I busted my cheating boyfriend by setting up a fake dating profile. twice. (you r simply not ready)

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  • @Babboonboots
    @Babboonboots11 ай бұрын

    “He made himself look like Christian Grey. He’s just Frankie grande” 😂😂😂 that actually made me laugh out loud

  • @aditijoshi3666

    @aditijoshi3666

    11 ай бұрын

    True lmao😂😂 i cried

  • @trishachia
    @trishachia11 ай бұрын

    Use this as a “I WANNA SEE THE DIANA VIDEO” button

  • @adjadenisedoumbia9305

    @adjadenisedoumbia9305

    11 ай бұрын

    Fr we NEED to see it

  • @ashleynaicker2112

    @ashleynaicker2112

    11 ай бұрын

    YESS

  • @potato4721

    @potato4721

    11 ай бұрын

    Explain what Dianna video😂?

  • @designercate

    @designercate

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@potato4721Watch the end

  • @kyracarlos9920

    @kyracarlos9920

    11 ай бұрын

    YESSSSS

  • @Zuivui8570
    @Zuivui857010 ай бұрын

    Why is nobody trying to figure out who this guy is

  • @pastry111

    @pastry111

    3 ай бұрын

    because he's not worth the energy

  • @alissiachayasirijirapak638
    @alissiachayasirijirapak63811 ай бұрын

    the fact that she's out here warning us instead of crying and playing the victim card to it's fullest...girl you have my respect

  • @taiyabazaheer9492

    @taiyabazaheer9492

    11 ай бұрын

    Same. I respect her.

  • @adeva._

    @adeva._

    11 ай бұрын

    there's nothing wrong with crying and being a victim tho? we should support every victim regardless of how they tell story

  • @SB-no9pz

    @SB-no9pz

    11 ай бұрын

    who is she talking about? who is he??

  • @postie1965

    @postie1965

    11 ай бұрын

    @@adeva._ EXACTLY, who cares if they're crying? they were WRONGED.

  • @DumiNihi

    @DumiNihi

    11 ай бұрын

    The way this is worded is really weird

  • @radiatejoy4794
    @radiatejoy479411 ай бұрын

    i cooked for my whole family, clean the kitchen, straighten my hair and did my makeup listening to this😭😭 loooove your story telling style

  • @Kiran37369

    @Kiran37369

    9 ай бұрын

    GIRL SAME!!! THATS WHAT IM DOING RIGHT NOW

  • @srilaasyamoka

    @srilaasyamoka

    7 ай бұрын

    i am studying physics while watching this lmfaooo

  • @anvipiano
    @anvipiano11 ай бұрын

    “we’re not exclusive” is the narcissist’s excuse to have all of the benefits of a relationship, with none of the responsibilities of one

  • @bask65

    @bask65

    9 ай бұрын

    To be fair if you agree to it, half falls on you.

  • @escobarines
    @escobarines11 ай бұрын

    This is crazy. I'm glad you're out, and thank you for using your platform to educate people on how to spot narcissists. I just learned something from you. I have a coworker who is the textbook example of a narcissist, but his apparent love/empathy for his son made me think he might be not... Your explanation about narc's children made me understand things so much better.

  • @Gretchenweiner

    @Gretchenweiner

    10 ай бұрын

    Is his son young? They dont see young children as a threat.

  • @sumuraihh1539

    @sumuraihh1539

    10 ай бұрын

    me too!

  • @SmittenKitten96
    @SmittenKitten9611 ай бұрын

    Anncy I’m so happy you realized and broke things off soon. I was in a relationship with a narcissistic man for FIVE fucking years. My entire early 20s wasted thinking he would change. Brushing off the red flags. Feeling like a worthless undeserving woman when he never put the effort for me. Tolerating the abuse. Let me tell you when I finally put my foot down I cried tears of JOY.

  • @sourbaby001

    @sourbaby001

    11 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤happy for youuu

  • @byulharangforlife

    @byulharangforlife

    11 ай бұрын

    im glad you broke it off! you are brave

  • @beysimartin9971

    @beysimartin9971

    11 ай бұрын

    Wow! Thank you for sharing. When did you realize you needed to go?

  • @SmittenKitten96

    @SmittenKitten96

    11 ай бұрын

    @@beysimartin9971 but the final straw was my when my mom was in the ER and he disregarded it and told me to call him or something after. Meanwhile my best friends didn’t hesitate to call immediately to check on me and offer to bring me food, or offer a place to stay.

  • @Kulfikulfikulfikulfikulfi

    @Kulfikulfikulfikulfikulfi

    11 ай бұрын

    Same

  • @aishahshaikh9596
    @aishahshaikh959611 ай бұрын

    "Sometimes when men don't wanna be with you, they wanna be you" ~ Anncy Twinkle, 2023

  • @meera3843
    @meera384311 ай бұрын

    I can't believe someone cheated on YOU. A LITERAL GODDESS...none of us have a chance 😂😂

  • @straykidseverywhere657

    @straykidseverywhere657

    11 ай бұрын

    rightttt

  • @qwertyboo

    @qwertyboo

    11 ай бұрын

    Men cheated on Beyonce, Shakira, Monica Bellucci, Emrata, Princess Diana etc. It doesn't matter if you're an icon, a goddess, or a sex symbol, men have no shame

