Why can’t men leave the women they’re not interested in alone !

@ladennayoung2939

4 жыл бұрын

YES! That is what I'm saying. I think it's stupid to reach out to her in the first place.

@angeladrain5088

4 жыл бұрын

Priscilla Pie You’d think. I’ve been saying this for years. It’s not numbers, it’s more of us so for every no they get, there are maybe 50 women that will say yes.

@selinamk3233

4 жыл бұрын

Bro Tony, can you answer this question in a video please?

@rozh8321

4 жыл бұрын

PERIOAAAD

@michellelucius7973

4 жыл бұрын

Okay like why do you keep coming back !!! I’m not calling you

Loving someone who does not love you is like waiting for a ship at the airport.....Trust your instincts

@4seasons546

4 жыл бұрын

Roxcei Smith that’s funny 😂

@intriguingmind9435

4 жыл бұрын

Well said

@shanrica

4 жыл бұрын

Damn

@queenateeba4803

4 жыл бұрын

Love this you better say that🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 nothing but the truth honey

@ShakeshaWilliams

4 жыл бұрын

This analogy is perfect

If he's not into you.... It's God's protection 🙏

@vanessabarnes2792

2 ай бұрын

😊yesss so true

@lorettawilson9160

2 ай бұрын

EXACTLY

@user-uy1vu6xl3x

Ай бұрын

Yessssssss

If a man disappear he don't want you

@immaculateadanna3478

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@danielkiruri4882

3 жыл бұрын

It's called ghosting

@MercyMazmida

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

Never make someone a priority if you are an option to them.

@preciousluv3922

4 жыл бұрын

Periodt

@natashaboggs4332

4 жыл бұрын

Right.

@rdot8869

4 жыл бұрын

I told a woman that too many of them are going after that small select group and ignoring the many who are available and she denied it. I also explained that the man they are all going after have no need to settle down because women are constantly throwing it after them, and she got insulted. The truth hurts.

@dipmeingloss

4 жыл бұрын

💯

@consuelastewart5331

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly

When he’s interested he MAKES IT KNOWN.

@georgiemoran4442

3 жыл бұрын

👍 yes amen so true

@cathymcdonaldfemale820

3 жыл бұрын

Ive been meeting the ones thats not showing any interest.

@lesliehill332

3 жыл бұрын

YESSSSSSSS....and NO stammering in PROCLAMING!!!!

@tieguyscollectibles9767

3 жыл бұрын

Weird because when he let's it be known women walk away the attraction fades

@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858

Жыл бұрын

What if he made it known in the beginning.. then just ghosted basically.

Every women knows in her heart if a man wants her or not. She just has to love herself enough to be honest with herself,and then do something about it. That means move on.

@user-zx5xw4yw2e

Жыл бұрын

Truth!

@nataliehenderson8657

Жыл бұрын

Period

@tinyking11

10 ай бұрын

💯💯🔥

@ghettoghost305

8 ай бұрын

Exactly

@lorettawilson9160

2 ай бұрын

EXACTLY BE GONE.

“He wants the woman he can’t have, and you want the man you can’t have.” This world is messed up. 😂

@adlihkristopher7324

3 жыл бұрын

it's not the world🌍that's mess up it's the people in the world🌍

@vickie6662

3 жыл бұрын

Facts

@Angel-dd6nz

3 жыл бұрын

I laughed so hard

@kondrasnell7542

2 жыл бұрын

Yep it’s always that way I tell people that all the time I said y’all need to stop wanting people outside y’all league if your considered a 5 why you want a man that is in the 10 league he is only going to mistreat you because he knows you ain’t his type

@umummiii4759

2 жыл бұрын

🤣

Just stay single and work on self until the right person comes along

@rozh8321

4 жыл бұрын

🙋thats what im doing...IZZZZZZ😊

@stellabellafontay9366

4 жыл бұрын

🤔

@tanitrarobinson7477

4 жыл бұрын

Yes Lord! I so agree, peaceful that way!

@cirukarago7251

4 жыл бұрын

💯

@blaakcoffee

4 жыл бұрын

🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

He don't call. If he don't call he ain't thinking bout you.

@georgiemoran4442

3 жыл бұрын

So true

@sguillory5923

3 жыл бұрын

As simple as that sounds, it's very true!

@user-zx5xw4yw2e

3 жыл бұрын

@@sguillory5923 ..But isn't it pretty smothering to call someone every day as if there's nothing else to do

@QueenOfPrinciple

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-zx5xw4yw2e it's some men that must hear his lady voice once a day.

@jackieadele11

3 жыл бұрын

That too

Dating is depressing. I just want to be myself and not have to worry about everything.

@lionessontherise2403

2 жыл бұрын

Girl yes new to this mess after a decade I'm already done ✅

@malenyusay3892

2 жыл бұрын

Same, girl. Being alone is better sometimes.

