Try to interview this woman again. She’s a strong willed and hardworking woman. Some men don’t know how to love and appreciate these type of women. She’s fantastic woman who can give a man so many ideas to be successful in life and marriage.

@AbenaFrempoma-jb2vr

6 ай бұрын

Say that again hmmmm,is seems like ur talking about me. We the good women don't get a good men. God should help us

Strong woman 😊. I like how she keeps a straight face when the host is laughing 😃

If she doesn't want to teach her children the Ghanaian language it's her choice and we all have to respect that.

Well spoken Sis ! l was in London for thirty yrs I never had any party or bought any car but I have now moved back to Ghana doing very well.

This lady is 100% about Ghanaians in abroad . When I came to The U S , I mingled with many Ghanaians and I had a big problem . Gossip is food for Ghanaians in abroad . If you are not careful you can be depressed out of gossip .

@Gazzza416

Жыл бұрын

Hmmm my boss same thing here bro. Normally we should be happy abroad but jealousy and competition steals our peace.

@maryadoma7121

8 ай бұрын

U said it all, I do hair so I know what you r talking about, so true

It is her way, her experience and her life! Let's live our life and allow others to live their life in a way they like without judgment. Strong woman, ambitious and a go getter. Hate her or love her!

This Beautiful lady or a woman is speaking through experience but she has a lot of Pain in her heart,Lord have mercy on us 🙏 🙏🙏😭😭she Loves her peoples Ghanaian ❤️ that's why she speaking like that ❤️

@mikelantern148

Жыл бұрын

Yes she has a lot of pain in her heart. Hmm

@jackieasante1055

Жыл бұрын

And her pain is reflecting in how she is bringing up her kids.its really sad😔

I don't know what to say to this woman. She is soooooooo power power power powerful!!!!!!!

There's absolutely no downside to you or your kids learning their native language whether twi, ga, ewe, dagbani or other languages. It MAY (emphasis on the may) actually make them feel isolated from Ghanaians when they grow up. They also might resent the parent for not teaching them. This not a good thing at all in my opinion but to each their own I guess 🤷🏿‍♂️

A case of lost cause. Self hate is real. Ashamed of her identity and just giving excuses to mask it.

@myztroogeegibson3568

Жыл бұрын

Identity crises...

My people the lady is telling us the truth trust me , we Ghanaians are somehow Hatred is our hallmark 😢 We don’t wanna see our natives growing in life It’s better u get away from them or be very wise with them coz it’s not easy among us out here

Thank you DJ Nyame for bringing us these interviews it makes us hear what others have been through.

I salute this lady 👏, if you have seen hunger before, you don't fear any obstacles, you will do it for survival, not in a bad way but the good way.

This is nonsense we all have kids here in Europe am not an Akan but my kids do speak than me am an hausa everywhere they goes they will say they are Ghanaians show the proofs they speak the language Name does not matter

@gerardaidoo4321

Жыл бұрын

My children speak Twi, but will not force them to learn the Twi. What's it for in Europe? I speak only English with my daughter 😜

@sarahadjei4561

Жыл бұрын

Not everyone has children because an one of those people, who hasn't got any children.

This woman make sense on some of the issues,but others enko yie koraaaa. The stress syndrome is over displayed. Hmmm God have mercy

My son is 6yrs and he’s very brilliant in school and he loves to speak Twi even in front of his American friends. It’s not bad to teach your kids an African language.

I wish I can have Ghanaian friends but my experience with them hasn’t been good, so I’m scared 😢

@sarahadjei4561

Жыл бұрын

Not only you. I also felt the same way during my school days.

@Fabuloushere..

Жыл бұрын

Lol that’s sad. But don’t give up.

