How To Work A Job You Hate

I’m not a stranger to working jobs I hate, and doing them for a good amount of time with a smile on my face and my employer begging me to stay. And that was before I knew what I know today, which I’ll teach you in this video.
You have to disconnect wages from work. You have to care about your integrity and health. These are two things that are going to change your relationships with work forever.
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1. The Point of Work
- The point of work as we know it is not to fulfill a career dream
- It’s not feel like you are being useful in society
- It’s not to find purpose in life
- Work is meant to give you money, money that you need to live, and that’s it
Now does that mean that it doesn’t matter what you do for money
- In some ways it does, you want a job that allows you to keep your integrity.
- A job that allows you to keep and maintain your health in some
- But don’t think that a dream job actually exists, a job that fulfills you in every way, ( that’s not real )
For example:
- Ever since I was 11 years old I wanted to be a KZreadr and I genuinely thought that this was my dream job
- Truth is, I enjoy teaching
- But teaching is going to fulfill me, this is what I do for wages and it happens to make money but their no guarantee that it will last forever or guarantee that I will be able to achieve that again
What really matters is this:
- God
- Family
- Culture
- Community
- Learning something new
Application:
- Ask yourself this question
- If money wasn’t an issue what would you do with your time
- Where would you invest it and why
- You are not allowed to use more money-making activities, beucase again money is not a problem so why would you build a company or anything like that
2. New View on work
- View work as a means to an end
- It is something that its value is not in the activity that you do, but instead in what it allows you to achieve
For example:
- Let's say you are a computer programmer and you are making $300,000 a year
- And I know people that make that much money
- And they absolutely hate their jobs ( you might think about quitting, if you view your wages as an identity for example)
- Saying I don’t want to be a programmer, y true calling is being a dancer
- However, if you view your job as something you do for money then you can set yourself up for success
Application:
- Take the wages from your job
- And use them to plant seeds for your future
- Let's say you hate your job but
You can use it to :
- Payoff debt faster
- Save for emergencies
- Save up and pay off a home or something like that
- It is something to consider that’s my point
3. The old Fashion Way of working
- Now before work became an aspirational goal for most people and also a status symbol
- Work was something people did to provide them with enough money and use the rest of their time to enjoy in leisure
- So this is pretty powerful
First I want to say this:
- Don’t think that work are only activities that give you money
- You can work on your family and community for free and that’s still work
- But here is what I want you to consider, how much money
Here you go:
- It's good enough to make good enough money
- If you have no debt and you have 3-6 months emergency fund
- And all you need to make per month is $2,000 dollars to cover your cost of living
- Then it's okay to work fewer hours, so you can make what you need and use the rest off the time on whatever you want
4. Work is not personal
- Beucase work is something you do for money
- You should get paid the most money possible
- Without sacrificing your integrity and your health
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  • @AnnAdeva1
    @AnnAdeva14 ай бұрын

    The thing is also working a job you hate makes life pass you by because all I do when I get off work I feel so stressed and exhausted. This was still really informative and giving me hope to clock in tomorrow lol

  • @dnah02
    @dnah024 ай бұрын

    I worked jobs I absolutely hated but did them because I needed the cash. Those days are over now I dont work those jobs and make way more.

  • @Charlay_Charlay

    @Charlay_Charlay

    4 ай бұрын

    This what I'm trying to do.

  • @Ihatemyjobpodcast

    @Ihatemyjobpodcast

    3 ай бұрын

    How?

  • @blacklyfe5543

    @blacklyfe5543

    2 ай бұрын

    What do you do for a living and how did you overcome it? What have you done in your life that caused you to make more money?

