Facts: Harry was never in rehab. What actually happened was that Charles when he was informed about Harry's drug using, decided and arranged that Harry would spend a day in a rehab that Diana had supported, so that he could talk to addicts, and listen to their stories in the hopes that he would learn something. He was only there for 24 hours. He was however receiving therapy at one point, which clearly didn't work. The News of the World phonetapping incident: Harry's phone was barely touched, but his brother and sister in law, and many celebrities had undergone serial phone tapping over a long period of time by the NOTW. Many employees were imprisoned and the newspaper eventually closed down. Harry could have continued in the army. They offered him a promotion to Major but it meant taking a desk job and Harry only saw himself as this hero who served in wars around the globe. He felt diminished by the offer. He missed the point of duty and service in the military, where every single service person serves, but not always in a war situation. William was a search and rescue pilot in Norfolk. It was nothing to do with Charles and Camilla having their nose put out of joint by William. The store he refers to is Waitrose on Kensington High street. I worked not far away at Imperial College University of London some years back. Catherine regularly shops there. Nobody would have batted an eyelid at Harry. Harry had a valet, all the royal men do. The women have a dresser. It's their job was to ensure that their charge went out looking neat, tidy, cleaned and appropriately dressed. He didn't do his own laundry, he didn't dry it on the radiators. His valet ensured his clothes were clean, his shoes shined and any issues like holes in socks and shoes fixed. If the shoes had holes, the valet took them to the shoe repair shop for re-soling. Harry is very economical with the truth.

@cheeredenise

Жыл бұрын

Excellent info!!!! Thank you!!!

@anneselby2293

Жыл бұрын

@@cheeredenise you're most welcome! ❤ I'm very aware that non British people often don't have knowledge of places, people, the royal family and the British military. It's just to give a bit of perspective.

@valgardener7656

Жыл бұрын

@@anneselby2293 Thanks for the perspective. H&M are really leaning on this idea of American's being so ignorant that we scarcely know what a curtsey is, and will believe anything. I knew they were lying about the race and denial of mental health allegations from the start, because those were just bizarre. But they can still get me with little lies like the valet thing.

@1pamby1

Жыл бұрын

It was my understanding that he refused the promotion because it meant he had to go to specialized classroom training and take a written test that he knew he wouldn't be able to pass.

@darlene6531

Жыл бұрын

His goal is to be perceived as a victim. Thank you for all of the information.

As a soldier he swore an oath and took allegiance to HMTQ who he later betrayed in the most heartbreaking way.

@LG-nb5ur

Жыл бұрын

Treachery to betray his family like he has.

@jessiemacgregor1357

4 ай бұрын

I say he should be charged with Treason to the Crown 👑 whether it was his Granny or not. She was still HMTQ

So, being called racist wasn't reason enough to send him to Fleet Street but calling him lazy would? Oh boy. I think there is so much projection in his tales of others.

@cheeredenise

Жыл бұрын

Such a good point 😆

@sarahfern6009

Жыл бұрын

It reminds me of the Community quote “I can excuse racism, but I draw the line at animal cruelty.” “You can excuse racism?!”

@LG-nb5ur

Жыл бұрын

Obviously he knows he's racist and doesn't care...but he takes exception to being called lazy. Oi vey, the mind of a narcissist is a mess.

This man doesn’t describe any life in Britain that I recognise. I lived and worked in London during the time he talks about and there were rarely any pictures of him in the press and the amount of coverage was not as bad as he says. Btw Catherine goes shopping in supermarkets and takes the children to school, there are some pictures, all positive, but people seem to respect her for doing this

I just love your Harry voice. It sums him up so perfectly 😂😂😂

@blane1814

Жыл бұрын

Me too

THE PALACE HAS BEEN COVERING FOR HIM HIS WHOLE LIFE !! NOW NOT SO MUCH !!.

@charliekezza

Жыл бұрын

He should have stayed a working royal 😂😂😂

@elinstar6034

Жыл бұрын

I'm beginning to think he needs a proper diagnosis, whatever therapy he's having is just papering over the cracks. 🫣

I can’t bring myself to ever feel bad for him, h s had everything hand d to him on a platinum platter and STILL COMPLAINS! He was the most popular Royal for decades, the best PR people to bury bad behavior stories, he was even more loved after the naked pool game in Vegas! He’s never had ANY OF THE RESPONSIBILITY! If he can sit around googling all his symptoms on his Iphone all night, why can’t he press location, find a doctor and call a taxi? He’s just ENTITLED AF! William always protected this little cry baby, and the lies he’s spewed about the RF, especially THE QUEEN who even laughed at his antics are too much for me! He never has taken any initiative in life and blames everyone else!

@darlene6531

Жыл бұрын

Besides all that you point out, the reason I can’t forgive Harry is all of the hurt he causes. The heartbreak that he has caused the Queen, his father, William and so many others does not warrant sympathy. Harry strikes me as very manipulative and wants the world to see him as a victim. It’s a hard thing. He is not a well man, but he does not have to psychologically try to destroy others.

