I found out after 3 kids, 6 grandkids & 45 years married that my husband & I are fourth cousins.

@eileenparslow2060

3 жыл бұрын

My husband and I also share some of the same relatives. Strange. We grew up in different towns and never met till 8th and 9th grades. How close we are related, I don't know.

@MsKittenz1

3 жыл бұрын

🥴

@TrueJamo

3 жыл бұрын

@@eileenparslow2060 How do you not know if you know which relatives you share?

@TRene-up9zq

3 жыл бұрын

No it’s just you guys have swapped DNA for 45 years he’s apt to be apart of you by now and vice versa.

@TrueJamo

3 жыл бұрын

@@TRene-up9zq lol. That is not how that works. Learn how DNA works before you spew nonsense.

If you go back in history, anyone of us could have been related at some point. Thanks for sharing your story, too btw

@susanciabatti3694

3 жыл бұрын

Y

@einsteinwallah2

3 жыл бұрын

@Marilyn Houston desirae is right ... if you go back far enough you would be related to even some plants you grow in garden ... and i am pretty sure all of us have an ancestor who was raped or was a rapist or murderer or canibal or an organism which had 4 feets and a tail ... desirae is just making a statement of fact of science

@moluvkbalalala8878

3 жыл бұрын

@@einsteinwallah2 Bruder Albert

@andrewharrison1320

3 жыл бұрын

But the amount of dna would be so low you wouldn’t really be related

@V4ultr3mTV

3 жыл бұрын

@@andrewharrison1320 Related is RELATED. we all have the same origin no matter what DNA we end with.

Your husband's African DNA is 67% not 54%. What an interesting mix. I love how excited everyone was about the results.

Yep after doing my ex-husband's genealogy found out he was my seventh cousin LOL

@TheBarePantryShow

3 жыл бұрын

It was a shock for us because it 35 years of marriage, we've never had one family member in common. All we can do is laugh at it.

@jahmah519

3 жыл бұрын

We all related, we something like 6 related to everyone so 7 aint bad.

@777sevynn777

3 жыл бұрын

Ohhh ish

@periodtpoo3031

3 жыл бұрын

@@jahmah519 more like 16th related to everybody else maybe alittle farther back than that

@jahmah519

3 жыл бұрын

@@periodtpoo3031 I know my friend, its just a saying, I think it relates to 6 degrees of separation, we all connected some way. British slang i think. There is this 6 away from everyone knowing each other, hey at the end of the day we all family & quite a big 1 too 🙂

Cousins have same grandparents, 2nd cousins have same great grandparents, 3rd cousins have same great great grandparents. Removed means the cousins child, so not at the same level. Twice removed, means the cousins grandchild. It was quite common in smaller communities and also wealthy communities for 2nd and 3rd cousins to marry. Even first cousins married in some countries (this is called Kissing cousins - eeew!).

@Hiforest

3 жыл бұрын

I think the Queen Elizabeth II is married to her first cousin.

@TheJ5fanclub

3 жыл бұрын

@@Hiforest he’s related to her but they are not first cousins.

@Hiforest

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheJ5fanclub You're right - they share the same great grandmother (Victoria). So second cousins.

@danielleporter1829

3 жыл бұрын

@@Hiforest Queen Elizabeth and her husband Prince Philip are 2nd cousins through Queen Victoria and 3rd cousins through King Christian IX of Denmark 🇩🇰. KIng Christian IX of Denmark's daughter Princess( later Queen 👑) Alexandra married Albert Edward ( later Edward VII of Great Britain and Ireland) Queen Victoria's oldest son and heir ,making them Queen Elizabeth's great grandparents. Queen Alexandra's brothers,who was born Prince Wilhelm of Denmark was chosen to take the Greek throne , becoming George I of Greece and Denmark, King George I was Prince Philip's paternal great grandfather. Prince Philip was born into the Greek Royal Family in 1921, but he renounced his Greek and Danish titles when he married then Princess Elizabeth in 1947.

@deltaflute03

3 жыл бұрын

@@Hiforest 2nd cousins 1x removed or 3rd cousins depending on which side.

Love to hear that Dad wants to go to Africa!! Much of the Continent is incredibly beautiful and should not be missed. Embrace ALL of you Dad! So excited and proud to learn that more Belizeans are doing this. I did it about 8 years ago with my kids who are Garifuna/Jews. They’ve traveled globally extensively to learn about the regions from which their ancestors come from and are learning so much! I was very impressed that the report specifically said Garifuna. So excited and happy for you guys. Merry Christmas!!🎊🎄🎉

@pontiuspilot5887

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for mentioning Garifuna. I had missed that in watching the video. I love Unique history and geography and looked up the name. Very fascinating. Best wishes to you and your family.

@corazoncubano5372

3 жыл бұрын

His blood is saying Africa. He is considered Dougla because of the African an Indian mix also. The Punjab is northern India and Bangladesh where one of my grandmother is from. My DNA is very complex like his.

Years ago before you marry you were required to get blood tests to make sure you are not related, those tests are no longer required.