@RS33381

2 жыл бұрын

I been going through hell…even the talking stage so painful. Trying to figure the man out.

@rogers5622

Жыл бұрын

@@malenyusay3892 it's so ridiculous and sad .

@ebonyeverything2751

Жыл бұрын

@@RS33381 damn, that's the fun part. Maybe that's a sign that you're talking to the wrong people to begin with.

If a man WANT you ..you will KNOW it ..it won't be a mystery

People MAKE TIME for WHO and WHAT they want. PERIOD!

@tammeracalisha5575

4 жыл бұрын

Swayze 💯💯💯💯

@haniyyahrasheed1296

4 жыл бұрын

Swayze period !

@naisolanellius9849

4 жыл бұрын

I agree

@ysmithriley

4 жыл бұрын

@Swayze ABSOLUTELY! If they're not rearranging their schedules to make some quality time to see you, YOU'RE NOT THE ONE!

@IrishCassidy

4 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately, in my case, this is true.

What a waste of life waiting and focusing on just getting a man

@brick_housedee6711

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@Glamrocs

4 жыл бұрын

Facts

@nannetteriveraa

4 жыл бұрын

So true

@tunisiaruth

4 жыл бұрын

Say that!

@RT-gu3kc

4 жыл бұрын

Such a sad epidemic!!

I completely agree if a man wants u, he will make time for u but don't chase him. If he wants u, he will come and get u. Make him work for it

I'm literally in tears because I know for sure that i've wasted sooooooooooo much of my time 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

@skyfall1481

3 жыл бұрын

You have to hurt and be uncomfortable to learn and grow. That’s life. Next time will be better, you’re not alone.

@MelindaMary-jy5ms

3 ай бұрын

It is ok. It’s only a lesson learned. Grateful that we won’t waste our time EVER again!! ❤

Thats why its good to mirror their behavior and dont catch feelings.

@missmarymack3457

4 жыл бұрын

Maplebucket 74 yes indeed!!

@akuasalaam490

4 жыл бұрын

Stay emotionally UNINVESTED.

@jodynanci

4 жыл бұрын

I don't even give them the time of day

@mazadasworld

4 жыл бұрын

Catch feelings once lockdown is over 😎

@marciawade9101

4 жыл бұрын

Yep. Deadly!

When a man is interested in you, it's UNDENIABLE. There is no uncertainty or question if he's interested. If you have to ask the answer is NO! Learn this early on and never waste your own time.

@nikkyshamz2696

4 жыл бұрын

Yup, the answer is in the uncertainty.

@queenbaee8514

4 жыл бұрын

Omg had to learn this fr 😕😕

@hollygamble15

4 жыл бұрын

exactly what my momma tells me, she's never been wrong yet and it's never led me astray 🤞

@dorisrobinson3742

4 жыл бұрын

Holly Rey in

@georgiemoran4442

3 жыл бұрын

That's so perfectly said

Whenever you call a man complicated, he's not into you.

He hooked me and pretended like he was interested now he don’t even call or text anymore smh .. your videos have been helping me so much

@missg7012

3 жыл бұрын

I'm in the same boat too....what a waste of time!! Telling me what he felt l wanted to hear. Not impressed. Now l need to keep it moving - for my own peace of mind.

@lovetinker6

3 жыл бұрын

@@missg7012 exactly

@quettalogan3295

3 жыл бұрын

Sound Like He Manipulated And Love Bombed You

@lovetinker6

3 жыл бұрын

@@quettalogan3295 basically

@tashaequeen8935

3 жыл бұрын

All I can do is smh because this exactly what I'm going through. I hate games these so called men play it's sad..💔🙆🏽

Seriously when I don’t hear from a man. I keep it moving. I’ve learned from my brothers teachings.

@1agelessbeauty

3 жыл бұрын

Preach, my sister. Pluck him, and keep it pushing.

@phillyflytee9849

3 жыл бұрын

@@1agelessbeauty Yes I never chase. I replace with no problem. He, He❤️💯

@kristenmiiiller7778

3 жыл бұрын

Facts 💯💯

@nadinemartin9512

2 жыл бұрын

Yup. Next

@toniemillsap8910

2 жыл бұрын

Amen. I love my brothers. Thank you brothers for all your love, support and good advice.

When a man not into you he will disappear quick.. he’s not consistent, always making excuses, brief text/ conversation, you are not one of his priorities..

@pamelaclarkson6001

4 жыл бұрын

Shawn J I’ve experienced this lately after about three weeks of this on and off vagueness I just messaged that I couldn’t be arsed with it and blocked him xx

@lykke7970

4 жыл бұрын

@@pamelaclarkson6001 Pamela block him all the way!! BLOCK!