@desiresoul5359

Жыл бұрын

@@mohmmedapprey3787 🤣😂😂😂 say it again

@desiresoul5359

Жыл бұрын

@@Fabuloushere.. hmmm is not easy oooh

I meet a lot of people in Europe with African parents who now wish they were more connected to their roots but they feel lost. Most of them don’t feel fully accepted by the Europeans even if they were born there . It’s only our people who have this mentality, I’ve never met a German, French, Chinese (whatever) living in another country who will say they won’t speak their language with their kids . It’s not something to be proud of in my opinion

@The-Neutral

Жыл бұрын

You are right. They will blame their mother when they grow up. In this global world that we live in, it's an advantage to speak multiple languages, and it's even easier when young. She is using her emotions to deny her kids education

@samuelboamah9429

Жыл бұрын

She is making a big mistake 😂

@ministerg1258

Жыл бұрын

Your absolutely spot on! It's always best to teach your children(foreign Ghanian borns)the Mother language.Because they where born in the western world,you need to learn them the Ghanian language so they can get grips & be aquainted with the culture.

@twumasijoseph2752

Жыл бұрын

Ghanaians de3..the way some fool paa

@jackieasante1055

Жыл бұрын

Her situation is crazy and I feels sad for those children

This lady is excellence, bold focus and determined

What she’s saying is very true about Ghanaians. The percentage she gave kraa she’s done well mpo. They are very quick to judge. Am also in Belgium,gent to be precise

I love this woman. She is honest.

I keep on watching this video over and over. She is very very very GREAT !!!!

Nice interview and I really second his views and opinions

I like to hear true stories like her story. She's a strong woman. I hope her husband returns and she accepts him back.

I love this interview and love what she said

My cousin and her family live in Austria. All the four children were born in Austria and the kids were taught and speak impeccable Fante. Thus, they feel at home when they come down for holidays. There are some Ghanaian children born and living in Ghana who can only speak English. We shouldn't make mistakes that we may regret in future. As our children grow their perspective about life changes and they would wish their parents had taught them their native language.

@veraaddoyobo8482

Жыл бұрын

It's ridiculous that some Ghanaians living in Ghana don't want their children to speak their own language, Some don't even know where they're from or their heritage, Ghanaians are lost

@patiencedensu7234

Жыл бұрын

Very true

She's a pure ❤️ person

In my opinion there's no way I will give my children to nursery and return back to work in 3 months in abroad. There's more to life than chasing money. I remember working 8am-10pm every day until I realised my son knows his nanny more than me and paying expensive nursery fees using the same money, that's when I said never again. Not to be rude but she looks older than 36 and I believe it all down to running around and having so many children within short spaces of time. Our body needs to recover as women. I have met some Amazing Ghanaians in UK, same as worse ones. Sometimes it get lonely and you need your little community to be by your side. I remember when my mum died, although I live in all white community, my Ghanaian folks drove almost 3 hours to come and see me.

@princekwartengadomako2389

Жыл бұрын

She is working more than her strength.

@SamSung-yx2pj

Жыл бұрын

But don't forget she has given birth to Nine (9) Children!Wow!!

@goddessgh8770

Жыл бұрын

@Sam Sung yes that what I meant. The body worn out as you overuse it.

@SamSung-yx2pj

Жыл бұрын

@@goddessgh8770 That's true though, but it's still incredible at this time and age nine kids at 36years 😲

@francisosei4590

Жыл бұрын

Black mentality that is what always keep as poor there is nothing wrong to work three months after giving birth

This woman 🌹 is leading the videos . Just 1 day over 13 thousand views. Wowwwww bring her again on. Another topic.

You are 💯 right and truthful sister 👍 stay bless (mooi dag )

Nice interview, very educated. God bless you Mummy

My dear, it’s good to teach your children how to speak your local language. Even if they can’t speak , let them understand the language when someone speaks it One day they’ll blame you for not teaching them

I know this lady n I seriously respect her. She is really brave

Strong and wise lady. Wish the very best for you.

I like her vibes and confidence😂

This lady is 💯 correct. God bless her sister for the sacrifice. I thank God for my brother to ❤.

This lady has no bitterness in her heart. God bless her.

