CURE for Energy vampires is to get "away" from them. . All one needs for that is AFFORDABLE HOUSING to escape toxic living situations.(when they are your roommates)

“You haven’t been chosen, you’ve been targeted” hit deep.

It's sad when these people are family and you just want everyone to be nice and love each other.

@jgarofalo8813

5 жыл бұрын

berryfairy68 Especially if it is your mother

@angelabush9766

4 жыл бұрын

Going Thru This Right Now With My Mom & Brother Pray For Me🙏

@lsmith992

4 жыл бұрын

Going back 25 years, my partner had the ability to "pin me down" energetically. I physically couldn't move. He was aiming for my solar plexus. If he wanted me to stay in the room then that was it. It wasn't until I started to learn about healing that it became clear what he was doing and how but he wasn't aware of what was happening. All that mattered was what he wanted. I believe all of this group are either possessed or overshadowed by negative energy beings (biblical demons) from the lower fourth dimension, and maybe the soul /spirit of the original inhabitant of that body has been displaced or taken a back seat? .

@philippahall2510

4 жыл бұрын

This is exactly how I feel. The strange thing is after listening to this I’m wondering if I’m the energy vampire. I listened to this video because I can’t understand why I’m depleted after spending time with “friends”. I also have displayed professional victim status, had a lot of drama, haven’t taken responsibility for my life and blamed them. But fundamentally I do believe I’m healthy, I’ve done a lot of work on myself. Now I’m so confused I thought it was them and at a crucial level I still believe I’ve almost taken on their behaviour. I believe their behaviour killed my Mum they took everything she had. I feel so much healthier when I’m no where near my family because seriously I seem to act out of character, not my true nature. Now I’m wondering because they are covert narcissists and my friend a lot of my friends energy vampires, could I be acting out their shadow due to psychic receptivity. Seriously I hope someone gets this because it’s weird. I don’t know what to own and what not to, that’s cognitive dissonance I guess.

@valeriewalkerwhite9525

4 жыл бұрын

I cut my brother off after some serious mental and emotional abuse...I've have done nothing but help him throughout life..he's a criminal, he's evil, he abuses his children, his wife and I want him completely out of my life and my psyche..

If I am feeling tired or bad for no reason. I suspect energy vampires. I taught people who may be psychically victimized my method for dealing with it. 1.) Close your eyes 2.) imagine your arm is a sword 3.) imagine silver or different colored cords attaching to your solar plexes from off in the distance to seemingly nowhere. 4.) Take your arm and like a sword cut those cords sucking your energy. It works for me and all the people I've taught this.

@reminemi1153

2 жыл бұрын

Wow

@d3ltaking419

2 жыл бұрын

I like to use white sage from time to time, it helps cut the cords from negative people.

@juliasmith0102

2 жыл бұрын

It doesn't work for me

@luckycookie5063

Жыл бұрын

Well, it worked nicely up to some point for me :) Gotta try that in a difficult situation, thanks!

@mudangel9124

Жыл бұрын

That’s amazing! What a great concept 🎉 Thank you

My family always drain my energy every time I talk to them, they just care about money , and society. I care more about feelings and emotions. I really don’t want to hurt them as they are my parents but I really don’t like to talk to them

I love how you combine psychology, health sciences, and esoteric knowledge about psychic/energy vampires!

Almost all my exes and some of my relatives and friends are energy vampires. I stay away from them. I learned my lesson.

@not-even-german4892

2 жыл бұрын

Stay away.

I find the best way of dealing with these people is to cut them out of my life. They do not change.

There is a good Chinese medicine teacher taught his students there are three ways making people really sick. One of them is you spend time with people who drain your energy (his word is making you feel tired afterwards)Much much worse than worrying about what you eat. 😱 He will never spend anytime with anyone who makes him feel tired after hanging out. As he is very good at curing people, so I know you are really good as well. So few people know this. I’m happy to hear it from here. Thank you.

I got fibromyalgia and i have a psychopath mother. I always suspected i got this disease because of her, now you just confirmed it. Thank you. And my friends with psychopath/narcissist parents also have auto-immune disorders.