@katrinataylor600

4 жыл бұрын

😭

@kgabomolele3346

3 жыл бұрын

Damn. I really am losing him.

@tanyahudson6272

3 жыл бұрын

That's right

"DONT TRUST NO TEXTS FROM A MAN." I NEEDED TO HEAR THAT SMH THANKS TONY :)

@zen_mindset1

7 ай бұрын

Facts and avoids talking on the phone....smh

@redfather5342

2 ай бұрын

Some men prefer in person interactions

"It's determined by the time he gives you." Powerful! Thanks.

He on social media ALL day he got time..

@girlnextdoor5153

4 жыл бұрын

💯

@geneinnewade1278

3 жыл бұрын

Girl

@lashellanderson7773

3 жыл бұрын

Sure do can't text good morning or nothing doesn't want to invite you no where but wants u run to him when wants you too. I just cut this guy off completely today fuckem I can do without a selfish ass man at this point in my 30s I've given up on men completely

@NerdyWhatup

3 жыл бұрын

okaaay!!!!

@summerdior459

3 жыл бұрын

CTFU🥴😂🤣😂🤣😂😂

1. If he doesn’t mind leaving you hanging or leaving opportunity for someone else to catch you 2. If he’ll allow you to pay for your half; not too chivalrous; go w/the flow energy 3. If he is too busy or claims to be 4. If has time to give but doesn’t give it ie...doesn’t call 5. If he isn’t trying “to make love to your mind,” (trying to get to know you) 6. If he doesn’t mind you hanging out with other men

@cindycinn2724

3 жыл бұрын

7. He will let another man hit you shove you and insult you and spit on you and he don't care...he will say I didn't see that

@QueenOfPrinciple

2 жыл бұрын

@@cindycinn2724 definitely, not interested. ...smh

@natashaconover2536

2 жыл бұрын

@@arbitrarylib right 😩😩🤣🤣 I said shit let me pretend I didn’t see that list lol

@furyisuponu

Жыл бұрын

#2 is debatable because some men want to know their woman/partners aint just cheap/using them for freebies etc. Also with the chivalrous argument, ive met some woman that actually didnt like the car opening stuff and flower bringing etc. Said it was cheesy lol.

@tinyking11

10 ай бұрын

💯💯🔥🙌🏽

We should not confuse interest with desire. When a guy desires you he also will pursue, , for a time. Weed them out by not giving up the cookies. True intentions and interest are not based on sexual interaction.

Well single men in their 60 s out here trying to be players. I'm not marrying no old used up player. I deserve better.

@keylablacc561

3 жыл бұрын

Yup now da old heads want a younger woman to settle dwn with after dey all used up & worn out uughhh nope I’m not ready for it

@nyarifitnesstherapy5195

3 ай бұрын

😂

You want me but what do you want me for!? A man thats interested should be bringing the table to the table!! 📢🔝

@lisathomas2171

4 жыл бұрын

Demetria Calvin 💯💯

@kaoshi_kutie

4 жыл бұрын

Amen!!!♥️🔥👏🏽

@queedelisa

4 жыл бұрын

Period

@successforumtrainingfornur4973

4 жыл бұрын

Demetria Calvin Amen!

@demetriusbrown2742

4 жыл бұрын

Oh my God! You have my name and my brother's. LOL!!!

When a man is interested in a woman, he *WILL* find time to get on a video call or at least a phone call with her... even if he's the busiest man on earth. He *WILL* find money to take her on a date, or get her a birthday/X-mas gifts even if he is the brokest man on earth.

@pinkishdiamondz

4 жыл бұрын

Noted

@wowso4

4 жыл бұрын

saiyansnake so true

@danicacrowther4609

4 жыл бұрын

🙌🏾🙌🏾

@aomfnm

4 жыл бұрын

True. This loser doesn’t even remember my bday smh

@milliemartin6490

4 жыл бұрын

@@aomfnm oh definitely kick him to the curb sis

You know the ones that get me are the men who actually think you're sitting around waiting for him. It truly blows my mind when they assume that they have you secured and focused on just them. Chile listen....

@veronicathomas4607

2 жыл бұрын

He's petty, real thirsty

The first sign that I learned is, they won't text or call you first. If you are the one who is constantly getting ahold of him first to hang out or to just talk, then he is clearly not interested, PERIOD!!!. If he was, then he would be doing all of the initiaitng and pursuing.

His actions simply show it. He doesn't pursue! He isn't investing!

@lmusima3275

3 жыл бұрын

He’s giving bread crumbs or excuses

I once was a victim of a " man who wasn't interested in me" But, will never be in that place again. Thanks Tony.

@divinelyblessedkb

4 жыл бұрын

Me too! Put me through the wilderness.

@ypayne9871

4 жыл бұрын

@@divinelyblessedkb lol the wilderness is where we find the Lord.

