"The worst they can say is no" never heard a bigger lie in my life

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, that's another bluepill saying people love to give. Realistically, no is definitely not the worst response you could get especially when you're unattractive lol

@sfrealestatedealmaker6001

Жыл бұрын

@@ascended266 Can you do a video on your hair transplant? Details, pricing, pain, etc.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

@@sfrealestatedealmaker6001 Yep, absolutely man! I will definitely be making videos of my hair transplants in the future and hopefully guiding others to make more of an informed decision on whether they want to go down that route. Thanks for watching!

@sfrealestatedealmaker6001

Жыл бұрын

@@ascended266 Just found your channel, we share the same path it’s amazing. I was 281 lbs 2 years ago (I’m at 198 now) used minoxidil, hit the gym, cleaned up my diet by tracking macros, cleaned up my eyebrows, monthly facials, skin care regiment, salon haircuts 2X a month, new wardrobe (since huge weight loss). I lost track of self improvement by working way too much on my biz and 100% neglected my body and appearance. I’m considering a light hair transplant as my hairline is slightly receding (I’m an older guy). I went from being treated like I was a homeless leper by society to now someone women literally stare and smile at. Apparently I have solid bone/jaw/facial structure underneath all that fat I once had. Keep your uploads going bro, it’s a great way to connect with other guys on the same journey as ours. 💪🏼 I’m in SF, Calif by the way. 👋🏼

@thomasscott199

Жыл бұрын

True! They take it as a slap in the face if you even talk to them.

I was treated like this before puberty, now I get all the attention I want but I would NEVER forget how I was treated.

@moesizlak2733

11 ай бұрын

I can sort of relate as well. during my puberty phase which was quite awkward I was deemed unattractive by most people in my year group it was sort of a mix between me being dark skin which was just pure racism and me being overweight but now that I have grown up and lost facial fat and take care of myself better than I did before I don’t get treated nowhere near as bad anymore

@ascended266

11 ай бұрын

That's awesome that you ascended. It feels good to be treated better but I always try to remember the rough times where I wasn't treated as well also.

@moesizlak2733

11 ай бұрын

@@ascended266 yeah I did improve my looks if I’m honest I’d put myself at a 5.5 out of 10 maybe 6 by simply losing body fat taking care of my beard and hairstyle as well as improving dress sense but I still feel like I have a long way to go particularly my physique since I’m still skinny fat. Also I can’t help but have regret to that I should’ve stuck up for myself especially since some of the people insulting or disrespecting me were sometimes way worse looking than me💀 but with that being said I don’t subscribe to the black pill but Lookism or pretty privilege is defo active in todays western society

@Vinicius-yl5oi

10 ай бұрын

I can relate as well. During puberty I was horrendous, didn't attract girls at all, although i could talk and maintain conversation to some of the girls from my class because they considered me funny, but I passed that phase in a desert. I grew up and things changed. I consider myself a improved normie, but now i passively attract a lot of girls, albeit being a manlet (which isn't such a big deal in my country, as the average male height is pretty small), but it's kinda of funny how treatment changed when I lost tons of weight i became overall more aesthetic pleasing as the time passed.

@jackiechun5817

9 ай бұрын

@thechosenone172 average height,7/10 stubbled out face, stocky-buff black guy...was treated like utter 🐕💩 at every period of my life where my weight and/or looks(hair, facial hair,and grooming) were lacking. Now, I get a decent amount of attention/interest, but I'll NEVER forget how they TREATED me...ever👀😒😒😒😒💯💯💯🧔🏾‍♂️

Women nowadays think that ANY male approach is "hitting on" her. And because of this, unfortunate sub 5 men will feel the wrath, because the woman will find it insulting that a "subpar" man hit on her. She thinks that HE thinks that they're on the same level. It's a harsh reality but it's true.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, true! When you couple that with the countless likes on IG, it's a recipe for thinking too highly of yourself.

@nelsonhibbert5267

Жыл бұрын

I went for a day out once (by myself 'cos I'm one of the ugliest men alive). I'm still friendly and say hello to people. I'd gone to some place where there was a church, and you could pay a small fee to go up the stairs to to the top of the tower (past the bells) and on to the roof. The view up there was pretty incredible (I took some nice photos). I'd been there 5 minutes when two ladies came up (I'm guessing a mother and daughter, mature adults). To take in the view from all four sides you had to make your way around the outer side. As I was passing them I remarked what a nice view it was. The older woman looked at me like I was absolute shit and said "yes, our husbands would love it up here". I knew what she meant by that, and I felt like telling her I was just being friendly and that if I was out to pick up women, this would be the last place I would go and I wouldn't try to pick her up 'cos she was old and had saggy tits. I decided against it and just went "yeah" and then left and made my way back downstairs. I wish this was an isolated incident, but I don't even try picking up women because I'm well aware of what I am. But I can't even say hello without people thinking I'm some kind of turd.

@targetegrat

Жыл бұрын

I was coming out of the grocery store and noticed that a woman dropped her credit card in the parking lot. So I said excuse me. She replied she wasn't interested and has a boyfriend. I then told her that she dropped her credit card and she looked so embarrassed. It was too funny to me. As a woman let me talk first so you can know whats going on don't assume I'm trying to date you.

@MIchaelSybi

Жыл бұрын

@@targetegrat It's a false premise all men always want sex from females. For the most of my life I didn't find women around me to be sexy enough, honestly. I think most women, besides tinder with makeup and stuff, are not that hot as they think they are. Hot are only 8-10, and it's the minority, one of 10 or even 20 women

@user-uc3qs1gx2d

5 ай бұрын

Same thing in the gym they call them gym creeps

I am a sub 3. My life has been loveless. So I surrounded myself with pets. Now 55, I feel lucky I have come to terms with me.

@ascended266

8 ай бұрын

Nice! I'm glad that you have come to terms with it.

@lluispoloisern677

2 ай бұрын

Pets wont judge or betray you, you are totally alright

@erikmalmberg7319

Ай бұрын

All girls who is normie only wants Chads and if an Sub5 just even lock at a chad girl they allmost be mad a u just if u only watch at them

@mattjek828

28 күн бұрын

@@lluispoloisern677that’s because pets don’t have a choice. You feed them so they stay with you. Owning pets is a form of Stockholm syndrome.

@paulnicolas172

21 күн бұрын

Can totally relate to this and and 55 myself but I’ve never really come to terms with it but just accept the way it is hoping that someday I’ll still meet someone but I doubt it if it hasn’t happened by now lol

This is the reality a lot of people live in, disrespect all the time

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Yep! I feel for them. I lived this for a few years and it sucked big time.

@beganitdidnt6535

Жыл бұрын

backhanded compliments gaslighting only being kept around so they can feel better about themselves there are so many cons being a subhuman

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

@@beganitdidnt6535 Ah yes! I can relate to all of these especially keeping you around so they can feel better about themselves while simultaneously ripping on you behind your back.

@beganitdidnt6535

Жыл бұрын

@@ascended266 leaving you out of things making inside jokes only they understand and of course making comments/jokes about you being single still and why u dont have a gf yet flexing with their gfs and material items always ruining/interrupting your moment to say something about themselves or their friends everytime i was proud of something that took me a long time to get like my gaming pc my friend will be like " well my friend has a gtx 4090 with 2 4k monitors" always making me feel like sht not waiting for you to tie your shoes leaving you behind never stand up for you if you make a mistake in public even it was an honest mistake friends are supposed to stand up for eachother but instead they cave in to the normies and take their side i can go on and on

@johnsampson6387

Жыл бұрын

@@beganitdidnt6535 Damn...I'm sorry, bro. I guess I'm lucky I've had some pretty good friends despite being a short guy or whatever.

Attractive men are constantly being reminded of how handsome they are, in real life and in social networks. If that doesn't happen to you, it's probably over.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Definitely! Looks are very objective for the most part. People will remind of you about how attractive you are on a daily basis unless you don't leave the house.

@balla4544

Ай бұрын

nah most people think attractive people are stuck on themselves. people have told me i think im better than other people. i say no im not better just better looking. ahah

@col8353

22 күн бұрын

@balla4544 source: trust me bro! 🤡

@Sidionian

22 күн бұрын

Happens to me all the time. I guess it began!

@samdonohoe9796

14 күн бұрын

What a load of shit, you guys love living in self loathing and delusional reality, if you're not a 10/10 or even a 6/10 it's not over

Women cross the street when i'm walking in front of them i'm sub 3/10, they see me as an ogre that would spread a disease over them.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that man! I know the feeling. It's brutal out there.

