When y’all started breaking down Jesus showing us the 5 love languages, I almost threw my shoe at the screen and ran around my apartment.. yall are smarttttt!! 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

@BetweenTheWallsPod

13 күн бұрын

That’s so funny lol. At worship practice, if someone is really SANGING we throw our shoes at them to show appreciation too 😂. Well we appreciate you, thanks for watching :)

@Choklatekisses1

10 күн бұрын

@@BetweenTheWallsPod EXACTLY!!!! I've been there a many a day bout to throw a shoe during service. lol

“The opposite of love is pride” is 1000% true

@StarC2233

12 күн бұрын

Right...a whole word!

This podcast is going to be successful beyond your dreams !!! 🙌 ❤

@BetweenTheWallsPod

13 күн бұрын

Thank you so much!!

Jess face about Johnathan touching someone’s toes 😂😂

@BetweenTheWallsPod

12 күн бұрын

😂😂

"Thanks for marrying me" ~Jess~ 😂😂😂😂😂

@Itsbritt_22

12 күн бұрын

That comment tickled me 😂😂

These pod cast are a BLESSING to my soul. I can truly see and hear the JESUS in you two!!! I share every pod cast young and older can learn from these. I pray for you two on the daily but also I pray that God will continue to Bless this union!!! You two are a beautiful couple 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️

@BetweenTheWallsPod

13 күн бұрын

Thanks for the prayers, we really appreciate it 😊

Crying shows that you are human. You're loved in every way...crying and all. I love you guys ❤❤❤

“Do what love requires.” Shout out to Jonathan’s dad 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 This is a wonderful podcast. Thanks for making it official ❤

@BetweenTheWallsPod

12 күн бұрын

Pretty smart guy! Thanks for tuning in!

God definitely uses us as His hand and feet! One time my husband and I had a big fuss. I went to the room upset and started praying. I said "God..I wish You could give me a hug!" 👑 Don't you know, right after I said , that my Husband came in the room..hugged me and left.👀 He didn't say a word and I knew that hug was from the Lord! ❤ After we got a chance to work things out ..I shared that with my Husband and we were both amazed!❤👑

@BetweenTheWallsPod

12 күн бұрын

Crazy! God’s so cool, thanks for sharing :)

@Nikki...

12 күн бұрын

@@BetweenTheWallsPod Ikr?! You're welcome!❤️

Words of affirmation is my #1. But mine is more like: tell me how much you care about me or appreciate the things I do.

The coach bag is a part of the experience 😂😭

@BetweenTheWallsPod

12 күн бұрын

EXACTLY lollll

“Do what love requires”. ❤️❤️❤️ I’m calling these “wall” ettes

@BetweenTheWallsPod

13 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

Thanks guys, great episode, good balance of learning points with a bit of light humour. Very enjoyable!

@BetweenTheWallsPod

13 күн бұрын

Our pleasure!

my love language is quality time but I show love by gift giving

@malika5143

13 күн бұрын

I’m the exact same way!!

Im going to say this everytime. It PAYS TO MARRY A MAN OF GOD!! LOL the Florida roads , its dangerous .

12:19 the way her face dropped! I was scared for whoever he was talking about lol

@BetweenTheWallsPod

13 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

I’m the same way. If I’m feeling down or overwhelmed and someone ask me “are you okay?” Immediate tears 😭 lol I don’t know what’s in those words but mannnnn *with the right person* I will turn into a little child and cry my eyes out

@BetweenTheWallsPod

13 күн бұрын

omg sameeee loll for me it can be anybody and i'll turn into a puddle

I really enjoy the fact that the 2 of you accept each other where you're at AND saves space for one another all the while, making your desires known and having them received in love. THAT'S A LOT FOR MOST PEOPLE TO DO!

Cousins.....this was a whole therapy session that I truly needed today!!!!!! Johnathan stay dropping gems and I love it!!!

@BetweenTheWallsPod

12 күн бұрын

We appreciate it, thanks so much for watching :)

The relevancy! Knowing someone’s love language can help you love that person better. Whilst the intention of showing love to another who has a completely different love language to you is sooo important, I’ve found it to also be hard! But you go hard for the ones you love right. Another great episode. Thank you 🫶🏾

@BetweenTheWallsPod

13 күн бұрын

Great insight! Thanks for watching :)

Based on what I have been watching from this podcast and the others, I feel that you guys are most definitely blessed and that Jonathan has one of GOD’s gift of teaching the Word! If Jonathan was ordained as a Pastor and had a Church, I would go to where he was preaching GOD’s Word!! For me it is really difficult to find a True person of GOD!

