How your Masturbation Technique Might be Ruining your Sex Life?

Before we get started let's clear one thing up masturbation is perfectly normal and healthy for both men comes with numerous physical and mental benefits.
However, for several reasons, some people might experience pain when they masturbate. We know around 75 percent of women and people with vulvas will experience some pain during masturbation or sex in their lifetimes, but discomfort can happen to men, women, and people of all genders.
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***Unusual Masturbatory Practice as an Etiological Factor in the Diagnosis and Treatment of Sexual Dysfunction in Young Men***
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*Retarded ejaculation* link.springer.com/article/10....
Traumatic masturbation syndrome may be an important cause of erectile dysfunction in premature ejaculation patients doi.org/10.1111/and.14168
****DIOSYNCRATIC MASTURBATION PATTERNS:
A KEY UNEXPLORED VARIABLE IN THE TREATMENT
OF RETARDED EJACULATION BY THE PRACTICING UROLOGIST****
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction
00:45 Traumatic Masturbation Syndrome
02:13 Death Grip
03:22 Idiosyncratic Masturbation Style
05:01 How to treat painful masturbation
05:55 Use your hands only
07:33 How much is too much masturbation?
08:17 Conclusion

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  • @slimsantilli4476
    @slimsantilli4476 Жыл бұрын

    When I was a kid. My dad told me if I kept doing that, I would go blind. I said " Um.. dad I'm over here"

  • @maxfrax333

    @maxfrax333

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol.

  • @adammitchell5683

    @adammitchell5683

    Жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @titaniumman_22

    @titaniumman_22

    Жыл бұрын

    Mine said the same…I told him I’d just do it until I needed glasses.

  • @angloaust1575

    @angloaust1575

    Жыл бұрын

    Safer than creating unwanted pregnancies but better to be pure and holy!

  • @b.o.1951

    @b.o.1951

    Жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @krischampion4435
    @krischampion4435 Жыл бұрын

    Laughed so hard at the guy squeezing the juice out in the gym. Needed that. Thanks.

  • @oldenslo4141

    @oldenslo4141

    Жыл бұрын

    Brings back the old song that Led Zepplin brought back, "Squeeze My Lemon...."

  • @Rockstar-jl4ri

    @Rockstar-jl4ri

    Жыл бұрын

    Same lmao 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Rockstar-jl4ri

    @Rockstar-jl4ri

    Жыл бұрын

    @@oldenslo4141 love that song

  • @daviddobyns399

    @daviddobyns399

    Жыл бұрын

    And the cover pic with the guy grabbing on tight probably

  • @secretlyaddictive8800

    @secretlyaddictive8800

    Жыл бұрын

    I don’t think it’s that bad 🫦🥹😍

  • @HakeemTheDream616
    @HakeemTheDream61611 ай бұрын

    I'm glad to see someone supports my lifestyle.

  • @MJdagoat45

    @MJdagoat45

    2 ай бұрын

    How long is it

  • @free3956

    @free3956

    2 ай бұрын

    hi pls can i have ur mail id

  • @exquisicy5429

    @exquisicy5429

    2 ай бұрын

    💀💀💀​@@MJdagoat45

  • @contrerasj87
    @contrerasj87 Жыл бұрын

    So far marriage is the only thing that ruined my sex life. If I had known there would be little to no sex in marriage I would’ve stayed single.

  • @edsonnokanogueira8012

    @edsonnokanogueira8012

    Жыл бұрын

    If u live together, why u hv less sex? I live with my wife and we never had a week without sex

  • @josuedelaguilarios2387

    @josuedelaguilarios2387

    Жыл бұрын

    If you had remained single, chick would have been rejecting you day and night, chick wouldn't have given you the time of day and you would be MGTOW now. So chill out, at least you got someone. Sex is not what's cracked up to be

  • @christopherjameswright9614

    @christopherjameswright9614

    Жыл бұрын

    Bruhhh she's cheating on you bruh

  • @Amsyprologic

    @Amsyprologic

    Жыл бұрын

    She dosent like you anymore in that way or she is cheating. Have a serious conversation with her about this. This is the first sign that something is going on. 2nd sign is if she is constantly telling you off about anything that you do and how you are not doing it the right way.

  • @1Whitetail

    @1Whitetail

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen brother

  • @mikekrusz6789
    @mikekrusz6789 Жыл бұрын

    I love how you talk to us all like everything is so natural,which it is but you explain it in a no judge mental way! Great job as always Doc 😊

  • @chrismathis4162

    @chrismathis4162

    Жыл бұрын

    Because it is natural and there is no need to feel guilty. That’s religion talking.

  • @mariogmajner6549

    @mariogmajner6549

    Жыл бұрын

    @@chrismathis4162 Nothing wrong with being chaste.

  • @chrismathis4162

    @chrismathis4162

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mariogmajner6549 The word chaste comes from old French meaning virtuous, therefore once again implying those who engage in the natural biological act of sex are somehow not virtuous.

  • @xcq7222

    @xcq7222

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@chrismathis4162 that's satan talking. stop coping buddy

  • @dovydas4483

    @dovydas4483

    Жыл бұрын

    Stop fapping

  • @franciscaruso751
    @franciscaruso751 Жыл бұрын

    I love that you talk openly about this

  • @cachi-7878

    @cachi-7878

    3 ай бұрын

    Oh please, can’t you see she gets off talking about this?