@korie4198

3 жыл бұрын

They are seperate enough not have a great chance of having genetic complications. After a few generations the percentage of shared DNA isn't that significant. Unfortunately some people still choose to marry 1st and 2nd cousins and that is a completely different story.

@ShowdogTiger

3 жыл бұрын

N0! The blood test was for Syphilis, Sickle Cell Anemia, Rubella and such. DNA testing started in 1984. States were already stopping pre-marriage blood tests by that point.

@GrannyNerd

3 жыл бұрын

They w ere also used to determine if anybody had a ventral disease.

@joycejarrard6958

3 жыл бұрын

I think those blood tests were for venereal diseases. They didn't have ways of telling if you were related until recently.

@beccy46

3 жыл бұрын

Blood tests were required to ensure viability of offspring, as back then, they didn’t have the tools to intervene if the fetus rejected the mother’s blood type due to Rh factor.

I love that the Dad was mostly concerned about his African DNA❤️ ❤️❤️ Too many Black folks want to overlook it.😢

@selassies9783

3 жыл бұрын

True, they more excited for the European parts than anything African 😒.

@milkandspice1074

3 жыл бұрын

I find black people more excited about the African dna. For me, I am excited about every part.

@candyxox

3 жыл бұрын

I embrace all of it

@celiameaux2547

3 жыл бұрын

I only claim my African ancestry. Have absolutely No Interest whatsoever in anyting else.

@GeneralBulldog54

3 жыл бұрын

@@selassies9783 I think a lot of it is due to not getting a specific country. I mean for the longest I had “Cameroon, Congo, Western Bantu Peoples” and it just didn’t translate to folk who had no clue. Luckily that’s changed from Ivory Coast to now Nigeria at 34% and holding steady, 27% of the C,C,WBP whatever that means and 14% Scottish. I don’t have a clue where that came from.

Whatever your bloodline, y’all are a beautiful couple!

@TheBarePantryShow

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you sweetie.

@mrkroeger

3 жыл бұрын

That is a nice comment

My daughter and I do genealogy and we've discovered multiple crossovers in her dad's and my family trees. Most are more than 5 generations back but one was just 4. I think it's an unbelievably common occurrence.

@SL-lz9jr

2 жыл бұрын

Especially when you consider geographic movement isn’t as common as it is now. Most families stayed together in relative proximity and your marriage options were limited to whatever is in your community. Maybe the next town over.

@judiwiegel8181

2 жыл бұрын

TRUTH...it happens more times than NOT

@laZOETje

Жыл бұрын

I have found none.

Same thing happened with my husband and I when we did ancestry dna testing. It said we were 4-6 cousin At this point we already have a baby together. No turning back. Just a story I will keep to myself at family functions.

@MoreKnowledgeShorts

3 жыл бұрын

That’s not that bad I wouldn’t worry about it, even 4th cousins are about 6 ancestors apart so your fine :)

@CarlyGchannel

2 жыл бұрын

Lmfao the last sentence killed me

@culturalanthropologist1133

2 жыл бұрын

Would you be interested in being part of a documentary?

@ChanteMcCormick

2 жыл бұрын

Don’t worry about it. My 4th cousin and I share my 3rd great grandparents. At 4-6th, your connection to your hubby could be sharing 4th or 5th grandparents. That’s like ancestors from 1700s-early 1800. So don’t worry at all. No genetic consequences for your child with it being that far away.

@julieielasi4156

2 жыл бұрын

And no ws to the World! Hahahaha 😁

So I looked it up… • 3rd cousin 1x removed - means that her 2nd great grandparents are his 3rd great grandparents • 1/2 3rd cousin - both share a single 2nd great grandparent • 1/2 2nd cousin 2x removed - one of her great grandparents is his 2nd great grandparent • 2nd cousin 3x removed - her great grandparents are his 4th great grandparents.

My son who loves history explains the small Italian % in so many is due to the ancient Roman Army expansion!

@SuperTruthful

2 жыл бұрын

yes, the Romans were conquering and spreading their seed far and wide..lol

I have ancestors in common with my ex-husband and my current husband. I did not know my husbands until I was an adult. They were both born in different states than me. I met one through work and the other through a blind date.

@mpalmer7800

3 жыл бұрын

The slave trade. I think black ppl all over the world should be kinder to each other as we have been separated for centuries.

@Kendra.ardneK

3 жыл бұрын

@@mpalmer7800 Every region has gone through slavery. My ancestors were in the Irish slave trade. Every ethnicity has gone through crap. We’re all human. We have more in common than we think.

@harolddenton6031

3 жыл бұрын

Sounds like my Jones and Denton's all across the United States. Both sides of my families have been in the states since the 1630's so we are related to lots of people in our country!

@lightyagami3492

3 жыл бұрын

@@harolddenton6031 Same man. I have thousands of people that im related to that wouldn't even show up on a DNA test. I have several families that came here in the 1630s.

@kongoawakening4907

3 жыл бұрын

@@Kendra.ardneK nah... NOBODY has gone thru what the descendants of the transatlantic slave trade went thru it’s proven fact

My mom always laughs at how much my husband and I look alike. Maybe I need to do his dna. I’ve done mine already. Thanks for sharing. ☮️-Kirsten

@irenedavo3768

3 жыл бұрын

Wow!