  • @dnah02

    @dnah02

    2 ай бұрын

    @@blacklyfe5543 I started as a retail worker making 9 bucks an hr from highschool to college, then I got some promotions in retail making 12 an hr. My mom had a health scare in the 12 an hr range. I think I was around 22 or 23 I said to myself if she goes I am in big trouble. So I took a civil service test to become a 911 operator. Around 24 they called me to interview and I got hired at 36k a year. Eventually I made up to 53k but I only worked there until I got a better opportunity. I worked there from 2016 to 2020. I hated it but I needed the work experience. I eventually saw a opening at a state agency and I applied to become a state auditor. I got hired took a pay cut at first. Eventually promoted up to making 69k. I hated being broke so I made moves that increased my income over time. I recently transferred out and now I do admin work at another agency's internal audit department. I am trying to get to the next level which would be the information systems auditor to make up to 100k. I need to keep building my IT experience at this agency then get my CISA certification. Which is the certified information systems auditor it's kinda like a CPA. But this will take about 5 years. In the meantime I will be getting yearly raises from 69k up to 85k unless I get promoted before 2030.

  • @dnah02

    @dnah02

    2 ай бұрын

    @@blacklyfe5543 I also practiced my interviewing skills to land better paying jobs and better opportunities.

  • @cherish8479
    @cherish84794 ай бұрын

    Finally someone not selling a dream but some good ole hustle muscle 💪

  • @TommyBryson

    @TommyBryson

    4 ай бұрын

    Yes sir

  • @truthseek3017

    @truthseek3017

    2 ай бұрын

    Whats the dream?

  • @Savageoac
    @Savageoac3 ай бұрын

    I want a job so I don't have to work again brother I'm sick of working jobs

  • @BEACHDUDE71
    @BEACHDUDE71Ай бұрын

    I do the bare minimum 😂

  • @TommyBryson

    @TommyBryson

    Ай бұрын

    lol use your income wisely to create more wealth

  • @napoland9676
    @napoland967627 күн бұрын

    Spot on! A job should be mainly to pay the bills. The key is to find a job you don't hate and work with/for people you don't hate. That's about the best you can ask for.

  • @AveryBlackman
    @AveryBlackman3 ай бұрын

    A job wasn't just about making money for old timers it was about taking care of your family. Some had limited education, so they took what they could get.

  • @Luinnycorp
    @Luinnycorp4 ай бұрын

    I dont hate my job i just wish to get a remote job where i can choose a great location to live but is hard got scam a few times in upwork and companies are never hiring

  • @sojourneroftheland
    @sojourneroftheland4 ай бұрын

    Great advice! Work is a tool to get out of debt save for the future and put into investments. Period. Also, you can find the positive in any job if youre looking for it. Thanks for explaining the crossover point, going to look into this a bit more👍🏽💐

  • @TommyBryson

    @TommyBryson

    4 ай бұрын

    Well said and I got a full video on it coming out soon

  • @EnchantedAnn

    @EnchantedAnn

    4 ай бұрын

    💯

  • @qmtcop
    @qmtcop4 ай бұрын

    Great topic

  • @Bray2cool1
    @Bray2cool12 ай бұрын

    Great topic rewatching to better understand

  • @dawkrb
    @dawkrb4 ай бұрын

    Good viewpoint-good video

  • @nickwatland4215
    @nickwatland42159 күн бұрын

    I’m living in a van , shot warehouse jobs a few months , then travel a few months .

  • @captain687
    @captain68714 күн бұрын

    excellent advice! its true, the goal isn't to working, the goal is to stop working for money. love it. Passive income was something i've been preaching to people for over a decade but they just said I was lazy and didn't want to work, little do they know I'd put 2 weeks of work into 1 if it ment being a step closer to financial freedom.

  • @RGM5396
    @RGM53963 ай бұрын

    Guys I get what he’s saying, but you can absolutely find a job that you at least like that plays into your strengths. Keep your overhead expenses low and use the free time to volunteer or attend a course or class to get experience in the field you want to go to. Most of the times when I ended up forced at jobs I didn’t like it was because my overhead was too high and now I needed the money. Love frugal at first and invest your time wisely.