  • @naveensharma7478

    @naveensharma7478

    2 ай бұрын

    She is a doctor. Know in depth knowledge

  • @tsurek
    @tsurek Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Dr. Always very helpful, backed by education, science, and studies. Thank you!

  • @jsullivan2112

    @jsullivan2112

    Ай бұрын

    What studies? She just said that there's extremely little data for one of her claims (the traumatic one). Did you miss that?

  • @PattyGotTheFatty
    @PattyGotTheFatty Жыл бұрын

    As serious as this is I can't get over the term "death grip"

  • @gogetit083
    @gogetit083 Жыл бұрын

    This woman is great...the way she speaks is so comforting.

  • @portfolio91

    @portfolio91

    4 ай бұрын

    And, very very hot.😻

  • @mikesciales9768
    @mikesciales9768 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you again for an intelligent presentation. This is all really good to know. You're teaching the High School Sex Ed course we all should have had. Well done.

  • @TheWefikus

    @TheWefikus

    10 ай бұрын

    @jessicaj9743what are you talking about, Jesus himself jacked off regularly. It’s a canon event.

  • @tommac21

    @tommac21

    Ай бұрын

    Oh please don't encourage this total nonsense

  • @JAPARICAN50-50
    @JAPARICAN50-50 Жыл бұрын

    She said a great way for self pleasure, relief stress and sleep better she also forgot to mention a great way to save money and avoid headaches

  • @nickhousman6222

    @nickhousman6222

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @Bruglie

    @Bruglie

    Жыл бұрын

    Hahahaha

  • @smisomazibuko7625
    @smisomazibuko7625 Жыл бұрын

    I am glad you have finally opened peoples eyes on the damages of PMO

  • @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    Ай бұрын

    Submission to Allah

  • @MrTresBN
    @MrTresBN Жыл бұрын

    I really like Dr. Rena's approach in these videos. Calm, comforting and most of all informative. I really can appreciate that. If I would've known she was in my area, I probably would've tried to schedule consultation with her instead of the Urologist I went to see prior for my last routine check. Great informative videos. Although the subject matters don't always necessarily apply to me, I still like learning and incorporating some things/techniques/suggestions when warranted. Good info that I can use and/or share.

  • @tommac21

    @tommac21

    Жыл бұрын

    Because she just finished pulling hers

  • @tommac21

    @tommac21

    Ай бұрын

    And how she can do this. While talking BS the whole time

  • @ericb2605
    @ericb2605 Жыл бұрын

    This Doctor has the sweetest softest voice ever , my speaker was up high and unlike other annoying people voices she still sound soft and sweet , yes I respect her as a professional but she has the best voice 🤗 love her post

  • @richardkremmen7811
    @richardkremmen7811 Жыл бұрын

    This is a very a very insightful, useful and completely credible, important vid, thanks!!

  • @matthewhughes1950
    @matthewhughes1950 Жыл бұрын

    On the bicycle seat thing this is why it's really important to find a really good seat. The channel gap in the middle of the seat is super important for not putting pressure on the nerve cluster down there. Bottom line, dont cheap out on your bike seat if you plan on using it a lot

  • @jamshidrr

    @jamshidrr

    3 ай бұрын

    Just buy a noseless 👃 sit

  • @KpxUrz5745
    @KpxUrz5745 Жыл бұрын

    My mom always said it would cause blindness, but I told her I would stop when I need glasses...

  • @tswelopeleseleka9641

    @tswelopeleseleka9641

    Жыл бұрын

    lol

  • @jlr194

    @jlr194

    Жыл бұрын

    It's fun

  • @tiverejosiah7126

    @tiverejosiah7126

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes it does

  • @josephfdent

    @josephfdent

    Жыл бұрын

    so that's why I'm wearing bifocals. Your mom was right 🤣

  • @Portlycranium

    @Portlycranium

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope I clicked like cause I am almost blind from not stopping. 😂😂😂😂

  • @miked5789
    @miked5789 Жыл бұрын

    IMS & getting over it, is something that I was unable to quantify beforehand. Very interesting & comforting to hear it from a professional.

  • @avirazian
    @avirazian Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Dr. it takes a lot of courage to seak of this topic. And your insights will help many people including me to a healthier lifestyle...

  • @tommac21

    @tommac21

    Ай бұрын

    It took even more guts, to flat out lie on social media. I would have said a lot of " balls " but as you can see she doesn't have them. Therefore she shouldn't be talking bullcrap about men

  • @marccano5061
    @marccano50612 ай бұрын

    Thank you Dr. Malik! Extremely helpful!

  • @anim8torfiddler871
    @anim8torfiddler871 Жыл бұрын

    Best discussion of the problems I've run across. Thanks. New subscriber.

  • @dankmemer2774
    @dankmemer2774 Жыл бұрын

    “If you want something done right, you do it yourself” ~ Master Oogway probably in Kung Fu Panda 5: Death Grip of Destruction

  • @Zeegoku1007

    @Zeegoku1007

    Жыл бұрын

    Nah I think that was Tun Szu..