@OT_OTDway

Жыл бұрын

Cope. They don’t even notice your existence and never will

@masonsmith9619

Жыл бұрын

@@OT_OTDway damn someone has gotten 0 bitches

@glonl4334

Жыл бұрын

@@OT_OTDway brootal

@horsemeat5813

Жыл бұрын

Then work on yourself

Based on your life experiences your tall height wasn't an advantage. It didn't negate your sub 5 looks. The consensus is women prefer tall men. Women tend to say "I like taller guys" but that might be a generic response. If they don't find you attractive enough your tall height may be irrelevant. Regarding women ignoring you, that can apply to all men depending on the circumstances. If she's in a bad mood, on her period, moody etc she will ignore men. But it's more likely if she's finds you very unattractive.

@ascended266

10 ай бұрын

Great points Ray! When you're very unattractive physically, height won't help you too much especially if you're very overweight. If they don't think your face is that attractive, your height won't really make a difference with them.

@jackiechun5817

9 ай бұрын

@raygorf735 height is relative based in the vvoman. ALSO, being tall doesn't mean chit if you're sub5 face, awkward,and horribly obese/stick boney body. An AVERAGE height Chad/chadlite/Tyrone is STILL attractive despite NOT having height... BONUS points if he's buff/ripped/jacked/powerfully built👀😒😒💯💯💪🏾🧔🏾‍♂️

@jimjam8179

9 ай бұрын

Whereas there are some superficial women who are only fixated an a man's looks, I find that looks generally only constitute part of the equation of a man's attractiveness as far as women are concerned. Social dominance, intelligence, humour and practical capability are huge factors that can cause women to actually change their subconscious perception of how physically attractive a man is. I am 5'7, bald, and currently slightly overweight (though this fluctuates). I have been described by women as between a 5 and a 6 facially, but I seem to have very attractive eyes based on comments I receive. I've had 6 romantic partners within the last two years and don't seem to struggle now I understand that looks are only one factor in the more complex equation of what women find attractive. Now that I'm not defeating myself psychologically before even making a move, I'm finding comparative success. This is my experience for what it's worth.

@leoorthodox8866

8 ай бұрын

That’s very true I’m a 6’5 trucel . Height without good looks is nothing . Height is a big plus if you’re good looking .

@ichigotheg.o.a.t

8 ай бұрын

​@jimjam8179 this is my experience as well, except I'm not bald. I am 5 8, and I am slightly overweight, my eyes are attractive I'm told as well and I have very natural eye lashes they are long for some. reason but I have very broad shoulders. L and also this as well for some reason, idk why. I think god is fucking playing with me, tbh.

I love this man, my entire 20s were exactly like this

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Thanks man! It's brutal. I'm glad we share similar experiences so it takes the sting off of thinking "Is it just me that's getting this treatment?"

@026_mohibkhan3

4 ай бұрын

That's rough man

@bedadays1763

4 ай бұрын

Mate can you talk about glasses

@pantherman8719

Ай бұрын

Mine too lol.

If a wonan likes a man she will make it easy for him to talk to her.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Truth! Say it louder for the people in the back.

@beganitdidnt6535

Жыл бұрын

unfortunately most men are disney brained and think chasing her is the way if she not chasing you its over

@johnsampson6387

Жыл бұрын

I've literally had a couple women start the convo with me and she even kept it going when I didn't know what to say...or she will just stare at me while smiling and I can strike up a convo with her and usually it will go well. It's super rare for me (like once every couple of years), but it does happen sometimes (I imagine it happens a lot more for chads).

@beganitdidnt6535

Жыл бұрын

@@johnsampson6387 yeah same but i felt like i was their emotional tampon for the time being until chad texted them back or something

@johnsampson6387

Жыл бұрын

@@beganitdidnt6535 Yeah, probably. I didn't pursue it any further though. Didn't exchange contact info or anything. I was just sort of shocked that a woman would even bother talking to me when she didn't have to.

I'm not tall enough, rich enough, famous enough, thuggish enough, successful enough, athletic enough, or whatever enough. meh. I used to be upset about it - and then I came to the epiphany that whatever I do, whatever I have - it will never be enough. So wtf is the point? There isn't. It's liberating. I give them the same indifference and apathy they give me. All the time that I used to spend chasing girls, I switched it up to travel, gym, investments and foreign language. Eventually, I left the States. meh.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

That's awesome that you came to acceptance of your looks and your life. I go to the gym regularly and try to travel to places I want to see and it's helped my life tremendously. Thanks for watching!

As a man, no matter what anyone says to you. No one will care and youre expected to bear it. No matter what anyone did to hurt me , i keep going, to hell with them. For my soul and pride i dont quit and keep going

@balla4544

Ай бұрын

great way to think!

@SR-hf3hx

Ай бұрын

@@balla4544 I am the walking definition of exactly a 5 I've overachieved and underachieved in all areas of life. A female friend of mine is on my heart, I came here to give people hope

@ataarono

18 күн бұрын

@@balla4544 isn't pride a sin tho?

@balla4544

18 күн бұрын

@@ataarono so you are suppose to walk around unconfident in yourself?

@ataarono

17 күн бұрын

@@balla4544 not if you take pride in your humility :)

You know whats funny. People villainize the Black Pill and labelling it Women Hate when it is the exact opposite Before I was blue pilled, I did everything Disney and Feminists told me to do. Be confident, be funny, be smart and Just Shower bro Nothing worked and I would always get brutal rejections. One girl would just scream "Just fvck off" another girl once said as I walk past "Geeze I hate that guy, he stinks" A couple of rejections later, I discovered the black pill and something amazing happened. I found peace and calm. I understood why women treated me so badly and honestly I don't blame them. They are just doing whats best for them. The more I took the black pill the more calm I became. I stopped being angry at women and I flat out stopped approaching them. Its hard to explain but the way I walk now is that I put on headphones and I keep my eyes forward and I definitely avoid eye contact. When I'm in public transport and I see an open seat next to a pretty woman, I just opt to stand (in fact last year that happened and the woman breathed a sigh of relief). When I do grocery shopping I make sure to choose a male clerk. Honestly I can't wait for self check out. The black pill has allowed me to focus on my studies and hobbies.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Haha "just shower bro!" I'm glad you found peace and calmness in the blackpill. I found the same thing. When I was younger, I thought something was wrong with me whenever I got mistreated or rejected. But now looking back, I realize it was mostly looks and a few other factors but mostly looks. I'm glad you found time to focus on your hobbies!

@TheNegative1

Жыл бұрын

self check out for peace of mind

@MIchaelSybi

Жыл бұрын

I've been on dating sites on and off for some years. I'm 40, and I can tell the best years were when I was off searching for women, and just did stuff I really liked. Sports, learning some hobbies, education, and levelling up. Dating sites did me some fun, but it was all edgy and half-unpleasant, because how women treated me, calling me ugly right in the face, and still sleeping with me (wtf). Because women are not all joy and happiness, even if you're a chad. Just look at many famous people, and what they been through. For example, Johny Depp with Amber, who robbed and destroyed his career. What you did is independence, and there are spiritual practices, which do the same - completely cut all the wires of the outer world. When you put all your energy inside, rather than outside, you can become really powerful. I think avoiding women is right, I do the same, though I'm closer to normie. I still find that until you treat them neutrally, everything is fine, but when I try some game... fck it. I get despicable treatment I honestly tired of. As women is not something you can control, you can control what you want from them in your particular situation, and it can be different scenarios, which will be better than trying to live a chad's life, which is impossible, but is projected through all mass media

@Vv_rajesh

Жыл бұрын

Good for you , bro ...but honestly many incels ( me included ) find it difficult and verry verry mentally draining to come out of brainwashing by feminist media over the years abd the cultural re - enforcement that they have undegone , plus there are emotional blackmail by females in your family , trying to fuck up your mental health by constantly bringing out the topic of romance and love everytime they meet ...

@kaneda956

10 ай бұрын

Yeah i dont get that shit either.. its simply us men calling the dating scene for what it is..

Man, I've experienced so many of these things and never even thought about them. Especially the first one - thought they were just in a hurry most times lol

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Yep! All of these happen as a sub 5 male especially the first reason. It’s mostly subconscious. When you’re unattractive, most people don’t want to engage in conversation. Thanks for commenting!

@FellTreeZ

Жыл бұрын

@@AJ_Alliance Hope truly does delude a man lmao

@hanspeterfake3130

2 ай бұрын

Of cause you thought that. Most popular advice comes from popular people who just live in a complete different world than you and me… On another point, this positive inner voice has its perks since it keeps you going

I've had it where... being ignored by a woman, but not only that... other people around you (both men and women) will make fun of you; indirectly of course. I've had this happen on more than one occasion. Better to just stay home than go out. Bars, nightclubs, parties, concerts, etc. are all a waste of time if you're a loner incel loser as myself. Now I just drink alone and stay home. Seriously... phuk this world. lol

@ascended266

9 ай бұрын

Yeah, it can definitely be brutal going to bars and nightclubs as a sub 5 man. I've been there.