@kerriewithpurpose5722

2 жыл бұрын

Update needed

@enidwellness100

2 жыл бұрын

After years of random people telling us this we did 23&me and my husband is my cousin. 5th.

@EnidWellness

2 жыл бұрын

@Dion Pryor so gross Dion! 😩

@shannonfbc1

2 жыл бұрын

@@enidwellness100 most of us probably share a similar result with our spouse and just don't know it yet

"Need to sharpen my spear. Need to go back home".... I love his sense of humor!

@corazoncubano5372

3 жыл бұрын

When my DNA said I was 30% Mali I was on Mansa Musa mode so I get it.

@6:00 I love the fact that he's more enthused about his african roots 100% that's his origin

@AuthorLHollingsworth

3 жыл бұрын

Me too.

@immers2410

3 жыл бұрын

You can just about see the 27% Indian in him though

@Jake-nk4wg

3 жыл бұрын

@@AuthorLHollingsworth Me too as am I!! :)

@tippanfurrytoes

3 жыл бұрын

It's not 100% though is it. it was 54%

@DEEORM

3 жыл бұрын

@@tippanfurrytoes are you blind???

If you click on Joe in your list of DNA matches and then the tab called "shared matches" that list may give a strong hint as to how you are related.

"I'm going back to Africa, that what I have the most of!"🥰🥰 It's great to know your DNA story!

And that’s why it’s important to know who you are so you don’t marry your cousin or anybody else.

@granta3044

3 жыл бұрын

If you look, everyone is related. Homo sapiens were down to a single tribe back in the ice age. And if you look further everything with dna/rna is related. Like the last time your dna was with eacother you were direct family. So when you smoosh that roach your killing your 1000000000ish cousin

@moccha8

3 жыл бұрын

@@granta3044 😂

@Autumn-Rain

3 жыл бұрын

That’s why family reunions are so important. Two of my classmates found out they are cousins years after we all graduated school.

@isaiahhenderson3447

3 жыл бұрын

@@Autumn-Rain I have a question my results said I'm 89.1 Percent African 9.0 percent European and 1.3 percent East Asian and Native why I dont have 100 percent African

@isaiahhenderson3447

3 жыл бұрын

Can you explain how

I came here for the results but I'm staying for the food! Your channel is awesome!!

I’m 49 and my third cousins are about 55-80 years old. Our common ancestors were born between 1823-1846.

@riley818

3 жыл бұрын

Wow

Lol this was quite heartwarming and hilarious there at the end. I personally feel in each British Caribbean country nuff people related😂

@justinwilliams1117

3 жыл бұрын

I have family in Tortola and I have heard the same

@EnidWellness

2 жыл бұрын

Spanish Speaking Caribbean, SAME!

I have lots of Guyanese American Aunties plus my mom and their cousins, I can't get over how much you sound like all of them. The tone, inflection, and choice of words, phrasing are identical to how they speak. I was surprised when you said you're from Belize because I would have said you were their neighbourhood.

@TheBarePantryShow

2 жыл бұрын

My Guyanese friends can understand me when I speak Creole to them. I hear their accent a tad different than ours, but I can also hear the similarities.

@emmineffin

Жыл бұрын

I came here to say the same thing. I’m half Guyanese and grew up in Scarborough where I heard that accent all the time.

Don't feel bad. Kevin Bacon is more closely related to to his wife Keira Sedgwick than you are to your husband.

Your dear husband is 66% African, according to Ancestry. He is: -Nigerian 24% -Cameron, Congo & Southern Bantu 20% -Benin/Togo 10% -Mali 8% -Ivory Coast/Ghana 4% Total =66% African

@frmtheBkstore

3 жыл бұрын

I love that the husband is talking abt Africa & the wife & daughter are concentrating on the lesser percentages😄

@TheBarePantryShow

3 жыл бұрын

@@frmtheBkstore Don't read anything into it. We weren't sure about the Indian parts of him because we don't always know who was telling the truth. His mom is half Indian and he is quarter so that's why that was exciting to us.

@TheBarePantryShow

3 жыл бұрын

He is 67% African, we added it up after we stopped recording and corrected it in the next video which was Jada's results. We opened the results on camera so and not in advanced. He expected that percentage to be higher, but he didn't factor in the Indian he got from his mom's side.

@felityf1

3 жыл бұрын

@@frmtheBkstore yeahh!!! Mama Africa ✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿

@marieteresagallo4795

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks

Wow, that’s a shocker. To do a DNA test and find out your wife is your 3rd or 4th cousin. Maybe that’s why you two get along so well together...

@fayewhite7541

3 жыл бұрын

I was doing my family tree & found out that hubby & I are 4th cousins. This was 45 years, 3 kids & 6 grandkids later 😂😂😂

I love that y'all are from Belize I think I've only seen one other youtuber from Belize Wonderful video and you seem like a wonderful family

@TheBarePantryShow

2 жыл бұрын

I think Belizeans don't like to do this type of stuff because they are so afraid of what they will find. lol Thanks for such a positive comment.

