How to stop sabotaging your relationships
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Important Message from Elliott: elliotthulse.com
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Elliott on Instagram: elliotthulse
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“Love with your mind, think with your heart”. I like that.
I can’t tell if that’s a really tiny door or a gigantic sword.
@reginaldrobinson5062
4 жыл бұрын
Both 😂
@NYCrazyRob
4 жыл бұрын
Normal sized sword on a white wall plaque.
@KanyekiKamawe
4 жыл бұрын
I've been trying to figure that out for the longest hahahaha
@tannerjohnson5368
4 жыл бұрын
I didn't even realize this was a concern of mine until you pointed it out.
Yall better go thank this MAN thats dropping so much knowledge for FREE. My deepest respect from the Netherlands. God Bless! ✊🏽
@enzoforgets9456
4 жыл бұрын
knowledge is the wrong word here LOL
@xfactor5326
4 жыл бұрын
how long did you know this guy?
@apap262
4 жыл бұрын
@@xfactor5326 i think 2014-2015 i was watching his video's wbu?
I struggle with this daily.. please make an updated version Elliot. Been watching your videos since I was in High school, going on 27 now. Love you man
the challenge is to find a woman with the same mindset. This is so understanding for me.
Love these videos Elliot. Been watching since 08’
This is an amazing video! Elliot where were you 3 months ago when I needed to hear these words! Your here now and I heard it powerfully! It was my own lack of emotional control that pushed away a woman that I care for and love deeply! I have been putting in the work! I lost discipline and it was my own stubbornness that caused her to leave at a time she needed me to be her pillar! I’ll watch this when I wake in the morning and go to sleep at night.
One thing that is great to ask is “What can I give to this situation?” Those who are addicted to the good feelings are wanting to GET something from the other. When you are honestly GIVING to the situation, job, girlfriend, etc, then you bring something bigger than yourself out of yourself. Or rather, God brings a greater love out of you. Thanks for the video, bro 🙏🔥
And that's why I love this man my god we need more people like you in this world
It's been a while since I have been following you Elliott but I gotta say this is one of the videos I enjoyed watching from you. Solid advice. People take relationships for far too granted nowadays. I try to be the guy that fixes the so-called lightbulb instead of throwing it away. I wish more people had the same mindset.
Uploaded just when i needed it the most. Thank you Elliot, love the videos.
Thank you so much for these videos, they are helping me become the strongest version of myself.
All gems, all wisdom, every bit of this, thank you
David Deidas books are so accurate and informative that they drastically changed my mentality. The Way of Superior Man stands out. His theories all come from basic Hinduism. The study of shiva and shatki, masculine feminine, the two poles. The same philosophy which Osho was inspired by which I know heavily inspired Paul Chek who I know inspired Elliot Hulse. I’m a very scientific fact based objective person. This philosophy in very good accordance with psychology, hormonal science, biology, evolutionary science, and the philosophy of consciences. It makes sense to me in every level and has helped me understand who I am. Glad to see Elliot give a shoutout to Mr. Deida.
Keep up brother! Awesome videos, awesome topics.
Yo E I been watch your vids since 2016 your views have changed a lot and it’s a honest thing it shows you are becoming wise and growing this is why I watch your vids I respect ✊🏾 your advice Thanks bro
Been Watching Elliott since 2014 🔥 Great Content as Always 🙏
this is one of the best videos you've released side note: Elliott - what's your opinion on Dopamine fasts?
Great advice. This mentality has helped me greatly in regards to women *Your purpose is your main partner, even when you have a partner* this mentality will save you a lot of time and trouble
Thank you so much, Elliot. 🙏🏼
Thank you bro I appreciate you 💯
Needed this
This is the best...."series"...in ny opinion. God Bless.
This is so fuckin' profound. Thank you, you're a monster lately! This Elliott is much better than the beginning one.
Such a beautiful message
No insecurities, no blame, and own YOUR CONFIDENCE!!! you the MAN big love from another youtuber!!!🔥❤🔥
I just come across that video at the write time that actually helped me out
Thank you Elliot!
thank you for this.
You could ask Elliott Hulse any question about any top topic and he'll give you a very well thought out, totally logical and thorough explanation! He may not know anything about the topic whatsoever, but his answer will be great either way!
Great video brother !
Appreciate it !
Such a quality video my goodness
Well spoke 🔥♥️
thank you elliot, is fits to my situation perfectly, it is exactly what i needed to hear!
