How to Live without Regret and Guilt?

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  • @wrenlinwhitelight3007
    @wrenlinwhitelight30073 жыл бұрын

    I was actually on the verge of a panic attack just 20 minutes ago, because something in my past hit me like a freight train tonight and I started to hyperventilate. I immediately opened my laptop and typed in Headspace and clicked this, closed my eyes, listened and focused on your words, and I was okay. *Thank You Andy!!! 🤟*

  • @hellojessicahoke

    @hellojessicahoke

    2 жыл бұрын

    Iiiil

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.n

  • @lynnomara601

    @lynnomara601

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ryu7408 Excellent advice.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@lynnomara601 Thank you 🙂☯️❤️

  • @dpcrozier99

    @dpcrozier99

    2 жыл бұрын

    I had a panic attack a couple months ago, 100% thought I was going to die of a heart attack

  • @WayneMacDonald1
    @WayneMacDonald14 жыл бұрын

    Very much enjoying this series. They should let you out of the cave more often.

  • @manliketruth7767

    @manliketruth7767

    3 жыл бұрын

    Must be the Batman cave 😂

  • @lfamvs5520

    @lfamvs5520

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agree!

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.n

  • @megapicturezoatlander850
    @megapicturezoatlander8502 ай бұрын

    I’ve done some horrible things, but I want to change. I’ve found god, and thankfully I’ve found this video so I don’t have panic attacks constantly. Thank you. Like genuinely I love you.

  • @marleny5732

    @marleny5732

    28 күн бұрын

    Me too

  • @user-tv4ei9nl4n

    @user-tv4ei9nl4n

    27 күн бұрын

    me too, but cant seem to find god i try very hard

  • @victorian2536
    @victorian2536 Жыл бұрын

    It's very difficult to get past the regret once you realise the thing you did was under your control and that you could have easily avoided that. It hurts to realise the goodness in others after we've lost them. And since I lost someone because of a decision I took based on how my mind perceived things at the time, the guilt and regret eats me up today. It gets difficult to not think you are a bad person when you did something like this knowingly.

  • @TheLillian1991

    @TheLillian1991

    Жыл бұрын

    Does it get better ? 😢

  • @victorian2536

    @victorian2536

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TheLillian1991 yes it does. You start having more compassion towards yourself and learn to work around it.

  • @lorianne4608

    @lorianne4608

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel so much regret anxiety depression. The biggest being Guilt. I too did something horrible while I was married. Once but the person insisted on more + stalked me threatening he was gonna tell my husband we’ve had an affair for 2 years. This is untrue but who’s my husband gonna believe? I didn’t wait around to find out. So I left husband pup granddaughter (no blood relation). I rocked every one’s world but everything for his family worked well without me. The guilt + regret are unbearable

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    The Intention Counts Search within yourself to see if there was an intention to harm someone before you start blaming yourself for creating something that wasn't even in your control. And you will see that there is nothing to regret. Because it's the intention that counts. Understand Yourself Beforehand It's easy to judge our own decisions after the fact, or to think we should have done better after a difficult situation has passed. But it's difficult to actually go through these things beforehand. Understand yourself beforehand.

