WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!

@henrythegreatamerican8136

6 ай бұрын

Two guys discussing a woman's sexual fantasy.... Could you not find two women for the panel?

@dtsai

6 ай бұрын

My wife is crazy and I f'n hate it.

@mickcrovo5238

6 ай бұрын

@@dtsai Divorce her

@chrisw7347

5 ай бұрын

You refer to "the rules", for seducation, flirtation, how things changed for you personally and how you met your wife once you learned. Who does one listen to/read for these rules?

@N.V.P69

5 ай бұрын

I DONT THINK U HATED CAUSE IF YOU DO YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN GONE LONG AGO @@dtsai

I will do 1 pushup for each like this comments get...

@jkaigler6562

Ай бұрын

When?

@Vert0313

Ай бұрын

I can do 33 push-ups in a single rep. Whew.

@Findmylimit

Ай бұрын

I did 30 in 1 push up

@jackslater8688

Ай бұрын

Was push-ups mentioned in the interview?

@Findmylimit

Ай бұрын

@@jackslater8688 you have to watch it. No cheating you sneaky dog

Keanu Reeves is a great example of someone who doesn’t need to yell or get out order when explaining himself. He’s always cool, calm, and collected and is highly generous, not only with his money, but his time and attention. He’s definitely someone that young men or just anyone should look up to.

@Therevolution7

5 ай бұрын

Hes also a goodlooking, tall multimillionaire.

@autoclearanceuk7191

5 ай бұрын

He has $300 million

@endlessnameless6494

5 ай бұрын

@@Therevolution7 He also lost his pregnant wife and baby to a car accident, and has spent most of his life on a spiritual journey to get over this. As well as his best friend dying at 23 (River Phoenix). You would have to 1.) live a high end actor life and 2.) lose everything (and have to overcome it) to reach his level of spiritual chill. It's very unlikely anyone will be like him; he's in the top .0001 percent OF the top .00001 of people. He's awesome, but...an odd life and a rare gem.

@taopaille-paille4992

5 ай бұрын

But Keenu Reeves is highly attractive and has had incredible success. it is very hard to introduce into you the type of charisma that Keenu emulates. However, I appreciate him a lot

@starfox300

5 ай бұрын

Keanu Reeves is also very tall and in his youth he was one of the most handsome men. He didn't really have to do anything, women looked at him for 3 seconds and were in love

- do not treat people by stereotypes but get into their world. - powerlessness corrupts more than power - women (and men) want to feel special, important, different - a weak ego (insecurities) is anti-seductive - being dominant is a positive trait - your mother conditions your unconscious desires

As a home schooled I can say my success with women compared to public schoolers is far greater. Human connection is built within us, during school years we gather nothing but insecurities which mess with our built-in perception. As a homeschooler I was primarily focused on my work and hobbies, not many friends, just brothers and sisters to play with. This upbringing has set me up, my flow and conversation is almost effortless, it did take me a couple of years to refine myself in the public world but now social skills combined with concrete personal identity makes me very peculiar compared to regular people. Public school puts filters and resentments on ppl, home school allows kids to find their strengths and weaknesses without societal pressures, which come later on.

@boethius1812

2 ай бұрын

Interesting perspective. I thought the opposite, but you make sense. Public school was a psychological and physical warzone, at times.

@leighatkins22

2 ай бұрын

​@@boethius1812Homeschooling is crapped on by society alot and it is encouraged by the system becoz the public schooling system is the only way that they can get their claws into your child's head and psyche while they are young and tear them down before they get a chance to become strong. Homeschooled kids are often mentally healthier and that's not a co-incidence...

@smokingcrab2290

2 ай бұрын

Depends on what your parents are like. In my experience home schooled kids were always hyper sheltered weirdos with god complexes who thought they were so much better and smarter than everyone else

@marthinusstone5530

2 ай бұрын

​@boethius1812 The opposite is true too. I also did homeschooling. Is saw some children become better equipped socially than the average public school kid, and others become way worse off than a public school kid. It depends on the social opportunities, experiences and social exposure available to the homeschooled kid.

@brentmorton3680

2 ай бұрын

You’ve got to figure in attachment theory; sounds like your family was secure. If you grew up in an alcoholic family, public schools, insane as they are, might have provided moments of true friendship and connection with positive role models

Robert is so interesting and good at explaining hard things in a gentle way

Very important information from Robert for men: Stay calm, breathe, don't yell, don't be violent, be gentle, be generous with a woman, take responsibility for your mistakes and don't blame others.