I was trying to find my biological Grandfather, without any information. Just trying to narrow it down with DNA. I kept running into names I knew was on my Grandma's side. Finally after 3 family members did tests, I figured out they were related several generations back. They hooked up during WW2, from completely different states. 🤣

@GinaLB1967

2 жыл бұрын

I am doing the same. Come to find out bio grandpa was adopted to. Trying to figure that one out now

It makes sense considering many communities tend to set their roots down in one area and never venture off. If you consider those who come from villages, towns, and small cities but come from big families, it’s not impossible to imagine that everyone ends up being distantly related. I’m not biologically related to my high school friend but we are distantly related because my 1st cousin’s husband is her 1st cousin’s cousin. Basically we’re not at all related but still it shows we’re all tethered together in some way if we trace it far enough. And considering my family until my generation came from small villages in the old country, and everyone had large families, we were all bound to marry one another’s kin. I’ve also found very loose crossover between my cousins from mom side and cousins from dad side. Not blood related to me. They are my cousin’s cousin, but those relatives are not related to me. However they are somehow related to my cousins on the other side of my family tree. It’s fun to find these connections.

67% African 26% South Asian 7% European Sounds about right for the Caribbean islands as well as places like Belize, Guyana, Suriname

After 11 yrs of watching you both, I just realized Joe and I are cousins. Kin through the bishop side of the family, my family is from Barbados. I’ll love to meet my new found Belizean family!

It’s like Jamaica girly! People have “outside” pickney that they don’t own. If you’re not careful you have children with your cousin or worse half sibling! 😖 If I marry a Jamaican man one of 1st things I’ll do is a background check. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

@chajenawallace4509

3 жыл бұрын

Rightt... my cousin dated her second cousin and it's when she brought the guy home her mother asked him his background and confirmed it. I'm scared to date inside the manchester, Clarendon, and st. Elizabeth parishes. That's where my families are from and my great grandfather was said to have a "leggo seed". Dem always say him wild bad.

@tishainnis

3 жыл бұрын

@@chajenawallace4509 EVERY Jamaican family has a few “jackets” and relatives who wild lika wah! 🤣🤣🤣🤣smhh… I shall be doing a DNA test. Full stop! 😂

@sharonmorgan171

2 жыл бұрын

Scotty Beama you right jamaican men gets a lot of jacket 😁😁😁

@tishainnis

2 жыл бұрын

@@sharonmorgan171 unfortunately. 😂😂

@jenniferbeathea7906

2 жыл бұрын

Chile I'm hollering 😂. I ❤️❤️❤️ that girly girly song . 1 up town 1 down town tee hee 😁

Go back to Adam & Eve, we are all related. Regardless of eye, hair, skin color. Hi cousins, nice to meet ya'll. GOD BLESS!

@mamejoe2043

2 жыл бұрын

Nice to meet you too

Geographic location does not defines race or ethnicity. Remember, the Moors were in Spain for almost 800 years, they were also in Italy, England, Portugal and France.

@sereneamani1713

3 жыл бұрын

MO, the subject is more connected to origins. I am geographically located in the U. S., but my major origins are West Africa which defines my race and ethnicity. Whereas, my culture as an African-American is based on a combination of upbringing and choice.

@outinthesticks1035

3 жыл бұрын

A well thought out comment . I am a western Canadian farmer , of mostly western European ancestors . I married the daughter of a native American farmer . Culturally we are " western Canadian farmers" , and have much more in common even with very different origins

@shawngordon6626

3 жыл бұрын

WOW WOW JUST ASK THE HOLY LORD GOD FORGIVENESS

@4ourchildren66

2 жыл бұрын

Melanated people inhabited many continents .. i dont need a dna test because most of my genealogy was passed down from my grandparents we know are background

Yess Loved that father ...saying; I’ll going to Africa ,that’s the most I got.

Wow excellent video! Good job and very interesting. Funny thing my beautiful girlfriend and I have discovered we share a common relative in our bloodline... our 6th g grandmother's were sisters... they were mixed race born in Rockingham County, Virginia in the 1780s and gained their freedom in Ohio by 1817 by their white father who is our 7th g grandfather. He purchased land for one of them in Darke County which is on the Ohio/Indiana border called Longtown, Ohio. This area is now a very historical location as a mixed race settlement and a stop on the Underground Railroad and also created a integrated school way before the Civil War called the Union Literally Institute in Randolph County, Indiana. Fast forward 233 yrs later since those two g grandmothers were born in Virginia and my girlfriend and I never knew each other until we accidentally met in 2017 while volunteering in Texas where we now both live which is several states away from Ohio and the rest is history.

@Msboochie2

3 жыл бұрын

Wow! Amazing.

@fetengineer9151

3 жыл бұрын

@@Msboochie2 yes amazing indeed at first it was kinda embarrassing or awkward if you will. How could such a thing happen so far away from our home State of Ohio... me falling in love with a distant cousin who, I never knew... but seriously it was the forces that pulled us together.

@fetengineer9151

3 жыл бұрын

@Has Goodles lol, I'm not too sure anyone else would be interested in my love story so, I better not... but thanks anyway for the suggestion!

