By avoiding people who indulge in backbiting. Can’t trust the ones who talks about others in the first place.

@intentionalways.7287

24 күн бұрын

Absolutely right. As soon as you’re with someone or a group of people and they’re backbiting or speaking/ mocking an individual, you know instantly that this same individual or group of people will do the same about me. Subhan’Allah. Allah swa guide us and protect us from that which is most displeasing to Him. Ameen.

@sarapeyton4335

19 күн бұрын

Does this include ones parents?

THIS HABITS COMES FROM FAMILY, IF PARENTS HAVE THIS HABITS [BACKBITING] CHILDREN GET THIS HABITS. MY PARENTS NEVER BACKBITE , WHEN I WAS AT UNIVERSITY, I FELT EXTREMELY BAD, WHEN SOMEONE BACKBITE, MAY ALLAH FORGIVE US AND AWAY FROM THESE HABITS.

@utubebeena

25 күн бұрын

Not always, my dear. There are cases where children do not adopt or inherit their parents' virtues.😥 I have witnessed this. I pray Allah bless all believers with virtuous children and mine too. Aameen

@sarame7157

24 күн бұрын

A chicken will give birth to chic not a snake right?

@awakenthegreatnesswithin

15 күн бұрын

@@sarame7157 a chic can turn into a snake by hanging around with snakes ?

Very true. May Almighty Allah make us fight this habit whatever situation occurs. Aameen

Powerful and beautiful, May Allah make it easy for us to practice. Aameen.

@Nasreenali77

26 күн бұрын

Ameen summa ameen

@FarhanaFaruq

25 күн бұрын

Aameen

I try to avoid backbiting I only find it hard when I’m angry.

This is AMAZING STUFF BARAK ALLAH WAFEEK BROTHER

Very optimistic

Jazak'Allahu-khair for sharing. Very important topic

Insha'aAllah, i will attempt to take this methodology under advisement. JAK. I hope to learn, one day, what actually constitutes backbiting, because all discussion about others (in their absence) is not backbiting. For example, i always speak very candidly and openly with my mom. As my elder, i consider her to be my confidante and advisor, and what i say to her stays with her and vice versa. Sometimes, i simply need to vent. Otherwise, i have very few friends and i make a point to never discuss anyone or anyone else's business with them.

Barakallahu fiiqum ❤

Dnt backbite about poeple. Put that person infront of you ,and that person like to know what to say . Dnt hurt poeple , if u say ,I said that in there face . Dnt talk about person ,when u can't confront them . ❤

