if you're worried about being a Psychopath, then you're probably not a psychopath.

@rookieman329

4 жыл бұрын

that is the long story short!

@garnetmuse

4 жыл бұрын

for sure, they would be honored you thought that highly of them

@jimleane7578

4 жыл бұрын

" I failed the test, it wasn't me it was the test" lol.

@Emmygirl-id9er

4 жыл бұрын

I'm not worried, I'm curious

@GraveyardrookieGYR

4 жыл бұрын

Im not worried im convinced i mean yea im convinced im a psychopath i generally like when bad things happen to others in a way im glad its not me because well duh why would you want it to be but i dont think im dangerous maybe unless you do something stupid like walk a dog in a stroller my foot might find itself behind the stroller but infront of your feet lmao

The other day someone called me a psychopath, I haven't responded to them so far, but that's okay I can get back to them anytime, they're still down in the pit.

@argenfargen

4 жыл бұрын

I was trying to think of some classic misdirection for that and you nailed it good sir lol

@MrJacksaun

4 жыл бұрын

@@argenfargen thanks bud..

@gingataisen

4 жыл бұрын

The Pit of Despair?

@allericerasmus9119

4 жыл бұрын

🆘

@enrgy-xh5uq

4 жыл бұрын

@@MrJacksaun lotion

In my experience psychopaths are usually all smiles, successful, and popular. People who are NEVER in a bad mood, scare me.

@jasonspades5628

3 жыл бұрын

How did you know they were psychopaths?

@sassysapphire817

3 жыл бұрын

@@jasonspades5628 they get thrown in jail for atrosaties .

@BonJoviBeatlesLedZep

3 жыл бұрын

I think I may just be the opposite of a psychopath then. Haha. :(

@mithramusic5909

3 жыл бұрын

I'm never in a bad mood. Def not a psychopath though. It's just about how i handle the situation I'm in.

@jasonspades5628

3 жыл бұрын

@@mithramusic5909 I wouldn't say im never in a bad mood, but it is rare.

My mother was diagnosed with psychopathy. She had some of these traits but not all. She mostly wanted to do the right thing in the outside world because that was “logical” but she was a very abusive mother with 0 empathy for my sister and I. It was very confusing and I’m still realizing the depth of the insanity I went through as a child because this was my mother. Thank you for making this video.

@RezValla

Жыл бұрын

relate

@ValidatingUsername

7 ай бұрын

Depending on your age, she was directly or indirectly, by a generation or two, lived through the depression ww2 or recessions after. I hope one day you can make room for some of her behaviors and try to minimize your expression of any of what you thought was problematic in yourself. Also, if you are questioning the government about Israel and Ukraine or their medicinal decisions, the psychiatric field is also a human endeavor.

@PlaidHiker

6 ай бұрын

psychopathy isn't a recognized diagnosis. At best it describes a set of personality disorders.

@jjptech

6 ай бұрын

Maybe she was more a narcissistic than psychopath, in the modern classification from the DSM-5 the narcissistic personality shares MANY traits with pshychos. Let’s say I knew a person in my family with that classification and is really really near to psychopathy

@TinaFahy-jx4om

5 ай бұрын

I empathise with you Raina, my mother was a very physical and mental abuser and at the time I hated my father for allowing her to be abusive. She is now 99 and still expects others to do her bitting. I find it hard on mothers day to find a card to send her because she was and still is none of the things the cards say.

The first sign is probably when someone turns in their chair to introduce a topic of conversation lol.

@fanrosefabrose9457

4 жыл бұрын

[holding coffee] [Swivels cautiously] [Smacks lips] ....."Well!" ⊂(◉‿◉)つ

@lolazal1

4 жыл бұрын

😂🤣

@marythomson7931

4 жыл бұрын

Funny funny

@jdmccartney1

4 жыл бұрын

😂🤣

@michaelbotelho2714

4 жыл бұрын

“ I don’t care who you are, that’s funny!”

My ex-wife was diagnosed as a narcissistic sociopath. I was lucky to get out of that relationship physically unscathed. She completely destroyed my life in every other way.

@treefrog0826

4 жыл бұрын

My mom and ex-wife are both covert narcissist, I figured ot my ex and a few months later my mom. I know I'm one hundred percent right cause if it has happened to you it has happened to somebody else. Daughters, Son, Sisters or brothers they have seen there odd behavior but the majority hasn't and guess who's side they will take.

@kch_789

4 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. Hope you’re getting better

@bengarvin1859

4 жыл бұрын

U will fix ur life man stay strong

@bumblebee_bunnyy7270

4 жыл бұрын

Damn! Your strong! And at least you can warn people now...

@DidWeMakeIt

4 жыл бұрын

Me too buddy, me too.

The worst possible feeling is being someone who constantly overthinks and questions your own sanity and morality only to be gaslighted by someone.

@rtwhitaker

Жыл бұрын

I know exactly what you mean. I lived with that for over 7 years. I didn't realize it until toward the end of the relationship. For most of it, I based my value on the feedback I was getting. Whether it be good or bad. Usually it was bad, because I didn't seem to be doing most things right, according to them. As long as I made enough money, I had some value to them.

@user-lv7ph7hs7l

2 ай бұрын

That's me and my lovely mother. She absolutely used my insecurity against me. I'm always willing to admit I may be wrong so an easy target to her. She made me question my own memory and sanity, she had me half convinced I was the maniac but I finally got up the courage to mention that to my psych (I never dared until age 30, approaching 32 now). Last interaction, she called me 20 times at work. I deliver stuff so I'm in traffic and I don't answer the bloody phone, which I have told her a hundred times. Got home called her back. Rejected my call 10 times, I asked WTF is going on? She began to insult me, "I don't care if you aren't feeling well blablabla and words that would lilkely get this autodeleted...) I had two days earlier after similar incidents begged her to tone it down, that she was ruining my life, put me in such a foul mood for weeks I almost lost my job. I did actually but boss gave me another chance... Well that was it. About 10 times I repeated the message: You will calm down now. You will stop attacking and bullying me. I want proof that you're not concealing your bipolar and more from the psych anymore! I want thr psychs phonenumber and I want her to go on antipsychotics. She tells her psych she's just depressed and she can be super charming and pretend to be a wonderful person plus she's considered attractive so she gets psychs to write whatever she wants.... Or else I would block her forever and never speak to her again. She just kept insulting me... I asked her to think very carefully if it was really worth loosing the only member of the family who still talks to her just to let off some steam. If she needed to insist on ruining her life and mine by refusing all medication that adresses the actual issue, not just anti depressants. She likes those. I do too, thanks to her. My psych says the laundry list is clinical depression (not responsive to SSRIs), social anxiety and possibly ptsd. Wants me to see a trauma specialist, I told him to fk off but I would think about it. He chuckled at that and gave me a link to some healthcare website were covered specialists offered spots... Anyway I did end up blocking her that day. I felt so relieved. Her thing was to treat everyone like garbage and then play the victim because everyone was mean to her (I wonder why...) and blaming it on me, I ruined her life blablabla. So I feel a little guilty, she has no one left now. But I warned her for years this would happen and for 5 years she managed. But she threw it all away in a day and I am done with her. Whenever I think, maybe I should take pity I remember all those years of abuse and decide against it. My life, well being, self confidence etc... have all improved massively since breaking off all contact. I'm a crappy son, I know but she's a horrible mother so I think morally I still come out on top, not that it matters, I just can't risk loosing my job because I snap at someone after she yelled at me all night, barely intelligible manic and raving likely drunk... 31 years old bi*** I don't fall for that stuff anymore. Ibsee the manipulation and gas-lighting coming from miles away. I'm just disappointed when it turns out I was correct. I wouldn't mind being wrong on that one but she's never disappointed my worst expectations.

I love the way he just sits there waiting for the list to finish😂😂😂😂

Being raised by a psychopath (my mother) was an interesting and very dysfunctional ride. I have done extensive reading in my adult life on the subject of ASPD to learn tools of dealing with her, and have been somewhat successful in setting up boundaries as an adult that I lacked as a child. She is a good person, who tries to do the right things, but it is clear that in her mind ahe is the center of everything in the world, and that to her, no one is capible of understanding her, or being as important as her. Even with boundries set up over many years now, it is truly impressive the skill in manipulation a true psychopath has, and how often I fall into old patterns without realizing it. People with ASPD are still people, who (for the most part) want to be good, they just don't know how, and it is really important that you don't end up sacrificing yourself to try and teach them. Helping is okay, as long as you yourself are not being lost in the process.