@bughesamiombu2909

8 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@computernerd8157

8 ай бұрын

Never car what other people think. I would maintain health as much as possible. I have bigger problems to wory about then dating but I find it all entertaining.

@jonbradley4044

14 күн бұрын

Nightclubs are a massive waste of time and especially money for not judt sub 5 guys, but really Sub 8 or even 9 guys. They are playgrounds for Chad, that's all there is to it.

This is where I’m confused because I’ve had one night stands with decently attractive women but also have had brutal rejections on first dates.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

I think the sole fact that you have had one night stands with decently attractive women probably puts you in at least the high tier normie range. Someone is not going to have a one night stand with you if they don't find you physically appealing. In terms of being rejected on first dates, I would need more context. With dating apps, some women are going on multiple dates a week so you're being compared to all of her options. She may have gone on a date with a better looking guy the previous night and you don't stack up to him. You alsomay look slightly different in real life as you do in our photos, that could be part of it or you could have been dealing with someone who was unstable. If you're going on a date, she had enough initial attraction to you to show up. In that case, It could be something that you said that put her off. Thanks for watching man!

@emgex

Жыл бұрын

Im bold, i go in and ask if she wants to smash.. Sometimes it works, sometimes i get called dumb pervert, sometimes they say like "with you??? No thanks eww" 🤣🤣

@tonydiesel3444

Жыл бұрын

There's another subject that is not talked about how women operate a certain time of the month will be attracted to different types of males they also get an itch sometimes they have to scratch and we'll grab a convenient dude at a bar or nightclub and give him the business I've seen it with my own two eyes

@tonydiesel3444

Жыл бұрын

(Will)

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

@@emgex Haha sometimes fortune favors the bold if you meet the looks threshold! Good for you man!

I remember going from glasses to contact lenses completely changed my life.

@ascended266

9 ай бұрын

Yeah, contacts can make a big difference!

@josephforest7605

8 күн бұрын

I recall going from bald to wearing a hairpiece and things got better .

I'd say I'm 5 or 6/10. I've had a few relationships and hookups but long droughts as well. Now in my early thirties, I'm starting to bald, and being 5'8 doesn't help. To avoid becoming a sub five, I'm going in for a hair transplant. I've also started wearing lifts and noticed women treat me differently when I do. The dating market is brutal out there.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Go for it man! I can say the 2 hair transplants I had improved every aspect of my life. Lifts can be a god send. I don't wear them often but I've noticed the same thing. When I wear them out to a bar or to an event, I definitely noticed the increased attraction.

@johnsampson6387

Жыл бұрын

What is the difference in treatment you've noticed? I'm 5'6" and also balding in my early 30s but I've basically given up so I don't bother with transplants or finasteride or wigs or lifts or anything. I've never had any relationships or hookups so it feels kinda pointless to looksmaxx (my only looksmaxx is dieting to prevent fatassmaxxing).

@nogoodusernames100

Жыл бұрын

@@johnsampson6387 I notice women were more likely to talk to me a few years ago when I had more hair, and are more likely to talk to me now when I wear a hat, so I think hair makes a difference. I think pretty much any man will look better with more hair. Not sure what your hair situation is, I'd start with finesteride and minoxidil. But if you hair loss is more advanced, I'd go for the hair transplant if you can afford it. As for heightmaxxing, lifts are pretty cheap and I think you'll notice a difference in how people treat you, it's totally worth it. I dietmaxx as well to get lean. I think with hair, increased height, and low body fat, you could definitely improve your looks. And even if you can't get a woman, at least you feel better looking at yourself in the mirror and people will treat you better in general.

@johnsampson6387

Жыл бұрын

@@nogoodusernames100 I get you, but I can't really be bothered. I was pretty much invisible anyways even when I was at my peak looks level (then again, I've never tried lifts). I've wondered before if my life would be significantly different if I was over 6 feet tall.

@cazimim3375

Жыл бұрын

What's the longest you've gone no fap no PMO un ironically ?

feel ya, glad u ascended bro 💙

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Thanks Vincent! I'm glad for you as well, living as a sub 5 male is brutal and ascending has been great.

@fuzzypanda1684

6 ай бұрын

@@ascended266 The real pain is when you put in the work to ascend, but still get the results of a sub 5.

One of the of the way to keep your dignity when sub5 is to dart out of conversation first and never initiate one. If a girl initiates one its because she is bored and you are in the area do small talk not to be rude but always leave women hanging cause they will when others enter.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

I hear you there. I have noticed that older women tend to strike up small talk when they are bored and you just happen to be there. They are not attracted to you as you're sub 5 but they are just super bored and might see you as someone they can rant to.

The good part is that if you don't have any severe facial or body deformation, you can still work on yourself, especially if you're young. And date girls from your league, it's another pro tip I give to you and try to get girls in real life, not on Tinder or any dating apps.

@brianmeen2158

10 күн бұрын

These guys obsessing over appearance are hurting themselves after a point. It’s always a good thing to exercise and take care of your body but to hyper focus on different Things like these guys go only hurts your self confidence. These guys then go into a conversation with a woman insecure and she can sense that from a mile away. She rejects him and he blames it on his looks lol.. so many of these guys just don’t know how read women and how to talk to and Engage with them . Looks so matter but they aren’t everything

@ovidiu8940

10 күн бұрын

@@brianmeen2158 yea, but a good look is like a good resume for a job, you will be considered, but you still need to make a good impression, this also applies in dating, a good look is only catching a woman's attention, but is not enough. And a good look gives you more options tbh

@facundogiuli571

5 күн бұрын

​Blackpill literally kills your confidence making things worse​@@brianmeen2158Im not ugly nor pretty and the only times I hit on a woman is just when im confident and talk to her like i dont care whyt she thinks

This is not a new phenomenon, however, it is a fast-growing issue. When I was in college in the early 80s, I got a part-time student job at my university with our gymnasium complex. About 50 or so students - half guys and half girls were brought together for orientation in the auditorium. About 5 guys were tall and really handsome. The others were average to below average, like me. I could hear a group of girls sitting behind me talking about who they were interested in. Of course, it was the few tall and handsome guys. All of us who worked in the building knew each other, and socialized with each other a lot as we got to know each other. Of course the top five guys had their way with about half of the girls who worked there. And many of the girls still would only date the tall and handsome guys. I was "friend-zoned" by a lot of the girls who worked there, and they would all talk about the handsome guys as if they had a chance to be girlfriend material. I got so tired of hearing these delusional girls talk, I would tell them honestly that the tall handsome dudes like lots of girls, and don't want them as a girlfriend. I was no longer "friend-zoned" because I was no longer their "friends". They could not take the real truth. This is like a small lab experiment of what is going on in a MUCH GREATER scale because social media has expanded a small group of people (like the 50 discussed) to thousands of people. I don't see this getting any better for sub 5 guys.

It's hard to tell whether or not I'm - or + 5 because dudes will say "looking good" and women will say stuff like "you have a great smile" but i feel like they are lying to be nice, but on the other hand i can't shake the feeling I'm just socially stunted af.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, sometimes it can be hard to tell where you fall on the looks scale. Most people won't tell you the hard truth about your looks and will tell you things like "You look great" and "You have a nice smile" to be nice and sometimes spare your feelings. Other times, they are saying those things genuinely.

So happy that you were able to bounce back from this stuff, man. You’re an inspiration to us all. I mean that. When I wasn’t confident in myself, I would’ve never had the balls to cold approach women like that. Honestly, I still don’t have the balls to cold approach women. I wait for hella strong choosing signals first 😂

@ascended266

2 ай бұрын

Thanks man! Yeah, strong choosing signals never lie.

Tbh the flat NO's are one of the more effective ways to let you know you need to level up. Pacifying the issue with hints or cues only makes it worse because the first step to solving a problem is looking it straight in the eye. It would be awesome if some girls would actually sit down and not be rude or filter but let you know exactly why you're being rejected.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I definitely respect women and just people in general that are honest and tell the cold hard truth sometimes. Thanks for watching!

@LeadLeftLeon

9 ай бұрын

Yep pleasant lies are feminine

Never expect validation from anyone and focus on yourself is the best way to be happy . There is no genuine love and people are with you by interest : money, genes ...that's the reality of life ...

@ataarono

18 күн бұрын

what would be genuine love exactly? can you even define it?

@evengraintech1397

13 күн бұрын

​@ataarono they're not there for you, they're there because you have something to offer. Once all of it goes, they do too.

