Honestly, she's idiotic to not go through with the lawsuit. She's allowing more patients to risk their lives with her ex husband as a doctor. With this in mind, both of them should lose their license. Him for obvious reasons, her for allowing him to abuse current/future patients.

@GenGamesUniverse

6 ай бұрын

She is, she could have literally proven that he was the cause of her losing the two unborn babies, which is stupid.

@jujuba1450

6 ай бұрын

that’s like saying a r*pe victim should go to jail for not reporting it while knowing full well that these trials tend to be ruthless, search/expose your intimate life to blame you and the richest person always has a better chance. blame the justice system first, instead of blaming the people it hurts the most.

@winterdots_

5 ай бұрын

​@@jujuba1450 The comparison is completely misplaced. She clarified that she KNEW that he had wrongly treated a patient on PURPOSE so as not to operate on him, she's just stupid at that point

@nolanstrife7350

5 ай бұрын

As much as I would love this scum to face justice, what does she have on him, actually? He is afraid of her accusations of poisoning her? That probably would be deemed hearsay. Her lawyer was a witness to his reaction? Most likely, also hearsay. Toxicologist finds some traces of poison in her hair/nails? That would only mean she was poisoned, no more no less. Maybe cops even get a search warrant and find the exact poison she was poisoned with in his possession? That would be big, but if it's something "common" (something that you can find in any household, let's say, rat poison), he could argue it's just a coincidence That, plus prolonged legal battles can be extremely taxing. It's not the matter of if you will win or not. For the sake of argument, let's say you are guaranteed to win the case. It's still the matter if you will reach this win before going bankrupt Obligatory not a lawyer. It's just me thinking outloud

@okhoward1942

5 ай бұрын

@@winterdots_ knowing and having proof are two different things

Just some advice for the start of a relationship. BE SCEPTICAL. If he is willing to mistreat you publicly, it will be worse privately. If he mistreats you privately, RUN.

@noobyman333

6 ай бұрын

A very important warning in the relationship counseling world is "Problems in a relationship almost always get worse with further relationship steps, not better. Moving in, getting engaged, marriage, children". Equally, these steps also act as great filters as they get near to see how strong or healthy the relationship is, if you remain open to introspection. Don't live your life in fear, but never stop being aware of your surroundings. It is healthy to take time even as minimum as once a year and reflect on everything going on in your life, and deciding if its going a direction you want it to.

@personwithaquestion1800

5 ай бұрын

This is gold.

Excuse me ?? She knows he cause a medical malpractice on purpose but she's fine with it as long as it doesn't effect her ?!!!!! Nah

@personwithaquestion1800

5 ай бұрын

Yeah. She should have reported it, anonymously even if she was worried about issues.

@heyyitsjanea

4 ай бұрын

yeah i had to rewind that because…what??

@alorarhodes1568

2 ай бұрын

She could have lost her license if it was tied back to her. Because he could go "well we're getting divorced and now she's lying to ruin my career clearly she can't keep her personal life out of her practice".

@alorarhodes1568

2 ай бұрын

​@@personwithaquestion1800it's really easy to tie back those anonymous reports to people. Like really easy. Also he could then take that information to the medical board and get her license removed.

@allthingsjustice6465

2 ай бұрын

How the hell is he still a doctor?!

i get that she was the victim but OP is a complete idiot to not have taken steps against him especially knowing that him walking away from this would risk his patients and even other women he dates

@snake5solid

6 ай бұрын

Considering that she had this PoS for a husband and she still insisted on trying for a child with him I do not have much hope for her...

@alorarhodes1568

2 ай бұрын

It could ruin her own life. Because he could take it to the medical board and say "well she's trying to ruin my life because we're divorcing clearly she's not stable enough to keep her practice separate from her private life."

@kristelneedtoknow3207

2 ай бұрын

If she doesn't have proof than it would be hard to win a lawsuit with just Circumstantial evidence. More than likely he did do it but there is no way she could prove it with the evidence she has.

He's evil for doing this to that one person he should lean on for support. Guess not all spouses have the best intentions in mind.