@erinbsullivan444

4 жыл бұрын

Blade4952 I think your mother is just a sociopath because she wants to be good. I’m pretty sure actual psychopaths do not care if anyone thinks they are good and they have no aspirations to be good unless it gets them what they want.

@jamienelson3470

4 жыл бұрын

Good luck on your journey. I'm glad you have tools now to help you.

@miriam3848

4 жыл бұрын

Sounds more like narcissistic personality disorder

@shadowdance4666

4 жыл бұрын

Blade4952 ok boomer

@euandykes

4 жыл бұрын

Would highly recommend learning about Non-violent Communication.

"Do you hate disabled people, now? Have you looked in the mirror? You're one to judge."😂 that was legit hilarious! Nice script this time.

@davidrosner6267

4 жыл бұрын

Very entertaining intro...

@Blakearmin

4 жыл бұрын

@John Barber Work on yourself.

@jessicatavi116

4 жыл бұрын

John Barber hating yourself is common so, yea, that’s almost normal behavior for the mentally disabled. (We have a group, well not so much a group, it’s just me cuz I hate all other ppl, so find help from someone who cares)

@braedenh7421

4 жыл бұрын

THIS TIME

@jumbodogg9253

4 жыл бұрын

Always the script that gets me...

it's weird how a lot of those psychopath symptoms are the same as ADHD symptoms. prone to boredom, poor behavior control, early behavior problems, lack of realistic long term goals, impulsivity, irresponsibility, marriage problems, and juvenile delinquency are all common in adhders. this goes to show why you need a real mental health professional to diagnose these things

@mhxybeats653

3 жыл бұрын

@@electricfishfan7159 This makes a lot of sense. A lot of ADHDers reactions to things are exaggerated, we get extremely excited, extremely mad, extremely happy, etc. (or maybe we get just as emotional as other people except we tend to show it a lot more)

@lijohnyoutube101

6 ай бұрын

I know a lot of those with adhd and one sociopath. Nothing alike, those with adhd aren’t cold as ice.

That “get out girl!” Got me😂😂😂😂

It was interesting that positive reinforcement was so effective with teenagers who showed psychopathic tendencies. It kind of ties back to what you said earlier about them having super charged dopamine centers. Rewarding for good behavior trains their brains that the best way to get dopamine highs is to do good. And since that dopamine high is so important for psychopaths, you're really demonstrating to them that its in their selfish best interest to do good. In the real world that is likely to continue reinforcing that trend since doing good for other people tends to lead to more good and therefore greater rewards.

@BikeHelmetMk2

4 жыл бұрын

Yep. And if you can rehabilitate 1/3rd of your criminals that way (ignoring that children below a certain age legally are not "criminals"), that means getting tough potentially creates 50% more criminals to deal with later. (Inverse of -33% is +50% for the math impaired.) Better to get the "do good to others" snowball going, if you ask me.

@garnetmuse

4 жыл бұрын

I just saw this on a show, the child was a psychopath and the therapist convinced her she can get what she wants by doing what is right/good. She saw it as a reasonable path to get what she needs and wants when confronted with the alternative.

@kathryngeeslin9509

4 жыл бұрын

@@BikeHelmetMk2 Other countries have figured that out in their penal systems. We (USA) obviously have not. We train "better" criminals.

When you read this, you need to be aware that I have GAD (generalized anxiety dissorder), and fairly severe at that. I had a customer that turned out to be a psychopath. I did the accounting for his bussines, and when I detected something that added up to financial crime, I told them they had to find someone else. And I told the dude why. I also did what the law here in Sweden requier of accountants and reported the customer to the law enforcement dudes. This resulted in me and my wife recieving death threats and the company owner comming home to us to "reason with me" with the help of some edge tools (knife). In the end, I cracked and ended up at home to mentally sick to work. That in turn resulted in my business going under. The upside? Everyone - from authorities to other customers to the bank where our mortgage are was super nice and super understanding when I showed them the reason why I got a meltdown and went sick. I got a lot of help to get back to a working life, and we didnt need to sell our home. Oh, the bloody psychopath? He ended up in prison for a lot of reasons, and he lost basically everything he ever had. I think he is out now, but I know for a fact that he is forbidden to have any roll in a company board or even try to run any type of business again for what is basically life. It has been a little hell for me and my wife, but in the end justice and the law enforcment worked.

@suzramuse

4 жыл бұрын

I understand extreme GAD, it can make life very challenging. I am very glad for you that everyone believed you, they were accommodating and agreeable. And you were able to get the requisite mental health so you were able to rebuild your life. That is wonderful! While reading this, I thought, "This is unlikely in America." Here, I'm thinking, the psychopath gets away with it and the person and family are the ones who are ruined. One reason is that mental health problems and treatment are shunned, seen as personal weakness and failure. You can see how this would explain many things about America. More than that, perhaps psychopaths are idolized to some degree, and people live in fear of them and are reluctant to stand up to them. There is less of a feeling that we are morally obligated to make an effort to go out of our way because we own a social responsibility to society. I'm not entirely sure if this explains why I feel that, "This is unlikely in America." Does anyone agree with me or perhaps have a better explanation? I would be interested! Again, congratulations to you and your family. You did the right thing and I'm sure that's not easy anywhere. You did the hard work to get your life back. And, finally, you saw justice done!!!

@erikgranqvist3680

4 жыл бұрын

@Hue ManI actually toyed with the idea of opening the door behind me, wish might have ended up with the same result as getting out a gun. We allways have some rescued dogs at home in the form of Pitbulls. Pitbulls are useless watching for someone that tries to steal your tv - they couldnt care less. But if someone in their pack gets agitated and threatened? Ouch! But I felt like i couldnt do that to our pups. Had my wife been alone at home, however... they were extremley defensive regarding her. Sadly, both has passed away due to old age - and they are sourly missed!

@thewhat531

4 жыл бұрын

Erik Granqvist don't let violent people tell you that you should also be violent. You're a good man! Thanks for telling your story and for being a cool, sane person.

@patriciafisher1170

4 жыл бұрын

Erick you are such a brave person what a terrible thing for you to go through and yet you stood your ground and showed ppl what this person had done I don't know many ppl who would have had that sort of courage.

@ypey1

4 жыл бұрын

Lol, this is a brilliant moviescript, you realize that?!

I was diagnosed as a high functioning sociopaths. Similar but not the same. And I can tell you from my own experience, that if someone is too care free about everything, is too kind, is all smiles, but never angry out in public, but angry in private, seems too good to be true. Best to stay away, unless you feel confident in protecting yourself.

@henyo5409

Ай бұрын

What is the difference between a sociopath and a psychopath?

@ivanstayner8818

Ай бұрын

@@henyo5409 Mainly. Sociopaths are made by people, events, environments, and upbringings. Psychopaths are born. Their brain doesn't develop correctly. However the behaviors of both are similar.

@henyo5409

21 күн бұрын

@@ivanstayner8818 Thanks!

I’m a bit of a sociopath. I’ve been working on it for most of my adult life and have had some success at becoming more empathetic.

@emmaharkins

3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations 💕

@Jackfrommt

3 жыл бұрын

Explain more

@Senjinone

2 жыл бұрын

Then you are not a psycopath. They can not change.

@handIedeez

2 жыл бұрын

@Senjinone he didn’t claim to be a psychopath

@ianmeade7441

2 жыл бұрын

@@Senjinone yes, that is correct, which is why he said *sociopath* and not psychopath.

Diagnosed ASPD/NPD here. Years ago, I decided to try turning my narcissism on itself. I decided I knew I could make myself a better human being. I've been at it for over a decade, and while I've made improvements, I still struggle with basic human stuff. I offend (often) the people I love, and yes, I do love. The more I try the more my brain rewires itself. I'm happily engaged to a woman I ADORE, and my 16/yo son is a frigging genius. I rely on the feedback they give me to adjust my behavior. Will I ever be normal? No. But, I can do my best not to be a piece of crap. I live by a code now. *Don't be a dick *Don't be a pussy *Don't be an asshole

@mugwump7049

4 жыл бұрын

You could teach Trump a thing or two.