@divinelyblessedkb

4 жыл бұрын

@@ypayne9871 And you are right! Because it brought me even closer to God! 🙋🙌💃✨

@tanyahudson6272

3 жыл бұрын

We mostly all have been and it's ok. We learn from our mistakes.

@shatariholmes6063

3 жыл бұрын

I know the feeling

Men look for convenience and a place holder until the one he really wants comes

He look like a tall, glass of chocolate milk in the Sahara Dessert! You went from thirsty to dehydrated!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@adrianebevel3851

3 жыл бұрын

Hilarious

@rachellenythira

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@teresagivens3731

3 жыл бұрын

I was laughing so hard 😂🤣

@melaninqueen111

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@lionessontherise2403

2 жыл бұрын

That took me out I guess I better start drinking way more water and leave dairy alone

I lied on God plenty of times.. Talking bout we are annointed. The devil is a liar!! God don't send no mess and confusion. The God I serve operates in ORDER not out of ORDER... Amen? Good message Tony. Thank you.

@Beautiful13818

4 жыл бұрын

Amen Amen

@vanisacampbell5261

4 жыл бұрын

Say that 10 times

@georgiemoran4442

3 жыл бұрын

Amen sister

@gokelovefeji1651

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@cathymcdonaldfemale820

3 жыл бұрын

Amen🆗

So true! Basically a man knows straight out the gate what he really wants. It's up to the woman to determine what she wants and carry herself accordingly.

@nikkyshamz2696

4 жыл бұрын

Amen

@purpleflowers149

Жыл бұрын

I'm looking at some of these comments a man knows what he wants from the jump , it's up to you to decide if you should continue to talk to this person or just leave this person alone, the red flags be in the conversation sometimes pay attention

@redfather5342

2 ай бұрын

Wrong wrong wrong

AMEN! That's why the Bible says to guard your heart! Actions speaks louder than words and words confirm how you feel. If a man doesn't express that he wants you never assume that he does. Women have to learn to guard their hearts and compartmentalize the men that are interested in them. Character supersedes everything! GREAT VIDEO!

@tlc6756

Жыл бұрын

That's true wisdom, thanks.

This makes being single the greatest thing I have ever done for myself ❤️

@mmommo-hx4dx

8 ай бұрын

heck yes

Tony said “All of a sudden he’s more busy than Barack Obama.” I’m hollering 💀💀💀💀😩😩😩😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯💯

@birdie4223

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤫❤️

@dreamteam8667

3 жыл бұрын

THAT WAS FUNNY. I'M GOING TO SAY THAT TO MEN I'M TOTALLY NOT INTERESTED IN.

@summerdior459

3 жыл бұрын

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

@CharCharJars

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@Lee-tg2of

3 жыл бұрын

I was rolling 😂

I absolutely hate it when men act as if they are prime ministers of somebody’s country 😒. Sir if you don’t go clock in & clock out & get on this phone, you are NOT that busy.💀

@ellee.444

4 жыл бұрын

Tu Bella 🤣🤣🤣 honestly!

@Channyb89

4 жыл бұрын

“Prime ministers of somebody’s country.” I’m done 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@angelicaangel2624

4 жыл бұрын

Love this 😂

@TuBella14

4 жыл бұрын

Chantal Brown Sis I’m so serious 😒 just fake busy 😂💀

@irenealex1600

4 жыл бұрын

@@TuBella14 your talking to me, he's busy like oxygen

I NEEDED to hear this! I was.on the fence about whether someone was "into" me and you hit on EVERY ONE of my uncertainties.... I now know he's not into me 🤷🏽‍♀️ thanks for helping me to walk away

@bellezanegra0206

9 ай бұрын

Same

That’s right never trust a man who is texting you. THANKS I SAID PLENTY OF TIMES!!! Confirmation 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

It was so painful to listen to this, but it is empowering. I just got played, and it hurts because I think I'm smart, but someone managed to do this to me. I let him do this to me.

@shelial.341

3 жыл бұрын

Same here. . .I thought I was smart enough to detect the bs, but got TOTALLY played!

@mizzgudlyfe1418

3 жыл бұрын

Me too 🤦🏽‍♀️

@ericaallen5216

3 жыл бұрын

Me too, it hurt like hell.

@clarityroseb6136

3 жыл бұрын

Me too 😩

@themimster88

3 жыл бұрын

Me too. But I removed myself immediately upon understanding I was an option. He can't get a returned call, returned text, nada ...

If only I could go back 10 years and apply all of this new knowledge. I was definitely falling for the one who did NOT want me and running away from the good man aka “the creep” smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

@diva-nicole9089

4 жыл бұрын

You and me both(smh) every time I hear Tony's messages I think just that.