@culturalanthropologist1133

2 жыл бұрын

Would you be interested in being part of a documentary?

The u guys being related is not surprising seeing how small Belize is 😂

@TheBarePantryShow

3 жыл бұрын

For real right? We’ve just never had not even one cousin in common. It’s trippy,

@TheBarePantryShow

3 жыл бұрын

@Mariah Fox On Google it says 3rd cousin 1x removed means we share a great great great grandparent in common. We think it's on my dad's mom side and Joe's dad's mom's side. Of course we know nothing about those people. lol

@ianrobertson2282

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheBarePantryShow If you both start building your family trees and link your DNA to the trees, Ancestry will suggest the common ancestral link and the Thru lines,.

@barepantrytalk

3 жыл бұрын

@@ianrobertson2282 I will do that Ian and see what I can find out.

@sshoegirl30004

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly...it's very common. My aunt is also my cousin on my pa's side.

LMBO You just gave me yet another mandatory premarial checkup I need to do.

He definitely has some similarities to a lot of Sri Lankans I know 💗 Thanks for sharing your story! 🌏

I'm late to watch this, but you should upload your dna results to GEDMatch. They have some neat tools. One is called Are My Parents Related. It would be interesting to see what that shows.

@nillyk5671

2 жыл бұрын

Oh I did that one and my parents had no genetic relatedness whatsoever even beyond the 10th generation. It was somehow so satisfying to know that 😂

He is 67% African. You didn’t count the other regions.

@TheBarePantryShow

3 жыл бұрын

He is 67% African, we added it up after we stopped recording and corrected it in the next video which was Jada's results. We opened the results on camera so and not in advanced. I copied and pasted this from a reply I already made to another viewer.

@browniegay9130

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, I saw it after the fact.

@homodeus8713

3 жыл бұрын

His daughter doesn't seem too enthusiastic about them African DNA

@milkandspice1074

3 жыл бұрын

@@homodeus8713 does she need to be?

@thelmathomas8414

3 жыл бұрын

@@homodeus8713 I noticed that to but damn common since tells her he's black just look at him

My cousin swab his dog. They said the dog was from different parts of africa

The "once removed" means the person is one generation further up or down the tree than you are; likewise, "twice removed" means two generations up or down the tree. My cousin's granddaughter is my first cousin twice removed (1C2R).

LMAO at the ending, that’s the first I’ve seen that happen in results video.

@Lindseyisloony

3 жыл бұрын

What's funny is that she then went and checked the same thing from her own profile as though being related can work in only one direction...

@TheBarePantryShow

3 жыл бұрын

@@Lindseyisloony that’s how shocked I was. Lol 😂

@Jake-nk4wg

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheBarePantryShow Again, you were simply confirming your findings.

Waiting anxiously!❤️

@TheBarePantryShow

3 жыл бұрын

It premiered already Anita, did you see the video?

I’ve just ordered a Kit, I’m already thinking have I done the right thing. TDE for life ❤️👍🏻

I love the Caribbean accent. I was listening thinking Antigua, Grenada, Trinidad and Tobago...? And then you said Belize. Beautiful accent!

Its super common for married couples to be about 5th cousins; I found out my parents are distant cousins in multiple ways, 7th, 8th & 10th (plus more as they both descend from royalty)

In doing my family's genealogy, I discovered that my parents are actually distant cousins. An ancestor on my Maternal side married an ancestor on my Paternal side.

@allywilliams6849

2 жыл бұрын

My mom is white and my dad is black so I don’t have to worry about that 😭✋🏽

@ajalicea1091

2 жыл бұрын

Same thing happened to me and my husband. 1300 hundreds

Good video, had me watching till the end. Now going to look for your daughters result video. Not surprised you were related cause you had a lot of results in common. Super cool.

I think it’s a pretty common thing to happen. Nothing you can do about it now, just live your life and enjoy what you’ve created 💕

My husband is my 6th cousin 1x removed. We share a great grandfather, his 4th and my 5th. Didn't need DNA, just did the family tree. Didn't find this out until we'd been married 10 years. If you're born and raised in the same area, you run this risk.

It means that you two share a great great grandparent.

No need to panic. Once past 3rd cousin... technically... you're not related anymore. 3rd cousins can marry. People have married their 1st cousins...frowned upon, not idea, but it has happened. A cousin down the line once removed isn't a relative anymore.

@TheBarePantryShow

3 жыл бұрын

My grandfather's mom and my grandmother's 1/2 sister's mom were sisters. In the AncestryDNA it doesn't refer to my grandmother's sister as my grand or great aunt, it refers to her as 1st cousin once removed. So although she's removed, she's still my cousin because she's my grandfather's cousin. I think the remove thing has to do with how far up the chain the relative is and if they are half relative.

@kingc1198

3 жыл бұрын

Everyone is related but it depends on how close

@olwenloud9704

3 жыл бұрын

It is perfectly legal for first cousins to marry first cousins.

You all have a great attitude! Thank you for sharing.