  • @ryu7408
    @ryu74082 жыл бұрын

    "Anyway" The word "Anyway", is the pathway, to master guilt. Use it as a bridge, to become what you want to overcome. Because when you become, what you want to overcome, you overcome what you want to become. "Anyway" begins as being consciously unconscious and being unconsciously conscious. The simple, hard truth is that it's often difficult to integrate, when you have to carry the heavy burden of it. That's why it's good to go slowly with it. How to slowly go into cold water. You can even expand your comfort zone. Enter suffering willingly. If you willingly enter into suffering, you purify yourself of it. Because only if you can face the suffering, you can change it. The courage to be strong is the shield against the manipulative fears that attack you. Nevertheless, being strong and not letting yourself be manipulated, is the courage to be strong. A sacrifice for love, is a sacrifice worth dying for. We don't have to undo the things we do wrong or have done wrong in life. We die for it and thus sacrifice ourselves for love. Die for your negative qualities and live for your positive qualities. This is the sacrifice and salvation of the human spirit. Positive and negative imprints in the early days largely determine who we are. Some are positive and some are negative. However, the negative imprints can be overwritten. And how something begins only determines one's own end, the old experience and not the next new beginning of the new experience. We find new ways to leave old ways. This is how we find salvation. The guilt we feel is the one that enslaves us. Only when we also remember our innocence, are we free at the same time. I'm Sorry For many years I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which has shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized for something to a person. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized that the only one I really had to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself, the most. So every day I apologize to myself for what I've done to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my feelings of guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you feel guilty about yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow. And apologizing takes away sorrow. Master the guilt and regret by becoming one with it in a way that all resistance to it is accepted and integrated. Because guilt and regret are qualities of a good heart. To finally be free, apologize to yourself and so integrate the guilt and regret. The solution to every problem is the problem itself. It came into existence and it will not leave you. However, the point of view changes, from a different perspective. This is how problems, become solutions. No bad deed will ever be forgotten by the conscience. Treasure those bad deeds. They remind you, that you have not forsaken your humanity. The patterns within us lead us like marionettes, on threads. Patterns are stuck resistances that can bring you a lot of suffering. Because if we fight them, we fight ourselves. The way out of the pattern, is therefore not possible, as a marionette in resistance. We can only become one with the patterns and resistances as a marionette and thus pull ourselves, by the strings. Because in order to overcome something, you have to become one with it. It is the shift from the receiver within, to the creator within. Therefore I am not afraid. I am fear. I'm not in the dark, I am the dark. I don't project evil. I am evil. I am not suffering. I am the suffering. I don't feel guilty. I am guilt. This is the way of overcoming. Become it, overcome it. At the same time, the patterns still exist. We have evil in us, that accuses the other evil in us. Evil accuses the other evil, as evil. And evil, that evil, accused of being evil, does not itself believe to be evil? Isn't the evil that accuses other evils of being evil, not evil in itself? If you really seek good, you will not find it in condemnation. When you realize that the condemned in you, is also the judge, then you can choose to drop the judgement. The important thing is to look within yourself, for if you had the intention to harm someone, before you start blaming yourself, for creating something, that was not even in your control. And you will see that there is nothing to regret. Because the intention counts. To get out of something, you have to go in. This is how you free yourself and at the same time, consciously, keep yourself captive. Because the paradoxical opposites, carry the respective opposites within themselves. This is the way out and the way in. Pain is strength in disguise waiting, to be revealed. The reaction determines the content. Whether something is good or bad is ultimately decided in your own mind. It doesn't live in anything or anywhere, but in your own mind's response to something. When you shift your perception of something in a more lovable way, even the worst on earth can become the best on earth.

  • @manu-l7284
    @manu-l72843 жыл бұрын

    That's true, I smiled as you unfolded it. I tend to say to myself: "Manuel, you did what you did, you experienced the way you experienced because that was the person you were, that was the best thing to do for yourself as the person you were at that time. Whishing to have done differently means to do not accept we have to live in the present." A second ago I was a person, a second after another one. We are a continuum of change. A constant fluid of present.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.n

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.

  • @kirayoshikage4288
    @kirayoshikage42884 жыл бұрын

    This needs more veiws cause of the quality and how much it can help people.

  • @matthanks1303

    @matthanks1303

    3 жыл бұрын

    I agree. There is also the matter of this video having a low view count because not everyone is ready. If the youtube algorhythm-making wizards were (more) ready, perhaps this would be more popular.

  • @kogallfixation

    @kogallfixation

    3 жыл бұрын

    hey yoshi kag e

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @StepHenzVlogs
    @StepHenzVlogs4 жыл бұрын

    Goodness! Your voice is therapeutic.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.p

  • @seacrezt
    @seacrezt3 жыл бұрын

    Very true that you never forget, it will always be there. It's about learning from your mistakes and becoming a better person. Live in the present moment and let go of the past.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.n

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.

  • @robertpaulo8611
    @robertpaulo8611 Жыл бұрын

    I feel so guilty and regretful. I my life is gonna have a serious change because of a mistake I made. I want to go back in time and change what I did. I want things to be the way they were.