@sednasix6608

4 ай бұрын

Also be able to read if you're dealing with an abusive passive aggressive covert narcissist.

@nickidaisydandelion4044

4 ай бұрын

@@sednasix6608 What do you mean with that?

@ashwinashwin3663

4 ай бұрын

Say no, never accomodate and never be a nice guy

@nickidaisydandelion4044

4 ай бұрын

@@ashwinashwin3663 Good luck then.

@robmcguckin7605

3 ай бұрын

Sounds like you got half of it.

I would definitely watch a 5h podcast if Robert Greene is the one talking.

@dw2367

5 ай бұрын

Robert is a national treasure.

@No-Ones-Safe-AGI

2 ай бұрын

Same lol

@ItsBrown__

Ай бұрын

I think it's nice time from time to hear the host's thoughts too. It is a conversation afterall

Looks like this guy wanted to interview himself with Robert. He literally did

@MSA-uj7cp

4 ай бұрын

"this guy" owns this huge platform and is having a discussion with RB

@rachelpidduck549

4 ай бұрын

correction... its an interview, where he just spoke the entire time. People are watching this to hear what robert greene, the guest, has to say@@MSA-uj7cp

@UDice-cz3mz

3 ай бұрын

​@@MSA-uj7cpTom, is that you?

@jolseywales

3 ай бұрын

​@@MSA-uj7cp "That guy" is naive. He should take notes from Mark Laita of Soft White Underbelly and LISTEN. Not steam roll his knowledge on said subject down his guests throat. "That guy" needs to give his guest the attention and respect he deserves. "That guy" doesn't understand the concept of making the guests the "star" of his show.

@cheddarpuff

3 ай бұрын

He always does.

Generosity VS Nice Guy is the key. My 'nice guy' has an agenda of sex or attention depending on the woman. It's definitely trauma induced from childhood and wanting to make mom and dad happy and to stop fighting. It makes you stingy in so many ways. Whereas when I'm being generous there is no real agenda going on. I just want to be there for the person and give more of myself in that moment rather than being stingy with my energy.

@chrismaxwell1624

5 ай бұрын

Exactly, being nice is people pleasing action. Kindness not so much generosity but can include it. you don't have to kind to her even. Be kind to others show's her you are kind. If you kind to people who serve you then that intrigues her. The man is nice to her but unkind to others is a red flag.

@joshwah4838

5 ай бұрын

Whoa, never thought of personifying the "nice guy" part of myself. I'm definitely a people pleaser (also stemming from childhood trauma, yuh) and find myself giving all my energy to everyone except myself. Then I'll feel resentful towards others for not doing the same, but like, that's not fair to them, unrealistic, and just not a healthy way to go about things in general. That's my fault/problem though, not theirs. Whenever I start to feel resentful, I can totally just think the "nice guy" is telling me I should dedicate some time to myself. Thanks for sharing homie

@contona4492

4 ай бұрын

wtf is this world coming to. men (myself included) watching videos to learn how to get girls. the fact that these things even exists and are so popular nowadays tells so much about how f'd up the world is becoming. its basically men trying to learn how to be men because they can't act like one being raised in today's age. because women also don't act like women (they are correlated obviously). just the thought of having kids and what kind of life they're gonna be having scares me

@contona4492

4 ай бұрын

wtf is this world coming to. men (myself included) watching videos to learn how to get girls. the fact that these things even exists and are so popular nowadays tells so much about how f'd up the world is becoming. its basically men trying to learn how to be men because they can't act like one being raised in today's age. because women also don't act like women (they are correlated obviously). just the thought of having kids and what kind of life they're gonna be having scares me

@AlexPenn.DatingCoach

4 ай бұрын

Real talk, bro. Nice guy vibes often come with strings attached. Generosity, on the other hand, no hidden agenda. It's about giving without expecting anything in return. Drop the nice guy act, be genuinely generous - that's where the real power is. Keep it real, no strings attached.