@ataarono

13 күн бұрын

@@evengraintech1397 thats the definition?

@evengraintech1397

13 күн бұрын

@ataarono No sorry, genuine love would be the exact opposite of what I said. Still sticking around in your lowest, regardless of the fact that you don't have as much to offer.

@ataarono

13 күн бұрын

@@evengraintech1397 yes that makes sense, however you should also imagine all the different ways such a kind of love could turn even more depressing than the alternatives. 1-Just think of the worst imagineable ways someone loving another like that could be abused or even tortured. 2-then reverse it and think of the worst ways, such love could lead to deeply depraved action (possessiveness) The ability to let go may not be so bad after all

A woman will give you her eyes,if she’s attracted. “They look up at you.” Otherwise,she’ll avoid you altogether. I’ve experienced both.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Yep! I've experienced both as well. One is great feeling and the other is brutal. Thanks for watching!

For the geeks in this room: height is a multiplier, not a base. If you're 6 foot 2, (RTX 4090 gfx card) but you have a sub 5 face (your CPU is slow), you will still be experiencing stuttering and framerate issues in your game (you will still be getting rejected). However, if your CPU meets a certain base standard where the GPU can take over (you have a 6/10 face) then the height is gonna act into a looks multiplier where you might end up an 8 or even a 9 in the girl's eyes. However, if you're a 4/10 in the face and are 6 foot 2, you're still gonna be 4/10 to her, because your height cannot shine through when your face is unkissable. But a 6/10 face can bump up to 8/10 when you have good height. That's how height is factored into looks. It's a multiplier given a certain base. If that base is missing, no amount of height is gonna multiply by Zero to give you a net positive.

@ma_junia

20 күн бұрын

When height hits a certain lower point, it becomes a divider 😂

@ShoterOTP

2 күн бұрын

I'm actually 6'2 and a virgin !

@Sidionian

2 күн бұрын

@@ShoterOTP your face? Age? Body type?

@ShoterOTP

2 күн бұрын

@@Sidionian 27, slender body, got bald patches face normal I guess

@Sidionian

2 күн бұрын

@@ShoterOTP yeah you need to fix the hair... Either bald or if you can afford it, get transplant. 2k in Turkey... They are specialists. However, in the meantime, get a wig. These days girls will not notice it and it will look good... Go to professional wig makers or wig shop and they will sort you out. Can make you go from a sub 5 to high tier normie depending on face. Hair is often underestimated. But look at Ryan Gosling. 5/10 face becomes Chadlite because of excellent hair (+fit body +height). Definitely fix up the hair situation. You have no excuses. It's minimal invasive, doesn't cost much and easy to do with huge results. These days, there are no excuses to walk around with bad hair... Too many good solutions to just let it slide. Unless you are some superstar or celebrity with high status, having bad hair is inexcusable for a man these days... It will change your life.

You know you are a Sub 5 when even after you lose all the weight, even after you do sports and try to approach, people still look at you like you are some kind of bad joke. The only difference is that now people talk sht about me behind my back instead of going right up to me. Another truecel trait is, when every guy in your college finds a dancing partner for winter ball and ur the only one who is single and watches everyone else dance to slow music. Most alcohol I've ever had in my entire life, just to cope with the sadness of it all. That night literally killed off any type of self esteem or self respect. I would literally be a more confident and open person if I had spent the last year in a basement. Clown world. Glad you could escape the inceldom, the sheer hate I now feel whenever someone tells me "that all is fair in love and war" and "I'll find the one" is unbearable to the point where I broke off any friendships because people were bringing it up and rubbing further salt into open wounds.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Damn man, sorry you had to go through that! At some point, I'd like to have a series called "Slapped by the blackpill" where people can come on and share a story of a difficult experience that they went through.. "I'll find the one" is just a Disney phrase that your parents will tell you to make you feel better. Thanks for watching man!

@raees2473

Жыл бұрын

Oh shit sorry about that man, I thought everyone(with no big deformities) become attractive when losing weight. I lost around 60kgs weight over the years

@nelsonhibbert5267

Жыл бұрын

I've had similar experiences, but I'm a skinny nice guy, which appears to be a particularly bad combination. try not to let it get you down (this can be extremely difficult at times). You can still enjoy life, but just in a different way. Find a hobby or something to be passionate about. Many things can be done alone. I still go out to places and enjoy the outdoors and things, and go to restaurants by myself (this can feel strange the first few times, take a book or magazine). I was the only person in college not to go to the ball, as nobody wanted to go with me. You're not the only one my friend, I hope you find some peace in the world and with yourself.

@fuzzypanda1684

6 ай бұрын

Dude, I'm right there with you. I used to be super skinny, shy, unconfident and introverted, and obviously did terribly with women. I spent YEARS dedicated to transforming myself into a guy with a physique like Thor, and successfully did so. This also made my face a lot more attractive as I now have a strong jawline and visible cheekbones. Aside from the physical changes, I'm now leagues more confident, charismatic, outgoing and social than I was before. Yet... I do no better with girls. Sure they smile, giggle, make eye contact and even do the thing where they glance between my eyes and lips, but any time I show interest, they do a complete 180 and avoid me like the plague. It doesn't help that whenever I go out, I get looks, stares and even double takes. FFS, I've ran into girls coming into or out of a store where we surprised each other and seen them visibly mouth "wow" as they involuntarily check me out head to toe. Doing terribly with women when you're unattractive and unconfident is one thing. But doing terribly with women after you've successfully become the embodiment of what women should be drooling over is just plain cruel. Add to it the fact that every day you see average AF guys with incredibly hot girls, or see girls that rejected you with guys several numbers below you, and it's almost too much to take sometimes.

@MrStinkels

3 ай бұрын

​@raees2473 thats just dumb. Millions of skinny ugly guys are truecels

I've always been rejected and never had a one night stand, as a matter of fact I've never been with any women in my life and now I'm over 50. I guess I must be a Sub5, I always thought it was my fault but I guess this is my fault for being a Sub5 I guess.........

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear Eko! It's basic biology at the end of the day. Thanks for watching!

@andysmoo3448

Ай бұрын

Thats the spirit...

@caterinadelgalles8783

18 күн бұрын

As a woman, u got to act confident. Good luck!

@florianb3935

3 күн бұрын

@@caterinadelgalles8783 BS. Confidence comes with success 🙄 Confidence without knowing what you're doing is called arrogance, and only stupid people won't notice it. As a woman, you want confidence, because it means that he's good at seduction. Meaning he has a lot of experience. Of course if he then plays with you, it's because men are assholes, never because of your choices. Exactly like if us men picked only ultra attractive girls with body counts in the thousands, then to complain that "women are just treating us like another body".

Guys, you know if you are Sub5 or not you just need to stop lying to yourself.

Listening to your experience which also happened to me a long time ago, I'm truly sad to hear them...Well,the main thing is take a really good care about yourself... Don't even care about anybody else but yourself....🙂🙂!!

Chadlite always had a baseline level of confidence. Few repulsive male 3’s will roll up on a girl he thinks is an 8. A 5 point jump is impressive. Many guys can’t manage 2 and feel “lucky” if they pull off 1

@ascended266

9 ай бұрын

Yeah, I always had a decent level of confidence although it definitely fluctuated from time to time.

@fuzzypanda1684

6 ай бұрын

I don't know man, I see lots of 4-6 guys who are with absolute stunners, I'm talking 8-9's. Hell, just today a girl at my gym who rejected me a while back is now with one of those guys. He's a 4, and she's a hard 9. I'm not a 9, but I'm easily an 8 just based off my physique and face alone. She legit rejected a guy with a physique like Thor and a face like Colin Farrell (the most common comparison I get), for a guy with an average body and a below average face.

@lornocford6482

4 ай бұрын

​@@fuzzypanda1684she most likely went for the personality that she liked. Is her man confident? Is he smiley?

@user-wj6dt5bq3w

Ай бұрын

I disagree. Many Chad-lite were sub-5 at the beginning of puberty, they started low and got better looking as they aged, but its often too late since they've endured their share of feeling ugly and being rejected before getting better looking. It takes a long time to increase their confidence from where they started.

Believe me i know i am sub for many years now but i also know there is NOTHING i can do to change that. The only thing i can do is to do whatever i can to move forward with the consequences as well as the side effects and the collateral damages this has of course.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

That's a positive mindset to have. There are things you can do to improve your appearance but sometimes accepting certain things for how they are is what's healthiest. Thanks for watching!