  • @LickNilly
    @LickNilly4 жыл бұрын

    Wow. I felt some tears (dunno if it was happiness or sadness or both) during this. I’m a few days away from finishing the Sadness Pack after a break up and between that and hearing this idea that I couldn’t have done something different or I would have is so powerful. It’s hard to actually internalize and lord knows my mind certainly wants to return to the pattern of blaming myself and regretting things I said or didn’t say. But kinda intellectually knowing that I did my best, and using that thought in addition to meditation and practicing a gentle, patient kind of mindfulness has finally helped me get out of that cycle of guilt. It’s like I have an out now and the feeling of not being stuck in self hate is nothing short of amazing.

  • @ayonsarkar9579

    @ayonsarkar9579

    4 жыл бұрын

    @LickNilly same here

  • @neifekoataukeiaho4320

    @neifekoataukeiaho4320

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sweet to hear all this, but not true hear same story again again negativity the most, honesty n trust not even close There is no sanity seriously 😒

  • @neifekoataukeiaho4320

    @neifekoataukeiaho4320

    3 жыл бұрын

    No 👎 hope survive from the COVID-19 just praying 4 miracles 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️😭😭😭

  • @Charul9

    @Charul9

    3 жыл бұрын

    Going through this same feeling today. Thankyou for your comment.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.n

  • @DestructorEFX
    @DestructorEFX2 жыл бұрын

    How can I let go of what I did if the present moment sucks because of what I did?

  • @laurasilvajimenez2200

    @laurasilvajimenez2200

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m in the same situation, let me know if u find the answer

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.q

  • @peachy_pancakes7977
    @peachy_pancakes79774 жыл бұрын

    I beat myself up all the time. So I'm going to try to see it, like you do. Thanks

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.q

  • @justmadeit2
    @justmadeit2 Жыл бұрын

    Guilt and shame over past things is lethal in shaping how a persons life turns out, it’s truly a massive contributor towards depression.

  • @elizabethcotton4659
    @elizabethcotton4659 Жыл бұрын

    23 years on. My husband took his life because of my actions. Thank you for this x

  • @crustyhermit

    @crustyhermit

    Жыл бұрын

  • @lozza5384

    @lozza5384

    Жыл бұрын

    Wishing you all the best, honestly ❤️

  • @henriqueneves_93

    @henriqueneves_93

    Жыл бұрын

    Sending you love. God loves you like you can´t imagine. Keep on Going 💖

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    The Intention Counts Search within yourself to see if there was an intention to harm someone before you start blaming yourself for creating something that wasn't even in your control. And you will see that there is nothing to regret. Because it's the intention that counts. Understand Yourself Beforehand It's easy to judge our own decisions after the fact, or to think we should have done better after a difficult situation has passed. But it's difficult to actually go through these things beforehand. Understand yourself beforehand.

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.

  • @65od
    @65od4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Andy. I have been listening to you for five years now. Being kind to yourself and (therefore) to others and letting go: those ideas are starting to sink in. The way I understand it with my heart is: it is a practice and not a solution. Very liberating. Thank you so much.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.n

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.

  • @brittanychalmers1031
    @brittanychalmers10312 жыл бұрын

    Always appreciate your words. I need this so badly right now. I've been hurting so deeply about a decision that I made that I can't take back and I can't make amends for. Been driving myself crazy with the "what if"s that I'll never know. Having the knowledge that I'll never know is so difficult to bear, but your words are truly helpful and I'll take them with me. Thank you.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.n

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.

  • @cindypaige2888
    @cindypaige28882 жыл бұрын

    When you know better, you do better I learned Zen meditation during the 1 year I spent in prison I realize now that I was in the best place I could have been or I would have continued my way of thinking now So I'm truly thankful that I was there or I would have never even found out about Meditation

  • @sarahtaylor8877
    @sarahtaylor88776 ай бұрын

    I have been walking the Camino de Santiago to help with my grief, now I just love the journey, country and fellowship of the other pilgrims.

  • @Mermaids85
    @Mermaids852 жыл бұрын

    I love you Andy!!! Thanks for your impact on the world.

