Facts. Now I'm the guy I hated, now nice guys look at me the same way

@Alles.Official

2 жыл бұрын

bruh this comment. i'm feeling it.

@lecomtedeneuch9994

Жыл бұрын

Lez go brah

I can feel the dark side...... tempting me........

@eteold

5 жыл бұрын

Welcome!

@sid2daknee

5 жыл бұрын

I'm trying to fight it off but it gets harder and harder to resist. Also I've had a few cousins of mine ask them to teach them how to become a dog so they can get love respect and loyalty.

@aniket5277

4 жыл бұрын

You need to become one of us. You have to turn into a player.

@stormrave5371

Жыл бұрын

Embrace it

@liampetersen4853

Жыл бұрын

One of us one of us one of us

Classic movie example of this is Gone With the Wind. Shows that no matter how much you try to prove your love nothing will change a woman's mind if someone is better looking than you and the chick is into him first.

@zola1249

4 жыл бұрын

Or she's not in love with you. How bout that?

@Schopenhauer69

2 ай бұрын

Attraction can't be negotiated

@dab0331

2 ай бұрын

@@zola1249 she fell in love with him after he told her to kick rocks. Classic women psychology 101

You legitimately went through the evolution of the nice guy to the player. Good shit!!!!

Options is key

@kendrickpalmore4128

7 жыл бұрын

Stammering Benny, Never put a woman's needs before your own. You come first. But you can put your children's needs before yours, because kids can't take care of themselves unlike women. That doesn't mean spoil them.

Wah! That is mind-blowing! Thank you for the info. Much appreciated!

Bingo!!! Everything you say is spot on.

Dude you are literally reading my mind with the things you are saying in high school i was damn near invisible to girls they liked the athletes pretty boys and street guys im still kinda scarred from rejection

@Coffee2024.

6 жыл бұрын

Jaime Smith damn g

@stevienicks9210

3 жыл бұрын

Please don't lose your authentic self in the process.Immature women/girls want an a**hole or whatever,but there are good women out there.It's just that you probably liked the popular girls who weren't ,,nice" so they didn't want a ,,nice" guy

@Iamam313

8 ай бұрын

yeah, me too, I'm a woman and I wasn't even ugly :)) so like stop pretending like your the only ones who aren't getting what you want

@ImAgentK

5 ай бұрын

​@@Iamam313It isn't the same at all, and let's be real the guys you wanted you probably didn't even approach, you probably got rejected only like once or twice in your life but you're tryna compare really?

@Iamam313

5 ай бұрын

:)) now who's making assumptions? plenty of girls are invisible all around the world, and their not even ugly or fat so yes, I have been ignored and treated rudely for just attempting to interact as a human, not even hitting on anyone...so no, your dead wrong@@ImAgentK

Sometimes it's the guy's mother that turns him into a player. He may have been emotionally neglected by her which makes him desperately try to fill his empty heart by sleeping with a ton of women & 9 times out of 10 he's not even attracted to the women he chooses to sleep with hence why he goes through so many women. He's been so emotionally neglected that he can't even relate to feelings nor is he able to recognize true love when it comes to him. I dated a guy like this once. He was abandoned by his mom when he was 3 & raised by abusive grandparents. His actions showed that he loved me, but mentally he didn't realize that he loved me until I put him in situation that woke his ass up.

@bgarnett09

5 жыл бұрын

Freckles good point

@BasedGodEmperorTrump

5 жыл бұрын

Sounds like a narcissist. They don't know/understand what real love is. They don't love you the way you love them. They see you as convenient objects. They only "love" what you do for them or what they gain from you. You're being taken for granted, used and deserve better. Just to clarify that this is not a form of "white knighting".

@bernardvining4157

5 жыл бұрын

@BMode32 he could also b rejected by other women in his family jus not his mother

@scheduledmaintanence1616

3 жыл бұрын

Retard analogy😂

First time that hear sound advice. I was guy a year ago, lost it all to a narcissist and now--I'm James Bond.

@JohnSmith-pl4sf

3 жыл бұрын

My name is smith... John Smith.... And I live with my mother....

@TruthSeeker35511

3 жыл бұрын

@@JohnSmith-pl4sf 😂😂👍👍

@mysterioereneditz466

2 жыл бұрын

⚡⚡

@nandi7772

11 ай бұрын

Which movie is it?

