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Professional biohacker Dave Asprey says the healthier you are, the better you're paid at work. So taking care of yourself doesn't just serve the ego, it can also provide for your family.This can differ between men and women, however, as the latter face age discrimination more heavily.Taking measures to benefit the health of your mind and body can get you ahead in the workplace culture of youthfulness.
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DAVE ASPREY:
Dave Asprey is a Silicon Valley tech entrepreneur, professional biohacker, the New York Times bestselling author of Game Changers, Head Strong and The Bulletproof Diet, the creator of Bulletproof Coffee, and the host of Bulletproof Radio, the Webby Award-winning, number one-ranked podcast. His new book is Super Human (2019).
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DAVE ASPREY: A lot of people think that taking care of your skin or just wanting to look good is about either sexual attractiveness, or it's about ego. But it turns out it's sometimes those things, but quite often, it's something different. It has to do with wanting to be able to take care of your family. Because people who look healthy, they get paid more. This is just how it works, and there's abundant evidence to do that.
And I've seen this in Silicon Valley. We know, throughout all of, at least, North America, that the length of time -- this is actually studied -- that a woman is considered to be with executive presence is lower than it is for men. Because somehow, guys can have wrinkles and gray hair, and we look distinguished. But for some reason, that's not the case with women. That's not cool. And it turns out -- here's a dirty secret -- it's not that different. In Silicon Valley, guys over 45, do you know what they start doing? They start dying their hair because it turns out that there is a culture of youthfulness. And if you want to play in that game, whether you're a man or a woman, taking care of the way you look is important. It turns out also that, if you do it not with artificial makeup and stuff like that, but you do it with the things that make you healthy, guess what else happens. You don't just look healthy, you actually can live longer.
So how do you make your skin look better from the inside out? One of the biggest things is regularly using grass-fed collagen protein. The studies that are out there that look at how quickly mammals replace collagen in their tissues show that it takes seven years to replace half the collagen that's in your body. That means, I'm on probably year 11 of eating collagen on a regular basis. I think I'm doing pretty well for my age. I do a lot of other stuff too. But if you do this regularly, you see a difference.
There are other things that are in Super Human, like red light therapy. You couldn't do red light therapy 10 years ago, because they didn't make red LEDs that were strong enough. It turns out there's narrow frequencies of light that cause a thickening of your skin that reduce fine lines.
So we're in this world where we can send a signal from the environment around us into our skin and into our hair to make them thicker and healthier, where we can eat things that cause our body to be able to make healthier cells, healthier skin. And when you do that and you avoid the things that cause inflammation, magic can happen.
So these are things that, when you do it for your hair or your skin, all the other organs in your body that you can't see are also going to benefit. And end of the day, you are not only going to look younger at work, your brain is going to work better at work. And if you want executive presence, whether you're a man or woman, say something smart. And if you are 70 years old and doing that, and people don't even know that you're 70, because they think you're 50, because you have amazing energy, but you have the wisdom and knowledge of an extra 20 years of experience, you're going to run circles around all the kids around you.
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2:15 “If you’re able to make that person feel like an *individual* , and that they are *wanted and desired for who they are* , you are going to seduce them. It’s about individualizing the people you’re trying to seduce or reach in life.
@cautarepvp2079
2 жыл бұрын
damn so true
The real nature of seduction, and the not the way it is described by PUAs or modern dating coaches who are after your money, is that it is indirect. The moment you reveal to her or him that you are absolutely interested in them, is the moment you destroy the attraction and mystery. Once she knows that you definitely like her, she gets bored and moves on. You have no choice but to the play the game of seduction. You can moralise all you want but there is a definite phase in the early stages that consist of mystery, anxiety and excitement. As Ninon de L'Enclos once said, "A woman is much better persuaded that she is loved by what she guesses than by what she is told." If you don't have the time or the patience to seduce then you are not a seducer.
@MissMiserize
3 жыл бұрын
As a woman, I get that there should be a game, but I wonder is that quote refers to the 5 Love Languages instead. Saying "I love you" is meaningless to me if I don't see it in their actions. So Words of Affirmation is the least important. You have to show me love, not tell me.
@banderas2000
2 жыл бұрын
i disagree to a point. i agree the push pull method works. on the majority. all depends on HOW you use the tools. as well as WHO is using them. different approaches work for different people. it's about what works for you. this method of "indirect" can work for some but not with others. looks, confidence, status, play a part depending on WHAT it is your trying to accomplish. idc what anyone says. it does. a handsome man vs an average man can't use the same method and expect same results.