@Ebunoluwa13

6 ай бұрын

He might be evil but thw one thing that was most glaring in this story is how absolutely STUPID OP was from beginning to end. She LITERALLY saw rmajor red flags BEFORE she got the ring abd instead of leaving she put a ring on it and added a baby to the ahit show while turning herself into a divorcee.

him being a mama's boy is the biggest red flag there is and OP still decided to marry and stick with him. "I can fix him" signs are everywhere

Certain chemicals are difficult to get because they're used to poison people/make drugs. If one of those chemicals have to be specially ordered, _and_ being a doctor allows him to specially order substances, that's intent.

@artemis_justiceaizawa5978

6 ай бұрын

AND HE WAS WORRRIED, WHY WOULD HE BE WORRIED IF HE WASN'T POISONING OP?! OP should've done the test anyways, you have a reason to suspect, you know when he could've been poisoning you and you have MEDICAL RECORDS THAT SHOWS SOMETHING WAS WRONG AND THEN THE MISCARRIAGE, get the test regardless. Sure, threaten him with it if that's the only way to get him to agree, but do it anyways and send it to whoever removes medical licenses because he's abusing his and others.

@jessicacarrillo1634

6 ай бұрын

​@@artemis_justiceaizawa5978 agreed. OP is an idiot for dropping the lawsuit.

Something similar happened in my family but kinda different, in 2019 my uncle sweet wife took her own life the day before their 30 years anniversary. Apparently my uncle had an affair with his wife's bff 3 years into their marriage and she got pregnant. My aunt kept quite and since she was a nurse she secrewtly poisoned her friend to miscarriage and then she kept poisoning her till she developed a skin condition and losing her hair to make her look repulsive and she added some unkown bio neurotoxin to make her lethargic all the time. The fact that she couldn't find a diagnosis and the chronic pain pushed her to depression all the way to suicide. She left these details between the letter she left for her kids and and her journals (the neurotoxin she used is mind blowing and no lab work can detect it) the kids cut off my uncle and blamed him for the death and misery of their mother. He barricaded himself in the house and died from diabetes complications during the lockdown.

@_lei_c_8138

7 ай бұрын

GODDAMN THATS TRAGIC. 😭 I just hope the kids are doing fine now :'c

@gostavoadolfos2023

6 ай бұрын

​​@@_lei_c_8138they're doing fine right now but the aftermath was heavy. Their mom was Algerian and her family cut her off after she converted from Islam to Catholicism to marry my uncle so when her sister learned about her suicide she sent hurtful messages to the kids gloating about their mom's fate and her losing in this life and in the afterlife.

@wickie-search

6 ай бұрын

Poor the kids but not the dad. Hopefully they find peace as time passes but that's almost unlikely going to happen.

@l0rdapophis

6 ай бұрын

Well shit...

@terickastidbits2342

6 ай бұрын

The kids blamed the mom for being a psycho?? Tf

Im glad im single, i never want to be in the position where im willing to be murdered in an abusive relationship just because im too scared of being alone

@AfuBinks

6 ай бұрын

I would never murder you ;)

@Nerdbookworm

5 ай бұрын

Right? Honestly she’s a bit pathetic. HE POISONED YOU. And you are still clinging to him!

🤦🏽‍♀️ if my man is criticizing me and is complaining about me then all of a sudden he makes me breakfast...? 🤦🏽‍♀️ girl come on .. i would not have eaten anything he made

FUCKING HELL OP, YOU TOOK YOUR SWEET TIME GROWING A DAMN SPINE.

@isasantos8577

6 ай бұрын

And a weak one

@dandymaiden

6 ай бұрын

When you’re in that situation it’s easier said than done.

@jessicacarrillo1634

6 ай бұрын

She still has no spine.

@cuernosbeste

5 ай бұрын

To be fair most women can't even get out of an abusive relationship. So for her to even be able to leave him AND divorce him is a huge win.

@natsu-chanibarra2688

5 ай бұрын

What are you talking about? She never got a spine, if he hadn't divorced her, she would have still been there groveling at his feet....... Quite literally since he poison her

L husband, narcissist parents and the father had the audacity to say that his son is a man. Op deserves better.