Allhamdurella

انا اختكم من اليمن والله ماتكلمت الا من جوع ومن ضيق الحال انا وامي وخواتي نحن في حاله لا يعلم بها الا الله حسبنا الله ونعم الوكيل في من اوصلنا الى هاذا الحال وًّالَلَهَ الَعَظَيَمَ مَا كتَبَتَ هَذا الَمَنَاشَدَهَ غَيَرَ مَنَ الَضَيَقَ وّالَفَقَر يَاعَالَمَ حَسَوّا فَيَنَا ارَجَوّكمَ وّالَلَهَ الَعَظَيَمَ رَبَ الَعَرَشَ الَعَظَيَمَ انَه الَاكلَ مَا فَيَ عَنَدَيَ بَالَبَيَتَ وًّالَلَهَ يَا اخَوّانَيَ انَهَ اخَوًّنَيَ بَقَعَدَوًّ بَالَيَوًّمَيَنَ مَافَى اكلَ وًّالَلَهَ وًّضَعَنَا كثَيَرَ صَعَبَ نَحَنَ 6 نَفَرَ دَاخَلَ الَبَيَتَ وًّابَيَ مَتَوًّفَيَ وًّلَا يَوًّجَدَ مَنَ يَعَوًّلَ عَلَيَنَا وًّسَاكنَيَنَ فَيَ بَيَتَ اجَارَ لَانَسَتَطَيَعَ دَفَعَ الَاجَارَ الَلَيَ بَاقَيَ عَلَيَنَا ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' اخي اول كلامي انا اقسم بالله على كتاب الله اني لااكذب عليك ولا انصب ولا احتال اني بنت يمنيه نازحين انا واسرتي بيننا ایت الشهرب 15 الف يمني والان علينا 45 الف حق 3 شهور وصاحب البيت من الناس الي ماترحم والله يا اخي انه يجي كل يوم يبهدلنا ويتكلم علينا ويريد من البيت للشارع لانناماقدرنا ندفعله الأجار شافونا الجيران نبكي ورجعو تكلمو الجيران ومهلنالاخره الأسبوع معادفعنا له حلف يمين بالله هذا بيخرجنا إلى الشارع رحمه واحنا. بلادنا بسبب هذا الحرب ولانجد قوت يومنا وعايشين اناوامي واخوتي سفار والدنا متوفي الله يرحمه ومامعنا أحد في هذا الدنيا جاانبنا في هذه الظروف القاسيه خواتي الصغار خرجو للشارع وشافو الجيران ياكلو واوقفو عند بابهم لجل يعطوهم ولو كسره خبز والله الذي له ملك السموات والارض انهم غلفو الباب وطردوهم ورجعو یبکو ایموتو من الجوع ما احد رحمهم وعطلة ردها لقمت عیش والان لوما احدنا ساعدنا في إيكيلو دقيق اقسم بالله انموت من الجوع فيا اخي انا دخيله على الله ثم عليك واريد منك المساعده لوجه الله انشدك بالله تحب الخير واتساعدني بقدر استطاعتك مع تراسلي واتساب على هذا الرقم00967717415667 وتطلب اسم بطاقتي وترسلي ولاتتاخر وايعوضك الله بكل خير اخواني سغار شوف كيف حالتهم وساعدنا وأنقذنا قبل أن يطردونا في الشارع تتبهدل أو نموت من الجوع وانا واسرتي نسالك بالله لولك مقدره على مساعد لاتتاخر علينا وجزاك الله خيرا`°`^``{`}|π√`^~÷.........،.

@saminamahmood6434

25 күн бұрын

May Allah help you I will pray for you.

Ameen

Aameen

What to do in the situation of an abusive parent?. I remained quiet for many years. But this lead to my children acting as if the abuse wasn’t happening. They wouldn’t defend me when I would be beat or abused in anyway. Even though I’ve been a cover for them against their father’s abuse. Now my twenty year old son acts as if my lifetime of oppression is an inconvenience to him. My other teenage sons use our divorce to misbehave and disrespect me on a daily basis. I complain to them about their awful behavior and point out how wrong it is. I managed to stay quiet and not complain for many years to keep our problems private and to shield my children from so much toxicity. I’m not a victim or a back bitter I’m so tired of feeling the need to complain since silence seems to have an absolute awful effect on my children. What I mean by I’m not a victim and mean my abuser has me trapped using the care I have for my children I refuse to leave, instead I choose to stay and endure his abuse even though my children are ungrateful.

@kubra6705

15 күн бұрын

SubhanAllah Alhamdulillah la illaha illallah

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"THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK"!!!🤫

What can we do if someone has harmed us and we need to speak about it to someone ? We just don't mention them by name?

@makola1970

25 күн бұрын

Assalamualaikum it depends who you speak to and the situation. If there's a need to speak about a problem then speak to someone who has authority or who can help. For instance a child in school, speak to a teacher who could help and you may use names, as that's how they can help. If in a domestic situation speak to an imaam or Apa/ustaadha or authorities if need be, who can help. At work your supervisor. We don't then go to everyone in class or the department and say so and so did this n that. May Allah help & guide us all

7:45 & 11:20 Got me....Imagine it was.u sitting there. How.would u like to be spoken about?

Sir i have adhd 😢

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Im sorry I thought we should remind people to not do specific bad things they did but now telling them is actually lack of modesty? Or straight from shaytan?

@EricPowellAKAELPJ

18 күн бұрын

Salaam Alaykum. I don’t think that’s what he was talking about @ 4:22, fam. Sincere advice as well as commanding the good and forbidding the evil both have etiquette to them which would never call for one to disrespect and disgrace another person, which is what the Brother Imam specifically said the “shameless” and “hasty” people do. He clarifies further in the rest of the video too. Salaam Alaykum.

And when I have to talk about people 🫣 I the context of picking a brother to establish a youth gathering or a sister taking a reposibility for a reading club 🫣 please make Dua for all of the people having a leading position in their communities 🫣

Ameen