@banderas2000
2 жыл бұрын
@@MissMiserize everyone is different .no METHOD or strategy will be effective with everyone. there is no SECRET line , move ect. great book by the way
@cautarepvp2079
2 жыл бұрын
@@banderas2000 what is the push and pull method?
The right word is not weakness, but vulnerability, you need to open up to the person that you are trying to woo that you are human too, and you may or may not have any insecurities, showing that you are willing to open up will subconsciously telling the person that you trusted them, and that makes em wanna give the trust back.
Funny thing is, he just described how woman seduce men. A woman will learn about a man, set the setting up, so that the man thinks that he seduced her.
@comdrive3865
2 жыл бұрын
yea the women who do that like to present themselves in a way so that the guy has easy access, but then they can skirt around it with the silver tongue. Women like having a position of superior mind control at first
@I_Ace
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, he states that in the book. It was created by women and women do it. Men adopted it
@vxvnw
Жыл бұрын
ahaha never thought about that
Not specific enough Cannot seduce my toaster
@buxilala
4 жыл бұрын
He said search for its needs : electricity and bread
@camillagunnarsson519
4 жыл бұрын
Just wonderful, I been tryin to find out about "tips to getting women" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Maemerly Lusty Principle - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some incredible things about it and my neighbour got cool results with it.
@slowboy3442
3 жыл бұрын
You sure? I did that and then the bread comed out 😳😳
@kallebyn8548
3 жыл бұрын
Hahhahahaga
@jackie5046
2 жыл бұрын
@@buxilala LMFAO
I love the description doesn’t match.
Great advice. Robert is God of psychology
@Xamvi
3 жыл бұрын
Nah it’s Jordan Peterson
@11gurkha
3 жыл бұрын
@@Xamvi There are Multiple Gods
@skeletonking2352
3 жыл бұрын
@@Xamvi Jordan Peterson knows nothing. He grifts you into believing he knows you. Robert Greene has a gift for this kind of thing. Watch all of Dr Todd Grande an actual licensed mental health professional, and you'll see that Robert Greene not only uses behavior associated with dark tetrad personality traits (narcissism, machiavellianism, sadism, and psychopathy), but he also understands the pitfalls of many of these behaviors and which specifically to avoid; where empathy is necessary, etc.
@skeletonking2352
3 жыл бұрын
@@Xamvi Just about every self help guru besides robert greene is a total hack. Even robert greene doesn't get it right 100% of the time, but he does understand the construct of the factor 1 (interpersonal, affective) psychopaths immaculate surface level personality. Literally the only other self help worth reading is the 4 Hour Workweek, because that guy probably has severe NPD and is completely cutthroat. Other than that it's articles from the Psychiatric Times, the Prince, and the Art of War.
@onelove3159
2 жыл бұрын
God is the god of psychology
That's a shame that this video has only 60k views
Boldness and confidence ! Make them move !
instructions unclear: Now trapped in friend zone
@casstay4499
2 жыл бұрын
You've been too nice?
@victorgarcia4145
2 жыл бұрын
Get away from friend zone. Ditch the person. You either something or nothing... no inbetween
@casstay4499
2 жыл бұрын
Ur right.. No one has offered you valuable advice. Date a girl hotter than her and make sure she sees u enjoying your new relationship. Even if it’s a friend’s sister that you have to borrow for a night or two. See if that doesn’t spark her interest. Never forget we are a competitive species.
@Nisowyd
2 жыл бұрын
Fall back till she crawl back
This guy is a genius
BE VERRRRRYYY CAREFUL WHAT You ASK FOR -SEDUCE , ALL is NOT WHAT IT SEEMS
I think that the video will be better without music 👍
This guy is so likeable
@comdrive3865
2 жыл бұрын
wait till you see him on a tuesday
there's a kind of unhinged look about robert. You know that he's had the low lows. You can see it on him.
Robert Greene ladies and gentlemen
I guess this works
But it’s true you need to know the woman and what it would take to make her capitulate her sovereignty lay down her arms and fall to her knees so to speak!! Some women put up a veneer of tough but that may be because knowing herself she fears her other much too eager self?? It’s a psychological defense mechanism common to all. So, there is a tipping point when the shields come down and bam!! She’s gone as a individual and becomes yours!! An open city declared once it determines that resistance is futile and lets the enemy just match in without a fight!!