He’s a doctor though. You really needed to get him charged for the poisoning as he could pull this off on a patient one day.

Never understand ppl who are afraid of being alone. Id much rather be alone than be with a toxic a hole.

OP should get tested for toxics anyways, she def needs those results.

To be honest, while I understand Op just wanting to move on, I'm not sure she understands the ramifications of her decision not to pursuing the lawsuit. Sure, she comes out of it relatively unscathed - but that can't be said of any future wife of his. I occasionally watch true crime documentaries, and I remember there was at least a few cases eerily similar to this. One guy abused and poisoned his wife to miscarry, she divorced, his second wife "self-deleted," his next wife divorced him after he abused her, then his last one also "deleted herself." Quote marks because that's what he claimed - and it was uncovered that at least the last one was murder. As far as I can remember, him milking his wives out of money was also a pattern. There was also a different story, also poisoned his wife repeatedly, she wound up "self-deleting" - problem was, a week before her death she dropped off a hand-written letter at a neighbor who she knew really well, which clearly stated that if anything happens to her - it was her husband's doing. She included all kinds of details, like him searching for murder and body disposal methods and not even hiding it. He got off initially, but I think recently he finally got life without parole. Those two are just examples, but the main point is: by not pursuing the lawsuit, she's essentially sending a message to him that if he's just a bit more clever in the future - he can pull anything off without concequences. It stopped being about her the moment he showed he's ready to cross the line into straight up criminal behavior to get his way. And if he's done it with her, he 100% will do it with others.

She right to call herself an idiot. But im happy that she free from that monster of ex and his family. Still, she should have sued him, but she at least published her suspicion on him poisoning her. Then, he wont ever harm another woman.

People who are abusive/borderline abusive should have their licence removed if they're in the medical industry because they OBVIOUSLY DON'T CARE, if they hurt their family or someone they 'love' in a way that's even borderline abusive how can you say they won't do that to an actual stranger whom they have no ties to? I mean, this one decided he couldn't be bothered doing a stranger's surgery (i.e his f-ing job) and purposefully made a medical "mistake", it's not a mistake if you can see they're already a POS to their "family"/"loves" they're going to be one to strangers too unless they decide that the stranger would be fun to toy with or manipulate.

@jessicacarrillo1634

6 ай бұрын

The fact that OP dropped the lawsuit should also mean she should have her license removed too. She's allowing a doctor to abuse patients.

@AECH_CH

6 ай бұрын

That doesn't make any sense... Their professional skills are not connected to their personal life. They don't need to care about you to provide you a good service. Don't mix private relationships with public affairs.

@artemis_justiceaizawa5978

6 ай бұрын

OP literally said her husband couldn't be a$$ed to do his f-ing job and luckily it was life-threatening (assumption based on the fact OP didn't say it was) but what if it had been? That POS decided not to do his job and could've costed a life that could've very easily been saved if he did his job- by all means, being a cheater shouldn't be mixed with their skills in professionality because it's not dangerous, it hurts, but it's not deadly or dangerous (alone), but when one of the "private" affairs is ABUSE or borderline abuse, it should ABSOLUTELY be involved if they're in charge of taking care of someone else's wellbeing because that IS dangerous and it CAN BE VERY DEADLY. @@AECH_CH

He done a big medical mistake on purpose to a patient because he didnt want to do surgery on them, man what the hell, the guy is nuts and shouldbt be a doctor, hes litterally playing with someones life.

Omg op is exhausting, she's like a Marimar, complete victim. It seems fake to some degree.

@Mayawamaq

6 ай бұрын

yeah, complete victims exist in real life...tf did you want and nime story where the mian charcter is flawed? this is reality buddy. abuse victims are usually pretty flawless to thier situation.

@kuma.369

6 ай бұрын

​​@@Mayawamaq whatever you say, dude, I've also been abused by partners and friends. Don't run to whiteknight for a story that's so telenovela style because those are all around this place. Abuse victims are not so white and black as its shown here. But if you feel better about yourself go on, champ. 👍🏻

@Mayawamaq

6 ай бұрын

@@kuma.369 ok, thats good for you but shes not you. maybe you are a azz of a person and you did bad stuff but she didnt. stop projecting champ.

