Wonderful job discussing the importance of prioritizing the marriage. Your children will see what a loving, intentional relationship is supposed to be like and willl know the standard. It is imperative for parents to have balance, time for their marriage, time for themselves so that their children will learn how to optimize the living experience. I also think it's wonderful Valeria that you read so often and are setting that example for the younger generations that follow you.

@ValeriaLipovetsky

2 жыл бұрын

thank you 💖

@shivanirana5431

2 жыл бұрын

@@ValeriaLipovetsky can you suggest a book that you think you need to understand your other half better or any male in your life😊

@elism8862

Жыл бұрын

They see only the old p*rvert who did immoral things to young girl

@elism8862

Жыл бұрын

Stop normalising such marriages! He is old!

So much logic in Gary's way of thinking on literally every subject. It's just incredible

My parents prioritized their marriage when I was growing up and I’m so glad they did. I never felt abandon or like an after thought, as it was always clear that they would do anything for me. Seeing their healthy relationship has helped me so much now as an adult because I know what a good relationship should look like, I’m able to voice my needs and expectations in a relationship, and I’m able to cut out the people who aren’t right for me very quickly. What you guys are doing is the right thing and your boys will appreciate it when they’re older.

@-KMA-

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds amazing, so happy for you 😊

@MissMercury12322

2 жыл бұрын

❤️ Love your comment

I feel like many couples now focus on getting married not what it will be like to be married. It takes work, communication, compromise & being thoughtful & intentional. I randomly found your channel & I love this video. You both are so respectful to each other & kind. It’s beautiful to watch & listen.

I LOVE that you guys said prioritizing the couple's relationship and love over the children is gonna help them long run by setting a good example for them to choose the right partner one day! How lovely ❤️ That touched me.

The maturity and respect that you both have in your relationship is so inspiring! Pleasure to watch you and your family 😚

@elism8862

Жыл бұрын

He is old. Nothing inspiring

I’m gonna go ahead and say you are the most mature and emotionally intelligent couple and parents I’ve seen. I’m far from marriage and parenthood but I find your insight inspiring. Keep speaking up against the norm please! 🙌🏼🙂

You know my dad when I was a little girl said I love your mom the very most and then after that I love my kids the very most…. I felt so safe when he told me that. I think I was six. It felt like having my dad prioritize my mom even when it was hard meant even when it was hard he would prioritize us over other less important things. And I’m 30 now and he always has❤️

My parents prioritized their relationship over us kids 100% it's the foundation. Created much stability! Also once we moved out of home my parents still knew who they are as a couple and are still happily together 55 years later...

We too prioritize our marriage... I think that showing our children how to love.. care.. respect our OTHER half.. Benefits our children to treat in time their OTHER half in the same manner.... Of course they know they are our NO. 1's...but mum and dad count too....Thanks for speaking out ALLOWED about this topic... 🙏HI from 🇬🇷

this is so important. thank you for being open and being an example to so many of us that are preparing/learning to grow a family with someone else

I absolutely love this video, please make more content like this😍 I loved it how clearly Gary explained everything🙏🏻

She said she is board but he tries to control her questions. he is more then her dad , not husband.

And there you go a healthy couple speaking! Thank you. All makes so much sense, really appreciate all you just shared. Very centered mindset

Could listen to both all day. So calming and nurturing

Your relationship is so clear and mature and respectful and I admire it!!

This was more than relationships but also business and career growth - really appreciate it!

Such a wonderful and honest video once again! ❤️ Loving the video quality, the editing with the different angles (really helps you keep the attention for a long time) and the super crisp sound ✨ These Q&As with Gary are always a gem, always love seeing more of the two of you! 😍

My parents had/have a really amazing relationship with each other and it gave me and my siblings such a good example for what to look for when we go out into the world. It also showed how important it is to love everyone around you, not just your children, but also your spouse and yourself. I never felt neglected or unloved, it enriched my life.

I love your relationship! so inspiring thanks for these videos🙌🏻❤️

I commented on that reel asking you to talk more about prioritising your relationship > child and I'm so glad you did and that I clicked on this video! Love the advice y'all gave, really inspiring and gave me a lot to reflect on, definitely sharing with my partner, thank you so much ❤

WOW guys, you're a true inspiration as a couple... Grateful to have you as an example when IRL I never saw such an energy between 2 people and knowing you come from parents that were not perfect gives me hope in myself as well. Thanks for these videos !