I read the book "art of seduction" and "laws of human nature". Although laws of humans nature does not soley focus on love, It is still paritaly related to seducction. I read them as a last resort when no girl would ever show interest in me. Completion of his books allowed me to understand psychology deeper, however I am still single. I would recomend anyone who is struggling just go out and make some female friends. Reading is not even 20 percent of the answer, I personally would give reading around 5 percent credit if you want to succedd in love or relationships. His other books are far more useful in workplace or business and easier to apply than romance.

@sparkeyjones6261

6 ай бұрын

You're absolutely correct. Surround yourself with women of all types. Become friends with as many as you can, regardless of their physical attractiveness or whether they're single or not. Not only will you come to understand them better, but you'll become much more confident around them. That makes it far easier to attract romantic partners.

@NatrajChaturvedi

6 ай бұрын

It's most useful when you already have a normal life and are already surrounded by female friends, colleagues etc whom you can practice some of these principles on.

@-CC_.Puppets-

6 ай бұрын

After reading the book, I now get more ass than a toilet seat.

@Pedrolcs07M

5 ай бұрын

Everything has to be natural, there's no point reading a book and following rule by rule because it won't seem natural, Robert already said that

@Daniel-zm1wt

5 ай бұрын

I read "How to win friends and influence people" and immediately I was basically able to get any woman who would give me a chance, e.g. if she'd reply to my messages, was single and in my league, I could get with her. The problem them became about being selective enough to pick a good woman rather than just getting laid or getting a relationship.

I wasn't sure if I'd like this based on the title, knowing it could go so many ways, but Robert Greene is great. I love hearing about the why. Very informative and clicks any missing pieces into place.

@godswittness69

6 ай бұрын

I am highly present with you in what you are saying. Totally into what you are saying, getting to know you deeply... I am slightly dangerous, and very resourceful.... 😋

@user-wj3bn1yi8f

6 ай бұрын

This is not Tinder, buddy! Hehe@@godswittness69

@terrisolaroli4169

5 ай бұрын

Sure does!

@nickidaisydandelion4044

5 ай бұрын

Hahahah Same here.

@humanyoda

3 ай бұрын

Brittany, do you find Robert sexually attractive?

Tom Talks too much about himself and how he has mastered it all.

@CBfeb1

5 ай бұрын

TRUTH‼️… and clearly he hasn’t mastered it!

@MikenMc

5 ай бұрын

Noticed this too. To me, Tom’s talking about himself is him highlighting his insecurities

@mrsherwood2599

5 ай бұрын

Well I mean he cultivates looking like a roadie for a butt rock band.

@mikegetstuffed225

5 ай бұрын

Yep, noticing that too, as well as him mentioning ON EVERY PODCAST of his, I've listened too, about how" MUCH MONEY I HAVE!"

@jamesbond5285

5 ай бұрын

In all his podcasts, he interrupts and tells about himself and his problems when he needs to just let the guest talk. He needs to take lessons from his wife and her podcasts

He’s spot on about using niceness strategically

There's also _How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen_ by David Brooks.

My goal in life is to become a Vampire Billionaire

So happy you have him on today

33:14 Spot on what Robert is saying here. That is what we will think in a situation like that because All women regardless of how confident some may be, we still have this insecurity and this fear of rejection. That is what I would feel immediately in that situation when a man says lets not go any further. I would actually cry thinking he saw my fat rolls and wants to go home. Haha.

@merrilbarry8771

5 ай бұрын

😂😂. The fat rolls part. Too funny

That was a very insightful conversation. Specially I connected to the lines: fear of no loss, specially when you talking to your type of woman. Also the part you have to be present in the moment with your heart. Find myself often follow my script. Thanks for all the value both of you.

@Ashnesss

Ай бұрын

Not fearing loss means moving on when rejected. Not stalking, harassing, obsessing over her in any shape or form, contacting people asking about her or ruining her life, social life, career, decision to move, love life, etc. that’s not cool, calm and collected. It’s the opposite. It’s brash, psychotic, jealous, bitter and insecure. The longer you do it, the more bitter you are.

Robert green is always the man for alot of topics for men❤

Love it ! always love Robert Greene’ books and ideas 🙏🏻🌷✨🙏🏻

@godswittness69

5 ай бұрын

Glad you’ve enjoyed it, sweet sexy little honey 🍯 pot

Thank you for this podcast. Everything he said was true!

Robert is an absolute gem of a human, can’t wait to listen 📈

Thank you so much for this interview!

