just in the intro i have tears in my eyes crying, this is what i needed to hear NOW, not yesterday not tomorrow, i had to hear this NOW. Thank you Ed and thank you God for this sign

Men!! You MATTER! Never doubt it! You are loved and appreciated by so many! 😊🙏🏻❤️

Man, I’m one of those men. I will not shrink into a puddle of victimhood but I know it’s all up to me. I am able and willing to open up about how I feel and what I’ve been through but it doesn’t make a difference for the better. Those closest to me see smiles and enthusiasm but I’m just tired and lately I feel broken. I still feel broken by those that were closest to me. I stumble and I better catch myself. I know this through women I’ve dated, one of which broke me down and jumped to something else. I give and support the men and women around me and I don’t expect anything in return but it would be nice if someone believed in me. Like I said, it’s all up to me and if I don’t fight every day then no one will see me crumble, no one will see me tired. They only see me rebuild. I truly don’t believe women and the world is ready to support men in general nonetheless from men that reveal what’s weak about them. We dont need anyone to fix us because god knows we’ve been doing that our whole lives. Fixing, providing, building. We just need people to tell us they are there for us and to be there when things get tough.

Men we hear you and this includes women too. Ed, this is so absolutely necessary to address. Thank you, thank you. We are both the masculine/feminine energies within. We are unique and yet so much alike. As always you are on the pulse of what's occurring in individuals in many lives - everywhere in our world. Our creator is so essential. Always a bold, beautiful, & benevolent message. xo

Others shame is not the same as the shame men carry within themselves it’s 100x more. The small wins are very important. I am living this story now I’ve lived this story for years and just now I am finally seeing that light again. Ed is 100% correct. One more thing I’d add is men you can ask for help. That’s not weakness.

What an incredible message! It breaks my heart knowing there are men out there suffering in silence. I always send texts to my husband telling him how much I love him but today I sent one specifically telling him how much I BELIEVE in him and know he will achieve whatever he puts his mind to. Thank you so much for giving us an insight into a man’s world!

@drewe9514

2 ай бұрын

You gave him an energy boost by sending him that.. men crave being needed/wanted but will never show it per conditioning from Society and Male dominance hierarchy between him and all men.

Thank you Ed, the holy spirit led me to your page today. I listen to you often, but I haven’t tuned lately. My guy is definitely going through this, and I was asking God to give me the words to say. As women, we must be mindful to get sound counsel on how to communicate with a man in an effective way because words have power, and what we say and how we come across will determine the outcome. God bless you. Keep allowing our Lord to use you🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

I feel this… as a woman entrepreneur, feeling like losing my feminine energy pursuing business but driven.

@christinaharmon8778

2 ай бұрын

same here. As a woman entrepreneur, the exhaustion is real.

@nicodurr729

2 ай бұрын

I don''t mean that offensive, but business and drive are masculine traits per definition. It's good for woman to nourish their masculine side, but as a feminine being I think you should be in your feminine most of the time to be healthy or at least let it insprie your business..

I know so many men in my life that could use some encouragement like this to rise from the despair. So many people are pressured to do more with less and gets little to nothing in return. Thanks for the info and steps to take to encourage the ones we love to keep going!

Awesome show today. I see people are tired everywhere today. I also am getting tired. Encouragement and belief in someone definitely goes along way. Thanks!

OMG job well done my faithful servant. God Bless you Ed. You reminded me to tell no to remind my daughter that I believe in her. I will remind her of this daily. God had sent you to the world for us 💪🙏❤️❤️❤️All my love and respect and gratitude Diane in Detroit

Thank you so much! Ed Mylett you are amazing man! Thank you for your truth, the stand up for what you believe in! You are loved by many, thank you! God bless you! 🙏❤️🙏🎉

Amen ED Most Men live lives of quiet desperation.

Only at the intro and I can already tell I needed this.

I’m currently working out and listening to this video on Good Friday. I had to take a moment to pause to simply leave a comment, Ed.. THANK YOU. I absolutely love this episode and it’s such an eye opener. It’s often that we as people tell other broken people, we love you, but you did this and that.. we never truly tell them we believe they can change. The more I listen to your podcast, the more I learn. I congratulate for helping all of us.

PLOT TWIST! Hahaha that's my humor too. I love this! 🤍🤍🤍 #MAXOUT #ONEMORE

One of my favorite episodes Ed! Thank you 🙏🏼💪🏼💯 #Maxout

25:01 The "new story" point really resonated with me. Thank you.