  • @TheOriginalOrder
    @TheOriginalOrder4 ай бұрын

    This is true and needed to be said.

  • @TommyBryson

    @TommyBryson

    4 ай бұрын

    😎🙌

  • @brikler7717
    @brikler771729 күн бұрын

    Great perspective. I'm going to try and use what you say to get through the next 11 months. I need to get the time in at the job I am currently stuck in. (I need to make my pension vesting period).

  • @christophercamargo5209
    @christophercamargo52094 ай бұрын

    Thank you for the consistency been rocking with you since the dreads at 215 lbs lol🤣

  • @yaboiavery5986

    @yaboiavery5986

    4 ай бұрын

    Same here 💪🫡

  • @TommyBryson

    @TommyBryson

    4 ай бұрын

    Lol I remember those times 😭

  • @superfamilyallosauridae6505
    @superfamilyallosauridae6505Күн бұрын

    There are a couple jobs out there where you'll actually get fulfillment, but usually those jobs are super unusual relative to the amount of money you make. Often there's other sacrifices. As long as I had next to zero bills, there's some stuff I would do for damn near free.

  • @shawngee1
    @shawngee12 ай бұрын

    Understand your sentiment, but buying a house is an investment. That would be a good place to put that money other than the stock market.

  • @keitwilliamsmusic
    @keitwilliamsmusic23 күн бұрын

    Grateful for this video. I enjoy the company I’m at but don’t like the role. Looking at work as a means to pay off debt and to eventually allow passive income to cover me sounds like a dream (I’m a musician and would like to take this more seriously down the road). Gonna give this perspective a try.

  • @yaboiavery5986
    @yaboiavery59864 ай бұрын

    I think KZread might have a problem with your channel man. Your videos are great and I think if you tried making another channel and uploading them there KZread might get them more views. I've seen it before, sometimes KZread just decides to kill channels for no reason.

  • @TommyBryson

    @TommyBryson

    4 ай бұрын

    It’s been like this for a long time, the thing is my videos are very niche topics and I don’t go after big topics. However, it’s worth while making videos like these ( where value is the goal )

  • @isolatingisland
    @isolatingisland2 ай бұрын

    thank you a lot. for a graduate im really confused about why im working here every day. your video helps me.

  • @Lastnameabdi

    @Lastnameabdi

    2 ай бұрын

    Same I’m not a graduate but man when I tell you the job I’m currently working sucks ass I mean like the manager constantly has to ask me what’s my name, their always switching what station I work in as a cashier don’t get me wrong they told me they would do that but there will be a station I like working at then they’ll put me at a whole different station around people I don’t have chemistry with it’s hard but you gotta adapt and make ya money

  • @fictitiousnightmares
    @fictitiousnightmares4 ай бұрын

    I don't need a video telling me how to work a job I hate, I've been doing it for over a decade.

  • @johngibs5356

    @johngibs5356

    4 ай бұрын

    What you do know he did not ask you to watch his video

  • @fictitiousnightmares

    @fictitiousnightmares

    4 ай бұрын

    @@johngibs5356 I didn't ask you to reply to my comment with improper English use either. What's your point?

  • @8FigureEarner619

    @8FigureEarner619

    4 ай бұрын

    @@fictitiousnightmares why the f*ck did you comment? You were better off scrolling past the video and going on about your day

  • @8FigureEarner619

    @8FigureEarner619

    4 ай бұрын

    @@fictitiousnightmares and he didn’t ask you to comment on his video. What was your point? 🤔

  • @fictitiousnightmares

    @fictitiousnightmares

    4 ай бұрын

    @@8FigureEarner619 Why the fuck are you offended that I watched a video and commented? You could have ignored my comment and went about your day.

  • @HaleyGarcia-p4z
    @HaleyGarcia-p4z26 күн бұрын

    Finally some one I can relate to

  • @411sponge72
    @411sponge724 ай бұрын

    Luckly, I'm very fortunate to find my perfect job when I first started my working career. I've been here for over 3 decades now

  • @akahajar

    @akahajar

    3 ай бұрын

    Do u mind saying what u're doing for a living?