"You need to know when to disappear for a week so they know they can't take you for granted". "Everyone secretly wants to be vulnerable." So... gain trust, then cynically manipulate. Great way to create lasting connection.

@neomacchio4692

6 ай бұрын

Boom.

@PeteLG

6 ай бұрын

Female language exactly.

@KK-dv3wh

6 ай бұрын

@@PeteLG but in this case, a book of it written by a guy describing how to succeed in relationship. Bad approach no matter who is doing it imo.

@rml4289

6 ай бұрын

​@@KK-dv3whwomen like that though

@pentrubarbati

6 ай бұрын

thats why i quit dating women this days not worth it ...

Thank you for sharing and time your renowned guest

Yes! Tom nailed it. Woman do want to feel they are the only one that their man wants, desires, and cant contain his strong desire for her, but only for her.

Great interview!

Omg they finally posted Timestamps 🙂😄😊👏👏👏 THANK YOU

I always like what Mr. Greene says.

This interview was profound and exactly what I needed. Thank you.

@KamelCase

4 ай бұрын

Follow this garbage at your own peril. He’s right about everything he’s right about mystery and seduction. His advice will definitely get you laid. And in the morning, when you are not able to be her fantasy into the next day, when you have to go back to work when you have to return to your real life, when the responsibilities rise with the sun to dissolve your fantasy island, she will destroy you.

This is what is called an incredible deep level conversation!

I have a bit of a problem with the whole concept of going out of your way to seduce someone. You are engaging in actions that you would not otherwise do. Actions that are not born out of your own character. You are trying to game the system. It is definitely being fake. But fine, let's say that being fake is good enough for you. How long do you think you can keep the act up before you drop the ball and revert to your real character? Until you are in the relationship? Until you marry? What about the years after that? Isn't it better to be your real self and let the person get attracted to the real you? Isn't that a much bigger win? You can do some self improvement if you don't like yourself, go to the gym, make more money etc., but don't go trying to be someone else.

@patrickmahon3476

6 ай бұрын

My interpretation is not to put up a facade, but rather to be focused in your approach and mindful of your actions, and how they are intepreted. You gotta get one foot in the door before you both put on sweatpants and eat a tub of B3n and Jerrys. Also don't be a "nice guy(tm)". Which is actually kind of a crappy facade in a way. Seducing =/= gaming the system unless ya are.

@emf2482

6 ай бұрын

yes 100%. Society also tells men to do all the chasing. And that we need external things to be good enough. Thats why people chase money or exhausting careers. We literally contribute to woman's favor instead of being stoic and let them come to us. Which from experience works a lot better then the opposite.

@rml4289

6 ай бұрын

​@emf2482 you need some form of value for women to come to you though Women don't care about a stoic man if he's still a bum

@oredaze

6 ай бұрын

@@patrickmahon3476 To be fair this video teaches some things that we are doing wrong and should fix, that are not part of your character identity. The world is nuanced. But overall I think the whole premise of the video is wrong.

@-CC_.Puppets-

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for telling us you didn't watch the video without telling us lol.

Ohhhhhh is that the Infamous Robert Greene😳 OG fa real. Thank you for this

amazing episode please do more such episodes on seduction!

Robert is a blessing to us all

That was hell of a podcast. This man is a gem to society.

@masteryoda498

5 ай бұрын

That’s debatable.

@A_n_y_t_i_m_e

5 ай бұрын

If advocating extreme manipulativeness and psychopathy is being considered a gem today, then f society.

@bobmathews9072

5 ай бұрын

He wrote the famous book "The 48 Laws Of Power" , a favourite of the ultimate psychopath Tony Blair , says it all ​@@A_n_y_t_i_m_e

@peersupportcounselor1904

5 ай бұрын

He has his own KZread channel: Just search for him 😊

@t5396

4 ай бұрын

@@masteryoda498 you’re negative and self defeating.

Robert Greene is a ninja of seduction and very knowledgeable and advanced. I love you!

@brandon_henry_222

2 ай бұрын

He seduced you

None of this matters if the woman doesn't find you attractive,, women are allowed to care about looks now and that bothers some men

@Des_Armoni

6 ай бұрын

Bingo

@tresjolieme81

6 ай бұрын

Yea we've always wanted the pretty boys since our teens. Guys don't know the power of a handsome man to us. Gets the oxytocin going not the sexual stimulation men get by visual. The infatuation hormone is super strong. Look at how girls scream for BTS or boy bands that's oxytocin. Look how hypnotized men are at strip clubs, it's a diff hormone reaction.

