Husband Gets Insecured Of Wife's Male Friend | Nijo Jonson | Motivational Video

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You can never fully say that you love someone if you don't trust them. Trusting someone means that you believe in that person to never betray you and your relationship.
Credits:
Director: Pankaj Bijaraniya | @thesilversrayleigh
AD: Sara Singh, Abhishek, Daksh Kumar
Chief AD: Piyush Sharma
Script Writer: Sachin
Cinematographer: Himanshu Shrivastava
Gaffer: Kabir Singh
Editor: Vishal Singla
Head of Production: Sudhanshu Mishra
Production Assistant: Tanya Barua
Head of Post Production: Anuj Ramatri
Social Media Manager: Bhavya Sharma
Channel Manager: Vivek Rajput
Actors:
Nijo Jonson
Neha Dangwal

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  • @nijojonsons
    @nijojonsons Жыл бұрын

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  • @falgunipanchal91

    @falgunipanchal91

    Жыл бұрын

    muje. number. mill. sakta. he. bat. karni. he

  • @Shubham7C

    @Shubham7C

    Жыл бұрын

    @@falgunipanchal91 visit website. Link in the comment.

  • @vaheedashaik8450

    @vaheedashaik8450

    Жыл бұрын

    Please drop the number...need to talk...i don't use fb

  • @Starwar99421
    @Starwar9942111 ай бұрын

    I appreciate that his husband is insecure. Because he wanted to save the marrige

  • @platinumwings8779
    @platinumwings8779 Жыл бұрын

    To all my men reading this - Never date a woman forget marrying her who has male friends. No need to fight ; no need to marry - just walk away. Save yourself from all the drama. Mostly friend zoned guys , single guys and women you will see supporting such things. Ever found a self respecting successful man supporting this. And if you still want to fight just a question - “Does your mother has male besties ? “How would you feel if you found out your father has female bestie ?” You are smart enough to get this now

  • @dindian3717

    @dindian3717

    Жыл бұрын

    Fabulous answer

  • @Divyansh-w5d

    @Divyansh-w5d

    7 ай бұрын

    This is the one answer I wanted to read

  • @aymanzaman5993

    @aymanzaman5993

    6 ай бұрын

    I am totally 100000000000000% agree with you brother 🖤

  • @randomuserdamn9799

    @randomuserdamn9799

    4 ай бұрын

    Absolutely right! Same goes for women too

  • @srinathsatya

    @srinathsatya

    3 ай бұрын

    I totally agree with you.

  • @winnieito4283
    @winnieito4283 Жыл бұрын

    I wouldn't like if my husband pick up her female friend every day. It's not abt jealousy or trust. If u spend time together with someone everyday, u will like that person. So be aware

  • @jayagarwal2730

    @jayagarwal2730

    Жыл бұрын

    It was just for a single day not everyday dude

  • @ramankohli4354

    @ramankohli4354

    9 ай бұрын

    Correct

  • @abhay0899

    @abhay0899

    5 ай бұрын

    Correct dheere dheere baat aghe badh gati h aur third person na ho to acha relationship me male ho ya female

  • @cyclone8456

    @cyclone8456

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@abhay0899 If third person aye to ap lucky ho ap jaldi Bach Gaye .....Varna samnevale ko dabake kya karoge ..... Uske mind ko badal change to nahi sakte na

  • @abhay0899

    @abhay0899

    3 ай бұрын

    @@cyclone8456 baat sahi h aapki lekin phir bhi yaar rista kon todna chahta h

  • @moirangmaipaksana6907
    @moirangmaipaksana6907 Жыл бұрын

    Maybe I trust my wife but i can't let her go with any male friends without me because I love her and to escape from unwanted incidents

  • @cyclone8456

    @cyclone8456

    3 ай бұрын

    Let her live free her life .....

  • @vishuk6896

    @vishuk6896

    Ай бұрын

    @@cyclone8456 then ask her to be free instead of being in relationship-- have seen faar worse situationns because of these besties.

  • @MohitYadav-th7fz

    @MohitYadav-th7fz

    4 күн бұрын

    ​​@@cyclone8456 tu kon hota hai bolne wala 😏😏

  • @infinity_shows_149
    @infinity_shows_149 Жыл бұрын

    All the conflicts in relationships start with third persons, be it male or female. Friendships with opposite sex after marriage is mostly frustrating. And in metros cases of extra marital affairs are sky rocketing. So, it’s very obvious to be insecure of that friend who has the ability to destroy your entire relationship and mental health. My advice is to stay away with friends of opposite sex after marriage, for a peaceful life.🙂

  • @breakaleg6117

    @breakaleg6117

    Жыл бұрын

    Stay away with those spouse who dont trust each other.

  • @ssgvegapunk

    @ssgvegapunk

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@breakaleg6117 says the admin of swinger group

  • @ArunKumar-fo9xt

    @ArunKumar-fo9xt

    9 ай бұрын

    ​@@breakaleg6117nope boys cannot be trusted

  • @Terahydron

    @Terahydron

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@breakaleg6117men and women aren't same. Let a woman ask for one night stand with 100 men and same for a man. See the results for yourself. The way a woman easily gets "male " friends can she get "female" ones? Which female friends pick and drops their female friends from work to home. You dont want to acknowledge simple logic ,no one can save you Better to leave such narassictic women who can't ever be satisfied. Friends my foot

  • @Richard-ib1ry
    @Richard-ib1ry Жыл бұрын

    He's insecure because her husband knows the intention of a male friend and all men are not the same

  • @gouravchakraborty9801

    @gouravchakraborty9801

    Жыл бұрын

    What if his wife cheats on him?