  • @xxxs1874

    @xxxs1874

    11 ай бұрын

    yea like ZERO shes a liar like this is not cheating my dear cheating when you are dating not when you have one night stand lol ive never had a boyfriend in my life only night stands looooooooool so its not cheating cause we were never dating so shes deliosunal lol

  • @bloomy27

    @bloomy27

    11 ай бұрын

    Men go for whatever available they don’t have standards

  • @portxr

    @portxr

    11 ай бұрын

    ^ his alt account

  • @theprettyrecklessify
    @theprettyrecklessify11 ай бұрын

    I don't care about society expectations, I don't care about marriage and kids. Living my life the way I want it is the best decision I have ever made 30+

  • @cherrypai44

    @cherrypai44

    11 ай бұрын

    honestly though. letting go of the stress of needing to find a trustworthy man to attach myself to just so i can have a baby in time has been like lifting a 2-ton weight off my shoulders. if it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen. and that's it.

  • @lilmisslady
    @lilmisslady11 ай бұрын

    “Sometimes men don’t want you they want to BE you” 💀💀 soooo trueeee

  • @heyysophie9928

    @heyysophie9928

    11 ай бұрын

    Is that a thing??

  • @littleleah310

    @littleleah310

    11 ай бұрын

    ​​@@heyysophie9928YES!

  • @VickyyTran

    @VickyyTran

    11 ай бұрын

    So true lmao

  • @ziintle

    @ziintle

    11 ай бұрын

    Sassy behavior

  • @scarlettskipper9352
    @scarlettskipper935211 ай бұрын

    I'm so glad you got out of that, Anncy. It's insanely hard and horrifically rough to experience something like that. Thank you for your honesty and bravery in sharing all this. Take good care of yourself.

  • @Lynn5150rr
    @Lynn5150rr11 ай бұрын

    Anncy: “I’m a baby…..If I’m pregnant tomorrow, I’m aborting that!” LOL😂 Ahhhhh refreshing unfiltered Anncy

  • @shalinicarnis
    @shalinicarnis11 ай бұрын

    As someone who's unknowingly attracted so many narcissists into my life and now living with one, my sister, this was so hard to watch bcos the more you shared, it brought up soooo much of ill treatment and shit I was put through and none of them had empathy, neither were apologetic and yes purely TRANSACTIONAL. The extent such people go to come up with all sorts of lies and gaslighting is soo bizzare!! I found out after 2 yrs of leaving a narcissist that he lied to me all the while of his office location until one day I got a call from that office regarding a ticket and the officer told me there was never an office at the location that Narc said he was working at. I got CHILLs bro. I almost went insane with this guy hence dropped him after 6 mths. What a gruesome ride it was.

  • @qayenatkhan8119

    @qayenatkhan8119

    11 ай бұрын

    It is…. I’ve had the exact same experience. Monsters. Zombies. I am happy you got out of it, try to find a good therapist to work on your inner beliefs or traumas that lead you to unknowingly attract narcs in your life, I hope and wish you recover and heal and start attracting people who GIVE and ADD to your life, the healthiest people who make you smile from within. God bless you ❤

  • @shalinicarnis

    @shalinicarnis

    11 ай бұрын

    @@qayenatkhan8119 Thank you soo much love!

  • @littleleah310

    @littleleah310

    11 ай бұрын

    Reall

  • @haventchangedmypfpsince2009

    @haventchangedmypfpsince2009

    11 ай бұрын

    I've given up on dating in 2023, I unknowingly attracted a stalker despite barely ever using dating apps, he's OBSESSED with me, I had to snooze the only account I had coz I'm genuinely worried for my safety. If it's not this, it's narcissists who are obsessed with themselves and don't have time for dating but somehow have time to make an account.

  • @shalinicarnis

    @shalinicarnis

    11 ай бұрын

    @@haventchangedmypfpsince2009 please take care and stay safe!! Talk to someone who is trustworthy or approach the authorities to lookout for your safety. These ppl are sick in the heads & if we’re naive and innocent, they have total power to take us down hell road. There is no ending to them

  • @monobreeze646
    @monobreeze64610 ай бұрын

    GIRL if he's a public influencer please tell us his name, so we can stay away and other girls in the future don't suffer by knowing what this man is up to

  • @Lilsrodri

    @Lilsrodri

    9 ай бұрын

    girl let me know what you find out!!

  • @ayema777

    @ayema777

    9 ай бұрын

    same yea lmk if u find out

  • @krischii05

    @krischii05

    6 ай бұрын

    Right

  • @sukipifam8844

    @sukipifam8844

    3 ай бұрын

    Ommg did you find outttt

  • @Shtriga_34
    @Shtriga_3411 ай бұрын

    I can imagine him watching this video and losing his mind because you keep calling him a man-child at 31 😂😂 love it. On another note, truly sorry it turned out this way. I was already skeptical of it when you said we're not defining our status or anything.Thats like giving the go ahead for him to cheat on you. But i didn't expect it to turn out this bad. Like could he have been any worse? He had every bad trait you would be fearful of in a guy.

  • @littleleah310

    @littleleah310

    11 ай бұрын

    LMAO

  • @crystalcastillo7575
    @crystalcastillo757511 ай бұрын

    I’m glad you escaped this toxic relationship and I pray any person he gets with .. sees right through him RIGHT AWAY

  • @incharak1927
    @incharak192711 ай бұрын

    I freaking knew there was something off about him when I saw the Hawaii video. He was oddly very proud of other men checking out Anncy....he didn't sound even a lil angry or annoyed with those guys, he was proud to have a baddie on his side that he could show off to other jerks🤡

  • @mayachetri2959

    @mayachetri2959

    11 ай бұрын

    Hey do you know his name ?