@mildlydazed9608

4 жыл бұрын

As someone who's tried to reform mental tendencies that are unpleasant to most I can really respect that way of working on yourself.

@janemiettinen5176

4 жыл бұрын

Hey, as long as you try your best, thats all anyone can ask of you. So many dont even try, its their way or no way. Your code sounds awesome! Kudos and good luck in your next decade. Im rooting for you :)

"You should play with other people's lives" "Have fun" "Take advantage of them" "it is normal". "In the end, it is NOT your fault that they believe your lies". A psychopath once gave me advice..... Scary!

@napoleano2748

4 жыл бұрын

lol

@dm.6133

4 жыл бұрын

Yikes

@raybrandt

4 жыл бұрын

Was he, or was he just Russian?

@resonanceofambition

4 жыл бұрын

Okay just to be the devils advocate, does that mean these people are evil or does it mean that most folks are just too gullible and incapable of rational thought? Oh shit, does thinking like this make me a psychopath?

@tommeakin1732

4 жыл бұрын

@@resonanceofambition Couldn't it be both? Like if evil people exist - which they do, you should have the appropriate defences, but that doesn't justify people being evil somehow lol. Like if you notice someone is "vulnerable", i.e. you could take advantage of them somehow, you are a bad fucking person if you decide to do that - but it doesn't mean they're "okay" being vulnerable. They shouldn't be vulnerable, that's not good either lol (obviously many things that make people vulnerable can't really be changed, but if they can be changed, it's right to change it)

Plot twist: the mendota centre has a 34% success rate at teaching psychopaths to not get caught for their crimes.

@zebdawson3687

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, we should just kill anyone with any kind of mental illness. They obviously have no hope, so let’s get rid of them.

@nesanesa8361

3 жыл бұрын

the issue is like once you understand ,what they are just get rid of them in good way no pressure !

@xpropriation8505

2 жыл бұрын

@@zebdawson3687 uhhhhh

@suzsnide03

2 жыл бұрын

Teachs them to be better liars, learn fake remorese, etc

@melonie_peppers

2 жыл бұрын

@@zebdawson3687 uhm Hilter's incarnate is that you?

The decompression model honestly is one of the most effective ways to treat offenders from what I've read, I forget which scandinavian county ( probably norway ) uses this and have one of the highest rates of turn around in behavior of prison systems

@user-lv7ph7hs7l

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah people joke about the comfy prisons in Skaninavia and it is kinda hard to see a murderer living in such luxury and being treated so well but it works... their fancy prisons with well lit rooms and designer architecture are pretty empty on a per population basis. And systems that focus on punishement have overfilled prisons and rampant crime. Of course it's not as simpel as that but still.

@user-nk5es9iy8i

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-lv7ph7hs7l People talk about the Scandinavian prisons as being a "luxury lifestyle", but they are really not. First of, you always see the 2-3 same few example prisons that are being used (Halden being the most showed), and those special prisons run test-programs because they are designed that way and can afford it, much more than regular Scandinavian prisons. Also the special prisons like Halden are supposed to mimic more of a college dormitory lifestyle, though one where your day is strictly regulated, since at the end of the day, it's still a prison. Also if the inmates really found Scandinavian prisons so luxurius, why are most of them not coming back, or wanting to come back? Because they got a great balance between being humane while not *too* lenient. So while of course nobody is scared of going back to Halden prison, they still don't want to.

@maskettaman1488

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-lv7ph7hs7l It doesn't work. A 5% chance of rehabilitating them means 95% are released back in to society. It's a failed system that needs to modernize.

@user-lv7ph7hs7l

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-nk5es9iy8i Relax, I'm Swiss. Our prisons are also famously nice, but not as nice as Skandinavia. And yes some people have asked for prison instead some milder punishment because you get 3 meals a day. There was this famous case a few years back that was pretty funny.

@myrrhsolace5875

11 ай бұрын

So does that mean that everybody who interacts with these people needs to keep keep rewarding them for good behavior the rest of their lives? That’s a big ask. If there’s amonster that will killnyou if you don’t keep feeding him cookies, I think I’d rather eliminate the monster than have to bring a cookie jar every time he’s around.

I used to hang out with a psychopath when I was living in hostel. I'm never gonna forget that guy. All the things Joe described is true af

@bumblebee_bunnyy7270

4 жыл бұрын

I worked with a girl with the same symptoms and shes amazing in my eyes...😌

@jpeg.600x2

2 жыл бұрын

@@bumblebee_bunnyy7270 😐

@JoRiver11

Жыл бұрын

@naka She means herself?

3:20 i was trapped in a relationship for 5.5 years with a woman with ALL of these traits. I am only free because she drank herself to death. So PSA to men out there, Joe's advice "Get out girl.." applies to everyone. edit: got to the end of the video. well tldr of my story. if you were wondering how i was trapped in the relationship: She dragged me through 3 false domestic lawsuits when i tried to leave by hurting herself and then calling the police. more than once attacked me with a knife while drunk. i have a severed tendon in my hand. Domestic violence shelters told me they only had space for women, or just didn't take me seriously. Police laughed at me when i tried to go for help, when i tried to insist the told me "you don't want us to investigate, because if she contradicts your claim we'd be arresting you instead. " That chilled me to my core and killed any sense of hope i had that anyone would help me. My life is pretty much destroyed currently.

@incognitotorpedo42

4 жыл бұрын

Jesus, that is horrendous. I hope things look up for you. I hope you're getting some kind of care after all this trauma, but if you live in America and aren't independently wealthy, that's probably not happening...

@LEDewey_MD

4 жыл бұрын

Sounds like Borderline personality Disorder. These people are truly "crazy-making". My mother was like that.

@garnetmuse

4 жыл бұрын

They are predators, they will suck you dry till there is nothing left of you and move on to the next prey.

@rfichokeofdestiny

4 жыл бұрын

The number of women who engage in domestic violence is surprisingly large. But because “you’re a man,” you should be able to “handle it.” Or “you’re bigger than her.” Or you should just “toughen up.” Men are not necessarily much larger than their wives or girlfriends. And even if they are, if they’re not willing to dish out violence against their partner, they’ll be victims. Nobody wants to talk about this.

@shannonbrooks5014

4 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry you went through that man. Society doesn't think guys can be victims too. I was married to the absolute craziest woman I've ever known, and her true colors didn't shine until well after the big day. Long story short, 8 yrs of suffering later I finally ballsed up and left. She said if I didn't want her then I didn't want my daughter either, who was my whole world. She disappeared with my daughter 6 yrs ago, and I haven't seen her since. I had to be institutionalized for suicidal thoughts and behavior. Men can be victims too, no doubt. You'll be in my prayers Brother

The first part hit so hard. The amount of times that’s happened to me from folks with DID, psychopathy, and sociopath diagnosis is really screwed up. I honestly have given up tryin to involve myself in the mental illness community because of them. And CLEARLY not all are bad people so go away if you wanna comment this.

@dasik84

2 жыл бұрын

The main trait of psychopath is the lack of empathy. Even if they aren't murdering people on daily basis, they are evil. In the best case, they are just manipulating and using others. Narcissists are the other evil kind of mental disorder. It's even recommended not to fight with a narcissist because they will ruin your life or even kill you.

@lannadelbianco527

2 жыл бұрын

@@dasik84 Most psychopaths are functional, using a lack of empathy to get things done it others hesitate. For example, they love to take risks and are excellent at doing what needs to be done. For they are immune to anxiety and fear. That's why they are excellent surgeons, bomb-disarmers, snipers and astronauts.

“You won’t find the definitions in mental health’s official handbook, the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. Doctors don’t officially diagnose people as psychopaths or sociopaths. They use a different term instead: antisocial personality disorder.” In North America, there isn’t currently a clear distinction between the two. This causes a lot of confusion in conversation, so I wanted to point that out.