  • @jaydec1195
    @jaydec11953 жыл бұрын

    You may have just changed my life. Thanks Andy and the Crew.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @Hllee6428
    @Hllee6428 Жыл бұрын

    3 yrs Late but I finally get to see the face behind the voice that I kept listening to, in the Netflix Headspace series while tryna sleep…..Thank you so much Andy for sharing topics that hit so close to home. More people need to use Headspace.

  • @charmisutariya7060
    @charmisutariya70608 ай бұрын

    Thank you for making this video, Andy. I've watched this over and over again over all these years. It's been so healing. I'm grateful to you for sharing this 🥹💖

  • @ifheavenwashuman
    @ifheavenwashuman2 жыл бұрын

    I’m glad I can finally put a face to the voice, now. Love this guy, man.

  • @Renata-4love
    @Renata-4love4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Andy for share your beautiful soul ❤️🙏

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @colonelradec5956
    @colonelradec5956 Жыл бұрын

    Regret and guilt to me are totally understandable. And we probably should feel it, might even deserve it. but if you stay in it you can't make progress or movement forward. If you just sit there thinking "God I'm a pos" even if rightly so even if you deserve to feel that way you can't function moving forward. Also I believe the best way to atone is to do better moving forward. Like to be better. To be stronger. And carrying around 3000 pounds of guilt that's just not possible.

  • @monalucia2610
    @monalucia2610 Жыл бұрын

    I’m crying tears rn. I’m working through guilt from childhood up until now. It’s been a journey. Recently, I had a trigger that made some dark feelings resurface. This video was a blessing for me to come across. Thank you

  • @14hrslate47

    @14hrslate47

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too yo

  • @14hrslate47

    @14hrslate47

    Жыл бұрын

    How did you get past it and did you

  • @monalucia2610

    @monalucia2610

    Жыл бұрын

    @14hrslate47 I'm passed most of it now. Therapy and psychedelics got me through it. Also having a support team, even if it's just one person.

  • @monalucia2610

    @monalucia2610

    Жыл бұрын

    @14hrslate47 also taking care of my body...like doing yoga, eating healthy and staying as natural as possible helped rid my body of a lot of toxicity which helped my mind to be clearer

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.

  • @faiththeobald3318
    @faiththeobald33183 жыл бұрын

    When he said so many people are caught in that cycle for so long I felt that

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @alfrancis8

    @alfrancis8

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ryu7408 Interesting.

  • @captaingary7657
    @captaingary76574 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much 🟠 I listen to you every night to help me sleep and it always works so thank you so much

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @MagisterialVoyager
    @MagisterialVoyager4 жыл бұрын

    What a wonderful video. Thank you, Andy. Thank you, Headspace.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @bruhmoment-yt2zp
    @bruhmoment-yt2zp Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Andy you've always had a positive impact on me and each time I hear your voice I instantly relax.

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.

  • @saraifascinetto5437
    @saraifascinetto54372 жыл бұрын

    Once again, THANK YOU, ANDY. It's always reassuring listening to you, but seeing you too in those amazing places makes it far greater. Thank you all guys, behind the cameras too. Greetings from Mexico 🌺

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.

  • @TheLearningLounge
    @TheLearningLounge3 жыл бұрын

    He is good. Helpful. Wise and humble. Nice.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.p

  • @kayd_87
    @kayd_873 жыл бұрын

    He’s just great isn’t he 👍🏻 thanks Andy once again

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @purilaw.
    @purilaw.3 жыл бұрын

    "Learning from a journey, not giving myself a hard time." ❤

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @kirioes
    @kirioes2 ай бұрын

    I’ve done things a couple of years ago that i completely changed from, yet i still cannot let go because of the chance it comes back to bite me in the future.

  • @skdttu
    @skdttu2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Andy.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.q

  • @Claire.SageGreenCreative
    @Claire.SageGreenCreative2 жыл бұрын

    Guilt lives in my head rent free nearly 24/7 and I wish I could evict it ... agree with the other comments you in the wild is a wonderful experience!

