How To Take A Right Decision By Dr. Khalid Jamil Akhter |The Dilemma Of Success

In this video Dr. Khalid Jameel talked about the Dilemma situation, the situation in which a difficult choice has to be made between two or more alternatives.
In video Dr. Khalid Jamil Akhtar giving a different theory “Always see both side of your action”. If you are in “Dilemma” condition, you will take a decision on your subconscious.

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  • @MuhammadUmar-fw8lr
    @MuhammadUmar-fw8lr3 жыл бұрын

    ڈاکٹر صاحب کی باتیں اپنی جگہ پر لیکن ایسی حالت میں استخارہ کرنا چاہیے

  • @mishikhan5678

    @mishikhan5678

    10 ай бұрын

    100% true

  • @nimrasohaib3200
    @nimrasohaib32003 жыл бұрын

    Now let me tell you the best way to get rid of confusion is 'istakhara' trust me Allah talla will get guide your heart.

  • @FaisalKhan-lu3lu

    @FaisalKhan-lu3lu

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think 'istakhara" is the better way to get rid of confusion but also need of logic and science

  • @muhammadsaleh3241

    @muhammadsaleh3241

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good... istikhara...God decision is best for us...

  • @rokayyafatima2255

    @rokayyafatima2255

    3 жыл бұрын

    faida nuqsan daikh k faisla krain confusion hy tou istehara.

  • @rokayyafatima2255

    @rokayyafatima2255

    3 жыл бұрын

    muhubbat krna lashour brain ki wja sy hota,abi kisi ko sehe trha prkha b na ho tou,la shour mn cheez chali jaye touu nikalna mushkil,tb sehe galt b nai daikh skta,buraia b nazar ni ati phir.isliye shour sy faisla kr k prkh k lashour msg send kia jaye warna galt faislay hongay.

  • @samankhan9868

    @samankhan9868

    3 жыл бұрын

    Diss agree

  • @hadeed456
    @hadeed4563 жыл бұрын

    زبردست ۔۔۔۔

  • @abduljabbar2821
    @abduljabbar28213 жыл бұрын

    بہترین پوائنٹس

  • @asmaiqbal4085
    @asmaiqbal40853 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir. You are my motivation always, since last two years i am listning few of your videos. Every time respect for you is at peak. الله آپ سے راضی رہے

  • @brokenheart1188

    @brokenheart1188

    2 жыл бұрын

    While suffering in depression n worse anxiety,have lost all family,then faced more tragedies,😭😭, lost home,all wealth,...all left alone...Now suffering in much worse mental state,can,t manage myself,gone much worse,Life is hell torture,Doctors say that without strong caring support,it will b a miracle to recover for an alone mentaly upset person,so will anyone support me ,adopt for few months to recover😭😭😭?

  • @enjoylife8023
    @enjoylife80233 жыл бұрын

    This doctor is very very best and experienced . he guided me to the right path. Thanks a lot .

  • @onlyhope9780
    @onlyhope97803 жыл бұрын

    Wah boht khoob ! Boht achha tareeqa bataya aap ne dilemma se nikalne ka! Now I will follow that. Kisi ne ye pahle kia hae tou please apne result se agah kare.

  • @maxell007able
    @maxell007able3 жыл бұрын

    تمام بھائیوں سے دُعا کی درخواست ہے میرے لیے دعا کریں الله پاک میری مشکلات آسان فرما دے آمین

  • @shahjhanbanoshaikh7888

    @shahjhanbanoshaikh7888

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aameen

  • @kakezai1

    @kakezai1

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @maxell007able

    @maxell007able

    3 жыл бұрын

    @rabia mushtaq JazzakAllah Ameen

  • @sarakhan-mt7pu

    @sarakhan-mt7pu

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @ranaaqibdilbarnaru5181

    @ranaaqibdilbarnaru5181

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @returntothetruth1469
    @returntothetruth14693 жыл бұрын

    Dua Istakhara Karni Chahiyay Yay Best Method hai

  • @snowwhite2819
    @snowwhite28193 жыл бұрын

    Sir ap ne is topic ko boht achay se discuss kia hy . Simple n clear way main ap hr bat smjhtay hain. You r guiding us n solving our issues by your effective lectures jazaak Allah Allah Almighty bless you sir 👍

  • @WasimKhan-nj3yp
    @WasimKhan-nj3yp3 жыл бұрын

    sir aap hmare hiro hain Allah ap ko salamat rakhy Ameen

  • @FreedomForKashmir
    @FreedomForKashmir3 жыл бұрын

    I don't have medical background nor I am medical student, but with time my experience has told me that unconscious mind is very very powerful, it can do wonders. If we can truly uncover it, we can reveal great powers

  • @top10hut

    @top10hut

    3 жыл бұрын

    Can u kindly share what u've learnt from ur experience??? Please share any of ur experience it'll help me a lot. You know what bro this CONFUSION thing has made my life living hell. I am not even able to take any decision and then stick to it because of this stupid confusion. Some methods Dr Khalid have shared about how to listen to ur subconscious.... but I also want to know how u listen to it? Bro anxiously am waiting for ur kind reply. Jazak Allah Khair.