Too many res flags and she chose to ignore??? I feel sorry for her though..

Now she's partially to blame for the next woman he poisons.

@Matcha1118

6 ай бұрын

Was thinking about the unborn child of her. The unborn child deserves better or at least justice.

@jessicacarrillo1634

6 ай бұрын

Agreed! She's an idiot

@alorarhodes1568

2 ай бұрын

So that makes no sense. She's not responsible for his actions in any way shape or form. And frankly, this was probably the only way to leave this divorce with her life. He's violent and willing to kill her. Now she has leverage. Now he's going to leave her alone. And a lot of the times these poisoning cases don't go anywhere cuz they're incredibly hard to prove. And he'd still have a career after this. Maybe not in the same city. But he'd still have a career somewhere else

@kristelneedtoknow3207

2 ай бұрын

Not to mention that she can't really prove that it was him.

@bryn1063

Ай бұрын

​@kristelneedtoknow3207 if there's no proof there's no way she'd win. Especially if he made more. He'd be richer so he could probably say "she's just trying to ruin my life since we divorced" they'd believe him and it'd be thrown out.

good lord. do not be so desperate to stay for fear of being alone

sometimes reddit stories need to be used as circumstantial evidence to help the victims

These stories are absolutely true and not fake at all!

@TheReal_Antrey

6 ай бұрын

Naaah! Everything is fake. Nothing ever happens

@CherryGryffon

6 ай бұрын

If I told you HALF of what I've experienced in my life thus far, you'd think I was lying. I'm inclined to believe most stories because of it lol

@jordanwardle11

6 ай бұрын

If you look at the story of Desmond Doss, you would also think that he was fake

@adenharned1404

6 ай бұрын

⁠@@CherryGryffon This story is probably fake as it takes 9-15 years to become a doctor. Assuming OP started college at 18, she would be 27 at least before she would become a doctor. OP said she was 26 and already a doctor. So, yes this story is probably fake.

@Alice15210

6 ай бұрын

​@@CherryGryffon I can relate

I wanted to deadpan at every single moment of this story. Honestly girl NEVER get into another relationship again, you'll probably end up in the same situation again and again because you never changed, you were and are a doormat. If he hadn't asked for divorce you would have NEVERleft him no matter how badly he abused you and honestly since you left him leave without a lawsuit that could have saved many other people be it his future partens or patients talks load about the type of person you are on the inside so unless you are willing to go into a very long and deep psychological journey to make you grow a spine and maybe become a tiny bit of a better person, I woul hold off entering a relationship or a hospital. I might have sounded like a major AH but it's the truth i see and believe me when i tell yo i now messed up and there is definitely something wrong with her that she needs to fix herself.

i may be wrong for thinking this way, but culture shouldn't stay in the way of anyones happiness!

@saumyasharma7436

4 ай бұрын

From the sound of it she's probably South East Asian or an Arab. Trust me, culture is literally shoved down their throats

TL;DR: Mama's Boy, The Ultimate Muslim Edition.

@yenisketches6047

6 ай бұрын

Try to hide your islamophobia lvl: Impossible. She sounds more like an indian and he’s probably white

@wickie-search

6 ай бұрын

You mean culture cus it ain't Islam teaching (speaking as a Muslim myself).

@MrToubrouk

6 ай бұрын

@@wickie-search Islam teaches a lot of things. (Speaking as an Atheist myself)

@wickie-search

6 ай бұрын

@@MrToubrouk And Islam teaches that the best men are those that treat his spouse the best. I don't even know what you're even trying to point with being an atheist.

@MrToubrouk

6 ай бұрын

@@wickie-search Oh yes, I am sure that Aisha, even if she was 6 or 7, was well treated. Why are you trying to point by being a Muslim?

How much u wanna bet the husband and family is middle eastern

@maxgucciardi4507

2 ай бұрын

Maybe indian. It's not uncommon to pressure for an abortion or poison women if they are pregnant with daughters over there.