Third and fourth cousins per studies produce babies with fewer birth defects, and higher IQ and pregnancy is when a lower mortality rate. Congratulations. Nothing wrong with this 💗☀️🍃🌈

@survivortechharold6575

3 жыл бұрын

tell yourself that. lol

@TerresaOxentenko

3 жыл бұрын

@@survivortechharold6575 actually it’s Reaearch I read, that told me that.

@TerresaOxentenko

2 жыл бұрын

@Candy • 2 years ago it was an interesting study. I think when it comes to Rh negatives marrying closer in the family ensures a Rh negative match, with reduced infant mortality. However I would recommend genetic testing prior to conceiving for all couples.

@TerresaOxentenko

2 жыл бұрын

@Candy • 2 years ago plenty. Research the literature for what factor and immune responses

I 've been doing Genealogy for 26 years.. any couple past 3rd cousin (4th and up) is considered "genetically" fine. And where it says 3rd cousin once removed, that means your 3rd cousins.. but are "removed or the next" generation down. It can get confusing so you will need to research this to understand the "removed" thing better. I have 2 sons, they have different fathers. In my research I found, not only are my sons 1/2 siblings.. but they are also 12th cousins. It's not uncommon for couples to find out that they are related a few to several generations back.. especially if both of their families have been living in the same area for a very long time.

@culturalanthropologist1133

2 жыл бұрын

Would you be interested in being part of a documentary?

@ladythalia227

2 жыл бұрын

"Cousin once removed" could also mean "cousin" if your respective parents are half siblings. My cousin showed up as cousin once removed. In reality we are cousins but our mothers are half sisters.

@nillyk5671

2 жыл бұрын

Really? That doesn't seem right. For example in Korea with Korea being an island, they are very careful when allowing people to marry. They used to have a law prohibiting marriage between people who had the same last name. In some cases you have to prove that you are not related to the person you plan to marry up to the 8th generation. After the 8th generation there's basically no dna in common... But a 3rd or 4th cousin... There's still a lot of common dna between them. Recessive genes can always surprise you too so I'd be careful 😅

@traceylee8620

2 жыл бұрын

Hi @@nillyk5671... No.. 3rd, 2nd, & 1st cousins and most definitely siblings (half or not) should NOT reproduce. 4th, 5th, 6th cousins and so on, are okay. Though 4th generation cousins are still a little close in the gene pool, in most cases reproducing offspring in a 4th generation is like rolling the dice are weather or not your children come out genetically fine. I can understand where in Korea being such a small dense population, they would need to keep generations reproducing further apart. I was referring to genetics in much more larger countries where the genetic pool is more diverse.

@lovelove-pr2yo

Жыл бұрын

Anything after a second cousin. 3rd cousin barely shares any blood

I did Ancestry and 23 and me and in both me and my wife are 3rd cousins. I have a pretty complete family tree with all my great great great grandparents and still don't know where we are connected. However, she hardly knows anything about her great-grandparents and above that.

remember that each group actually has a % range due to ancestry running the test 40 times. Also remember that it only shows what you've actually inherited. You get 50% from each parent but it's a random 50% and your sibling could get an entirely different 50%. You can lose a connection to your ancestors as quick as 2nd great grandparents. This is all on the videos on youtube of course.

@Uber1937

Жыл бұрын

Siempre queda rastro no se pierde nunca.

@ETWL897

Жыл бұрын

@@Uber1937 You are incorrect. You're only guaranteed a DNA connection to your parents. You could actually technically not have any DNA from one or more of your grandparents. If your dad's 50% comes from only his dad and you get the DNA from your mom that came from only her dad. You could in fact not have any DNA connection to both your grandmothers. Go watch Ancestry's video's they clearly say you could have no genetic connection to one or more of your 2nd great grand parents. This is why DNA results can only go so far back. I'm a genealogist and I deal with Yale genetics dept on a regular basis.

This is why I watch KZread. I’ll see you all in ten years

Why do people get so excited about mixing with Indian. Calm down he's more African.

@ijustneedmyself

3 жыл бұрын

You don't even know why they're excited. They must have guessed he was part Indian based on his appearance and the results confirmed it.

@user-th4ch4ky3g

2 жыл бұрын

@@ijustneedmyself I am south indian myself and what stoodout is his face and skin colour which is lot like we people have.

@iwantapieceofpie

2 жыл бұрын

They were enthusiastic because this confirmed his mother’s oral history lol calm down.

@semsimama2191

2 жыл бұрын

@@iwantapieceofpie Who the H@** are you telling me to calm down, i am calm. Just kidding lol. But really people are free to make a point on youtube so chill. No worries.

Husband has a fascinating ancestry. He should write a book.

Was good to see you guys after 25 yrs in Killeen, TX! Keep it going! Proud of you guys!

I just mailed off my test kit. I so excited to find out.

@Martialartskaratetv

3 жыл бұрын

Me too I'm nervous

@TheBarePantryShow

3 жыл бұрын

What’s the update Brian? Did your results come back yet?

@briangressett902

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheBarePantryShow not yet they have been analyzing my DNA for the past 4 days after that the results should be ready.