@7wt

4 жыл бұрын

Cerise Dahlia I am beginning to learn that my father is a vampire. My mother developed fibromyalgia before she passed away. She was always sick and I just took it as her seeking attention. I’m starting to think dear old dad played a larger role. He literally sucks the life out of me and I hate being with him. Heck, even his text messages drain me.

@noklarok

3 жыл бұрын

check out Dr Sarno or Pete Walker

@lauratheexplorer6390

3 жыл бұрын

I’ve got Fibromyalgia too. My mum is a (covert) narc. When did you first notice your symptoms? My chronic fatigue, IBS & pain started at around 12. The GP told me he thought it was “growing pains” but it never went away. Only got worse. I’m 31 now. I blame her for it too. So hard to love someone like this.

@vkngwmn6636

3 жыл бұрын

B12 deficiency. do you have anemia?

@specialtwice4975

2 жыл бұрын

Laura TheExplorer I read a blog/a KZread channel on psychopaths. This woman (a doctor) was married to a psychopath. While she was with him she always felt ill, and she didn't know why. (She said if she would have stayed with him a few more years she probably would have gotten an illness/disability and she would have not have been able to continue working) When his mask fell off and she found out what he was she asked him "what are you?" And "why this was happening? Why do I feel sick?" (Thankfully her husband answered her questions instead of, well, you know...☠️⚰️) He said that the reason she felt ill was because of all the bad things he did to her. (Scaring her, etc) He obviously felt no remorse for this, but found a fascination in someone actually finding out and asking him about it. (I wouldn't recommend trying to confront other psychopaths, as this one only answered honestly because he seemed to be amused by her) The blog went into more detail but essentially said he was a predator and she was prey, EVERYONE was prey. So anyways, she eventually divorced her husband (I think he found another woman to marry) and she went into research the connection of psychopaths and causing illnesses. She said some people got these illnesses due to immense stress and anxiety in the body caused by the psychopath. I believe there is a connection between such illnesses and psychopaths/narcissists.

They try to drag you into their drama/trauma vortex.

Thank you. I have had a lifetime of relationships with these character disordered individuals. I cut every last one out of my life 18 months ago and I’m still struggling to get my self back.

She’s speaking nothing but facts! Experienced this with many people.

Wow, your message goes right to the heart. I 've been played like a fiddle over and over again by the very same vampire, somebody I thought to be the center of my universe. After being love-bombed I became a toy in her hands. Thank God, I ´ve been No Contact since May. I am struggling to get my sanity back...

Dr. Nathrop you hit the nail on the head. I have all kinds of problems physically now. Honest to God...I look at myself in the mirror and I don't recognize who's looking back at me. Thank you.

Everytime throughout my life when I've said yes to anything I have regretted it and it ended badly for me but until now I didn't know why this happened to me now I could now kick myself because people knew I was polite and a people pleaser and they weren't hence why I say NO without hesitation it weeds out well the weeds! thanks for your video

Yup. Endometriosis here. Kicked/kicking all vampires to the curb. Thank you Christiane! 💖

This doctor is a power house!!!

I feel so great running into this video. This is exactly what I've experience after I met this energy vampire! I was such a fool to willing give my love to him because of this misfortunate childhood. And this video explain comprehensively of what kind of person he is! Unbelievable to hear that they know what they are doing! Dear all, you need to trust your intuition. When I firstly met this person, my intuition sent me a HUGE dangerous flag!!!

I have a long term friend who is super self centered and absorbed. She talks & talks about herself and never even thinks of others. Then at times I have disagreed with her and she discharges me. I noticed you mentioned they are aware of it but I don’t think she is. She uses me as her personal therapist then feels better. Im left drained. I am putting up boundaries with this now. Just like I left my narcissist ex who would emotionally abuse me then blamed me for feeling poorly. I dug myself out of that mess with years of sickness. Thank you for the connection to the physical being. I’ve always loved your work. I’m so glad I found this.

@mertkaya8790

4 жыл бұрын

I had a couple of friends like that. I dont see them any more.

