I Feel Like I'm WASTING MY LIFE! (You're Probably NOT, chill)

There's actually really great news about this idea of 'wasting time' or 'wasting your life'. It's totally driven by fear, which I totally can relate to and know how it feels. So, you can change this instantly and it's completely up to you what you deem as a waste of time and the fear of wasting it. The internet and other people literally have no say in what you should do with your time. You have complete freedom in this and you can start leaning into it and change a few things up!
Chapters
00:00 Introduction: Is this a waste of time?
00:45 Defining Wasting Time - ONLY YOU CAN!
02:00 What are you expecting with Social Media?
03:45 The Internet is LYING to you
05:00 What is actually a WASTE of time?
06:00 Ask Yourself these IMPORTANT Questions
07:30 The Devil and Idle Hands - it's a balance of stimulation and nothing
10:30 Being Busy is really good for you!
11:30 Hustle Culture - Being a SLAVE to time
13:45 IT'S LITERALLY UP TO YOU
15:30 Retirement is a complete lie - a slave to time
18:00 The devil is the clock itself
19:20 Mindfulness practice together
22:45 Fear is at the core of it - don't be afraid
23:30 You have a gift - share it with the world
23:00 Final Thoughts: Living Purposefully
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Scott speaks across North America about emotional wellbeing, mental health and our innate need for connection. His history with mental health challenges have allowed him to develop a strong sense of empathy and compassion with his audiences and those he works with personally. Music is his true obsession as he plays the guitar, drums and sings.

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  • @depressiontoexpression
    @depressiontoexpression2 ай бұрын

    Can you notice how people are slaves to time and this is motivated by fear? Wanting it to go by faster to retirement or a "happier moment" or scared of wasting it and we are slaves to routine and a internet meme of 4am wake up alarms. Chill. You get to decide what YOU feel is a waste. So brb, im playing FIFA 24 this afternoon for a lunch break.

  • @depressiontoexpression

    @depressiontoexpression

    2 ай бұрын

    Oh, like a subscribe, unless you feel this video was a complete waste of time LOL. God bless you all!

  • @Skinnnnnnnnnn

    @Skinnnnnnnnnn

    2 ай бұрын

    Thank you Scott 😌 enjoy your gaming . God Bless 🙏🏽

  • @LurkingLinnet
    @LurkingLinnet6 сағат бұрын

    "You're punching down the devil to the dirt baby!" ❤ Thank you Scott

  • @iamreneestewart
    @iamreneestewart2 ай бұрын

    I always enjoy your videos, Scott. It's like sitting and having a chill chat with my goofy friend that says the most random shit that makes me crack up but reflect deeply all at the same time. Love it here

  • @depressiontoexpression

    @depressiontoexpression

    2 ай бұрын

    you're my FAVOURITE now :P :P

  • @diongallman6556

    @diongallman6556

    2 ай бұрын

    Literally 🥹

  • @susieq2334

    @susieq2334

    Ай бұрын

    Exactly

  • @laurenohare-ellaway7966
    @laurenohare-ellaway79662 ай бұрын

    The retirement story is a very personal one to me: both of my parents died in their early 50s. My mum, in particular, found out she had cancer during covid restrictions and was unable to tick off her bucket list. This included taking an airplane for the first time ever, going on a very fancy mother/daughter spa day with me. I walk in her footsteps every day. Switched jobs when they didn't gel with me, took those flights and traveled, started learning a language as an adult, started a degree at 25. Put on cheesy music out loud on the gym speakers. I know far too many people who didn't live to retire, or who had poor health/mobility and were not able to do all the things they'd dreamed of doing when they were too busy taking their younger, more forgiving body for granted.

  • @Abby-ix3gs
    @Abby-ix3gs2 ай бұрын

    Thanks again, brother! My heart is lifted through your helpful thoughts! You are an answer to prayers. ❤

  • @fatmafarag683
    @fatmafarag6832 ай бұрын

    Oh this video reminded me by the time when I was in my sophomore year (3 years ago) and I applied to tons of internships but I only got accepted in a customer service one (which is a very routine job and mostly perceived as useless) and I accepted it but in order for me to continue doing it, I had to see a purpose in picking up calls every day for eight hours (otherwise, I’d have lost my mind, given the fact that I wanted to quit on my first week lol) and I actually found it!! I wasn’t actually picking up calls for eight hours a day and being useless, I was helping people for eight hours a day and this fact blew my mind!! How such a change of perspective made it one of the most heartwarming internships and the most influential one out of the whole 5 internships I did! Thank you for reminding me with this beautiful memory and I’m happy that you shared such a fact for all people out there ! Also, can’t wait for your LIVE STREAAM🥳

  • @Verenaaschulz
    @Verenaaschulz2 ай бұрын

    Your video is really great Scott 😊🌻 Thank you for making your videos 😊

  • @hollie5824
    @hollie58242 ай бұрын

    this is awesome, Scott! I really appreciate what you are doing! :)

  • @FuelforLife001
    @FuelforLife0012 ай бұрын

    yes, thats me, waistin time with stupid things and overthinking every day and night for 25 years 🤢🤢🤢🤢 insane, but i cant stop 😥 hard to get only 15 min of relax, then back to overthinking and fears 😥 stupid life, sometimes im praying some asteroid going down and blow the earth 😏

  • @akanksharaj1648

    @akanksharaj1648

    2 ай бұрын

    Hey do you may be wanna become friends...am going through same things and I feel like I have wasted my whole fucking life and I can't even explain it to my friends and family because I feel so guilty to even share it with them...may be a stranger could be a better way to feel a bit free...it's fine if u feel it's creepy or anything...these days am really just trying anything and everything to figure out my life