@mrjones2721

2 жыл бұрын

To make it even more confusing, antisocial personality disorder describes only the violent, criminal extreme of the psychopathic spectrum. There’s no official DSM designation for what’s recognized as psychopathy. …And this is one of the many reasons the DSM is crap.

@sonjacharles2457

2 жыл бұрын

Psychopaths will usually still adhere to social rules, which are culture specific. They may even cling to social norms as a way of functioning in society. And they usually don't understand that there is anything 'wrong with them'. Sociopaths don't care about rules or laws, which are social constructs. When it comes to the crunch of getting what they want, they are perfectly aware that they are happy to break the rules to.acheive their goals. Psychopaths find interpersonal relationships handwork, but are happy to.use social constructs to help.them navigate relationships.

@mrjones2721

2 жыл бұрын

@@sonjacharles2457 Most definitions reverse the two, so psychopaths are the more violent and dangerous of the two.

@sonjacharles2457

2 жыл бұрын

If violence is not one of the options used to achieve a goal, what I have said is still correct, as far as I can interpret. People think that both these types.of people are violent, but that is not generally the case. They are usually calculating enough not to need violence. It's just that the ones make.make the headlines.do.so.because they have done something horrific.

@sonjacharles2457

2 жыл бұрын

@@mrjones2721 I'm not talking about violence

“This is my costume. I’m a homicidal maniac. They look just like everybody else.” Wednesday Addams

@Gibson99

4 жыл бұрын

that, and "Are they made from real girl scouts?" are my favorite lines from her

@douglastibbitts6817

4 жыл бұрын

That was a three pointer . All net .

@krashd

4 жыл бұрын

"Correct. But which of them will bounce?"

@MySerpentine

4 жыл бұрын

Wednesday was the best :D

@extremesheepherder9

3 жыл бұрын

LOL You reminded me of all of the creepiest Wednesday Adams scenes, so I had to go find them. kzread.info/dash/bejne/fq5h1bWrZrq2oJs.html

I don't have anything to add. I just like your videos and I'm commenting to help you with the youtube algorithm.

@calebhouston5799

3 жыл бұрын

A noble cause

@dgalloway107

3 жыл бұрын

I agree

@harrysinghaulakh1

3 жыл бұрын

Here goes nothing....

@Sharpman34

3 жыл бұрын

I didn't know that helps a channel.. Makes sense though. I'll have to start doing it more

@vaishalisharma8915

3 жыл бұрын

@@Sharpman34 i didn't know either.

Yeah, I knew one. The oldest son of my godparents, who lived across the street and were our playmates growing up. He killed at least 11, and possibly as many as 21 people. He always seemed strange but never showed any sign of violence. He was like a big brother, helping me buy my first car and showing me around his college.

@2koP7

2 жыл бұрын

Thats fucking crazy man

@uyoebyik

2 жыл бұрын

Psychopaths are very in control of themselves. They can act all different ways

@lofturhjalmarsson9896

2 жыл бұрын

his name ...

@veramae4098

2 жыл бұрын

OK. Good example of a comment that almost certainly isn't true.

@veenoir1991

2 жыл бұрын

Lol yuh okie buddyyy

College first year in the dorms. I lived the farthest end dorm room, and at the other end of the wing (about 10 rooms), police broke in, arrested a guy, and he never came back. I found out from his roommate that apparently he was making death threats against his roommate and potentially was going to kill him. It was so insane to hear that he was leaving these notes around the dorm room saying he was going to do it.

Me looking at the list: Omg, thats me. Joe: They like bitter food. Me: oh thanks goodness.

@valentineyadao2558

4 жыл бұрын

You might be just a sociopath congrats!

@kimberlyhovis5864

4 жыл бұрын

Actually, the only question that you would need to ask yourself is: Do you lack empathy for other people?

@ornim1

4 жыл бұрын

Get in line chumpy you're one of us

@paulgoogol2652

4 жыл бұрын

@@kimberlyhovis5864 Empathy is such an old hat. People call themselves empaths nowadays just to express their superiority when it can't be measured in any way but only deduced from your actions. So if you have great empathy for a homeless person dying from freezing in front of you and you of course care but don't do anything to help, how can empathy can be proven? Also empathy has been said to exist in psychopaths but they tend to ignore it. So it is the same game of just not acting on your "empathy".

@aleksiajankovic9886

4 жыл бұрын

I like bitter food

The comment section is going to be glorious.

@davidnguyen4353

4 жыл бұрын

@Mark Keller sexy sexy china lady

@HylanderSB

4 жыл бұрын

I'm a bit surprised that Trump isn't near the top.

@fft2020

4 жыл бұрын

this is a perfect topic for juicy comments ! I was not let down

@nota4688

4 жыл бұрын

Ex Animus you’re a teensy bit deranged to believe that by itself tbh

@ryanvess6162

4 жыл бұрын

I'm 4 and a half minutes in and I agree. I'm also a psychopath.

3:50 no man, I'm watching that list thinking "that's my ex wife" and she put a pretty face with the judge and walked away with my kid after destroying 10 years of savings. Unfathomable depression got the better of me, but I'm still here to fight another day! But my kid spent her childhood like an orphan... Unfathomable frustration... Like fighting bloody Darth Vader 🤯

@struckfire-de7or

3 жыл бұрын

Everything on that list applies to Donald Trump

@LythaWausW

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry that has happened to you. It reminded me of an opposite case - my uncle married a psychopath and they had 3 children together. When they got divorced, the wife failed at hiding her true nature from the judge and my beloved uncle got custody of ALL THREE kids. Amazing, that doesn't usually happen in Washington state.

@Justin73791

2 жыл бұрын

@@struckfire-de7or The man lays out a heart wrenching life story, and all you can do is drag politics into it?

@struckfire-de7or

2 жыл бұрын

@@Justin73791 I bet your hypocrisy is huge. I bet you're a Donald Trump fan. Which means that your Hippocratic about everything you talk about freedom speech while people that talk about speech that you don't agree with you want band. You talk about Justice but let the police and anyone that happens to agree with your politics get away with everything including murder. Like Kyle Rittenhouse literally went to literally do what he did he said it before he did it. And he took racist tones while doing it. Literally using that word. But yet he somehow managed to raise on a GoFundMe campaign Millions upon Millions upon millions of dollars. Your hypocrisy runs deep the worst thing you can be is a hypocrite and I guarantee that that's what you are. You're going to chide me like a baby because you're too dim-witted to understand that this guy everything that comes out his mouth is a lie. You know it in your heart but you still won't admit it because of your hypocrisy. Okay clown

@Justin73791

2 жыл бұрын

@@struckfire-de7or Wow.... I've never heard someone who doesn't know me judge me with such extensive wording. The vast majority of what you wrote I don't even recognize. Congratulations, you've projected your bitterness of the world onto someone just trying to tell a guy I'm sorry for his loss.

Very informative video on psychopathy! I remember having a discussion about psychopaths with a psychiatrist once. He stated that it’s a common misconception that psychopaths ever achieve high statuses, such as CEOs and politicians. In fact, it’s almost impossible for them, due to their strong tendency towards hurting others, which invariably ruins their networking abilities.

@ixchelssong

3 жыл бұрын

Hmm... but its my understanding they are also very charming when they want to be, and good at hiding their true selves.

@DianeMerriam

3 жыл бұрын

Socioopaths, yes. Psychopaths? No. They can keep up the charm in public as long as it gets them nearer what they want ... the positions of power. And the nearer they get, the harder is it to find them out because those below them know it's their job and credibility on the line if they do say anything. And it helps if they have a family or other outlet to take their bad side out on behind the scenes.

@RussCR5187

2 жыл бұрын

@@DianeMerriam I agree. Sociopaths are generally unable to hide their off-center behavior. Psychopaths can. I believe they reach top leadership positions in part because they don't care who they run over to get there.

😂😂 watching this with my boyfriend saying babe I'm pretty sure you might be a psychopath and then Joe says, " girl get out!" Hysterically and uncomfortable laughter, swipes keys and flees out the door! Lmao!

@jpeg.600x2

2 жыл бұрын

fr!?!?! Lmaoo😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂True?

I’ve done a bit of studying about this because of my daughter. What I found was that psychopathy is something you’re born with. Sociopathy is something you develop.