  • @akahajar

    @akahajar

    3 ай бұрын

    Do you mind saying what you do for a living?

  • @JuanitaDRV
    @JuanitaDRV3 ай бұрын

    im getting a job offering for $3.70 an hour and 36 hours a week its remote but i cant move from my home because their software doesn't work on wifi, i don't know if i should take it, its 9 hours a day and one free day but these 9 hours i cannot move from my chair it terrifies me but i need the money i have around 3k in debt but i also like to sell stuff online , helpppppppp

  • @tamtamxtam

    @tamtamxtam

    3 ай бұрын

    3.70??? Where do u live

  • @JuanitaDRV

    @JuanitaDRV

    3 ай бұрын

    @@tamtamxtam Colombia, the minimum wage here is around $1.38 an hour so yeah 3.70 is "more" than the minimum, usa companies hire us bc we are cheap labour

  • @dezronbrown
    @dezronbrown4 ай бұрын

    🔥

  • @TommyBryson

    @TommyBryson

    4 ай бұрын

    😎

  • @verrredd
    @verrredd3 ай бұрын

    Imagine having passive income. Checked out of the video as soon as that was said.

  • @ernie8401
    @ernie840122 күн бұрын

    I quit and now I regret it!

  • @JM-bb8xi
    @JM-bb8xi3 ай бұрын

    Is there a job you like? I doubt any job is enjoyable. Otherwise why pay you?

  • @siobonbarrett5575
    @siobonbarrett55754 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @ellejaycopeland8835
    @ellejaycopeland88354 ай бұрын

    Thanks man had a long day at work put my heart and soul into it always 120 but lot of times those in Charge don’t take care of their end😢

  • @TommyBryson

    @TommyBryson

    4 ай бұрын

    Don’t become a baby sitter either, knowing your job and doing it well is key. But be careful of being taking advantage of

  • @ellejaycopeland8835

    @ellejaycopeland8835

    4 ай бұрын

    @@TommyBryson absolutely 💯 I’m very outspoken and a believer just like you that keeps me strong.

  • @Hi-jx5oe
    @Hi-jx5oe4 ай бұрын

    Learn new skills and software programs

  • @TommyBryson

    @TommyBryson

    4 ай бұрын

    Those are solid ones, hard but pay a lot

  • @trippiemello3514
    @trippiemello35144 ай бұрын

    First💯

  • @TommyBryson

    @TommyBryson

    4 ай бұрын

    Ayeeee

  • @Dontexxr
    @DontexxrАй бұрын

    Youre lacking in understanding today vs then. The incentive to work is little to none today. That leads to burnout , work + little to no incentive= burnout. The common person understands the point of a job but money is a tool , but when it can be used in ways to make someones life easier its useless. Money is meant to be in circulation

  • @TommyBryson

    @TommyBryson

    Ай бұрын

    I think that’s an economic view of money being in circulation all the time. But usually money stays in the same people’s hands. Incentives don’t have to be created by employers but by the employee himself and his goals of getting out of the rat race

  • @Dontexxr

    @Dontexxr

    Ай бұрын

    @TommyBryson I never said money doesn't stay in the same ppls hand, I said it shouldn't. Whether my view is economically structurally sounding, it trickles down to the individual. So yes, it is up to employers to open up incentives for the individual to actually escape the "rat race." If you can't afford to invest because your ceo is increasing his wages 50% yr to yr its gonna hurt you and others because it's not circulating. Prime example is Boeing CEO salary is 36 million per yr 45% increase from last yr meanwhile over a span of 8 yrs his workers received a 1% raise.

