Offer the tenants a buyout to break the lease so you can get back into your house. Worst they can say is no…

@katg2967

8 ай бұрын

This is the best option!

@JacquelineBraden

8 ай бұрын

Great option! Maybe too see if the apartment group has another property or unit available since the construction has gone a little off the rails

@Jadenms

8 ай бұрын

Yes! Can also see if you can get a sublet for your current apartment to not lose a lot of $$

@vivianwilson6884

8 ай бұрын

the landlord should also provide relocation assistance

@warmbreeze43

8 ай бұрын

I agree. Ask them to move out. Give them the amount of money they would have paid you for the whole lease time. Best of luck. I live in Tucson and I love AZ

Lauren has been realer than any other newly postpartum family vlogger I’ve ever watched and it’s been so refreshing

@ariellehawman3866

8 ай бұрын

It really is!!!

@tiffanycruz9371

8 ай бұрын

Literally my thoughts while watching I love how raw and real she’s showing everything!

@Madison-sn4ih

8 ай бұрын

@@tiffanycruz9371yes! Like actually raw and real. So many family vloggers throw that phrase around but continue to be so fake about everything

@robyn_southafrica

7 ай бұрын

I was just about to say the same thing.. so real, so refreshing, yet still so humble 🥺🙏🏾🤍🤍

Offer them a buyout so you get get HOME. No mistakes, just lessons learned. That’s your home. Go home and enjoy it! ❤

@dr.jenniferma3914

8 ай бұрын

Yeah and they basically just moved in and settled. @makayla5227

@brendslv_

8 ай бұрын

I think they can rent an airbnb and then just not renew their lease.

@deagaric4765

8 ай бұрын

​@makayla5227Scottsdale Arizona is not expensive compared to Miami lol

One thing I’ve learned about apartment living is any construction timeline they give you, add about 6 more months to it and that’s closer to the date it’ll actually be done

@Alorajones19

8 ай бұрын

100% my Miami apartment building was suppose to be finished by December 31st and i was planning to move in first week of January. I didnt get my apartment until May 😑

Don’t look at it as a mistake. There’s nothing you could’ve done to avoid this issue now! At the moment it felt like a right decision FOR your baby, it goes to show how amazing parents you guys were being before Rio was even born. You guys are rocking it!

Lauren: can’t stop talking about how she’s spiraling Also Lauren: we’re doing great and we haven’t needed any family support 😂❤ like maybe let the fam help out some more haha

@melodygarcia739

8 ай бұрын

This

@isisverissimo8881

8 ай бұрын

That’s just motherhood leave us alone 😂💀 I’m definitely guilty of feeling overwhelmed but then saying no to any help because I want to do everything ✨by myself✨

@sonii.12

8 ай бұрын

@@isisverissimo8881this is me with my both post partum 😮😅😅

@TBYRDLEW

8 ай бұрын

@@isisverissimo8881 I bet I would be the same way I get it 😂😂

@ashtonv1730

8 ай бұрын

That's postpartum for ya! Especially with your first child. It takes some time lol

I will be honest with you as someone who came out of the same situation. I think what you feel is not directly caused by the construction or Miami; I think you miss the routine life you had in Arizona and being productive. To be with a baby in a new home and in a new environment, it’s a lot to process. That may be where all the feelings came from. In this stage, you guys should be aware of this emotion, and it’s okay to feel like that after all these changes in your life within a short period of time, I love you and you’re fabulous 🥹♥️.

@JoJo-op5xy

8 ай бұрын

This is also true. I have a huge issue moving for this reason, I totally hate change although it’s definitely necessary at times

@inesbarros3847

8 ай бұрын

Yes, 100% this. As awfully long as it may sound, 6-8 months post partum things get better. Babies retribute more. You feel more confident in your parent skills. And life catches up its usual rythym

@KrumperFiokas

8 ай бұрын

But also they were doing great when they moved? Specially being closer to family. I think the environment is really stressful with the construction and a newborn crying, honestly, I would not want to be in that position at all and would also try my best to move out or be somewhere else

A great quote I love during difficult times is: “Always remind yourself that your track record for getting through tough times is 100%." 😊

The first year being a first time mama is so hard and people don’t talk about it. Literally no one prepared me for the wonderful parts or the hard parts, but especially the hard parts. You are doing so great and I am so proud of you! And you look amazing! Us millennial mamas need to stick together!