I love you from a far Vida . You er my idol as a young woman in Belgium but you don’t knw enpo. Well done mama👌🏾⚡️⚡️😍

She's right. Very wise woman and smart.

Some of them are abroad ask them the fun places in that city they don't know, they give birth to their children there but they will never take them to Chuckie cheese,sesame park,dorney, and Disney, all they know is building 2,3,4 houses in Ghana at the expense of their children happiness so when they see your children happy because you make life fun for them then they will start asking, do you have a house in Ghana if you say No then know that you going to be the topic for discussion, and if you say I have one they will tell you one is not enough, why? don't you have family back home who are living in there so you have to build another,so most of our children are miserable like ourselves and jealous like their parents, sometimes even when I take my children to fun places I have to warn them not discuss it with their cousins at church because their moms will start gossiping, that all she knows (won bo bra) even when I go to the salon someone intentionally come and ask you how much you spent ,woe onto you if you tell them the price,hmmmmm ,one thing they don't realize is that not every one comes from a poor family in Ghana is not everyone who is desperate, some of us just want to be happy and enjoy life, and the little we can we do.God is also Blessing me.and very content I don't need 5 houses to prove anything to anybody.

@SamSung-yx2pj

Жыл бұрын

Love This

@jackieasante1055

Жыл бұрын

Well said oo she is just building funeral homes in Ghana .3 houses and you not even going to live there?it's crazy 😒

@ellenagyei-tuffour1631

Жыл бұрын

Love your comment dear. I’m a newbie in Europe and I’m learning a lot. Thanks so much

@patienceyankey3573

Жыл бұрын

Well said....love this

@kwameopoku3576

Жыл бұрын

Beautiful comment as someone birn to gh parents in London we were talking about it that alot of gh and naij parents have no social life just work home and occasional gossip from church

The reason why I think people get jealous of others is because others give too much information to other people about themselves esp information about the things they have achieved and other things they are about to achieve. Such information is supposed to be confidential. Otherwise, jealousy and envy.

@Gazzza416

Жыл бұрын

You’re right

It's even worse in the UK.. about 2% Ghanaians are good.

This is a soul sister

The most important thing is, she brings them to Ghana. It's just a matter of time, they will learn the language cos she speaks it. She doesn't need to teach them, they will learn.

I respect her views

That’s horrible to bring your kids in to social media fight and to go as far as to give out the children’s phone number is ridiculous. Shame on anyone who called your children

i love her principle and lifestyle

Chale Chale I feel this woman waaaa. Brave enough. Hard woman

I like this woman 👍I have really enjoyed this interview

She spoke so well of her siblings

Being able to speak many languages is an advantage, and it opens doors. Her kids might, one day, may blame her for denying them the chance to learn other languages. And it's easier when learned at a younger age. She should not allow her emotions to make her deny her kids the chance to learn. Some white people are learning twi and other African dialects. Imagine your kid getting an international appointment in ghana and not being able to relate to his people. And for their own safety, it's better to understand twi so that they can listen to what's going on around them.

@tonytony2660

Жыл бұрын

You right...I know some myself..they will insult her for that

@doriswilliams8602

Жыл бұрын

Being multi lingual is a great advantage. It opens up one’s mind to think and problem solve using various forms of strategies. I had some Ghanaian children tell me that they regret that their parents didn’t teach them to speak Ghana language. I hope this lady sees these posts. In any case she seems very focused and hardworking.

@The-Neutral

Жыл бұрын

@mountzion2018 there are ghanaians everywhere. Trust me there will be a time where they would want to relate to that ghanaian heritage. Africa is becoming cool again. From music to sports to movies to entertainment. When it hits them, they will blame their mother for shielding them and not allowing them to at least understand the language. To each its own

@mikelantern148

Жыл бұрын

@@mountzion2018regardless it’s an advantage. Twi or Ga language is spoken in Belgium as well.