  • @violetbluegreeenred

    @violetbluegreeenred

    11 ай бұрын

    righttt he seemed so off no offence

  • @ImenBen12

    @ImenBen12

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@mayachetri2959same I wanna know

  • @maryamgilani263

    @maryamgilani263

    11 ай бұрын

    RIGHT! I remember during that vlog, he mentioned something about men "lusting over her", which instantly struck me as firstly, being a rly weird thing to say, & saying it while LAUGHING! Like Sir, what? It was also rly weird how it didn't phase him in a negative way, even SLIGHTLY. Also, at one point during the vlog, he mentioned something about Anncy standing beside him when getting food (I forgot where they were), & he said something like, I thought who's this rly hot girl or something along those lines, coz he didn't think it was Anncy coz he couldn't see her face, only her body. Like? Why would u say something like that?

  • @citrine_parfait

    @citrine_parfait

    11 ай бұрын

    Right. Dude was bad vibes from the start 😅

  • @_missreverie_
    @_missreverie_11 ай бұрын

    your puppy saved you. i'm so happy for anncy! I remember his giggly idiot sounds from your hawaii video. hahahahha. always thought he was just passing through because anncy wasn't going to just go with some fool! I'm appaled by the way he actually drugged your pup and the ankle thing was horrifying. yes to the diana vlog! be well love

  • @lilia7870
    @lilia787011 ай бұрын

    Drugging a poor little puppy is cruel ! He should be charged ! 🤮

  • @cheesechao9071
    @cheesechao907111 ай бұрын

    ANNCY, YOUR HAIR LOOKS SO GOOD!!

  • @ImenBen12

    @ImenBen12

    11 ай бұрын

    She looks stunning right!!

  • @andreamess5345

    @andreamess5345

    11 ай бұрын

    she overall looks drop dead gorg

  • @AmiraMekki

    @AmiraMekki

    11 ай бұрын

    LIterally the best colour and look ever on her

  • @claire.loraine

    @claire.loraine

    11 ай бұрын

    best look i’ve seen on her tbh 😍

  • @shemmygee1256

    @shemmygee1256

    11 ай бұрын

    YES IT DOES

  • @sumaiya367
    @sumaiya36711 ай бұрын

    Is it just me ? I am so scared for her that he would try to harm her( God protect her) like he put her to sleep without her consent like CRAZY! Take precautions Anncy to stay safer 🥰 Thank you also for educating us how men can be !

  • @eleveli2437
    @eleveli243711 ай бұрын

    My mum is clinically diagnosed with NPD as well. My dad stuck around with her for so long for our sakes but leaving her was probably the best decision he ever made for himself and the family. Narcissists can't be changed if they're not open to helping themselves, they'll just make your life miserable in the process. Good on you for getting the fuck out of there 💗

  • @chillblue1650

    @chillblue1650

    7 ай бұрын

    Then what should clinically diagnosed narcissists do? Just give up on life? I believe they can change if they were willing to put in the effort by going to therapy and being mindful of their thoughts and actions.

  • @eleveli2437

    @eleveli2437

    6 ай бұрын

    @@chillblue1650 That's exactly what I said if you read my comment. In cases like NPD, if you're fully aware that there is a problem, you really need to be willing to change. Unfortunately my mum wasn't, and still isn't, willing to accept that she's ever been in the wrong and that she needs help (even though she's been formally diagnosed with npd), and that just hurts herself and everyone who loves her. The thing about NPD is that it often prevents people from acknowledging that there even is a problem to begin with.

  • @pauleyrizk9930
    @pauleyrizk99306 ай бұрын

    we need an identity reveal for this 30 year old creature fr

  • @ashsillymeter

    @ashsillymeter

    5 ай бұрын

    CREATTUREEE.. IM CRYIGNG

  • @user-mi4vv3eo9h
    @user-mi4vv3eo9h11 ай бұрын

    I’m at 25:00 and baee he wanted y’all to start another ACE FAMILY😭😭so glad u ran be safe out there

  • @incharak1927

    @incharak1927

    11 ай бұрын

    Lmao ur probably not wrong

  • @tukkusaurus
    @tukkusaurus11 ай бұрын

    Anncy goes MIA on KZread and then comes out with the most horrible stories that make her take legal actions or a whole pup she hid for months…. Also, please don’t be upbeat to yourself, for all we know we are glad you got out of that relationship soon enough to realise you were better off taking care of yourself without a man who drains the energy off you. My jaw FELL ON THE FLOOR when you mentioned his sunsign because for some reason it’s always a LEO who goes out for younger women because women his age can see through his bs. The way they play with their words is painful and they always contact you via email to show they’ve gone the “extra mile” to be with you 🤡 thank the lord for you had your supportive friend group who you were still interacting with, very often these narcissists make you slowly cut off from everyone important in your life. Also, you were so real about the copying thing I crode, they’re so oblivious about it and if you call it out they’ll paint you as a self obsessed person like GURLLL YOU WERE DOING THINGS AFTER ASKING US HOW THEYD BE DONE and you want to live in a facade that the idea just randomly popped up in your mind one day?