@Dsbeat7000

8 ай бұрын

shes gen z

@ranidenkaa2656

8 ай бұрын

True. No one talk about it.

@NeonXO2

8 ай бұрын

She is so Gen z you dont even know😃

@thatgirlbrinna7927

8 ай бұрын

@@NeonXO2it’s a joke because she’s barley a Gen z

@lucialapina9273

8 ай бұрын

exactly. i have a 6 months old and it still is hard and i am super exhausted

as a south floridian, i think you all could find a different suburb in south florida that's not as packed as where you all are right now. moving 20-25 mins from the water helps with the traffic and the suburban vibe, and you'd still be close enough to your support system in the early years of rio's life

@brittani9742

8 ай бұрын

Where she lives isn’t the suburbs though. Maybe she should move to a real suburb of Miami?

@Alorajones19

8 ай бұрын

Im sorry but theres no suburban areas in miami. We consider Doral, kendall, pinecrest, cutler bay etc suburbs bc thats what it was once a upon a time. In 2023, they have become imo too crowded to be considered suburban.

@orianadejongh235

8 ай бұрын

Maybe broward county would be a nice option, Pembroke Pines, Weston, southwest ranches…

@Mollyluvluv

8 ай бұрын

Coral Gables is nice too

@loverollcake

8 ай бұрын

@@Alorajones19 pincrest and kendall are definitely suburban

If y’all can survive the first 3 years of parenthood, you will be golden forever as a couple! Believe me those first bits are so harrrrdddd on a relationship because you’re ALL learning.

@lillytopp7746

8 ай бұрын

Just bc u get passed the first three years doesn’t mean the rest will be easy on the parents the relationship or the children, children suffer in bad parent relationships

@scrumps101

8 ай бұрын

@@lillytopp7746I guess if you take what she said completely literally rather than contextually then I guess. But most people who can absorb what they read and realize the idea behind what someone is saying know that the person you are replying to is inferring that new parents that can get into a groove with parenting and keep the relationship in tact have higher rates of a successful relationship in the future. This absolutely makes sense because the couple is learning coping skills at a fast level during the first few years of raising kids, therefore giving them skills to deal with difficult times in the future.

Girl! I can’t even imagine what you’re going through. Honestly my advice (not that you asked), is to hire a lawyer and see if there is a way you can get out of your lease early without any fees or anything. I mean it’s worth those fees too at this point! Contact the renters living in the AZ home and give them sufficient notice. The lawyer will also help with this to make sure you’re not out of bounds. Idk what the regulations are but if it’s 1 or 2 months that’s enough time for you to… GET EXCITED!!! This time it’s time to merge those two experiences. AZ home decor was too “bland” for you guys which I totally understand. The Miami apartment gives the edgy Latin flavour but the city itself is not the vibe for you guys. Marry the two! Bring the Miami furniture to the AZ house. No need to hire a decor team or anything like that but I LOVE how you toned down the apartment decor (you chose more neutral walls in the bathroom for example) and the main standout pieces are the furniture! The transition won’t be that hard guuurl just hire another (better) moving company and you’ll get the funky furniture with the more subdued finishings the AZ house already offers. It’s technically already a blank slate! I just realized I’m focusing a lot on interior decor (can you tell I love it) but I also know it means a lot to you in terms of having a home feel authentic and homey. I feel that’s what you guys are after. So… 1. Lawyer up bestie or do your research on how to proceed. 2. Notify AZ tenants, organize for movers, hire painters to paint apartment back (or make it a family event! Everyone paints a wall!) 3. You can even hire an interior designer on Fiverr (what I did) to help you marry the two and make the AZ home feel EXACTLY how you want it. 4. Kind of contradicting my last point but… making a home look a certain way takes yearsssss so be easy on yourself. The most important thing is that it feels comfortable. Ask yourself “what needs to get done to make this house feel like home?” And “ what can I do in the meantime to feel more comfortable where I am now?” Maybe that includes wearing noise cancelling headphones. Does the baby monitor turn a different color if the baby cries? If not maybe find one that does so you don’t feel like you have to have your ears always accessible!!