  • @FreedomForKashmir

    @FreedomForKashmir

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@top10hut while leaving your room for school or office, have you ever felt that that you are missing something( may be mobile or keys or card ) but you don't exactly know what you are missing. This is because your subconscious mind is so powerful that it know the things that are important for you and the things you should be doing, Your consious mind even don't know these things. But subconscious mind can't directly tell you or remind you things as consious mind can. The people who see true dreams is also power of subconscious mind(remember that subconscious mind never sleeps) Subconscious mind never lies to you. Subconscious mind always observes the environment and behaviors. Have you ever felt like you just dislike someone without any specific reason or you just like someone without any specific reason. This is all because subconscious mind keep observing the environment and analyzing the behavior of other people without you actually realizing, and that's how these judgments are made. Also You can't fool subconscious mind or satisfy it with any justification to escape the reality. Like if you have done something wrong with anyone, your subconscious mind will keep hitting you and teasing you about that. So no matter how much justification you give to yourself about that wrong thing, your subconscious mind will not accept it if it was really something wrong. The reason why people can't take decisions is that they overthink. Whenever you have to take decision just take it right away, don't over think. When overthinking, analyze yourself as a third person watching your thoughts and then you will realize that how many useless things you were thinking about. Also don't give too much importance to the decision you are taking, because if you will give too much importance, your brain will force you to think more about it and then you won't be able to take that decision. Also do not think much about results. And at the end, it's not just your problem all of people face this problem, it's a normal thing.

  • @FreedomForKashmir

    @FreedomForKashmir

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@top10hut also remember don't delay decisions, don't keep thinking about them. Just take them right away.

  • @top10hut

    @top10hut

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@FreedomForKashmir thanks alot for ur valuable input. I'll try my level best to follow ur advise. Bro if u don't mind is there any way to contact u if i need any sort of help like email, facebook etc but not whatsapp as I don't have it :( TIA

  • @bakhtawarfatima4480

    @bakhtawarfatima4480

    Жыл бұрын

    @@FreedomForKashmir great your words are deeply touch my heart because i am thinking so while i am taking decisions about my study specially to join Teacher and test sessions

  • @khadijasaeed3093
    @khadijasaeed30933 жыл бұрын

    JAZAAK ALLAH

  • @mziaulhaq3542
    @mziaulhaq35423 жыл бұрын

    Great ideas by doctor Khalid jameel

  • @muhammadshoaib693
    @muhammadshoaib6933 жыл бұрын

    Very interesting information

  • @rizwiyakausarkhan9250
    @rizwiyakausarkhan92503 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir for sharing this helpfull information with us☺.

  • @JASpk
    @JASpk2 жыл бұрын

    بہت خوب۔۔

  • @raheelausman2753
    @raheelausman275323 күн бұрын

    میں فیصلہ سازی کرنے میں ہمیشہ دیر کرتی ہوں۔ لیکن یہ طریقہ قابل غور ہے اس لمحے جب آپ کوئی بھی فیصلہ نہ کر پا رہے ہوں۔

  • @iramhasnain3587
    @iramhasnain358710 ай бұрын

    This is so true. I have personally applied this in my life in the past. Whenever I had been indecisive about any important matter of my life. I didn't decide at the spot but gave it one day. The next day when I woke up, my mind was clear about what to do about it. Very practical advise Dr. Sahab.

  • @alpinerocks96
    @alpinerocks963 жыл бұрын

    Doctor sahib you are the best , well explained

  • @stitchwhich8317
    @stitchwhich83173 жыл бұрын

    Dr . Sahab MashaAllah MashaAllah Kis aadarr asaann treekay p ap ny la shaour ko perhna btaya ... em happy to c u Sir ... after a long time ... bachpan sy ap ko dek rhy hn ap sy sik rhy hn barriii meherbannii ... boht hi aqeedat bhara Salaam dua Sir ap k liye ... boht hi aaaalllaaaa ... 👌👌👌👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👌👌👏👏👏👌👌👍👍👍👍👍👌👌👏👏👏👏👏💖👏👏👌👌👍👍👌👏👏💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @alamnoor1671
    @alamnoor16712 жыл бұрын