You're bold enough to show us experiences with... others. "He had options".

Another great video. Thanks man. Great insight!

Excellent video; this should help the young cats. I was 17 teen when my childhood friend got pregnant by some player. I never smashed her so I was like damn it sucks being friends with females. After that, I no longer accepted platonic relationships. I began looking at women as sex objects and realized they only wanted to have fun. So, I became a player, smashing mostly black females and a few white females. Also, I noticed that I would attract more women when in a relationship so it was impossible for me to commit to only one.

I’m living proof of this!

@sajeelchughtai1765

2 жыл бұрын

I'm pending to become this .....

@mysterioereneditz466

2 жыл бұрын

Same........

@ONLYLOVEIZATION

2 жыл бұрын

I can assure you as a female that it’s no different for women. I would never stamp on a Valentines heart like that and humiliate a man. Sadly most men at attracted to bitchy women and don’t seek a woman who is beautiful on the inside.

Urkel vs Stefan!.

I thaught i had one of the best relationships ever, but i went on a vacation for 2 weeks and she broke up with me over text when i thaught everything was amazing. It broke me inside, i cant get attached to people anymore. I started working out, i got girls easily. i have many girls now but i still cant get attached to people. She ruined me. I dont have the balls to love someone anymore because of the fear to get my heart broken like that again

@JamesAlexanderMcC

Жыл бұрын

Sorry man the modern world is sick. I'm now just contributing to the chaos too.

@bolt9110

Жыл бұрын

Better to get your heart broken in two before you got married, have kids and £$£$£ locked up in a house. She did you a favour. She showed you reality. Now you have insight of what can happen now you can use that information to help you choose what girls to avoid and what girls to keep close. There are many different kind of men out there, good/bad , you know this, and girls are no different. Some good some bad.

Treat then like shit it works

@tinmahanb

6 жыл бұрын

mikey one its does bruh they be begging to come back lol

@dab0331

6 жыл бұрын

For real. Funny how my ex stuck around when i was grumpy as fuck and would snap. Broke up with her because she was being controlling. But the day i cried over her and got her gifts asking to work things out she just threw everything in my face as if it was solely my fault, never looking at herself. Hypocritical bitches.

@sweetscent2622

6 жыл бұрын

Mikey del real only works on those that haven't been schooled. Good look with that 😂

Acting like a "jerk" *does* work.

@JohnSmith-pl4sf

3 жыл бұрын

If women want jerks, then they'll get jerks, if women want players then they'll get players... If women want bad boys then they'll get bad boys.... If women want abusive brutes then they'll get abusive brutes..... Men are just going along with what women are allowing.... I used to be a nice guy in highschool and be chivalrous and stuff... That had the opposite effect and I gave up being nice because I was being taken advantage of.....

@jonathanfarley2023

3 жыл бұрын

@@JohnSmith-pl4sf Yes. One of the best bits of dating advice is to not be nice.

@JohnSmith-pl4sf

3 жыл бұрын

@@jonathanfarley2023 being nice won't get me one of those beautiful girls who are out of my league that I want... It will only me a ugly girl with attitude, and no effort into looking beautiful for me...

@jonathanfarley2023

3 жыл бұрын

@@JohnSmith-pl4sf As I said, one of the best bits of dating advice is to *not* be nice.

What's your consultation for us guys with unlimited (inheritance)funding? Is it a set up for you to shut up and and address our issues?

Toxic people create toxic people create toxic people ...and round and round the world spins😂

Becoming a bad boy is just like selling out. unfortunately.😔

@rafapak

6 жыл бұрын

i agree kendrick

@jamezh2822

6 жыл бұрын

rafapak completely agree with you on that.

@SuperMurray2009

6 жыл бұрын

I disagree

@archiologist3424

5 жыл бұрын

Why?

@TraPortal007

3 жыл бұрын

Not really. If you still love women, honest what u saying even if not saying much and trying help people in your actions, so being a playa or so called bad boy is not sellout.

Facts 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

Exactly what happened to me was a nice guy. Took advantage of now keep my options open. Approached a beautiful sista couple months ago. She said I bet you talk too all the girls. Just did a normal approach.

Agreed!