When the baby is on the move, it’s different. The newborn phase is easier in the sense that you park him and he doesn’t move….when he starts moving….you will get tired faster. As a friend, I feel like we are friends, I would also evaluate the family support needed after the baby is mobile and “independent”

@henny9131

8 ай бұрын

Good point

@Olivia-ns5dj

8 ай бұрын

Right, the newborn phase doesn’t even compare to when the baby starts running around lol

@babyd602

8 ай бұрын

It really doesn’t compare! Looking back the newborn stage was soo easy! But it’s also not impossible, might be more stressful at times but you definitely learn to manage

@MsSabrina1210

8 ай бұрын

Agree! Also right now they are taking time off of work obviously because newborn stage but once baby is a little older not only will the moving around be hard but you will need to start spending more time in work again and that’s tough when you don’t have family support to help

@HeatherVictoria0911

8 ай бұрын

My girl is one and wanting to walk so bad.... Its like the newborn phase all over again in the sense that I just want a shower lmao I have no time to myself!

It’s been really cool seeing you become a mom. You were pretty open about your nerves and insecurities while being pregnant. But seeing footage of you with your baby, It’s clear you know what you’re doing and are v secure in being a mom/your relationship with your baby. Super cool to see it and you seem like a natural.

I think some of the people that were freaking out about the move a while back only had things like this in mind. There's such a big emphasis on creator support that people were getting backlash and being called "unsupportive" for advising against the move. At the end of the day, this just seemed like one of those cannon events that y'all had to go through to bounce back better than ever; plus, like you said, family support through pregnancy is unparalleled. So sorry you're dealing with the construction issues and lack of sleep, rooting for your little family forever!

Girl rent a house in Arizona either way when your renters move out you’re gonna have to do cleaning and minor work and maybe updates on the house before you move back in so it will make up for the time you’re holding a lease on the house. Just go!

I am a type A independent type of person! I did what you did and because I could, I did it all on my own with my husband when we had our baby. I didn’t take advantage of the help because I felt like I didn’t “need” it. Take it from a mom ready to have her third baby, take the rest and take some time for yourself anyway. I never wanted the break or wanted to be away from my baby, but I made things harder on myself than I should have.

@kariskake

8 ай бұрын

i agree!!!

Positive outlook on things: Instead of getting anxious about “thinking you made a bad choice” try thinking about how you can use your new furniture and decor style in your Arizona home! Get inspired!

Your honesty and realness is what makes you so amazing, thank you Lauren 🤍

@_JamJam_

8 ай бұрын

Yes, exactly!! ❤❤❤

The no sleep thing is so hard. Me and my husband bikered so much and we never argued before. At 4 months baby started sleeping through the night and our relationship got so much better. My biggest regret is not asking for help. I’m so independent, I felt I needed to be able to do everything myself even though people offered to help.

You guys need back in your arizona home asap. You did so much amazing work in that house top to bottom and the SERENITY 🙏🏾 speak to the realtor about some options, buyout, etc for the tenant? And hope for the best!

I was the exact same when I had my newborn! We were in such a bad house and it completely ruined me. Then we moved and things got better. But the arguments as a couple is so normal. You go from doing everything together and having no responsibility for anyone really to then being constantly overstimulated, sleep deprived etc. it’s hard work. It’s rewarding. But it’s hard work.

@JoJo-op5xy

8 ай бұрын

God reading overstimulated and sleep deprived made me so stressed

Everything will fall into place. The first months are rough. I can only imagine how much worse it is with construction outside your window every day. We also moved back home from AZ to be closer to family when baby was born in January. We still miss it but we’re so conflicted on if we’d go back now because we also love how much support we have here from our families that we know we won’t have there if we go back. Just visits with grandparents or having family over to play with him. It’s just so nice to us that they’re only a drive away.

GIRL NOT YOU SCARING ME WITH YOUR TITLE ! Can’t wait to see whay you mean

@xsquivel

8 ай бұрын

No seriously!!

