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@mnasonjohnbutawan5820

3 жыл бұрын

Can you help me how to save my marriage.. what should i do

@FLS713HTX

Жыл бұрын

Geo could you pls make a video regarding being intimate with your spouse while seperated? Me and my wife have been separated for almost 6 months now and have been intimate twice, I do take advantage of every opportunity to break down the stone walling and show her the changes and try to dive deep in understanding her perspective, but maybe I need to work on my bulletproof vest cause and I know i shouldn't have a victim mindset but damn brotha it kinda hits home in the way that although she did open kissed me and held it for a good 5 seconds and she hugged me with a long pause afterwards but later that day when she dropped the kids off she resisted and stone walled me again lol which I know i need to persist but what does it mean in your perspective is there any good to being intimate with your spouse while seperated?

I see how my neediness is pushing her further away and I'm trying to work on it. But at the same time, she has been saying for years (and still says) that she wants me to be more open and communicative about my emotions, and I am genuinely feeling needy. I do feel like I am genuinely making these changes for myself and all the people around me, but ideally I would like to apply those changes to benefit her and our relationship as well. The changes are honestly coming frighteningly easy. Not only with her, I find myself communicating better and more naturally with other people. I say frighteningly easy because I don't understand why it was so hard before. Why couldn't I do this years ago? It's incredibly frustrating. I don't believe I will stop making my changes even if she does leave. I'm happier this way. I can make the changes for myself, but I feel that I owe it to her to give her that version of myself. Even if the changes aren't for her, I do have hope that she will see and appreciate them. I don't know how to let go of that hope.

I believe that look at unconditional is incorrect. I know why I love my wife, her eyes, how she makes up silly songs, how she falls asleep in my arms, the games we played. Unconditional means that regardless of the mistakes she makes, I will love her. Not that I do it just because, but that I love her because she is who she is and I don't limit it do to anything she does for me.

my wife says she will never be with me again, that I am toxic I dontknow how, I am willing ro put in the work, I value my family'

So basically just moving on has the best chance to get her/him back when you may not want her/him back.

The processes, its truly not easy because you find yourself in the old mindset when faced with an issues, or when your partner presses ur buttons and turn it all around back at you

@fish-on1679

2 жыл бұрын

Amen bro bit that's when it becomes you vs you no longer you vs her at that time is when you say ok humble yourself and listen with clarity she's expressing herself embrace it and make it better

@ILOVEISRAELETERNALLY

Жыл бұрын

@@fish-on1679 thank you for the advice. I will keep your words with me.

@chitos2132

Жыл бұрын

Even though she's now my ex I will still go forward with this practice. Too many years of lying and I'm done with that. I still love her sm

@victoriaoshea4865

8 ай бұрын

I can totally relate 😮

Hi Geoffrey! I am currently deeply engaged in your Relationship Revival program and I love it. I listen to your utube videos while driving, working or at the gym for 3 reasons. First, my relationship is in jeopardy and I know that bettering myself os the answer. Next, your genius is so far above and beyond anything else I found. And third, your RR program is so rich and intense, it requires my full focus and attention to grasp, digest and consume to become the new version of myself that I truly love thriving on. Thanks a billion!

Thank you for teaching husbands to be humble to build a better relationship in the marriage.

You have taught me a lot, Geoffrey, but I think I will have to disagree with this one. I define my unconditional love as, "I love you BECAUSE of your flaws." My capacity for understanding and acceptance is nearly endless, but incorporating our differences into my love takes time and effort from me; It is not instant. This effort is part of bettering myself. I do not like the process, but I am oriented towards the goal. Having a clear sight of where I am headed helps me accept the torture. This is doubly true because not only will the results of my struggle benefit me personally, it will make the person I love happier. (This is akin to something like jogging to lose weight -- I might dislike it, but I know I must put in the work to achieve the result I want.) This goes for any kind of relationship, from friendships to romantic relationships to familial bonds. I believe each of us is woven from different threads into different kinds of fabrics. It is our differences that connect us, in my opinion. It is for this reason that I am supportive of the struggles of the people I surround myself with. I know at the end that they will come out better and stronger, even if I must undertake some of their suffering for us to reap the rewards.

Really interesting explanation of conditional and unconditional love!

What Jeff explained about unconditional love here is true, because he is talking about love in a couple relationship, specifically. Unconditional love is truly the highest form of love, but it is in spiritual dimension because unconditional love only exist within those who have deep relationship with God, not human to human. You love your partner because you know your partner also love you in the first place, and that's not unconditional love at all. For anyone who still insist you have unconditional love to your partner / spouse, try to expect / dare yourself to pray to get hurt deeply or betrayed fiercely by someone u love unconditionally. If you don't even dare to do it, you know the answer then. I will put it simple, the one and only one human on this planet who demonstrated true unconditional love is Jesus.

Thank you. I really appreciate this, and your hardwork.

I‘m so Thankful for your videos!

I’m going through this with my wife of 23yrs … I really need help figuring this out … I’m so lost…. We have 4 kids I don’t kno what to do

Your conversation had me thinking of setting and achieving goals in my life. I was even thinking of budgeting which I never do.

@GeoffreySetiawan

2 жыл бұрын

Glad my videos have inspired you and thank you for your support.

Hi Geoffrey. I recently found your videos and I must say that I am very impressed with your content, delivery, clarity, and ability to keep things practical. Thank you, and I wish you lots of success with your channel.

@GeoffreySetiawan

3 жыл бұрын

Hey Pres 717, Thank you brother! Happy that you found the videos insightful… Really appreciate your positive comments.