Stop blaming others for this that if a player made you a player dude he/she won because players are just broken people who are unable to handle emotions and heart break..... I think you should turn wise after being treated like that garbage rather than using it as excuse....

Girls want the guy other girls also want.

If you smoke weed with her, hit it how she likes and be and argue with her she's never going anywhere. Dude can break up with her no matter who fault it is he can always smash

This video is great! It's very informative on why this stuff happens. When I was in high school, I didn't care that much about picking mates until I became attracted to one young lady. Long and short, I got ghosted because she has a mate, which is kinda reasonable but could've been more honest. Now, I want to clarify why girls like bad boys and it's simple...she loves her father. When her father is cold and distant, she's going to be attracted to that and she'll compete with other women to feel validated, to feel like she's special compared to others. With this, it creates a problem in which the next generation will suffer the trauma from the previous and when done enough creates a broken dynamic between men and women having a war with each other. Making men follow what women are picking...players that make awful fathers to the next generation. Again, good vid man 👍

@Iamam313

8 ай бұрын

which is why society should keep bad fathers accountable but that's never gonna happen

@RkRuikii

8 ай бұрын

@@Iamam313 True but does take 2 to tango (and no, an incident with the significant other passing away doesn't count since it's out of their control.)

@Iamam313

8 ай бұрын

yeah no one said anything about a dead parent, my mother has done everything for my father, from moving across the country to doing all of the housework cooking child rearing and working full time. I actually have video footage made during bdays celebrations etc and she was basically a slave and he was the king narcissist of every event. He is a horrible person who got what he sowed. He cheated on my mom for years and when my mom found out and made him choose between us or her he chose her. He also got cheated on with multiple men because karma and he also had the audacity to complain about it to us several times (we were in our teens)...like hello sherlock you literally did the same to mom, wtf?! I went no contact with my father 2 years ago and it was the best decision of my life. He has gaslighted everyone in the family all our lives, he's managed to be both absent most of the time and abusive in the little time he was there. Enough is enough! @@RkRuikii

@RkRuikii

8 ай бұрын

@@Iamam313 I see where you're coming from a bit, and sorry to hear that happened to you. I was trying to be fair with the incident thing or whatnot. I too didn't grow up with a good father in the long run (he was good to me until he left when I was little.) Plus he has a lot of kids too, dear Kami XD I agree with your statement man, enough IS enough!

I turn myself into a player in middle school

Women seem to think the way a man treats himself is how he will treat a women (self care, stand up for yourself, etc). They are also easily pulled by unpredictability. I also learnt they were bothered by men who are not getting with girls and love it when a guy is dating multiple women because that shows he is in demand.

@iloveyou281000

3 жыл бұрын

Yes but they get jealous too if the guy is giving those other women more attention

I am sorry for your lost my sista,but with your good heart,I will guarantee you want have any problems finding your next husband,because of women like you needs to be heard and put the other women in check,so they stop abusing good guys like me,because we are ready have a lot on our plates and we don't need all problems please, I really love my sista,but some of them needs help.

We circumvent the system as men.

How hard i try i can't become a player.

@tercial

2 жыл бұрын

Yes you can

I hear and understand but when do the games stop? Everyone gets hurt that's part of life. I'm older and i would love the attention from one Man who treats me with respect. It's called a relationship. I have been married.

@yourworstnightmareorsometh7968

7 жыл бұрын

Eileen Probus 99.99% of straight women would rather have sex and be in a relationship with a sexy dude that treats them like shit that a nice not so sexy dude.

@rafapak

6 жыл бұрын

It does not surprise me. Why she should have relationship with a guy who is not sexy to her ?

@jamezh2822

6 жыл бұрын

You missed your window sweetie, you had guys that wanted to be with you your whole life, it's not going to happen.

@seventy18

5 жыл бұрын

@@jamezh2822 yup... Imagine all the guys she turned down back in the day... now she a lonely old wall clinger... And I don't give a fuck

@enadine6405

5 жыл бұрын

@@seventy18 U sound as bitter as your name. Listen, you are not entitled to girls liking you just as much as girls aren't entitled to guys liking them. Some girls do like nice guys, but just because they like nice guys, DOESNT MEAN THEY WILL LIKE EVERY SINGLE GUY THAT IS 'NICE' TO THEM. Do you like EVERY GIRL that is nice to you? I'm sure you also care about compatibility, etc.