@furiooo

Жыл бұрын

malik willis top 10 next year

@GHC2US777

11 ай бұрын

Spartan Mindset💪🏾

one of the hugest game changers for me anyway was when i got to the level of being able to speak every thought how i wanted to express it and by that time i had enough vocabulary and more to say whatever i thought clearly and understandably. i never had to feel frustrated from there trying to get people to understand and vice versa what i would say when i knew also to scale back, simplify the words and whoever you talked to understood you perfect. when you also want to be clear how you're speaking to another, that also sharpens your ability to listen and try to get what that person is trying to say as well. that's an underrated skill and it could change many of these cases for the better, imo.

While I've always judged myself a 4 or a 5 but I've either never experienced summary rejection on this scale.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Consider yourself lucky! Lol

Thanks for a tip I am definitely a sub5, maybe sub3, because like you I've faced rejection and got my existence being ignored, but also never got into any sort of relationships with opposite gender. Not in HS, not in uni and now I am just as invisible as I never existed in the first place At least now I know that's the end

@varuntripathi8712

Жыл бұрын

Over Girls always approach chads for their seeds.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching Nurtay!

@UserRobot215

Жыл бұрын

As a fellow sub4, I understand 👍

@nelsonhibbert5267

Жыл бұрын

Plenty of us out here Nurtay. I remember in my teens and early twenties going to the cinema alone, and I would see these guys with their girlfriends holding hands and having a good time. I used to wonder "what must that be like?". I will never know how it feels to have experienced that at that age. I've no clue if that's a good or a bad thing. But I take comfort in knowing I'm not the only one.

@muhammadhuzaifahmohamedsal2697

Жыл бұрын

@@nelsonhibbert5267 hey same. I fell in love with the John Wick series after randomly going to the cinema alone (my friends were all in relationships or busy at the time) and randomly choosing a movie to watch which happened to be John Wick. Have been going to see every John Wick release alone now. Im in my 30's and till today I would do window shopping, eat ice cream, watch movies, eat at restaurants alone. Im used to it. Although sometimes it does hurt seeing men with families or kids younger than me with a significant other. I will never experience love from a woman or understand how it feels. It is what it is.

I am a woman and I avoid all women who are this shallow. I subscribed to support you ❤

@ataarono

18 күн бұрын

isn't that also a bit shallow?

@SeTBAck-j9l

16 күн бұрын

It’s biological

@ascended266

13 күн бұрын

Thank you Caterina :) you're a gem

@BattleGoatron

3 күн бұрын

Yeah more like male or other gender soul with female body and avoiding all women

@user-vv6qk3sg8k

14 сағат бұрын

No its not its shallow. ​@SeTBAck-j9l

I'm probably an 8, but I have never had the confidence to do the things you've done because I have very bad social anxiety. You probably didn't expect anyone in the comments to say this but I was envious listening to your experiences because I didn't even have the ability to try. My life has been really terrible, not because I've been rejected, but because I couldn't even try. I'm really impressed by how much confidence you had, dating in high school, chatting with girls after class and at bars. Your voice sounds very confident for someone who claims he was sub-5.

I logged in just to say this lad, dont get to caught up by sub 5 and all the nonsence. I have felt all these crushing things and girls can just be brutal in general. You have my exact outlook and u observe the situation and actually look from the girls perspectives. Smart man and it worked for me. U will attract a nice girl If u havent already peace. Edit: Ya u did it again. Good man empathy is a strong tool to help us understand. I know dateing is fucked atm but guys do also set a bad standerds and there guards are up for all dudes.

Im 6'2" and handsome but have PTSD and anxiety that is literally crippling. I get choosing signals everywhere I go... but never approach. Never. I often wish I was invisible like a sub 5 because the feeling of trifecta of "damn she was fine", "she wanted me to say something", and "I just ignored her like I always do" is incredibly depressing. All it takes is one trip to a Walgreens or something to ruin my day.

@ascended266

10 ай бұрын

Try putting yourself out there in little ways. I struggled with this after losing weight too. I had to remind myself that I'm not overweight anymore. If you're 6'2 and good looking, most girls will be open to conversation.

@KanjiEngKorean

9 ай бұрын

I'm 6'2 as well but not handsome, I get no attention from women sadly. Wanna trade? 😂

@Fogwell94

8 ай бұрын

I am 6'3, big and muscular but ugly and bald. Height doesn't matter that much when you are ugly tbh and I also have a s dick which likely makes me a sub 3 xD

@blackmojoking820

8 ай бұрын

You could fix those issues with therapy. Trust me you don't want to be a sub5. The only only thing that's stopping me from ropemaxxing is the fear of ending up in eternal damnation. I was conceived and then it was over. It never began for me.

@trollingtv7132

8 ай бұрын

Try talking to waitress bro

I am deathly afraid to approach women because of rejection. I just wait for a chance for them to approach me. This is how I met my girlfriends and wife.

What hits me the hardest is that at times this guys voice starts to sound like he´s about to cry while telling the story. Like he´s still not really over it, despite talking about having leveled up in that regard. This hits me hard because it´s the same for me I guess. I was the guy that had women change the lanes of the road just to avoid walking past me or change their seat because I took the one beside them, not even starting to talk about the other stuff you mentioned, most of the time I didn´t even get there tbh. And now I seem to have leveled up too since about 6 months or something (lost 50kg of weight, hit the gym for a 1 1/2 to 2 hours workout every day for the last 6 months), I still can´t really believe it at all. After having women change lanes in the street so they don´t have to get to close to me, I can´t believe that now (really beautiful) girls 10 years younger than myself started to throw themselves at me, my mind always tries to find something else that they could possibly want from me (and mostly my mind will find something else, like " very aggressive marketing" for the girls that work at the gym). We might have leveled up our looks and bodys, but our minds somehow are still sub5s. 😅

@knlzz6024

5 ай бұрын

yeah i feel you i was maybe a 5/10 in high school for the most part but with gym and maturing and growing into my looks as well as the fact that ive grown to be 6'4 has meant im maybe a 7 or 8 in my second year of college means that i get a decent amount of female attention but my mindset hasnt evolved from when i was less attractive

Brutal how hard can it be to cope with these situations as a sub 5, these situations might be a good reason to stay Locked up in the basement for many guys

Was extremely overweight and sub5 of course. Was chasing after a friend of my friends and respectfully made my intentions clear with her and then respect her no, not bothering her again. Came across with her during a birthday party of a friend’s wife and our only interaction was me waiving back when she waived as she was sitting on the lap of a guy she just met. She couldn’t handle me being classy and respectful. Fast forward to two drinks later, she accused me of being a p-file when I told to both my married friends that their child is a blessing from god and will be as beautiful as they both are. They knew that I value family and children but the beach apparently gathered her friends in order to frame me as such a person. Now we’re cool with my friends but then, before the husband and friend of mine discovered what was done, he wanted to cl1p me, and of course I understand as it would be what I’d do if somebody touches or has the intention to touch any non adult. So yeah. Saying no is the BEST and BLESSED scenario if you are sub5.

@1:11 I know this guy. You nailed it, he belongs in this video.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Haha wait, you know this guy in real life?

@rocatanski

Жыл бұрын

Yes I worked with him for 3 years

What I've come to learn from your videos is that looks do matter and it's never too late to start improving. That bullshit of "don't be superficial" is way overdue. One can cultivate looks, character, charisma and wisdom and not be reduced to either of those traits.

@fuzzypanda1684

6 ай бұрын

This is true, but even when you commit yourself to improving your looks, charisma and confidence, there is a chance that you will still experience the same results as you did before. The chance is very small, but it's there. And trust me, failing with girls when you're not in shape, not attractive, have no confidence and no charisma is much easier to accept than failing with girls when you have a physique like Thor, are very attractive, and have lots of confidence and charisma.

@steaustin8789

5 ай бұрын

It's the hope that kills you.

For some of us it's more like "The best she can say is no."

If you're a sub5 male you're in the territory where approaching women actually becomes dangerous for the male. I can speak from experience. Being a sub5 male is very difficult place to be.

@leonnaranjo8682

Ай бұрын

I'm not a sub 5, I'm a solid 8 and women do like me but I just can't approach them anymore. I speak my mind so freely and treat every women like I'm talking to a man and that gets me in trouble ALOT. Anyway already been falsely accused and had rumors made about me which I heard through the grapevine. I grew up with only female friends them after puberty I changed as every dude does. I will never ever approach a woman again even if they like me a lot, I just won't risk it. The Me too movement ruined it cause I would just say anything that came to mind and women would laugh but now I would prefer not to talk to anyone. I'm done with people in general

My case is a weird one! I recently moved to portugal. My success rate on getting phone numbers after cold approaching is around 80% but they almost never reply when i text them. Only one has replied so far.

