This man if you had self control, you wouldn't be in this mess. You have a wife and children why bring a strange woman into your home and bear another child. A lady that knows you are married and still chooses to have an affair with you is morally bankrupt. Two morally bankrupt people brought an innocent child to the world only to use the child as a pawn. So sad when adults behave like dummies.

@cypriannoble8391

10 күн бұрын

This cheating thing must be addressed. Bringing a child into the world when you don't have the means to do so is very wrong. Forget the Europeans that brought a culture which they themselves couldn't keep to Africans is laughable. This word 'cheating' must be revisited.

@estherabiodunomolara7043

9 күн бұрын

Thank you for this wonderful speech

@blessingobhiose9636

9 күн бұрын

You are very correct. This days, I fear girls in Lagos putting asunder to marriage. This girl is just evil and she got what she planned from her evil hrt😢😢😢

@peterchikwe1496

9 күн бұрын

God bless you

@moneymanakuh5234

9 күн бұрын

​@@blessingobhiose9636she's very evil and I hope the court can do a DNA test

I don't pity for Men like this, faithfulness pays alot.

Is there anytime these people are "salary earners"? Always looking for excuses

@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767

10 күн бұрын

His preeq is a steady fucker but he is not a salary earner

The lady as well should support. She knew he is married. They should both pay for their unfaithfulness.

@usenborpatience1653

9 күн бұрын

She is also paying. It's not the money he is sending that she's using for the child upkeep. He should have been more careful since he knows he is married

@soniaemmanuel1500

8 күн бұрын

Did you really listen to where the lady said she'll support with his 30k?

@Ms_O

16 сағат бұрын

you think 5 to 10k takes care of a child?

So she's meant to be fully aware that youre married with kids but you dont have to be fully aware of that same fact?

@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767

10 күн бұрын

Very mumu man. U d man dat is married refused 2 know u r married, but u xpect d woman 2know it. Yeye fowl 🐔

@swiftoutcrygaming3297

10 күн бұрын

You spoke my mind

If I were this guy, I will ask the other wife to take me to the same court. So the court can decide on how much this woman should be getting 😆😆😆😆

Having children from multiple women in this Nigeria economy is deadly. Especially when the other gender are looking for who will bank roll them. I pity this man.

@Ebs199

9 күн бұрын

Very deadly indeed!

@AntomichKornev

9 күн бұрын

God bless you, i really pity the Man...........and the judgement was kind of one sided.....issue of access to the child by the father was not discussed......

@evelinek.4493

9 күн бұрын

I don’t he made a choice to lay with another woman without protection, he is an adult. It take two to make a baby

@Mirabel122

9 күн бұрын

@@AntomichKornevdidn’t you watched and understand when the judge 👩‍⚖️ said that he must come with a clean hands if really his intention is clear?? Make una rest Abeg

@ogoodenyi7734

8 күн бұрын

Was he forced to sleep out?

The man is so humble ❤❤❤

@providenceakpa3342

10 күн бұрын

He has no choice

@MatPentest

9 күн бұрын

But his manhood is not humbe

@adebobadoye8320

9 күн бұрын

His inability to express himself firmly put him at a disadvantage; He messed up by fathering a child he couldn't afford 2. He wasn't sharp and firm in negotiating his monthly responsibility...He should have sought a Lawyer's advice before coming.

The guy should request DNA. A woman should not sow a seed of doubt in a man's mind. No DNA, no Upkeep. Full stop.

@Naijalegend1

9 күн бұрын

While I am not against DNA, women say a lot of rubbish when they’re angry. Until recently, the mother of my children was denying their paternity, me I was not bothered because of how much the children resembled me. Women are emotional while men are logical. This gives us men the responsibility to display maturity at all times.

@chidimmanwajiobi4981

8 күн бұрын

Exactly... especially when the lady has by conduct brought doubt ...

@chidimmanwajiobi4981

8 күн бұрын

​@@Naijalegend1No matter what, no woman should raise such a doubt..