  • @Dontexxr

    @Dontexxr

    Ай бұрын

    @TommyBryson The thing that an individual is responsible for is education . Many ppl know they need to invest and expand their portfolios, which we see based on studies. 401ks are underperforming. There's a reason pensions are no more basically. Upper echelon capitalist, thinking how you think, decided less work for them put on the individual. which, in fact it was supposed to be supplemental to the pension

  • @Dontexxr

    @Dontexxr

    Ай бұрын

    @TommyBryson you mentioned good points, i.e., don't take a job personal that I agree with to an extent.

  • @grandmasterchody
    @grandmasterchody4 ай бұрын

    A job is for you to provide a service so that you can receive the service from another

  • @TommyBryson

    @TommyBryson

    4 ай бұрын

    Good definition also

  • @grandmasterchody

    @grandmasterchody

    4 ай бұрын

    Can you do a video on how to get a raise or promotion,​@TommyBryson

  • @thiabrabson2533
    @thiabrabson25334 ай бұрын

    🤩💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯‼️

  • @grandmasterchody
    @grandmasterchody4 ай бұрын

    Why do i get the feeling that he had an argument with his girl that led him to make this video

  • @TommyBryson

    @TommyBryson

    4 ай бұрын

    What part gave you that idea lol ?

  • @user-fn5ew4or6c

    @user-fn5ew4or6c

    2 ай бұрын

    This made me howl 😂😂😂

  • @user-zk8tx5nj8p
    @user-zk8tx5nj8p3 ай бұрын

    This is absolute nonsense. Try telling that to all the chefs that enter the battleground every day, most ending up with addictions, anxiety, or suicide ideation

  • @aliciaw.6754
    @aliciaw.675417 күн бұрын

    You need to change the subject of this video. I like what you have to say, but It doesn’t actually tell someone how to survive a job they hate. Most people don’t make enough to pay their bills while doing what you suggest here, and they are literally trying to figure out the conundrum.

  • @nyc4life448

    @nyc4life448

    7 күн бұрын

    The only way a person survives a job they hate is by finding another job, it's that simple. In my case, I like what I do but I don't like my supervisors. I don't like pretending I wanna say "good morning" to those bums when I really wanna say nothing and keep on walking. I made up my mind to tolerate those bums for another year. If I don't find another job by this time next year, thats it, I'm done. Hell, if I gotta get me some welfare, that's just the way it is.

  • @aliciaw.6754

    @aliciaw.6754

    4 күн бұрын

    @@nyc4life448 It’s not “simple” for many people. Check your privilege.

  • @nyc4life448

    @nyc4life448

    4 күн бұрын

    @@aliciaw.6754 Right, its not that simple. But I have no privileges. I have to grind it out just like everybody else.

  • @Degdreams
    @Degdreams4 ай бұрын

    Strongly disagree. We should be happy AT ALL TIMES. If im at work, I need to be happy at work. If im preparing for my future, I need to be happy now as im preparing my future. Everything you do should be tied to your personal happiness, so if im working a job I hate, im not serving my happiness nor mental health, and that is a waste of time. There is no reason to do something you despise. None. The pursuit of happiness is one of our God given rights. Its the journey, not the destination. The journey should fulfill us just as much as the destination.

  • @IamKing2013

    @IamKing2013

    4 ай бұрын

    I get what he’s saying, but I’m the same way lol. I’ve taken pay cuts and left great paying jobs because I was miserable working there. My mental is more important than any amount of money. Definitely a gift and curse, but I have to be somewhat happy at my job as well. From the work I do, to the staff and co-workers, everything has to align lol.

  • @Degdreams

    @Degdreams

    4 ай бұрын

    @@IamKing2013 Exactly my point. Like I get the idea, but is the goal worth the journey? Maybe, that's not my place to say, but I can say something has to be VERY profound for me to put myself through misery just to achieve. For example, my current situation is not the best, but once I realized just how close I was to my destination and how easy it actually was, it became a motivation to keep going, but just a few weeks ago, I was determined to quit, because I didn't see myself on the most optimal path , I only saw torture.