@otruwarrioro

6 ай бұрын

Absolutely nailed it. FIRST establish that she's attracted to you, if not , it doesn't matter.

@Techtalk2030

6 ай бұрын

Attractive physically? Ive seen a lot of successful, confident men with game who arent the best looking get with woman who are better looking than them.

@dogsandyoga1743

6 ай бұрын

​@@samnectarUh.. I'd take an ugly billionaire chick 7 days a week and twice on Sunday 😂

thanks man for provide us this great interview with sir Robert Greene

1:01:04 "meek" It doesn't mean "weak" it's more like "trained" or "disciplined" similar to "cooperative/ controllable by its master" To illustrate: a MEEK horse is still strong to carry loads and people. But it is rideable and can be steered by a rider. Same case with police dogs. They are meeked but not weak. #tamed

Yes. Some hosts are smart enough to know we came on the hear their guests.

I really needed this video

Your humility and confidence shine through every episode, Tom! 🌟🎥 #ConfidenceIsKey #StayHumble

What an interesting conversation this is.

If this guy were really a master of seduction, surely he wouldn't have picked those glasses.

@josephfdunphymba3241

5 ай бұрын

One minute into it, it sounded like two teenage gamers trying to plan how to storyboard an animation.video of anime porn.

@challism

2 ай бұрын

Or would he? The point is, if you've got skills/game, you can wear dorky glasses. Doesn't matter.

Thank you for the insight

You can’t beat Game, mental strength and positive moves as seductive tools. The resulting serotonin, dopamine and oxytocin make you feel constructively powerful.

Be nice with boundaries

Robert Green is my spiritual leader.

I like how he referred to Machiavelli(knowing how to shift with the times), that took me straight to 48 Laws of power.

Finally!!! Thanks!

There’s still hope in this world. Thank you Tom and Robert Greene.

6:00 People secretly want to be vulnerable 13:00 People secretly want to be seduced 25:50 Women have a sixth sense about insecure men 29:50 Develop observation skills 36:00 Being stingy is anti seductive 39:30 Virtual sex 43:00 Masculine role models 46:00 *Aggression; ambition* 51:00 Channeling testosterone 54:00 Elon Musk; ferocity 1:00:00 Be like water; it can flow or crash 1:05:00 Have an element of “I don’t care” 1:08:00 It’s the mental aspect that makes you a great athlete 1:11:00 Women vs men in seduction 1:27:30 Be in the moment

"It's pretty clear if you pay attention, right?" Nice one, Robert. :)

about @23:00 "POWERLESSNESS CORRUPTS MORE THAN A POWER" - Thank you for this.

Excellent interview!!!

Robert sounds like he's about to sneeze and looks like he's about to cry.

@challism

2 ай бұрын

Let's see how you look after you suffer a stroke and lose control of 1/2 of your body.

@IIISWILIII

2 ай бұрын

Yep. There's this thing called allergies you see...

@jonwid

2 ай бұрын

@@IIISWILIII Oh. That sounds awful. No one I've met have expressed allergies like that.

There is so much information and videos on this topic. It's overwhelming. I am just going to stick to this video and watch it on repeat until the end of the year.

30:35 immediately made me click the like button cuz bro...he started speaking some real truth...but so far this has been a great podcast...im watching it while i do my workout. so imma get back to my workout and get back to listen to this.. much love to yall

Two guys who don't get beautiful women discuss seduction.

@user-wv6wm2sk6y

Ай бұрын

ha

@davidcullen1260

4 күн бұрын

lol be nice bro

GREAT. was even more interesting than I expected. Touched on some topics we dont hear every day

Well done.I appreciate your advice. The discussion about office dynamics is so true. All I can say is well said and all I advise is look at your own integrity and at the same time do not let yourselves people to get used ( look at this closely) You probably/ likely be deeply hurt in so many ways however don't perpetuate that hurt.

Peace through strength. Forge your body and skills, but most importantly, your will to act when it is absolutely necessary, but the best fight or battle is the one that never took place. Using the brain is the most important tool and weapon...keep it all sharp!