  • @dankmemer2774

    @dankmemer2774

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Zeegoku1007 ah yes, in his famous book: “technique of peace”

  • @serbu4169

    @serbu4169

    Жыл бұрын

    A *hand* is most useful when it is empty -Cumfucius 8==👊==D

  • @adnanorochi3761

    @adnanorochi3761

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Zeegoku1007 u mean "Sun Tzu"

  • @dhirajgawande007

    @dhirajgawande007

    Жыл бұрын

    @@adnanorochi3761 you mean zun ztu

  • @0HARE
    @0HARE8 ай бұрын

    Thanks for a great informative episode, Doc. It’s good to learn that I’m boringly normal.

  • @michaelstrangis8742
    @michaelstrangis8742 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for all the information! Your channel provides lots of answers to questions that can be awkward to ask! Great channel! Thanks

  • @tommac21

    @tommac21

    Ай бұрын

    Well for the love of God don't believe a word of it. Except maybe when she mentioned women which wasn't much. Not 1 thing she said about men is true. Of course how would a woman know. All she did was mention bogus reports

  • @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    Ай бұрын

    Wife back door not allowed ect

  • @marek100play
    @marek100play Жыл бұрын

    Simple thank you, all in one explanation to all strange questions. I feel more confident now.

  • @mariocalderon8703
    @mariocalderon8703 Жыл бұрын

    Masturbation should just be a simple pleasure; Don't make it a habit! Thank You Dr. Malik

  • @TheBoi87

    @TheBoi87

    Жыл бұрын

    It becomes a habit for sexless unpartnered people, we’re real vile about the subject commenter!😆😊💯

  • @mariocalderon8703

    @mariocalderon8703

    Жыл бұрын

    Telegram

  • @waynelancaster4676

    @waynelancaster4676

    Жыл бұрын

    Tell that to those of us that are married

  • @Fletch8714

    @Fletch8714

    Жыл бұрын

    Like The Doc Says If it Doesn't interfere with your Daily Life, for some it helps us sleep better when we achieve orgasm before bedtime, and that tank never runs dry, and safe sex alone or with a partner is the only way to go!

  • @TheBoi87

    @TheBoi87

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Fletch8714 It keeps you sexually active, an aware of your sexual identity. Some of us have not had partnered sex in so long..haha. But, good points!

  • @michaelbean9165
    @michaelbean91657 ай бұрын

    Thank you for these programs.

  • @Johny40Se7en
    @Johny40Se7en3 ай бұрын

    Wonderful video. Very down to Earth all the way through, nice one.

  • @jemkey6930
    @jemkey6930 Жыл бұрын

    Always love these videos. I can pause the video and leave the room so dad can get some much needed information. He won't schedule a doctor visit and he certainly won't talk about "private" things with them, but he will watch your videos and sometimes he will talk to me. I wish I could schedule an appointment with you for him, anyway thanks for the education.

  • @x-man5056

    @x-man5056

    Жыл бұрын

    Consider blue tooth headphones. You should be able to easily move about your house and listen, great for music too. If you get over the ear ones you can even vacuum and listen.

  • @chrispompano

    @chrispompano

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Jem, my long-winded, but concerning comments keep getting deleted. I also take care of my mom, & its hard to get to a Dr.s office, so we do telephone office consults, & we get labs drawn in the home, but I end up being her clinical advocate & always discuss new UTI or Bacterial Vaginosis symptoms for her with the Dr. which makes her & me very uncomfortable to talk about. As I mentioned in my last deleted comment, "Laughter is the Best Medicine"!, especially about private topics like this. Play the very funny country music vid about older male problems for your Dad by: Toby Keith - As Good As I Once Was. That should inspire him to get the very necessary help he needs to take a big step forward. But I'm the same way also as your Dad, so much embarrassment over my issues no Urologist could help with, but thru years of persistent research, I think I found the miracle pill called Low Dose Naltrexone (LDN) for prostate pain. Would love Dr. M's opinion.

  • @jemkey6930

    @jemkey6930

    Жыл бұрын

    @Charming Chowder though dad and I have had some conversations about adult things, we are a single parent/child household, he doesn't talk to me about "personal" pains or problems. That is the point I am making I can put on one of these videos and give my dad privacy to get some much needed information.

  • @jemkey6930

    @jemkey6930

    Жыл бұрын

    @@chrispompano yes, a few months back my dad strained himself lifting railroad cross ties building a fence. He asked for some ice and I told him to lay on my bed (we only have one in our camper) and I went outside to give him some privacy. I begged him to make a doctor's appointment but he stubbornly believes things like this will pass. I'm just hoping some extra information will help him see he needs to be examined sometimes. Financially I can't argue my point very often.

  • @canalhonkventura440

    @canalhonkventura440

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jemkey6930 Ok maybe crazy to hear but... you just need 2 passports. One for you and other for your dad. Then go to a country where medicine is good and cheap, you can not only let him see his "private" issues but everything else (teeth, eyes, etc) and you too can do a checkup... And of course have good trips and build good memories with him..

  • @TheLastGuardian30
    @TheLastGuardian30 Жыл бұрын

    This is really informative! I’ll try to encompass these tips while masturbating, and try using lighter sensations in the future too

  • @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    Ай бұрын

    Wife back door not allowed ect

  • @pdzombie1906
    @pdzombie190610 ай бұрын

    Always helpful and interesting, Dr. M. Thanx!!!