Judge Fumi should redress this matter and give the man access to his child. He didn't denial the child. Judge this isn't fair. Give him access let his other children bind with their sister.

@swiftoutcrygaming3297

9 күн бұрын

Throughout the entire process she kept repeating that the law grants custody to the woman but gives access to the children to both the man and the wife. The current stage of the child hardly raise that issue. If the child were of school age or where he could come and pick the child to spend holiday she would have addressed that. If he wants to see the child with the mother he can make that arrangement. What kind of bonding can a 2 year old have with the older kids at this stage? We don't expect the mother to drop a child of 22 months with him and another wide and her kids, even for a day? He didn't make any strong issue about not having access to the baby. He didn't cite any instance when he requested access and the lady denied him? He just made a general Statement. The lady herself knows from the court that she cannot deny him that access. What judge Funmi is saying is that he should commit to fulfilling his obligations first to demand the right to access.

@opeolojo5978

9 күн бұрын

From what I gathered, his wife and children don't reside in Lagos, so the bonding between the kids might be a bit challenging. And the issue there is, how far are we certain his wife agrees to the bonding?

How come judge did not address the man complaint that he has been denied access to her daughter. Atleast give him visitation rights. The judge focused on only what the man has to give neglecting his emotional imbalance.

This girl knows what she's doing, and isn't fair 😒

@HeyMe75

10 күн бұрын

@@janeumoru9173who said he didn’t have a job?

@providenceakpa3342

10 күн бұрын

@jane, I don't get it... Did anyone send him message?

@PromiseNwankwo-cu9nx

10 күн бұрын

How ?I don’t understand

@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767

10 күн бұрын

​@@janeumoru9173 He has no job, yet his preeq has bin working full-time, innit ? He has a family. He didn't focus on his family and decided 2 b fuckin upandan.

@swiftoutcrygaming3297

10 күн бұрын

​@@janeumoru9173What is not fair? So what is fair is to be sending 5k to her to take care of the baby per month? Did she force him into her? She knows that he has other family, but he didn't know he has his family before taking her as a partner to cohabit? You are not looking at the matter from the point of view of the welfare of the baby.

I don’t know why you’d be broke and still wants to have another wife. Now the girl set a trap for her, the child might even be his. She only dated him to put the child on him & after giving birth she left & drag her to court for upkeep. I hope my fellow man learns

@austinosayande1013

3 күн бұрын

All dis ur personal pronoun usage is worst than d case

This lady is smarter and knows what she's doing. Should the other children now suffer beyond this child? Is this one a gold and the others wood?

be careful who U sleep with

Trouble sleep, yanga go wake am 😂 Bros prick don put am for wahala.

@kennedyirogue3041

10 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@heavensent197

10 күн бұрын

I am not even Nigerian, but I understand your comment and it's funny 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

@blessingobhiose9636

9 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂big wahala. E nu go do again 😂😂😂

One thing I will never understand is why two poor adults will decide to bring in a child into this kind of economy , make it makes sense please

If you have a good wife, peaceful home , oga maintain your lane,,,😅😅

@idayatsulaimon5624

7 күн бұрын

For where? they no go hear lailai,

Next time he wouldn’t cheat on his wife

@Eteawan

10 күн бұрын

This guy just put himself in unnecessary problem. Just be responsible and stay with your family. No they will claiming “I’m a man “ nwanu

@ecitychurch

10 күн бұрын

But it was a woman he cheated with. Asuming the man is no more and she herself does not even have a job what would had happened? I think women should learn more to be content and stay with a man that is not single instead of thinking the married men have more to offer than the single guys

@Adugbo

10 күн бұрын

Now I learn a lesson not to cheat on my wife again.make I no put myself in dungeon of life forever.