@kenishalperkins

4 жыл бұрын

Amen !! I need the last 20 years back

4 жыл бұрын

Damn that's sad

@patty8945

4 жыл бұрын

I wish I knew it years ago as well.

“You’re no longer just thirsty, now you’re dehydrated” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’ve been there 😩

Before I even watch the video I'm going to give my choices: 1. He doesn't call you. 2. He doesn't make you a priority. He fits you in when he can. 3. He shows no interest in you as a person/your hobbies/your goals/your favorite foods/favorite movies/favorite color, etc. 4. He doesn't include you in his plans. 5. He's only interested in sex/your body/how you look. His interests is only physical. Ummm, I can't think of nothing else. Now let's watch the video. *click play*

My daddy used to say a man who opens his wallet has opened his heart. My mom told me that a man that likes/ loves you will trot the circumference of the earth to get to you. This advice has been true my whole life

@cecea665

4 жыл бұрын

Facts

@pallana3701

4 жыл бұрын

My mama told me Never buy a man shoes Or else he gonna use them same shoes to walk out on you🤷🏽‍♀️ But that’s My Mama

@ST5RZ_

4 жыл бұрын

H&B V. Facts your mama was right.

@genj6630

4 жыл бұрын

Your dad gave great advice. Sadly have never met a guy that was really in to me.

4 жыл бұрын

Gen J I highly doubt that!! There are many people for everyone. I bet you have just overlooked those and go for a “type”.

I am glad I have enough discernment to rid men who are a waste of space. There was this one, who only texted me back for a few days and told him if he cant call me then stop text8ng me. So he stopped all together and I saved my time and not waste it with.......a waste man.

@rozh8321

4 жыл бұрын

Goodnite and good riddance boo❤❤❤🤣🤣🤣

I saw this online: "The love that you're WAITING to receive from someone else; you should already be giving it to yourself FIRST!" Now that was a word!

Facts. That was me 3 years ago, so in love with a playa. I've been single for 3 years now because I needed to work on myself and so far I see through the bullshit and won't even entertain any of these guys. Well said sir

I’m getting sick of man .I still believe in love tho

@liztaylor456

4 жыл бұрын

Don’t be sick of men.. just expand your horizons. It’s a whole World out here, explore ❤️

@dreamteam8667

3 жыл бұрын

@@liztaylor456 YESSSSSS

@cathymcdonaldfemale820

3 жыл бұрын

I am sick of a man too. Can't deal with them anymore. Toxic.

@inthecloudswithskye7036

3 жыл бұрын

@@cathymcdonaldfemale820 me too..

@jujumama

3 жыл бұрын

Love can exist but not when people act the way that they do most of the time

Your imitation of the woman’s voice “ohhh” and smacking of the lips/rolling eyes be having me DEAD 💀🤣🤣

@missmarymack3457

4 жыл бұрын

Miss Shy lol 😂

@Alannah__

4 жыл бұрын

Lmfao I be crying

@gladystoombs735

4 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@kiaradozier2856

4 жыл бұрын

Miss Shy yesss...he have me crying laughing 🤣🤣

@keepingupwithamber7850

4 жыл бұрын

Miss Shy I be dying when he does that

Wow you are so right. I would fantasize about him all day and give him much more credit than he deserved! I made him look and sound so good to me, that he could do no wrong 😑

It has been so hard for me to finish this specific video.. I’ve had to come back multiple times because the words hurt so much. I’m realizing that the person I was in a relationship with for 3 1/2 years was no longer interested in me. Whew thanks again Tony!

@Gstarp

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry ❤️

@katkos2750

2 жыл бұрын

It must have been a blessing in disguise because God's rejection is our protection !

Its crazy because I use too be that "girl" that use to say "girl he is too nice", "I need somebody that's not always on me" etc etc but now that I know better and I'm much wiser, I have a "Man" that calls me everyday, plan dates, plan trips have his own car, house, a good job and just like to be around me and guess what I'm enjoying every bit of it. Thank God for Growth(on my part) Note: He has a busy schedule but he makes time for me

@ayessacamara3995

4 жыл бұрын

We praise the Lord!

@bosslady9108

3 жыл бұрын

Congratulations.....💏

@dinnipinni4810

3 жыл бұрын

So nice 🥰

@thinishot

2 жыл бұрын

Then why are you watching this video? Because you know something or you looking for something.

@lalarodgers3141

2 жыл бұрын

@@thinishot No not at all..I'm subscribed to Toni, so its comes on my feed.

Good info Mr. Gaskins 👌🏽 I’m a nurse practitioner & I’ll never ever ever disclose my salary to a man who’s not going to be my husband again. Learned the hard way 🤦🏽‍♀️

@Drg_ielevateminds

4 жыл бұрын

I am an NP too! I just tell men I am a health coach!