  • @Richard-ib1ry

    @Richard-ib1ry

    Жыл бұрын

    @@gouravchakraborty9801 Thats what am saying..her husband is right to be insecure

  • @nikhar1234tare

    @nikhar1234tare

    Жыл бұрын

    Justification is like WA forward which urges girls to wear proper clothes as their father feels insecure since as per the message phone is more protected when it's in the cover

  • @jayshreepanday5995

    @jayshreepanday5995

    Жыл бұрын

    All men same

  • @infinity_shows_149

    @infinity_shows_149

    Жыл бұрын

    Husband’s insecurity is totally justified.

  • @shubhamjain6966
    @shubhamjain6966 Жыл бұрын

    why do girls have to make every male friend a brother after marriage....was epic line 👍 👌 💛

  • @aashishmanwal99

    @aashishmanwal99

    Жыл бұрын

    he trust on girl but not his male friend becoz he better know all male are on same page

  • @AbhishekJejurkar.

    @AbhishekJejurkar.

    Жыл бұрын

    @@aashishmanwal99 👍

  • @mouryaas1310

    @mouryaas1310

    Жыл бұрын

    👍

  • @gouravchakraborty9801

    @gouravchakraborty9801

    Жыл бұрын

    @@aashishmanwal99 Suspicion of cheating

  • @ahsanmalik1013

    @ahsanmalik1013

    Жыл бұрын

    Because brother is sacred thing but stranger in the name of friend isn’t and is known to break many marriage apart.

  • @FFGaming-ow7gs
    @FFGaming-ow7gs Жыл бұрын

    Problem is not trusting wife ..it's all about the male friend mentality

  • @rudrakshyadav7335
    @rudrakshyadav7335 Жыл бұрын

    I hope it doesn't end with "Aapko aapki galti hai ehsaas hua, mere liye kafi hai" Or "Yeh to mera farz hai, Maine yeh Insaniyat ke Khatir kiya" 🤣🤣

  • @rad4217
    @rad4217 Жыл бұрын

    This husband is right he trust his wife he never accused her of an affair but told her to maintain distance with the male friend I think wife will do same

  • @shivanshdayal2444
    @shivanshdayal2444 Жыл бұрын

    We can trust our partners but how can we trust their best friend’s intentions

  • @ramneekknaveen8751

    @ramneekknaveen8751

    Жыл бұрын

    By getting to know them....just like parents keep an eye on their teen children to know how their friends are and if they have not fallen in a bad company

  • @shivanshdayal2444

    @shivanshdayal2444

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ramneekknaveen8751 what’s wrong with it?

  • @dindian3717

    @dindian3717

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@ramneekknaveen8751 bas yahi kaam hai husband k paas, ladki pe najar rakhe, aur ladki gair mardon se dil lagati ghoome

  • @ssgvegapunk

    @ssgvegapunk

    10 ай бұрын

    ​​@@ramneekknaveen8751biwi se shadi hui hai uske pure friend circle se nai. don't force your friendships on your husband you should realise the boundaries or else don't marry at all. if a man says he doesn't like something than don't do it

  • @platinumwings8779

    @platinumwings8779

    7 ай бұрын

    Bro save yourself from all the drama. Already we males have enough issues to deal with. Women with male besties are not worth dating ; forget marrying. Just walk away and find a woman who respects you and the institution of marriage.

  • @subham_Neet2024
    @subham_Neet2024 Жыл бұрын

    If you give more time with your male or female friend after marriage then anyone will be insecure!! And if you spend more time in that scenario then you will eventually fall in love with that person and that's when the concept of extramarital starts to play!!! It's doesn't depend on loyalty or honesty or blah blah blah.. It's a matter of human nature and hormanal changes !!

  • @sanjukatapradhan9686
    @sanjukatapradhan9686 Жыл бұрын

    The first thing is this is entirely a very different and rare case ....because here the husband has female friends . The second thing is that Vidit , even after knowing that Neha is married he continues to stick with her , which any man on this earth would not resist. It's not about trust a husband has on his wife , it's about that person with whom she is always found . That's it.

  • @rishabhchatterjee1706
    @rishabhchatterjee1706 Жыл бұрын

    You shouldn't start controlling your partner after marriage. Your spouse is as normal after marriage as she was before it, so don't make his/her life a living hell by suspecting him/her unnecessarily

  • @aravindnxmusic

    @aravindnxmusic

    Жыл бұрын

    'normal' as before marriage? Nah, not happening in the last bastion of culture on planet earth. Once marriage is done, BOTH guy and girl should FORGET their previous lifestyle, ask forgiveness to God if they had done anything immoral, and vow that they shall stay true to their spouse after marriage and also maintain chastity.

  • @rishabhchatterjee1706

    @rishabhchatterjee1706

    Жыл бұрын

    @@aravindnxmusic Nah nah you got that wrong by ' normal' I meant to say that they will have the same group of friends after marriage as they had before it as shown in this video. Of course, I agree with you that one should remain pure and dedicated to only one person in a romantic sense i.e. your spouse after marriage ⛲

  • @ravijeeverma876

    @ravijeeverma876

    Жыл бұрын

    @@aravindnxmusic very good thought

  • @shakaibhusainsiddiqui5629

    @shakaibhusainsiddiqui5629

    Жыл бұрын

    @@aravindnxmusic I don't agree with you shaadi ke baad zindagi khatam nhi ho jaati

  • @shakaibhusainsiddiqui5629

    @shakaibhusainsiddiqui5629

    Жыл бұрын

    you are right

  • @discoveryourpg4167
    @discoveryourpg4167 Жыл бұрын

    Ask yourself do your dad have any female bestie or your mom have any male bestie then think about normalizing it

  • @renegade7565
    @renegade7565 Жыл бұрын

    It's not a question of trusting your partner. All males have the same intention. Period. We should not be normalising this, as it is most of relationships are in a rocky state and divorce rates are on the rise. We need to go back to our culture and traditions and stop trying to justify western beliefs.