@danamuller5016

3 жыл бұрын

Wow I have a friend like this

The sadest part of this is how mainstream medicine not only does not recognize the profound implications of emotional abuse from chronic toxic relationships (work too), but erroneously diagnoses patients as having some kind of mental disorder that must be treated with various (potentially dangerous) chemicals that that they call "pharmaceuticals". This woman is absolutely correct in her assessment of the implications of psychological abuse on one's health. Bravo, ma'am.

Your the first doctor who's on my level about these parasitic people!

My mum and baby daddy are energy Vampires... She constantly talks from morning until night talking about how everyone has done her wrong and she is the victim and lies like crazy and she always stands by my bedroom door doing this... It used to drain me and fustrate me but now i dont care i just say no all the time n do not care anymore... I took my power back and ignore her most of the time as for my baby daddy i cut the cord.

@TreBeL1000

Ай бұрын

Standing by the door to torture you. I kno what thats like

Thank you..I have absorbed all of your info on cluster B personalities and had to walk away and move countries from my entire FOO 3 months ago after 5 months no contact..to save my life..in recovery..much love and blessings xxxx

This can also be applicable in friends. Unfortunately, I learned this as I loss friendships in 2020... however I believe good energy is coming to me as I am staying away from energy vampires and setting boundaries in present and future friendships

@not-even-german4892

2 жыл бұрын

Cut them off everywhere, suffer in silence and work harder at work, practice sport as desired

@jeanetteambrose4854

Жыл бұрын

2020 brought out the'dark side' via fears...a really horrible'pandemic' re action...some will never see...Best to you!

So helpful, thank you! I have been prone to energy vampires all my life and I don't know why but I constantly find myself shocked to discover they are one when I've fallen for their fakery over and over again. You would think I'd be able to spot them instantly after so many experiences but I constantly find myself on the receiving end of their narcissism. By the way, the color of your blouse is amazing! :)

@cathlaurs9754

2 жыл бұрын

Emily Pound: me too Emily. I think, "Shit, I've fallen for it AGAIN". It still happens to me although far less often. I like to think that all people are as honest as I am - that what they say and do has no agenda. But, alas, it's simply not true. I've learned, by bitter experience, that some people use me in order to gain something - be it attention, money, status, my friendship group, access to something I own or whatever and offer precious little in return. These days I have honed my radar and trust my gut. I watch and notice how new people behave and what they say. It's a sad way to be but it protects me from their trap. I have always readily felt or taken blame. Now I check with myself; I stop and ask myself what part the other person played or what THEY could have done differently in any situation where guilt, blame and responsibility crops up - it helps me to see more clearly and not automatically shoulder all the negatives. I also no longer give myself freely - people have to earn my trust and I slow new relationships down - I don't allow someone much access to my life, my time, my love until I feel ready, feel trust and mutual appreciation. I had to let go of a lot of people when I finally learned to do all of the above. PS I had a super manipulative, victim, narcissist mother - I suppose I'm resisting and questioning the role she gave me, finding a new path. Go well Emily.

Energy vampires since childhood and it primed me for toxic adult relationships. I've done a lot of work to change my own choices and who I allow in my life. But the damage that has been done to my body is heartbreaking. So many autoimmune and somatic issues and doctors just don't know what to do to help me. The best thing I have done is removed those people from my life and my health has at least reached a manageable level.

Wow! Explaining 4 years of my life with a colleague Thank-you Dr. Northrup! Wow!

As a person who's highly disagreeable, I find it easier to identify these types of people than my highly agreeable friends. It's like they can't stop redirecting the conversation towards themselves and their problems. I think the greatest weapon against these kinds of people is blunt truth - they don't respond well to that.

Trapped in a relationship with a vampire... He has control of everything. Am working on my exit, it's been years trying to get away. Thank you for confirming what I already knew. Peace, Love, & Light Always

Sounds just like my ex husband. I now get it why, when I was married to him, I got fat, no matter how much I starved myself.

This is so true. I have developed psoriasis from being involved in my relationship with a narcissist. It has been 7 years but it only recently got bad. It’s almost like there is a spiritual darkness around him. I love him so much and want him to change but I don’t think I can do it for him. He has to want to be different.