I really appreciate how transparent and honest you guys are with each other, and you do it with love. I feel like sometimes in relationship, especially married ppl, they think if their marriage isn’t actively falling apart, then there is nothing to fix/talk about. But these little things really do matter in a partnership, and being able to communicate lovingly yet honestly about them really strengthens the bond so much more. Going to try and work on this in my relationship too. Love this podcast and thanks so much for sharing with us 🫶🏾

@BetweenTheWallsPod

13 күн бұрын

Thanks for watching :)

22:51 made me think of me and God. Everytime I feel this way about someone God reminds me in a way that I shouldn't hold a grudge, because He doesn't when it comes to me being wrong. God still listens to my prayers and still answer me, still giving me grace and love me even when I'm wrong. So when I'm mad at my man I must not try to hurt him by ignoring him. If it makes sense

@BetweenTheWallsPod

13 күн бұрын

Makes plenty of sense to us! God is just so so good.

What can I say? These podcast gives so much information that needs to be known. It's always good to see the glory of God shining through you both.

@BetweenTheWallsPod

12 күн бұрын

Thank you!

@FranchieH

12 күн бұрын

@@BetweenTheWallsPod welcome

I love these podcasts because I believe God has a husband for me and when I meet him these are great tips

@BetweenTheWallsPod

12 күн бұрын

We’re believing with you! Thanks for watching :)

The biblical tie with the 5 love languages unlocked a new spiritual awakening! 🤯Cause what? Never thought of it that way, so brilliant you guys! 👏🏾🙌🏾 I’m all caught up on y’all’s podcasts! I’m subscribed now, so proud of yall! Keep it up❤👍🏾

@BetweenTheWallsPod

4 күн бұрын

Thank you!!

Every person has all the love languages, all five of them, just in a specific order which also changes with time. Love this episode! 😊❤

Thanks for marrying me..awww❤

Whew!! That break down of the languages leading back to God grabbed my heart. Exactly that. ❤❤❤ Also the point about female friendships. Y’all was hitting on that one. Pride needs to take a step back and we need to do what love requires

It's so funny, I was just thinking during a time of intense prayer, I remembered kissing my husband, but in the Spirit I saw Jesus kissing me. Showing me physical touch through my husband!

Keep.this podcast going!!!! The "Walls" will be broken down when you continue to share your perspectives. Great messages in this podcast from a young couple! Thanks for sharing some of your experiences that give tangible examples and by tying in the Love of Jesus!!! Awesome job! 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️

@BetweenTheWallsPod

12 күн бұрын

Thanks for listening :)

Gary Chapman 5 love languages. Going to take it again to see if mine has changed.

@BetweenTheWallsPod

13 күн бұрын

Shout out to Gary Chapman!

Awww but dang y’all made me realize that me ignoring people or showing them less love is a form of withdrawing my love from them 😣😢 that kinda makes me sad lol. It’s like “I’m mad at you so you’re not worthy of my love” but God never treats us that way. Imagine God ignoring me because I made Him mad?!😣

Hey Guys, you are right age doesn’t matter. My husband is younger than I am but he teaches me a lot. Like stuff you would think I have learned or been showed already. Marriage is beautiful when it’s done right.❤❤

@BetweenTheWallsPod

12 күн бұрын

So true!

Love love love how you correlated the love languages to how God loves us in all of the love languages. That blessed me, praise Him!🙏🏾

My husband is like that. He prefers me without makeup and he hates wigs.

I absolutely love the work that your two are doing. It is a blessing and I’m praying that God will bless you exceedingly as you represent Him in love and marriage. Y’all rock!

@BetweenTheWallsPod

13 күн бұрын

Thank you :)

Loved this episode. Very insightful. I was wondering if later on you could have a specific episode on how to communicate with your partner, healthy arguing and how to ensure that your partner actually understand what you mean rather than feeling attacked.

Not me laughing with yall like I’m a part of this relationship 😂 Y’all are such a beautiful couple, we appreciate the podcast!

I’m old enough to be you guys’ mom but I love watching because you both are so inspiring and Jess you have such a way with your laugh that always makes me smile.

Ok 🎉👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I love the intro!!

@BetweenTheWallsPod

13 күн бұрын

thank youuu!!