  • @TommyBryson

    @TommyBryson

    4 ай бұрын

    It’s important to understand that happiness doesn’t come from work itself, or a company or the things you consume. Happiness is subjective and fleeting when you use it as a simple emotion. Today you’ll be happy with one job and then it’ll fade, likewise with career and so on. Or even that fancy car that makes you “ happy “. That type of happiness will not last.

  • @Degdreams

    @Degdreams

    4 ай бұрын

    @TommyBryson Unhappiness lasts for a VERY long time. The feeling of waking up in the morning to go to a job you dont like is extremely mentally exhausting. And you do gain happiness from a job, it's called "pride in your work." If an accountant feels as though they are making a difference in the world when they crunch numbers, who are you or I to say they can't be happy or they are not serving thier purpose? God commanded us to work. This is what we are MEANT to do, thus we must find joy in the work itself. So we SHOULD see happiness in work, it should coincide with our purpose, not simply being a tool. What you are saying is the equivalent to saying we only get married for children.

  • @jeffhill2751

    @jeffhill2751

    4 ай бұрын

    This sounds good but this is not realistic. How can u prioritize happiness all the time throughout life. This is not relatable to the average person. I think what he is saying that most people in this day and age try to find that sense of fulfillment and satisfaction in working a 9-5 which most likely will not happen. And most people back in the day literally just worked a job they completely hated just to not work again which u shouldn’t do neither. I think he’s saying to most people in the day and age need to stop look for that gratification within a 9-5 cause that’s not the sole purpose of having that job. You don’t have to work the job the if completely hate, just try to find a job a bit more tolerable so you can be efficient. Trying to be “happy” the whole time is naive unless you’re just the exception. Not saying you can’t find those things in a job it’s just less likely

  • @jle4433
    @jle4433Ай бұрын

    Today I got up at 9 am. Then I went for a walk, it's a nice summer day, why not? Now I'm fixing lunch. Then I might take a nap. It's Monday. I'm NOT playing nice with people and bottling up my frustration. I say whatever I want to whoever. Yep, I'm retired! And the best part is you're not :)

  • @TommyBryson

    @TommyBryson

    Ай бұрын

    Congrats 🎈

  • @nigelbenn4642
    @nigelbenn46422 ай бұрын

    I think you've been a You Tuber too long, you're out of touch with reality mate, people can't save any money they have no expendable income, it doesn't exist. People just earn enough to get by, in the UK anyway. Cost of living crisis is gripping people and in worst case it's raking people's lives. No matter how much you make in a job, it will be taken from them somehow. Genuinely miserable existence. People kill themselves here before changing their lives because it's more achievable. Sad reality

  • @TommyBryson

    @TommyBryson

    2 ай бұрын

    If that’s you mentality and what you tel yourself, then life will never change for you. Never been to the Uk and I can guarantee a vast amount of frugal people that lie below their means and save and invest the difference. I learned a long time ago, if you make excuses for where you are in life, you’ll stay right in the same place

  • @nigelbenn4642

    @nigelbenn4642

    2 ай бұрын

    @@TommyBryson Tell not tel. Life never changes anyway son, I'm older and wiser than you mate, you'll learn.................after many many years of delusion

  • @nigelbenn4642

    @nigelbenn4642

    2 ай бұрын

    @@TommyBryson Live not lie

  • @nigelbenn4642

    @nigelbenn4642

    2 ай бұрын

    @@TommyBryson I learnt a long time ago (About your entire life to be fair) That no matter how much you scrimp and save some fucker will take it, tax man, police, banks, wife, you name it they are after it. Be warned and careful in life mate. Take care.

  • @langstonhiggins3756
    @langstonhiggins37564 ай бұрын

    Watching this while I’m at the workI hate🥲. Thanks Tommy 🤝

  • @TommyBryson

    @TommyBryson

    4 ай бұрын

    Part of the game 😎