@FlyFreely8272

4 жыл бұрын

They will not change. I waited for over 13 years for change. I finally had to walk away. He's still angry and playing the victim.

@charmsickle

10 ай бұрын

Any updates?

Energy vampires make others their perpetual victims.

Wow what an amazing woman!!! Truth oozing out of every cell of her beautiful soul

Thk U Dr Northrup, I have a fan of yours for years. I'm 64yrs old have a retired husband passive aggressive sneaky Have a Son & Daughter in law both Narrisistic and Close friend who are draining me. By Blood pressure may be up so I have decided to leave. When my health is at stake I won't let anyone to do this to me.

I love you Dr. Northrop. I am an Empath and I’m constantly dealing with physical ailments because of EV including my clients.

"Love bombing..." 😂🤣😂 This is such a good way to describe that type of behavior!

@valeriewalkerwhite9525

4 жыл бұрын

was in a relationship where the guy had to tell me 300 times a day that he loved me..I knew it was crap....weened myself out of it..there are some sick folks in this world..

@spookyvegan1402

3 жыл бұрын

Sure Is!!

@bvgaboo3572

3 жыл бұрын

It's an actual term for that method. It is a method used for brainwashing.

Boy, how refreshing is this!! Straight forward intelligent descriptions and use full advice. Thank you!! :)

This was too real, thank you so much for speaking out for the victims who have no idea what’s going on. It’s a difficult topic to discuss. Bless you

Empath, that is who I am, for sure! I got sick and still have difficulty as to heal completely. I am WAY too good... Was around people who stole my energy for years... I had so much energy, I could not even see it nor feel it. But now, I feel it right away because I am drained. Limits and bounderies made of Iron, that is what I need. I all the problems you enumerate. I need to learn more from you... but those manipulators are OUT...

A book just opened to me. Thank you so much for this.

yes doc You are 100 percent correct i have been researching on this topic for the past 2years self love and self respect is very important.

I married into a family of them. Luckily, the main ones kicked us out of the family. I think this is also the reason my father in law was so grumpy and riddled with health issues, my husband was but seems to be healing

Absolute Fact's this is why i have arthritis chronically tired for no reason but can't sleep at night dig. disc disease in my neck 16 yrs with a energy vampire.

How do you deal with an elderly parent with medical issues who lives with you, who is an energy vampire. She gets angry when I don't spend every second with her, who gets annoyed when I don't feel well and need to rest (I'm no spring chicken) or i speak with anyone else e.g. siblings and the only friend I have left, and gets upset that I cant fix her medical issues, and storms in my room constantly regardless of the time only to complain and guilt me. And often reminds me of EVERYTHING I do wrong. And gets upset if I don't drop everything I'm doing to do something for her or to watch church on tv. Everyone else thinks she's so wonderful. I feel so worn out with life.

Oh wow! You utterly speak to this daughter of a vampire!! Bless you!! Thank you!!

Thank you for sharing this video. The worst its happenin in my work place with no one to turn to. Hr, the union, and corporate compliance. Nothing has resolved it just got worst. Because i called them out on bullyin. I get men that come to my office n give me evil stares ive ignored them but some dont stop so now im staring back n letting them know they dont intimidate me.

Dr Northrup you are incredible at what you do here. So Clear, and this situation is very confusing, thanks for making it simple.

I saw a miracle in my life.when i say myself i love you then disease get fixed

A good book is " WHEN I SAY NO I FEEL GUILTY,"".

Wow, that was fascinating, I learned so much from this video. Thank you Dr Northrup.

I so look forward to your videos! Thank you for all you do ❤️ your daughter is amazing as well!

It’s sad how the energy vampires is someone you can’t believe is them 🤯

Hypochondriacs energy vampires always on the downers with negativity and darkness around your inner world. Making you so depressed with low energy. Best solution take flight in an aeroplane parachute with a mountain bike or skate board.

Wow, your video has been the best video I have seen so far. A Direct outline and to the point. Ty

Best video on energy vampires/narcissists. Thank you for sharing

You are SOO EXCELLENT! Wow, soo incredibly Professional & practical to live a Fit & Happy Life. Thank you, Dr. Christiane Northrup! Wow! I have to be so aware of this now!