  • @infinity_shows_149
    @infinity_shows_149 Жыл бұрын

    Kisi k saath v time spend karoge… toh it will automatically generate attachment, bonding… at the cost of your married life. Jiske saath shadi hui h uske saath time spend karne me problem hoti h😂 What if the man is in regular contact with his female friends…

  • @dindian3717

    @dindian3717

    Жыл бұрын

    She's trying her best to have multiple fun

  • @jg-yy5lr
    @jg-yy5lr Жыл бұрын

    That ending rarely happens in real life though. 😂😂😂

  • @gouravchakraborty9801
    @gouravchakraborty9801 Жыл бұрын

    Not surprised with this kind of ending.

  • @16-akash40

    @16-akash40

    Жыл бұрын

    Because these are all showing us the 1%positivity by hiding 99%reality. According to them, only boys are possessive and girls are loyal.

  • @gregoryhouse672
    @gregoryhouse672 Жыл бұрын

    IMO, Be it husband or wife, in modern day having a HEALTHY level of insecurities (not to the extent to which portrayed in this video) is not necessarily a bad thing. Especially in modern times where loyalty has minimal value in relationship and "have trust" is a way of manipulating and cheating your partner. Blind trust and total lack of any insecurities in early part of relationship can be easily exploited. Nb: Not saying that we should be scrutinizing every step of our partner but don't throw away your self respect in fear of being called insecure!

  • @10ksam

    @10ksam

    Жыл бұрын

    Why should one doubt the other person when there is no obvious reason to do so? Wife/husband is not child to be controlled. An adult is supposed to be aware of morals and they have a character. If a person chooses to cheat on you then there is no point in being in a relationship with him/her. Trust is the foundation for any relationship to sustain.

  • @dindian3717

    @dindian3717

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@10ksam prevention is better than cure....most of the divorces take place due to women cheating on their husband with their office mal friend....no sane partner be it a man or woman, will ever let their marriage get ruined knowingly

  • @Terahydron

    @Terahydron

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@10ksamI'd divorce laws didn't favour women no man would give a shit. Just because of sex ratio women are getting extra attention and using it for their gain. This will come to bite you in the ass

  • @Terahydron

    @Terahydron

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@10ksamtrust is fine . But some actions are deliberate. Why can't spouse hang out with spouse only. Why can't they get a cab? Some actions just semms disrectful and not about trust or controlling someone

  • @des-zd6ht
    @des-zd6ht Жыл бұрын

    While trust is important, too much of it can harm you.

  • @dindian3717

    @dindian3717

    Жыл бұрын

    Blind trust is self destructive

  • @Terahydron

    @Terahydron

    4 ай бұрын

    Men and women can never be friends. Which woman drops her female friends daily at home. Lol thristy guys do this, cheap women love the attention and call it friendship

  • @dianalayne4803
    @dianalayne4803 Жыл бұрын

    If you have insecurities about your partner being friends with any other man then you have trust issues and trust in a relationship is most important

  • @nishan7310

    @nishan7310

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@mehra764 exactly

  • @Terahydron

    @Terahydron

    4 ай бұрын

    Reality is not insecurity. If partner choses to spend time with someone else then they don't love you. You are ignoring that this is not a friendship but persuing. Will any man/woman do these things for same gender friends? This is sexual persuasion nothing else.

  • @Terahydron

    @Terahydron

    4 ай бұрын

    Its not partner it's wife. Dont use light words to make marriage a joke

  • @JaiD0427

    @JaiD0427

    12 күн бұрын

    I have seen my friend's marriage close to break, due to his wife not trusting him with a female colleague! My advise to him was: 1. Stay away from that female colleague 2. Go for marriage counseling It saved their marriage & now they are parents to a 4 yr old kid! Your comment looks good on paper - but not in real life!

  • @rrsinhaartist2229
    @rrsinhaartist2229 Жыл бұрын

    True but in some cases I'm not fully agreed.. to trust more than yourself closing your eyes is like you are betraying yourself. Because some time we loose the love one whom we trust more than ourself.

  • @prathikshshetty9458

    @prathikshshetty9458

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @SCubevlogs14
    @SCubevlogs14 Жыл бұрын

    I want to share my opinion that if a girl makes a male friend and gives a suggestion word like "trust," then, according to my perspective, the husband needs to make a female friend, and if the wife faces an issue and asks about it just like the husband did, we simply need the same thing as if you didn't trust. They will come to know.

  • @Terahydron

    @Terahydron

    4 ай бұрын

    This nijo guy nakes provocative content to get views. Every woman knows thwy dont have male friends but simps. Will any woman deop her friend like this daily to her home? She knows he's interested in her and loves the attention. Easy divorce favouring women have made them crazy

  • @user-qj8cg1bf5u
    @user-qj8cg1bf5u Жыл бұрын

    After marriage each an every one must sacrifice themselves to their partners because male friend or female friend is not important than the relationship bond of Husband and wife .....