@catseatcookiessofiagacha5210

Жыл бұрын

​@@darlene6531so true.

@IssyKew

Жыл бұрын

And he lectures us about everything that we do wrong. He thinks he is above everyone and beyond reproach. He is so inward looking that he actually believes that every hardship he experiences is unique to him and he has no genuine interest in other people's hardships. He is so preoccupied in writing down how everyone wrongs him, he is blind to all the wrongs he does to others. He has no ability to empathise.

@laffytaffy2916

Жыл бұрын

A funny story when he and Megain were preaching saving the earth and being feminists, he went OFF on the football team that was his patronage during breakfast before game day at a hotel because they were all eating with plastic cutlery, like his face was getting redder, anger building for a good 10 minutes and the swear words that exploded from his mouth about them being so “wasteful and couldn’t the team be responsible and travel with reusable silverware, they were trashing the earth!” Oh, how times changed 4 months later with full access to Elton John’s private plane. I can’t even begin to think how big their carbon footprint is, but THEY WANT THEIR PRIVACY! 😂 Even though Will’s and Kate have been traveling commercial often with the kids, first class, but at least not private!!

@pambarratt4576

Жыл бұрын

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The problem with Harry is that he never made an effort at school, never had any ambition, didn’t want to be a royal, didn’t have any idea what he wanted to do. He could have done what his cousins did and got a real job, but he wasn’t qualified for anything. He has never fully grown up and unfortunately his family have always sheltered him and made excuses for him, which is probably the main thing they did wrong.

@1pamby1

Жыл бұрын

But I think he manipulated them to get that kind of treatment. He figured out early on, he could guilt and shame them and get what he wanted. It's not as if they could kick him out to fend for himself. It's a terrible situation and a shame that the RF wasn't able to mold him into at least a less harmful person.

@zoompt-lm5xw

Жыл бұрын

@@1pamby1 this

@ireriramirez9330

Жыл бұрын

He's lazy. That's why he and meghan markle are perfect for each other. No work ethic. They just want to be wealthy without having to work. That's probably why they behave very immature, they have no sense of purpose or direction. They put there energy into getting their way or screwing over people to get what they want.

@elinstar6034

Жыл бұрын

I'm beginning to think he has some underlying condition that makes it impossible for him to mature, or for his family to help him. Something's deeply amiss with this man.

@JJ-of1ir

Жыл бұрын

@@1pamby1 You are right, but his school, famed for creating independent and well educated people, failed too. The Army also failed to instil in Harry any responsibility or self-discipline. Working alongside other young men, who were willing to sacrifice their very lives for their Queen and country, did not impinge upon him or stiffen his backbone. No pride, no loyalty, no empathy, no support for either his family, who were giving a lifetime of Service to our country (not just a term or two), or to the men by his side sacrificing so much, or the people of this country. What has he done except demean everything we as a people and country stand for - now that IS an achievement! Just not one I could ever admire. In truth I do not believe Harry has any conception of the harm he is doing, because everything is ALL about HIM. I would not wish him back.

His humble bragging is making me sick.

@jessiemacgregor1357

4 ай бұрын

Me too, most people who brag is because they feel inferior, 😢😢

The royals try not to take publicity away from each others events. An important diplomatic event planned for three years can be ignored by the press if a more popular royal does something trivial at the same time. H&M actually did this to their own S Africa tour. All that money and planning, with the intent of bringing awareness to African social problems, and all the press coverage ended up focusing on Harry and Meghan's emotional problems.

@tina_suprema7494

Жыл бұрын

That was when I stopped liking them.

The poem, 'Invictus', (meaning unconquerable ) includes the line, 'In the fell clutch of circumstance I have not winced nor cried aloud.'.

@cheeredenise

Жыл бұрын

I wish Harry had loved that poem enough to live out its message.

@jessiebassil7887

Жыл бұрын

I wish Harry had read that far …

Harry’s unchosen and undeniably tragic place in history and the public eye have left him with permanent scars (from which he is unlikely ever to recover). The British took him into their collective hearts, forgiving his many youthful indiscretions. The world cheered when he came of age as a soldier and found his footing in the service of disabled veterans with the Invictus Games. However, in his disastrous choice of wife, with the eerie echoes of Oedipus, publicly investing her with all of the imaginary perfection and purity of purpose he has assigned to his mother, he now seems set on playing the part to the end, assassinating his father and brother. He is dangerously on course for a catastrophic suicide once he has outlived his utility to Rachel, who will find someone(s) to blame (not her).

@susanhoh1414

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree his weakness will eventually drive her away and Harry won't recover. Hos own brother stated once before Meg that Harry can't do anything for himself...

@soaringkite2673

Жыл бұрын

I too am concerned he could self harm when the marriage crumbles.