  • @tommac21

    @tommac21

    Ай бұрын

    Your even funnier then her 😂😂😂

  • @RC-Heli835
    @RC-Heli835 Жыл бұрын

    Your opening pics are so hilarious!🤣😀 I always try to have some sort of Dr and patient fantasy going on in my head in these rare occasions!

  • @michaelmotyliwski4216
    @michaelmotyliwski4216 Жыл бұрын

    i watch you because your so open,no issue is off the table.

  • @robtam7529
    @robtam7529 Жыл бұрын

    I started working out regularly over a year ago. I started working squats about 5 months now into my routine. I find that along with weight loss, it has helped a lot with morning wood.

  • @swskitso

    @swskitso

    Жыл бұрын

    Morning wood is just a symptom of being relaxed. Stressing yourself will reduce it. I am sure you have heard the myth about military food containing salt peter to prevent erections, the truth is basic training puts you into a constant stressed state of exhaustion that henders morning wood.

  • @coasteyscoasteys4150

    @coasteyscoasteys4150

    Жыл бұрын

    @@swskitso Lol sure doc

  • @robinwagner7397

    @robinwagner7397

    Жыл бұрын

    Funny cause this guy at gym told me that the more I do squats, the more hornier I'll get🤣

  • @africanbeastify

    @africanbeastify

    Жыл бұрын

    @@robinwagner7397 it’s true! When you work on your legs, your body produces more testosterone. You can use it as a means to get better in the gym too ex: do some squats or leg presses before doing chest..

  • @robinwagner7397

    @robinwagner7397

    Жыл бұрын

    @@africanbeastify yeah I felt it the next day. I think I'm gonna do it before I see a girl again🤣

  • @julienrocher1
    @julienrocher1 Жыл бұрын

    This advice is sooooo good. Thank you

  • @ADAJ3KINGANGEL
    @ADAJ3KINGANGEL Жыл бұрын

    Man i’ve been doing a lot wrong. This channel is very important.

  • @brentduanefoster
    @brentduanefoster Жыл бұрын

    Wow, so much information to take in. You’ve done it again, Doc!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @Steamblade14
    @Steamblade14 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the insight Dr Malik

  • @manuelsomera9960
    @manuelsomera9960 Жыл бұрын

    I think I had that problem regarding traumatic masturbation syndrome when I was a kid coz I thought masturbation was a taboo. Thank you for your informative discussion regarding this.

  • @wokeclub1844

    @wokeclub1844

    10 ай бұрын

    Any tips on how to stop it?

  • @bendover7841

    @bendover7841

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@wokeclub1844Stop....doing it. Take a break for a month. The next time you do it, do it properly. It also gives your dick a curve which may be a good thing or a bad thing. But Premature Ejaculation is definitely not worth it.

  • @vanbeet5105

    @vanbeet5105

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@jessicaj9743🤦‍♂️

  • @ichosolemanuel6048

    @ichosolemanuel6048

    7 ай бұрын

    Jessica you know God doesnt exist right xD. When you die your brain doesnt get blood anymore and after a few minutes its perma broken!! You cant just respawn in "hell".

  • @MH_VOID

    @MH_VOID

    7 ай бұрын

    @jessicaj9743 perpetuating lies made or supported by somebody ashamed of being a bastard causes extreme evil.

  • @Trump145
    @Trump145 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you you sure answered my question thank you I really enjoy watching your videos and learning from you.

  • @Ronlaer
    @Ronlaer Жыл бұрын

    Finally someone that's really understands what they talk. Death grip in masturbation is very difficult to deal with it. You masturbate a lot and you get use to masturbate that way you can replicate with your partner, and to get rid of it is quite difficult. Thank you for the video was very interesting. Continue with this great channel.

  • @js0988

    @js0988

    Жыл бұрын

    Death grip doesn't exist in Europe where we don't mutilate childrens genitals. This is a thing in countries who mutilate genitals.

  • @harsh3936

    @harsh3936

    Жыл бұрын

    @@js0988 Not true, i am not circumcised but i am dealing with death grip. It has sort of ruined the real sexual pleasure with my partner.

  • @Ronlaer

    @Ronlaer

    Жыл бұрын

    @@js0988 I'm European and I'm dealing with dead grip. Like was said in the video, the vagina can't reproduce the same grip of a hand and because of that I don't have the saem pleasure of my partner and my partner feels she not pretty or can't give me pleasure. What she explain is total true and the answer given up in the video was the best one so far. Please continue this great work.

  • @TheBakingSlave

    @TheBakingSlave

    Жыл бұрын

    @@js0988 This is false, stop spreading misinformation. I have been with several partners who were NOT circumcized and still had issues with deathgrip. As you can see by other commenters you are wrong.....

  • @TheBakingSlave

    @TheBakingSlave

    Жыл бұрын

    @@harsh3936 Exactly.

  • @nikoswildcard1191
    @nikoswildcard1191 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this. My mental equilibrium needed that... It had been broken to pieces lately

  • @mpopa5673
    @mpopa5673 Жыл бұрын

    Great video ! Thank you doctor !

  • @rc2464
    @rc24645 ай бұрын

    So don't use a pair of pliers?