@Rangerfan-gz1rx
4 жыл бұрын
Me too bro
@Rangerfan-gz1rx
4 жыл бұрын
ionut alin wanna talk about it?
@pahul79
4 жыл бұрын
@@Rangerfan-gz1rx toxic relationships tend to the most fun and most memorable in the end. You need to realize that no matter how much bs that happens between the two they just keep comming back. Its abit of fun if you dont take it too seriously.
@Rangerfan-gz1rx
4 жыл бұрын
pahul79 thats my problem I take everything too seriously, I have no interest in having anything to do with her if she’s not gonna stay because all I want is to find the person I can spend the rest of my life with. I’m doing better now though, I’m just focusing on me and getting where I want to be in my career and hopefully she’ll change later on. we are both 19, I’m mature for my age and know exactly where I’m headed and she’s a typical 19 year old who doesn’t really know what she wants in life yet. I’ve given it all to god, I’ve done my part, she knows how much I love and care for her, god knows and if it’s his will for us than I believe she will change her mind, if not oh well I gave it my best. Sorry for the long reply, I needed to vent.
@pahul79
4 жыл бұрын
@@Rangerfan-gz1rx read my mind right there brother! exact same situation as me. Personally whats worked best for me is that just make her an option and have other women and focus on your goals. The other women will help take your mind off her in the negative manner it is right now!
Thank you! ✊ Elliot was about to say the one But he corrects himself and says, a good woman I felt that!
Landscape, Elliot.
Right?! Never Heard somebody passionate about paying bills, still it a necessity.
this was a million dollar worth. True wisdom.
You should do a Q&A
Yours brilliant man brother
On point.
Great Video!
WORD!
Elliott has been killing it on the reg.
Elliott, you are the best
You are a very wise man, you just organized all my thoughts around my ex. 4 months ago I broke up a 2 year relationship because of this shit. I said we wouldn't have sex just to see her reaction, she got so angry, left while I was explaining the reasons and didn't talk to me for a whole day. I realized that sex was the core of the relationship, and wasn't 100% sure of ending the relationship but I did it anyways. Since then, I have become more religious and self-aware of the meaning of sex. Thank you Elliott.
@Davidrodriguez-rz1sp
4 жыл бұрын
I’m in the middle of doing the exact same experiment on my current girlfriend. We haven’t had sex for about 2 weeks now and she’s become angry, more insecure, blunt with her words, and we talk less. Been with her for 2 and 1/2 years and have been debating the breakup for days now. After reading this comment I think i know what’s best
I can’t lie I like to argue a little. I be starting Shit just to piss em off.
Elliot keep on doing what you’re doing; truism hurts people, BUT THEY heal and learn and get stronger.
Yo Elliot from your experience with weight training program increases your testosterone the most. Strength training or Hypertrophy training? This is a odd question ill admit but i'm curious to know if certain training programs increase testosterone higher then others?
I LOVE the investment comparesment! Thank you! I'm undergoing tought times in my relationship and this video helped me a lot!
As I have started to hone my mind into that of a warrior and leader, I have been receiving harsh criticism from my family (mother and younger sister, both fatherless and damaged). As I continue this path I realize that they seem to be complacent with being victims and they want nothing to do with my newfound strength of mind... Keep in mind, I am NOT forcing anything on them, I am simply trying to help. Should I stop trying to help them? Am I approaching this incorrectly? Should I break ties?
@salehelibiary6890
4 жыл бұрын
No, dont break ties. Also dont try to help them, just keep tunnel visioning on whats best for you and your long term goals and eventually when they observe you thriving they themselves will come asking for guidance/help without you having to put any effort they will be all ears listening to whatever advise you offer
Thanks E
11 months later and I should have watched this a long time ago......
Elliot, have you read Cupid's Poisoned Arrow by Marnia Robinson? I think it's the second most important book every man should read after The Way of the Superior Man!
How do I get access to this king transformation?
🔥
Yo Elliot !
Why so much hate on Elliott’s comment section lately?
Elliot could you make a video about your Ideas about Heaven and Hell after death
@walidem1602
4 жыл бұрын
If you believe in it ofcourse
@gaiabx9901
4 жыл бұрын
!!!