@LG-nb5ur

Жыл бұрын

I believe he is already clinically depressed, and I hope he doesn't harm himself. I believe he has absolutely got himself in the middle of an abusive marriage....if the roles were reversed, people would be raising the alarm, but for some fairytale reason, the sugars and Hollywood and MSM think the Harkles situation is soooo romantic and he's the knight in tinfoil saving her from all sorts of dragons, instead of realising she is the dragon and the distress is for anyone who crosses her or is no longer useful to her...but that's all the goodwill I have for him..I hope he doesn't self harm because of how it will impact his children, but who knows if he is selfless enough to care how it affects anyone else...so far he doesn't seem to care how his words or actions have affected anyone else..

TK Maxx has come out and said they don't have an annual sale, and so this never happened.

I, too, approach grocery shopping as if I'm going into battle.

@Susan-vl8ts

Жыл бұрын

And it's funny that he said he was picking up 'avocados' - isn't that one of Meghan's favorite foods? What was he going to do with avocados? Make guacamole or put it on his toast?

@j-pflaherty8357

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

Catherine goes shopping all of the time.

William was working as an air ambulance pilot.

Very insightful analysis. You point out how Harry is always picking on his emotional scabs. Too bad Harry doesn’t realize this. TJMaxx had to make a statement because of the book, that they don’t have annual sales. One has to take Harry with a grain of salt.

As someone who works in retail, very interesting insight Harry has of some of the smallest details. Even as you mentioned how he thinks it's "normal" to dress sloppy, a lot of guys underestimates how much ladies pay attention to a man's grooming habits and the effort to be presentable. Could be why I personally am not a fan of facial hair, most men just let it go wild and it's a turn off when they don't maintain it, it's noticeable when it is versus when it isn't. Harry's a good example.

@therealz360z7

Жыл бұрын

It's actually an art my daughter is a hair dresser but she told her dad to see a barber and get his beard and mustache cleaned up .

@jaygatsby2790

Жыл бұрын

You can always catch a liar by how they always put in unnecessary details to their stories. Like Amber Heard saying, "Johnny hit me and I fell. At that moment I remember thinking how dirty the carpet was..."

You never disappoint with your excellent and humerous summaries of 'DESPAIR'

This grateful cashier sounds suspiciously familiar🤔. Oh, my mistake. I’m confusing her with the pilot on the plane who was also grateful to the prince’s wife.😂😂

@cheeredenise

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@LG-nb5ur

Жыл бұрын

Probably related.🤭

@jessiemacgregor1357

4 ай бұрын

​@@LG-nb5urNo PAID😂😂😂😂

The Poppies surrounding the Tower of London was incredibly beautiful! ❤ I hope Harry gave the installation due respect, but I doubt it. And The Queen walking through the red poppies was a great image too.

Harry keeps talking about finding inspiration from these wounded soldiers but never follows up with action! He just continues to feel sorry for himself! He can never get past his obsession that his world revolves around himself!!

“The organism does what made the organism successful”. Marinating in grief and being the boy who lost his mum is what made Harry ‘successful’ as a child which is why he repeats the behaviour over and over. The behaviour panel (on KZread) talk about this more in-depth and how it applies to him. Very interesting!

@LG-nb5ur

Жыл бұрын

It was what resulted in the world excusing his poor behaviour. If that hadn't happened, the family etc probably would have expected a higher standard of decorum and behaviour.

It seems clear that he always felt everyone was against him, I wonder if he sees the difference now that everyone has actually turned their backs on him, does he see that he had a pretty privileged life up to a point? That would actually be interesting, he probably wouldn't want to talk about it lol

@anncarper8163

Жыл бұрын

That's a good point. I wonder if he realizes now how good he actually had it?

@1pamby1

Жыл бұрын

I don't think he can. His mental hygiene just isn't there right now. If he were able to see it clearly, that would mean he would need to take responsibility for making a lot of bad decisions, creating a very empty life for himself, and hurting significant people in his life in ways that may never heal. I don't think he could take that kind of dose of reality, it would crush him. I do think he knows things are worse for him now but he's definitely still 100% the victim and completely blameless. It's all just more proof to him that he has been treated badly.

@megawomanv9426

Жыл бұрын

He can’t see it now. Maybe when Meghan leaves him, he will wake up

@jessiemacgregor1357

4 ай бұрын

​@@megawomanv9426she cannot allow him to leave her otherwise she's back to lower than she started and now hated for her actions to both their families and used to be friends.

What a beautiful ending. Speculating on how vulnerable he was to be occupied and managed by someone else, and what he could have been. And may yet be. Thoughtful and balanced comments. Thank you.

@cheeredenise

Жыл бұрын

It’s so fun to have a laugh but I do try to bring some truth in with the laughs. I appreciate that it was meaningful to you!!! Thank you for taking the time to say so!