I would try and 'buy out' your tenant in your old home to cut the lease short & move back!!! If someone offered me $$ to leave my apartment I'd be like I'll be out by next tuesday lol

girl I cannot wait till you move back to your little suburban life in Arizona and your spirits just rise and you live that life you’ve been craving. I’m excited for you. keep pushing!!💕

The having a fresh baby fighting with your significant other is SO frustrating and annoying but it’s so temporary. I recently got out of the newborn trenches and we are both sleeping better and now we are in a bliss. Keep taking those small moments of self care, it helps to feel like yourself again 🖤 Hang in there!

The apartment complex should give you a break on your lease agreement since their construction didn’t match the timeline they gave initially

Honestly thank you for sharing your life experiences AUTHENTICALLY! KZread is definitely missing out on authenticity now a days ! ❤❤

I just moved to Arizona from Texas and I get what you say about the peacefulness and less traffic. It’s so chill and such a vibe! Beautiful mountains ❤ a lot of people say you need family and it’s true but I feel like men nowadays help so much. I have 2 kids and felt like I would need my mom all the time but my hubby helps so much and we are on the same terms of how we want to raise our kids because family will sometimes intervene in how you raise them. We lived out in Pennsylvania with no family and had such a blast and felt very secure in our parenting so don’t let ‘not having family close’ stop you from moving out of state ❤

girl you're not in suburban miami, move to the actual suburbs and you wont feel like youre in the crazy hustle and bustle of miami!

@Alorajones19

8 ай бұрын

Where do u suggest? I feel like pinecrest, kendall, coral gables, cutler bay etc are just as bad. Nowhere in miami seems to be peaceful anymore. Its all super populated. Ft. Lauderdale is not as bad but its still crowded. Maybe central or north Florida would suit her better.

@brittani9742

8 ай бұрын

@@Alorajones19i live in Coral Gables and it’s very peaceful to me - but I also moved here from Downtown Chicago.

@dnsol1025

8 ай бұрын

I was thinking the same! even Doral, Miami lakes

@AlexaWexaa

8 ай бұрын

@@Alorajones19Pinecrest is pretty chill. She can prob afford it if she’s in aventura rn

@dr.jenniferma3914

8 ай бұрын

I always thought this move was a strange one. High rise in Miami with a newborn?

I moved into this boujie appartment in Montevideo Uruguay, it had a pool, a gym, the units were all brand new, it looked so fresh and i was so excited. and then, the house behind us, AND the house next to it, were demolished one month after we moved in, there was construction EVERY DAY, from 7AM UNTIL SOMETIMES 7PM LIKE WTF IS GOING ON TAKE A BREAK, and it was honestly AWFUL. I loved the appartment in theory, but it was just driving me crazy, i could never film, i couldn't ever open my widows for fresh air because then the noise was unbearable. we didn't even have a baby it just pissed me off. like meditation? i had to meditate at 6am before the started, and then use my airpods from 7am-7pm... just to noise cancel. so I FEEL YOU GURL

I love seeing you & Henny as a mom & dad! Thanks for being so real & open. ❤

Love how authentic and genuine you are. You show all parts of a content creators life and it normalizes the experience for everyone else. It means so much to me!

If you move north to more suburban South Florida like the Boca Raton area you might like that and still be only an hour or so from family!

AZ misses you! These experiences are NEVER mistakes! They are growth opportunities EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. Moving was perfect for your situation at the time, things change, don't be hard on yourself. ❤

This was SO real, thank you for sharing. Everything will work out I have SO much faith in you both!

Have a little spa day with your hermana. Such a cute sibling moment and girl you deserve the relaxation

As a newish mum (3 months old) I am feeling the messy hair, no makeup, sweats and tidying the overnight mess in the first 5 minutes of this video so deeply in my soul 😂 the realest

I moved out of Arizona for 3 years hated every second of it and moved back. I missed Arizona!

If you guys go back to your old house I’m excited for you I felt like that house was soooo you guys

@kristing1350

8 ай бұрын

And I’m here for the moving vlogs 🤣❤️

Girl idk if this is a stupid idea but maybe rent out an airbnb till may, they usually have cheaper monthly prices, and it can be temporary to get away from the noise!