@food2430

4 жыл бұрын

trix Rabbit ok

@kelciheit5996

4 жыл бұрын

Gabe Denty Dude, that’s depression, have someone talk to you personally. Try to schedule some time with a therapist, it will work wonders

@kelciheit5996

4 жыл бұрын

Gabe Denty the difference is that depression causes sociopathic behaviors, and more. While a sociopath certainly wouldn’t have really noticed anything was wrong to begin with

@Analysis_Paralysis

4 жыл бұрын

Gabe Denty I do believe "normal" people can develop "sociopathic" or psychopathic behaviors/tendencies over time, due to their experiences, but if you're worrying if you'll end up being a psychopath, I can say: no. You don't have to worry about that. Psychopathy (antisocial personality disorder) is a personality disorder that affects someone's whole personality, that means it's who they are as a person. You can only "become" a psychopath (or a sociopath, which is not a scientific term) when you undergo a change in your personality, which doesn't happen very easily, unless you have some kind of a brain damage or a tumor.

@Analysis_Paralysis

4 жыл бұрын

Trauma doesn't cause psychopathy, if you're an adult.

I know a person with psychopathy (now the umbrella term for this stuff) that is aware and trying to be better. As backwards as it may sound because I'm autistic, she's my best friend. I'm naturally going to keep making sure I won't get hurt because I know the tactics and I'll gently call her out if it starts. She helps me understand and navigate social situations I would be too nervous to be in or understand. We're on opposite ends of this mind spectrum but we work together and use our strengths to help the other where we're weakest, it's a mutually beneficial relationship. Neither of us connect well with others. We definitely have a third party mediate any fights and then talk it out like civil adults. Also yeah she does like bitter things. Specifically bitter chocolates. Like those really dark cocoa chocolates. I feel like if I could taste the word bitter it would taste like a 100% organic cocoa chocolate bar. I'm the opposite and I prefer to eat strongly sweet tasting stuff like fruits or yellow bell peppers. I don't care what people say, as a vegetarian I can tell you that 100% the colours taste different. Like how you tell the different flavors of regular water. They do all have their own taste. I also strongly prefer the hottest peppers. I easy ate many California Reaper (1.5-2 mil scoville) grilled cheeses when I had the cheese. Do not plan to leave the house if you eat it. The fire that goes in is nothing like the one that comes out lmao the true test of tolerating hot peppers.

@larrywest42

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely true about the peppers - I didn't realize anyone thought they tasted the same. Your friendship sounds like a fascinating kind of symbiosis. May it continue to flourish for your mutual benefit - and society's.

Got out of a 8y long relationship with a psychopath two years ago. Still feel embarrassed, I was in that relationship, since I probably knew he was a psychopath for the major part of the relationship. When I left, he somehow managed to keep a lot of my belongings, so after two years, all I have left from the relationship is anxiety trauma...yearhh.

@supernova11711

3 жыл бұрын

You took the only thing that matters. The rest can be replaced. Good for you for getting out.

The other day, someone called me a psychopath. I'm not sure how to feel about that.

@Hy-jg8ow

4 жыл бұрын

lol

@davidklein1667

4 жыл бұрын

WHO CARES WHAT THE SHEEP THINK

@mathiasrryba

4 жыл бұрын

makes them lack empathy so that makes THEM psycopath! and I guess now me, by that logic

@Hy-jg8ow

4 жыл бұрын

@@davidklein1667 "If you’ve ever been on a coffee date with someone who chose black coffee over the typical indulgent caffeinated creation, you might want to take your latte and run. Apparently, you might be on a date with a psychopath." From an article, come on :) this is ridiculous!

@ChristopherWeiss

4 жыл бұрын

Hyπατία and Τὸ Μέγα Θηρίον in the same thread! Do you guys know each other?

I heard that one thing a lot of modern psychopaths have in common is that they watch a lot of Joe Scott videos.

@backalleycqc4790

4 жыл бұрын

"Can you validate my parking?... No?

@Mr.PepeSilvia

4 жыл бұрын

shhhhhhh.....

@lordrefrigeratorintercoole288

4 жыл бұрын

Oh are u butthurt?

@colesweet8478

4 жыл бұрын

VALIDATE MY PARKING SHEEP

@Amateur0Visionary

4 жыл бұрын

@@lordrefrigeratorintercoole288 My butt actually does hurt. Thank you for asking!

I still can’t get over the upbeat music in even the most serious videos

I just ran across one of your videos for the first time. Today. Very talented personality. Will be sharing

6:14 - so bascially Sociopath -> Chaotic Neutral Psychopath -> Chaotic Evil 😁

@rafasilva1265

4 жыл бұрын

Psychopath would be lawful neutral

@oguzhankahveci478

4 жыл бұрын

Or Sociopath -> Neutral Evil Psychopath -> Neutral Killer from Town of Salem

@geoffreystraw5268

4 жыл бұрын

I would say sociopath - Chaotic neutral with tendances towards evil and psychopath is any evil alignment.

@bluemountain4181

4 жыл бұрын

@Brainjock Dungeon & Dragons character alignments. A character can be either Lawful, Neutral or Chaotic and either Good, Neutral or Evil. So as an example Robin Hood would be Chaotic Good whereas the Sheriff of Nottingham is Lawful Evil. IMO a psychopath would be Neutral Evil and a sociopath would be True Neutral

@geoffreystraw5268

4 жыл бұрын

@Brainjock alignment from DnD and pathfinder.

Some people have a "psychopath radar" they get the chills when one is around .. look that up it's fascinating ..

@davidklein1667

4 жыл бұрын

From an evolutionary point of view it makes perfect sense!

@staticgrass

4 жыл бұрын

My father was a pyscho and as an adult I can spot them in a room.

@garethbaus5471

4 жыл бұрын

@@staticgrass interesting.

@artificernathaniel3287

4 жыл бұрын

I tried googling it and I found nothing do you have some sources and could link them thanks! I want to know! Edit: Also this sounds like another random Thursday topic that joe should do!

@MrManBuzz

4 жыл бұрын

@@staticgrass Could you explain what kicks off that sense in you? What is it about them that makes you be able to spot one?

Excellent episode. One of your best IMO.

My ex-wife is a psychopath, and unfortunately so is our daughter. There's no "fixing" a psychopath - if you discover that you are involved with one, all you can do is get as far away from them as possible.

@Anny-me9ny

3 жыл бұрын

I’d imagine that’s difficult, do you look at her differently because you know this?

@ESOTERICSAGENESS

3 жыл бұрын

So you left your daughter fatherless?

@sassysapphire817

3 жыл бұрын

What the heck. abandonment can't be helpful.

@bucketlist3727

2 жыл бұрын

Actually you can link good behaviour in the mind of a psychopathic child with reward, wich is extremly good since 'reward' (dopamine) is very important to them. I'd sugest finding a therapist specialising in this.

@uyoebyik

2 жыл бұрын

@@ESOTERICSAGENESS I'd safely assume his daughter was old enough to look after herself before he got out

First sign of a psychopath... back facing camera then turning around at the start of a video. Hi. In related news... I love blood oranges. Bitter goodness. Damn it.

@General12th

4 жыл бұрын

BLOOD ORANGE JUICE IS THE BESSSSSTTTTT!

@fastinradfordable

4 жыл бұрын

I used to love eating grapefruit like an orange. Then I developed empathy and I was like. Wtf am I doing.

@brandonwillsey3304

4 жыл бұрын

I freaking love bitter foods! LOL. I always say that it makes me feel alive..... I knew I had problems but now its confirmed. Dammit!

@Glasher1

4 жыл бұрын

What's so bitter about blood oranges?

@Ayeskint

4 жыл бұрын

Swivels in his chair; Like a Bond villain. All that's missing is the cat... :-D

I had a breakthrough when I believed I "stopped feeling" because movies used to scare me and I was scared of relationships that I thought I broke something. It was more of a hardened exposure coupled with mild anxiety of the unknown. Basically normal.

@jacquepierregee

4 жыл бұрын

Well said. Here's something that came to me one day after yelling FUCK out loud while my smart phone was nearby. Within a few minutes, I received a KZread recommendation for this Ted Talk... kzread.info/dash/bejne/eauG3Mx_gcTFf8o.html ✌

@Blakearmin

4 жыл бұрын

@@jacquepierregee Tedx. Are there any legitimately good Tedx talks? I have a supremely prejudiced view of Tedx talks.