  • @lazydaizy8701
    @lazydaizy8701 Жыл бұрын

    It's not like that if we're getting insecure for our loved ones that means we just don't trust them cause some people really have that anxiety or a fear in their mind whenever they love someone they expect a lot from them and probably don't want to loose them so that love obviously creates an insecurity in our mind it's just about feelings not always trust issues

  • @merlynmenezes_0106
    @merlynmenezes_0106 Жыл бұрын

    Love, trust, care, are the vital thing in any relationship... Spouses can have male/ female friend keeping in mind their commitment and limits... Loved the content and msg...💜

  • @anshmittal3098

    @anshmittal3098

    Жыл бұрын

    Boys act different infront of girls You even don't know boys When i was school boys always act like a cool friend but behind always talk how they are talking to her because she is cute Same happened in my college And all these females think they know more about male than us

  • @vlogswithadiraj
    @vlogswithadiraj Жыл бұрын

    Phele walla nijo hii sahi tha wife oor girlfriend ke male bestfriends are just shut mans . I know many peoples who left his female bestfriends because of their wife's insecurity but womens can't do it and made this a big issue . That harsh but true nowadays only man can suffer & sacrifices in indian society 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @kannuriprashanth4728
    @kannuriprashanth4728 Жыл бұрын

    In the same situation, if a boy has a female Friend, how does she behave. did she understand or not ?? I think she won't.. what's your answer ??

  • @Chinmay-77
    @Chinmay-7711 ай бұрын

    Its not about the trust on the wife. Rather husband can understand bad intentions of male friend. There is differnce between possessivenss and over possessivenss.

  • @infinity_shows_149
    @infinity_shows_149 Жыл бұрын

    This video has huge misconceptions, Divorces are on rise, extra marital affairs are skyrocketing…. Whole family is getting destroyed no a days, espin metro cities.. And this friendship with opposite gender is the main reason behind it… it creates trust issues, rocky relationships… Beware men,,and women… don’t get into this trap😊

  • @Jhon_wick03
    @Jhon_wick03 Жыл бұрын

    Reject modernity embrace masculinity

  • @-zeusalmighty-2812

    @-zeusalmighty-2812

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @dindian3717

    @dindian3717

    Жыл бұрын

    💯

  • @deepakmalviya6629
    @deepakmalviya6629 Жыл бұрын

    Last moments and nice and beautiful moments,cute video 🙏 and happy ending, good lessons

  • @aish0072
    @aish0072 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing content ❤❤💯💯

  • @s_sanjh
    @s_sanjh Жыл бұрын

    It's not only about trust.... Insecurities in relationships are quite normal, especially if the person has been cheated on before by someone else or due to some childhood experiences. What I believe would have been better on his part was to not act so controlling by saying don't do this don't do that because in that way the girl also feels he is restricting her when she knows her intentions are right. He should rather communicate with her and explain to her and make her feel how it affects him. Because if she really cares for him, she won't do things that affects the emotional health of the partner. And also on her part, it's definitely not wrong to have male friends after marriage, but meeting the same friend again and again, especially if he's not a childhood friend, might give that guy some hope that she's interested in him. So it's better to keep a boundary until and unless the friendship bond is like very strong since they were kids or so!

  • @shada994

    @shada994

    Жыл бұрын

    👍🏻👍🏻

  • @ApoorvaSaxena_Srivastava

    @ApoorvaSaxena_Srivastava

    Жыл бұрын

    Firstly, it was said in this video that Vidit and Neha are friends since college. Second, they meet regularly because they work together. And third, yes insecurities in a relationship is normal. Actually till an extent it's important, it makes the other person feel special, and that the partner do care. But if insecurity cross its limits like in this video, he was trying to make her live her life as per his wish, it makes the person feel trapped and suffocated. Trust in one another is the most basic need of any relationship. Without trust no relation would survive. I agree to your point of communication. That's the best way of really trying.

  • @s_sanjh

    @s_sanjh

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ApoorvaSaxena_Srivastava that's the point. But you know, there have been many cases where people didn't cheat because they were loyal, but their emotions changed due to repetitive interactions with someone else. Humans are like that, no one has control about how they'd feel about someone, whether they'd start liking them or not. But whether they go for cheating or not, that's in their hands. My whole point being, persons who has a significant other, shouldn't place themselves in similar situation they earlier had with their spouse that made them fall for each other. Doesn't mean they'll stop living their life, they will talk normally, laugh etc, but spending alone time with one or the same person of the opp gender should be avoided if possible!

  • @ApoorvaSaxena_Srivastava

    @ApoorvaSaxena_Srivastava

    Жыл бұрын

    @@s_sanjh Sorry but I don't agree

  • @s_sanjh

    @s_sanjh

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ApoorvaSaxena_Srivastava yeah ofc everyone has different opinion. I put mine here🤗 It's okay to differ, but glad you're so respectful still

  • @HomeSweetHome-di9yu
    @HomeSweetHome-di9yuАй бұрын

    The moment she said : If I decided I want to leave you then nobody will be able to change my decision I recalled a women said something ki agar main chali gayi toh wapas kabhi dhundh nahi paaoge , but tumhe main dhundh loongi kyunki ek mard ke pass sirf 2 opportunity rehti hai yaa toh pyaar ke aage jhuk jaaye ya use chod de par ek Aurat ke pass 200 i completely agreed with her because ek mard ke pass koi wajah nahi hoti kisi ko dokha Dene ki par ek aurat ke pass 200.... 😮‍💨

  • @srinathsatya
    @srinathsatya3 ай бұрын

    Blind trust is not good.

  • @tanvigupta6348
    @tanvigupta6348 Жыл бұрын

    Nice video 🙏🙏🙏🌈🌈🤞✊✊✊hats off u nijo sir and ur team

  • @skmreviewvlogs5896
    @skmreviewvlogs5896 Жыл бұрын

    Video is amazing... The actress is very good...She is a natural actress

  • @sbntravel1644
    @sbntravel1644Ай бұрын

    In 90% cases people trust but partner cheats, Trust is the weakest word in this world. Husband or wife should both should know their friends it’s not that one fine day we see lots of chats on their phones with people we don’t even heard from them and when we ask they say they all are friends. It hurts

  • @homosapien6414
    @homosapien6414 Жыл бұрын

    This issue can be solved if trust develops. When there is mutual respect for each other's feelings. When there is intense bond of love. And for that to develop both husband and wife should know each other. They should know likes - dislikes of each other. And for that to happen spending quality time with each other helps. Time is most valuable thing that anyone can give to someone. Going out on vacation, showing regular love and affection , doing something special to make your partner feel valuable, helping each other in daily chores , respecting each other's family members , will surely help. Spend much of ur time with ur partner and the family members and then u won't need any outside friends or office colleagues. Kids are the greatest source of motivation and commitment. Have them early to bind u both. If possible stay with ur parents in joint family system. These things never allow us to develop even a iota of thought to get into illicit relationships.