Great video. I don’t enjoy when people who have never been to war speak on it. War is like football? I’ve done both and they couldn’t be more far apart. Stick to what you know brother. Both of you are smarter than I am by far. Neither of you are warriors.

@itsPreznt

6 ай бұрын

I think perhaps you might havectaken that comparison too literally. My suggestion is that they were referring to strategy in that strategy is applicable to both scenarios.

@NatrajChaturvedi

6 ай бұрын

Your taking that statement too literally. They are just making a rough comparison there because both things are physical in nature.

@orangeiceice12

6 ай бұрын

Football is a lot like war. Or rather, it's a proxy for it. It allows you to execute plans with teammates against another team of males. It requires strength, skill, and courage, and it's relentless in its rules. I've never been to war, and I can't speak on the terror, shock of reality opening up before you, the depth of being forced to make choices that shake your whole self, the darkness and inescapability. There's not much of that in football. But football allows you to determine who might be good in a war, and having a sorting hat for mate quality, without a bunch of your males dying. So goes the theory.

@bigdog2084

5 ай бұрын

I didn't watch the video to be honest. I do think you have a point. The subject of women shouldn't be compared to war or football in anyway. Men are the reason both(football/war) happen. Men also are the only ones playing or fighting. These guys are trying to be part of the groups trying to create better men for women. Why? Women are suppose to support their men in general. Pretty simple concept. Men must respect the women WHILE women support and respect men. It's all changed now. Women are entitled and spoiled. How can you change that. If men are basically still the same.🤷‍♂️. In general of course.

Is something wrong with me, or why do I care so less about people who show resistance and no interest. Love whom who loves you. Simple and good.

@alphaoscillator

4 ай бұрын

same

Okay we human have duality,you have to strike a balance not too nice and not too harsh, to show that you are capable of both.

I think of myself as a nice guy, and I know it came from my childhood because my mother showed love toward me if I was a nice boy. So now, as an adult, I'm always nice to others because I want them to like me, and most of the time, I get hurt and feel being used by others.

@carolinecantelmo3790

Ай бұрын

Don’t feel that way ,there are plenty of women who will embrace your kindness and will want you as a loving partner .❤

I only got through tye first 9 minutes, but I sure wish you'd understand that women are listening too!

@f.avilla6383

2 ай бұрын

What are your thoughts on this?

The teacher student thing would be a good ethical question regardless of it being done at an adult school.

Robert Greene is a genius very great a session

What is interesting about this conversation is that it's aaaaall about the woman and what THEY want. No one is asking or is interested in what men want, who cares right? It's all about the women women women 24/7. Men have fantasies too men have needs too men also have certain things they like that they want to see. If my needs are not met and no one cares about what I want as man then why should I care about what the woman wants?

this conversation will go down the history books. I've learned so much from these two guys and I'm looking forward to reading the art of seduction❤.

How can you bring Robert Greene and speak more than him!!

This guy (Robert) is real. Exactly the places where we deal with violence everyday.

Love the vulnerability from Tom in this video lol

Great conversation and awesome interview. Robert is one of my favorite authors and I see why he's comfortable with Tom. Great yield of info.

make yourself as good looking as possible, women choose men based on their looks.

@masteryoda498

5 ай бұрын

Amen to that!

People pleasing can be a sign of complex/childhood trauma as part of the fight-flight-freeze-fawn response. Fawning, being overly nice to protect one's self from a perceived threat, making sure you're 'being good' to avoid the pain of a parent who is likely highly critical/abusive. Anticipating their needs and fulfilling them to be safe. A deep seated pattern that once you understand its origins, you can begin to amend your behaviour to better or improved reactions to people around you.

When a fighter invites a wizard to a philosophical discussion, both have distinctly different ways of understanding reality and/or and solving problems.

Thank uuuuuuu

Tate be catching stray bullets everywhere he goes 😂

@maryhalverson5713

6 ай бұрын

,,, As well he should.

@PowerofRock24

3 ай бұрын

That's one very insecure dude. That's why he got rekt by Greta Thunberg and pizza boxes lul

“Be Yourself”… one if not the most misunderstood secrets to a fulfilled life

@IAmTheEggMan111

2 ай бұрын

If “be yourself” worked everyone would already be successful at this

When you spoke of fear, my bet is fear of rejection, failure, creepiness, openness, etc. at the onset. Not the fear of the power someone has over you. Anecdotal because I've never felt that, although I do tend to slip on healthy distance after the act so perhaps a different manifestation of the same (that has ended a couple of good things over the years). Our society gives alternatives to the list I mentioned at the start and punishes them readily. I think younger generations have become so constricted by culture it has become a failure to act - just a guess.