@mwsbds8652
4 жыл бұрын
Thiss 👆👆
@nordinem5767
4 жыл бұрын
This would be goodd
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Elliott Hulse- I know where you got that sword .😈 I also see you've had it for a long time. So have I, lol
Yo Elliott, thank you for being a beacon for men all over the world. I got a quick question, brother... I messed up when I was younger and got a (entertainment, mostly) girl pregnant, and now we’re still together 8 years later because of my son... Sometimes we don’t talk for days in the same home, but I also know that I can’t let a loose girl like that to bring other potentially abusive men into my sons life... I am so stressed all the time because of this situation and have no idea how to get out of it... Any thoughts?
@toscadonna
4 жыл бұрын
Ray O Maybe try asking her out for a date? Get dressed up and have a nice night out where you don’t have to talk about serious things. Or go for a hike together and enjoy being outdoors? Do something together to try to build rapport and become closer. Love is an action. You can fall in love and make things better if you lead the way.
Like Tyler said, listening to Elliott is like listening to God 🔥🔥
How about making a video about how to stop people from sabotaging you
You can tell he's a stoic cos he looks like he hasn't had a laugh in years.
Hmmm my phone must be spying on me........
like it
Elliott, I'm a 17 year old male that is 5'6 with small hands. It's hard to feel like a masculine man when you get dwarfed everyday and it's harder to attract women. I don't know how to feel like a man, and after I started working out I get called a manlet.
@cvb8778
4 жыл бұрын
You still have like five years to grow taller, most men stop at around 21 or 22.
@theannunaki3871
4 жыл бұрын
Checkout pitutary gland meditation on youtube, Do stretching exercises, hanging on a bar etc. Sleep 8 hrs a day, go early to bed rise early
@WasifSikder
3 жыл бұрын
5 6 isnt even that small. There are plenty of people below 5 ft. Don't listen to others crap and keep working out. Do compound exersices or basic calisthenics like push up, pull up, dip, squat, leg raise. Also, know that for a relationship, emotional maturity is a lot more important than your size physically. You can build emotional maturity through things like meditation and developing a connection with God
Yo Elliot How do if I know if a relationship is toxic?
@niallmcgibiney5644
4 жыл бұрын
ProBorder420 if you’re asking that question. The relationship is probably toxic😂
People get married, get bored, divorce.
@bananasplint666
3 жыл бұрын
People who got married for the wrong reason divorce
The answer to the question in the title is this: *don't take his advice*
Liking "post fight sex" or "makeup sex" is twisted!
@icaras12x87
4 жыл бұрын
Please elaborate I'm curious
@jamesm5192
4 жыл бұрын
@@icaras12x87 It is twisted, not normal, to want or enjoy or create these. I'm not interested in proving it in a KZread comment, but it should be self-evident to a discerning person.
@icaras12x87
4 жыл бұрын
@@jamesm5192 I was asking because I love that but consider myself normal. So I guess I'm twisted
@jamesm5192
4 жыл бұрын
@@icaras12x87 So... Why do you love it - and which one?
@icaras12x87
4 жыл бұрын
@@jamesm5192 My relationship is a continuous up and down. Leaving her makes me feel so bad and then reconnect is the best feeling in the world, sex included
Shouldn't you try to fix the toxicity (at least for your part) before throwing it away?
Yo Elliot, can you make a video about Erectile Dysfunction? I got laid the other day and I got soft midway. Dubbed the next day by the same girl. It would really help!
@blackout2430
4 жыл бұрын
Get a hotter chick
@marilynmendez4187
4 жыл бұрын
@Zafar Ali most of the time, that is the issue. People don't realize the harmful of porno...it destroyed lives!
@lc3484
4 жыл бұрын
@@marilynmendez4187 Porn almost ruined my marriage. We had no sex life and I thought my hubby had erectile dysfunction or he was cheating on me. When he stopped watching porn, he had more sexual energy and was more loving towards me. Porn desensitizes the mind.
@Metachief_X
4 жыл бұрын
toxnkoks thanks for the reply. Seems interesting. Can you elaborate on trust?
@Metachief_X
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you all for the replies. I definitely think it’s porn. I stopped consuming it ever since this happened to me.
Many ppl get married and get divorced. This video doesnt explain you anything about that, he mostly just tries to push his religion down our throat (which is okay). If you REALLY want to know what to do, watch some older Jason Capital videos and read the book Elliott mentioned "The Superior Man".
Oh elliot how’ve you fallen
This is 2020. Why does everyone still obsess over finding all of the answers required to "find the perfect love match?" Want my honest advice, guys? Give up on dating! Save your time, save your money and save your energy. Life is too short.