Alanis Morissette really messed up my understanding of irony. Is it ironic that a man that expects to be called “Duke” and “Prince” is angry at how unfair the world is?

@i.b.640

Ай бұрын

There is a sense of DRAMATIC Irony, were we, the viewers, know/see more than he does... so ... yeah, kind of ;) (Rhetoric or Verbal Irony is basically the difference between the stated and the implied meaning. So "Harry is really being a PRINCE" The stated meaning is that he is the son of a sovereign, but the implied meaning in older american slang is that he is annoying and selfish. or "Now, that was WELL DONE." - when it absolutly wasn't and nobody is supposed to think it was. Dramatic Irony is, as mentioned, when the reader/viewer of a story knows more than the characters (Don't go in there, the murderer is lurking behind the door! Or Complaining about the unfairness of the world while absolutly profiting and being the only one who doesn't see the hippocrisy, could be seen as some kind of irony imO) Cosmic or Romantic Irony is a term from philosophy/literature and it means, no matter how hard you try, you can't escape fate and you will be thwarted, either by fate or by the author of the book you're in. ... So ... hum... Since Harry is his own author and thwarts himself in his quest for looking good, maybe that irony could work, too ..🤔🤣

Such an insightful thing to say about how William lovingly closed the chapter and Harry hasn’t. That sums up the trajectory of his life in one statement.

If you watch every single video of his life until his marriage, he was over the top happy, active, jocular, fun-loving and, for some reason that I don't quite understand, extremely popular. With much experience with people who suffer from severe depression, low self-esteem, AND agoraphobia, I can emphatically say that these disorders are impossible to hide as completely as Harry purports to have done in front of the camera. Were there at any point in time in the news media any indications that Harry suffered from all these debilitating conditions? Friends, acquaintances, military buddies, all the people directly or indirectly associated with Harry would have known or seen signs. The media would have picked up on his supposed mental state one way or another. Harry came across as a happy-go-lucky, devil-may-care, unencumbered, funny party guy with somewhat arrested development to the public, and that is why they liked him AND that is who he was!! Nowhere is there the slightest hint that he was unhappy, at odds with his brother or family, deeply depressed, etc. Never did Harry express "his victimhood" until after marrying Meghan when her bullying of people which is, by the way, well documented, forced him to defend her. All of this victim stuff about every aspect of his life emerged from their desperate need to be accepted, liked, and untarnished in the eyes of the American people, especially in Hollywood. I don't buy any of this stuff in his novel about his severe mental health struggles. I do believe Harry loved the good life, still does, and complains about not knowing or having purpose in life. Unlike many people, he could embrace any future he wanted. Engineer, financier, pilot, ambassador, state department, doctor....he CHOSE AND STILL CHOOSES NOT TO GO TO COLLEGE OR DO ANYTHING THAT REQUIRES WORK AND EFFORT TO PURSUE HIS DREAM OR A CAREER. It has been a choice he's made. Even now he could go to a university and get a degree as a psychologist, social worker, counselor, ecologist, etc. but he chooses not to. This whole fiasco showcases the fierceness that M possesses at fighting back against her critics, and Harry is nothing more than her minion....a rich, royal minion who is brainwashed into believing that getting people to feel sorry for them is going to burnish their image and make them shine.

@deelouise1930

Жыл бұрын

I agree totally! Well-put.

@palmettophoenixsociety

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you for the most part but they are some people that over compensate with smiles and happiness to cover their depression. For example, Robin Williams. Not saying Harry would be able to pull that off but it can happen.

@triciacarr5019

13 күн бұрын

I don’t know if Harry is too dim for college, or has just internalized everyone TELLING him he’s too dim for college…but he would never try for a degree. Too embarrassing.

And he never “created” Invictus-it was handed to him by RF to keep him out of trouble-i feel sick thinking of him claiming this as his own…for years!!!

@jessiemacgregor1357

4 ай бұрын

And it was a copy of the Warrior games in the US

Harry just went to a Beyoncé concert on the 26th Anniversary of his Mother’s death! OMG this guy is full of baloney!

How does William know Harry is having a ´panic attack or a drama-queen moment´?

It’s like Harry has built his personality around being a tragic orphan who’s mother died the most awful death of all time. That and his title of maligned, usurped, spare prince are the things he clings to for a sense of self. He’s the most wronged person who has ever lived. He’s Jesus. (He does have a bit of a saviour complex).

If Happy Harry is the front man for Better Up, I think I'll give it a miss. I bet they must love him!

you crack me up 😂 I’ve watched all your longer pieces! 👏

@cheeredenise

Жыл бұрын

Yay! Thank you!!!!