Playing games will only get you into a divorce down the line.

Tom needs to stop injecting what he thinks about the subject and instead draw out Greene. Tom made an interviewer's biggest mistake at the beginning of this interview but did get better as it continued.

In my experience if you don't have one it's difficult to get started but once you catch one several others are getting in line. If I fall for it I end up with none again. I'm single at 61. I've fell for it 3 or 4 times throughout life. It's getting harder and harder to get started lately. 🤔

@byanymeansnecessary398

4 ай бұрын

Fall for what?

@blakebunch4485

4 ай бұрын

Trying to manage or juggle 2 or 3​@@byanymeansnecessary398

Over competition is actually weak but the internalised David Goggin’s approach is an option. Keep your pain to yourself and always remember the strong, intelligent, shape-shifter Tortoise is always accruing good energies in the Spiritual Universe.

These days you need written contracts and video documentation to prove that everything was consensual

They made sliding into the adventure of human emotions EXPENSIVE, lol. Plus, social media exacebates the degree to which women want to feel, which raises the bar for what women desire, making it to where the average man can not fulfill those desires.

@mickcrovo5238

6 ай бұрын

That's why I dropped out of the market. When the market recognizes my value, I will make the product available again.

@maryhalverson5713

6 ай бұрын

​@@mickcrovo5238- Some guys just aren't relatable.

@rml4289

6 ай бұрын

Don't be average then

@mickcrovo5238

6 ай бұрын

@@rml4289 I’m 6’, fit and athletic, 6-figure income, and socially skilled. If you listened to what they said, it’s not just the average guy who is undervalued, it’s all but the top 10%.

@marcuspickens25

6 ай бұрын

@@rml4289 exactly

"Meek" is derived from a greek word describing their war horses. Very powerful, but obedient to their rider. It had nothing to do with weakness, in the context the word was used 2000 years ago.

Generosity, a confidence from not being insecure, calm coolness, bring an aura that you respect their qualities, differences, and uniqueness...Plus, pay attention, know when humor, compliments, and empathy can be useful......Genuine gentleman get the key to the lock box... "I gotta write this shit down'......

I love Robert Greene's interviews.

How fucked up is it that you have to be mean to women or treat them poorly to get them to like you!

@Alazar654

4 ай бұрын

Your statement is one of the only statements in this chat room that makes sense. Everyone else are slaves to their female masters.

@omar2eighty

3 ай бұрын

blame the fucking parents

@mrsherwood2599

10 күн бұрын

It's easy once you stop overconflating the amount of respect they deserve.

Two of my favorite thought leaders.. epic episode 🙏🏼

Tom is great here. Robert is also great. If you are a man that needs help with women ( like 99 percent) watch this because this information is the beginning of understanding how to be successful with women. Forget about the past.

@challism

2 ай бұрын

Tom is hardly great. Talks too much. Tries to prove himself too much. He needs to shut up and let the guest talk. Tom is annoying.

A woman's fantasy is a man who is authentic and confident enough to just live himself fully and be vulnerable.

@t-lawsfitness6044

2 ай бұрын

4 women gave this a thumbs up. Your sentence literally means nothing

Taking love advice from this guy sounds dangerous enough lol

Been there.... It's an elusion,(not really the woman you want to invest in) basically to get caught up in attraction to what you think will fulfill your soul, you are risking losing your soul. Sex needs intamacy, so you need trust, vulnerability in order to connect at a non physical level.

From an evolutionary standpoint, women have historically exhibited a preference for robust mates capable of ensuring protection, provision, and the ability to produce healthy offspring. These inclinations are deeply embedded in their genetic makeup, forged over hundreds of thousands of years of evolution. However, contemporary efforts to alter these dynamics within a mere few decades have led to an increase in individuals, both women and men, relying on antidepressants, experiencing fractured familial structures, and engaging in neurotic relationships. Emphasizing adherence to fundamental principles rooted in nature's design could potentially provide a more stable foundation for relationships.