This guy seduced his hard drive!
What was the name he mentioned at 4:00? I can't pronounce it. I think he said the great rake val mall?
@thesonoffortune
3 жыл бұрын
I’m tryna get it
@stellai06
3 жыл бұрын
Valmont. Les liaisons dangereuses=book.
This guy I know did try numerous times seduce me successfully without having to say a word but I still find it to be unacceptable moved and I stand firm with my believe that he must express his feelings and don’t expect me to come to him and also it’s very awkward
@adeelali8417
2 жыл бұрын
Did he just glance at you giving you sexual vibes?
Title : "how to seduce anything" "anything?" How about rocks and stones 👀 Jokes aside, Robert Greene is one of the Gods of phenomenal writing 🙌 We are lucky to have him in our generation.
@sal2975
Жыл бұрын
Definitely lucky
@Gaylord69420
Жыл бұрын
This is why you don’t have friends
@ghostsheet777
Жыл бұрын
I have successfully seduced 3 rocks thanks to Robert Greene
@theexclusivealexander2457
Жыл бұрын
@@Gaylord69420 Lol
@theexclusivealexander2457
Жыл бұрын
@@ghostsheet777 Yaay, you! Next time try a human!
Just seduced my bed...
@SarahEvansCunningham23
9 ай бұрын
😆😆😆
I seduced a beetle
4:16 well there you go youtube "alpha males".
@11gurkha
4 жыл бұрын
I have seduced a woman by being emotional and being sad. It does works. It creates trusts and lowers suspicion. How can she imagine I don't love her or how can she imagine I am faking it or how can she imagine I am just after sex when she literally sees me getting emotional, weak, sad and crying.
@11gurkha
4 жыл бұрын
Most so called alpha males are after sex only. They just want to attract and have sex like PUA. They aren't willing to spend weeks, let alone months. Robert greene's seduction is about casting love spell and creating enchantment and love. This process can take from weeks to months, even a year
@qasimimtiaz114
4 жыл бұрын
@@11gurkha it depends on the woman you seducing.
@goldenparachute392
3 жыл бұрын
@@qasimimtiaz114 True. I get bored quickly.
@DanniBby
Жыл бұрын
@@11gurkha do you think the same approach would or would not work with women to get men?
Robert was sarcastic at the end, few got it! hahah
@11gurkha
4 жыл бұрын
Which one? Where it's sarcastic?
@CoachToby
4 жыл бұрын
"Using weakness is by far, for a man the better strategy in life" Shaking his head.
@StreetfighterU
Жыл бұрын
@@CoachToby he wasnt being sarcastic.
Do you have a dossier on all your women??
Anyone a '' coquette '' here? After reading his book and realizing that ur a coquette. What changes did u make to ur persoanlity?
@hiimsexy100
3 жыл бұрын
Why would I make changes
@myst717
2 жыл бұрын
Why would they?
@casstay4499
2 жыл бұрын
??
I’ve never been attracted to a man who appears weak
@stieg_smith
Жыл бұрын
That’s what i was thinking - I’ve never seen women attracted to a weak man, but I don’t think it’s the physical appearance (weak appearance in this case) he’s talking about..
show them your bank reciept.
@irrittt
3 жыл бұрын
It's how to SEDUCE someone, not Repel them into laughter at how broke u are.
@kingkongstrong3633
3 жыл бұрын
@@irrittt lol I gots money darlin
@irrittt
3 жыл бұрын
@@kingkongstrong3633 it was a joke but ok
@twocents4912
3 жыл бұрын
@@irrittt I knew it was thats why I didn't get mad
@cautarepvp2079
2 жыл бұрын
@@irrittt loool :○
Yo he mentioned ‘the game’ !! I did NOT think he was aware of that content
@tyreed7153
Жыл бұрын
What is it?
*anything?😳*
i liked his book : 48 rules of power, but the art of seduction wasnt that great. i think there are many grand seducers in this world that we can better learn from
@freki9420
5 жыл бұрын
48 laws of power*
@gerloke914
5 жыл бұрын
@gorkha Li mystery says nothing more than to go out a keep trying with a facemask.
@chao9812
4 жыл бұрын
I don’t think you got the point of the art of seduction. Seduction is the ultimate form of power so try to dismiss the book all you want , it shows you exactly how to keep people in your thrall socially, romantically and politically
@juniorberani9035
4 жыл бұрын
@@chao9812 this guy gets it
@sonias9722
3 жыл бұрын
who?
