How to Talk to Yourself to Improve Your Life 😎 Change Your Conversations, Change Your Life
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The past is just a story we keep telling ourselves. Your thoughts are the building blocks of your future. In today’s video, learn how to put your faith in your current self and your future self rather than your past self by changing your energetic possibilities and the way to talk to yourself.
Timestamp Menu:
(04:20) Energetic Possibilities
(07:50) Becoming Aware Of Your Conversations
(12:30) Change Your Story & The Way You Talk To Yourself
IN THIS VIDEO WE DISCUSS:
Changing the way you look at yourself
Energetic possibilities
Subconsciously absorbing others opinions of yourself
Self-fulfilling prophecy
Becoming aware of your conversations with yourself and others
Isolating your negative thoughts
Rewiring your neural pathways
Changing the stories you tell yourself
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When we don't live in the present, we live the majority of our lives in something that only exists in our own heads 😱
if you’re reading this, it’s coming. be patient. the universe has your back. don’t worry about it. ~ Much love from a Law Of Attraction KZreadr💜
@LeeorAlexandra
2 жыл бұрын
Gavin do you have a program that posts these comments for you or is it really you lolol
@Emily28110
2 жыл бұрын
@@LeeorAlexandra this killed me
@bibariemech4288
2 жыл бұрын
@@LeeorAlexandra Good one 🤣
@LeeorAlexandra
2 жыл бұрын
No guys I’m really wondering bc I KNOW Gavin and he never responds to me when I answer these inspirational messages hahahaha
@Emily28110
2 жыл бұрын
@@LeeorAlexandra but it’s still FUNNY
Never thought of “I need to..” and “ I should” as another form of “I can’t” Definitely an eye opener for me . Thank you 💜
@ParisLavet
2 жыл бұрын
No seriously!!!!
@heatherdoolan9249
2 жыл бұрын
Whenever I think "I need to" or "I should," they are usually about activities that I feel obligated to do. But now, I rewrite these thoughts with "I want to" and I found that it really helped motivate me to do them! I can't wait to further rewrite these thoughts as Leeor described :)
@ParisLavet
2 жыл бұрын
@@heatherdoolan9249 I'm gonna try thissss!!!
@sweetpeahunnybee
2 жыл бұрын
This!! I used to say that all the time. Also “I’m trying” is something I loved to use as an excuse. But now I am going to do what I’ve been “trying” to do. No more excuses 😊
@toshoyamcewan
2 жыл бұрын
@@sweetpeahunnybee exactly! No more excuses ! We can definitely do what we choose to do
My favorite affirmation from you is: what I seek is seeking me 🥰
@raeannetaliwah
2 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@gulrozsingh8967
2 жыл бұрын
Words by great sufi philosopher- Rumi ❤️
To all my open-minded friends over here, I want to say that one time , last year, I was speaking to the setting sun and genuinely, a thought came to me that I hadn't thought myself! The sun freakin replied to my question! Aaaa🤯🙆🏽♀💖
@LeeorAlexandra
2 жыл бұрын
That definitely happens!
@Annatavfon
2 жыл бұрын
@@LeeorAlexandra i feel the universe channeling me messages when i speak to my grandma and this boy that died a month ago who i am deeply in love with. i’ve been so hurt about him recently but it’s really opened my eyes and made me realise so much stuff. it’s absolutely nuts. we are all healing our own wounds, nobody is perfect and we can’t always be our happiest and best self. forgiveness really is the key to happiness
@pricutie1747
2 жыл бұрын
😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘😜😜
Happy Monday beloved 🥰❤️
@NathalieLazo
2 жыл бұрын
Happy Monday! 🌸🤗💖
@EricNewman888
2 жыл бұрын
Happy, happy Monday, Leeor!! 🙂
@paige7891
2 жыл бұрын
Happy Monday Leeor! I hope you have a great day 🥰
@trishaanne9890
2 жыл бұрын
Happy Monday 🥰🥰
@andreeailie9053
2 жыл бұрын
Happy Monday to you too, love !!!
I think it’s more attractive to see people speak positively about themselves, fully loving yourself is the most complimenting feature of an individual in my opinion.
I have been complimenting myself so much lately. That I'm starting to see it and believe it. it feels so good to be positive.