  • @sayantikaghosh4240

    @sayantikaghosh4240

    11 ай бұрын

    It's not about Leo it's about white men most of the white women hate dating white men bcz this dude what to sleep with every women from this world and still go and act like a baby

  • @littleleah310

    @littleleah310

    11 ай бұрын

    Leo's ain't shit

  • @Leonorareviews

    @Leonorareviews

    11 ай бұрын

    Seriously are you an idiot? She isn’t getting views and came back with a crazy exaggerated story. Listen carefully- she named Priyanka and not the actual guy to shame her for NOTHING. She then says this dude is stalking her when she admits to stalking him. I hope he uses this video in court. She is a pathological liar. And she never had endometriosis- she has PCOS. She’s such a liar

  • @jaehyunstopruiningmybiaslist
    @jaehyunstopruiningmybiaslist11 ай бұрын

    anncy, ur story about the cyst brought tears to my eyes. the lack of empathy of real with narcissist men, they just dont care about anything except themselves. the first guy i ever confessed to had narcisstic traits, luckily i stopped talking to him just in time when his mask started to fall off, it irked me so much (we were in talking stage). everything u said in the video i totally understand and feel it. u really are a strong person, time will heal everything. thanks for sharing ur story. sending love to ur way girlie ❤

  • @AyeshaKhan-nx6xj

    @AyeshaKhan-nx6xj

    11 ай бұрын

    Yeahh literally I started crying

  • @Leonorareviews

    @Leonorareviews

    11 ай бұрын

    Literally Anncy lied so much in this video. “Beating endometriosis “ Bitch had PCOS. Endometriosis doesn’t just go away. There is no cure. This girl lies so much. She bullied Priyanka for no reason. Wake up.

  • @vaidehiszz
    @vaidehiszz11 ай бұрын

    Anncy you’ve come a long way and the fact that you are sharing this with us and telling girls the reality of such men is really amazing. You ARE very strong.

  • @zainahmed7485
    @zainahmed748511 ай бұрын

    It takes ALOT of courage and balls to speak up!!! I respect u soo much anncy 😭😭😭😭

  • @chillarypuff
    @chillarypuff10 ай бұрын

    GIRLLLLLLLLLLLL 9:19 - when I was cheated on. I woke up in the middle of the night with a really eerie and gross feeling that he was cheating. I looked at his phone (I had NEVER looked at his phone prior) under our pillow and I opened it to messages of him and a girl he had just taken on a date 2 days prior. Kicked him out of my apartment and never spoke to him again ❤

  • @aiguts

    @aiguts

    10 ай бұрын

    I know that it hurt and I’m sorry but you are a queen for that :)

  • @chillarypuff

    @chillarypuff

    10 ай бұрын

    @aiguts thank u babe it was 6 years ago and I am mostly healed ❤️

  • @naoedouard4422

    @naoedouard4422

    9 ай бұрын

    I hope you have a good day, know that JESUS died for you and loves you so very much!

  • @janaakilan3776
    @janaakilan377611 ай бұрын

    everything that comes out of her mouth is so real. I love her and how she deal with adversities, she so powerful and confident!!

  • @annahjaya700
    @annahjaya70011 ай бұрын

    If someone drugged my cat I would be arrested for first degree murder 😭😭😭wtf

  • @bloomy27

    @bloomy27

    11 ай бұрын

    Same frr I would make a whole car crash ain’t no way would be calm 😭

  • @spirosen.5558
    @spirosen.555811 ай бұрын

    From the moment you showed him to your story in Hawaii driving I was 1000% sure he was a frat boy and up to no good I’m so sorry it happened to you

  • @SB-no9pz

    @SB-no9pz

    11 ай бұрын

    who is he??

  • @vaishnavii_s_

    @vaishnavii_s_

    11 ай бұрын

    @@SB-no9pz seriously who is he? leaving this comment so if anyone finds out i will get to know.

  • @gabinksh

    @gabinksh

    11 ай бұрын

    Pls i want to know who is he ????

  • @shwetakumari1

    @shwetakumari1

    11 ай бұрын

    Whooo

  • @ayasavid9807

    @ayasavid9807

    11 ай бұрын

    I need to know too👀

  • @nfvy8111
    @nfvy811111 ай бұрын

    The Adderall thing is so true 😭😭😭 people overcomplicate it’s properties but I appreciate that you call it out as basically just a happy pill. You’re just constantly flooded with dopamine.

  • @naoedouard4422

    @naoedouard4422

    9 ай бұрын

    I hope you have a good day, know that JESUS died for you and loves you so very much!

  • @Ww28sbvf

    @Ww28sbvf

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@naoedouard4422...