But that’s not always true?? Some women want to get owned, not all but some!!
46sec of the laws confusion with bait
Robert - “best way to do in life is to be a simp”
The great what?
Let me correct him, he meant manipulation not seduction
@Nisowyd
2 жыл бұрын
Seduction by definition _is_ manipulation.
@rizzla092
Жыл бұрын
every exchange is manipulation
Google: KZread-:-Adam A. Atiyeh
Did he just diss himself?
@izmloec8180
3 жыл бұрын
Highest Form of Flattery
So his advice is being in a friendzone :)
25 din me paise double
LOL this guy isn't seducing anybody.
@sal2975
Жыл бұрын
That explains why his books aren't selling and why he's not married, right?
@johnredd85
Жыл бұрын
@@sal2975 His books sell well to simps. I admit I bought his books several years ago before I was red pilled. But this guy acts like he knows so much about seduction. You aren't seducing anybody unless that person is attracted to you.
¿"Other stupid things like that"? Ok, he wrote a great book but he does'nt really know about the industry of Pick up?
@wonderfullife737
7 жыл бұрын
Champe Ramírez seduction got nothing to do with that mechanical pickup shit
7 жыл бұрын
according to who? Some pick up might be mechanical, but not every method is the same. And still. If you are in "the industry" of seduction you SHOULD know about the pick up comunity. Is like being in the music buisnes and not knowing about metal. Even if you don't like it you SHOULD know about it.
@wonderfullife737
7 жыл бұрын
Champe Ramírez pick up seduction is different from seduction Robert is talking about. Pick up game is about getting laid as fast as possible. In Seduction, the longer you take and the slower you go, the deeper the spell you will cast on the target. Pickup artists goal is to get sex, here the goal is to get the target to be under my spell, to fall in love with me.. so it's different game, with different goal. I have failed miserably trying to get laid from Robert Greene's method, because it's not meant for getting laid
@wonderfullife737
7 жыл бұрын
Champe Ramírez "as the first seductress knew its more effective to create love than lust, person in lust is harder to control and once satisfied may easily leave you, whereas person in love is emotional, pliable and easily misled, seducers take their time create enchantment and bonds of love so when sex comes it further enslaves the victim" --- from the art of seduction
7 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I have read that book many times... And so other books from pick up artists that say similar or the same things... I don't know where you want to go with that
Disagree weak men are turnoffs - doormats
@elian6937
2 жыл бұрын
there are those who gets turned on by weak men and some gets turned on by stronger men. that's why he said to really know the other person so you can effectively seduce them. there are people who really desire fixing someone. I see your point tho, most people I know are turned off by weak men.
This guy looks like he watches a lot of porn. I've read Robert Greene's various books, "Art of Seduction", "Power etc.". He seems to put too much focus on arbitrary, odd things, which he's over-rationalized in importance in his own mind, which aren't going to actually work in the real world. I can tell from his books that he's isolated much and doesn't have much real world experience in socializing. You have to focus on your individual strengths and fix your biggest weaknesses, as your "approach". Using other people's tactics are unlikely to work for you, unless you're a good actor. Seek congruence within yourself. Most all women seek calm confidence...you'll have this once you have legit congruence within yourself and with all your actions. If you don't have congruence, how long can you keep up a fake seduction act with the object of your desires?
@wha-whereyomamastayatvlad1642
7 жыл бұрын
fredocorleone HORSE SHIT!!!!!! 48 laws has transformed my life , i use what I read on a daily basis and CANNOT believe how it works EXACTLY how he says it will, wouldn't believe if I didn't do it myself
@Drums4Life762
7 жыл бұрын
wha-where yo mama stay at Vlad? I agree I've used several laws in 48 laws of power and they have worked just like he said. He has a lot of real life experience and knowledge
@WhatAccrualWorld
7 жыл бұрын
Robert Greene has been literally everywhere. He said he has had around 50 jobs, many in different countries. Not to mention as the others have, I used his books in practice and they work very well.
@wonderfullife737
7 жыл бұрын
What ????? The art of seduction works like crazy. I am charmer, one of the seductive character in the book, I have used the book to cast spell on women and it works
@jayparkanna855
7 жыл бұрын
You go and write a book to convince other people.
Slovenliness is non seductive
Does it work on dogs?