@johnsampson6387

Жыл бұрын

Getting some friendly small talk and a phone number from a woman doesn't tend to mean much nowadays, unfortunately.

@hiphopuniverse1041

Жыл бұрын

@@johnsampson6387 that’s what I’ve noticed. The game is changing faster to the worse

@-whackd

Жыл бұрын

I think it's normal to turn about 10 phone numbers into 1 solid date that meets up.

@GUITARTIME2024

23 күн бұрын

Thays just them being polite. Also, who knows if the number is good. Just give YOUR number.

I face it before. It's hurt, very hurt. Even I thinking about ,"Am I doing a very bad crime before?"

I'm sure glad to hear that you were able to level up your looks. This is not just good for you, but for everyone. Not all of us can have our flaws corrected, sadly. Cosmetic medicine keeps pushing the boundaries of what can be corrected and improved, but not fast enough for my lifetime. oh well.

@florianb3935

3 күн бұрын

Cosmetic is not helping, it's just pushing the average up. Look at South Korea. If you lived there, you'd probably reject girls who are an 8 in the US (but the reality is that so much is fake in them, from their modified body, the fashion that creates shapes that don't exist, to what they say think and how they make you feel, that you may actually be right in thinking that she's not good enough to date). That's also why looksmaxing is not actually good for the society overall IMHO. It just puts more focus on the appearance, and increases the average efforts that men need to put on that, instead of human decency, personal achievement, happiness, etc. and that's how you get guys dating hot girls who are trash, and vice versa.

They always said that if a female is blushing and looking down that they like you but there just shy but it could also mean that they feel awkward you or there uncomfortable

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, both can be true. Typically if they are looking down and blushing, they will look back up at you and smile and engage in banter. If they look down and not engage or ask any questions, she is not.

@exxtra4879

Жыл бұрын

Yea it happens to me because my eyes are lifeless. Close friends said I was intimidating even. It’s how I naturally look

“But it’s all about confidence bro “ - good looking people that have no idea.

Pure eugenics

Brutal! "Worst she can say is no" 🙄

@ascended266

8 ай бұрын

Haha brutal!

Your problem in the beginning was in both of those examples, you approached those girls from behind. Do not do that. I've done it before too and the girl looked at me like I was crazy.

@Mannypacquia0

2 ай бұрын

Lol let's be honest, so if he approached them from front properly, looking like Danny devito with insane confidence, those women would have had sex with him is that right? Or say he was a model looking guy approached them from behind super awkward, who gets the girl in this scenario? If a woman doesnt find you attractive, and she finds you ugly, you can approach her super correctly, confidently, won't do shit for that guy.

I feel for guys who get treated like this, I don’t think this has ever happened to me before. I didn’t realize how privileged I am in the looks department

I totally get it, it happened to me several time, but I'm actually in a band🎸 when the females find that out their attitude changes and become more polite to me....🤷🏽

9 ай бұрын

STAGE FX is real af

@ascended266

9 ай бұрын

Ah very nice! I have a buddy of mine that is a musician and has told me that women perk up when they find out.

Brutally Over When Beckies and Stacies give the Anime Death Stare @4:26

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

"Just be confident bro and hit the gym." Haha for sure! Thanks for watching man!

This explains why iam the most funniest guy in the room but always been ignored

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

"Women love a guy that can make them laugh." Haha thanks for watching!

@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485

Жыл бұрын

Jestermaxing

@KohzmikYT

Жыл бұрын

Dont jestermaxx

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

@@KohzmikYT I second this.

@ayomane4559

Жыл бұрын

If you are beautiful you are already funny

Still waiting for the details about your ascension and what changed about your personal/social life.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely! I will be making those videos in the near future. I'll be very busy with work the next couple of weeks but they are coming! Thanks for watching!

I mean. Height alone isn't gonna bring you ladies. I'm 6'2, and have been treated weirdly by girls throughout my life. It's very funny to me to see some guy who's 5'10 complain about not being tall. Height is more like a happy bonus to looking good. Not the sole reason for being chosen.

I'm planning on approaching 1000 women starting next week. I'll keep a journal of my experiences and use this video to see how many of these rejections I personally experience.

@ChaosRUsEnt

Жыл бұрын

PUA Roaches are cheering you on.

@simplatory802

Жыл бұрын

Hey I wanna do the same. Do you wanna collaborate via discord?

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Good luck David! Give us an update on how it goes. I remember my daygame pickup days lol had some success, some failure.

@gabriellang7998

Жыл бұрын

Do you have some money saved for a potential bail out when they will call blue simps on you for harassment?

@andreyzhuchkov1882

9 ай бұрын

so how did it go

If she is not give you the same spirit move on.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Agreed!

I’m 5’6 and average to slightly above average facially and build wise, lots of women find me cute though realistically I’m a 6 with potential to be a 7 if I was to get a great physique going. Before I turned 24 on a good day it was quite hard but mostly downright brutal for me with the rejections and stuff I faced, I was a very late bloomer with a scrawny and small build. But since growing a beard, getting in okay shape alongside now having a stockier build and frame with broad shoulders and taking care of my appearance it’s been game changing. Plenty of the women I’ve dated or been with have been well outside my league, I tend to attract women in the 5’3-5’8 crowd the most and find shorter women or women my age (28) to be the pickiest with height where as the rest really don’t care. Shortest I’ve dated so far is 5’0 tallest was 6’3.

Can you make a video on how to know if you are attractive male?

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Yes! I will be making a video on this in the next week or so.

That was rough to listen to

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I tried to really use my own reference experience to highlight the 5 main ways to tell if you're a sub 5. Thanks for watching!

Glad you did the transplant and lost weight, and can now Tell this stories Just knowing It IS what It IS. Women deal the Man in front of them, we are the ones that deal with "masculinity" day after day. Sheers!

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Thanks man! Yes, it definitely helps having experienced both sides of the looks coin. Cheers!

@jackiechun5817

9 ай бұрын

Also, 1 of the biggest things is he got his facial hair game on point

How about if cashiers, barista, employees where their job is to smile, make eye contact and be nice to you. Do you guys still get smiles, eye contact or what happens? Curious as to what happens with sub 5s

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

When I was very overweight and bald, cashiers would barely look at me and almost never smile. That was my overall experience.

I am halfway between normie and chad and all I can say that charisma plays a major role in how things work out with women, I would not take them too seriously. If they fail to recognize the value in you, they dont even deserve you in the first place, dont let your mere appearance make you judge yourself, set your goals higher.

How to Know if you are a Sub 5 male: She will always ignore you and she will always say "No" to You.

@ascended266

9 ай бұрын

TRUTH

I dont think im a sub 5. Because ive never had any of that happen to me. All i get are soft rejections tbh. Normally they are all smiley and bubbly when i ask them. Then ghost me when i follow up. They arent disgusted by me. But they are far from interested in me. In fact, there was this one girl that tried to use me as a tutor or something in Calc 3 in college. She was absolutely my type. Easy 7 /10 Blonde, blue eyes, bubbly personality, and some tig ol bitties and she was going to be a mechanical engineer like me. But she must have thought i was really smart or something, because we would always talk after class and even have hour long study sessions before every class. I really thought she was interested in me, so i asked her on a date a week or so before grades came in. But got a harsh, "I think we should just be friends from her." Whats funny though, she didnt even get anything out of me. She still failed the class. And i passed it. XD

@ascended266

10 ай бұрын

Ahh the good ol' friendzone line! Lol

@Fogwell94

8 ай бұрын

You are likely in the ofyy doofy category

@ChefofWar33

8 ай бұрын

@@Fogwell94 Maybe. But I'm not a simp, so it doesn't line up. Maybe if I was a true offy doofy, I would get more bitches. Or at least a pitty hand job ffs.

@antony6799

8 ай бұрын

Lol just learn game and you'll do better, from your description you clearly aren't unattractive, just improve on your game and probably your confidence

@ChefofWar33

8 ай бұрын

@antony6799 Yah. Wheat Waffles rated me a 5/10 but said I had potential for a 6 or 7 if i took better photos, my acne wasnt flairing up, and the lighting wasnt so shit. I took some real shit photos tbh. Because i dont like taking pictures of myself. I dont like seeing my own face. But other people dont seem to mind.You are right of course about confidence and game. I always have people ask who the lucky lady is, but when I tell them I've never had a girlfriend or anything, they are shocked. I guess, they think it's shocking for someone who has a decent build, 5ft 11 dark hair, blue eyes to never have had a girlfriend. But I'm just too shy.