@jacquepierregee

4 жыл бұрын

@@Blakearmin Tis a matter of taste, I imagine. Thought this one was a fun one to listen to, with someone giving a 'serious' presentation, based in so much unbridled fuckery. The fact that it came to me after yelling FUCK!, is a whole other level of entertainment, and concern...

@tylersiegenthaler9656

4 жыл бұрын

Use to have severe panic disorder heart would palpate and I think I'm in the throes of death. I got sick of being at the mercy of my heartbeat, and due to some notions that were already brewing in my mind I just accepted that I was already dead. Panic attacks dissapeared completely went from 5mg Alprazolam + 4mg Clonazepam a day to benzo free soon after. Anxiety has only appeared possibly as butterfly's in stomach once since due to what I believe to be a female psychopath lol. This was 6 years ago accepting myself as already dead freed me to myself however those around me seem to take issue to it. I'm never on time anymore it feels as if when I'm needed at a time that time it self run 10× faster and I don't really care about their time aside anyway. Also have aged so little it can not be noticed physically sense its trippy. I do yearn to feel alive at times however and it does have equal and opposite effects I'm dead already so why give AF?

@Blakearmin

4 жыл бұрын

@@tylersiegenthaler9656 that's a hefty dose of benzos! Even I didn't take that much recreationaly. I'm glad you're healthier now.

My mother and my brother both fit this description very well. It really does explain a lot about why my childhood was so awful. Psychopathy doesn't have to be violent to cause other people some serious damage. I had to cut both out of my life for good. Couldn't care less about my brother but it still really hurt cutting my Mum out, even after everything. But in the end I am genuinely better off without them both.

42 seconds in and I've enthusiastically liked and subscribed! Now to begin a delightful binge! 😊

@Wordsmiths

2 жыл бұрын

Oh, I envy you your first Joe Scott binge! Such fun

My sister is most likely a psychopath. She has tortured me my whole life and only recently have other people in our family seen her true intentions. Now everyone believes me, only took ~30 years of pain....

@patriciafisher1170

4 жыл бұрын

So sorry that has happened to you

@anthonylosego

4 жыл бұрын

This is just evidence that humans are all psychopaths. The only reason we differentiate with labels and think some are and some aren't is due to the perceived actions on a case by case basis. If a psychopath never in their lifetime does "a psychopathic thing", does that make them not a psychopath? If so, is a person who thinks identically before and after they do their first "psychopathic thing" not a psychopath before they do it, and is a psychopath after they do it? Or were they a psychopath the whole time? So many questions. So little reason. Have a great day!

@garnetmuse

4 жыл бұрын

I hear you! Both sides of my family enabled and endulged my sister, no one would set any boundaries with her, she destroyed our family and my own family, too, almost 50 years for people to see her for what she is on both sides of the family, she was a firefighter so she could get out of a dui or anything else her whole life, well she got cancer and just died, so who has the last laugh, not sure if her being dead makes up for all horrible treatment, manipulation and abuse. But I am alive and she's not so fuck her. Hope this helps.

@ihatepartisans.7198

3 жыл бұрын

@@anthonylosego You must be demented yourself if you actually believe that.

@daerdevvyl4314

3 жыл бұрын

@@anthonylosego Believing that is actually a characteristic of psychopaths. Because they’re incapable of feeling love, they believe that it doesn’t exist and all the people who claim to feel it are lying or pretending. But brain scans reveal that there are differences between psychopaths’ brains and non psychopaths’ brains. In answer to your questions, a psychopath is a psychopath regardless of his or her behavior, but certainly it can be harder to determine this in some cases than others. To use this as evidence that there is really no distinction is nonsensical.

Different failures of empathy: 1. You are not intellectually capable of imagining how you would feel as the other person. 2. It simply doesn't occur to you to look from the other's perspective. 3. You are capable of looking from another's perspective, but you just don't effen care. 4. You care, but your ingrained, habitual pattern is to not be empathetic. 5. You care about the other person's perspective, but you see their concerns as minor compared to a greater good (religion, political movement, or whatever). 6. You actually get off on the suffering of others. 7. You totally get the feelings of others, and you use that understanding to manipulate them for your own selfish purposes. 8. You could be anything from (1) to (7), or be normal, depending on what kind of day you're having. Nobody ever said human behavior is simple.

@garnetmuse

4 жыл бұрын

They do not care about other people perspective or feelings, they observe behavior and make deductions. Oh I am supposed to act this way when someone is sad, I am supposed to care about other people when they are hurt so I will use these words like those people I saw on that movie. They mimic sane and normal behavior to get what they need and want and to blend in. They do love hurting others. They find out what you love and like so they can take it from you or keep it from you. It brings them great joy knowing they made you feel bad, or devastated. They love drama cuz that gives them advantage in interactions. Most of us get worn down and stressed with drama, they thrive on it. They dont care if it goes on and on. We are striving for peace and harmony, they love things stirred up. They are energy vampires, if you are weak you are easier to steal from.

@RambleStorm

4 жыл бұрын

"Nobody ever said human behavior is simple." - Well good portion of the population likes to simplify things(especially in those places where education is inadequate)..they also like to make connections where there aren't any (at least nothing concrete , subjective opinions & public perception play role here(just a hunch))...¯\_(ツ)_/¯.

@jaisheltxbless6807

4 жыл бұрын

I feel sick now... I hate the thoughts of the things I can't make go away... I wish I could not care as much as them... Then I wouldn't have to feel this way...

@user-pd5jg4gl4x

4 жыл бұрын

If you isolate from people that have three of these traits, are you psychopathic???

@user-pd5jg4gl4x

4 жыл бұрын

EVERYONE is a mask of PSYCHOPATHIC behavior!?? 🌃💫🌍 Sorry

Your amazing! I love it! Thank you 💗

Oh God, this sounds just like every politician I have ever heard of.

@matthewharris-levesque5809

2 жыл бұрын

No. Trump is a Histrionic.

Literally my mother fits all of the descriptions of a psychopath, really explains a lot of my childhood.

@malaysianeurofibromatosisc588

2 жыл бұрын

Same my life hell untill You tube wake me up one day.

@user-en2tr8eh7c

2 жыл бұрын

That must have been awful sorry you had to go through that

4:00 Wait, pomegranates are _bitter?_ In what friggin' universe?!

@AlcyoneEtaTauri

4 жыл бұрын

You see, Joe just bites into them with their peel on

@myscreen2urs

4 жыл бұрын

I think people confuse bitterness with astringent.

@rogiermodderman4499

4 жыл бұрын

@@AlcyoneEtaTauri that's one tough and bitter skin to go through lol

@erikjarandson5458

4 жыл бұрын

The flesh and juice of the seeds are very sweet, but the stones and peel are bitter.

@AlcyoneEtaTauri

4 жыл бұрын

@@rogiermodderman4499 he has strong teeth, don't worry. If Kore/Persephone can do that then he can too

Oh my God my ex was a sociopath! He checks all the boxes! It all makes sense now! I was so hard on myself for not making him happy at the same time I was anxious about the relationship and cried myself to sleep for months. I don't blame anyone but this video answers so many questions. Thank you Joe 😊

This video has aged remarkably well through COVID pandemic. It has revealed many-a psychopath on every side of the debate over its many issues.

When that list started scrolling up, I started thinking of... someone. Good chance you're probably thinking of that same person right now. Yes. Him.

@catdisc5304

4 жыл бұрын

Voldemort

@OSGondar

4 жыл бұрын

Tronald Dump?

@shanopile

4 жыл бұрын

7 Psyhopaths liked your comment lol or atleast for now . " gotta catch `em all "

@jumhig

4 жыл бұрын

I know exactly who you're talking about. DT.

@Bombdizzle

4 жыл бұрын

The most faaaaamous man in the whoooole wooooorld! 🤣 Yep he'd be the poster boy if you could fit his fat ass on a poster

My girl told me about your new video when I was drinking my wheatgrass this morning. Now she has everyone making fun of me calling me a psyco so thanks for that Joe.