@laffytaffy2916

Жыл бұрын

@@cheeredenise Your pouting voice for him is spot on, I hate how he fails to mention things like Wills and Kate lived in NotCot until George was a few months old, and Will’s is several inches taller than him! I hate all the downlow his friends tell about how he never once offered/offers to pay for ANYTHING, not even drinks, dinner, snacks, his own or his dates, he’s been known to say “Royal’s don’t carry cards or money!!” When that’s not true at all, even his protection officer’s have extra’s for him, he’s cheap and entitled. The stories of how he’s treated girls he’s taken home from pubs are atrocious, they don’t come home looking the same if you catch my drift, he takes things out on women or he used too, until MeGain collared him so maybe that’s not such a bad thing? The way he rides his horses sooo hard in polo because his ego MUST WIN, especially against Will’s, so many were left bloody, hurt, broken legs, having to be put down, he’s just not a good person. I go to London quite often and you just run into certain people and play it cool when you wanna “fan girl!” and you get inside news, I got my tickets for the flight, coronation, and am staying at a friends London home with her family for the week, then going to another friends country home for two weeks, I’m so excited but I wish it were Queen Elizabeth, I LOVED seeing her, there was just something so special, so truly Royal about her wave to us in the crowd and those bright smart dresses with the perfect fascinator! Catherine is even MORE STUNNING in person, actually so is Will’s! The same can’t be said for the current monarch and his wife, he’s wound too tightly but she does have a wicked sense of humor! I was so surprised how they’ve all greeted us peasants the last few visits very warmly! The Queen was just too famous! But If Hank and Skank show up, which of course they will, Megain would cut off her leg for an invite, she loves that attention, the true American Southerner will come out in me and I will start the BOOOING!!!! My British friends are too classy but will smirk 😈

@cheeredenise

Жыл бұрын

@@laffytaffy2916 you get to go the the coronation? Oh how exciting!!!!!!!!!!!!! Tell us all about it when you come back!!!

@laffytaffy2916

Жыл бұрын

@@cheeredenise Yes I do! We had a trip planned for Australia around now, before it gets colder in our Summer months down under, but when we got invited I was like “Umm YES!” Not looking forward to the crowds but I love history and being part of it, even if I think Chuck is a complete idiot! Half of my family is in the UK, I thought I was all fancy taking a gap year in 2001 before I started college at UGA, turns out it was a good move, nice (mostly drunken adventure) and I met and stayed in touch with many cool friends, they say American’s are forward but it’s humorous to get a ring and hear “Want to fly across the pond and have a holiday adventure for a few weeks?” It’d be so cool if we here in the US could just take holiday like some mates I’ve got to know, In Paris they can apply for money for a trip! We are so behind in treating ourselves, but anywhere I’ve ever been new friends always have a compliment for American work ethic, ESPECIALLY WOMEN/Mothers. Because they get that sweet paid year or more off with baby!

@cheeredenise

Жыл бұрын

@@laffytaffy2916 have a great time!!!!!!

It annoys me how his excuse for looking sloppy was that he was so “normal”. As a bachelor, my husband always did his own laundry, ironing, cleaned his flat and was always well presented. He still does most of the laundry in our house. Just because “normal people” don’t have servants, doesnt mean we’re dirty slobs. Also, I call BS, there is NO WAY he didn’t have someone at Kensington Palace to clean his place & do his laundry. No way.

What is it with this family and sweating? Andrew can’t sweat which I’m pretty sure you’d die quite quickly if you can’t regulate body temperature. Harry sweats too much which is at least physically possible. They serve in the military and never sit in the office glued to a computer which is 99% of it (and also never visit the doctors just available on base any time). He complains about all the events he has to go to but does he have any idea how much organising they take - oh no he’s never been to the office.

@cheeredenise

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

A sick individual. So sad.

Yeay Friday. Best thing to listen to on a rainy day in SoCal while in traffic. You’re the best.

@cheeredenise

Жыл бұрын

Fantastic!! Glad to help you through this tragic time stuck in traffic 😆

I think if we gave Harry and Meghan privacy they would suffer attention starvation.

The blaming William for him not seeking help for his panic attacks reminds me a lot of Catherine somehow being responsible for Megsy’s mental health state during her pregnancy when Catherine had 3 children under 5 at home and they’d moved to Windsor and the then Cambridges lived in London. I found your channel a few days ago and am really enjoying going through Spare. This is the best version I’ve come across, I really enjoy the way you treat it with the absurdity it deserves, but also hold him accountable.

The cashier story sounded like a markle story.

The hacking into the murdered teens phone to listen to voicemails story is true. There was a big phone hacking scandal in Britain, they hacked into tons of people’s phones. I enjoyed your video and your insights. Harry sounds depressed in parts but he seems to refuse to get help or take any responsibility for himself.

I'm surprised Harold doesn't mention that the poem was Nelson Mandela's favorite poem.

@cheeredenise

Жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

The point of not detracting from whatever event a royal is doing on a given day is as much about making sure the cause the are championing at that event is highlighted too & not just about their own positive publicity. That’s why it’s so hypocritical when H&M, the charitable souls that they tell us they are, keep trying to pull focus when the family are doing thing (EarthShot a perfect recent example) But of course they don’t understand this because they can’t see beyond their own egomaniacal self promoting & branding!