@itsme3k

4 жыл бұрын

Never disclose your salary, these men will use and abuse you.

@NurseNotRatched

4 жыл бұрын

Gina B Good idea! I’ll have to use that!

@queenofthesouth4205

4 жыл бұрын

Never ever ever!!!

@gorgeouslymade1754

4 жыл бұрын

These opportunists are googling salaries ...lol I normally say I’m in Accounting.. never mention that I have a MBA 🤣

That’s why I like the 90 day rule. Get to know him in ONLY those days. If he doesn’t show his full interest in that time frame, wish him well and send him on.

@redfather5342

2 ай бұрын

Fuck 90 days you out of your mind you get 3 days max after that it's over

I’m turning into a nun guys are too complicated 😂

I think women just need to trust themselves. I can look back and I KNEW when a man wasn’t truly interested...I just didn’t want to accept it because I liked him. But God gave us instinct and we need to pay attention to that nudging. And men do think if you’re a certain age and still single you must be desperate. But you have to get to the place where you trust God and willing to wait for the man who goes over and beyond to show you he wants you and only you.

@tanyahudson6272

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@imanirhodes3180

3 жыл бұрын

So true

@PriyankaGupta-ew1li

3 жыл бұрын

You know what Us women know right from the first second that he is not into us.. But somehow (Y'all know how us women can be somehow🙄🤦‍♀️😂) we don't accept it or Take it at face value and end up playing ourselves! YESSS! I SAID IT.. Men don't play us, We play ourselves! 😭😭😂😏 We KNOW but again we are hard-headed🤣🙄😭🤦‍♀️

No! He's texting because his wife doesn't hear him talking cause, he's texting you instead. It's easier that way.... Pour the glass of milk down the sink, it's spoiled.

@ClowneryAtItsFinest

4 жыл бұрын

Months back I had this very same theory. My ex friend swore up and down that I was thinking too much into it. I've dropped her ass since then! It's good to know that great minds think alike 😉.

@kelamo7067

4 жыл бұрын

indria drayton Chiiiiiiiiiiiiiile...

@ST5RZ_

4 жыл бұрын

Oh yeah if he hardly calls and always texts he fasho has a woman.

@georgiemoran4442

3 жыл бұрын

So true lay right by side u n think ur 😴 a sleep n there he is texting her

@georgiemoran4442

3 жыл бұрын

@@ClowneryAtItsFinest good for u n u deserve better n I do to

I gotta be honest, I really don't want to talk on the phone for an hour myself with most men. The conversations just aren't that stimulating most of the time.

@PriyankaGupta-ew1li

3 жыл бұрын

True🙄

@PriyankaGupta-ew1li

3 жыл бұрын

When I know he dumb. I just play bored😂 one hour on the phone.. Nigga's be boring us to death🙄🤦‍♀️😂😂

@lanac7974

3 жыл бұрын

Lmaooo so true...be carrying the whole conversation

@anissa2361

2 жыл бұрын

@@PriyankaGupta-ew1li Lol, yes! 😂

@Ashley-oi2uw

2 жыл бұрын

So true

When he said “not LPN, keep working” Lawwwd I spit out my food 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@lanac7974

3 жыл бұрын

😂🤣😂🤣

@lucyespila3401

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂

When you ask a man what do you want me for, they get mad

@PriyankaGupta-ew1li

3 жыл бұрын

😂

@sg5720

3 жыл бұрын

True. , just mine got mad cause he could not understand why I don’t see that he is the lucky one to have me😉

@laina1976

2 жыл бұрын

I just asked a man that lol. He chased me for 2 years. I finally gave him chance hanging out spending time and stuff. This fool is pulling away now. So i ask him why you do all that chasing now i give you a chance and you acting stupid. Smh.

When you get the notification that Tony made a video. 🏃🏽‍♀️💨

@TuBella14

4 жыл бұрын

Flawless Imperfection be bout to break my finger 😂

@bre_s9164

4 жыл бұрын

I’m tryna tell you sis! 😂

@jayleeh9459

4 жыл бұрын

Yes! Lol👀👃👂

@viewly390

4 жыл бұрын

Flawless Imperfection with the quickness

@bre_s9164

4 жыл бұрын

Sashisroyal One right!!! 😂😂

Sometimes a man can be interested and do all the things you’ve spoke on but in an unhealthy manner due to previous trust issues and ruins something that could’ve been powerful and beautiful. I call it “The Over-thinker”

@plutostarr8605

Жыл бұрын

This ‼️

I try to give a man a chance but, it’s just not working out. They turn out to be just what you said Tony. I rather stay single & wait for the right man that know my worth than to waste my time wondering if he’s really into me. I refuse to be treated like a piece of celery on a side plate of chicken wings.