    Gzab docter sab app ka khyal hai nice

  • @marinakanwal8601
    @marinakanwal86012 жыл бұрын

    Most precious info...thnx dr sahb

  • @zainullahkhattak
    @zainullahkhattak3 жыл бұрын

    Doctor sahib allah pak aapko jazaye khair atta Farmaye itni asan aur khubsoorat tashreeh main nay kabhi kisi say nahin suni thi aajtak insha allah aagay jake mujhe bahut fayeda hoga 👍

  • @sidrakafeel6582
    @sidrakafeel65822 жыл бұрын

    JAZAKALLAH Sir Zabardast

  • @sumeraferoz4851
    @sumeraferoz48512 ай бұрын

    wow What an idea sir g 👌

  • @shakeelbaba5562
    @shakeelbaba55623 жыл бұрын

    Aapka baat karne ka Andaaz bahut hi Achcha hai

  • @alishbahashmi1335
    @alishbahashmi13353 жыл бұрын

    Dr sahib aap society k leye blessing han .

  • @nidanidakhan181
    @nidanidakhan1813 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Dr

  • @msalmanshalmani193
    @msalmanshalmani1932 жыл бұрын

    Sahi baat,,, thank you sir

  • @safamarwa587
    @safamarwa5872 жыл бұрын

    Allah pak bless you all.

  • @ranaaqibdilbarnaru5181
    @ranaaqibdilbarnaru51813 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah very good doctor sahib the great

  • @educator6512
    @educator65122 жыл бұрын

    Assalam o Alaikum Yes You must do Istikhara ... its same like Dr. khalid ... you pray 2 Nafal and read Istikhara dua and forget about then after 1 hour or 1 day the first thing comes in your mind or you thats the best for me is the right decision Moreover , if you not get answer in 1 day you daily pray 2 nafal of istikhara for 3 days or maximum 7 days Insha Allah Allah will guide you Allah knows best what is best for us

  • @educator6512

    @educator6512

    2 жыл бұрын

    And for the right thing your path is easy... Allah khud ba khud rastay bana dae ga or aap osi taraf jao gae jo aap k liye acha hae Insha Allah Allah se mashwara kerne wala kabi. Mayioos nahi hua

  • @riazahmad7089
    @riazahmad7089 Жыл бұрын

    Very nice.thanks

  • @sharjahoptical3953
    @sharjahoptical39533 жыл бұрын

    Sir mashallah bht achhay say gauid Kia hy ap nay.jazakallah

  • @noumanahmad855
    @noumanahmad8553 жыл бұрын

    Kmal ka tariqa batya Doc sahb

  • @tsheikh60
    @tsheikh603 жыл бұрын

    Mashaaallah , assalamualaikum from India , really testing gut feelings.

  • @aytrader9929
    @aytrader99293 жыл бұрын

    super super jazak allah

  • @ailiaali8679
    @ailiaali86793 жыл бұрын

    Superb sir. Thank u............. Sir

  • @nadiaraza319
    @nadiaraza3193 жыл бұрын

    Very intelligent and wise man

  • @asifqadri6710
    @asifqadri67102 жыл бұрын

    Amazing suggestions 🌹🌹💖💖🌹

  • @asgharabbas8903
    @asgharabbas89032 жыл бұрын

    Very informative video Thanks for this video sir .

  • @mohdfaiz672
    @mohdfaiz6724 ай бұрын

    Really helpful

  • @misssheikh3925
    @misssheikh39253 жыл бұрын

    Well done

  • @f.rjustforeducationfree507
    @f.rjustforeducationfree507 Жыл бұрын

    Thx sir so much

  • @faizanishaqnomi5684
    @faizanishaqnomi56843 жыл бұрын

    Bht hoob g bht hoob aj tak ye main kerta rha hun our faida he hua ha mujy ...per aj k bad se ma smjta hun k mery pas aik though ha jo mery zingdee ka sarmaya ho gee

  • @nazishbilal3160
    @nazishbilal3160 Жыл бұрын

    Topic explained very good......very good suggestions area given... Excellent video..May Allah Pak blessed you always

  • @RanaAhmed-be2vt
    @RanaAhmed-be2vt3 жыл бұрын

    Your explanation is outstanding Sir... I really love ur teaching method... 💚💚💚💚

  • @AhilParis
    @AhilParis3 жыл бұрын

    Great information..we learnt alot please keep on

  • @parmeet5865
    @parmeet58653 жыл бұрын

    Interesting...

