How Your Thoughts Affect Your Marriage with Dave Meyer | Joyce Meyer's Talk It Out | Episode 120
We have heard you loud and clear…we want more Dave Meyer! So it’s time for a marriage discussion, part 2, that you don’t want to miss. In this episode, Dave’s back on the pink couch with Joyce, Ginger, and Erin to talk through even more of the many lessons they’ve learned in their nearly 57 years married that will help you think the right way when it comes to your spouse so you can maintain, build, or prepare for a loving, godly, life-giving marriage.
And make sure you check out episode 67 to hear part 1 with Dave and Joyce!
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Joyce Meyer, one of the world’s leading practical Bible teachers and New York Times best-selling author, shares encouragement and advice to help us enjoy our daily lives.
With a heart to share Christ and love people, Joyce’s messages help people in all walks of life to grow in their faith, learn to study the Bible, find healing from the wounds of life, get answers to life’s questions and encounter the love of God in a powerful way.
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I can't imagine the last 30 yrs of my life without Joyce Meyers in it, so I thank you Dave for supporting, loving & being the perfect Help mate to our Joyce!!! God bless you both ❤️
@donnadallariva8377
4 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
@patmelton43
2 ай бұрын
We do love her.
Listening to Dave Mayer one thought came to my mind: His love was stronger than his ego. Wow!
@vivecagipsonwilliams1165
8 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh Ginger!!! My husband does the same thing!!! 😅He will fall fast asleep 💤 and wake up with detailed commentary!!! Like noooo you were fast asleep! He’s insistent that he heard every word 😅
@stepheessel6667
8 ай бұрын
Wow.. you're so right
@Carolyn.Shalom
8 ай бұрын
Who is the blonde lady?
@jao62223
8 ай бұрын
@@Carolyn.Shalomthe credits say erin cluly research editor for Joyce Myer
@maryelizabethtv4941
7 ай бұрын
Exactly
Joyce is so blessed to have such a steadfast patient husband. He does life with her.
@patmelton43
2 ай бұрын
I want a Dave in my life.
Don't think about what's wrong with your husband ladies, think about what is right. Joyce Meyer
Listening to Dave Myers I can see that my daughter Monica had a terrible life in her youth with 2 previous marriages, drug addiction, alcohol. She found great Christian man that accepted her past with love and God's Help. They have been together 17 years but married 9. She is clean, no alcohol for 9 years no drugs. She now follows God like Joyce does.😢❤
@folababs7442
7 ай бұрын
🎉praise God
@sarahkwebihaw.7564
7 ай бұрын
Glory to God
@Whitechapel50
5 ай бұрын
She's lucky that she got another chance. Some people don't and suffer the rest of their lives in a bad marriage.
@karen-if7zq
4 ай бұрын
What a wonderful turnaround! God is always performing miracles 😊
@patmelton43
2 ай бұрын
Praise God.
Wise man he went into marriage with the right mindset, unselfish. Man of faith, love never fails
You know Dave was patient, kind, loving, and full of faith in the Lord and also you, Dave was full of the Holy Ghost ❤and being Christ like
@user-zk2tb1fd4u
7 ай бұрын
God made us all fearfully and wonderfully made for His Glory And Honor.We are simply sinners saved by His mercy and grace.Each one special,each one unic,each one different. We where never meant to be the same as any other person.God only asks for us to Love one another and to learn to be in one accord and one mind in Him!!That is it!!!We can be completely different yet in one accord and one in the way we think as a couple or as a body of believer's.
@mitcheldavisel1505
4 ай бұрын
When God gives victory in areas of your life; you need to shut the door completely on the Devil. Of the vastness of the mind, find something good to remember.
@patmelton43
2 ай бұрын
God had this great man of God reserved for Joyce. I want a "Dave' OF MY OWN.
Dave is Funny! " I dont think about marriage I DO marriage!" So true! He is quick witted. Erin look like she was about to cry:( I think she admires their marriage. A lot of men are not as strong as Dave. He is one of a kind. I like him, because he is not a cornball. Some men come on these religious talk shows and ramble on. They look at the panel for their reaction. I immediately turn those shows off!
@maryelizabethtv4941
7 ай бұрын
Exactly
I love hearing Dave and Joyce together 🩵🤍🩵🤍
Lord, thank you for this beautiful example of God’s plan for marriage 🙏❤️🙌
Mr Dave Myers is a man of God.👍🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌♥️😇🙏
This is the 3rd time I'm watching this and will probably watch it again. I love this show especially when Dave is with them. Too funny! 😂
I LOVE it when Dave and Joyce appear together. Dave is such a supportive husband. ❤❤❤. Joyce is a lucky woman. Be blessed!!! Dave and Joyce!!!