I have your book, women's body women's wisdom. I love the fact that you deal with the body, mind, energy systems. You are so eclectic. I just love you 🌻

Dr.Northup you are spot on with regards to psychic vampires!

Dear doctor ... today you were my message from heaven. Now I understand what was going wrong with my ex and even with the previous and the previous exes I feel better now.

Me an empath 😁 Very informative, so so true everything you said (have passed through relationship with an energy vimpire) .... and SOOOO tru they always try to play the victim And so true about us empaths....so difficult to learn being selfish (healthy selfish), start saying 'no'and stop trying to help and fix things and people... Thank you! ❤

I so needed this right now. Thank you so much...

I had to subscribe. Your explanation was so clear and helpful.

Thank you very much for such high quality content.

Love this. So much information. I love how she can scientificly explain this.

Thank you for your valuable time and insight

You’re video was so calming thank you so much ❤

Advice starts 8:30

@quinadams3181

Жыл бұрын

thank yooooou

@ElizaFragmented

Жыл бұрын

God bless

Thank you for this video. It has hit home in every way. It's what I need. 🍒

Very informative. Absolutely clear and well explained. Thank you so much Dr

Wow! You nailed it all on the head Thank you for this!!

Life saving info ❤️ thank you

Yes i am in a spiritual relationship with a vampire 100%

I love this woman! She's amazing! Thank you!

my energy is my energy its not someone else energy and nobody can have my energy😌👰💪 i'm loyal to my self🌹

Protect solar plexus while with them

so very helpful. Thank you! Ordering your book for a resource with my clients! thanks!

Thanks for this wonderful advice.

When you get away, don’t forget what you seek, seeks you. That means no peeping on their social media or if you think about them for any reason tell your mind to stop every time. I say this because they can still syphon your light energy by projecting an energetic cord, and if you aren’t careful you can be unaware of projecting an energetic cord for them to latch onto. They don’t have to still be in your physical life to continue draining you. Energy is all around us including thoughts that turn into thought forms ( entities ) and I’m not referring to the light ones.

Simply awesome. Thank you !

I think I've become an expert on dodging narcissists but I recently had a big lesson on dodging energy vampires in general.

You talk exactly what I am experiencing.

Oh, wow! You are so right! Thank you!

A very good eye opener... I knew it just didn’t know the true calling of it... now I do. Thank great video... always someone you love

Dam, you're good! I live with a blamer...I'm going to try to find a support group right now.

Lovely straight talkingbvideo, Thank You😊

Now a challenge is that this type of behavior is on the rise, especially in the corporate world psychopathic traits are valued. Same with (shallow forms of) dating: good guys are taught how to be more psychopathic, because some women seem to really like that. And politics: people seem to think that leaders who don’t listen to others are strong and therefore fit to lead a country.

I really enjoy your video, it brought tears to my eyes......

BEAUTIFULLY EXPLAINED AND GREAT 👌👍👏👏👏👏

I keep getting into this energy vampires, n evil narcs, over n over again! They sucked the soul out of me!

Thank You! Well said

You make so much sense thank you

Omg this is amazing thanks you so much 🙌🏽

I'm an energy vampire and I take away stress and other types of negative energy when I see someone upset and angry I try to get there attention and start taking there negative energy and and let them lay or sit next to me and then they feel great and I feel fantastic

@luctuosaluctuosa5360

4 жыл бұрын

Jacob Lobato Maybe you are not a classic vampire.

I fought IBS for several years before I figured out that it was due to my marriage. She cheated over and over again with her ex, cried and threatened to harm herself when I found out and talked about divorce. I paid all the bills did 90 percent of the cleaning and cooking etc… I eventually built up the nerves to divorce so I’m now on the road to recovery.

I 100% agree with you, and I have tested to be a 100 % empath.

Wow!! You are very helpful 🙌🏻💭👌🏻

Excellent video

TY TY I love the pledge to⤵ yourself💓🐬💕

Beat way to protect from psychic vampire is to use selenite

@piperdraconi1034

3 жыл бұрын

And screen your calls. lol!