Gary is just awesome... I see why she loves him so much ❤

As much as I love watching you guys share your perspectives, the questions seems repetitive since the first few Q&As like age gap, parenting style, how you resolve conflicts. If the questions being asked aren’t diverse, may be y’all can make up your own :)

Sooo good! Love this new format. Thank you to both of you for sharing this very valuable part of your life. Greetings from Lithuania 💖

You guys are literally the most imperfectly perfect love team ever ✨ cant wait for more videos like this 😍

Gary and Valeria are wise people. God bless both of you.

I love this discussion. Yes, prioritizing the relationship is the foundation of building block of the future kids. Setting example for them, building relationships, taking care of each other.

Just love this q&a's i learn soo much from them, thank youuu💓

I enjoyed every minute of this video!!! Thank you!!

I agree with the both of you as parents prioritizing your relationship even more coz Gary is right that that is the foundation of a solid family and that should be the long term goal.

Great content, you two are doing a wonderful job. And yes, this is how the children will learn what to do in a relationship and what healthy boundaries look like.

Thanks for sharing! Totally agree with a good fundament for the family! ❤

There is always room to learn! Thank you!

Gary needs a podcast. I appreciate his approach to ideas and questions. Valeria I love how you bring a natural vibe. Beautiful couple, many blessings.

The fact that you’re drop dead gorgeous helps a lot😅 HE IS SO HONEST😅😊

me and my boyfriend don't have nor intend to have kids in the future, but the way you explained everything about the first question is exactly how i'd raise my children and mind my marriage if i did have kids. i just think it's the healthier for all parts and it is SO important not to loose yourselves and your relationship when you're parents...that's how you prevent your kids from becoming super dependent on you and also make sure that your relationship will be happy in the long run. i know it's not the same, at all, but we always try to make some space in our lives for dates, romance and relationship growth, even when we're super busy.

I love those Q&As. So inspiring

Such a beautiful discussion! Thank you it is so empowering and wonderful to see open and supportive relationships that are connected and conscious. ❤️❤️

i love this so much!!!!! i want more of this videos ♡ learning alot from you guys

Such a great conversation ❤️

Well i am 21 and i am downloading this video for future. I don't have a lot of words to describe this except for 'profound'. This is the perfect blueprint to build on. Please do continue this series. I do fully intend to watch this video with whoever i do decide to make a family with. Thankyou so much for this gem. I really loved your advice about keeping it fresh in relationship by being whole and well rounded individuals who constantly work on themselves before just being defined by a relationship. Ps- i understand how he decided that he would propose to you within 10 days because he was actively looking for that but omg we need a story time about' how you met'

Thank you for sharing your knowledge and life experiences with us, so much more to grow and progress.

Much love to you valeria💖 You too are best for each other💖

I missed sit down videos of you and Gary!! Love you guys 🤍

I so loved that you both gave your honest thoughts and feelings. Very eloquently expressed. I am also in a good age-gap marriage and staying stronger for 15 years and counting. I feel that the key things to make the relationship work is respect, honesty, loyalty and trust. I also loved that you mentioned Nori (such an angel).. sometimes we need to face that we need help and resort from other people's expertise so we do not fail. As they always say prevention is better than cure. Gary is so smart for suggesting to get help as your marriage and family is your biggest investment. I can see why you fall for him. I love you guys and hope to meeting you both someday 😘

Thank you guys❤️❤️

The q&a videos with you and gary are priceless! ❤ it's so interesting to listen to such mature, always evolving and wise people! Thank you guys for sharing your experience!

I love this content, especially the 2nd part of this conversation was very interesting and valuable. Thanks for sharing this :)

Love the sound quality!

Thank you for inspiring me to keep making content❤️ Sending love from LA!

You are absolutely right 👍 It's best for children to care for the marriage - they will be so happy if they see that you two are happy

Can't believe I started following you two/three years ago! And now almost every daily earring I wear is Verie lol You are so inspiring and I've always loved your energy

more of these please! both of you are so mature and your way of thinking is very healthy! Next time it would be awesome to include your mother as well!

Married myself for 4 years going on 5 this november! we have a baby girl And I love influencers like you two whom I can relate raising children and looking up to. I know it’s life but was sadden to hear about Chriselle’s divorce you two were the two influencers I felt who exemplified and married life, work life, and raising kids can all be experienced together.