  • @ani1528
    @ani152811 ай бұрын

    This video and this comment section feels like a warm hug. On one hand it sucks to know that there so many people undiagnosed people out here with NPD/ or a at least a lot of narcissistic traits running around and destroying a persons peace of mind, health, view on love and life on general. On the other hand though I am happy to know that I am not the only one who went through something similar. There were times where I felt alone and tbh crazy? Like am I tripping ? Is it all my fault? Sometimes I even felt like I am the narcissist because you get so brainwashed at one point it’s fucking scary what it does to your mental health. I’m glad that the whole topic is discussed more publicly. But there’s room for way more. NPD awareness should be taught in school, because often times NPD starts developing early on the childhood. There’s should be classes about mental health in general.. it’s really fucking needed man

  • @Anusha-fv8tz
    @Anusha-fv8tz11 ай бұрын

    you're sooo right about the age gap/romantic interest thing. it's the huugest red flag and I don't even know why people think it's debatable when it's a proven fact that most people in their early twenties are not fully developed brain-wise. i'm 20 rn and most people who are their thirties are authority figures like teachers and mentors. we literally have adolescent brains

  • @maryamgilani263
    @maryamgilani26311 ай бұрын

    Every single instance & point u mentioned here is ABSOLUTELY SPOT ON! Although I've never been in a romantic relationship with a narcissist, I've experienced a rly toxic friendship with one in the past, & to them, everything's competition & about asserting their superiority over u. Lacking empathy, circling every conversation back towards themselves, manipulating & making u feel insecure about yourself, they're great experts at hiding their toxic traits around other ppl. Although I felt happy for u during the Hawaii video, he did appear to be overly nice & complementary. Anyways, I'm rly glad u found your way out of such a horrible situation, it takes courage to do so, & YES PLZ share the Diana vlog, we'd LOVE to watch it 😂❤. Love u Anncy ❤!

  • @bunnywavyxx9524
    @bunnywavyxx952410 ай бұрын

    anncy youre literally smart and intuitive, + intelligent af for realizing this early on. this relationship lasted less than a year.

  • @Julia-xq2if
    @Julia-xq2if11 ай бұрын

    Girl I feel like with this story you just rediscovered the reason why we shouldn’t date… it’s awful out there lol

  • @marenwiederhold4718
    @marenwiederhold471811 ай бұрын

    Good for you for exposing him like this!! You deserve so much better!

  • @gmasha_qtr
    @gmasha_qtr10 ай бұрын

    I always thought my ex-husband was super selfish, but listening to your story makes me think he was more than that. I’m glad you’re out of that relationship, and I wish you all the happiness. PS: I’m 32, been single for 9 years, and not trying to be in a relationship anytime soon. I love being single and my personal struggles are already enough for me to deal with.

  • @loveliyah1996
    @loveliyah199611 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much nancy for bringing attention to all of this. I recently went through a similar situation as you. I wish someone would have told me about these narcissistic ppl out here. You explained it perfectly and I felt you on every level your not alone. Your such an open book I can relate so much to you.

  • @Introvers333
    @Introvers33311 ай бұрын

    The signs are so spot on and sometimes peculiar, by not sugarcoasting the truth it becomes clear overime. Thank you for your strength for sharing ❤️ this was the confirmation I needed to break the cycle I've had with narcissistic men. It's crazy I really do get flashbacks, at first ppl said my ex seemed innocent amd sweet but he was secretly the worst. I'd be throwing up coz stomach sensitivity and nothing! No reaction not even offering water. One time he was in a room playing games with a friend and his friend seemed more concerned than him. It's things like that I notice now was soo soo off and trust it only got worse overtime. I was taking care of him the manchild whilst grieving, I ended up homeless; the list goes on. Anyone reading if it feels off do speak to trusted ppl or seek professional advice if you can. As anncy said it's so important that females speak so we can better avoid this as it's so common! When I work up courage I'll someday share my own experience in a cutesy youtube video. Hope you all have a lovely day if you made it this far lol ☺️💫

  • @luluthesheep
    @luluthesheep11 ай бұрын

    im so proud of u girl!!! amazing advice from a 25 yo (im 22 and ive been watching you for years !!)

  • @vegancatlady1017
    @vegancatlady101711 ай бұрын

    A gamer man doesn’t mean he will be faithful. I was in a relationship with a gamer man”nerd” thinking he will be faithful. WRONG he paid for sex, he cheated multiple of times, he bought a girl a car, he compared me to his ex, & now under investigation for kiddie porn. If they are a gamer, I would be extremely careful& he won’t be a handy man either.

  • @Babigh0ulll

    @Babigh0ulll

    11 ай бұрын

    My ex too was a gamer man He was an NPD and this man had a weird obsession with posting his nudes on ⭐️hub even when he was a minor like he was obsessed with himself 😭 He cheated on me btw because I refused to send nudes and this man literally victimized himself and claimed I was a horrible girlfriend for not forgiving him. He called me weird for not wanting to be his friend Always using porn addiction was an excuse to make me uncomfortable 💀

  • @bloomy27

    @bloomy27

    11 ай бұрын

    Men are hopeless at this point

  • @mewybee

    @mewybee

    11 ай бұрын

    BOUGHT A GIRL A CAR ? THIS A WHOLE LOT TO UNPACK

  • @xxzcfdxc

    @xxzcfdxc

    11 ай бұрын

    Oh my gosh

  • @vegancatlady1017

    @vegancatlady1017

    11 ай бұрын

    @@mewybee it is!!