@bebebe7666

10 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂​@@Adugbo

@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767

10 күн бұрын

​@@ecitychurch D woman who cheated has no bizness with d wife. It's d man who has a responsibility 2b faithful. He is d one cheating. D woman isn't married 2 anyone so she isn't cheating on anyone. D man has a wife, so he's d one cheating on his wife. If u r not ready 2 b faithful, don't get married.

Hats up to the father. The lady is just being petty. When the person is not a salary earner, the payment should be based on the minimum wage and the court must give credit for the other children.

@suppaprosolutions6639

7 күн бұрын

Kudos to the Dad for cheating while married. Clap 👏🏾 for him. Hats up to the father, the lady should have just swallow the pill of being cheated on. Christopher Edjebah, Urhobo waadoo eeehh Weldon

Disadvantages of side chicks, learn to be content with what you have

The child should be given to the man for absolute upkeep. Let him collect the child from the lady

Serves him right. Next time he won't foolishly live with another woman when he has a wife.

I am sure the judge forgot to address the issue of having access to the child

@swiftoutcrygaming3297

10 күн бұрын

He didn't complain about that. If he said he has been giving her cash, it means he has been seeing her physically. He knows where she lives and he didn't complain she has been dodging him. She only doesn't want him calling her bcos of the insults.

@tayoowolabi-rk2qd

10 күн бұрын

She actually did but she said if the man didn't take responsibility of the child it seems compelling the woman to allow the man access to the child wouldn't be justified

@Ms_O

16 сағат бұрын

I think so too...she is a strong advocate of both parent access to children

He has children at ogun state then have another outside matrimony, he must take care of all his children. Omo bere, osi bere!

It's time for men to have sense. Whether you leave abroad like me or in Nigeria, avoid desperate women, lock or zip your trouser to prevent bringing an innocent child/children into the world especially when you cannot afford to take care of your responsibility. The LAW does not favor US men when it comes to child support. They will make you pay thru your nose 👃 PLEASE BE GUIDED

@peacefrank7781

10 күн бұрын

Excellent advice/ comment

@bebebe7666

10 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@ferdinardemily1850

10 күн бұрын

Noted and accepted. Thanks alot

@bobbettewilliamson2850

10 күн бұрын

Agree pay it through u nose exactly

Good job Judge Funmi

This taking care of a child needs to be revised. She fully knows this man get fam. She needs to be some responsibility of bringing this child into the 🌍. This victim of a thing needs to be reviewe and reviewed

@ibukunolajide2487

10 күн бұрын

So the man doesnt know he has children before sleeping arround. He knows better and it's all his fault if he sticked to his wife, he wont be in this mess. That's the consequence of adultry

@usenborpatience1653

9 күн бұрын

Make una continue playing. So the man that knows he has a lot to lose could not keep his gbola one place or make sure he uses protection when he wants to do? He is the one that should be more careful. Law no send u message.

Consequences of resigning to cheat Kiki please go maintain the child. What can 1k per day do huh.

Una go dey born anyhow later we'll hear God will provide

"That is the issue" man! Judge Funmi is so skillful!

First of all Go & do DNA.

He had the choice of a vasectomy ....... 😌

How it started was when he travelled for a week no calls no texts messages and if i call him he will not pick up until, he came back one day and all he told me was that i should be preparing that we are traveling to port Harcourt .when we reached Port Harcourt he stopped taking care if me and my children,even to bring money for food he will send five thousand naira for two weeks and if i call him again he will start causing me and calling me all sorts of names .My neighbors are the ones that do help me and my children but he have a second wife which he gives money everyday and i and my children manage 5,000 for two Weeks

As I'm watching this video I started getting angry 😡 this is just unfair

The man is too nice. He need to do DNA test.

@HeyMe75

10 күн бұрын

That man is nice? Wow, Nigeria most have horrible men.

@godschild2-yd3jy

10 күн бұрын

He is not nice because he cheated on his wife!

@user-vq9os9kh9r

10 күн бұрын

What is your definition of nice? How do you address a man who lack self discipline, control and cheated on his wife a nice man? You must be an adulterer .