I cant stand doormats like OP

HOW DID SHE NOT LEAVE AFTER THE ARGUMENT THAT LEAD TO THE MISCARRIAGES

"before i met him I was a strong and indipendent woman", yeah, no sorry

Wait a minute... OP knew he purposely malpractices and she was like "yum I need that man" smh wtf....they both need Jesus

@alorarhodes1568

2 ай бұрын

It's really hard to prove malpractice. It was while they were married and knowing is different from being able to prove it. And he could ruin her life if she reports him. Frankly washing her hands and getting away with her life was her primary goal. Rightfully so.

Imagine being a doormat

Sis is a doctor but this obvious?!

Never in my deepest relationship fog have I ever been willing to gloss over cheating like that clown of a woman. I have some strange mental disorder that allows me to turn off empathy when I've decided I've been treated horribly enough by someone. I'm starting to think I'm not the one with the disorder, it's everyone else that's malfunctioning. When someone openly treats you THAT badly, you shouldn't have any love left for them.

Very unfortunate situation, but she's slow for not catching on to his bs multiple times. Where are her friends?!? It's good that she doesn't have kids from him.

I don't think this story is true for a few reasons, but it was the 'doctor purposefully killed his patient' thing that kinda cinched it. She, a doctor, casually drops with no concern and no clarification that he just killed one of his patients because he didn't want to treat them. Which makes no sense, as she says all he cares about is money. Wouldn't he WANT to keep the patient to treat them for more money? There's plenty else too, but I think this was a story yoinked from somewhere else.

She should've done the tests. I'm saying this not for her but to put in jai a f#cking psycopath. To hell the "karma will get him". That aside, I'm so happy to hear that she did divorce from him Sorry for my english, it's not my first language. I can read and hear and make sense of it. But I still have problems when I'm the one writing or speaking

@alorarhodes1568

2 ай бұрын

It can be really hard to prove poisoning. And frankly this guy is the kind of guy to kill her while the trial is ongoing because in the mind of a narcissist "I'm already caught so I don't have to cover up anymore". This is literally how they think

Just gotta hope buddy got his karma in full force

She is aware that he intentionally caused medical malpractice, but as long as it doesn't affect her, she doesn't mind??? Nopeeeee 😕😕😵

@bryn1063

Ай бұрын

She can't prove it so it's hopeless. You can't win in court when it's only your word against others. Unless he's richer.

Pretty sure this is fan fiction. She’s supposedly a doctor but doesn’t use the medical terms for bloodwork/liver tests. I’ve been to doctors so many times these last couple of years due to medical issues. Every single one uses the medical term even when talking to patients.

@dokuganryu1565

4 ай бұрын

Even after going to this amount of mental distress you hope someone to speak proffesionally? And on Reddit?

Seriously, wtf. Soooo many red flags! And she was trying to get pregnant with this horrible person?

If his true love is money, then would this be a form of financial cuckoldry?

Yeah if someone promises you that they'll change before you get married or into a relationship, they're lying You can't change anyone and someone who promises they'll change for someone else is lying If someone promises this to you, don't believe him. Dump them

god i'm so tired of all these doormats

@qt_s

6 ай бұрын

like, grow a spine. have some self respect.

@qt_s

6 ай бұрын

oh god it just gets worse. she doesn't even hit him with a lawsuit about the poisoning. i hope when that pathetic excuse of a man poisons another woman, she'll think of how she could have stopped him. shitty people all around.

Never have relationship with a mama's boy

Honestly as sad as it may be for her, at some point in the marriage its her fault.for putting up with him for so long. This doesnt excuse him ad his family at all but if your husband or wife has NO respect for you you gotta stop giving them chances.

Am I too hard if I say she is deserving everything? Cheater, don't give a F about her, doesn't want to spend time with her or even touch her but she thought "oh he is so sweet he wakes up to make me breakfast when I am pregnant". And SHE IS A DOCTOR.

@bryn1063

Ай бұрын

Yes. She was stupid but nobody deserves a miscarriage and getting murdered over being dumb. That's unbelievably evil..

