I had a miscarriage at 17 weeks pregnant || My miscarriage story

This video was hard to make but I felt like sharing my story might help someone who is going through this.

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  • @michelleswaggerty1479
    @michelleswaggerty14793 жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry for your loss miscarriage sucks and I have been through it as well. I got pregnant in 2014 after I had a tubal reversal I was so excited. And then when I went to my 16 week appointment they checked for the heartbeat and he couldn’t find it. So then he did a ultrasound to find the heartbeat and there was no heartbeat I was devastated. So if you ever need to talk I’m always here. God bless

  • @thecloudninefamily788

    @thecloudninefamily788

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! Miscarriage is such a heartbreaking experience! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @alanawilson3063
    @alanawilson30633 жыл бұрын

    You are so brave to share! It’s so hard but so many of us go through loss. I can’t imagine what you went through! Love ya girl!

  • @thecloudninefamily788

    @thecloudninefamily788

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Alana!

  • @elainelofgren9813
    @elainelofgren98133 жыл бұрын

    You are so so brave to share your story to help others maybe through their own troubling time. The twins are your double rainbow babies! Love you K!

  • @thecloudninefamily788

    @thecloudninefamily788

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Elaine! Love you too! 🥰❤️

  • @meli-lynnjensen3573
    @meli-lynnjensen35733 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story. It was very brave and your ability to share this left me in awe. I've had two miscarriages. But never been able to out it into words. Thank you again.

  • @thecloudninefamily788

    @thecloudninefamily788

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aww thank you for saying that! Miscarriage is such an awful experience and only someone who has been through it can understand the heartbreak. Hugs to you! 🥰❤️

  • @sjay3089
    @sjay30892 жыл бұрын

    Thank you thank you thank for sharing! My heart goes out to you. I’m really really sorry for your husband and you. 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @thecloudninefamily788

    @thecloudninefamily788

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏

  • @johnplace1606
    @johnplace160610 ай бұрын

    I'm sorry for your loss, 45 years ago we loss our baby at 18 weeks, I still morn for him. Your twins are beautiful!

  • @thecloudninefamily788

    @thecloudninefamily788

    10 ай бұрын

    Thank you 😊 I’m so sorry you experienced that as well. Such a heartbreaking loss

  • @justinakhonje5665
    @justinakhonje56653 ай бұрын

    I totally understand, I had my miscarriage at 17 weeks as well in January 2022 we had to rush to the hospital which was 30 mins away. It’s really rough going thru this type of stuff. That u for ur courage for sharing.

  • @RosiePosey5150
    @RosiePosey51503 жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry sis I wished I could have been there for you. I love you and your whole amazing family.

  • @thecloudninefamily788

    @thecloudninefamily788

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Kirstin 🥰❤️

  • @nutrirebyanaluarrivillaga2646
    @nutrirebyanaluarrivillaga26462 жыл бұрын

    I can’t believe they just sent you home 😭 I’m so sorry

  • @thecloudninefamily788

    @thecloudninefamily788

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 🙏

  • @Nini-tc4iu
    @Nini-tc4iu Жыл бұрын

    I ‘ve experienced a pregnancy loss at 17 weeks two weeks ago. I delivered at the hospital after going through the ER. The nurses and doctors at my hospital were very supportive of me and my husband. I can’t believe they sent you home to have your baby😢 ❤

  • @thecloudninefamily788

    @thecloudninefamily788

    Жыл бұрын

    My condolences for your loss. Such a heartbreaking experience. Yes it was awful that they sent me home , I’ll never understand why.

  • @muchlove9781
    @muchlove97812 жыл бұрын

    Expected management at 17 weeks! That’s 💯 negligence 😤

  • @thecloudninefamily788

    @thecloudninefamily788

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @shapeborn7010
    @shapeborn7010 Жыл бұрын

    I’m so upset with your hospital experience and the doctor sending you home even with you already having contractions and just saying expect a lot of blood. You were too far along. I went to the ER pregnant at 9 weeks and no heartbeat but I didn’t have contractions. I had very light spotting. Thank you for sharing your story. I know it’s very hard. Your experience was very traumatizing and I’m so glad you are ok.

  • @shapeborn7010

    @shapeborn7010

    Жыл бұрын

    Also congratulations with your twins 😍😍

  • @thecloudninefamily788

    @thecloudninefamily788

    Жыл бұрын

    Awww thank you! Yes the hospital should not have sent me home !