@Holocaust1

Жыл бұрын

What appointment are u talking abt , mostly they don't wana involve themselves in Ghana stuffs cos of those criminalised and corruption and their work they do there gives them money more than here in Ghana

My boss one's advice me ..not to take advice from someone that's in pain or bitter.... let's wisdom speak

God bless you Vida ❤❤❤

Ei Vida you are brave oo. I really like you. God bless you for the hard work.

I like how strong she is & hard working 💪. I love hard working & forceful ladies. Eight kids overseas hmmmmmm, she ve done well ooo, cos its definitely not easy. But she ve lots of bitterness in her but is good to becareful though.

Wooow…Sexyvida,am proud of you 🥹🥰🤜🏽You are such a strong woman 💪🏾God Bless You And Keep You🙏🏼

Well noted sister advise Well taken

The age got me rolling 😂 ei ewiase y3 hu oooo boi . 14 years pregnant to Europe 😂 ei mama 😂

@ginalethremus6597

Жыл бұрын

Dycl

@nanaama7695

Жыл бұрын

I was wondering 🤔

This lady is saying the truth, fear your fellow black man

Keep up the good dear

It’s so true it’s every where

Very deep hmmm..🌿🌺🎄

DJ nyaami said nkwae no 😂😂😂😂. Hmmm It’s well Interesting interview

I have always believed that people that run away from their own and speak of such deep resentment hate themselves because they are not happy to be who they are.

I have watched this video over and over.

I like the way she talks

It’s always advantageous to know many languages. Today Africans and African Americans are visiting and moving to Ghana and many wish they know or understand the language. The more you travel the more knowledgeable you become. But it’s true Ghanaians are quite judgmental and like to gossip too much. Christianity and religion also plays a role in Ghanaians being judgmental.

Does why we will be called slaves in someone's land. You have destroyed their culture and identity. Which german kid doesn't speak his language or which Japanese kids does speak his language. Let wise up blacks

What this LADY VIDA is saying is 100% TRUE!!! IF YOU WANT TO GO FAR, SHINE YOUR EYES

that's a strong woman

Very true, same in uk Germany jealousy is killing most of them.

Thank you madam

Wow, she is great woman

I love this woman ❤

My major concern is her failure to teach the kids their mother tongue. These kids are innocent of what she has gone through.

Interesting ♥♥♥

She’s telling the truth paaaa

She is very eloquent with the Twi language but why is she denying her children the chance to speak Twi?Anyway, she has a reason for doing that

@gastonakouete6650

Жыл бұрын

All what the lady is saying about most Africans abroad is very true. Jealousy, backbiting, Konkonsa etc. are things that spoil marriages in the white man’s country

Try and teach them wai ...They are still from Africa

🔥🔥🔥My GEE 💪🏻

Straight . Thats gospel .

THIS LADY IS VERY RIGHT. ABOUT GHANAIANS ABROAD.

God bless you

She is 100% you don't mix with GH people.

Wow!!! this is a tough lady.

All languages belongs to God... Tut zin

She is soo sweet. ❤️❤️❤️

Hmmmmm Ey3 as3m There's Mensah in every society (Efie biara Mensah wom) Gossip and jealous every where People will talk about your glory but not your hustling. Tuaaaaa

I love this woman paa

I can see the woman is really hurt 😭😭

Imagine working hard, building three houses you'll never live in. Ghanaians and our default thinking, lol. Oh well, she said she bought one where she wants to live, so at least, it's a plus.

Blessed Vida

She looks 50yrs.Eii madam too many kids for u!

@V2CRIP.11

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. I think it's the glasses. She definitely look older than her age x

@jackieasante1055

Жыл бұрын

I know I was shocked when she said she is 35yrs.I was like what .too much babies and hustling life has drain her.

@QueenTee

Жыл бұрын

It’s her abroad age I guess😅

Greetings from 🇬🇭 Ghana.......

Open minded woman...i like her vibez...

She is genius

Sis vida all the way

“S3 3kcm ade wo da a” I like that phrase

Yes she is right. Our people are wicked 🇩🇪

sad one charging your husband to pay you before sleeping with you. serious one