  • @francescabeeson
    @francescabeeson11 ай бұрын

    Anncy I am so sorry that you went through this, thank you for making this video. This guy sounds so much like my ex, spreading awareness of abusive relationships is so helpful and I know this video will help so many people. Sending you love x

  • @Sofia-hl8zi
    @Sofia-hl8zi11 ай бұрын

    the part where you spoke about how narcissistists project back onto the person was so true, and it reminded me of georgia hassarati from too hot to handle exposing harry jowsey for being a cheater and narcissist. she said that he would accuse her of cheating being unfaithful etc when he was the one doing it all along ! thank you for sharing your story and raising awareness on such an important topic, good on you for leaving ❤️

  • @asiyajama6340
    @asiyajama634011 ай бұрын

    No offense girl but during the Hawaii video his voice was soo annoying to me 😭😭 I was like there was no way he was attractive

  • @loleimi

    @loleimi

    11 ай бұрын

    IKR😭

  • @YutinTamang777

    @YutinTamang777

    11 ай бұрын

    I thought he was gay

  • @SB-no9pz

    @SB-no9pz

    11 ай бұрын

    who is heeee?

  • @YutinTamang777

    @YutinTamang777

    11 ай бұрын

    @@SB-no9pz the hawaii dude

  • @SB-no9pz

    @SB-no9pz

    11 ай бұрын

    @@YutinTamang777 yeah i mean what's his name?

  • @nuhatas3197
    @nuhatas319711 ай бұрын

    now i wanna see the guy

  • @Katedontsk8
    @Katedontsk811 ай бұрын

    I’ve been through something similar ❤ Ty for speaking out and warning others about these types of red flags. It really can escalate and turn into something nasty overtime.

  • @Ashahlayyy
    @Ashahlayyy11 ай бұрын

    Thank you for speaking about this. I’m currently going through this and don’t know how to deal with it. I actually feel more comfortable and hopeful now that I’ve listened to your story. Thank you❤

  • @AndreaAzerty

    @AndreaAzerty

    11 ай бұрын

    Please leave you deserve a better life

  • @haventchangedmypfpsince2009

    @haventchangedmypfpsince2009

    11 ай бұрын

    This is why we have to research who we are dating especially in 2023, imagine if you had a child or ended up getting married to someone after discovering all of this. Not everyone is hiding something, especially something this insane, but it's at a point where it's better to be safe than sorry. Cannot just peacefully trust anyone anymore. People are crazy CRAZY.

  • @NK-rf4db
    @NK-rf4db11 ай бұрын

    If God forbid my boyfriend would drug my pets?? he would be left handless! This is completely unforgivable, I would've broke up with him right there and then.

  • @mar35962
    @mar3596211 ай бұрын

    bro idk i just found your channel today and been binging your videos since afternoon and i cant believe i watched an hour long video of an influencer about their storytime, i never watch youtube and nothing in here grabs my attention but something about this channel makes me feel better and cope with my anxiety and depression. idk if it's because me also being a brown girl i feel closer to her and find her empowering and comforting. gonna come in your channel often from now whenever i'm having my panic attacks and random waves of sadness

  • @Suebee29
    @Suebee2911 ай бұрын

    I need to know who this guy is. Internet detectives, do your thing 😂

  • @niy._.

    @niy._.

    11 ай бұрын

    Plsss commenting so ik who it is when yall find out

  • @legume2316

    @legume2316

    11 ай бұрын

    For real

  • @ayasavid9807

    @ayasavid9807

    11 ай бұрын

    Me tooo

  • @curlypie8451

    @curlypie8451

    11 ай бұрын

    ??

  • @afreen7598

    @afreen7598

    11 ай бұрын

    same

  • @bloomy27
    @bloomy2711 ай бұрын

    I’m so so sorry you went through all that it’s so heartbreaking when you hear the stories about how he treated you , my heart goes to his 12 year victim she probably extremely traumatized by him

  • @birdy3421
    @birdy342111 ай бұрын

    Okay, so who here is gonna figure out who that scumbag is?

  • @hyunniecutie

    @hyunniecutie

    11 ай бұрын

    I wanna know too

  • @9yearoldbrofist780

    @9yearoldbrofist780

    11 ай бұрын

    Did anyone found out !

  • @Hyzhowo

    @Hyzhowo

    11 ай бұрын

    omg do let me know!!!!!

  • @damnmuggle

    @damnmuggle

    11 ай бұрын

    Rob_kard

  • @farawaayy

    @farawaayy

    10 ай бұрын

    hes on tt ytivegnol llebrab backwards

  • @cleobelpamienta9377
    @cleobelpamienta937711 ай бұрын

    YES WE WANT TO SEE THAT GRWM video! I just love how you empower people, specially women.

  • @on.the.dock.
    @on.the.dock.11 ай бұрын

    You could not have put this out at a better time. I just got out of something extremely similar of a relationship of 2 years. Sis, I understand bc I went thru it, but just like you once my eyes were opened I raaaaaaan tf away 🏃🏼‍♀️

  • @chiaram.1185
    @chiaram.118511 ай бұрын

    Girl I'm currently going through the court process of getting a safety order against my ex because of harassment and vandalism near my house/work after years of emotional and psychological abuse so I feel like this video will either be super good for me to hear, or break me lol

  • @sourbaby001

    @sourbaby001

    11 ай бұрын

    My ex took picture of me once without my consent when we were intimate. I dumped him. Lmao

  • @Batwoman2006

    @Batwoman2006

    11 ай бұрын

    Hope you are good now

  • @bunnywavyxx9524

    @bunnywavyxx9524

    10 ай бұрын

    @@sourbaby001 get him to admit it on a recording and you can get him arrested. thats disgusting glad you dumped him.

  • @bunnywavyxx9524

    @bunnywavyxx9524

    10 ай бұрын

    awful he threatened you after the years of abuse. please get that order and keep yourself safe.