Geoffrey would your Masterclass be something me and my wife could do together? I have been utilizing your videos and applying these tools and my wife is willing to jump into this with me.

Insanely phenomenal thinking. Spot on 👏👏👏

@GeoffreySetiawan

2 жыл бұрын

Atanas, Thank you for this compliment and comment. I appreciate your continued support.

I agree with this guy but still even when you do things for you. You can’t help but miss your SO miss sharing with them Mia being with them etc. and the problem is you missing them might cause your changes to come off as proof

I have liked a lot of what you have said, but your first example of "unconditional love" is not an accurate description of what that phrase normally means. The meaning is normally that "I will continue loving you no matter what you do, because I want to". I do not believe any of us is quite capable of "unconditional love" for a spouse or partner outside of God.

wow, the way you tied the allure of unconditional love together....i thought YOU were nuts...then I realized I AM the crazy one.....mind blown!

@GeoffreySetiawan

3 жыл бұрын

Haha. Everything we talk about has been heavily vetted by 450+ clients, many of whom have spent $30K - $50K on other programs. We're very confident about all of them!

Tbh conditional love sounds like just a convenience relationship

Great video I was watching the other videos and thinking the same thing , If things don't work out with her maybe I can be a better man for my future women

@GeoffreySetiawan

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

Lets let all men out there who want to have a successful relationship …….you need to really listen to , understand and deliver what the other person tells you they want from you ….. you will be admired and wanted …..

I think unconditional love is more about loving the same no matter what happens

@GeoffreySetiawan

3 жыл бұрын

Don't get stuck on semantics. Make sure you understand the main point -- I don't think many people define it like that. Most people want unconditional love to say "Love me despite my flaws".

there is a lot of "overlap" in your many youtube videos. Surely a lot of the info could be condensed into a few underlying memorable principles guidelines which would be more helpful. Many of the scenarios you describe are to produce a perfect man (who does not exist) with a high maintenance demanding wife or partner. In ALL relationships you love your partner even with some faults (otherwise they would not be human beings!!!).

Hi Geoff, I would like to know if you may have some advice for my particular situation. my girlfriend of 7 years cheated on me with my brothers girlfriend and she has now come out with she loves me but isn't in love with me anymore, I have listened to many of your videos now and it really has been so helpful for my own mindset and grasping my own understanding of a relationship. she has also come out that she is bisexual and I wonder if this could still be fixable? I have made many mistakes in our relationship over the years and I most certainly believe that the event involving the other woman has come from also how much I have let her down in the past.

@ahkreacts6836

Жыл бұрын

I know it hurts brother but make the change and move on

@leunamreyo3663

11 күн бұрын

Don't ever wife up a bisexual. Never met one with morals

How do I join your program and how much does it cost? Also which time zone are your sessions? Thanks

@GeoffreySetiawan

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Alice, you can join by signing up for the free masterclass in the comments below.

Very educational... you have studied alot of psychology I'd say

@RossBayCult

Жыл бұрын

I agree

Man I'm really needing some help, I'm going thru alot of things with my marriage, help please! 😔 🙏

How soon should you start owning up to your mistakes/ poor decisions planting the seeds to know the goals you have set for yourself to correct these issues

@GeoffreySetiawan

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Jonathan Mcpherson, Thank you for joining my free Facebook group. If I can take a better approach to your question from here and the FB group. It would be if your asking if it is to late to save your relationship. Check out this video and message me back here or in the group and tell me what you think. kzread.info/dash/bejne/a4Gdy5qoicLaZ7Q.html

I work out of town... Can your training still help even when far away?

@GeoffreySetiawan

3 жыл бұрын

Hi, Absolutely! Many of my clients have been able to rebuild their relationship starting from little to no contact. Once you learn the processes and start to showcase your massive changes, re-attraction naturally happens.

I’m upset cos I’m a girl and your masterclass is for men lol. By the way, about the topic of thus video.. if you’re bettering yourself to get back someone in your life, then when you get them back the need to better yourself ends. That’s why you should better yourself for yourself.

The Facebook link doesn't work. Also, could those teachings apply to short-term relationships?

So, the REAL lesson here is to improve because it will YOU be better, and that is the attractive part, then?

Girlfriend's parents dislike me, what can I do?

@callmepistol

3 жыл бұрын

Treat her better than her parents

@djuanaberuk9908

3 жыл бұрын

Don't try to compete with her parents. Treat your girlfriend well and let her parents know of your noble intentions. This will spark genuine interest in knowing you. As a parent, a parent is concerned about the well being of their child when they are with you. So her parents can not dislike you because they do not know you.

I want this, I want to be better

@GeoffreySetiawan

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Rich, We can definitely help you through our Relationships Revival program. If you’d like to learn more about it, you can begin by joining our free masterclass here. relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass At the end of this masterclass, you will also get some information on how you can submit your application for the program. And in case you’re curious as to how life-changing this program is, or how it is MILES beyond what other programs can offer, check out the links below! Client Review Videos: kzread.info/head/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU

What is the price for the master class?

So what im understanding is if you want to fix the marriage dont try to fix the marriage and focus on your self and let things take it course. Dont want the spose back and just live your life as before you was married.

@GeoffreySetiawan

2 жыл бұрын

Hi David Baker, No, not exactly what I am saying here. In order for our partners to restore hope in the relationship once again we must first level up and grow in the right ways and when doing this we must remain non attached to the outcome. watch this video to learn a bit more and come back to let me know what you think. kzread.info/dash/bejne/fn9kyaxwn6nJmag.html

She's clingy because you keep lying. Woman trust until trust is broken. Repeat offenders mess with the heart. You broke someone's heart you will need to rebuild it for a lifetime..