Used to be sub 5. I was 285lbs, not very tall, didnt have good hygiene, didnt shave and just didnt gaf about how i looked. Started taking care of myself, lost all the weight now sitting at 160ish pounds, started wearing cologne and currently now just trying to stay fresh and hygienic. Now im still a virgin but i noticed i have so much more attention from women than i ever have and im still adjusting to it. If youre worried about how you look, do something about it now while youre still young because you will thank yourself in the future

It kind of sucks that we even had a ranking system for looks in the first place.

people talk about approaching women and talking to them as a sub 5 and then getting treated badly, so i must be true subhuman because women have literally feared for their life and have panic attacks and try to escape me just because i was in the vicinity. this is what brutally blackpilled me the most and i just now stay indoors and got more and more bitter and have real thoughts of hurting people because this sort of treatment is horrible and make me feel like a leper. let alone ever approaching a woman, i am not stupid enough to do that, it's already problem if i have to interact with women for services because then there always the chance of ending up jail.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Damn sorry to hear that! I would look to hobbies that can give you some level of purpose. Hiking has really helped me over the years. Something about getting outdoors into nature is very therapeutic. It's easier said than done. Good luck man!

@T.R.A.I.N.I.N.G.

Жыл бұрын

@@ascended266 thank you for reply, i have some hobby like blackpill, and discussing blackpill topics, and i also want to be a gymnast.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

@@T.R.A.I.N.I.N.G. Nice man! That's good to hear. I find that the more I focus on hobbies, the happier I am.

@T.R.A.I.N.I.N.G.

Жыл бұрын

@@ascended266 true happiness is only if you find the good girlfriend, not even being good looking and getting a lot of tinder matches compares to that.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

@@T.R.A.I.N.I.N.G. I've been in some relationships with good quality women and it definitely does bring you happiness. I can agree with you there. Getting a lot of tinder matches feels good also but it doesn't exactly compare.

I tend not to go along with ratings charts because looks are subjective there are people who physically are not very much to look at but they still are able to find partners I think when it comes to dating you have to practical with your choices taking into consideration what you were given/have

@Isipdirtydrugs

7 ай бұрын

Your old that’s why old women are in it for money

5:21 damn that was brutal wtf 😭😭

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Yep! It was a brutal rejection to experience. Thanks for watching!

Tapping people on the shoulder u don’t know is weird champ

That's wierd. After I looksmaxxed, I was on my way home and I noticed a girl from my uni at a bus stop. I went up to her to say hi and potentially make a new friend or maybe ons later down the road. I shook her hand, we had a decent convo. She was kinda shy, but when I started talking she kinda was smiling and trying to hide her smile or whatever. Next time I saw her at uni I went up again, asked her what's up and all that. We were talking for 20 seconds maybe, then she saw her friend and darted from me to her. And I'm not that bad looking dude, judging by how women treat me and people in general I'd say I fall anywhere from a 6 to a 7.5. So that interaction left me pretty confused

@ascended266

10 ай бұрын

Hmm yeah that's interesting. It's possible that she could have been being friendly in that initial interaction and wasn't very interested. She may have had slight interest but nothing too substantial. When you went up the second time, she may have darted away because she didn't want to get sucked into another conversation or she may have been in a rush the second time, who knows.

@jackiechun5817

9 ай бұрын

@iamtakingapiss7916 either 1 or these 2 things 1) you came off weird, awkward,and have ZERO Convo skills. 2) you're a 7-7.5/10 so your looks made her VERY nervous and intimidated so she HAD TO find some excuse to escape your vicinity bc again you're too good looking in her mind bc she's VERY insecure. I'm a solid 7-8/10(facewise) Tyrone and I've had this effect on some 🐦 too,homie.🤔💯💯💯💪🏾🧔🏾‍♂️

@cokta006

8 ай бұрын

​@@jackiechun5817less go tyrone

@GUITARTIME2024

23 күн бұрын

Why shake her hand? Thats odd and businesslike. Also, she just wasn't interested. Forget guys saying, "She was intimidated". With future girls, you chat 5 minutes then give your number. That's it. She'll contact if interested, and dont approach if you gave number but she never contacted you. Keep moving.

@StudyingManually

14 күн бұрын

​@@GUITARTIME2024Bs. I talk to a variety of women and never ask for their phone number. I do not need dates or se*.

I wish we could turn around every gender for just one day so they know what it feels like to get rejected how they reject us. Theyve called me a creep, made me feel horrible, made me cry And I'm like a 7 out of 10 or a bit more in real life

@Suhrvivor

Жыл бұрын

A 7/10 translated to female gaze is like a 5 or a 4. Imagine the rest of us sub5s. Absolutely brutal.

@profound369

Жыл бұрын

@@Suhrvivor solution seems to be go get a wife in another country

@Suhrvivor

Жыл бұрын

@@profound369 That's just betabux + JBW, also you'll have to either live in a shithole country or move back, bring her and get divorce-graped.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

I hear ya man! Being a 7/10 is a great place to be though. Most men are nowhere near that range so you have that going for you.

@thesquad2253

11 ай бұрын

@@profound369 foreign ppl kick ass theyre way friendlier and not all bitter like Americans

Bro has been through it

Sub 5 life sucks man 😢 when it comes to dating this guy sounds like he’s about to cry I’ve been rejected to girls as a teenager and woman in my 20s this video just makes me feel sad but true

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching man! Yeah, it was definitely brutal to go through these experiences but I can look back with a humorous lense.

@xdrazormon454

5 ай бұрын

@@ascended266Oh so it’s you late reply and apologize for late notice, you most be a trucel man if you’ve joined the Incel community

I'm 3/10, it's over.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, if you're a 3/10 it's going to be very tough. You can definitely still live a happy life but it may not consist of a plethora of women. Thanks for watching!

@CamelCasee

Жыл бұрын

@@ascended266 No point in living if I can't settle down with a girl.

@jakaryreason8696

Жыл бұрын

​@@CamelCasee Get some money and hit the gym.Improve your clothing. Women love money clothes,muscles and confidence.

@CamelCasee

Жыл бұрын

@@jakaryreason8696 I've been doing the gym for a while now, no changes.

@SurvivalGames1

11 ай бұрын

@@CamelCasee surgerymaxx

What if you're short, fat and bald?

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

That would be a very brutal combination to say the least. You could always try to losing weight and getting in shape. As for being bald, there's hair transplants, hair systems, Propecia, etc. Each have their pros and cons. Height is probably the hardest one to overcome.

@ericlarousse1149

Жыл бұрын

Still plenty of chicks.

@ZA56AA

Жыл бұрын

I have the first not the other two and I am ensuring you that's enough to be permanently invisible. In reality it doesn't really matter for the other two. If you are going to lose weight and exercise you will do it for you. For a better health.

@johnsampson6387

Жыл бұрын

@@ZA56AA Yeah, I've always been a short guy, I was always skinny when I was younger with thick beautiful hair and I still never got a gf. That being said, it's probably still nice to not be fat and balding as you age, even if you're short.

@GhostRider-uk3xv

8 ай бұрын

The most important thing is to stay in shape and not get overweight. You see a huge difference when you see a before/after picture from a fat guy that gets in shape even in the facial structures. Being in shape is number one. If you are going bald you can take a hair transplant or a scalp tattoo pigment. Some people can get away with a shaved if you have a symmetrical and masculine facial structure. Being short is something you can't really control but you can concentrate on other things like your hygiene, body and clothing style.

It's not about "not finding appealing physically". It's about finding you lower status. You could be bald, fat, with nose hair, and still they'd made a queue if you had high status (and it's not just money that do that)

In my college group, the girls always used to hang out with the attractive chads, and flat out refused to talk with me.

@ascended266

10 ай бұрын

Brutal lol that's human nature for ya.

Key for sub 5’s is to accept and improve. Chadlite went from a repulsive 3 to a 7 to 8. I seen male 4’s improve to 7. Every sub 5 could use a superficial friend or two to keep the sub 5 grounded. Worst thing a sub 5 can do is become delusional then self-psychotherapy with bollocks like LOOKS DONT MATTER. Being fixed in that mindset is a sub 5 life sentence

@seventhkeyomegasghost8233

9 ай бұрын

Lol

@ascended266

9 ай бұрын

Yeah, some people have more potential than others to looksmaxx. Some sub 5's with height and good underlying bone structure can lose weight and do things like get hair transplants to really ascend but others can only improve so much.

@thealiminop7571

7 ай бұрын

Delusional Xd. Doesn't matter what you do bruh your genetics determine who you can fuck.

oh hair transplants.. gotcha

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Yep! Two hair transplants, one in 2014 and one in 2017.

I’m a sub one, I just focus on making myself happy and successful and I don’t give a fuck about being nice this world has been nothing but cruel and merciless to me, a 5’5 Indian guy born in America.