  • @shada994

    @shada994

    Жыл бұрын

    👍🏻👍🏻

  • @dindian3717

    @dindian3717

    Жыл бұрын

    What if wife is spending more time with her male partners than with her husband, will that relationship survive

  • @ashapurnadas3748
    @ashapurnadas3748 Жыл бұрын

    Over possessiveness creates over control and that kills a relationship

  • @dindian3717

    @dindian3717

    Жыл бұрын

    Prevention is better than cure

  • @abhay0899

    @abhay0899

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@dindian3717yes😂

  • @Terahydron

    @Terahydron

    4 ай бұрын

    Cheap women who can't be satisfied shouldn't marry to take advantage of marriage. Stay single and have as many friends you want

  • @DS-eq4si
    @DS-eq4si Жыл бұрын

    Don't blame the husband. It's very normal of him. What do you think the wife would do if the husband does the same ?

  • @sobhitgiri3993

    @sobhitgiri3993

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mehra764 uski marji hai bey. usey agar rakhna hai male frnds woh rakhe. kyun bey lawde uski dosti tudwana chahta hai

  • @rohinimorzaria1257
    @rohinimorzaria1257 Жыл бұрын

    Raksha Bandhan gets expensive because we have so many brothers ☺️

  • @pvskrao
    @pvskrao6 ай бұрын

    if husband moves with female friends leaving wife alone. will female allows us? no. please make video on this sir

  • @gopalsinghrawat4016
    @gopalsinghrawat401611 ай бұрын

    लड़का एक दूसरे लड़के की सोच और उसकी मंशा के बारे मैं बहोत अच्छी तरह जानता है फिर भी वो अपनी पत्नी पर भरोसा करके उसे दूसरे पूरूष मित्रो के साथ या लड़को के साथ जाने दे और अगर उसकी पत्नी के साथ कूछ भी गलत हो गया तो उसका जिम्मेदार कौन होगा लड़की के साथ कूछ भी गलत होने के बाद यह भरोसा विश्वास यह सब किसी काम नहीं आते और हर पती के मन मैं यह भी डर होता है की अगर पत्नी के साथ कोई जबरदस्ती करने की कोशिश करता है तो वो अपनी रक्षा नहीं कर पायेगी

  • @shwetabisht6422
    @shwetabisht6422 Жыл бұрын

    Nice👍

  • @10ksam
    @10ksam Жыл бұрын

    In some cases, people who lack self confidence don't trust their partners. Be it a man or a woman, if that person thinks that he/she is lacking in something they may be afraid that their partner may ditch them for a better person. People with inferiority complex will have trust issues in a relationship.

  • @lalitmehra1271

    @lalitmehra1271

    Жыл бұрын

    You don't know about attachment If someone spend time with anyone then they will attached

  • @dindian3717

    @dindian3717

    Жыл бұрын

    What if she ditches her trusting partner, does he deserve it

  • @Terahydron

    @Terahydron

    4 ай бұрын

    Gaslight much

  • @Terahydron

    @Terahydron

    4 ай бұрын

    If you don't want to spend every living second with your spouse you are trash. And let's forget about the insecure spouse. Which woman has such dedicated woman friends who drop ,pick up and do all these flavours to them? Women who can't make women friends are trash and use their sexuality to attract male orbitors and then Gaslight their husband

  • @Terahydron

    @Terahydron

    4 ай бұрын

    Just go around and ask women to approach their best friends for a relationship and males for their female friends for a relationship. You will get your answer. People who ignore obvious difference between male and female are clueless

  • @prashanticandy
    @prashanticandy Жыл бұрын

    Amazing content 👍👍

  • @desiavlogswithamit9087
    @desiavlogswithamit9087Ай бұрын

    Trust ek issue nahi hai you can trust your wife but not an another person who is that close to your wife

  • @hariniakula2272
    @hariniakula22723 ай бұрын

    sometimes friends also have a bad intention in that time also husband encourage to go with him

  • @Insane10004
    @Insane100048 ай бұрын

    Marriage all about love , care ,respect ,trust and some sacrifices. If a little sacrifices is better for you married life why not do that.( Here sacrifices means leaving your best friend)❤ Commnet what you think of it.

  • @jairajrai7980
    @jairajrai79804 ай бұрын

    Ending can be in many ways

  • @ta20111996
    @ta20111996 Жыл бұрын

    Wife's thinking absolutely wrong because our culture is not allow such a kind of liberty.

  • @nehankitsrivastava4020
    @nehankitsrivastava4020 Жыл бұрын

    Reality yhi hai that no male frnds matter after so called marriage...

  • @35abhishekneman4

    @35abhishekneman4

    Жыл бұрын

    Baat ladki pe bharose ki nahi hai. Saamne waale ladkeke intention ka bharosa nahi hai. Aur waisebhi ladkome patience ki kami hoti hai.

  • @userleftthisaccountforever

    @userleftthisaccountforever

    4 ай бұрын

    But because of marriage we must not forget those people who were there in our life before our marriage. We just need to set proper boundaries to avoid issues.