@blessingobhiose9636

9 күн бұрын

Pls judge fumi, save this man and let DNA be conducted. This little girl just outsmart this man for her personal gain😠😠😠

Next time Zip up if you cant fend for another mouth effectively. The law is right on this one, its not about emotional sentiments.The father is the primary care giver of any child

If I bring up my girl child so she is attractive to a married man WITH children and she goes AND becomes pregnant by him, AND then, she cannot maintain that child on her own, then I have not done a good job. :(

@siphamandlamkhize9766

10 күн бұрын

Well life happens regardless, if u were a good parent or not,and sometimes it has nothing to do with being a good or a bad parent...

He has to pay the price of unfaithfulness. He must fend for his child, period.

The man no just get money...

@heavensent197

10 күн бұрын

Shouldn't be having kids u can't support 😢😢😢😢😢😢

I didn't hear Judge order her to give him access to his child...or is it me?

@ecitychurch

10 күн бұрын

The judge messed up in that aspect. You deny a man access to his kid and still want him to take full responsibilities?

@WHAT-DOES-THE-BIBLE-SAY

10 күн бұрын

The man should be liable to whatever judgement that is passed on him. You have wife and children but still chose to sleep with a strange woman. This is the result. Men should be very careful. The law will never favour you. Whatever you see, take it like that.

@usenborpatience1653

9 күн бұрын

​@@ecitychurchshe cannot deny the guy access because she knows the law is against it.

The people on here saying is unfair, you must be high on some kind of Kool-Aid. Child support is a must in the event of divorce. Your brothers and sisters in the Western world experience paying monthly and if they don’t then jail is beckoning depending on their state’s law.

This judgement is not fair,this man is not bad.

@AntomichKornev

9 күн бұрын

she was not fair with the judgement at all, this very judgement is one sided....if the woman has to be the one to provide everything, what will the woman be doing??? nonsense

@ainaoladoyinatinuke3105

8 күн бұрын

You did not think of housing, medical, school fees. And #20,000 is not all required for 1 month. The Lady will still add more than half of the amount.

Tell them 10k mr man ...

Oga na you put yourself for this hot soup.

@abiodunoyewole5258

10 күн бұрын

Bitter truth

@ghanabulksmsportal442

8 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂, big time hot soup 🍲 oooo

I like the Sign Language Interpreter’s clothes

I m biased on this case and the man has even played a fatherly role on the only daughter he has without a reasonable doubt , the woman was totally at fault.

Women should be making financial contributions to their children's upkeep

@toddtodd7395

10 күн бұрын

You sound ridiculous

@olufunkearowolo5363

10 күн бұрын

Have you been in the labour room before, Have they cut your tummy into two and removed a human being before?

@engkelvin7600

8 күн бұрын

The child is in her custody therefore She has already fulfilled her part according to the law. The case could also be reversed if the man had custody in some cases

He had a family in another state, while working in another state did he have to have a sexual relationship going on ? Abeg this people should just maintain Mtcheww.

Judge Funmi should be hired as the chief negotiator for NLC. FG should tell us how we're supposed to survive of 62k per month, and even 30k for now

How do I get to send my complain to justice court

Next time man don't pass your boundary, you don ur boundary already this lady knows what she is doing 😮

Zip up

The man looks humble but his manhood is not humble

@bryanolorunmonu1653

7 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@eyiwunmikeifedayo

7 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@nwoluoluchi109

6 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

Pls how do I repot a case here? I need this seriously.

God bless you George Femi

@adexdaybor2041

10 күн бұрын

O like Finidi

How do someone brings his or her case to justice court

I think that the child didn't get the memo to also bring finance as they are arriving.🤷 Because how dare the child not consider the father's pocket?!