  • @lindsyc.4680
    @lindsyc.4680 Жыл бұрын

    It infuriates me that the doctor sent you home to have your miscarriage that late in your pregnancy. He should have been reported and made to take classes to learn not to dismiss women. Thank God you had good family, friends and a good partner. I'm sorry this happened to you.

  • @thecloudninefamily788

    @thecloudninefamily788

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! Yes it was very traumatic!

  • @harrietoneal1187
    @harrietoneal11872 жыл бұрын

    I hate that this happened to your family you are so brave...

  • @thecloudninefamily788

    @thecloudninefamily788

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you 😊

  • @grammajackie1
    @grammajackie13 жыл бұрын

    This video made me cry and I wanted to stop watching but I wanted to respect the fact that you shared such a painful experience. So I watched to the end. It affected me profoundly. I am so sorry for your loss. So sorry to the both of you. Sending love.

  • @thecloudninefamily788

    @thecloudninefamily788

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your heartfelt comment, it means so much to me! Sorry I made you cry! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @alyciamarie4163
    @alyciamarie41632 жыл бұрын

    This just happened to me last Saturday. I literally sat down and my babu fell out. I told my husband, dr, mother that the only way I could explain it was that the baby literally fell out of my body. I said it was graphic and almost inconceivable.

  • @thecloudninefamily788

    @thecloudninefamily788

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh no I’m so sorry for your loss 😔

  • @CBRRR-eh3ky

    @CBRRR-eh3ky

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sorry for your pain. At 16 weeks, did you just bleed or did you see something big and shocking such the foetus or noticeable embryo.

  • @reinawilson5551

    @reinawilson5551

    8 ай бұрын

    Wow I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my baby this last Saturday. October 28, 2023. I woke up with some spotting and 30 mis later my baby's feet just came out while I was sitting on the toilet throwing up. Ambulance came and rushed me to the hospital with my baby hanging out of me. My baby was born sleeping. 💔💔😭😭 I don't know how to cope with this. I feel like I failed my baby. I'm beyond broken. I have 4 other children. And I need to be strong for them. I just wish there was something I could have done so my baby would still be here.

  • @muslima2611
    @muslima26112 жыл бұрын

    Going through this did you take pain medication? And how long from the time you felt the strong Pain to the time the baby came out

  • @thecloudninefamily788

    @thecloudninefamily788

    2 жыл бұрын

    I did not take any pain medication until I got to the hospital after the baby came out, but before the placenta came out. I was having painful cramping for 3-4 hours before the baby came out and they continued for 2-3 more hours until the placenta came out. It was a very painful and traumatic experience!

  • @CBRRR-eh3ky

    @CBRRR-eh3ky

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@thecloudninefamily788 sorry for your traumatic experience. You are courageous. Question: so every miscarriage of 17 weeks old and more will necessarily lead to some type of intervenrion to remove the embryo and placenta? Is it possible to have a missed miscarriage being 18 weeks pregnant?

  • @thecloudninefamily788

    @thecloudninefamily788

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi, I’m honestly not sure the answer to your question. In my experience I did need help to get the placenta out.

  • @febshowers
    @febshowers9 ай бұрын

    Wow! That ER doctor was an idiot for sending you home! How awful!

  • @100michoacan8
    @100michoacan82 жыл бұрын

    So sorry for your loss did u keep baby?

  • @thecloudninefamily788

    @thecloudninefamily788

    2 жыл бұрын

    No, the hospital took him to do an autopsy and find out the cause of death which they later told us was undetermined, possibly an infection

  • @shapeborn7010

    @shapeborn7010

    Жыл бұрын

    That was my question was if you found out any causes. 🙏🏻

  • @dbyrre10
    @dbyrre10 Жыл бұрын

    Oh ny god. Same Winther in 17 weekend. But They tools u’s in. Sovsorry

  • @mikita1166
    @mikita11666 ай бұрын

    WTF I can't believe they sent you home to give birth as if you were a stray animal,You could have died from an infection in addition to the trauma they caused you I'm so sorry

  • @Hermitas
    @Hermitas Жыл бұрын

    🌹💕☀️❤️🌷💐🌼🙏

  • @Happytown7523
    @Happytown75232 жыл бұрын

    Did you have the jab? I think I can assume based on your content

  • @thecloudninefamily788

    @thecloudninefamily788

    2 жыл бұрын

    No I have not

  • @alyciamarie4163

    @alyciamarie4163

    2 жыл бұрын

    What does that have to do with this video? Or her experience?

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