Johnathan said opposite of love is pride. But i see it as opposite of love is fear and that's really what our pride let's us hide from our fears of not being enough.Remember perfect love casts out fear, we can really love our partners through anything, if we are committed to do so. I loved this podcast episode ❤

I don't think that ya'll even understand how good this is!!!!!! Love Love Love Love!

Hahaha I totally understand, my family and I are 'mean'. My hubby just shakes his head😂I guess I need to go thank him too girl😂😅 this is such a good discussion guys!!! Keep it up😊

Soo good yall 😫😫🥲 cause these married streets b a lil ghettooo .. “the opposite of Love is Pride”.. I felt THAT!

Coming from a place of love cause I’m a big supporter for this podcast and for Jess in general… I do encourage and think Jess should seek talk therapy to help balance out her emotions now because motherhood takes on a different dimension of emotional stability and a lot of us become mothers and go off of our superwoman abilities of bringing a tiny human into this world we can’t accept help or support and push a way vulnerability and ends up in depression- I’m speaking from a personal perspective- 1yr into motherhood

@BetweenTheWallsPod

12 күн бұрын

hey girll!! I def appreciate where you're coming from, and i think we all need therapy so no disagreement on that there lol but I don't push away vulnerability and i def accept help it just has to be the right people. I cry in front of my husband and close friends all the time lol i just dont feel the need to cry in public and i get uncomfortable when i have TOO many people knowing sensitive/personal business which I think is okay to feel that way as well

@carolsimpson711

9 күн бұрын

I’m just a stranger looking in so you know your self more than anyone! I appreciate your reply and love you with the love of Jesus! Definitely what is personal should be personal, whatever you share it’s just us looking in!

I need to AAARRRRGGH to self more lol🤣 y'all are funny!

@BetweenTheWallsPod

12 күн бұрын

lol that’s real 😂

❤❤❤ this is amazing!!!

The conversation you two are having can be applied to so many different relationships whether that be family , friends , and of course marriage. I have found myself similar to Jonathans my mind doesn't go to words of affirmation and its never that I am doing it on purpose but I have been told in previous relationships by the men I've dated that they would like to hear those things and they have assumed because I'm a woman that's what I want to hear as well. I have compromised on it before but I felt bad because it's kind of what jess said they felt I was only doing it because they asked me to.. not that I didn't believe what I said because I meant it But it's also true that i made sure to say it because they mentioned it to me prior. Also Jess some of my immediate family are the same way I can be "mean" to them and vice versa and they are unfazed lol and some of them are a little softer so I got a bit of both (I call it the code switch depending on who i'm talking to)This was such a real conversation keep up the good work you guys!!! I can't say this enough but I really do like these two May God continue to bless your union!!

@BetweenTheWallsPod

12 күн бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

This other Pastor said that the opposite of love is sin and I felt that

You guys are doing such a great job! Really loving the pod!!

This podcast makes me feel so normal and seen wow 😢

I love u guys so much 💓

I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation about Gary Chapman's 5 Love Languages book. My love language is gifts and it's just the thought of being given anything like chips or coffee that says I thought of you. Very easy I think. 😄

These are the best Podcasts on the KZread platform by far!!! Please keep them coming! I don't watch tv, so this is like my shows!! ❤🫶🏾

Such a good podcast 👏🏾👏🏾

Loving this for ya'll 🥰🥰

Wait I never knew there is was a test to take lol. I will take that test after the video

The matching outfits in the intro 🔥

Enjoyed the video ❤

Tuned in because I need this😂

@BetweenTheWallsPod

13 күн бұрын

we here for you lol

@shai2c154

13 күн бұрын

Enjoyed every bit of it❤

I love you guys, thank you for doing this!

I was thinking. Acts of service for Jonathan would definitely be higher.. yupp

You guys have a ministry ❤

This is so good, thank you guys.❤ Holy Spirit was all over this conversation.

Happy Monday 🙂

Love this so much. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Yes I know the feeling. If my ex does something nice I think is because he want something in return or just trying to win my heart back again.

Omg everything yall saying is so on point with in n out of relationships and friendships n family. Yall are hitting the nail on the head. Yall truly do complete each other even in yall hard times he brings u back down and ground u. But u keep him spunky I live for it yall definitely different but perfect it’s like a sour patch kid as a couple lol.

@BetweenTheWallsPod

12 күн бұрын

I never heard our relationship described like that, great observation lol.