@notavailable708
2 жыл бұрын
What would you do if you are surrounded by people who are negative
@queenbronx3153
2 жыл бұрын
Love that for you, I need to do that
In the beginning I was like “she’s so pretty” and then you say you call yourself cute and pretty in the mirror 🥰✨
Queen we need an updated video on heartbreak, healing, being single and how to glow up! You always have a different approach to these topics and I only trust you!!!
@frankiesalazar3515
2 жыл бұрын
Yes please
@naqiyahmulachelah5668
2 жыл бұрын
agreee
We all are safe, healthy and protected... We are beautiful people ❤️
I AM a home for myself within myself ☺️
I am peace and happiness..l am beautiful and loved by all.l love myself
Yes I'm starting to realize this more and more that words have powers😌
I feel so lucky to live in a body that reflects my beautiful heart and soul from the inside out. I care so deeply for others and live a successful life because I know i make a positive impact in the lives of those around me 💕 and that’s all I’ve ever wanted to do.
@nio731
2 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome, good for you and the people who meet you! 🌹
My sister made me realize that our family is so used to self hate, so since we were kids we talk to ourselves in a very mean way, now that I’m almost 30, I no longer talk to myself in that way, but is still a work in progress because I say to myself that I’m average, but I am more than that, I am a beautiful hardworking woman with a lot of drive and love ✨
This is so accurate, I used to manifest negative situations all the time by just thinking about them and then I'd say "I knew it". Now it's different, I know the power of my mind and I'm only manifesting good things. Thank you for this video! (:
Remember to tell yourself, everything is working out best case scenario. I am strong. I am wise. I am patient. I am kind. I anchor in the most optimal timeline here and now. I spread light and love. And so it is✨
Iam worthy ,I can do anything Iam a magnet for prosperity and abundance Iam enough and deserving of all the good this universe has to offer ❤ And so it is
Not only are you stunning, the self love you emit is so beautiful. Thank you
Sometimes it feels like a job, an exhausting cycle of constantly "trying to feel good" when you're already in a spiral...it's easy to fall into a depressive mood and willow in my own negative energy. That is my experience right now and I tend to forget to take a breather. So thanks for reminding me again, Leeor :)
The Universe is always providing for me what I need when I need it! Much Love!!!
In relation to your story about not being able to remember names, I used to tell myself that I was shy and can’t hold a conversation. But now I try and stick to telling myself “I’m outgoing and I can hold conversations easily, it is easy for me to click and connect with people” and it has been working it’s charm!
Wow, I am sure I am not the only one, but I did get that comment in my 5th grade science class from a teacher about my art and I did let it get to me. I'm so glad that I have people in my life that support my artwork and while I stopped for many years I'm back at it. Love the video, Leeor!
Speak beautifully with yourself.
This morning I wake up thinking "how am I gonna survive in life? What should I do after my parent died? My business still not where I want it to be" I feel scared and unmotivated. I want to change how I talk to become: "I am smart, I am more than capable, I have amazing ideas everyday, I am creative, I am introspective, I can ask people, I can google, I can do promotion, influencers, I have so many ideas I can try. I am beautiful inside and out, I have many opportunity" Thank you Leeor I feel better 🥰 I will do my best today 💪🏻💪🏻
Here is to putting our faith into our future selves rather than our past selves 🤍🌸🌞 So well said Leeor!
@taylorkornegay6339
2 жыл бұрын
I love how you tell it straight at 15:25 haha
Thank you for sharing this. It is true, when you write down your ideal future and life, and keep repeating it and thinking about it and manifesting it, you WILL see changes in your life. You just have to let go of the blocks Blessings to everyone, you are exactly where you need to be 💠🙏💖
I Am Amazing Here and NOW Its Always NOW
Hey Leeor...this is like the one main thing i learned from you in the past year to be kind to myself even when alone.....this has changed me a lot thank you so much for instilling this idea in my head.... Have a magical day❤
Thank you so much Leeor! Since coming across your content about a month ago, my whole vibration has completely changed and I feel I’ve regained my soul sovereignty by recognizing all the power within me! Thank you for all your light that you share 🥰
@LeeorAlexandra
2 жыл бұрын
I am so happy to have you here love!!!