@TheBarePantryShow

3 жыл бұрын

@@briangressett902 One of my son's results came in today. They were both sent around Dec 20th. They said his was due on Feb 8th then the moved it to Jan 29th this morning and it came back tonight. The one son's data is just now being extracted and his is not due until Feb 16th. I don't know why they got separated. I'll make both videos together so I'll wait. FYI that boy did get another country none of us got.

@briangressett902

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheBarePantryShow I sent mine Dec 24th. My estimated time is Feb 9.

LOL I love how you're shocked that he showed up on yours as a 4th cousin with the same percentages. Did you think being related can work only in one direction or something?

@TheBarePantryShow

3 жыл бұрын

Yup

@Jake-nk4wg

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheBarePantryShow I think you really wanted to confirm; just to be sure there were no mistakes made which was one way of doing it.

@TheBarePantryShow

3 жыл бұрын

@@Jake-nk4wg Yes you got it. lol

I would love to do this. We know nothing about where my moms side comes from. Everyone always asks me where I get my hair from.

@irenedavo3768

3 жыл бұрын

Did you do it?

@lightyagami3492

2 жыл бұрын

When i was a kid everybody always asked me and my older sister where we got our hair from. We both have red hair and our parents both had jet black hair back then. In short i have red hair because my paternal grandmother was a red head and on my mother's side one of my 3x great grandmother's was a red head and her paternal line is Scots Irish.

If yourself and Joe are both Belizean, like any small population territory very similar to the Caribbean Islands the rate on familial connections will be higher as the gene pool of new partners reduces.

He's the first Belizean I've seen without indigenous ancestry

I’m afraid of doing these ancestry dna things. I feel like they have a dna database and will use it against us at some point! 😂😩

@TheBarePantryShow

3 жыл бұрын

The boys feel the same way. lol

@actinggirl333

3 жыл бұрын

It’s a very common fear. And your fear is valid ❤️ but really, they only use this dna to help cold cases. But they can’t really use it “against you”. I hope I helped.

@rberin34

3 жыл бұрын

#1 We know “this is America”, #2 I give ZERO FUX about your “frustrations”. TF off my post. Not one person asked you for your BS. I said wtf I said. FOH. 🙄

@frankhooper7871

3 жыл бұрын

They'll only use it against you if at some point you cormit murder or another serious crime.

@Lindseyisloony

3 жыл бұрын

You "feel" like they have a DNA database? Honey that's quite literally the point. It does all go in a database and frankly the concern that that information could be potentially misused is not uncommon and frankly not that unrealistic. It is a gamble to do these things.

Thank you so much for sharing your Ancestry experience!

You guys are awesome!! Thank you for streaming 💚

Six degrees of separation! We r all related to each other.

@giulibi

3 жыл бұрын

that theory is about people you know, not people related to you

Pundjab is a state in india, bordering to Pakistan, it means 5 waters ( rivers pund = five av = water...)

General rule of thumb for cousin marriages: if you don’t grow up going to the same family reunions your most likely distantly related enough that it’s not a problem genetically speaking. From my experience most people know their 1st cousins pretty well and maybe their 1st cousins once removed (your 1st cousins children). But how many people know all of their 2nd cousins or their parents or grandparents 2nd cousins? You don’t normally because that’s a distant relative that has nothing to do with the relatives you care about. You know, the ones you see at family gatherings and holidays. Case in point: my parents found out after they were married and doing genealogy together that my dad was 4th cousins to my mom’s mother making them 4th cousins once removed. None of them had any idea because the people that knew of the connection died a 100 years ago. In other words they grew up going to different family reunions. It’s really common to marry distant relatives unawares especially if you share a similar background of race/ethnicity, religion, and general geographical proximity. Same thing happened to two of my siblings. Their like 5th cousins to their spouses. Genetically it’s nothing because that’s one common ancestor way back when and you have all these other grandparents that are unrelated that are much closer to you. I think people freak out when they find out their distantly related to their significant other because they don’t understand how genetics works and they think any related marriage is automatically incest. Just for your general information incest is when you marry/have sex with a CLOSE RELATIVE. I.E. parents with children, grandparents with grandchildren, uncles/aunts with nieces/nephews, and siblings with each other. Notice cousins are never considered incest because they are not a close enough family member because they have presumably one parent who is not closely related to you. That’s why there are no laws against marriage between cousins. Now some cultures do have taboos against certain types of 1st cousin marriages. Most common is in that cross cousins can marry but parallel can not. A cross cousin is one who’s parents are a different sex then their siblings. So your mother’s brother’s children are your cross cousins. A parallel cousins is who’s parents are the same sex as their siblings. So your mother’s sister’s children are your parallel cousins. The reason that cross cousin marriages are ok and parallel are not is because parallel cousins could be half siblings because their parents could have overtly or covertly bed hoped with their siblings-in-law thus potentially having a cousin who is really your half sibling and so any marriage there could lead to recessive genes causing birth defects in the children. Another form of 1st cousin marriages that should be avoided at all cost no matter your families culture (no really I’m not kidding here) is double cousins. Double cousins are when two siblings marry another set of two siblings. (Like in Jane Austen’s “Emma” when the Woodhouse sisters marry the Knightly brothers from next door). Their children would be double cousins. They share the same two sets of grandparents as their 1st cousins. Most of the time people only share one set of grandparents as their cousins but in this case of double cousins they don’t thus significantly closing the gene pool and making any marriages between these 1st cousins as dangerous as marriage between siblings. It’s not good. Don’t marry your double cousins I mean it🙅‍♀️ Thanks for coming to my TED TALK🤓

This is more common than you think, my husband and I share three relatives one of them puts us seventeen generations from each other. It's actually scientific as to why it happens the survival of the fittest and ensuring the species stuff. The one is Huron (Johanneson) and the other two, are shared cousins Jim Thorpe and Jimmy Stewart.