@USER-G291

4 жыл бұрын

Wheatgrass kmt

.... I'm mildly autistic. JUST VERY MILDLY. And that 7:15 list is pretty much me. Only big difference is that I either lack confidence or I'm overconfident. But one thing what my psychotesrapist told me how I know I'm not narcissistic or psychopath is that if I have an anxity about things it tells you that you aren't.. And darn I have anxity about everything. Or feel ashamed all the time.

@DystopianApocalypse

3 жыл бұрын

DUDE! I FEEL YOU 💯

@infinitejest441

2 жыл бұрын

I can relate, I was raised a Catholic.

My hubby is a sociopath. We work very hard to help him lead a normal life. Watching him learn empathy and compassion is wonderful. He’s the best dad to our daughter and his logic is there when my emotional self can’t rationalize things. I love him. They’re not all helpless or hurtful.

@jbates725

3 жыл бұрын

Actual sociopaths cannot learn empathy.

Wow, very enlightening. It just clicked that this friend I have had since age 5 clearly fits this description. We are 50 so I have had ample time to observe him always starting new Ponzi schemes, cycling through relationships with women, etc. He has never been a violent person so I never thought this term applied.

@danielchoritz1903

3 жыл бұрын

every humans have still his ideals. and fears...hurting other is bad, and maybe he is just fine with some alc and woman. if you want violence in a peacefull way? full contact martial arts, boxing instructor or ballet trainer^^

@dasik84

2 жыл бұрын

@@danielchoritz1903 Psychopath doesn't care whether something is wrong. They don't have empathy, so they don't even comprehend that other people have feelings. They consider others just a resources to use for their own benefit.

@veramae4098

2 жыл бұрын

@@dasik84 Senator Joe McCarthy was like this. He honestly didn't understand why people were so upset with him, unless of course, they were communists.

@MJ-fj9yv

Жыл бұрын

@@veramae4098is that you Jane Fonda?

Great topic! I didn’t realize that treatment in children was so effective. Everyone should know this info.

@justinpyle3415

4 жыл бұрын

Effective

@brucecarter8296

4 жыл бұрын

actually, most treatment centers are just really bad

@harpodjangorose9696

4 жыл бұрын

There’s an interesting counter argument I heard about recently. Some group of researchers tried empathy training on psycho/sociopaths and concluded that the subjects became better at manipulating people without altering their core selfishness. C’est la vie.

@ronschlorff7089

4 жыл бұрын

@@harpodjangorose9696 W.C. Fields had a "treatment for children": Boiling!! ;D

@harpodjangorose9696

4 жыл бұрын

Ron Schlorff - “Children! Drown them like puppies!” - W.C.Fields

That was a scary, hysterical intro! 😝 And you did it so well!!

The blue accents in your cubby area really brings out your blue eyes. Good choice Joe, have a good day.

@WouldntULikeToKnow.

2 жыл бұрын

Awwww, this is sweet

One of the tell signs is when someone in a room yawns and most people yawn with them. Watch out for the person who does not yawn, they quite possibly are antisocial. Yawning after seeing someone else yawn is a involuntry sign of empathy; something usually absent in psychopaths.

@garnetmuse

2 жыл бұрын

Wow great advice

@ZeroKyle

Жыл бұрын

is it not an instinct?

@lft3636

Жыл бұрын

i heard that Psychopaths don’t blink more often.

He should make a shirt “Get Out Girl. Get Out... Answers with Joe”

@DoctorMeh

4 жыл бұрын

Reading this before the joke made me get coke in my nose

@daerdevvyl4314

4 жыл бұрын

DoctorMeh That’s the usual way of taking it. Oh, you meant Coca-Cola.

@DoctorMeh

4 жыл бұрын

@@daerdevvyl4314 lol. Nice.

@jeffk464

4 жыл бұрын

Psychopaths don't experience anxiety, women are attracted to guys with confidence. Usually women are very attracted to psychopaths and then constantly complain what a jerk they are. By the way autistic people also can't really feel empathy, the difference is that they feel anxiety.

@augustlandmesser1520

4 жыл бұрын

@@jeffk464 Also women are predisposed to be sexually attracted by the dominant males, therefore so often emotionally see criminals and even serial killers as dominant males which reasonably generate fear and avoidance in civilised society. That's named hybristophilia.

I've know quite a few, they're hard to shake off. They keep on resurfacing.

@edwardfletcher7790

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah they're called Republicans...

Clearly ones who doesn't wave back at you intentionally are always psychopaths

@nahCmeR

2 жыл бұрын

Or they just don't want to wave back, you always have the option lol.

"All those people drinking kale shakes out there... psychopaths!" hahahah

@shadowdance4666

4 жыл бұрын

From the psychopath federation. We take no offense because we just don’t care enough to care at all but, we aren’t totally lacking in a sense of humor over the diet conscious beast among the heard

@malcolmmellon8692

4 жыл бұрын

I drink Cinzano Rosso. I think I have the gene.

@malcolmmellon8692

4 жыл бұрын

@@shadowdance4666 when you said "heard" I heard "herd".

@shadowdance4666

4 жыл бұрын

Malcolm Mellon where do you live exactly because I need to thank you personally for your astute attention to detail and a much more elevated desire to correct my spelling than the average bare. You should be rewarded properly

@malcolmmellon8692

4 жыл бұрын

@@shadowdance4666 i cannot bare your barefaced psychopathic spelling of bear

Wow my stepdad falls into all of these categories. It’s a miracle I’m still alive

A friend of mine has a little sister that got tested and she isn't a psychopath but now i think its bc she is a sociopath

@angiem8434

3 жыл бұрын

Psychopath and Sociopath is not a medical diagnosis so you will not be diagnosed as either.

@Jackraiden500

3 жыл бұрын

@@angiem8434 yep, it would be diagnosed as aspd + or - depending on whether it's "psycopathy" or "sociopathy" if memory serves.

@angiem8434

3 жыл бұрын

@@Jackraiden500 That or NPD as well..sometimes even BPD or HPD..you have to think that being a "psychopath" or "sociopath" is a personality deficit..so basically most people would fall under one of the personality disorders if the deficit is enough to cause a clinical diagnosis..I just think people think it's cool to be labeled a psychopath compared to just Antisocial. Same thing happens with BPD..since this diagnosis has so much stigma..people prefer C-PTSD..which is not even a disorder yet.

@geogeorge8112

2 жыл бұрын

How she got tested? Because she can lie on a test😂

Fav line of a psychopath, They should have know I was ripping them off.

I may have one of these in my life. 28 years of holding on(it’s my child) has led to all of it culminating to a pretty dramatic climax, basically, tomorrow. I find it interesting that this video was posted today. I have been subscribed for some time. Enjoy the videos, and bought your movie on Amazon. I guess, I am a fan of a KZreadr. I never thought I would say that. For me, the timing and content of this video was so relevant, I had to become a sponsor. Keep doing what you do Joe! You never know the impact it will have on people!

@argenfargen

4 жыл бұрын

Hopefully just getting tested, that's what I was presuming atleast lol. No matter the verdict I hope the best for all of you, I am like 90% sure I am a socio and clicked on this knowing i was going to feel salty but i am happy he was far less damning than most people are on this topic.

@kathryngeeslin9509

4 жыл бұрын

@@argenfargen Two of the best people I've known were devoid of empathy and could turn other emotion off at will. "Intelligent self interest" can lead to a "normal" typical moral code; one was in near total agreement with me (difference: I'm a vegetarian animal lover). Both would be great to have around in a dangerous emotional situation, they'd funtion. I believe there's a reason evolution/adaptation never eliminated the trait.

@kathryngeeslin9509

4 жыл бұрын

@@Gentleman_Orange exactly. helpful at times.

do one on "How To Tell If Someone Is A sociopath" where you go into more details please

@HerbaMachina

4 жыл бұрын

Sociopath and Psychopath are outdated terms and both would be considered Antisocial Personality Disorder, the most common difference between what the mainstream would know about the difference is that Psychopaths are by nature (due to genetic or other physical anomalies) unable to have empathy towards others, where as Sociopaths are those that by nurture (being raised in an extremely violent environment, or other environmental factors) forced them to naturally develop psychopathic behaviors as a defense mechanism in order to survive.