@MelanieHeart

8 ай бұрын

and maybe you can still stay in Florida for a bit to have family support if you want it/need it :))

Lauren but downtown Miami is like that, construction never stops maybe look to rent a house near the suburbs like Coral Gables, Fort Lauderdale? Miramar?? You would be at peace at a house

You got this Lauren, praying that the best outcome for your family will come to light soon. Thank you for being so vulnerable and honest.

You, Henny, and baby are adorable. Thanks for dropping a vlog update .

Hate to say this (I was honestly hoping the apartment would work out bc I would wanna be around family too), but I kinda knew this would happen 🥲 like I just had a feeling it was nottt gonna go as planned, first sign was the decorating team flopping. On the bright side, y’all are blessed and everything will work out ❤

This is my first video since you gave birth. I just want to say congratulations and I am so happy for you and Henny and I can't wait to follow along your journey as a mom. Love you ❤

Love your vibe and realness and click SO fast every time you upload. I rarely comment but I enjoyed your honesty so much in this vid and totally understand all of your feelings- so valid

Congratulations on 1 mil!!!🥳❤

The wine bottle on the coffee table is SO valid

lauren you guys are THE best parents ❤ you never know how how super human moms/parents are until you are one. props girl.

Also Henny dancing after successfully putting baby down is me everytime 😂🥹

Just seeing you go THROUGH IT to get to where you are will be so hard to watch if you moved back 😭 I loved how somebody suggested staying at with family during the day so you get your rest. This seems like a good solution until you’re able to possibly move back to AZ or if you want to find somewhere else in Miami. Things will always work out in the end. Even an air bnb might be a good option until your house is open again. Praying for your sanity and well-being!

I’m sorry all of this is happening during this huge transitional period for you guys. I hope that things look up soon ♥️♥️♥️

Hi!! I'm literally a 20-year-old girl living out my college life so I have absolutely no idea what it's like being a mom but I want to lyk that you're doing amazing regardless of your situation. I love how honest and raw you are with your audience, mommy life isn't easy but seeing u and henny work through it is so reassuring to see. Love you both, wishing y'all the best with your moving plans

WEVE MISSED YOU BUT GIRL YOUR HANDS ARE FULL THANKS FOR PROVIDING TO US

I’m spiraling too right now. Something in the air.. I hope it works out for you !!

You guys should sublease in Arizona! The weather in Scottsdale is about to be so perfect & the area is so comforting for a new family.

Miami native here and there’s def so many great smaller suburban neighborhoods! Pinecrest, Palmetto Bay, Miami lakes, PSN, coral gables, these a safe neighborhoods with a cozier feel! That construction sucks! So sorry you’re having to deal with that. Wish you guys the best of luck

A 6 month lease Nov-Dec. rent a spot in AZ. You’ll have way more space- you could even rent a house or condo in your area. You’ll start getting little man acclimated and exposed to AZ places (parks, kiddie classes, etc.) and then you have all of your stuff in close proximity by the time May rolls around.

Praying for y'all! Totally been there and have had multiple "spiraling" seasons in my life Lauren. I get you - especially with new baby and not feeling at home in your own home.

Come to West Palm for a while. Super QUIET! Close enough to Miami to still see Fam but far enough to get that suburban feel. I just moved here in July and love it.

@faramarcelin6294

8 ай бұрын

Also your videos keep me sane so don’t feel like you’re not doing a good job. Loving the new baby content since I’m hoping to have a baby soon myself.

You got this Lauren! Everything will be okay

Thank you for being so reall!!!! Mom life is HARD👏🏼

As a young adult who is also turning 21 soon this year your sister sounds similar to me and this year for my birthday I am going to winery for a wine tasting and having a little tea party as well for my whole family. I hope this helps with ideas.

Offer the tenant in AZ a month or two of free rent if they would be willing to find a new place... if they can't or don't want to and you're moving back to AZ in May anyway I would just move now and rent somewhere until your house opens back up, most likely way cheaper than Miami, too so you'll save some coin in the mean time..