Made me laugh. Great video 🙌🏽♥️

My kid got his done. Turns out he is cousins with my Brother in law's sister. The rest of the family haven't taken their tests to see who is related to whom or how but it seems like there was a pile of teepee creeping in that little corner of Newfoundland back in the day.

@glenn-younger

2 жыл бұрын

“… a pile of teepee creeping…” Great turn of a phrase. 😆😆💖

Love prevails. Amazing video. I work in epiginetics. Ancestry rocks.

More than 40 years after divorcing my ex, I found we had French-Canadian ancestors in common. My deceased mother in law was a 7th cousin!!

That is so true about everyone being related!

How beautiful you are! Your numbers are 67% African + 26% Indian + 7% European. :-)

Nice sweater, great tour!! Loved it and I have one too!!!!

My momma was always saying you can't date that girl. We are related. It seemed we were related to half the island.

100% African, I don't need anything else!!!

@lauraarcher6996

3 жыл бұрын

?!!!

@baileybeatsproduction001

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@CrazyBunniePanda

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheWhale45 if he feels that, why are you mad. Anything below 25% is pointless to even include. Hater.

@sereneamani1713

3 жыл бұрын

Does your DNA say 100% African. Mine is 92% but my mathematical genius LOL rounds it up to 100%.

Oh My I was looking at your screen while I was watching U while I was doing some ancestry and i saw your husband's last name Grinage and decided to see if I have any Grinages in my tree I do have Lois Grinage in my tree who knows We might be related

Now that was interesting. Congrats, so cool to find out

Results..... I'm, my own, Grandpa 🎶🎼🎵🎤

You do know that africans have been living in india for 1000s of years, people from south India originally came from east africa.

This is the reason I refuse to date another jamaican! 😂 I come from a long line of LARGE families. My mom is one of 17! It will not be me 😂

@dengmabior3042

2 жыл бұрын

😂

@Introvertsan

2 жыл бұрын

Same and the island is ridiculously small so most people are related whether they want to think about it or not

@SuperTruthful

2 жыл бұрын

lol

@Devy717

2 жыл бұрын

Same reason why I refuse to date a Navajo. I don't wanna date family. Edit : I have a white guy and he doesn't know his roots. I am curious, plus my mutt doggo. She's gonna need one too.

@queenpluto5755

2 жыл бұрын

@@Devy717 😂😂

This was really fun and interesting to watch but I must admit I'm now even more afraid of the crazy things DNA tracing could uncover.

You'll need to build your family trees and see where it overlaps... Start by looking for common locations. Also, look at shared matches to determine with branch of your family it comes from. If you share matches on your maternal grandmother's side, you know that is where the common ancestors come from. So building that ancestral tree of that grandmother will eventually overlap.

We are all decendants of Noah so of course we're related. 🖤🤎💛♥️🤍

Oh my!!! Belize is so small!!

Omgoodness shocking news about it. What a great beautiful FIERCE family regardless of the results. I'm looking forward for my results coming out too.

I love the dna exploration. It is fun

I'd like to do a DNA test because I NEVER met my father...have only seen one small photo of him...& know nothing about that whole side of my ancestry (he'd be dead by now...he was older when he fathered me & had a whole other family!- but I'm still curious!)

@crazedsecy

2 жыл бұрын

When I did my Ancestry dna test, it brought a new cousin into my family. She was looking for her father, who didn’t know she existed. He knows now.

Same thing happened to my moms and her new husband hahaha they’re related which makes our fights 100xs funnier

@acr8615

Жыл бұрын

You always needs to ask questions when meeting someone because if you have kids. This can affect the child birth.

This sort of happened to me . We found all kinds of connections in my grandparents families in colonial era . But the weirdest was that my ex husband the father of my children , is related to my grandmothers adopted parents ! So my ex husband is related to my great grandparents and I’m not . My kids are related to my great grandparents and I’m not ! What a world !

Great video😉 if my cousin has a child, that child is MY 1st cousin once removed.. But my child and my cousin’s child are SECOND cousins. If my cousin’s child has their own child, that baby is my child’s second cousin once removed but the baby is my first cousin TWICE removed. Continuing on, if my child now has a child, the baby and my cousin’s child’s baby are THIRD cousins❤️. This formula applies whether I’m talking about first cousin, second cousins etc (i.e. if my second cousin had a child, that child would be my second cousin once removed but it would be my child’s THIRD cousin)