Dave’s love for Joyce is extremely amazing and has helped them to appreciate each other’s differences. God is faithful.🌹🙏🏽
This is the greatest and most loving man I have ever seen ...well done, Joyce as you are the greatest woman also
I honor you, Dave. Glory to God. 56yrs of Marriage. I never saw this long union of Marriage in my Parents before my Earthly father passed away
Marriage is so, so important.... thank you.... my personality is so much like Joyce, I have been nasty, controlling, .... due to good teaching from Joyce I am different now. Thank you. You have helped so, so much. My four kids thank you .
Dave and Joyce are beautiful, inside and out. I admire both of them so much. I'm so very grateful that I found this channel recently. I have so much to learn from Joyce and her ministry. ❤❤
Man, when I was listening around 7:20, I suddenly had a zoom-out moment and realised, "Man, that reflects the love God has for us, probably. Really understanding, patient, gracious etc., because he knows what we've been through."
You both are such a blessing to the kingdom of God. Thank you for your transparency.
If you wait until your spouse is happy to be happy then your codependent. Dave happily went on and lived his life and this stability helped Joyce learn how to cope with all her inner demons.
Joyce and Dave...America's mom and dad. They are SO cute together. 💜💜💜✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏
I say this with purity but Dave is so cute! I’ve always prayed God will give me a husband who I can still see the boy in him, and seeing Dave reminds me how this is absolutely possible! Thank you Jesus for these two - Aunty Joyce and Uncle Dave! They’re just that sweet 🥰
@inchristalone25
7 ай бұрын
Oh believe me there are many men living from the inner child! And it isn't always fun to see.
Love you Joyce and Dave I'm sixty five. Husband has dementia for ten years ,and is now in care. And I'm feeling like a yoyo. But listening to Joyce is that no matter what I am going through going through 5:29
I always love listening to Joyce Meyer especially doing her early Ministry and now i have a great profound respect for Dave , what a great man of God!
WOW! I don’t think about marriage. I do marriage. I’d like to watch that other episode. He is one of my favorite guest.
When we pray for other's, pray in humility because we each have our issues. That helped me.
He washes the dishes. That's wonderful. You are BLESSED Ms. Joyce!
This was so helpful, even to me, an unmarried person from South Africa. Thank you so much. I even felt "welcome" and "included" in your conversation. It means so much. It's almost like fellowship. Love you guys
Thank you for asking that last question! There are women sitting on the edge of their marriages wondering which way to go because their situation is very toxic and they are confused! God will definitely show them what to do and give them resources, courage and a sound mind to walk it out!
@Whitechapel50
5 ай бұрын
Yes,but it's so very hard.
God bless you Mr and Mrs Mayer❤ I loved everything about Joyce since I was in Ghana growing up as a teenager. I wrote to Joyce as my permpal what we used to called then.And to my surprise 😅 Joyce wrote to me back and brought me some of her books. I was soo overwhelmed hearing from Joyce. And God has used Joyce teachings to blessed me and my family since. I have been married for 24 years now. I thank God for His grace and mercy towards us as couples. We love and respect each other. ❤praise be to God for everything ❤
This 2 women are the best to follow in Joyce footsteps to continue with her program
Y husband is very, very much like Dave. He’s a good Christian man in his religion and in his everyday life. He walks the talk. God bless him.❤️🙏
I love it when couples take there vows seriously and work there problems with out a devorse that is what marriage is to me Joyce and Dav are such a cute couple 😘💕
I got so excited when I saw Dave on the couch! This is so good 🎉
This was great! You lovebirds light up rooms. A quote my now deceased spouse shared years ago " A man's ability to hurt his wife is only surpassed by her ability to remember it." Such a true quote. This video talk was very educational. Not too many men are like David. He is a rare gem. Thank you for sharing his funny side with us. So true,be who God made us to be and let God work on other to change. ❤
🤣🤣 39:18 I Love what Ginger said about her husband Tim! That was so funny! My Dad was like that!
Amazing advice from you guys and Joyce you are a star,🌟. I am definitely going to use your great advice in my marriage. We all annoy our spouses in some ways or another but if we love each other we will try and get on and pray about everything. God is a miracle worker and he is a good listener 🙏🏼💚
@Whitechapel50
5 ай бұрын
What if you don't love each other?
He loves Joyce even when she was going through what she was going through, that's real love, He loved her past her pain, he loves her above belief.
God bless Dave and Joyce,for me is a good example for all to follow,this is a blessing for me halelujah😅🩵🤚✝️
I love when David is a guest! 🙏🏽🤍✝️
@dorahkainew5238
7 ай бұрын
Me too ❤
@sarahkwebihaw.7564
6 ай бұрын
He is great
You are a great interviewer. You ask good questions and share appropriate views with just the right amount of probing, listening and sharing.