Turns our that shop doesn't have a yearly sale !!!

No schoolchild outside of Eton has EVER heard of that “captain of my soul” poem. Harry is proving that he grew up living a parallel life, in which he knows nothing of the lives of British people outside of the aristocracy.

In the UK it’s called a basket. Not a bucket. Methinks some of this book was written by an American

@jay-gv1rh

Жыл бұрын

The book was written by an American, one who had no interest in actually learning about anything. The guy is supposedly a great writer -- he must of challenged Harry because aside from him not actually understanding history/times/groups he was writing about he can't even write.

Every time “Rehabber Kooks” comes up I burst out laughing 😂

"They drove him into the arms of a cobbler." 😄😄😄 No wonder I look forward to your vids like a child looks forward to Christmas day. It's going to be a long wait until Sunday! On a more serious note, you're right about the lost potential of Harry's life. I think people with arrested development don't really know who they are, and that makes them susceptible to people like Meghan. HG Tudor did a vid about when Meghan came into Harry's life, and called it "Along Came a Spider."🕷️ Perfect title!

@jessiemacgregor1357

4 ай бұрын

A redback spider 🕷 its bite is painful 🇦🇺

What children knew the invictus poem? Only the private school children, Harry 🤨

@cheeredenise

Жыл бұрын

I think that poem is core poem in British literature classes no matter where you go, but I doubt Harry named the Invictus games on his own. That’s where I call foul. He absolutely had help with that.

What a riveting memoir! Harry saves cashier from elderly bullies!!What a hero!!

I love the chimes!

I keep saying, Harliquin couldn't have done a better job. fantasy is a money maker.

You can be the captain of your soul. A captain steers a ship on unpredictable seas, weathering storms, enduring the doldrums and avoiding reefs of peril. I am the master of my fate decided by the decisions I make.

Can’t you tell people….?…..Markle is the ghost writer here now that the real one was fired or just simply threw his hands up!

I think that event where he made that speech and watched the Foo Fighters was when he slapped Taylor Hawkins, the band's drummer. As Hawkins recounted the story on Howard Stern, they had just come over from a long flight, he was very tired and when Prince Harry met with them and asked him how he was, he said he was so tired that he could barely keep his eyes open and then WHAM, Prince Harry Harry slapped him on the face and said, "Are you awake now?" Hawkins was shocked and angry that Harry slapped him but he said there were security and people around so he couldn't do anything. Harry is really an entitled asshole.

@cheeredenise

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That’s insane!

My mother-in-law was asked to place a poppy at the Tower of London. It was a beautiful display and very poignant. I believe the poppies were placed by family members.

That's food for thought."Who would people be if there wasn't television to tell them what they are supposed to be?" Interesting.

One of my postings was in the back office for a very senior Royal Air Force officer and they were all provided with a steward(ess) each, who took responsibility for their uniform and the house. The reason being that they have many ceremonial duties and frequent and extensive travel, plus they use their married quarters for work reasons. Of course the military part of their job would be the priority but my principal's steward also did their personal housework if she had available time. Harry would have at least equivalent support if not more than an Air Vice Marshal so I don't believe for one moment that he had to do his own laundry. It's more likely that he took poor care after they prepared it or he didn't want them in his way so rejected their support

@cheeredenise

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So interesting!!!

I think Harry needs to watch your videos as a therapy, for reality check! Also, I often shop in SW London Tkmaxx branches, they never have sales and I have never seen anything J.crew in UK in tkmaxx. I would believe him if he would say Ralph Lauren.

@cheeredenise

Жыл бұрын

the whole place is a sale everyday 🤣 that’s the point! He’s so full of it 😆

Amazing as always! I cannot wait until the coverage of Meghan - I did find it poignant when you said he could've skipped her- but it is so self-explanatory that he was a bit of a loser even when it came to clothes. He just seemed to be a very lonely guy. No wonder he fell for her.

It is a great kindness that society is now laughing at him and loudly saying that his behaviour and mindset is unacceptable. If we do not, everyone suffers including him. It is a great pity that this public outrage didn't happen sooner. It will be good if he changes his trajectory but he might also become even more vengeful. The choice is his. Remember this guy wasn't just a hypocrite sitting in a corner - he was and still is actively campaigning to destroy free speech, to make himself rich at the expense of others and to take common people's freedoms whilst he flys in private jets. He was specifically trying to brainwash our youth and paying PR to pump out false information whilst denying and condemning it.This guy wanted to gain greater control over our everyday lives and cried victim whilst knowingly hurting his own family. If only people had laughed and mocked Hitler early instead of allowing themselves to be brainwashed by him.....