  • @ahmadqureshi1071
    @ahmadqureshi10713 жыл бұрын

    I badly need that sir right now... Thank you very much sir

  • @NighatHasanbukhari
    @NighatHasanbukhariАй бұрын

    I really like yur approach

  • @user-vl4sr3bn4h
    @user-vl4sr3bn4h5 ай бұрын

    Very impressive

  • @farhanaqureshi3563
    @farhanaqureshi35633 жыл бұрын

    Mashallah very information programme and lady looks so pretty with scarf

  • @tariqusman2250
    @tariqusman22503 жыл бұрын

    Classic wise man.

  • @muhammadjameel8010
    @muhammadjameel80103 жыл бұрын

    jazak Allah ...

  • @tabbassumnaz9289
    @tabbassumnaz92893 жыл бұрын

    Great sir

  • @saibmedia5229
    @saibmedia52293 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for guidance on the way to get a chance to see good Blog💯

  • @nimranimra2744
    @nimranimra27443 жыл бұрын

    Yes you are right I Suffered many times

  • @adilr.s7932
    @adilr.s79323 жыл бұрын

    It means people are nice who always listen to his or her 💓 in the hard or tugh situation. Brain wale akser haar jaate hain.lakin zindadil win Thank sir

  • @hirayasmeen8502
    @hirayasmeen85023 жыл бұрын

    Keep it up 👌

  • @anwarbaji8782
    @anwarbaji87823 жыл бұрын

    Best advise

  • @adilbintalat
    @adilbintalat3 жыл бұрын

    jazak Allah

  • @Khanytb
    @Khanytb3 жыл бұрын

    Motivated lectures

  • @passenger0078
    @passenger00783 жыл бұрын

    Nice video sir

  • @nanimalik7836
    @nanimalik78363 жыл бұрын

    Sir aa big fan of u ur book teesra janam i read it and love it u r hero

  • @abdullahsaifch6151
    @abdullahsaifch61513 жыл бұрын

    Good sir

  • @shahnaztariq3261
    @shahnaztariq32612 жыл бұрын

    Nice video

  • @Scorp_malik
    @Scorp_malik3 жыл бұрын

    The power of your subconscious mind by dr joseph murphy..

  • @abdurrasheed2279
    @abdurrasheed22793 жыл бұрын

    Nice..

  • @drghouri9127
    @drghouri91273 жыл бұрын

    Gut feelings bai bohat khooooob chacha

  • @abuzar7940
    @abuzar79403 жыл бұрын

    Sir i am a medical student. Sir kindly explain how to think positive about people even when they are not sincere?

  • @bilalkhan5370

    @bilalkhan5370

    3 жыл бұрын

    I am only posting hoping it'll help you out big time, but you can choose to diagree. Well, in my opinion you should accept the world for what it really is which means is that alot of the people might betray you and would be really insincere with you alot of the times and if you accept it as a fact then you wouldn't be caught off guard and thus you wouldn't be disappointed at all....apart from that remember one of the focal reason for which Allah gave us our parents, siblings and spouces is that these are the only relations that would reciprocate the sincerity that you put into the relationship. Trust me, apart from that if you ever put hopes in anybody else except for the above mentioned relationship you are just doing a big injustice to yourself because you are putting yourself in a difficult position yourself.Well thats basically how the world works and bear in mind I am not promoting any anti-social behavior in fact I would say being kind and just to others and thinking good of them is the most vital and basic message of our religion but at the same time protect yourself against unwanted disappointments by emotionally investing into people except for your family. Well, that's a solution that I discovered and have been using from a while now, hope it helps .☮️

  • @bhakkarkullurkot3488
    @bhakkarkullurkot34883 жыл бұрын

    keep it up

  • @farahkhalidfarahkhalid7580
    @farahkhalidfarahkhalid75803 жыл бұрын

    Nice msg

  • @Khanytb
    @Khanytb3 жыл бұрын

    Sir mae ap ko shuru s dekh rae hun jab ap tv p b atay thay us time s hi ap k lectuers guide ,arty rahy haen

  • @AbdulSalam-lj2kv
    @AbdulSalam-lj2kv3 жыл бұрын

    Excellent...

  • @abidakhushtar3446

    @abidakhushtar3446

    3 жыл бұрын

    Àql àyyar haì saw bhes bana leti hai, ishaq beçhara na mulla hai na zahid na Hakeem, Dr Iqbal.

  • @enjoylife8023
    @enjoylife80233 жыл бұрын

    Love you from quetta.