“You want me but what do you want me for”. I hear that as some people ain’t looking for love their looking for help

He's building his time with other women

@marycurlee2163

4 жыл бұрын

Each women thinks she got the ring on the finger too and will display the fake ring too to make sure you know they got him in the bag exspecially when we use to have church. Seen it happen alot just to let you know to back off l am pulling this fish for dinner.

I had to go back and listen to this again. This is good stuff. Ladies you need to put this on repeat

Thank you! Sometimes we are so busy reacting to each instance, we forget to look at the whole picture. I didn't see until this video was playing in the background and the facts were clicking. Suddenly im sitting down and hanging on to every word! God worked through you today. That message was my answer. Thank you.

Car chronicles, hotel chronicles... Love them all 😂😂

@j-tenn226

Жыл бұрын

Bedroom chronicles, office chronicles

Be blessed tony! You’re so right abt us women thinking half effort is sexy and mysterious. We love men that are vague bc we can dream up our own versions of how things will go in the relationship. It’s sad. Wise up, ladies. The man that puts in effort actually likes you and that’s okay lol.

Is he bringing a table to my table so we can feast together? I love that.

@redfather5342

2 ай бұрын

Ain't you the table

Based on this video, I don’t think anyone I have every dated was into me.☹️It’s good to understand the differences.

I have laughed so hard on these female gestures " girlllll" this is so brutally honest. Thank God for men standing up telling the truth

Been there done that..I fell in love with a man that was ALWAYS TOO BUSY.he would get mad and what to argue when i would mention the lack of time. It ain't that much busy in the world.

@missj5564

4 жыл бұрын

Too busy means he is not interested.

@rozh8321

4 жыл бұрын

Aint🤦🙄

@brieze1233

4 жыл бұрын

Been there.. now blocked

@k.s.alexander9427

3 жыл бұрын

You were something to pass the time for him, and he was probably a narcissist too

@PriyankaGupta-ew1li

3 жыл бұрын

You know what Us women know right from the first second that he is not into us.. But somehow (Y'all know how us women can be somehow🙄🤦‍♀️😂) we don't accept it or Take it at face value and end up playing ourselves! YESSS! I SAID IT.. Men don't play us, We play ourselves! 😭😭😂😏 We KNOW but again we are hard-headed!!🤣🙄😭😭😭🤦‍♀️

Some people talk just to talk so called dating coaches....this man here is doing God's Light ✨ work!!!! Bringing about and clarity to God's children...All praises to The Most High 🙏🏽

Everytime he does that voice i be rolling on the floor🤣🤣🤣🤣

If he let's you pay/go Dutch, he's not that into you.

@runningcloud1751

4 жыл бұрын

This is an original dance to the music nuance " be a man about it; not a boy with it" ,my saying to put a male in his place ( make him think) kinda a put down and make him rethink the behavior /situation . So Tony this is a gift to you apply it , as you will. Please feel free to ad it to your brand... Virgin married, first born, Nana, all round single, good girl, chased contemporary single, qualified, old fashion girl, modern woman and cosmopolitan lady.

@ajura8926

3 жыл бұрын

Uh not sure about this my husband and I have been together for 16years and on our first date I actually paid for it.

@adrianarenee3331

3 жыл бұрын

@@ajura8926 that’s because he knew you could be used to pay for everything. That’s not a good thing.

I have to tell you Tony, when you said talk everyday for an hour I thought you were crazy and that was impossible. Well this man I’m talking to our first phone conversation was for 6 hours. Yes 6 hours! I couldn’t believe it. Didn’t think it was possible. We’re both in our early 60s, retired partially disabled so we have lots of time. We talk everyday. Its been a couple months since exchanging numbers and we still can talk for hours. He talks 3 times more than I but I don’t get tired of listening to him so far at least lol. We both want the same things for our future. We’ll see as things progress.

@PeaceBeStill-

4 жыл бұрын

Nice 💞

@EbonyCOliver

4 жыл бұрын

You are NOT in your sixties... lookin good lady!

@luulips

4 жыл бұрын

Ebony Oliver awe shucks thank you 😊

@saphinawest

4 жыл бұрын

60’s??? You look AHMAZING! Keep us updated! Lol❤️

@denisegladden-peters4435

4 жыл бұрын

How cool is that! Wishing the best!

So many coaches on KZread... what he says, makes more sense to me than others.

If you have to ask a man to call you instead of texting...even suggest it...he's not into you like that. You dont need to ask, hint, suggest, wait or play games when he is truly interested. You'll know from the START.

@kikikiki3216

2 жыл бұрын

You know what am taking this on board.

@zen_mindset1

7 ай бұрын

Yeah he not interested....I was blind.