I think if I was single today I would be doomed when it comes to dating . I rather be a nun . Dating these days is complicated .

You have too play the game first before you settle down play the game on the woman

@thierryestiverne4686

Жыл бұрын

True dat

Well hello, I'm a female jumpin in on this. It works both ways, it's how it all starts for men & women. You get hurt first, it's a defense. A way if putting up walls & control. To be honest, it's all game and in the end nobody wins. I'm 45, been in both ends and it's really an immature way of living. Because when the player finally wants to settle down, it's very hard.

Go from beta to alpha dog😂🐺

stop blaming people for something you chose to do. i've been hurt my entire life by family, friends, guys but i still choose to be a good person

@Tshego2000

2 жыл бұрын

Thats the thing, not everyone is like you and I.

@thierryestiverne4686

2 жыл бұрын

Not everybody is the same person as u I been hurt by mostly my household family and fake friends and when I become successful and be better for me they will never be part of my life or my success when I make it to the top just for my health and my well being at the end

The trouble is I always dated nice guys and they turned on me in the end. Now for the last several years I haven't been able to find anything but players around me, and my heart is reaching the point of no return with breaking. It makes me wonder if there are any good people in the world. I'm not an ugly girl at all and have never been disloyal or shallow :(

@dagreeneyedbastard9298

6 жыл бұрын

Shannon Welch I'm a Christian man and I'm in your same situation

@Coffee2024.

6 жыл бұрын

Hm, sad but i considered myself a pretty upstanding guy but i kinda lost trust in people of my area. Memphis is full of sketchy people. This is why i can't just talk to one woman. I feel as tho they have option so i should as well which ends with us just being friends who have intercourse when we're "single"

@dab0331

6 жыл бұрын

I have a feeling those "nice guys" you were dating sensed you were trying to be controlling, or that you were either lame in the sack, or using it as a weapon. Guys eventually catch up to knowing when they're being settled for and are plan B

@Coffee2024.

6 жыл бұрын

dab0331 yep

@Iwillroastthesocksoffyoass

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah whatever bitch, anything to make you sleep at night

Bullshit... most players are players because they CAN.... not because of what may have happened to them in the past. Any guy who has options will be a player, no matter what happened to them previously. "Good guys" are just men with not many options

@trpweb

9 ай бұрын

Nope. Not every man cheats, not every man goes around screwing everything that moves. Players are looking for some validation.

That is why Women should ALSO have options.

@javiersanabria7513

5 жыл бұрын

Just don't date players.

@bernardvining4157

5 жыл бұрын

@@sweetangelbonnyta we taught to get on these hoes but still respect women n yall still cheat 💯

@sweetangelbonnyta

5 жыл бұрын

@@bernardvining4157 Men still cheat it is scientifically proven also that Men can't keep their dick in their pants for long. So basically boys are destroying girls at a young age and if a woman cheats is because he probably cheated firstband wants to get back at him...Women being unfaithful is kind of rare.

@Tshego2000

2 жыл бұрын

@@sweetangelbonnyta thats some bullshit

No!!! IT is Not true!!! A healthy and quality woman dont want a Player...! never. We like a funny, nice and a man treating you with respect....Players dont respect, They only manipulate....a healthy quality women will see and dont let these Players into her life

@eteold

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah. You mean you want a sucker to replace the player.

Stop talkin like you feelin sorry for yourself .. these “nice guys” had someone and STILL chose to idolize a players life please 🙄

@dagreeneyedbastard9298

6 жыл бұрын

KiKi Carr not all "nice guys" fit that description

@dab0331

6 жыл бұрын

Bullshit. He's 100% right. Watch Gone With The Wind. Proves that no matter how nice you treat a girl they'll never fall for you if there's someone better looking

@Jdp_1597

6 жыл бұрын

Nah there are some ACTUAL dudes who get dogged by females that actually are loyal, I got dogged by a female who lied and cheated on me for cheating niggas while I was loyal and all of em played her and ever since then I got me options while she still miserable and stalking my Instagram stuff

@jamezh2822

6 жыл бұрын

Bitch please, keep your bullshit to yourself.

@sweetscent2622

6 жыл бұрын

dab0331 erm isn't that how men are? 🤔