@lawalaisha8917

7 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@kajayi5326

5 күн бұрын

The father's pockets and the costs of raising the older siblings, too. As the baby no send the man, the court self no send am😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

For the first time,i do not like the way the honourable judge handled the matter.How do you expect a man in his right senses to continue to spend money on a child whose mother said does not belong to the father.What if the information is correct eventually,he would have ended up caring for another person's daughter.Let them do DNA test to ascertain the paternity of the baby before the man continues to spend his hard earned money on a child that is not his...

@ib6435

10 күн бұрын

Did he request for a DNA?

@swiftoutcrygaming3297

10 күн бұрын

Did he raise paternity issue here? Bcos men have been coming and getting DNA done free, many see the court as a means to get DNA done even when it is not necessary. The court should make sure men who raise doubts about paternity pay for DNA or reimburse the court if it comes out positive.

@HelenEni

10 күн бұрын

The judge can only rule on a matter that is brought before the court. In this case, it is the welfare of the child. If the father has doubts, he can bring the issue of paternity to the court and the court will order a DNA test.

This girl no get joy oooooooo

Zip Up and stay Faithfull, U SAID NO, MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS BY NATURE.......limiting Ur destiny FOR nothing

The issue is what is the current minimum wage in proportion to what the plaintiff is requesting has upkeep for one child? The government itself has been irresponsible in the welfare of its citizens.

@swiftoutcrygaming3297

10 күн бұрын

The reality is a worker on minimum wage is not expected to have wife and 4 kids and he is not expected to live in a flat. He is not expected to live so far from his workplace as to incur huge transport cost. Minimum wage ideally is for workers like cleaners. Is a cleaner realistically expected to take care of a family of 6 comfortably?It is not just here in Nigeria. In US, for instance, a single shared bedroom could go for as much as $700 to N1350 depending on location and facilities. Average minimum wage is about $7 per hour. That is about $1400 per month on 8hrs basis. So how easy is it for a worker on minimum wage to afford a room and feed? Not to talk of feed a wife and 2 kids. So minimum wage is not for a family. That is why some husband and wife do 2 or 3 jobs to survive. And in Nigeria, was there anytime in history when the govt ever paid a minimum wage that takes care of a family of 6? In 1984 when I was to be employed as a sales boy in a pharmacy after my O levels, what I was offered could not even feed only me. Of course no accomodations or transport is even considered. Even as a graduate in 1992, I couldn't afford even a room when I started working and I was earning more than a fresh graduate in civil service. Would it not have been stupid of me to get married and have kids and then start blaming my problem on minimum wage? The question is how many companies are making the kind of profit to be able to pay their least worker above N60k? Or is it everybody that is working for govt? If govt pays N250k for instance to its least worker and it is graduated upward like that, and private companies do the same, what would happen to the cost of goods and services they provide? Already some of them are laying up workers bcos they cannot afford to pay even what they are paying currently. Some find it so difficult to even break even and they are closing down bcos the more they increase their product prices, the less sales they are making. Yes our politicians are over paid, but even at that can govt realistically afford a drastic increase in minimum wage? And can private companies do the same?

@j.u.s.t.g.b.e.m.i

5 күн бұрын

​@swiftoutcrygaming3297 To summarise what you have said, live within your means and stop blaming factors beyond your control. After all, Nigeria has been in this situation decades before this defendant decided to get entagled, so he was aware of the economy.

Very soon I join this people, this matter I wear men go hear am

Even if you One follow married man try follow the one way get money

@ihemehelen1454

9 күн бұрын

Abi oo, senseless girls

The judge did not talk about him having access to his daughter.

@fayemiolapade4957

10 күн бұрын

I'm not really happy about that

@swiftoutcrygaming3297

10 күн бұрын

​@@fayemiolapade4957He didn't complain about that. If it was an issue he would have raised it. She asked the court to compel him to be responsible for the child's upkeep. She won't ask that if she is preventing him access. And of course he would have raised it if it was an issue. It is not everytime the judge address that if it doesn't arise in the hearing.