  • @Terahydron

    @Terahydron

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@userleftthisaccountforeverask these so called friends whether they want to sleep with you , you will get your answer. Do women have such women friends who do them these favours like picking up droppings off? Treating to lunch? You can't forget your friends but meet only with your spouse. Your spouse comes first. Only they are of same gender then it's no problem

  • @userleftthisaccountforever

    @userleftthisaccountforever

    4 ай бұрын

    @@Terahydron I agree with you. I am not married yet but I do have a male bestie. We both have already set our boundaries and he is quite respectful about that. So I trust him. But one day when I have a boyfriend or husband, I would definitely like to introduce him to them as he has been with me as a support during my worst days. I would definitely not hide anything from my future bf or spouse. But the thing is that I want them to trust me and my friends. Even after I tell them everything but still they choose to suspect me, it will mean that my bf or spouse must be insecure. And I am not that type of girl who would keep friends with benefits. So trust is also another factor.

  • @mehra764

    @mehra764

    22 күн бұрын

    ​@@userleftthisaccountforeverget ready to be scolded by husband

  • @vlogswithadiraj
    @vlogswithadiraj Жыл бұрын

    Nahi nahi pehele walla nijo sahi tha 🤟🤟🤟🤟

  • @deepakk3434
    @deepakk3434 Жыл бұрын

    So from this video you are teaching girls to have boyfriends after marriage? Is it a very noble idea? Actually after marriage girl should not be alone with any other man, this is our Indian culture. Don't bring western culture and dilute it.

  • @aravindnxmusic

    @aravindnxmusic

    Жыл бұрын

    Yea you are right. God has given a Husband for you to love and care for, why do you even need another male companion?

  • @Honeybear0488

    @Honeybear0488

    Жыл бұрын

    Western culture doesn’t condone either. It’s just that in partners there should be trust . If you constantly doubt and suspect your partner as to make them feel suffocated , what do you expect ??

  • @deepakk3434

    @deepakk3434

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Honeybear0488 Right. But in this video the husband is not just falsely suspecting that she is with other man, She is actually associating with other man which is not good and the husband is correct in saying it to her that she should not do that. He is actually protecting her.

  • @shakaibhusainsiddiqui5629

    @shakaibhusainsiddiqui5629

    Жыл бұрын

    you are wrong

  • @PriyaPriya-nb5bt
    @PriyaPriya-nb5bt Жыл бұрын

    Husband shi h bilkul jha pyar hota wha sakh hota hi h.mere husband bhi always apne office ke friend log ke sth ghoomna party krte h.aur mai akele bore .always unke dost sth enjoy.jbki mai itni beautiful tb bhi wo apne dost log sth busy mujhe bhi insecure feel hoti h jealous hoti h

  • @abhay0899
    @abhay08995 ай бұрын

    Trust ki baat nhi h baat h male friends ki intention ki 😢

  • @ritanshpuri9230
    @ritanshpuri9230 Жыл бұрын

    Nice

  • @ankitasaxena9724
    @ankitasaxena9724 Жыл бұрын

    Well just reverse the genders what if the husband goes out with another girl ? Will the wife be okay with it 🙂

  • @35abhishekneman4

    @35abhishekneman4

    Жыл бұрын

    Baat ladki pe bharosa hone ki nahi hai. Saamne waale ladkeke intention ka bharosa nahi hai. Waisebhi ladkome patience ki kami hoti hai.

  • @authorSnehaNarayanan

    @authorSnehaNarayanan

    Жыл бұрын

    Whether she is ok or not ok is not the issue, the thing is as partners we cannot control or tell our partner with whom they can talk . Regarding your question, Yes , feeling jealousy is normal, but acting on it and getting angry on your partner or stopping her from going out with her friends, is not Normal. If you feel insecure and jealous, then take therapy and work on your attachment style. And this is for both genders

  • @anshmittal3098

    @anshmittal3098

    Жыл бұрын

    ​​@@authorSnehaNarayanan this video is stupid which is trying to show things in black and white manner Most of the yines when their is best freinds of opposite gender one thing i hqve seen common is dusre partner ka kat raha hota aaj kal Yeah cheez situation to situation badalti hai

  • @indirajithravanan6421
    @indirajithravanan6421 Жыл бұрын

    All relationship breaks by worst besties

  • @jyotiranjan2992
    @jyotiranjan2992 Жыл бұрын

    Kaash ladkiyaan aisi hoti.

  • @indirajithravanan6421
    @indirajithravanan6421 Жыл бұрын

    Bestie's are always ruin relationship

  • @Mysteryguy12312
    @Mysteryguy123124 ай бұрын

    It's not about trust or anything i guess. If they start meeting with someone else for long time then eventually the worse will happen. I have also faced it before. I was okay when she talked with her male friends, i allowed that to happen right before my eyes because i trusted her the most. But eventually she did what i never thought she would do to me. She eventually started having physical relationship with her so called friend. It broke me completely. If you really love a person then can't you just cut off other people from your contact? Can't they just be with you and forget about their so called friend. Even in this video it was only about one guy which she could have talked properly and tell that friend, i love him a lot and for the relationship with my husband we should stop talking to each other. Every problem that they were having would have been solved in an instant. Back then whenever my ex felt insecure when i was talking with someone i would tell them properly that we cannot talk now and block. Simple as that. The girl in this video really made me remember how my ex was.

  • @Terahydron

    @Terahydron

    4 ай бұрын

    And right after I declined her husband Facebook profile was deleted. Funny world. Infact girls only like top 10% men. Rest some are good girls who honor relationship. And some are always looking for better

  • @shada994
    @shada994 Жыл бұрын

    Great content 👍🏻👍🏻

  • @harshat8684
    @harshat8684Ай бұрын

    Why can't girls just leave a friend for their important relation with husband, if wife of that male friend says to leave her he will do it next minute, girls need to understand the boundaries...