  • @zachinnifayfayfomosadface

    @zachinnifayfayfomosadface

    3 ай бұрын

    You’re not alone bro

  • @Los_SantosPoliceDepartment

    @Los_SantosPoliceDepartment

    3 ай бұрын

    @@zachinnifayfayfomosadface*s a m e .*

  • @immortal5670

    @immortal5670

    2 ай бұрын

    Man.. are you leaving in 3rd world? World is moving up to vice clamp, you are still on pliers? Really?

  • @BradAaronTaylor
    @BradAaronTaylor Жыл бұрын

    'Habituation' - This can _definitely_ apply to women as well? Some of the toys they buy.. do things that the male anatomy couldn't ever possibly replicate.

  • @x-man5056

    @x-man5056

    Жыл бұрын

    If your girl has a vibrator in her drawer, she'll need it to orgasm most likely. Best to not fuss about it, it's too late. Learn to incorporate it in your love making. It could be fun. Just make sure it's always fully charged up.

  • @3DJapan

    @3DJapan

    Жыл бұрын

    Some thing goes for guy toys.

  • @dlavarco

    @dlavarco

    Жыл бұрын

    All I can say about that is, so what. lol

  • @azazel673

    @azazel673

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, it also happens with women. But they can stop using it and eventually relearn to feel pleasure without the toy.

  • @knightstar1312

    @knightstar1312

    Жыл бұрын

    @@azazel673 guys can also stop the frequency or grip of steel and eventually relearn to feel pleasure.

  • @RomanoPRODUCTION
    @RomanoPRODUCTION Жыл бұрын

    Rena, my daily dose of ED cure. Thank you Doc.

  • @aldrainegarcia8715
    @aldrainegarcia8715 Жыл бұрын

    I'm a teenager and Thanks for this, i think I could get a self discipline from this thanks Doc.

  • @elamahmarvellous9499

    @elamahmarvellous9499

    5 ай бұрын

    Stop,it will literally stop your penis from growing since you are in your formative years I am speaking from experience

  • @ashdolo1
    @ashdolo1 Жыл бұрын

    Thank u so much this video really helps. 💪🏾

  • @7591warthog
    @7591warthog Жыл бұрын

    Very instructive as usual….

  • @ar1131
    @ar1131 Жыл бұрын

    very educative channel. thanks.

  • @brad8868
    @brad8868 Жыл бұрын

    Good advice Dr. Most appreciated 😎

  • @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    Ай бұрын

    Wife back door not allowed ect

  • @colindeer9657
    @colindeer96578 ай бұрын

    Thank you. A very helpful presentation for both sexes, I thought, although slanted obviously towards the man. I do not think it harms his partner to know these physiologically damaging patterns in behaviour. ( grip etc ) I also believe that this set of ED type ( end result scenarios ) is quite common among men who regularly attend to their own sexual needs. As a nurse and one who’s had to do my own research to improve my own health , there are many ways to improve the status quo of a man’s erectile function and nutrition is a major factor. Exercise’s specific to purpose etc and involve the partner. As hard as that sounds. Love making is a gourmet not a pkt of crisps. Men need to learn a different language and approach to love making. I look forward to seeing your other work. Cheers. Colin 🇦🇺

  • @pavan162
    @pavan162 Жыл бұрын

    There is a epidemic of post-majucatory ejaculation. Especially in subjects who are clinically sedentary and can't go on for long even though it's 'hard'. They are tired and has to reach climax with minimal work like masturbating

  • @lostcause7594
    @lostcause7594 Жыл бұрын

    I though masturbation was ruining my performance. I would just keep going all night and never finish.. but then i realised that my choice of partners was the issue. Women that think opening their legs is the only part they play in the whole thing dont offer the stimulation and interaction i require to finish! Funnily enough when i stopped dating shallow women the problem went away and has never returned.... touch wood! LOL

  • @truthlemonade9793
    @truthlemonade97938 ай бұрын

    Your makeup game is on point in this video. I didn't expect you to say mouth first when you said, "For a man it could be a woman's mouth, hand, or vagina."

  • @eliejose1828
    @eliejose1828 Жыл бұрын

    The more you know your own body the more you live a happy psychological, physiological and physical life.

  • @Firedog-ny3cq

    @Firedog-ny3cq

    Жыл бұрын

    Truth.

  • @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    Ай бұрын

    Wife back door not allowed ect

  • @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@Firedog-ny3cqwife back door not allowed ect

  • @Aquamayne100
    @Aquamayne100 Жыл бұрын

    Dr. Malik is the best!

  • @brianmatthews4149

    @brianmatthews4149

    Жыл бұрын

    She's a cutie

  • @brucekilby9957

    @brucekilby9957

    Жыл бұрын

    It's this the reason folks live together. Why do that stuff when you've got a nice lady or guy in your life. The M ain't as Good as your partner.🎅👰

  • @endofdayzfitnessu.k2126

    @endofdayzfitnessu.k2126

    Жыл бұрын

    @@brianmatthews4149 her face is long and big

  • @nobodysreal5830

    @nobodysreal5830

    Жыл бұрын

    Sounds like your dealing with the opposite when masturbating.

  • @baroqueobama6199

    @baroqueobama6199

    Жыл бұрын

    Her only problem is, she’s pro masturbation.

  • @turboman2019
    @turboman2019 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Dr Malik for your observation and advice about such an important but obscure topic for men,always looking forward to your content.I have a non related question,my wife got a pap smear examination and she said that it was extremely painful,her Doctor was male,is that a typical complaint?