  • @sourbaby001

    @sourbaby001

    10 ай бұрын

    @@bunnywavyxx9524 Gurl I'm scared

  • @janhavi6005
    @janhavi600511 ай бұрын

    I'm so scared to date or even talk to any boy 😭

  • @user-nq8yv5jc6o

    @user-nq8yv5jc6o

    11 ай бұрын

    Same! I'm 17 and I just can't😭

  • @incognitionx

    @incognitionx

    11 ай бұрын

    Girl don't, study a career and save a shitload while still working from it so you don't have to depend on anyone when you start dating & can leave whenever

  • @cherrypai44

    @cherrypai44

    11 ай бұрын

    literally dont lol. not until you are fully independent and you have the will power to walk away from any one at any moment.

  • @CC-kr3mr

    @CC-kr3mr

    11 ай бұрын

    Same

  • @gwencaster6485

    @gwencaster6485

    11 ай бұрын

    @@user-nq8yv5jc6o you're 17, don't worry about it !! Just try to not be intimitated by boys & men, but just try to avoid people who are mean, have tendencies to bully, are very self-obsessed and so on.. in general, once you perhaps start getting into relationships, don't put up with bad behaviour and especially with people who take no accountability

  • @a.s862
    @a.s86211 ай бұрын

    babe you’re so strong and girl boss for this. good on you giving that shit man the shit he deserves

  • @charkolaa
    @charkolaa11 ай бұрын

    love you so much anncy 💕 so glad you got out of that situation, it’s so frightening how many people this happens to 💔

  • @madisonrose1893
    @madisonrose189310 ай бұрын

    I don't think I've ever seen Anncy this serious. I'm so sorry this happened to you and so glad you got out. Thank you for sharing your story and raising an awareness on this. I don't know if I'll have the same courage if I ever been in this situation. Safe to say, I prefer to stay happy on my own.

  • @Luluthi
    @Luluthi11 ай бұрын

    I’m 35, single and no kids. Enjoying life.

  • @nuages8915

    @nuages8915

    11 ай бұрын

    Congrats u won

  • @Lauranessa1

    @Lauranessa1

    10 ай бұрын

    You so won! Wish I continue doing the same. Now I’m pregnant not sure how this relationship goes after finding shit out

  • @justarandomhuman6311

    @justarandomhuman6311

    10 ай бұрын

    Lucky

  • @Luluthi

    @Luluthi

    10 ай бұрын

    @@Lauranessa1 congrats on your pregnancy! I hope you have a strong support system around you to support you when you leave the relationship. It may feel like a struggle for you now with a baby on the way but think how rewarding it would be for you after. Life in general was a struggle for me in my 20s but I feel like I’m reaping the rewards now after years of my struggles. Good luck💪🏽

  • @Sjood-qs8ol
    @Sjood-qs8ol11 ай бұрын

    Anncy you could not have picked a better time to upload this. I needed this distraction rn from what I've got going on and I'm ready to dive in, I've been waiting for this since that podcast episode.

  • @renesmethrone
    @renesmethrone11 ай бұрын

    Damn that was a lot. You are so brave and strong and an inspiration to so many. Thank you for being so open with us! YOU make a difference and I love you so much.❤

  • @bridgetteteapp
    @bridgetteteapp11 ай бұрын

    thank you for sharing not even for the tea but it just shows dating is not the same anymore. You are GLOWING btw

  • @prashanshasingh9747
    @prashanshasingh974710 ай бұрын

    Omg cried remembering my time with a narcissist. Stay strong Anncy and keep spreading the strength.

  • @Auriellez
    @Auriellez11 ай бұрын

    GIRL!! Please be careful from now omg, we can’t lose you ever, this is so so scary, we’re so so glad you’re safe, you a bad b ❤

  • @taiyabazaheer9492
    @taiyabazaheer949211 ай бұрын

    If she's talking about the guy she went to Hawai with , then his voice alone was a red flag.

  • @meghanakrishna3842
    @meghanakrishna384211 ай бұрын

    The way she makes me laugh Gurl istg I love your humour!! and to make me smile at the same time giving a reality check is just amazing❤

  • @michebabs
    @michebabs11 ай бұрын

    I’m halfway through the video but Anncy you need to know you’re doing a public service by sharing this 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @rojisharasaily1789
    @rojisharasaily178911 ай бұрын

    OMGF i used to get so many dreams of my ex cheating and he was bruh women’s intuition is so real

  • @Sophia-ex7fu
    @Sophia-ex7fu11 ай бұрын

    Reminding myself to stay single and never trust a man ever. Honestly i've seen my fair share of such men too. Im sorry you had to go through sh*t like this. You did not deserve this :( nobody does

  • @khushikotwani1519
    @khushikotwani151911 ай бұрын

    I am just glad that you are here because the moment u said that he was out of your apartment at 10pm i fucking got scared and u handled it so bravely HATTS OFF , WOMEN👑

  • @christinatudor6880
    @christinatudor688011 ай бұрын

    I got them chillssss when you mentioned he put you to sleep. Man thats insane, i really hope you’re safe, take care boo💗💀

  • @WhoElseWillIHaveIceCreamWith
    @WhoElseWillIHaveIceCreamWith11 ай бұрын

    Anncy, PLEASE post the video where you dressed up and confronted him!!! I'm all here for it

  • @krystalfernandez8566
    @krystalfernandez856611 ай бұрын

    I think the most important thing here is keeping friends close & that supportive group of people in your life. People can see things from an outside perspective that people who are in a relationship like this or another type can’t.