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @Cardistian
    @Cardistian3 жыл бұрын

    15:33 🙏This was very profound for me & I can say that it is 1 of the most important tools/ways that I personally use to "let go" and leave those certain regrets & guilts where they are *AND WHERE THEY BELONG, which is IN THE PAST* ✌️😁Thank you HeadSpace & most of all 🙏 *Thank you Andy* 🙏

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.

  • @Chefin243
    @Chefin2434 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this amazing series! It's like therapy for me and I'm trying to take as much as possible from it!🤗

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.n

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.

  • @ryu7408
    @ryu74082 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.

  • @Mofo300
    @Mofo3004 жыл бұрын

    Simple let go 🟠 thank you

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.p

  • @waryful3
    @waryful34 жыл бұрын

    *_the way you talk, soothing.. calmly._*

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.q

  • @user-vf4ct5fy7h
    @user-vf4ct5fy7h2 жыл бұрын

    His voice is so sooting ♥️

  • @user-so4sv1dq4z

    @user-so4sv1dq4z

    4 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the one I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence, which I had once lost; again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "Yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.

  • @JohnnyJQuest
    @JohnnyJQuest7 ай бұрын

    Andy, I gotta admit its weird seeing the person behind the voice that's helped me get through some tough times. Glad they let you out after 7 years! Keep up the awesome work!

  • @rohan34
    @rohan34 Жыл бұрын

    the thing on expectation being actually in the past is beautifully said .. 😊😊

  • @Mosdefinitelyable
    @Mosdefinitelyable3 жыл бұрын

    I love him!!!! He really helped my meditation practice!

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @RuRu-gn7nf
    @RuRu-gn7nf2 жыл бұрын

    your voice is completely soothing i can keep hearing you all day long

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.p

  • @sj4267
    @sj42672 жыл бұрын

    This is so important. Forgiveness ourselves.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.q

  • @royalcityfc
    @royalcityfc Жыл бұрын

    Andy voice is ❤

  • @robbalink
    @robbalink3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, thank you, thank you. I can't say it enough for this video. I love all of your work but this one really helped me God bless you & yours

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @chickenandwaffles09
    @chickenandwaffles092 жыл бұрын

    I feel better tonight after listening to this, so thank you.

  • @12244635
    @122446353 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Andy. You are adding immeasurably to my enjoyment of life.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.n

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.I

  • @natalievarley2325
    @natalievarley23253 жыл бұрын

    I fell asleep listening to this. Your voice is so soothing 😌

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.p

  • @jackiedixon5076
    @jackiedixon5076 Жыл бұрын

    Life lessons is looking back at what I was. The guilt helped guide me to learn from those things that I was guilty of. And keeps me watching every new step that would be right choices and grow into a much better person committed to never making myself feel those times again that caused me so much painful. guilt.

  • @user-so4sv1dq4z

    @user-so4sv1dq4z

    4 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the one I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence, which I had once lost; again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "Yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.

  • @martjadex
    @martjadex3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Andy !

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.p

  • @danchisholm1
    @danchisholm12 ай бұрын

    andy thank you

  • @naomitamar4142
    @naomitamar41423 жыл бұрын

    Yes ABSOLUTELY POSSIBLE TO LET IT ALL GO...ITS BEAUTIFUL..ITS AMAZING...🕉

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.p

  • @tbastdgagitw
    @tbastdgagitw Жыл бұрын

    Thanks. That helped. You explained in a very natural way.

  • @maruillescas6608
    @maruillescas66083 жыл бұрын

    Andy ¿when are you coming back to this videos? I miss you. I love to hear you during meditation but I enjoy to feel you closer like this.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.p

  • @palmamingozzi5736
    @palmamingozzi5736 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @harjireza
    @harjireza4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Andy! You’ve been an inspiration to my life and I wish you and your family all the best and I hope you continue to help everyone and share your experiences. Hello from Canada! I keep looking forward to videos like this :)

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.n

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.

  • @pinksparkle1965love
    @pinksparkle1965love4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Angy ♡♡

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.q

  • @tjo1984
    @tjo1984 Жыл бұрын

    Outstanding. Thank you.