  • @sexyalen4696
    @sexyalen4696 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Dr for tips on new techniques! Kinda got tired of the same.

  • @osamaalshareef491
    @osamaalshareef491 Жыл бұрын

    Ok that was really helpful. Really appreciate finding this video. 🙏

  • @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    Ай бұрын

    Wife back door not allowed ect

  • @ycy-technologies
    @ycy-technologies Жыл бұрын

    Rene by what you had described about idiosyncratic masturbation, one could assume acquiring such a habit could potentially improve the condition of premature ejaculation. can this be considered?

  • @gabrielspencer4836
    @gabrielspencer4836 Жыл бұрын

    is there a way to regain sensitivity if you have an idosyncratic method of masturbation?

  • @rairamz4326
    @rairamz4326 Жыл бұрын

    First time I see this. Very informative 👍

  • @RobertfromDenver4848
    @RobertfromDenver4848 Жыл бұрын

    Very intelligent content. Thank you very much.

  • @terryrutherford2114
    @terryrutherford2114 Жыл бұрын

    41 years of it. Thanks for the video Doctor!

  • @The_Mind_Journey

    @The_Mind_Journey

    Жыл бұрын

    Are you still single..

  • @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    Ай бұрын

    Wife back door not allowed ect

  • @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    Ай бұрын

    ​@@The_Mind_Journeywife back door not allowed ect

  • @arnabbose3256
    @arnabbose3256 Жыл бұрын

    Masturbation makes me calm, composed, focused, creative, and extremely productive. It is something that I would consider my first discoveries at a very early age and shaped my scientific career. Thanks to the bliss.

  • @eligreg99

    @eligreg99

    Жыл бұрын

    @@accidentcellar6307 Yeah idk when I stop I have the most vivid dreams it’s ridiculous but if I do it it relaxes me

  • @angryvaultguy

    @angryvaultguy

    Жыл бұрын

    @@accidentcellar6307 yeah that usually happens when one tries to get out of an addiction, if you can't function without masturbation then your property depended on it. After I tried nofap I successfully did it and yeah I to felt on edge but after that month I stop needing to jerk off. Try nofap again

  • @angryvaultguy

    @angryvaultguy

    Жыл бұрын

    @@accidentcellar6307 good on you buddy trust me and many others that got over masturbation, if you feel like your gonna relapse remember would you rather go through great pain but in a relatively time and achieve self respect and freedom or live a life of short burst of happiness controlled by the amount of times you masturbate, I also had to ask myself this when doing the nofap challenge

  • @kresimirmilisa5560
    @kresimirmilisa55606 ай бұрын

    Good video Rena thank you you are such a kind female doctor❤

  • @hedleypanama
    @hedleypanama Жыл бұрын

    I love this woman! I remember a female peer intern who got in love with urology so much that makes her become an urologist!

  • @ellkir1521
    @ellkir1521 Жыл бұрын

    A man and his wife decided they needed a code word for sex since their boy was now getting older. They decided that the code word would be type a letter. One day the man was working in the shop and sent his son into the house to say "he needed to type a letter". She sent the son back with the message "their is a red ribbon in the typewriter". A couple days later at the dinner table she said she's "ready to type that letter". He responded with "that's ok, I hand wrote it in the shower".🤣

  • @mikeharrington5593
    @mikeharrington5593 Жыл бұрын

    So useful these practicalities are discussed in such an open & normal way. Another aspect to perhaps consider is that most forms of mass media (not just pornography) promote the idea, & condition the minds, that instant self-gratification is good.

  • @christophermiller3031

    @christophermiller3031

    Жыл бұрын

    Uhm... Are you not forgetting all the haters on sexual freedom? JSYK majority of the world are religious ... And that means, as the Christians believe, billiions of people will burn in hell for eternity for such behaviour. It is literally only a recent trend that woman are not being treated like an object to be primarily used for sexual gratification. I want the progress, but we need to remember all the stages of society that got us here.

  • @ibot2157

    @ibot2157

    Жыл бұрын

    @@christophermiller3031 Man what the you on about, women are now used as means of sexual gratification more than ever. And now the opposite is pushed, if you're not being promiscuous and hedonistic, you're a loser and a square.

  • @patrickstarnes2355
    @patrickstarnes2355 Жыл бұрын

    Gosh 🤔 she makes it all sound so complicated 😳 I've been doing it my whole life. Never gave it a second thought.

  • @inculcatetobemaudlin2943
    @inculcatetobemaudlin29439 ай бұрын

    Dr. Rena, thanks for your explanations.

  • @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    @RebeccaWood-zi5yi

    Ай бұрын

    Wife back door not allowed ect

  • @crabbycreates2943
    @crabbycreates2943 Жыл бұрын

    Masturbation IS my sex life. I'm 73, married for 37 years, with no marital sex for many years. I probably do have an idiosyncratic style since my technique (along with some use of THC vape) is what brings me pleasure. There are some variations, but the good ol' stroking of the knob is what does it. Freedom from concerns about how to please my partner is also a turnon.

  • @RcH382

    @RcH382

    Жыл бұрын

    welcome to the club

  • @free3956

    @free3956

    2 ай бұрын

    hi can i have ur mail id

  • @qa7d516

    @qa7d516

    2 ай бұрын

    What a pathetic ...