  • @samkitjain9151
    @samkitjain9151 Жыл бұрын

    Nijo bhai har video ke end me sahi nikalte hai, ye kya ho gaya

  • @avishekchakraborty5477
    @avishekchakraborty5477 Жыл бұрын

    i just came here to read the comment section 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @youtubeisabitch5758
    @youtubeisabitch5758 Жыл бұрын

    No married couples shouldn't have friends of opposite gender after marriage As in marriage many moments are of love and care but many are also of sacrifice and stress too If the husband or wife started to go out with opposite genders to relieve themselves from their married house it will cause more strain in relationship and husband or wife would get attracted and bonded to that opposite gender friend which has never ended good No wonder divorce rates are high in such houses

  • @SunShine-br8bp
    @SunShine-br8bp Жыл бұрын

    Many husbands trusting and not questioning their wife's but many are cheating by seeing this how can a husband be quite without questioning

  • @shivshalu2691
    @shivshalu2691 Жыл бұрын

    Hmm mere toh insecurity s rista hi khtm h es topic bolu hi ky mujh p koi trust n krta male bestie bcz i m sports person

  • @amitkumar-dn7zv
    @amitkumar-dn7zv Жыл бұрын

    Larka kisi ek larki se jiwan bhar pyar krta hai...pyar Dil se krta hai ...larki tbtk aapke sath hai jbtk ki usko apse best nahi mil jata .... Larki ko change hone me second vi nahi lgta

  • @manmohankarwal9626
    @manmohankarwal9626 Жыл бұрын

    After marriage ladki ki life mein koi v male friend hona hi nhi chahiye

  • @shakaibhusainsiddiqui5629

    @shakaibhusainsiddiqui5629

    Жыл бұрын

    galat keh rahe hain aap

  • @-zeusalmighty-2812

    @-zeusalmighty-2812

    Жыл бұрын

    @@shakaibhusainsiddiqui5629 Kiu bhai

  • @upriserinternationallegend208

    @upriserinternationallegend208

    Жыл бұрын

    Aur male ki life mein koi female nhi

  • @shakaibhusainsiddiqui5629

    @shakaibhusainsiddiqui5629

    Жыл бұрын

    @@-zeusalmighty-2812 kyuki shaadi ke baad life khatam nhi hojati

  • @-zeusalmighty-2812

    @-zeusalmighty-2812

    Жыл бұрын

    @@shakaibhusainsiddiqui5629 to male friends kiu shaadi k bad?

  • @sunildadasokapasekapase585
    @sunildadasokapasekapase5856 ай бұрын

    girl is wrong yar😢❤

  • @azharsharif6663
    @azharsharif66633 ай бұрын

    She is wrong ... husband is only important

  • @pankajaraosurabhi6524
    @pankajaraosurabhi6524 Жыл бұрын

    Very few people understand the friendship with opposite gender...!

  • @JOJO_THE_PROGRAMMER

    @JOJO_THE_PROGRAMMER

    Жыл бұрын

    No, no man is interested to being as friend of any girl, I bet if a girl is ugly and fat then no-one would be interested in her

  • @shashankchandake8392
    @shashankchandake83929 ай бұрын

    Hum tumhare hai sanam

  • @sushilbiswas672
    @sushilbiswas672 Жыл бұрын

    You all giving dialogues that men don't have to control their wives etc etc.. You all tell me if that man was always going with any girl then her wife what would have said to him? So tell me why man has to treat his woman friend like her sister after marriage???

  • @kevinfed668
    @kevinfed66811 ай бұрын

    Neha is pretty and attractive. What's her real name ?

  • @ibrahimrameez8442
    @ibrahimrameez844215 күн бұрын

    Cheater is always a Cheater

  • @phelliprd6659
    @phelliprd6659 Жыл бұрын

    👍

  • @SajidKhan-yy5cc
    @SajidKhan-yy5cc5 ай бұрын

    औरत को हमेशा डर लगा रहना चाहिए की उसका हसबैंड उसको छोड़ कर चला जायेगा तभी हसबैंड वाइफ का रिश्ता अच्छा चलता है 😁

  • @biswajitdas6426
    @biswajitdas64266 ай бұрын

    It's wrong , a male gets insecured for his partner not because , he dob't trust his partner. Because , he don't trust her male friends. What if , that so called male best friend spike any drinks & takes the advantage of the wife ? Who is gonna be punished them ? Who is gonna hurt then ? It's the husband right ? Not that cheap male best friend. So , if you need a male best friend even after marraige , you are not ready for that relationship. A marraige is not just a relationship , it's also a huge responsibility.

  • @user-tn2fd1mr8o
    @user-tn2fd1mr8o Жыл бұрын

    Her husband acts as if he can't have any female friend

  • @GajananTelkikar
    @GajananTelkikar11 күн бұрын

    Mera gussa dikha shaq dikha magar pyar nahi dikha

  • @vijithadsan8169
    @vijithadsan8169 Жыл бұрын

    Checking the wife's handbag is very bad manners. Husband has no right to read wife's belongings or bags. Will not help for a healthy harmonious atmosphere.

  • @gouravchakraborty9801

    @gouravchakraborty9801

    Жыл бұрын

    What if she's cheating on him?

  • @angryskullman8345

    @angryskullman8345

    Жыл бұрын

    Then wife also doesnt have rights to check husband's phone or laptop. Women ☕️

  • @aravindnxmusic

    @aravindnxmusic

    Жыл бұрын

    Wrong. Husband has all rights on his wife's personal things. And wife too has same rights on husband's personal life.

  • @vijithadsan8169

    @vijithadsan8169

    Жыл бұрын

    @@aravindnxmusic It is not healthy to check each other's belongings. The most important ingredients for a happy marriage are, love, trust and respect. Not keeping tabs.