@LuxurCr3Tv

12 күн бұрын

@@BetweenTheWallsPod yes Jess ur sour in a good way like owww but I like it okay. Then Johnathan the sweet one (in my Dr Pepper voice) no diddy all loving and respectful. Then u get a glimpse n then yall gone 🥹 and we waiting on the next video sour patch kids lol. 😝 and no worries Jess my family all mean too lol then we all end up like Johnathan over our emotions n love harder than ever we sour patches too. 🤣😂🤣😂

Fave podcast all day, everyday! 😍

I love you guys so much ❤❤❤

This was so good for me. I'm sending it to my grown children.

This was so wholesome to watch. Love you both 🤎

@BetweenTheWallsPod

12 күн бұрын

Thank you :)

The mic Jess is covering your face,I suggest lowering it down like Jonathan's. Great topic great people ❤😍

I love both of your energy. My love language is Quality Time #1 & #2 Words of Affirmations. This video was sooooo appreciated ❤❤❤

I love this episode!! There are sooooo many gems here. Thank you for posting. May God Bless you both continually. ❤

Wheeww, ok Johnathan was speaking to me around 22 min about that being mad and wanting to restrict ya partner! Thank you for that! Gave me another perception... Aww love yal channel

I, too, am a physical touch girly! Also that end on physical touch and Christ using the body! Sooo goooddd! 🥹

I am really enjoying this podcast, and I appreciate your openness with us I am learning a lot. Johnathan, you are really good at explaining things. 👏🏾 And you nailed it when you said pride is the opposite of love. I feel like Jess sometimes when you know you are right but yet you have to be the one to reach out. Jess, do you ever get tired of being the bigger person? But this podcast helped me see it in a different light. Thank you. Looking forward to your next podcast. ❤

Instant ❤️ and comment before i listen to the video😂😂 Now the comment section gonna be like my notes were I constantly attach what i learnt😂

@BetweenTheWallsPod

13 күн бұрын

Love it 😂

You guys are doing a great job with this podcast! 👏👏👏

Love this episode. I love your comments, Jess, and I also love Jonathan's rationale and wisdom in the things he shares. Especially the principles or scriptural references.

This was really good wow

@BetweenTheWallsPod

13 күн бұрын

Thanks for watching :)

I love this topic!! I feel that communication is not necessarily a language of love but a vehicle in how who show love; I also feel like expectations affect how we express our languages of love.

Listen, I always have the best time listening/watching y’all’s podcast. You guys are so much fun and I love y’all so much. I learned a lot from you guys and I just love how you tie in the real life situation between coup and friendships and tied in with the word of God. Can’t wait until the next episode🩷🎉

@BetweenTheWallsPod

12 күн бұрын

You're the best!

Wonderful podcast! Can’t wait for the next one! This particular one I plan to share with my hubby of 30 years! Keep up the great work!!

Beautiful 😊

Hello fam😍 great episode loved it 🥰 Ezekiel 16:7-12 is an interesting read when using the lens of the 5 love languages 🌺

❤Well, I'm happy to listen to this podcast a lot of love and shared experiences + God words of affirmation. Thank you guys

@BetweenTheWallsPod

12 күн бұрын

Thanks for listening 😊

See I like love language rather than love. Language is the how and that’s what I see as important. I honestly can live me life without ever hearing I love you.

Guys , I love ur talks😊 Please consider moving the mics out of ur faces soo we can experience ur beautiful faces❤️

@BetweenTheWallsPod

13 күн бұрын

HEARD!! thank you!

I love this podcast 😂😂 We got the same love language Jess... I do the same with my partner... Stroke my hurrrr🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Quality time is my #1 and Words of Affirmation is #2. I like the words and actions to align with one another. Physical Touch is my least favorite.

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Gary Chapman is the author of the Love Languages.

I am truly learning so much from this podcast keep up the great work ❤ What do you think about the fruits of the spirit? Do you think that it can relate to love languages from a biblical standpoint?

@BetweenTheWallsPod

12 күн бұрын

I think they are intertwined but not the same thing. The fruit of the Spirit is what love looks like, joy, peace, patience etc. and a love language is a method of communicating that love. If that makes sense. Thanks for watching!

Come love me 😂😂😂😂

I’m the weirdo that the way I receive love isn’t the way I give love.

@stephanielcowart6867

9 күн бұрын

This is common though. Generally you're doing it right in that instance. People around us love languages are different. I adjust with my friends/family based on the friend; however, I just love the time spent.

Jess do I know Jonathan better than you?? I hope not.. Lol. Acts of service was #3 for me, but then when you went down the line of affirmations and gifts I was like ok. I'm wrong

@BetweenTheWallsPod

12 күн бұрын

be so very serious lol