  • @bliice-tk5568
    @bliice-tk5568 Жыл бұрын

    Im so glad you covered the prone masturbation thing. I never knew that was the correct name of it. Im currently trying to stop to resensitize my penis

  • @rjzlwop3153
    @rjzlwop3153 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing video. Happy Thanksgiving to you. How come you don’t ever reply to questions that are asked on your channel? I asked one not too long ago about L-arginine and people with herpes?

  • @milohasagun
    @milohasagun3 ай бұрын

    This video changed my life

  • @DR-wo8in
    @DR-wo8in Жыл бұрын

    First comment 🤧🤧... Yours videos are very knowledgeable maam 😀

  • @xaviercolon8393
    @xaviercolon8393 Жыл бұрын

    Different topic, maybe you can offer insight. I just found out my GF has been in severe pain after our weekend meet ups (we live in different states) & the last few weekends we have gotten to.... But she didn't say anything after our first weekend, well I hung around for the holiday yesterday, & I saw she was in agony, she said the other times, she kept it to herself, but usually needed a day or two to recover, with some advil. I was shocked, didn't realize I was physically hurting her & leaving her in such discomfort. Can you offer any suggestions? I don't want our intimacy to become something she avoids for fear of pain. She said the first time left her sore, but it was milder lovemaking. The last two weekends have been very different, easily triple the intimacy, a lot more vigorous, she is afraid I will not engage now that I know her pain afterwards. Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thank you.

  • @crimsonsmirk
    @crimsonsmirk10 ай бұрын

    Apart from the very matter of fact, informative and respectful presentation, I really enjoyed the visuals. Dude peeling a banana, Mr Muscle squeezing an orange (?). Very entertaining!

  • @ikazukison2
    @ikazukison2 Жыл бұрын

    I finished in the first minute of this video, never saw the rest

  • @RobCLynch
    @RobCLynch Жыл бұрын

    Years ago my then wife decided that she didn't want sex anymore. One day she was asked by her doctor how her sex life was going. She replied that WE didn't have sex anymore. The doc replied, well one of you isn't having sex anymore.

  • @Pentagathusosaurus
    @Pentagathusosaurus3 ай бұрын

    I don't know why the algorithm brought me here but it feels personal now KZread

  • @itzleonardoo

    @itzleonardoo

    Ай бұрын

    Same, I got recommended for no reason and this is very personal KZread, they know too much 😂

  • @latinaries35
    @latinaries35 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Dr,. Certealy a really insightful video.. Not sure if you have or not sure if you have posted when it comes to a MEN diet. I am kind like half ass keto but has worked LOL, sure like to now more about from You.

  • @tejoramyemineni
    @tejoramyemineni10 ай бұрын

    she is serving humanity

  • @ErnestHebert
    @ErnestHebert Жыл бұрын

    You're a powerful, compelling speaker and presence. You don't need the intrusive video illustrations. They're distracting and annoying.

  • @visaman

    @visaman

    Жыл бұрын

    That's the point (pun intended)! Otherwise it's just very cold and clinical.

  • @NoName-zb1gm
    @NoName-zb1gm Жыл бұрын

    I started when I was young like 10 years old not knowing what I was doing. It relieved stress I was having because my parents were getting divorced. I love women but can't imagine giving it up and waiting until a woman is ready for sex.. But as I'm getting older the urges aren't as great so I could probably incorporate my desires into an actual relationship.

  • @sarahalderman3126

    @sarahalderman3126

    Жыл бұрын

    Just find a partner with a higher sex drive when you’re ready for a relationship. People don’t stress that enough, that vastly different sd’s can be very difficult for either party. I know this personally as I have a much higher sd than my dh which did prove difficult during the first 15 or so years. Just saying, if you’re already concerned about this I would definitely make it a point to take that into consideration when selecting a spouse.❤

  • @tommac21

    @tommac21

    Жыл бұрын

    Don't be a quitter. Or let this woman brain wash you.

  • @sarahalderman3126

    @sarahalderman3126

    Жыл бұрын

    @@tommac21 uh ok then…

  • @captnhuffy

    @captnhuffy

    Жыл бұрын

    Many times, almost always, a woman will undermine (or even destroy) your sex life. Never let anyone get between you and release. Go ahead and take the RISK of getting involved if you don't mind RISKING everything, and losing your wealth and health.. you can hope for a better sex life w a woman, but don't expect it. p.s. re Sarah's advice, Men should never, never, take life advice from women. Her perspective works for her because women are wired differently... Women can find partner with higher drives easily, men rarely can.. unless they are gay. Also, women seem to need a man to do the work for them, or a device with a motor.. Men's needs to get off are far more straight forward.. point in fact we don't even need a woman, at all..

  • @K2P715

    @K2P715

    Жыл бұрын

    @@captnhuffy The best comment on here about a man's mentality. Great post!!!

  • @toddoakes458
    @toddoakes458 Жыл бұрын

    Great advice thanks todd

  • @vasantk593
    @vasantk593 Жыл бұрын

    Its very very helpful to me... Got the reason for mine..... Working on the solution you told.. Thanx...

  • @An-Honest-Citizen
    @An-Honest-Citizen Жыл бұрын

    That death grip at 3:12 though, it couldn't get any firmer!