Don’t worry everyone looks mean nothing. I get looks all the time but no love I’m not happy. Keep ure head up y’all

Thank God I'm not a subfive 💀

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Feel lucky my friend! It's definitely not fun and wouldn't wish it on anyone.

@BitchChill

Жыл бұрын

You're sub 11

"Awww OP, youre so sweet and charming. I would TOTALLY date a guy like you!" *in my head*: "But I'm a guy like me..." Real conversation I had with a chick that I still have a mad crush on when hanging out with her and her brother after a gym session. She was going through a rough patch in her relationship at the time, too. I just think she liked the attention from me to be honest.

@gatoloco3949

9 ай бұрын

One big discovery I realized is that if you gotten friended zone multiple times, that means your personality is great but your looks aren't. Therefore they just see you as a friend, not boyfriend . Jfl

@ascended266

9 ай бұрын

Hahah brutal! Love it.

@chrisandsneaky2453

5 ай бұрын

@@gatoloco3949 I've seen a lot of good looking men get friendzoned. Most of them were decent men, and that repulses women.

I pray losing weight gets me to average scale at the very least. Fingers crossed. I got more interest when i lost weight years ago. I was 230 pounds. I'm at 275 now. Got a ways to go. Get unmatched and don't get many matches at all. Only girls that haven't unmatched me or think I'm cute show low interest or leave me on read

I've honestly learned to just live with it. I can't control my genetics. It's sucks but what can I do. I do try to improve myself but I'll never do as good as the natural handsome dude.

After improving yourself and being blackpilled do you still talk to normie women? After my plan I actively avoid them, their underlying nature has not changed. It just means someone else is getting that treatment, even you will if you descend.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the comment Gaia! Yes, I try to treat everyone nicely as I know what it's like to be average/unattractive. I see where you're coming from though. If you go down the looks scale, you will definitely be treated poorly by most women/people.

@Gaia.S

Жыл бұрын

@@ascended266 you treat the same people that hurt you and would continue to hurt you if you ever lost your looks nicely ? You just rewarded bad people with your pain and efforts. Surely the lesson is to treat only those that deserve it with kindness and the rest as they did you. Part of ascending is having the options and social power to now make this choice. My thoughts are to only care for the top 10% and the bottom 10% (those that deserve it). Everyone else is just climbing over each other for power.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

@@Gaia.S Interesting point of view. You're correct that most people will treat you badly if you lose your looks, wholeheartedly agree with you there. However, I was raised to treat everyone with respect regardless of how they look. I do my best to do that. Does that mean I would be overly nice to someone who snubbed me in the past? Absolutely not. It's great having more options when you are more physically attractive but to treat people poorly is not something that feels great to do. Being treated poorly as a sub 5 male felt terrible so why bring that negative energy back into the world? In regards to treating the top 10% well, the top 10% would probably treat a sub 5 male the worst in comparison to how an average person would treat them so I don't see the logic behind that. I appreciate your perspective though, I do honestly understand where you're coming from.

@Gaia.S

Жыл бұрын

@@ascended266 bro you are being overly nice, you didn't learn anything from your struggle. You just took a Disney ending. Why do you think the elite treat normies like animals? That's like being a Jewish person narrowly escaping a Nazi camp then partying with them after like it's ok singing hakuna Matata. I say top 10% as it's your biological imperative to be with the best. They also in my opinion treat sub 5s the best. It's actually normies that punch down. Being good to people who deserve it is great but not to everyone is what I am trying to say. This feels to be the conclusion a seasoned man would reach. May be you didn't suffer enough.

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

@@Gaia.S I would have to disagree with you on the top 10%. I was mistreated by very attractive people as well as average looking people when I was a sub 5. For people that didn't treat me well back then, I do not pay them any attention and have even ignored them when I came across them again many years later even after they commented positively on my new appearance. I will definitely highlight that in future videos as I have many examples. As for normies punching down, sure some normies do that but I've also met very attractive people that do that also so it's hard to quantify what people to be nice to with your argument specifically. I have also had other attractive people and normies treat me with respect when I was a sub 5 male. I can tell you for certain that I have deeply suffered from balding and weight issues and those issues still stick with me until this day and always will.

I'm in my 40's and am 5'8". I have never had a problem with the ladies. I married a woman that I am still attracted to 20 years later, so I feel I did pretty well there too. If I was a 20 something year old nowadays, I'd have no luck. I don't know when 6' became the cutoff for acceptability, but it seems like that is just how it is now. All I can say to younger men below acceptable height is to continue to work on yourself, and don't get with a westernized woman.

@ascended266

9 ай бұрын

Great advice! 6'0 definitely seems to be the height the vast majority of women seek out in a man.

@josephpeters7076

8 ай бұрын

I’m 26 and 5ft 8-9, it gets brought up by women all the time as a sh!t test and gets annoying. But I’ve had no problem getting women either. I did notice living in the state of Florida that height is brought up less. In the north of United States I notice it more.

@josephpeters7076

8 ай бұрын

If there is an abundance of attractive women the standards for men are more realistic. Florida was honestly a lot better place to date.

@fuzzypanda1684

6 ай бұрын

The real problem is we can't be men anymore. Men used to be able to see a girl they were attracted to, go over and shoot their shot, knowing that the worst thing that could happen is she isn't interested. But now...now just telling a girl you think she's attractive could get you kicked out of wherever you are or labeled a creeper because you made her feel "uncomfortable". And online...don't even get me started with that bag of awfulness.

@lornocford6482

4 ай бұрын

​@@fuzzypanda1684 so your idea of being a man is to be able to make women feel uncomfortable and you wonder why they go for the man who they feel safe with.

I’m bald but I have a good head shape and facial hair the baldness doesn’t affect me

I think the discussion of overall male attractiveness is more nuanced than just looks alone. There are many factors outside of looks that add or subtract to a man’s overall attractiveness. For example, Asian men and Indian men are often seen as less attractive regardless if they are handsome or not. Same thing that many black women face in the “she’s pretty for a black girl” phenomena, especially if she’s darkskinned. Fortunately, in the past few years, you see a larger diversity of interracial couples where people date who they want and it’s not nearly as bad as it was. Also, a man can be handsome, but if he’s broke, carless, jobless, can’t dress well, has bad hygiene, has bad social skills and no game... he’s not going to get the caliber of women he could be getting if he got his shit together. When you are handsome, women will throw themselves at you from time to time, especially in places like bars, but they will usually be in the average to ugly range unless you are a bonafide celebrity or they know for a fact you are rich. More attractive women will just give you googly eyes and choosing signals if you are handsome and you have to prove your worth through confidence, social skills and game in your approach. Young women who are attractive often shit test handsome men the most because they want and can have the best man possible because young women’s entire status is based on their looks. Men don’t care if a perfect 10 works at McDonalds. Attractive women want the whole package of looks, money, success in men. And many women rather have a man who can provide the most financially to the detriment of his looks. Bald, fat old sugar daddies are the ones paying for the designer clothes and expensive trips you see these IG “models” flaunt on social media. And trust that those sugar daddies are getting sugar in return.

@ihatehearts

6 күн бұрын

women are attracted to strength. you can be a 3/10 looks wise as a man, but if you have a large, imposing frame, thick neck, etc.. you will have some interest from women. even if you’re overweight. meanwhile a 4-5/10 average guy with average stats won’t be as respected/will struggle a lot more. maybe he has a skinny body or a small frame or maybe he isn’t confident in himself. a good face definitely helps, but it’s mainly about that power/masculine aura that saves a lot of guys. if you look like you can beat dudes in a fight, you’ll probably get some, even if you aren’t conventionally attractive.

If experienced this mostly from less attractive women over the years on and off. It’s odd because really attractive women are nice or kind towards me in a platonic way… I have always wondered if it was because they knew it was over gif me? I was a baldcel since high school senior year. My hairline went incel when I was 25 (completely gone and I shaved my head). Ever since the best I can score on dating apps are overweight types or single moms. It’s escortmaxxing or it’s over for me 😂

@ascended266

Жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear about your hair. I started losing my hair when I was about 19 so I feel your pain. I feel like I was sub 5, I had the opposite. Less attractive women were nicer and more attractive women weren't as nice. Thanks for watching!

@davidroche7685

10 ай бұрын

Based on what you said you are in the average range of looks and not a true subfive inkwell . You have picked up singal mothers and less attractive women on dating apps, a true inkwell would not be able to pull that off, a true inkwell or subfive gets absolutely nothing and has not a hope in hell on dating apps so consider yourself somewhat lucky.

@GUITARTIME2024

23 күн бұрын

Because the hot girls know they are hot and that you are swimming in rare waters, talking to them. The less attractive ones are annoyed because it confirms that they are average and that you see them as similar to you.