  • @shakaibhusainsiddiqui5629

    @shakaibhusainsiddiqui5629

    Жыл бұрын

    @@aravindnxmusic no you are wrong

  • @pratimapreet9952
    @pratimapreet9952 Жыл бұрын

    I don't know a married girl should have male friends or not yeah i m not much agree to have a male friend bcoz sometimes it may be a trouble to trust on some stranger.. But in my case its very different.. I m a housewife nd well educated. My husband goes to duty everyday, he works with women or girls nd they ask him to take them to their home. I know everything but never feel insecure but but but if I talk with stranger in front of my husband he abuse me if I want to do job then he forbid bcoz he thinks there would be male person.. Even he does not like that I talk with any male person even shopkeeper vegetable seller renters or anybody why??? It means he does not trust me thats it. We women trust our husband too much they used to go outside for their work nd meet every type of girls married unmarried but we have no problem but why man thinks opposite. Pliz don't take my comment in wrong I cant hold my hand to explain my....

  • @yoginagowda7410

    @yoginagowda7410

    Жыл бұрын

    Well said

  • @anshmittal3098

    @anshmittal3098

    Жыл бұрын

    Don't think ir it happens with you than other male is doing because of that You even Don't know why male say that

  • @pratimapreet9952

    @pratimapreet9952

    Жыл бұрын

    @Arjun haa stri dharm or purush dharm uska kya?? Me stri hu isliye jarurat padne par v kisi male se bat ni kar sakti even kisi function me v participate ni kar sakti? Sabji tak apni marji se ni kharid sakti. Apni pasand se ghar k paint or colour ko v ni chun sakti. Public place pe muskura v dun to mere character pe sawal hota h. 24 ghante ghoonghat me rahne ko shtri dharm kahte h aap? Me feminism ki bat ni karti lekin arjun bhai purush ka v kuch dharm hota h aap kisi ladki se shadi karte h to usey wo har samman milna chahiye jiska adhikar h usey. Galti pe thappad marne or gali dene se behtar h pyar se samjhaye, samaj or pariwar me uska apman n kare majak n bnaye. Kahne k liye bahut kuch h lekin chodiye shtri dharm hi yad aayega aapko or purush or pati dharm ni yad aayega. Sita ko ravan ki najar lag gyi lekin raam ne v dhobi ki bat pe sita ko ghar se nikaal diya. Krishna ne draupadi ki lajja bachai or uske patiyo ne bhari shabha me usko bech diya.. Mat kariye shtri dharm ki bat

  • @16-akash40

    @16-akash40

    Жыл бұрын

    Point is not all wives are like you and not all husbands are not like your husband. Most of the metro cities have high inclination of extra marital affairs. Especially people like you and short videos like these show 5%of positivity and ignore 95% of reality. Yeah in your case you are right and ur husband is wrong. But trust me it is reverse in most of the cases.

  • @anshmittal3098

    @anshmittal3098

    Жыл бұрын

    @@pratimapreet9952 thing that you don't undertsand you are talking about extreme Your case is extreme here we are talking about can they be bestfriend Or friends whom they hang out with on daily basis and which qre friends in your personal life not about office work or daily work Dont generalise what your husband do Your husband has problem not all man in the world

  • @nookaraju840
    @nookaraju840 Жыл бұрын

    That lady secure the relationship Of Husband's female friend?

  • @manishabhardwaj6788
    @manishabhardwaj6788 Жыл бұрын

    Aapna no nhi dala

  • @manishabhardwaj6788
    @manishabhardwaj6788 Жыл бұрын

    Hi

  • @Whatyousowyoureap0000
    @Whatyousowyoureap0000 Жыл бұрын

    🙏🏛️🙏😊

  • @hariniakula2272
    @hariniakula22723 ай бұрын

    Nice message but I have this doubt sorry

  • @Heal8403
    @Heal8403 Жыл бұрын

    Achaa ya to dhak liya. Agar husband ka koi woman friend ho to kayasa ho ga. Please make this type video.

  • @MyTechniqueWorks
    @MyTechniqueWorks Жыл бұрын

    I personally feel women should not have male friends once they get married that is

  • @yoginagowda7410

    @yoginagowda7410

    Жыл бұрын

    Why??

  • @MyTechniqueWorks

    @MyTechniqueWorks

    Жыл бұрын

    @@yoginagowda7410 because chances of affairs increase if too much attachment

  • @kyunireenaSutapa

    @kyunireenaSutapa

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah bro abandon all your friends after marriage girls if leaving your parents wasn't enough 🤡

  • @MyTechniqueWorks

    @MyTechniqueWorks

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kyunireenaSutapa you know why old times were best? Because women stayed inside. Now if they outside affairs happening, independence happening, then more separations happening go look at divorce rates

  • @kyunireenaSutapa

    @kyunireenaSutapa

    Жыл бұрын

    @@MyTechniqueWorks yeah cause that time woman wasn't able to find their man cheating outside lol 🤡

  • @rohanmakam9350
    @rohanmakam9350 Жыл бұрын

    According to the logic of wife then husband should make only female friends and roam with them

  • @GamerGlitchz
    @GamerGlitchz4 ай бұрын

    Mixing up of indian culture and open mordon culture is very very dengerous. Because indians have more emotions than others

  • @muznimuhammed585
    @muznimuhammed585 Жыл бұрын

    Don't keep cottonwool near the fire.dont take such a drama like this hereafter.male friends may be only in office life not in real life.if any body things we have to keep male or female friends in our personal life, definitely you will loosing all your happiness in your personal, family and married life.

  • @ashishpatil3579
    @ashishpatil3579Ай бұрын

    Last movement may sidaa divos paper daltaa................use milnaa bhi band aur office bhi band

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