I was just talking to my friend how I'm so scarred from my past Everytime you post the topic and timing is always soo in alignment of what I need at the moment Love you so much 💖 Thank you for everything 💖😊
Honestly, Leeor, this video was big synchronicity because my older sister has been critical, demining, and trivialising my success. However, I can acknowledge that she is probably trying in her way to help me, but it really does not feel like it. Also, in the past, I struggled with a lot of negative beliefs and thoughts about myself. So I am truly grateful that you just reaffirmed what I was intuitively thinking anyways. My older sister thinks it is arrogant to think positively about oneself, but the truth is that she does not have the life I desire to have. Even though she is highly educated, her attitude and perspective on life is too negative. Consequently, I have realised why her emotional state/ energy is always just off is because of her view on life and the way she chooses to describe life, which is often negative. To make it short, I realised I just have to tune out my sister and head in the direction I want because of my results. Thank you, I really needed this video and truly appreciate it as well.
I know you’re on your moon but your energy in this video is so soothing 🤍
First
@Yourrrr
2 жыл бұрын
😔 could’ve been me
@sheilarose9278
2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha! “FIRST” so grateful for your sense of humor❤️
@abundanceblissing285
2 жыл бұрын
I am furs'd as well. And mine don't shed. They stay perfect! So happy and grateful!!
@soulbound1762
2 жыл бұрын
You're such a beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing it with us all.
@h4yxa768
2 жыл бұрын
give credits
I can do this, I can do anything, and I thank the Universe for bringing me to this video and your warm, encouraging energy. 💕 Let’s be our highest selves today and everyday!
I totally agree with this and I am conscious about the power of words and how changing your story will change your life and it also brings you peace with people and bad experiences that will allow you to move forward with confidence
Absolutely needed this. Yesterday i was thinking why is my life not changing. Although I m not living in the past but i truly agree if you don't generate new thoughts and actions , the past reality is gonna repeat itself. Thank you leeor. Your energy feels home to me 🙏❤️
I’m gonna change my life with this :) And I know you will too ✌🏽😎
Great video! Thank you! I am free in every aspect of my life, now. Thank you God and Universe 🙏🏽
Today I realized we can only live in the present because the fabric of reality is always changing. We therefore have the power in our hands to create our future
Omg I’ve had bells palsy 3 times!!!! I’ve never met anyone who has had it More than once and especially so young
As children we also take on positive thought patterns that aren't ours, too. For me, I have a gift for writing, but I soaked up the idea that I needed to write fiction, as a result of my mother's own unfulfilled potential/desires. But that wasn't the right fit for me. And while I ran headlong in that direction for years, it never really felt right or gained much traction.
I lovee that you talked about this! I’m always telling myself how i’m terrible with directions & because of that i’d be a terrible driver, i’m now 23 years old & I still don’t have my license but that’s going to change soon 💗 I doubt myself way too much so this message was needed - thank you for bringing this realization🦋
Ooh yes, the title is what I live for! Still learning to talk and treat myself like I do to other people. When I started to become less hard to myself and loving my inner child as I am, my world pretty much shifted for the better. ✨🦉
I’m thankful for the fact you’re in my life 🙌 thank you! ❤️
Yes yes yes new upload thank youuuuuuuuuuuuu ahhhh. I'm CALM🥺
Love this!! So on point! 🙏🏻❤️
You’re always there for us Leeor, thank you!
Yay! You uploaded another video I couldn't be more blessed 😍 love yooou
I love your dedication to your dharma and how you contribute to humanity. Such a beautiful reflection. Thank you💛
Love Leeors videos! So immediately effective and packed with so much value and power. Blessings from one queen to another❤️⭐️👸🏼
I just love your videos ! I’m still on a high from the “ Tea story w/ the man staying on your dad’s boat”. It just keeps me excited about expecting the unexpected! Thank you 🙏🏾
Leeor I experienced Bell’s palsy twice in my life as well and I relate to you and all your videos I feel connected to you and I’m realizing how much we have in common Thank you for all your wonderful words 😍😍😍
I really loved the last 2 minutes, the tips from the book "what to say when you talk to yourself"
Need this yesss thank you love 💕 💗
This makes so much sense. Sister, preach! ❤️❤️❤️
been trying this a lot in the last few months and am so grateful to hear your experiences with this! YOU are amazing Leeor thank you for being you!🙌🏼💜
Thank you Leeor! so much love from Argentina ❤️
Thank you Leeor for your videos 🤍🤍 sending so much love to you!!!!