This is so true! If you're in relationship, and you're pulling away to hide, from your emotions. That's when it's important to push into a relationship that makes you both stronger. When you separate yourself. Your partner feels that as well God gave every human being emotions to feel them Express them. It will bring you closer. Creating a solid foundation, and a stronger relationship you are loved! We all have highs and lows! 🤗❤🎉🙏

I wish I knew in the past how to communicate to his level. But loving him and believing in him was never an issue.. getting him to understand I chose him everyday and I believe in him was so difficult that I began to feel like a failure and eventually walked away.

Thank you Ed, needed to hear this! I go through some of these feelings, on a regular basis. A lot of burdens I take on for my family. Feeling like I’m falling short at times. Not where I want to be yet; in my success journey, etc… thank you for sharing! #MAXOUT

Thank you Ed! Just when I think I've hear the best from you, you dive deeper and top the one I felt was the best. I will definitely share with my future daughter in law. Thank you for the reminder that love is not enough, but say we believe in them too. Ed, thank you for your vulnerability and bravery to take a step back for your health and your family! I am proud of you and believe in you. Thank you for showing us how to love ourselves and our families enough to stop, say yes to ourselves in healthy ways and say no when we need to without the guilt that comes with it sometimes. Be Blessed, Healthy and have a wonderful day Ed!

Ed, I really hear the love in your message

Amazing Ed, thank you for your time 🙏

THANK YOU, ED!!!

Wowzer !!! So much truth!!!

Best podcast of the year! Thank you.

Thanks, Ed! ❤

Strong AWSOME powerful f’n energy. Happy Easter 🐣 EM☮️🙏❤️&💡

Amen to that Ed!!!🎉❤😊

Fantastic episode!! 💪❤

Ohhh , I did All of that Ed .... but He didn't BELIEVE He Deserved what He was going after . This is Why He started Sabotaging after getting out of Prison , with too much Bitterness, Resentment and Unforgiveness in His Heart .... He Accepted the Lie that He wasn't supposed to be Here on Earth . So He walked into a Trap He knew would end His Life .... I miss Him so much 😢

You're an empath this is exactly what I'm going through in my life you can read how America is doing right now

Basically speaking about my current life situation as a 37-year old man in NYC… People are so fake and fickle, I don’t even bother with relationships or friendships at this point. No one would even notice if I wasn’t around anymore.

@linussnyder7297

2 ай бұрын

Sounds like your tired brother. I’m 38 in rural WI. I’ve been tired , still am some days. You gotta keep being a friend to have friends. Keep your head up. ❤

I wonder if i ask for advice thru this message will ever get serious and deep thought respon. Cos im really strugglin to overcome my adversity. Simply say i choose not to whine over all the challenges im facing rite now, instead im very confuse of what to decide since my current situation i have to do it all by myself in financial struggle, long distance marriage and my mom mentality issue all happen at once

@anyclimb11

2 ай бұрын

Hello from San Diego. It sounds like you are in a tough spot and feeling overwhelmed due to multiple sources of stress and lack of clarity. With out knowing you I would suggest really trusting yourself to make some tough choices. Realize and remind yourself that you've made it this far in life and have overcome difficulties in the past and turned out ok. This times no different you have more experience to draw from. Listen to your gut and act from your heart and you can't go wrong. Blessings

thank you

ED!!!! You are the man brother! Thank you for this from the bottom of my heart man!! Needed to hear it this morning.

Just One More Day....Its time to get past it and find the other version of yourself!!! Also, we do need a bigger and greater hope than this present age we live in...the blessed Hope. You know what i am talking about Ed.

Thank you Ed for this! I really needed this today!

Thank you Ed this is exactly how I've been feeling lately. You are so awesome thank you

You just described me😢

Thanks sir!

This applies perfectly well to women too.

@drewe9514

2 ай бұрын

Men have to deal with a Male Dominance Hierarchy that women are not apart of, it’s why all men have competition and ranking with other men and also why men are shamed for expressing emotions

While I am sleeping better because of my cpap and God's blessings, you nailed it Ed. My favorite time is to sleep. Just to get away from my troubles and dare I say life. Right now my biggest dream is to spend eternity with God in Heaven.

