This channel is a god damn gem... I have been searching for something like this for a while now. I love my authentic funny self, I just find it difficult to express sometimes. It's the underlying fear of being spontaneous and in the moment. keep it up mate!!!

@YourCharismaCoach

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your support! More videos on the way soon(ish)!

Truth is Charisma is the most potent attractor of all time.

Wow, that video is amazing. Never seen anything like this, everyone just says "raise your self esteem" or "realize that people dont care about you"

@YourCharismaCoach

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for taking the time to watch it!

WOW - where have you been? I used to follow you for years ... first video I've seen in forever. Nice to see you're back. You are MUCH better as a single speaker than those group ventures ... you were pulled down by the authenticity of the people you were with ... KUDOS and happy returns

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

We're always here but videos seem to take a lot longer because we don't like churning them out (which is supposed to be the done thing these days). Thank you for your support, more on the way shortly...with me!

Love this, your creativity is extraordinary, you have a great sense for callibrating the intensity behind your message, not overkill and flashy, just the right balance.

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Now for the tricky follow up...

This is so true and makes such a great point

Loved this video!! Being at peace with yourself is important and realising that negative words from other people have no real connection to you 😎 Thank you for the inspiration

@YourCharismaCoach

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Nick! Being at peace is everything :-)

Hi, my name is Morgan Freeman and I am now all charisma'd up. Thank you Mr Spontaneous Charisma Man 😃

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

Zihuatanejo

I really needed to hear this, thank you for making this

@YourCharismaCoach

3 жыл бұрын

And thank you for your comment, made my day

Love it dude, great video and narration!

EXTRAORDINARY CHANNEL THATS FREAKINLY AWESOMEE👌👌

@YourCharismaCoach

2 жыл бұрын

Our new tagline!

Also, be sure to embrace your inner weird because: A) S/He is funny B) You'll become bullet proof C) People actually appreciate your inner weirdo if you appreciate him/her yourself

@PandaTheGFX

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, eventually you'll weed out all normal people around you

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

I'd call that a triple win :-)

@fabiansuckfull9446

4 жыл бұрын

@@PandaTheGFX Oh Jesus not the normies

Brilliant video, thank you so much! Instantly subscribed and watching all your previous.

@YourCharismaCoach

3 жыл бұрын

I hope you enjoy them!

Awesome video. I finished watching it a few minutes ago and I still have the chills. Also, on a side note, I would totally watch an ASMR video made by Marcus haha

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Never say never!

Amazing content to us. Appreciated. Please on behalf of everybody make this available in the download for offline study.

I like the reminder that labels are mostly a product of other people's trauma. Like whoever that was in the video with the Trauma around their Schrodinger's cat experiment going badly.

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

I like your summary: labels are mostly a product of other people's trauma. I think trauma extends to inadvertently living in non-growth routines.

I am confident I am insecure I am charismatic I am weird I am succesful I am a loser I am funny I am cringe I am witty I am boring I am deep I am shallow I am loving I am cold I am loved I am rejected I am respected I am humiliated I am strong I am weak I am whole. I can choose to be any of these things. And still love who I am. I love who I am.

Loved it :) just what we need in times like these ❤🙌

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Kiran!

Awesome video.. so inspirational and helpful. Thanks YCC for making this.

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

Great video Marcus! Great to see you're back with more content. Though I'm really curious about the episode of the Graham Norton show you appear on. I know it's been years, but do you remember who the celebrities were?

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

Orlando Bloom was doing a spot for Pirates of the Caribbean (different format then: he was the only guest)

Refreshing to see you again, Marcus.

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

More refreshments on the way Mustafa

Great inspirational video!

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

Cheers Felix, I'm glad you enjoyed it!

What an epic COMEBACK! Gandalf the white level! Congrats and Keep up the good work Marcus! Best wishes and vibes from Rodrigo ( your spanish med studen from Madrid ,now an actual dr ;)

@YourCharismaCoach

3 жыл бұрын

Rodrigo! Let's catch up for a beer!

@rodrigoalonso-gonzalez222

3 жыл бұрын

Definetly! Live or on Skype? Dunno where you r this days

@YourCharismaCoach

3 жыл бұрын

I'll be in your home town in 2021 :-)

It's finally here!!!

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

..Finally! I was trying to think out to stick that line in this video but it didn't feel right this time round

*"How strange and foolish is man. He loses his health in gaining wealth. Then, to regain his health he wastes his wealth. He ruins his present while worrying about his future, but weeps in the future by recalling his past. He lives as though death shall never come to him, but dies in a way as if he was never born"* Imam Ali (ra)

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this timeless quote! A perfect reminder to get busy living!

Thanx marcus more video 👍

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

More on the way soon

Can we turn it around on them and force the negative words onto them? Only when they seem to enjoy someone suffering.

I try and talk to people but when I do I just don't know what to say so eeeeeeek.

Brilliant

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Hi Marcus and Jonny what happened to your long videos, like the 1 hour ones

@YourCharismaCoach

3 жыл бұрын

We're planning on doing a mix...so you'll likely see more long ones in future :-)

You know what I dont care anymore.

I find what helps me endure, of sorts, is whenever I feel judged (this is often with good cause xD ), I just concentrate on "well, do you prefer not being judged or continuing this behaviour which while somewhat odd, really brings you pleasure...", So, when you focus on love, and good intent, and reasonable expectation, well... Often it is just... Worth it. Also, appearantly I'm now on some list for indecent exposure... Just kidding. XD. ...probably xD

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

I really like this mindset. I think it's incredibly useful to have patterns in place (like the one you've described) that handle uncertain moments. I might play with this idea. EG. Is the value of odd positive experience > value of negative judgement?

@xdnewsman7408

4 жыл бұрын

@@YourCharismaCoach hmmm, kinda, lemme expand : I become uncomfortable-> where should I place my attention? In the feeling of uncomfort, and so stop the activity which I believe makes me appear silly, orrr, place my attention in this feeling of enjoyment, which I get from the activity. One is based in fear, one in love. One takes validation from external sources, so to speak, the other takes validation from inside, e.g. mybown enjoyment of my own actions. If all else fails, I will sometimes do this nasty trick whereby I look at the people, and tell myself "they are part of the background" basically, syphon away attention from external back to internal, whatever I am doing... For me, dancing is super duper para trooper xD but now clubbing is not a thing... So... I take the doggy on a walk, out my mask on, headphones on, and bam, let's move it move it, shake the money maker babyyyy xD. Mind you, I'm just an awkward self conscious dood, but this one thing... This one thing I wanna do... For me. For you xD ❤️

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

@@xdnewsman7408 Great clarification of your inner workings! And dog walking style :-p

Why did you slow down on content?

@YourCharismaCoach

3 жыл бұрын

Good question! I only really like making videos when I feel I have something useful to share. More on the way soon.

Why are you uploading videos every once a year?

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

They take a while to make (and running Your Charisma Coach is a full time job). More on the way soon!

why do you shave your head?

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

@@Black-Circle Agreed! Although shaving it takes zero maintenance: no bad hair days!

1:55 Is that you underwear? Eeeeeeeewwwwww you dirty freak. Why'd you expose yourself like that to the decent people of the KZreads? Have you no decency?

@YourCharismaCoach

4 жыл бұрын

Decency is a label I have long avoided ;-D