@cheeredenise

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Well, I see your point, and that can all be true, but he’s also a human being with a lot of problems. All my videos have been heavy on mocking what is rightly mockable, but for this one, I just had to say it feels sad watching someone destroy themselves and others. His actions are detestable, but his pain is pitiable. On the point about Hitler, he became a maniac because he felt he was being belittled, and look where that got us? I wonder what Harry will do in the wake of South Park?

@IssyKew

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@@cheeredenise I understand your point and I never want to discourage a kind person from being kind. I just think he is potentially highly dangerous, especially when he partners with politically minded and powerful people. I am wondering how he will respond too. Unless he can get some genuine people around him who truly care for him as a person but are able to stand up to him I doubt that he is ever going to see the error of his ways or take responsibility for his own life.

Yay! I've finally caught up after binge watching and you're brilliant. Made me laugh so much with your vocalisations. I'm in NZ and yes we did love Harry bit not any more. It's obvious his family have been protecting him for years and now he's exposing himself as the spoilt, self entitled brat he truly is.

Your reflections at the end left me speechless and with tears in my eyes. You really are an intelligent and empathic person.

@cheeredenise

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Thank you!!!!!

How did Harry get from maybe "I'll be a ski instructor" to "all my life I wanted to be a solider?"

People with BPD have the emotional development of toddlers. BPD's think in black & white (called 'splitting') and expect others to read their minds & sooth them at all times. If another has a good thing happen - the BPD often feels jealous rage & blames the other for 'making' them feel this way or 'forcing' the BPD to lash out.

@cheeredenise

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Interesting!!

@rw4754

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@@cheeredenise BPD comes in many flavors. Not all versions are toxic. The DSM in USA previously listed BPD as a separate disorder in the Cluster B category. Cluster A = Mad. B=Bad & C =Sad. The DSM now has it as a subcategory of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) Comorbidities make it more difficult - if they have Paranoia & are histrionic which Harry displays also. People have to read their minds & sooth them at all times - like a toddler expects their carer to function.. They are very difficult to treat, bc they might tantrum if called out. Imagine a toddler whose favourite toy is a train. Enraptured with it until the wheels stop working & then he might smash it to bits & tantrum. It was the train's fault. That is how they treat their loved ones. They can drive people nuts and be more destructive than a Malignant Narcissist..

Your analogies and insight is spot on - and the acting and humor only adds to the experience.

Megan is that rude! Could she really have said to Catherine “I don’t know what your problem is” during Charlotte’s dress fitting??!!

Wait, are people still called cobblers? I feel like South Park actually gave him a redemption arc? Because, in the end of the episode, the Prince of Canada does come to the realization that everything he had been recently doing has amounted to a big pile of 🐎💩.

I want to mention that I work for trader Joe's. And we move things around all the time. And it really upsets people sometimes. We don't do it for the reason you mentioned. We do it because we just feel like it would work better. And we do it based on availability of products. New stuff comes in, old stuff is not available. Blah, blah, blah.

When Meg gets tired of his weakness and she will, Harry will fall apart. The man can't do anything for himself. I have noticed Harry's unkept appearance more now in the US. Because he had people to keep him presentable and everything ready for him. Strange she will have a $$$$$ expensive clothes and Harry will have a wrinkled shirt...

your videos are a great distraction and so illustrative..i also appreciate ypur sympathy for him at the end...compassion is necessary

Luv Ya Girl.❤️

The Invictus Games was never Harry's idea. It was thought up between him, Catherine, William and the British MoD

There is a well known psychiatric phenomena where traumatized people constantly seek to re-traumatize themselves in an subconscious attempt to understand the original trauma. You'll find this in promiscuous teenage girls who have been molested as children and end up accumulating multiple rapes throughout their lives. I am not blaming the victim here, as I am in this demographic, but illustrating how it happens. If he was seeing a therapist they should've brought this to his attention so he would stop when he saw it happening. I still tend to re-traumatize myself with becoming fixated on news stories of child trafficking, etc. Not nearly as self-destructive but traumatizing to someone sensitive to the subject.

Sorry to be so late commenting but I just discovered your channel. When we lived in England, we dried our clothes on the radiators. There were special racks to attach to the radiator to hang more items.

I'm moved by your closing, which truly shows your grace & very kind heart. As we are given daily opportunity to roll our eyes @ M&H, they are still human...and though flawed, extremely misguided & often despicable...well, I guess the most unlovable need our love the most.

You are awesome! Love how you just take a breath and shake you head, all that needs said 😂😂

@cheeredenise

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😊 thank you!!!

Love the way you speak like Harry. 😂😂

I recently discovered your channel, subscribed right away. I stopped watching the Revenge videos to watch the Spare series. Once I'm through Spare, I'll restart Revenge. I thoroughly enjoy your channel. One disappointment in this video: you took down the wind chimes. I've loved hearing them in the background. 😊

It is true about Millie Dowler and the phone hacking, it was dealt with at the time and laws changed to protect people, also The News Of The World paper went out of production on finding this out about them. Which is why Harrys case against the mail might now be out of the time remit, as a line was drawn under such cases at the time.