@ecitychurch

10 күн бұрын

@@swiftoutcrygaming3297 @swiftoutcrygaming3297 watch the episode again. The man raised it. He even said when he came to the court room his daughter did not recognize him. The judges shut him up while he was trying to press more on that

Omo that girl don see monthly ajo 20k for I year she don buy land ooooo😂😂😂

In your next cheating, you'll use a protection 😂😂

@j.u.s.t.g.b.e.m.i

5 күн бұрын

😂😂😂 "next cheating"

Judge u fall hand here 😢😢😢😢

Oga na watin u find u see, dance to d music

He has children who asked him to look for another woman

😅😂😅😂This is sad

You have a wife and you went ahead to start a relationship outside your marriage and now you can't feed your child because you don't have a job. Mr. Take care of your daughter sir

An abusive partner shoulnt be given accees to any child

@olakunleadewole4272

10 күн бұрын

In your wisdom

@olaleyeheritage4390

10 күн бұрын

Should also not support since there is no access to the child.

@bodeprime

4 күн бұрын

What if it’s the woman that is abusive ?

Why una dey Fuck if una no get money to take care of a baby

I blame both of them..

Please I need contact /address of the justice court, please somebody should help me with their info

The payment should not just be only on the man , the care of the baby should be incure by both man and the lady

I believe the honorable judge was very tired 😢 before this case because she didn’t display her usual awesomeness… this man had things to say , if a lady I hv been taking care of tells me I’m not the father of the child I’ll stop everything from that day .

Judge funmi u are doing well but all this desperate women should be taught d need to abstain from married men who hv kids expecially when d man is not bouyant. Is he supposed to leave d family bcs of ur carelessness. Am so ashamed of this woman.

@charozakko9339

10 күн бұрын

Be doesn't know he has a wife and children that he's not bouyant to take care of and went ahead to cheat and bring another baby, the law will not change but will continue to hold some of those men way know get sense.

@user-jp8jq3up7e

10 күн бұрын

@@charozakko9339you dey mind that one, the man lost he memory wen he go sleep with her na.

@chiamakaeneh4378

10 күн бұрын

Did she rape him? Married men can not respect themselves.

@Ibhasky2016

10 күн бұрын

Why are you ashamed for the woman and not the man? It is a two street.

@numokeji8023

10 күн бұрын

Well he also has a child with her so it’s his duty too to cater for the child no matter the unfavorable issues they have. The child’s care is the major issue here.

Some Men be like waiting, I don't know ooo

Once hw start paying , its automatic for him to have access besides Judge Funmi always say that issues regarding children can be reviewed at any time.

Wahala dey ooo

I've witnessed cases of 3 children and the husband still provides 30k monthly 😢

Can we start arresting rubbish, and all this rubbish will stop, because how??????

I feel pity for this man shame, he's begging he doesn't have a job,les be example for other men out there..

But the 20k is okay now since the lady is working she can still support too

@ayebatarijuliapaxagiri2767

10 күн бұрын

U try ! She is working, so ? She too has other children 2care for. Nobody send d man 2b fcking upandan.

These two people are not responsible at all.

Look how this man allow his bottom head to put him in trouble at his age...smh should be committing to taking care of your wife and children smh

5 minutes enjoyment problems lol. 😅

The judge is not fair with this young man at all...is like the judge know this girl small

Better

Why did Judge Funmi disregard the access to the child situation

I am confused is a child welfare the sole financial responsibility of a man?

@daughtersofdeborah4019

9 күн бұрын

Yes

Young woman, why go after men and create all this wahala. Married man your love. Painful.

DNA is recommended

What is Philip my mechanic doing here 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Why is the judge not addressing the access to the baby?

@user-jp8jq3up7e

10 күн бұрын

He didn’t complain about it, but I am sure if he wants to see the child he can nw, but I doubt he would want to because he clearly said he has a family.

Uncle u cheated on ur wife so pay the consequences

You what to have two wife at once you we learn in hard way

Konji will continue to put so many men in trouble.