  • @FuelforLife001

    @FuelforLife001

    2 ай бұрын

    @@akanksharaj1648 im just stayin away from idiots even family, i feel better everyone let me down 😓

  • @user-vm5xz8fv7j

    @user-vm5xz8fv7j

    2 ай бұрын

    @@akanksharaj1648you didn’t waste your life , your story is your story maybe that’s how your life should’ve been but now you might just want to change the story that’s all but you didn’t waste your life also you don’t owe nobody an explanation (family+friends)some people will just never understand but there’s always that one person who will why ? Because they too have felt these emotions you’re feeling . You are human and a human who is experiencing life in his/her own way

  • @reefs7001
    @reefs70012 ай бұрын

    scott ill say chciken cutlets on your next video but rn i wanna say i loveee your videos and your energy i just appreciate you so much i love everything you do, i NEVER felt more understood its insane, like im rlly not alone. youre so nice, youve helped me through so many breakdowns and showed me the light and just taught me so much i wanna cry i really appreciate it i wish you could rlly grasp just how much i appreciate it because idk what id be doing in this moment if i wasnt watching your videos, i would be a lot lower than i am. isnt that cool that u impact peoples life like that? . thank u soo freaking much.

  • @clau2344
    @clau23442 ай бұрын

    Thank you Scott. I really enjoyed this video. Hugs from Chile!!

  • @marwaeldiwiny
    @marwaeldiwiny2 ай бұрын

    Scott! I appreciate these videos, I am going through these emotions that maybe I am wasting my life and this came up.

  • @depressiontoexpression

    @depressiontoexpression

    2 ай бұрын

    only you can decide that, but I HIGHLY HIGHLY doubt any human being can waste an entire LIFE, not possible

  • @mirologl
    @mirologl2 ай бұрын

    Scott, thank you for that simple and motivational vibes from your podcast, I appreciate it! ❤ I have many friends, who almost don't understand English, but I continue to aggressively advise your videos to them, because it helps so much! I guess now they'll have to watch it and learn 😂🎉

  • @depressiontoexpression

    @depressiontoexpression

    2 ай бұрын

    Ahahah YES!! I hope subtitles are okay 😂

  • @nitika008
    @nitika0082 ай бұрын

    Hi Scott. From last 1 and a half year life has been very hard, tough or I would say time has been brutal towards me. I live on my own and started looking for inspiring or motivational video to pass through this time and manage my emotions, feelings and I came across your channel. Your videos touched me and it’s the real truth. Keep posting such type of content. You never know how many people you’re helping out. Can you make a specific video like there will be some days when I don’t want to get up from my bed, does not want to take shower or even brush my teeth or look at myself in the mirror. I know it seems gross but this is honestly I would feel like many times. I tried to keep myself positive but at the end of the day sometimes life situations overpower you and you tumble down again.

  • @depressiontoexpression

    @depressiontoexpression

    2 ай бұрын

    There’s a video where I get ready with you in the morning. Lots more to come my friend ❤

  • @leledeed90
    @leledeed902 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this video! Do you have any videos on getting through breakups? If not would be a great new video topic 😅

  • @maedle99
    @maedle9913 күн бұрын

    I never felt truly satisfied with my adult life so i sometimes wonder if truly putting in the effort to change myself would bring that peace of mind i dream of all day, my future is so daunting and tiresome to think about... 2022 onwards i forgot what it feels to feel joy

  • @susieq2334
    @susieq2334Ай бұрын

    😂💛Thank u so much for being u and doing what u do man.

  • @Skinnnnnnnnnn
    @Skinnnnnnnnnn2 ай бұрын

    Lol the beginning, you popped up at the right time.I was just thinking about this. Smh. Thank youuuu

  • @depressiontoexpression

    @depressiontoexpression

    2 ай бұрын

    u hit that NOTE bro???

  • @Skinnnnnnnnnn

    @Skinnnnnnnnnn

    2 ай бұрын

    Hell yeahhh lol 😂 like Mariah Carey

  • @susieq2334

    @susieq2334

    Ай бұрын

    Sometimes I fall asleep with these videos because they are so soothing but I perked right up and started laughing 😂 Mariah 🎵🎵🎵

  • @petermaggio8984
    @petermaggio89842 ай бұрын

    A little what if comes in lol Good job buddy! Worry can most of the time be a wasted emotion!

  • @caramoonlynn
    @caramoonlynn2 ай бұрын

    I spent some time with my 70 year old mom and her 80 year old sister yesterday. Mom said, "When I see my sister, I see what I will be in 10 years, and it scares me." Food for thought.

  • @destinymercury6907
    @destinymercury69072 ай бұрын

    me screaming "THE BARBER" hoping you'll hear it in this pre-recorded video lol

  • @susieq2334

    @susieq2334

    Ай бұрын

    I was talking to him too but said retirement 😂

  • @fernandogarciamuedano
    @fernandogarciamuedano2 ай бұрын

    I want a live stream Scott!

  • @krishnasingh-jn6zz
    @krishnasingh-jn6zz2 ай бұрын

    Start spiritual journey

  • @KARIN1980ification
    @KARIN1980ification9 күн бұрын

    😅❤

  • @ManpreetSingh-xw4ix
    @ManpreetSingh-xw4ixАй бұрын

    Live stream

  • @kithu1231
    @kithu12312 ай бұрын

    And then Scott one of those Alpha internet Gurus turned out to be a sex abuser , and not everybody needs to be a navy seal..if it's not meant for you.😂

  • @CarolinaK2023
    @CarolinaK20232 ай бұрын

    🤍💟💜 Veseļojies & we, need live stream ;)

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