I am going through a bit of not so good things and anxiety ... I am grateful for your presence,Leeor!💕You are my best frienddeeee😇🌈 Sending you love and light💕❤️
It’s so good to come across such topics when I really wanted to know about it. Exactly what I needed at this moment! Thank you Leeor!!
Blessings to you Leeor! Thank you for this video! 💕❤💕❤💕🙏✨
Thank you for this 💕 I love this and it felt like this video really spoke to me. I'm an artist since I was a little girl and my aunt used to tell me that I'll never make money as an artist. I believed that for a very long time until recently that I started to paint again and tap into the artist I've always been.
❤️❤️❤️ that pep talk at the end of the video was so special thanks Leeor 😊
I really needed this video❤️. Thnks leeor
I still watch that “how I talk to myself matters” video. It helps.
Leeor! I’ve been listening to you for several months and I wish I could express the impact your perspectives/teachings have had on my life. Thank you thank you thank you 💛💫
YAY!! YOU SAID IT! 🥲 When you said “keep your vibrations WAY, WAY UP” it made my soul happy! I miss hearing that phrase! As always, thank you for your lovely words. 🥰💕🧿✨
Going to watch this very soon. Looks amazing. Great topic. Thank you, Leeor!
Good girl. It important to have more self awareness. So proud of ya. ❤
The video I really needed. Thank you Leeor ! 🌟🙏💛💕 I’m going to change my life with this ..😉🌞💕🌻
Thank you Leeor🥰
leeor you ARE kind, beautiful, successful, talented and so worthy!!
I’ve been having the worst thoughts about my love life😭 thank you for this video!!! Reprogramming my thoughts right now💫
Thank you Leeor, I felt this video, and it's exactly what I needed to hear. Now I just need to implement it everyday! Peace to you!
Thank You so much Sis Leeor ♥
Needed to hear this today. Thank you so much Leeor! 💜
I'm going to change my life with this. So powerful 🙏🏽❤️❤️
If there was a love button would click that because not only do I like this video I absolutely love it! Thank you so much Leeor ❤ I feel blessed that I was guided to you because you and a few others have been instrumental in my spiritual growth and I feel so blessed, empowered and happy!
Thank u so much ☺️ I'm so grateful for your channel ✨You're helping me change my life for the better! Love you Leeor ❤️
Leeor! Your videos always lift my spirits! Thank you for existing and spreading your light ☺️
This video is exactly what I needed to hear, thank you so much Leeor!! ❤️❤️
This has been such an amazing video. Quite inspiring and on time. It really helped me putting things in perspective. There have been times for a while when I'd postpone my wellbeing practices and I now want to get back to them. Thank you Leeor.
I really love how naturally beautiful you look with each passing day!
I am grateful for you and the opportunity I gave myself for this self reflection moment 💖
Thank you for this 🌹
LOVE YOU LEEOR as usual! So grateful TRULY and EARNESTLY FOR YOUR TEACHINGS YOUR LIGHT AND LOVE. THANK YOU ALWAYS. HEAAAAARRRRRRTTTT EMOJIIIIIIIII
You definitely got yourself a new subscriber. You confirmed everything I’ve said to myself
you're glowing, my love! you look so radiant. i love you
Thanks for existing :) Love you
i listened to this 5 times already. need it to really get into my head :)
I have started doing this for a few months now. It does feel amazing when you think positively of yourself. Your video replenished that idea. Thank you. 💜
Happy Monday lovely, I adore this message. In a group or individual experience it does feel way better to be kind and positively speaking.
You are so beautiful and confident Leeor❤you're slowly helping me realize that its OK to say the same about myself❤
Yesss, so relatable! I just recently had a situation happen, and I was beating myself up over it. I decided i will make better decisions from now on, but also love and appreciate myself.. even when I make mistakes. Things happen for us, not to us. 🙏🏼💞💖 ❤️❤️❤️
You always make me feel better, thank you!
Really needed this today 💞💞💞
Leeor you are so my friend in my head. You always know the content needing to be put out. Now this is huge fir me to change my conversation about myself but I will definitely begin. Thank you, you have such a sweet and kind soul🤗🤗
I’ve had Bell’s palsy twice, too, and the aftermath of that also bothers me sometimes - I have to remind myself to just be grateful that I’m not completely paralyzed 🤣 Also, you’re gorgeous, woman… just as you are right now. Inside and out. Your light is so radiant! You ARE light. 💖