@xryska

Ай бұрын

@@bryn1063 that is a given and I am not even victim blaming. It is just in this world we must be alerted and smart or evil people will harm us.

@bryn1063

Ай бұрын

@xryska Obviously but you're saying if it's too harsh to say she deserves it? Yes it is. Nobody deserves to be murdered and lose their child because they're dumb.

i have been in a situation similar to op's. i didn't get out until he left me, and when he did, i was broken and i was in pieces. i didn't know how to live without him telling me what to do. my life, my mind, and my body were all at his beck and call. he let his friends publicly humiliate me, and scolded me for standing up for myself because i was "rude". (his friend made a derogatory sexual remark about me, i told the friend to f-ck off, i got scolded. he pointed his finger in my face and said "no, bad." like i was a dog that peed on the floor). he sa'd me. i'm not sure if it was r-pe but it was coercion and some of it was non consensual, and used as a punishment. even when he knew i was in pain, he continued. he told me he knew i was in pain, but "it felt too good to stop". when i confronted him, he said "i said i was sorry. you bringing it up just makes me feel guilty about it. there's nothing i can do about it, i made a mistake, why can't it be in the past?" i told him how i'd been sa'd and coerced in the past, and he pushed me into doing that with him and then blamed me for not telling him no when i "should have known" he wouldn't be like my past partners. when he raised a hand at me, i flinched, and he got mad that i flinched because "he's never hit me", but people in the past have. he has told me my trauma was invalid because "he's gone through worse and isn't as messed up as i am". there's much more he's done, and much more i've blocked out because it hurts too much to think about and makes me feel horrifically disgusting. if you've read all this, thank you. if you're in a similar situation, i believe in you. get out. you're worth it.

That is one hell of a titlw

She should have still done the tests. Just in case.

I totally get why she doesn't wanna push the poisoning thing but... Sometimes why have to do unconformable thing for the sake of others... I cant help but think about him dling this to other women..

Wow op… that man is a ninny baby… just wow

S1-Sounds like the OP not only needs to break up with the husband, but also with her backwards, women need to cover their heads type of culture. She needs to free herself from all of it.

NO NOT A COINCIDENCE! I HIOE YOU FOLLOWED THAT INSTINCT OF YOURS SWEETIE! ASAP!😱

Bro op is stupid for dropping her lawsuit.

Is he from MENA ? Most Guys are like that also their family too !!!

usually these stories you feel for the OP but even 1/3 of the way through i cant help thinking shes a d0lt for not just walking out... wtf... and why on earth would you go to his father parents if they havnt supported you till that point???

Your ex husband and his family can all catch these hands. This made me so fucking angry.🧍🏽‍♀️😭

I wonder if his mom lets his dad miss treat her? Why would she tell her son be punish his wife. She is not his child. Plus his wife always comes before blood. He weak

Lisen to devil doesn't bargen by Alec B. Trust me you will relate with the song🎵

The text to speech voice:

I do not feel sorry for this woman. This is what she gets for staying with this man she knew that they were issues before she even married this dude she knew he was a mama's boy she knew he wanted to spend more time with his friends than he wanted to spend with her but she still married this man and she got pregnant by him. After the miscarriage she ran back to this man being the desperate person and weak and mind it when she is she went back to this man. So if he tried to poison her or whatever that's on her because she went back to him. There are no victims here.

HA! NOT SO NICE WHEN THE SHOE IS ON THE OTHER FOOT AH HUSBAND AND HIS FAMILY! and THIS is me being nicea

Crazy how blind love can be

I don't feel sorry for op. She is just a doormat. You act like a doormat u get treated like a doormat. She should have left when he didn't even support her through her miscarriage.

I can't. This op is so irritating.. This can't be real. I refuse to believe this.

Sis why you …..

This is one of the dumbest Ops I've listened to in a while. I literally am having difficulty feeling sorry for her. The only good thing to come out of this is that she didn't have kids. I'm sorry that she lost her babies, but in this instance, it was a blessing in disguise.

This seems like a desi story. I think they're from India.