  • @saanvit109
    @saanvit10911 ай бұрын

    I'm sorry u had to go through all that, you are such an inspiration

  • @asmasiddiqui8285
    @asmasiddiqui828511 ай бұрын

    OMG, I have watched your videos since the start of your channel. I know the whole video is about the cheating story time, but I felt so bad that you had to go through the pain of your cyst bursting with a horrible person beside you. I feel so sad, please take care of yourself. Warm hugs to you🥺❤️

  • @Nobodynobody-tf4kg
    @Nobodynobody-tf4kg11 ай бұрын

    Its so true...i didnt feel myself at all when i was in a relationship,also havent felt myself since,i would have mental breaksdowns every month,dont stay tied down to an addict.

  • @labibashahid3066
    @labibashahid306611 ай бұрын

    Girl I just broke up with an almost 28 yr old as a 22 yr old, and I got over him in 2 days and felt guilty that I’m already moving onto others but this just validated and healed me so much!!

  • @sanax98
    @sanax988 ай бұрын

    GIRL he wanted to BE YOU. Those men are scary af. It's giving insecure..

  • @paramvirsandhu3556
    @paramvirsandhu355611 ай бұрын

    POST THE CONFRONTATION NOW.

  • @Luluthi
    @Luluthi11 ай бұрын

    Please tell us who he is so that us women who knows you will avoid him like a plague

  • @lilflowerrpetal
    @lilflowerrpetal11 ай бұрын

    Anncy, I’ve been through something very similar in the past.. thank you for bringing awareness and sharing your story. Also you look gorgeous and glowing 🩷

  • @pripri009
    @pripri00911 ай бұрын

    Your explanation on NPD is spot on! 👏

  • @babygorl9798
    @babygorl979811 ай бұрын

    girl you ate with the advices, literally evaporated my feelings for someone weird like this

  • @beautyandbrainz
    @beautyandbrainz11 ай бұрын

    Until you are officially in a committed relationship with a man, don’t make him your everything. Continue to meet other men. Otherwise, if there’s no label you can’t be that surprised he’s talking to other women.

  • @letyv9071
    @letyv907111 ай бұрын

    Just when I thought your story was crazy it would get crazier. Giving my dog drugs would make me want to strangle him, he is full on crazy. Anncy don’t be shy, give us at least his initials❤️❤️

  • @kritrosebouquet
    @kritrosebouquet11 ай бұрын

    girl his voice sounded like nails on a chalkboard, i'm surprised that alone wasn't enough to get rid of him

  • @hlz191

    @hlz191

    11 ай бұрын

    Lmaooo his voice was so annoying, high-pitched and nasally. I could tell he didn’t have an ounce of masculinity in him 💀

  • @3RACHASUPREMACY

    @3RACHASUPREMACY

    11 ай бұрын

    EXACTLY the biggest ick...she dodged a bullet 😭

  • @AlexaMontelongo-ld5ob

    @AlexaMontelongo-ld5ob

    4 ай бұрын

    WHO IS IR

  • @cheesechao9071
    @cheesechao907111 ай бұрын

    SHE’S BACKKKKKK!!!

  • @starrailsunday
    @starrailsunday11 ай бұрын

    I’m so happy u got out of that relationship Anncy. 😭 Sm women get stuck in unhappy relationships or marriages and yet society still tries to tell us that singlehood is bad or makes you less than. I’d rather be happily single, independent, and living my life than wasting my time with most men these days

  • @WestCoastg818
    @WestCoastg81811 ай бұрын

    Yes, unfortunately, I married and had kids with a narcissist, and he was exactly how you are saying they are, he was good tho, becasue he had his true self for 2 years ... I am 31 years old and I just separated from him recently. It was hard but I don't cry everyday anymore, and no more holidays and birthdays are ruined, no more abuse or gaslighting..so that's great and the kids are safe with me. Yes please post more about this and yeah, Dr. Romani I definitely am familiar with already lol

  • @wildchicxo
    @wildchicxo11 ай бұрын

    We are happy that you came out of this ❤❤ idk if you have these kinds of thoughts that a strong smart woman like you ended up in something like this situation.. but you have to remember that this is okay , it gave you an experience despite its being painful❤ also we want that Diana grwm video😊😂

  • @TwinkleStanly
    @TwinkleStanly11 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂 I dreamt of getting cheated on in Oct 2020, found out the truth on December 2022 so YES, the dreams are true

  • @priyapixi

    @priyapixi

    11 ай бұрын

    This happen to me 😅

  • @SL-ze6su

    @SL-ze6su

    11 ай бұрын

    We can choose to ignore red flags but unconsciously our dreams will call us out

  • @lahdb4047
    @lahdb404711 ай бұрын

    IM SO HAPPY 1 WHOLE JOUR OF ANNCY😩😭

  • @aishwaryasankhe6018
    @aishwaryasankhe601811 ай бұрын

    the part when you said women are made to face pain and suffering you're so real for that ily anncy💛

  • @tear_tea
    @tear_tea11 ай бұрын

    My mother refuses to leave my narcissistic father. I’m literally done so tired.