@ronschlorff7089

4 жыл бұрын

@@HerbaMachina Good, now why is it normal to be normal!! ;D

@daerdevvyl4314

4 жыл бұрын

Ron Schlorff Because normal is defined as having characteristics tending toward average. Height, for example. Add up everybody’s height and divide by the number of people and you get average. So if someone mostly has characteristics close to average, they’re considered normal. However, there is a concept called “standard deviation.” When you compare people to the average, you will find that almost everybody has some deviation, some “weirdness.” If you measure each person’s deviation and then again divide by the number of people, you get standard deviation. Then you can consider people with very little deviation to be weird because they’re too normal.

@johnpossum556

4 жыл бұрын

Most of them want your pity. Having your pity is like having the strings to your personal puppet. They manipulate you.

@HerbaMachina

4 жыл бұрын

@resigned liberal that's because most media representations are of smart psychopaths, smart psychopaths and dumb psychopaths are very different things, dumb ones are kinda pitiful, smart ones are terrifying.

Bit late, but I'd like to thank Joe for helping stop psychopathy by dropping the background music from his videos.

i really like the music! such a cheerful contrast to the actually sinister topic.

Wow! Mendota results are spectacular. This one was shorter than usual - pitty. You probably dug out more interesting tidbits to share.

My father suffers from substance-induced psychopathy. He's a beautiful, wonderful person when he's sober, but turns into a monster when he's intoxicated.

@borderlinebetty8180

3 жыл бұрын

My mother is the same. Although I haven't seen her in 13 years for this reason.

@lubodudrik5651

3 жыл бұрын

They don't tend to end that well. That alcohol demon takes them down and keeps them there.

@DystopianApocalypse

3 жыл бұрын

Same dude, and unfortunately I as well inherited the fate of being INSANE when I'm EXTREMELY intoxicated.

@RBEmpathy

3 жыл бұрын

@@DystopianApocalypse yeah man. The struggle is real. I wish you all the best. Don't forget that you're bigger than the demons inside you.

@deadsoon

3 жыл бұрын

This is a bit late but I don't think that's a thing that exists? The only thing I could find was substance-induced psychosis, which is psychosis (delusions or hallucinations) triggered by substance abuse. Maybe that results in dangerous and antisocial behavior exalted by the intoxication. But psychopathy is generally seen as traits people have at their baseline. So yeah.

You saying german words always gives me a good laugh😂

@LythaWausW

2 жыл бұрын

Koch /= Kock

I love it when the beat kicks back on

I absolutely worked for a psychopath. Thankfully it didn't last long as I was able to find a better job shortly after she was hired.

@Enkephalen

2 жыл бұрын

I worked for attorneys my entire working career. Amazing how many of them exhibited signs on the psychopathy list.

The kale shake thing got me 😂😂😂

@heyokaempath5802

4 жыл бұрын

I now have a great excuse to NEVER have a kale shake...or anything else KALE. Ugh.

@robertgaines-tulsa

4 жыл бұрын

Diarrhea?

@bludelphinium994

3 жыл бұрын

😆

@bludelphinium994

3 жыл бұрын

@SH Love ur channel 💕

@lubodudrik5651

3 жыл бұрын

@@robertgaines-tulsa That was funny. :-)

Excellent job

My ex is a psychopath. I've said to friends that after 5 years of intensive daily research into his terrible behaviors and issues, I have a psychology degree from Google. Well, the daily article reading & videos, reading blogs etc started about six months in. Maybe closer to a year. I came to the conclusion that he has NPD, Narcissistic Personality Disorder. As time went on, after more research, after learning more about him, I had to conclude that he was a sociopath. In retrospect, I think I was trying to minimize his mental issues, "yes he has NPD but thank God he's not a sociopath!" When I had to admit to myself that he _is_ a sociopath, I thought to myself "well he is a sociopath, but thank God he's not a psychopath!" You guessed it, Not only did he display an incredibly selfish and controlling nature, a complete and utter lack of empathy, zero affection, no support or validation, and frequent uncontrollable rages... not only did he do all those things, all pointing to a sociopath, but much of it was premeditated. Aw, crap. I realized that he enjoys hurting people, and plans it ahead of time. So finally I had to conclude that he's a psychopath. He was very badly sexually abused by his own parents. There is a pretty clear connection between childhood sexual abuse and NPD, sociopathy, and psychopathy. So that is something to bear in mind, if the person in your life endured child abuse. My ex did, just the most extreme and horrible you can imagine, from age 8-15.

Last time I was this early, Joe hadn't even started spinning his chair around yet.

Got one as President right now.

@davidehlinger7271

4 жыл бұрын

My first thought

@tims8603

4 жыл бұрын

Almost everything on the list he showed described Trump perfectly.

@Sentient.A.I.

4 жыл бұрын

@@tims8603 Trump? You forgot the other 99.9% politicians ruining our country.

@pattihawks8514

4 жыл бұрын

Upright Ape He’s more Sociopath!

@Sentient.A.I.

4 жыл бұрын

@@pattihawks8514 Yeah Pelosi is the real Psycho. She lies right to the people's faces about how she cares about her district of used needles and dookie.

Never seen such a relatable video

Thank you! All killer, no filler; enjoyable and edifying. And there’s that important notion, motivation. By the way, I got into bitter tonic tea (centaury herb) as health food, but... Say, how about what music psychopaths like?

I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL, JOE!!!! Entertaining & Informative!

You have quickly become one of my favorite youtubers, love the topics of your vids 😎👍

That’s amazing! You’ve named every defect of Trump who appears to have both.

@delphicdescant

2 жыл бұрын

Well yeah, that would be a blindingly obvious case. Although the way he can't even string a proper sentence together makes me wonder if there's an even more severe disability also at play there.

@goldwingerppg5953

2 жыл бұрын

@@delphicdescant There’s no doubt he was born with cognitive defects.

@captainzoltan7737

Жыл бұрын

Isn't Trump's more of a narcissistic ?

Tump matches many of those personality traits.. not that anyone is surprised by this.

@spaghettimonstersjudgingyo504

3 жыл бұрын

Trump is a little rare in that he fits almost all of them. Most narcissists or psychopaths don't check every box where Trump does.

@jc.1191

3 жыл бұрын

He's a malignant narcissist.

@spaghettimonstersjudgingyo504

3 жыл бұрын

@@jc.1191 I think he's probably both.

@runningthunder6923

3 жыл бұрын

Oh God again....

@runningthunder6923

3 жыл бұрын

@@spaghettimonstersjudgingyo504 look in the mirror

"Get out girl, get out"

Joe, if you haven’t already, would you please cover a video on the different types of narcissists? I believe there are 6 or 7 types. I enjoy your videos and the humour you add along, with the intellect. Thank you.

I was really glad to learn it wasn't just about the traits.

You’re my new fav!

Oh my god, that's my president!

@aatt8477

3 жыл бұрын

Obama?

@julestremblay677

3 жыл бұрын

@@aatt8477 do you think that Obama was president in 2020...?

@99miles99

3 жыл бұрын

checks all the boxes.

@daerdevvyl4314

3 жыл бұрын

@@julestremblay677 The left informed us many times that Trump isn’t their president. So when somebody refers to “their president” as a psychopath, who should we assume they mean? Probably the person they think SHOULD be the president, right? Therefore, OP means that Hillary Rodham Blythe (that’s Bill’s real last name, BTW) is a psychopath.

@scpatl4now

3 жыл бұрын

I was wondering how far in the comments I would have to go before this came up...although, Trump doesn't seem to engage in any kind of logic.

Mendota In Madison, WI! Good info Joe, I drive past there every day for work and had no idea they were working on programs like you described.

For anyone interested in the subject I can heartily recommend The Psychpath Test by Jon Ronson. Equal parts fascinating, terryfying and hilarious.

So many jokes. I envy them because they have no idea of the horrors that some people have endured.

@Jerebo_mec_extreme

3 жыл бұрын

You envy who?

@Susan.Lewis.

3 жыл бұрын

@@Jerebo_mec_extreme All the people who find psychopaths funny. There's nothing funny about a psychopath.