  • @weizhou5626
    @weizhou56262 жыл бұрын

    Wow! This video is epiphanic. It’s just what I need at the moment. Thanks, Andy!

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.I

  • @gerardfelix163
    @gerardfelix1633 жыл бұрын

    This felt very organic. Thank you, Headspace.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @gogetcreative88
    @gogetcreative884 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful. As always, so insightful, kind and helpful. Thank you so much.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @freeMinder
    @freeMinder Жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @acidtrip141596
    @acidtrip1415964 жыл бұрын

    I really needed this during lockdown.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.p

  • @coppersense999
    @coppersense9994 жыл бұрын

    No guilt. Don't judge others nor hold grudges. Practice abundant forgiveness (others and self)! One thing: be vigilant against toxic shame. Be free. :) Love longer talk from Andy, better than 30 seconds before a meditation (where I do actually picture him recording from a dark studio. So this is a relief to see and hear tbh Andy roaming free in the wild lol :). Ty!

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.n

  • @lindahebb4832
    @lindahebb4832 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for posting

  • @jessicalowther56
    @jessicalowther562 жыл бұрын

    This is gold thank you 😌 Watched a number of vids on the topic and this is really helping

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @aaronramsden1657
    @aaronramsden16572 жыл бұрын

    I've got an anxious attachment style and it's caused alot if trust issues, but I'm meditating everyday and I've noticed a big difference in how I can start to trust people more and just see my emotions as less threatening

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.p

  • @aaronramsden1657

    @aaronramsden1657

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ryu7408 thank you so much kind soul

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.I

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@aaronramsden1657Thank you my friend. I hope you and your close ones are well

  • @heatherwoodley8244
    @heatherwoodley8244 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful! Thanks so much ❤️

  • @eshapal_
    @eshapal_ Жыл бұрын

    I had attended a party last week and everyone hated me and I’ve never been hated on earlier. I always have experienced people telling me how they like me but at that party I got too drunk and those people would probably wouldn’t ever hangout with me again. I don’t want to feel this way ever again.

  • @garrethobbs8737
    @garrethobbs8737 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you. 🙏 Life brought me here because during a psychology lecture, I wanted to tell some one a fun fact but they started to talk about trauma and stuff. I did not know how to react and anyways, we said some things, she made a complaint about me and I was SO hard on myself even after I tried to apologise several times over Email. Thankfully, I found this video shortly after.

  • @aikoyonamine
    @aikoyonamine3 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate these seeds of wisdom from Andy! Thank you Headspace for making this happen!

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @Dankbudsupercrystals
    @Dankbudsupercrystals4 жыл бұрын

    Calm and collected as always. Don't know if it's asmr but I listen for like 3 minutes and I am out.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @low459
    @low4593 жыл бұрын

    Wow, super job. Much gratitude! I’d love to see people, (normal people) not celebs, who have these questions doing these small journeys with you. A first hand experience by those who use Headspace, walking through nature, meditating with them and answering their questions and sharing a life changing journey.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.n

  • @susydyson1750

    @susydyson1750

    Жыл бұрын

    celebs are also real people to ! the trouble is that because of fame they're now scrutinised by others

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.I

  • @missyangfire874
    @missyangfire8744 жыл бұрын

    Thankyou Andy. I needed to hear that. So badly

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.p

  • @edzanjero353
    @edzanjero3532 жыл бұрын

    The inability to "go back" and change the life-changing mistakes I've made is itself a cruelty. Being great mistakes, with deep regret, seems there ought to be a mechanism to undo it all. If the mistakes were indeed serious, why isn't it possible to undo them??

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.p

  • @edzanjero353

    @edzanjero353

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ryu7408 ...that is some great insight. Maybe I'll try that. I'm haunted every day.

  • @bijouxaddict
    @bijouxaddict4 жыл бұрын

    I love listening to Andy - love his accent! I feel like i'm watching "notting hill" with hugh grant only so much better :)

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.p

  • @arthurlockwood8735
    @arthurlockwood87358 ай бұрын

    Well done son my friend again great thanks

  • @johnmanno2052
    @johnmanno20523 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! This was very very helpful! Again, many thanks!