Step 1) Don't have any.
Yo Elliot, how to get rid of dry skin, lots of dead skin.
@user-td7xf3gz4l
4 жыл бұрын
Lotion
@WhatTheHeck1290
4 жыл бұрын
Eat better foods bro
You talk as if the universe works by human logical thinking asking for man to be racional. But i love the "love with your mind, think with your heart"!
@joaovictorferreira3251
4 жыл бұрын
The mind is incapable of love. Thats why we have "passionate" crimes
It’s just drama seeking
Yo Elliott, you say these thing are feminine. But would you advice the opposite to women? Or more important do we need as feminine women as possible? I mean if looking for emotion stimulation is feminine, then our women should have it or not? I learned women are more programmed to focus on the wellbeing of the children. That's what generally makes them more emotional. So it seems to be a good thing. But you also don't want the woman to play around all the time. 😄
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Mayne... i can tell that living with a bunch of women, u are going a little nuts... this might be a little out there, but I feel like u and ur wife rushed into love, have u ever heard the phrase "only fools rush in"? U don't look like the romantic type, but I could be wrong.. I dated a girl for 7 years and she left me for another Man, so I'm no relationship "expert".. but emotion is a part of life.. and can be incredibly complex. And when we're young we don't know what we're getting into.. a lot of older men will take advantage of younger women, especially older men with $$ and more experience. Women want romance. And some men can fake it.. but it's extremely dangerous & can blow up in ur face if u do it to the wrong woman whose already married/committed to someone else. Ever heard of the song by Lady Gaga, "Love Game"? Anyways... ima go smoke..
What relationships? Lol
The only reason you should marry a girl if she knows place of subordination .
WHAT? MARRIAGE AND CHILDREN, U CRAZY?
elliot: if your wife asks you to change your kids diaper, give her the silent treatment also elliot: how to stop sabotaging your relationships :)
I would say it’s in their nature for women to sabotage, their filled with emotions. They thrive on emotional turmoil.
You should reach out to joe Rogan and do a pod with him.
Trump 2020
@SAMUELCRAFTER1
4 жыл бұрын
Alex Fonseca what does that have to do with this 😂😂
@alexfonseca2063
4 жыл бұрын
SAMUELCRAFTER1 Elliot is a Trump supporter.
@theannunaki3871
4 жыл бұрын
@@alexfonseca2063 Not directly. He just supports his masculine energy and his vision.
@alexfonseca2063
4 жыл бұрын
The Annunaki Yes. And he said Obama was very Beta.
@theannunaki3871
4 жыл бұрын
@@alexfonseca2063 He just want a strong figure ruling USA, if its not trump then some other alpha man. I can agree that trump is more aggressive and alpha.
Ey man in that thumbnail you look vary demonic.
Outdated advice
Why are you back to making videos? These vids are pretty bad.
Unsubscribed. This has gone from a mediocre weight lifting channel to complete negative drivel that exploits the insecurities of young and immature men, all for the purpose of shilling some bs self improvement program.
@blackout2430
4 жыл бұрын
corsair773 I haven’t gotten into the meat of the video but what was so negative to you?
@corsair773
4 жыл бұрын
@@blackout2430 Just the whole outlook on the world that he is pushing. And he's only doing it because he wants to tap into the incel market to sell his king courses or whatever.
@blackout2430
4 жыл бұрын
corsair773 Wow I am really out of touch. I just on occasion will pop in and watch a video. I’m subscribed to way too many channels so even though I don’t mind Elliot I kind of lost him in the shuffle so I’m behind on everything. Incels though? The only thing I’ve seen recently that I actually watched that would make me think that was his interview with Jason capital ERRRRR *cough Alex Marko *cough* and how dating is a waste of time. I do not think dating is a waste of time. You not bettering yourself is the only true waste of time.
@corsair773
4 жыл бұрын
@@blackout2430 Yeah you can see the shift since he started collaborating with various dating gurus. He's always had some kind of program like "breathe through your balls" or "warrior camp" and now the "king transformation". It's fair enough, I guess a man's gotta make a living, but it's not the kind of stuff I want to expose myself to and don't recommend that anyone else does.
@corsair773
4 жыл бұрын
@@blackout2430 He is a talented and charismatic dude who is a great salesman. Makes his living and that's fair. But I, for one, ain't buying.
Not taking advice from a dude who can't record a video in horizontal