I am very young, and I am glad that content like this exists made from people I am comfortable considering wise. Great for building good atitude and perspective. Thanks❤️

I love how you husband care about you and yours child 💓💓💓

OMG 🙏🙏🙏❤️‍🔥 You made me cry so many times 😭 gorgeous

YES!! I love the thought that the parents staying happily married is key because that is what started the family in the first place. It is so sad when the kids are the very thing that drives couples apart and precisely END the marriage and break up the family

You are so right and wise ! Huge respect to your both

I love love loved this video! So much to learn from you guys, thank you! I just wish I can imply this all one day 😇

Спасибо Вам огромное!!! Вы - большие молодцы!!! Желаю всех благ Вашей прекрасной семье!!!

I absolutely loved this conversation. I hope my future husband and I can instill a similar philosophy in our relationship.

Wow this is just great! Love it 💛

Gary is SO WISE! OMG

I always agree with Gary, could listen to him all the time😆

I'm so happy I found this video, I've learned a lot ❤

I absolutely love these 2

Amazing video, thank you! 💕

You guys are my inspiration❤️

I love this ❤️ I want a Gary and Valeria type of relationship too

garry must do his own show , talking about business omg he's amazing , love u 2 guys keep going u r the best

It’s beautiful to see such a strong healthy marriage, congratulations 💗

I loved this video, your honesty & insights! 🥰 Have a wonderful day!☀Stay healthy & safe!❤

She said, "You don't get bored, you're boring and you bring that into your relationship" lol

We are all the same and guilty is always there, as my family! We have 5 kids and 13 years of marriage together, we have up and down but most of all we love each other each day even more and we understand why we put our kids first! Understanding each other side, open mind, patient and so many thing we learning during marriage! We didn’t remember how many time we went out during the 10 years! You guys are doing awesome together as a parents with crazy busy schedules! 💕💕

I love this so much!!!

You guys are the best. And have such nice voices to listen to hahaha more couples vids!

I'm single, but listening to your advices helped me a lot in understanding the problems I had in my previous relationship, more importantly it helps choose my future partner more wisely. You guys are the most mature couple I've ever seen. So grateful that I've found your channel. Wishing you all the best of life❤ you're such a great role model❤

@sharonbrown6327

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😔

@sharonbrown6327

Жыл бұрын

gby

Baby jake is too muuuuch

Just saw this video and I love the message behind it❤️ I think it’s so important for parents to prioritize their relationship first before anything because that’s the base of a family, its the people that started it the family! The solid relationship that you have with your partner is an example to your children and I think as long as you show and teach them love in the best way possible that’s all that matters don’t listen to people who are saying different! Love this !❤️

@gracebuonincontro

2 жыл бұрын

I wish my parents prioritized their relationship, I’m 25 and always struggled with seeing tension in my family because of the lack of time they made for eachother. My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 years and we have this discussion all the time, when talking about our future family plans. Comforting to know other people feel the same way❤️

@ValeriaLipovetsky

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing and for your kind words love ❤️

I think that you can do whatever you want as long as it's make you happier❤️

You are my relationship goal! You're such an inspiration for me! 😍

Perfect couple ❤️

Omg the kid saying immesiate Yes to wanting to go to an etiquette class soooo cute 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 On a more serious note, these two have such a beautiful relationship. It's interesting to me how serious they come off. In a lot of public relationships that we look up to, we are used to seeing a lot of chemistry and fun. Not saying these two don't have that, but they are more serious, at least on camera. I think it actually talks about the depth of their partnership, and that it's so much more than about JUST two people who have chemistry and can flirt and find attraction in each other. They're truly attracted to the PERSON each other is (rather than the surface).

Never clicked faster!!! 💕

Everyone should take notes. I love love all your answers you guys should write a book.

It so true, the foundation is the relation. Happy parents, happy family . I wish I knew prior , what I know now. I was so focus on my children's, that I fogat about me and my relationship. I hope this video help future family . Thank you

Love you both ❤😍

Wouldn't mind listening to a podcast like this 😊

100% satisfied with all the answers ❤

I just saw your short clip about putting your relationship first and I didn't think you were neglecting them but didn't understand what that means. This makes sense how you husband explains it. Is like when some one says, if you are in a malfunctioning plane you are supposed to put the oxygen on yourself first before the kids because you need to aid yourself first so you can help your kids and make sure they will okay.

Love the topic and If we as parents are growing a healthy relationship this will reflect in their manner to approach future decisions about how to handle friendship& family 💌💌💌

❤️ beautiful role models for us adults .... Appreciate thank you

I loved it!!!! 😍

Such a good discussion. Open discussion

You guys are so so cute!!!!

Great marriageducation video! ❤

You’re just my favorite couple! A beautiful example. Love from Italy ❤️

@ValeriaLipovetsky

Жыл бұрын

😘

Brilliant 👏 thank you for the advice 🙂