My husband..!the irony is that I as his wife has to take over his responsibilities, make extra income as he may be laid off and he just sits in front of his computer monitor .. and forgets to do simple things like feeding the dogs, emptying dishwasher, warming food in fridge… sigh.. He isn’t moving.. and I am totally frustrated.. so I and rest of family are doing our “jobs”.. and his too😢

@drewe9514

2 ай бұрын

Maybe you’re taking the Masculine role in the relationship and so the polarity is not giving him the struggle or role to be a man. In simpler terms, when a man is dominant/earning/physically fit then that makes women instinctively allow their feminine side out.. But when a woman has dominant masculine energy, it crowds out his role and so he may feel like he has no place to provide if you’re the one providing a container/financial security for him. The Solution: be very direct that you love and need him in your life but that you won’t tolerate a guy who is not supporting the family. If men don’t hear explicitly that they are needed then they feel crowded out especially if you have a lot of Yang/male energy and so you are taking care of his role as a provider for him/which needs to stop in order for the dynamic to shift.

The point about turning struggles into strength really hits home

Ed, I know you surrounded by your team, your family and your friends and probably do hear this often, but what you do is important!!! It's impactful!!! It's life changing!!! It's timely for most and based on your recent text message(s) I think you also need to know you are important and I can't speak for all, but I am proud of you!!! And YES, as cheesy as it sounds, I do believe in you and what you do!!! I am a walking proof of how certain messages impact and or change a life of a person. Keep going, keep pushing, and keep changing and impacting lives!!!

I feel all these was at times

Just what I needed to hear today. Thank you @EdMylet for inspiring me through tough times.

❤ thank you!

Thank you!

Thank you Brother

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Good good

I just honestly love all of your stuff, sir. I love GOD sooooo much and it's fantastic to know you do as well. GOD BLESS ALL!!

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💯 spot on.speaking to me.🙌..3rd time listening. 👍

Spot on here. Ed we need you to be on the major networks prime time to tell everyone exactly this. No more cnn nbc abc fox. We need a great big Ed Mylett loudspeaker so everyone hears this.

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Damn Ed! Been listening to you for sometime, but this brought me to tears and I’m not like that. I guess it hit way too close to home! I wonder how many others feel the same way. This was a great one! Thanks, Ed!

Thank you brother...I can relate to this

keep on the great work ED!!!

So good and much needed. Our men are suffering in silence.

@drewe9514

2 ай бұрын

Tell your men that you need them. That’s the #1 desire of all men is to be useful and wanted.

This is relationship edification Edy Best thank you

Amen wow so powerful ❤❤❤

I've missed you, Ed. I've been working with a lot of men recently. Men and women need to find, love, forgive, and heal themselves to reach their full potential. When men start doing this, women will feel safe and stay with them.

Don't depend on anybody... If you need love, you get rejected, if you need faith, you get rejected.... And so, the strong man hides him selves, pretending everything is okay. Be authentic and show your emotions, your despairs... and then you get real friends, and so you get rid of these pseudos'... Until you make a show, you are isolated! It is just so damn simple... You are authentic, you don't depend on anybody and so you find friends. Never be needy! Be authentic! Then people will help you ...

I wish I had been able to get my husband to listen to all of my honest praise, inspiration, and belief in him. He never reached his potential and avoided accountability, withdrawing from me and lying/hiding repeatedly. He knew that drinking alcohol was not the answer but regularly got drunk. He even put my daughter and other road users in danger by driving drunk. I couldn't reach him as he slipped away from me. 😢

@gunayarin1475

Ай бұрын

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Exactly right I've been trying to take care of my girlfriend well that's just in case

I sent this to my wife because her and I talk about these podcasts often and she loved the message and it was insightful for her but she did ask “what about the woman who also needs to be recharged?”. Do you think it’s possible to have someone come on and talk in depth about the female perspective and what they need to be recharged? In today’s society, most families need dual income, and even people who are getting businesses off the ground need dual income to make things work. On top of that they also have to be mothers and support their husband. Do you think you can have someone come on to talk more in-depth about the female perspective? I think it’s a topic that probably needs more attention and it would help the listeners. My wife being one of them.

When you partner with God, then you don't need anyone to believe in you. The power is generated from within, not relying on ext. "If God be for us, who can be against us?" (Romans 8:31) "I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me." (Philippians 4:31) "The kingdom of God is within you" (Luke 17:21) If God be for me, then I know that with God's help I can win.

@EdMylett be reading my mail Keep making a difference, Ed!

Fantastic!

thank you