Nah tho why just women men go through things like abuse domestic violence

Op gtfo.... im still a few mins in but u cant keep letting him do that I hope theres a happy ending for her

Op’s husband is shit but op is too for letting him treat her that way. It takes two people to create a toxic relationship, she is responsible too.

What is this person's username?? I'm curious to see if there were any updates

Ultimately it's your fault that you're in this relationship because there was so many red flags being shot in your face and you ignored it for the thought of maybe he'll come around or the constant loop of making up and hoping that it would be better the next time or it'll be better this time rather than leaving him and not only that you got pregnant with an abusive person... why? Do you know he was terrible person Midway and you still have a child with this person... disappointed

Three ❤❤❤ hi Telltales

What a selfish woman. I get that you want it to be over but he will try again. He's a murderer and she let him get away.

@maarshiexcryxx

6 ай бұрын

fr. i am sorry for her, but she SHOULD have take it to court. He can one day murder someone and she will be partially responsible for this because she didnt do anything to stop him when she could

WTF is wrong with people

Title is misleading be better

This story is beyond pathetic and so is the op

Fake.

Op is doormat, and i want one like her

I'm having a hard time believing this story. The story she is painting is so heavy with victimization. She has the intelligence and courage to make it through medical school but stays in this abusive relationship and a victim mentality. Yeah after the updates the story is very inconsistent this is fake

@sadiewashington2855

7 ай бұрын

So many women are like this though. They don’t know what it’s like to be alone or are scared to be alone, so they allow themselves to be victimized over and over again. And it really doesn’t help in cultures where women are viewed as second class citizens.

@j0hnc00

7 ай бұрын

Intelligence doesn't make people immune to abuse silly, anyone can be manipulated and conned. Even then intelligent folks aren't intelligent all the time, you'd know this if you've been around them as family or friends.

@codfishface5029

7 ай бұрын

Anyone can be abused, doesn’t matter how smart you are. Not saying the story isn’t fake, but your points don’t make sense.

@jackchop1576

6 ай бұрын

A woman disagreeing with an "all women are heroes" themed reddit story?

@juliearmfield2634

6 ай бұрын

Well I guess I just see things differently then

Hehe first

This woman is garbage 🗑️

Tbh i have no sympathy for her, him and his family should be behind bars(at a minimum) but he was mistreating her before marriage and had a lot of red flags but she ignored that and went ahead and married the badboy toxic guy, did she expect he’ll start respecting her later?

Found myself getting very irritated with OP. OP's ego was also a red flag too. She clearly wasn't worth changing for and she refused to accept it. Everyone here was just toxic and not good for each other's mental health.

God damn women just love that toxic shit. That toxic energy is so addicting to ya

@toyaoren772

7 ай бұрын

Don't take notes from this guy lil bro

@bobmarley3712

7 ай бұрын

@@toyaoren772 don't worry about me simp stay up to date on your onlyfans subs

@Emi_TheWinged

7 ай бұрын

Victim blaming much? Maybe blame those abusers ? Oh wait since you are victim blaming you are probably an abuser yourself . Nevermind then

@Mayawamaq

6 ай бұрын

but they litterally dont, thats why she left him....also ig men like doing toxic ish, they are bad people on avrage correct?? she was pregnat and was scared to leave

@bobmarley3712

6 ай бұрын

@@Emi_TheWinged whatever satisfies your mind. You don't see me begging and hoping for change right? Lmfao what a weak reply, just as weak as your resolve.

Not gonna lie, I'm glad OP is finally out of that situation but I she should've probably pursued that lawsuit, or some other investigation. Imagine a guy like that remaining as a doctor; his patients are in danger. He possible broke his oath and possibly poisoned OP to end his own child, there's no telling what he could do to others, not even mentioning him screwing over a patient because he didn't wanna operate.

@maarshiexcryxx

6 ай бұрын

EXACTLY!!! He can one day end up unaliving someone

I don't feel sorry for her, once you knew he was a mommas boy n he puts his mom before you, you should have left that parasite asap. You allowed this to happen to you op, you allowed him to treat you like shit, you allowed all this to happen to you. Don't blame him blame urself for allowing it to happen.