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @Far_Alfield
    @Far_Alfield3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks, Andy. This is insightful.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @luchervilla7214
    @luchervilla72147 ай бұрын

    Thank you, I was ready to hear and understand. Thank you 🙏

  • @Simon-je7ko
    @Simon-je7ko3 жыл бұрын

    I really needed this. Thank you so much. I was thinking about something all the time. Now I did watch this video. Now I did find peace. Now I can move on. I don't have what I wanted. But I am closer to my goals than I was yesterday.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.n

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.

  • @jaysamuelwright
    @jaysamuelwright4 жыл бұрын

    After an experience where I've felt wronged by another person, becoming aware of my own decisions to continue to allow that person to treat me in a way I didn't deserve was a tipping point to let go of resentment. Accepting that some things are out of our control is also liberating from regret.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.n

  • @RyuShinto

    @RyuShinto

    10 ай бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried deep feelings of guilt with me. Which have shifted again and again, as soon as I apologized to a person, for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself, for many years. Until I realized that the One I really needed to apologize to was myself. I tortured myself the most. So I apologize to myself for what I did to myself. And the intention to apologize is everything. So I find my innocence; which I had once lost. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And thus I do no harm to others. Because I am at peace with myself and thereby with the world. Therefore, apologize to yourself if you carry feelings of guilt with you. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts suffering and apologizing takes away suffering. "Anyway" and "yes" are the words that enable me to apologize to myself. Because I get impulses to get back into the hamster wheel of apologizing or torturing myself for certain things. But I say, "Yes, I'm apologizing to myself anyway." And I apologize to others when it's my free choice. And I use these two methods to do that. By either apologizing to people personally or apologizing to people within myself, if I don't want to make it personal. Because the honest intention is enough.

  • @francissantos1815
    @francissantos18153 жыл бұрын

    All I can is...thank you thank you THANK YOU!!!

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.p

  • @francissantos1815

    @francissantos1815

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ryu7408 Thank you! Your reply meant a great deal and I truly appreciate it!

  • @juliebexley5337
    @juliebexley53373 жыл бұрын

    Wow very powerful. I will take this on board and work with it. Thank you!

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @toutestpossiblegm7007
    @toutestpossiblegm70073 жыл бұрын

    thank you..

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.q

  • @acbarahona
    @acbarahona3 жыл бұрын

    Love this! Thank you!!!

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.p

  • @wewillwalkthroughwalls8763
    @wewillwalkthroughwalls87632 жыл бұрын

    This is amazing. Thank you so much.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.o

  • @heathersigmon3380
    @heathersigmon33802 жыл бұрын

    Thank You. Namaste 🤘🤙❤🤓

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.q

  • @someperson9052
    @someperson905211 ай бұрын

    Thank you Justin Gaethjie

  • @alwynnecartmell6602
    @alwynnecartmell66022 жыл бұрын

    Thank you ....

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.q

  • @einarclausen
    @einarclausen2 жыл бұрын

    Wow. Thank you so so much.

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.q

  • @tamalibutvs
    @tamalibutvs3 жыл бұрын

    Wauw. Amazing Andy. Thanks. ❤

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.p

  • @shaniyoung6506
    @shaniyoung6506 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks headscaper i did soemthing really regretful in florida a month ago and this video here helped me out a lot and please see my comment

  • @LuckySingh-uy8eg
    @LuckySingh-uy8eg4 жыл бұрын

    This helps me so much

  • @ryu7408

    @ryu7408

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm Sorry For many years, I carried a deep sense of guilt with me. Which kept shifted, as soon as I apologized to a person for something. I carried the guilt with me and tortured myself for many years. Until I realized, the only person I really needed to apologize to, was myself. I have tortured myself the most. So every day, I apologize to myself, for what I did to myself. This is how I find my innocence; that I once lost, again. And by apologizing to myself, I release my guilt. And so I don't do anything to others either. Because I am at peace with myself and therefore, with the world. Therefore, if you carry guilt with you, apologize to yourself. Because you can't torture yourself and apologize to yourself at the same time. Tormenting inflicts sorrow and apologizing takes away sorrow.p

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