  • @mikehawke2172
    @mikehawke2172 Жыл бұрын

    I've been a death grip user my entire life, my partners like it because I just stay up for an hour because I don't really feel anything.

  • @MannyAguilarJr

    @MannyAguilarJr

    Жыл бұрын

    I should try this. Wanted to try something like this but partners didn't want to put in the work. Pretty much just ducking as fast as I can and build the stamina.

  • @stke8593

    @stke8593

    Жыл бұрын

    But can you even enjoy it then ?

  • @mikehawke2172

    @mikehawke2172

    Жыл бұрын

    @@stke8593 no, but she'll like it and make you a sandwich afterwards.

  • @mikehawke2172

    @mikehawke2172

    Жыл бұрын

    @@vbw4501 how is it a problem then?

  • @qa7d516

    @qa7d516

    2 ай бұрын

    What a pathetic

  • @curtiso411
    @curtiso41111 ай бұрын

    Thank you for the info.

  • @VasTurchyn
    @VasTurchyn11 ай бұрын

    Thanks, please make another video on this topic, it's very common problem

  • @Fiberglass_Insulation
    @Fiberglass_Insulation Жыл бұрын

    If I can't sleep, fapping is literally my go to. After fapping, then cleaning up, this wave of extreme sleepiness just hits me hard and knocks me out instantly.

  • @jaydentyler3234

    @jaydentyler3234

    5 ай бұрын

    😂

  • @Samuel_S_Hirsch

    @Samuel_S_Hirsch

    4 ай бұрын

    That's very destructive.. Get help.

  • @Fiberglass_Insulation

    @Fiberglass_Insulation

    4 ай бұрын

    @@Samuel_S_Hirsch I would, but I don't know who I can look up to. No therapists in my area as well.

  • @christian94stefon
    @christian94stefon Жыл бұрын

    Good advice doc thank u

  • @blackcatdad
    @blackcatdad7 ай бұрын

    Thankyou so much for the educational videos like these, i'm afraid of having a penile fracture since i heard a 'popping' sound when the last time i masturbate.. that moment i googled the synptomps and it's horrible, made me really depressed since i've been living in a very poor country which is medical treatment is really expensive I stopped masturbating since then, untill now.. i'm not really active and agressive on masturbating tho, maybe once or two times a week i've done it just to ease my pain and to relieve stress away 😢

  • @QeeQee1
    @QeeQee1 Жыл бұрын

    The sad part is I have seen numerous urologists, MDs and endocrinologists for my ED in the past one year and none bothers to even send for a scan or imagery! They all start by saying: there is this pill (Cialis or Viagra) like I am an idiot or just off the boat not to have heard of them! Can you believe my urologist in CA on first visit stared to talk about pumps? It is all one sad and depressing medical world! Most doctors have zero interest in your well-being which is truly heart-breaking! I also called D. Malik's office many times to no avail. It appears KZread pays more; but thank you at least for sharing your knowledge here.

  • @thinktank6871

    @thinktank6871

    Жыл бұрын

    Jonathan, you ever had a root canal ?

  • @QeeQee1

    @QeeQee1

    Жыл бұрын

    @@thinktank6871 Yes

  • @thinktank6871

    @thinktank6871

    Жыл бұрын

    @@QeeQee1 based on my personal experience as well as many case studies infected root canals may cause impotence. Most of the root canals are infected and these are silent infections . You can find lots of literature and books about the dangers of root canals and how they effect your life quality.

  • @QeeQee1

    @QeeQee1

    Жыл бұрын

    @@thinktank6871 How would I know if my rot canals are infected if I do not have any signs/pain?

  • @varuntiwari8485
    @varuntiwari8485 Жыл бұрын

    Hey so I have a question. Sometimes when you're dehydrated or something you get the urges to pee a lot while not a lot comes out. And it gets ok if you drink a lot of water so is it ok? Just dehydration or something bacterial or something?

  • @gimmesomesugar

    @gimmesomesugar

    Жыл бұрын

    Depending on age it could be a prostate problem also!

  • @someguy2135

    @someguy2135

    Жыл бұрын

    @@gimmesomesugar True. Older males could have BPH (enlarged prostates) which would restrict the flow of urine from the bladder. It could lead to a trip to the emergency room and the use of a catheter. I don't know if prostate cancer could cause this symptom, but it seems likely. Dr. Rena has videos on this topic.

  • @someguy2135

    @someguy2135

    Жыл бұрын

    @@gimmesomesugar Prostate cancer is the most common form of cancer in men.

  • @Hamish007

    @Hamish007

    Жыл бұрын

    Do you drink apple Juice bro? This would include something like a fruit mix drink that contains apple concentrate. I don’t know the science but it happens the way you described if I drink apple juice. Trust me experiment with apple juice

  • @Jesus-is-God-my-King
    @Jesus-is-God-my-King6 ай бұрын

    Thanks for the info doc

  • @ibrahimalharbi3358

    @ibrahimalharbi3358

    2 ай бұрын

    God is not a dead white man

  • @David-he1ni
    @David-he1ni Жыл бұрын

    Awesome...informative and real

  • @markfurchtenicht8274
    @markfurchtenicht8274 Жыл бұрын

    Imagination or not always pleasurable I would think. Just curious if you do it. No one can do it like your own self. Don’t mean to be out of line.

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