I read a quote the other day (wish I could claim it for myself) which describes ETON as ‘a sort of Hogwarts for wankers where they learn Latin & tax evasion whilst wearing evening dress’. Doesn’t really apply to poor old H as he clearly only did Spliff Rolling 101 But it still made me laugh.

I’m 3 minutes in and have to comment again. “Gumdrop parties” 🤣🤣⚰️⚰️💀💀 You have such a way with words.

You crack me up!, your delivery is superb! Love your channel.

@cheeredenise

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Thank you!!!

The ending shows who you are and I applaud you! ❤️

Listening to these snippets you re sharing w us, i m now quite certain that the other story he could share that would make him unforgivable would be him retelling what other family members felt & said abt each other!!! Because his own life is mostly crammed w little to be written into a book

Again, thanks so much! I can tell for certain you read what I listened to! Lol It’s now been over a year and your vlogs have brought it to life. I’m so glad to know it’s not just me. As an older mom I literally felt the urge to say Alexa, get me the palace! Thanks again, sweet girl. You rock! ❤️

While the words of "Invictus" don't necessarily apply to everyone, Harry needs to understand that he is ultimately responsible for his own behavior & how he reacts to criticism. BTW, that poem just isn't well-known & beloved by the Brits since generations of American students learned to recite it when they were about 12 or 13-years-old. That's when I first learned the poem in 1964 in a Texas junior high.

You have terrific videos !! I had the audio book but could not great through it This is so much fun to watch Very funny !! The accent is awesome 😊

@cheeredenise

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Love hearing you’re enjoying the channel!!

First of all, I think you always look pretty. And second, I agree with you... And would rejoice if Harry's brain would see what he got himself into. But if not, then he'll be going down with that ship. I think Meghan orchestrated this entire theme of his book. After all, he does say he couldn't have escaped from the institution and written this book if it wasn't for Meghan. During their time as working Royals, Meghan was named "Duchess Difficult," thru leaks & in return, she leaked false things to the press against Prince William & Princess Catherine saying William had an affair. If you look back, it all lines up! Thank you for your videos!

Thank you

@cheeredenise

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You're welcome!! Thanks for watching!!

I’m starting to wonder if Harry told his ghostwriter all these different stories about his life - and the ghost writer wrote them, expecting Harry to fix the stories later when he saw they were wrong - but Harry never read the book, so it’s a crazy mess because Harry doesn’t read.

I'm binge watching this series and love it! I told my husband I am listening to Spare...not Harry's version, but a more entertaining version! I love all your Harry voices!! Also, your commentary is spot on!

@cheeredenise

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Glad you enjoy it!!!!

It's odd, I started watching your commentary for the snark and the laughs, but as you go through the book I've come to think he's just been struggling with his mental health, or an underlying developmental condition, all his life. I know what it's like to some extent, just feeling as though everyone else has it sorted, while you are living with the brakes on, in a different world. It can be such a struggle, and people do think you're lazy or incapable, which just makes it worse. The last thing I expected was to end up feeling sorry for Harry, but I do, a bit. Doesn't excuse his awful behaviour towards his family, but it does cast a new light on it, at least for me. Thank you for your closing words.

I’m here Miss 😊. Sorry I’m late 😂. I started listening to your Spare review last night. It’s 8am here and I haven’t slept yet 😂. Thank you for your insight, wit and incisive responses to this book - and thank you for saving me the pain of reading Spare, the nightmare 😂❤.

In my opinion M's influence is all over this book. People not caring , etc.

Thank you!

Did Harry mention that he slapped Taylor Hawkins of Foo Fighters ? It wasn't at the Invictus Games. Taylor only said it happened in England at an Ambassador's party.

@cheeredenise

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That story hasn’t come up 🤣

@theheartoftexas

Жыл бұрын

Why did he slap him? Taylor was known as a really nice guy!

@Anna_Key

Жыл бұрын

@@theheartoftexas there are interviews from Taylor and Dave Grohl on the internet. They were in London, jet-lagged and tired, so Harry slapped Taylor!! Not good, Taylor says he was annoyed, but Harry had security guards with him, so nothing else came of it.

Harry needs to get over his mother’s death, and move on with his own life. It would not be a betrayal of her to let go of her death. It’s worth remembering that Diana was much more than the tragedy of her death. As we mature we need to figure out what we hope to do and to do it to the best of our abilities. That’s what his mother, like any mother, would want. Harry is not the first to lose his mother at a young age. Across the world this happens every day and those left behind have to grieve, and then bravely walk on. His mother’s life was cut short; he doesn’t need to waste his in dwelling on the past. Look up, Harry and quietly make a contribution, even a modest one would be fine. Just don’t throw your life away.

He needed to get away so he went to Africa. He goes to Africa more often than I go grocery shopping!