Also idk if anyone told you but the Medea hand pump life saver when you have to pump in public or when baby is in car seat. Love it!!!

we’re always here for u lauren. life is up and down. we’re here for it all

Life, marriage, friendships, work… all gets trickier with a baby! Good luck you guys doing great. ❤

Girl we feel the SAME way! We thought for sure we’d need all hands on deck when our daughter was born and had thoughts of moving but now that she’s here she’s SO easy and we just all vibe ❤ You’re not the only one!! Love you girl, keep your head up, you don’t know what you want til you try different things! It’s ok to try something and not like it 😊

The laugh right before doing skincare was so real 🖤🥲 you guys are doing great! Things will clear up soon & whatever decisions are made you will always have eachother to get through it all

do what you need to make this transition into motherhood the easiest you can!! a lease transfers could work, or write a letter to the building admin saying that the agreement for the lease was that the construction would be done in time for a new born, you could even argue its bad for his hearing. also remember the night exhaustion is temporary! soon he will sleep right through the night and you'll be shocked at how fast he's growing. you got this mama

Praying that everything works out for you 🙏

i miss your big house in arizona! so beautiful & you have a lot of space, perfect for your family. 🫶🏼 sending positive vibes queen

I just adore your little family! 💗. Sister time is the best, I wish I lived closer to mine!!

He is the cutest little baby in the world and you and Henny are doing so good! You are amazing Lauren, i adore you!

Love your Arizona Home 🏡 so peaceful xxx but wishing you and the family all the Best 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️no matter what. Love love

i saw this video was 25 minutes and got so excited! you’re doing great lauren everything will just teach you more in the long run no mistakes! ☺️

No mistakes, these are things OUT of your guys’ control and should try and remind of yourselves of that☺️ Life doesn’t happen to you, life happens and you guys are navigating it You got this 💜

For your sisters birthday, y’all should go to a cabin for a little chill glamping experience!!

Lauren you should get noise canceling headphones to help with the noise of the construction. Obv it won’t completely block it out but may help

girl I feel you about the construction. my friend's apt in nyc has been under construction for A YEAR and its insane

You guys are so real 🩷 I feel so much comfort from how genuine this video is

you got this !!! don’t beat yourself up!! do whatever you heart desires

I miss the Arizona house ! It was so beautiful and such a peaceful aura

Also please look into box breathing it’s great for panic attacks and calms the nervous system life changer

I think the positive spin on this is that you and Henny didn't need as much help as you thought so now u can go back to ur cozy home in may :) also I think it is good you went to Miami, if you hadnt you may have been thinking "what if/should we have gone to miami." now u know yourself better from the experience. it is such a GOOD trait to try new things nothing to regret I promise!!

Look into Naples/ Sarasota close to home but more peaceful and less expensive. Wishing you guys the best ❤

Lauren I’m so sorry this is happening you spent soo much time decorating your new home

You two are incredible. Thank you for the raw and real content - it truly inspires me to be better to my partner and myself. Have you tried the loop ear plugs? Amazon them - the $45-50 pairs for you asap - and just have one of you use them during the day to nap. You have to take a moment to get used to hearing your breathing with plugs, but it’s a brief period!! Keep at it!! Makes me so happy to see loving homes 🩵🩵🩵 best wishes to you, Rio.

i’ve been missing u guys:,) spiraling n not being able to talk ab it bc of it is so me. just thinking ab my last apt/roomie situation puts me thru it. thank u for always being real w us💖

You should see what the realtor company that’s managing your Arizona home can do. Maybe the current tenant would be willing to move early but may be some negotiating. Worth a try.

@lauren I’m a mom of three boys and something that helped me is Dunstan baby language. It teaches you how to hear your babies cry’s and know what they need through 5 distinct sounds and the way their mouth is positioned. It was also featured on Oprah.

That’s literally Miami😂 Construction takes forever for no reason it sucks! Hopefully you guys can figure out what is best for your family

I absolutely adore how real you guys are I respect it so much, don’t worry things will work out just breathe you guys are doing you’re best and that’s what matters , love you !!! 😭😭❤️

We all saw this coming but you had to go thru the lesson yourselves!! It’s ok to make mistakes. ❤❤❤

i love seeing your life. its so cute. also love how real & honest you are. itll all workout, i hope everything falls into place soon for you

Good luck with your move Lauren! It surely is not easy with a baby but you got this! ❤

So happy to hear you guys are going back to Arizona!

Always here for you… ❤ sending you a big hug, xx you got this mama!