Ginger - I heard the comment about your husband falling asleep so easily. It may mean he has a medical condition such as sleep apnea and is not sleeping well at night. I so appreciate all the work that all of you do at Joyce Meyer Ministries!!
Be blessed Joyce & Dave. I really admire yr marriage .
Be stable in living the Christian life in front of those you love ❤
Thank you. This helped me so much. I struggle with being a good witness but you cant do that by being a peple pleaser. I want to try to live my lfe and enjoy my life in the Lord and let God Work it out. The Lord bless you and keep you all ❤
I can relate to Joyce and Dave. I went through similar things as a child God has richley blessed their marriage. I also had a great marriage .My husband always put God first. Thank you for letting us share in your beautiful marriage . God bless . Amen
So so good! Y’all should have more of these with Dave! Great insight on marriage and how to navigate our feelings! Thanks for sharing!
I love this conversation, full of wisdom. Thank you 🙏❤️
Wow this gets me very excited about marriage 💯👏👏🤣🕊️
I’m grateful for my marriage and all I learned in the time we were together.
Thank you for sharing it’s like you are describing my marriage. Your videos helped me a lot,Dave and Joyce are so funny 😂
I really enjoyed this show, in fact I always love watching Joyce Meyer. This Show was a blessing in so many ways ❤God bless yourll 🙏
Brilliant! I loved the honesty and the hilarity, but also the serious stuff woven into the mix, love it, thank you !
You guys are such a blessing to those around you! Thank you for your show and the honesty!
Prayer is 💯 in our marriage
I had been praying for GOD to open door for me to get my own apartment caus I couldn't deal with the verbal abuse every day or every other day. Me asking GOD why is my husband so mean to me? I felt so much hate and resentment coming from my husband. GOD did open doors for me. I'm now at Peace n able to Pray, Praise and Worship God with no negative and cursing words being yelled at me. For Praying, Reading God's Word and Listening to Praise Music.
I'm like you Joyce ❤ and my hubby of e4 years is like dave❤ God bless, thanks for being so transparent with us
I'm in a relationship with the Holy father, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit And knowing the revelation behind prayer is a gift God said, he's making me financially stable And then my finances go on a roller coaster ride But I'm like God it had to get worst
Amen thoughts are bad. The Knowing is from God. Take every thought to the obedience of Christ.
Joyce one of your recent sermons hit me to the tee. I would of sworn God had this for me right today. I believe I am going through a miracle/breakthrough right now. It hasn't happened yet but I think it is on its way and may get a little worse before better. I will need the faith of at least a mustard seed to see this come to the end . I can see the flat land from this mole hill just in the distance. Thank you for your love for God and hard hard work it has taken you to help people like me. God bless you.
If you let an unhappy person make you unhappy you are codependent. That’s simply profound.
Dave is really one of a kind❤
10:59 Whoa that's literally what I'd been slowly recognising these last few days (maybe the last 48 hours?) and now this video is talking about it.
Admire with Great respect Joyce, and David, How hobble and open to the World sharing their personal courage through straggles to stay course of God's Love. Still life's challenges continue to all of us most important is believing God's miracles mentally, Physically happen to everyone who believes!!
What really Hurts is that I'm the one that Don't like to Argue. I rather keep quiet to avoid arguments. The sad part of it is that my husband will follow me to the other room. Or raises his voice to me n I tell him, that I don't want to argue. So I get cussed at. If n when I start to say something, he tells me to shut up n that he don't want to hear me. WOW! I really don't have voice!
I love this. I love that you said you can enjoy your life even if the other isn't enjoying theirs. I am learning to let God change me instead of changing someone else. I am finally learning, slowly I might add, to let God do his work in all of us. It is freeing to develop this mindset, that it is not my job to change someone. That is not my responsibility. If it was, I would fail. Praise God, He is working all things out for the good of those who love him.
I love his humble spirit,listening to joyce preaching about her life really help me with my marriage, l always love hearing about dave, God blessings
This was such as great show with Joyce and her husband Dave, I enjoyed it immensely, they gave such great advice
Ephesians 5:33: However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband. God's blessings to you both Joyce and Dave!
The open, real & honest 'talk it out', is sooo helpful. Praise God & Bless you all for this platform 😊❤
It is wonderful to see how Dave and Joyce Meyer love each other, it so blessed Me to see and hear it❤❤ Thank you🙂❤ GOD bless you!!❤
It was fun watching Dave and Joyce and hearing about their wisdom! Thank you
I needed to hear this, because i was always ready to give up, on my marriage.
