ This did help me though! Helps me understand some of my colleagues and my children!

Great job!!👏🏼 I enjoyed this conversation. I’m 57 and have two kids, son 25, daughter 23. I am struggling with relating to them but this pulled back the curtain to let me see from both sides. What’s what appt??!? what? Wow I’m really not with this generation. I have a 82 yo mom I am with helping her in life. So with what I know what to do as far as seeing pictures on the phone, to getting an appt on her cell phone, to paying bills. It’s not like you use a checkbook anymore! lol…..Good job girls! Saving the generational gap✋🙌🏼

@fabulous50s

5 ай бұрын

❤️🤗