  • @WaqarAli-df5bu
    @WaqarAli-df5bu3 жыл бұрын

    Nice

  • @sufimuhammadhussain3813
    @sufimuhammadhussain38133 жыл бұрын

    Love u Nice great

  • @abcfame9807
    @abcfame98073 жыл бұрын

    Nice men

  • @Pakaanduniya821
    @Pakaanduniya821Ай бұрын

    Kehna aasaan hai, karna mushkil

  • @imtiazakhter9887
    @imtiazakhter988710 ай бұрын

    Take a decision you think is right and leave the result to Allah.

  • @nidanidakhan181
    @nidanidakhan1813 жыл бұрын

    Ap ke speech ne mujhe confused kr deya .me ak maa hn kiya maa ke kahne PR agar koe faisla kare to WO galat ho ga ?Ku ke mere bete metric me hy bohat honehar hy leken zamane ke sakhteo ko nahe jante mera khuwab hy ke WO Dr bane or kafe had tak WO bhe chahte hy liken ise ostarnot banna zada pasand hy kiya me apne bete ko khud faisla karne du ya waqt ka intezar karo khud he faisla ho jay ga

  • @zahraali4181
    @zahraali41813 жыл бұрын

    A.s sir main bachpan say appko TV per dakh rahi Hun...bohat Acha laga apko KZread per dakh k.main be depression patient Hun .5 Saal tak elaj krwaia but koi be Acha farak ni para.phir main nay Medicine Chor Di thi.ab depression Ka Tu pata ni 5 Saal say masla aik he ha .muje neneed ni ati . Ab be ni ati jub main Medi kahti thi Tub be neneed only tablets say ATI thi only or ab be .age Mari 33 ha ...pcos be ha overweight be Hun.mari aik beti ha 2.5 Saal ki . Kindly muje guide karain ..main Kiya Karon

  • @AliRaza-yu3zb
    @AliRaza-yu3zb3 жыл бұрын

    Plz sir apko kah Mila ja sakta h

  • @drsadiahabiba4177
    @drsadiahabiba417711 ай бұрын

  • @SaqibKhan-zd9qv
    @SaqibKhan-zd9qv Жыл бұрын

    as ka Hal batain kia karon

  • @abcfame9807
    @abcfame98073 жыл бұрын

    MAin bhe ye he sochti rahti hon karon k na.

  • @fatimakhan8869
    @fatimakhan88692 жыл бұрын

    Doctor sab ka clinic kha hai?

  • @bakhtawarfatima4480
    @bakhtawarfatima4480 Жыл бұрын

    Aoa can we online talk with sir

  • @isisarkar8570
    @isisarkar85703 жыл бұрын

    Asalamo alikam sir muje ap me bate bout ache ligte ha .muje b ap se mishwera Lena ha mera beta special child ha WO Reding NEA ker sikta oral OK ha. Ma kya kro pls help me ma bout preshan houn

  • @wasifmalik3760
    @wasifmalik37602 жыл бұрын

    👍

  • @Khanytb
    @Khanytb3 жыл бұрын

    Plz mae apni bacho ko kamyab officer r doctor banan chati hun magr kaisy n ko mehnzt karna sikhaun r ye k aj kl education mush,il ho gae hae bachy studies s bhagty haen kuch aisa bataein k interst laen

  • @Silsila5878
    @Silsila58783 жыл бұрын

    Always look at pros and cons of every matter to reach a decision Dilemma occures when points on both sides are equally strong. Then make decision using your subconscious mind. For this take your time. Set before it all the pros and cons and then force your mind to take prompt decision. Another way is to write on a paper the possible benefits and demerits of both the possible situations and then Just let the unconscious guide you to the right way

  • @wqassimzb
    @wqassimzb3 жыл бұрын

    Sir, songs amd music should not be promoted.... ye songs and music Allah ke zikr se doooor kerty hain... Meri azmayi huwi baat hai...

  • @nadiaraza319
    @nadiaraza3193 жыл бұрын

    Funny, chalo choroo yarr phir baat krain gy us ke energy waste krwa ky, enjoyed this😂

  • @SaqibKhan-zd9qv
    @SaqibKhan-zd9qv Жыл бұрын

    Mera bacha 8 sal ka Hy or us ka operate howa tha ab us ka beshab lake hota Hy plzzzz

  • @MRafat
    @MRafat3 жыл бұрын

    And one more suggestion please try to use easy urdu terms and try not to use english terms, so that less educated and countryside people may understand, you are doing a wonderful job.

  • @maliksharif9946
    @maliksharif99463 жыл бұрын

    Questions or concerns please feel free to contact my office 🏢 or at any time ⌚ or email 📧 or at any time ⌚ or email me back 🔙

  • @zahraali4181
    @zahraali41813 жыл бұрын

    I m waiting your reply........plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz reply