Perfect timing for me to hear this. Thank you!
Miss Joyce your story hits me hard I was exposed to pornography at a young age. I can’t even imagine everything you’ve been through. God bless your family! I need your teachings everyday I am trying to b more moral. Dress in full covering clothes. My mom was the one to show me your videos.
@DaModelShenika
9 ай бұрын
WoW! Praise God! If it's one piece of advice I would give you is this "Let God be God in your life" Let him do the changing! You just surrender more & more each day! God bless!
@donreyes1792
8 ай бұрын
❤@@DaModelShenika
What a perfect pair you are!! God bless you all! Best show ever💜 Joyce you have such beautiful eyes. Ps: you don’t buy art to match, you buy what speaks to your heart, go Dave👍
I love that Dave LOVES Joyce. 💜✝️🙏 They have FUN.
Thank you all I’m blessed thank you for always teaching all of us how to live a Christian life in this difficult crazy world and thank you for the laugh 😂🙏🏼❤️
Amen amen to OUR TRULY wonderful and amazing God for BLESSING us ALL 🙏🥰🌹 in this entire world WITH DAVE and JOYCE MEYER! Dave and Joyce are SO awesome to watch/listen to 🥰! Their MARRIAGE is if HOW a marriage/relationship SHOULD be ESPECIALLY when keeping GOD 😇💕🙏 at the CENTER! Ive ALWAYS FULLY agreed with JOYCE on ALL since watching/listening to her in 2015! Dave, Joyce , Ginger, Mike, Penny and ALL ❤❤❤ at ministries are TRUE BLESSINGS ❤😇💕🙏💙 to us all! Again TRULY ❤️ love DAVE/JOYCE and ALL at their ministry! Joyce and Joel OSTEEN have REALLY brought MYSELF closer to GOD 🥰😇🙏🌹❤️! And all EXTRA PRAYERS greatly appreciated for ISRAEL 😇 🙏💙 and the USA and other countries and ALL government leaders! Much love and PRAYERS to DAVE/JOYCE/ALL MINISTRIES and entire world! Also Blessed and happy 😁 new year🎉 to all!❤🎉🥰🌹😇🎊
I agree with that YOU can't stop praying for each other
Ong! The dishes joke is so real I’m telling you annoyed I would be too I just love her 😂❤
The more you think about it, the deeper those roots are going
Relationships are so hard. Without God it cannot be healthy, happy, or holy. I ask God to help me with my emotions during difficult times
Thank you Joyce Meyer God bless you and your ministry and everyone Amen
I absolutely love these two!!! Joyce is my hero!!!! She is truly anointed and a great minister. ❤
So GRATEFUL for this podcast! God bless you all for doing it❤
Love this episode! Dave makes me smile.
It’s a soooo true and reality marriage life….thank you. I learned a lot today from Joyce and David’ s experience ! I thought it was only us, we have a problems and difficult and it’s not ! Thanks for the programs….
@joycemeyer
9 ай бұрын
We're so grateful to hear that this episode was a blessing to you! Check out joycemeyer.org/marriage for more great encouragement! -Team JMM
Very interesting comment - that things and circumstances will get worse for a while when you are praying for a spouse or person because God is working in their life.
Great peace have which love thy law and nothing shall offend thee. Psalms 119:165
Dave is so handsome❤️ what a great couple! God is so good above and beyond what we can think or ask!❤️
What a man of integrity and honor! Dave put most men in the body of Christ to shame. I pray more men in the body of Christ will be of such caliber. Most people quit at the slightest hint of difficulties. I pray that God sends me a godly man like this one day.
I like that. Dave has lots of pictures of her. That's LOVE right there.
Inspirational talk it out session 👏 🙌 God bless Joyce Meyer and her family 👪 🙏
@joycemeyer
9 ай бұрын
We're so glad to hear that this episode blessed you! Blessings to you as well! -Team JMM
Thank all of you for this rich video. I love how God shows us through other Godly marriage, to keep coming to that instruction manual “the Bible” for guidance. Also, what a joy to see and hear how God loves marriage. ❤
We all love Dave ❤❤❤
I do not hold on to anything. Cause I do not use feelings. I go strictly by the word of God. Salvation is after my family, their family, and your family
I use to hear people before I knew the Lord. When you pray things become worst. Before they get better.
I admire these two so much. Wow how strong is Dave, I feel uncomfortable if my husband doesn't speak to me for a day or less. Please pray for me in this area that the Lord makes me strong and he works on my marriage, which I know he is doing. Gods marriage counseling right here with Joyce and Dave. Taking their Godly wisdom and advise