As a people pleaser and an introvert, this is very helpful

Ever since I stopped caring if I was right or wrong (that's how we're socialised and most of us aren't aware of it) and instead took the different perspectives mindset, I haven't had one single argument, meaning if I'm talking with someone who chronically needs to win, I stop and either say "you have the last word" or "not interested" or something to that effect.

I think that is some of the BEST information I have ever heard from anyone.

Missed the cute “try this and follow me” at the end

Yes...pausing sounds good, and then say something that's unrelated to what they are arguing about. I like that (my thoughts). I am definitely not a lawyer. 🙂 Thank you.

Oh my gosh, thank you so much for making a music reference! That’s such a great example!

This is game changing Jedi mind trick 😅

Thank you very much for being here for people. Can’t wait to read your book

Mannnnnn!!!!!! You r breath taking💝💝💝💝

Great advise man Thank you

You are so helpful. Thank you for sharing all your communication tips. I watch all your videos.

You are such a breath of fresh air 😊

Thank you so much!! Watched so many of your shorts today after discovering you! Would love to take classes from you on this?

Subscribed. Please make more, this content is not enough!

Thank you

So helpful. 👍

very excited about your new book.

Sh, attorney,gotchya

Love this!

Waiting for more videos on you tube , thanks for sharing this 👍👍👍

Awesome suggestions!😊

One of the best channels I’ve found

Go on Jeff!

More please!

I really love this advice. However, my husband is so impatient with me usually that if I waited that long he would either quit talking to me or get increasingly agitated with me.

U r brilliant

Yes. Please. Put your TikTok’s here on KZread. Thanks for all your support😊

I sure wish Jefferson would do more videos.

If I had this kind of emotional maturity, you are so who I’d wanna date 😹

Please uploads all the reel video from instagram to KZread Shorts!

Let it go!!!

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You didn’t put your hand near your mouth and say, “Follow me.” I wait for that! 😝

They need to clone you for sure.

Thus is how I argue and my wife hates it

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Does this apply to texts and emails? Or are there separate guidelines for that?

Your good do you do mentoring?

When are you going to publish ur book

I'm neurodivergent married to another neurodivergent. Pauses don't work here, he'll just fill those within seconds before I even have the time to gather my thoughts.

🎵Let it fall! Let it fall! Let those words just faaaaaaall!🎵🎵

How can i get in touch with you?

How did you become so wise?

It's not the words to tell people judge you

Hello your so pretty❤❤❤

Please post more videos. @jeffersonfisher

Thank you