Tony and his female mannerisms - “OHHHHHHHH” 😂😂😂😂, but he’s telling NO lies

@tanitrarobinson7477

4 жыл бұрын

What gets me...laying on ya byke(back) lol lol

@lionelluva

4 жыл бұрын

@@tanitrarobinson7477 LMBOOOOOO yes!

@lisathomas2171

4 жыл бұрын

Yes he kills me I always laugh when I hear him start lol 😂😭

@BluDrop5

4 жыл бұрын

@@tanitrarobinson7477 I love his accent!

@Mantoa_R91

4 жыл бұрын

A.G. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🏽🙌🏽

Success is a process and time ALWAYS tells the TRUTH. The urge to rush into anything is not of God but our own spirit. We can't assume that God has his hand on every relationship because it looks and feel right....pray for discernment.

@chrisparker6249

4 жыл бұрын

@@PreciousForReal It's important to support, motivate, and uplift each other. And women must know that all makes don't operate or move the same.

@AE-106

4 жыл бұрын

@@chrisparker6249 Blessings my brothah

@chrisparker6249

4 жыл бұрын

@@AE-106 🙏

@Gfamily4

4 жыл бұрын

Amen🙌

@nikkyshamz2696

4 жыл бұрын

💯💯💯

Thk u Brother Tony. Another great video. To help women see signs. And also for us men to realize what were doing if we really aren't into someone. It holds me accountable and check myself!👍

idk why this is too funny 😂 but on a serious note, Tony is getting me ALL the way together with this video! So much wisdom!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

If you have to ask if he's interested, then that in and of itself is problematic. Let's be interested in our own health, wealth, and happiness. I'm going to be over here minding my own business in 2020 & forward.💪🏽🧘🏽‍♀️☯

@queenofthesouth4205

4 жыл бұрын

Facts!

@tanitrarobinson7477

4 жыл бұрын

Amen Queen, Amen!!!!

@arabrown9237

4 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@PriyankaGupta-ew1li

3 жыл бұрын

🙏🏻🥀😌

What does he WANT YOU FOR ? I felt that.

@sashaminx75

4 жыл бұрын

Right

I'm an older lady and a widow, just getting back out there. A lot of this is common sense, but we lose all that when our emotions get involved. Good information here, and you are laugh out loud funny!

Thank you Tony for the confirmation now I can move forward with my head held high!

I had a guy acting iffy and when I asked him what was going on he told me he still had feelings for his ex and wasn't emotionally available. He also said he shouldn't have been so iffy and felt bad for it.

@brick_housedee6711

4 жыл бұрын

At least he's honest

@mayasheartdesiire

4 жыл бұрын

Good thing he still was honest. Cause some men will just continue to be fake and act like it’s nothing...Honesty will take you a long way.

@marymwinga1255

4 жыл бұрын

At least he told you the truth. One i been dealing with he just went mute.. he'd read my whatsapp message but no replies.. and never say anything if he doesnt want anything to do with me.. it hasnt been easy really. Trying to move on but i love him

@remiem-iw7uk

4 жыл бұрын

@@marymwinga1255 You love an *idea!* Get yourself a fresh set of energy and take yourself off his shelf! I have the same issue of not being the priority and Tony's vids helping me move on.

@marymwinga1255

4 жыл бұрын

@@remiem-iw7uk yes thanks. Im definately doing that.. I let go and let God

I'll rather just change my number , move on & just completely focus on myself & make myself a priority and love ME . At least I won't have to question whether the love is real or not 🤷🏾‍♀️💯🤦🏾‍♀️ Js

@shamyareid5025

3 жыл бұрын

I’m going through something with someone now and I think that’s the best idea I have ever heard all day

Brother Tony is dropping pure truth in this video! Thank you so much. This is really helping me right now.

I really appreciate your videos Mr. Gaskins. They are useful, needed, and effective. God bless you brother.

Could not click fast enough mr. Gaskins knowledge is mind blowing, tearing down generational curses through the wealth of his knowledge be blessed

@4LADYSWEET

4 жыл бұрын

Lady Empire indeed!! He will change the culture of the black family if women just applied his knowledge to their situations 💯

@ladyempire5921

4 жыл бұрын

@@4LADYSWEET yes yes. Knowledge does Nothing for us if we keep it between our ears... we must be willing to apply to our lives. Daily. Point Blank Periottt! 😀

@wendythomas2403

4 жыл бұрын

Lady Empire so true! I agree

@enatihaok3594

4 жыл бұрын

I stand in agreement with you

@rhondadeloney4581

4 жыл бұрын

When you say limited on MEN.. YOU MEAN ONLY(BLACK) SHORTAGE ON MEXICAN AFRICAN DOMINICIAN REPUBLIC CAUCASIAN?

“He does not need you, he wants you” noted

😂😂🎯You hit it right on the head. God Bless You and your family Always.

I had my doubts I needed this. Thank u virtual brother