How to Interview “Almost” Anyone | Mike Dronkers | TEDxHumboldtBay

How to Interview “Almost” Anyone
Mike Dronkers is the program director, music director, and mid-day host at KHUM-FM. Dronkers’ popular radio program has a devout following locally and nationally, and his behind-the-scenes work has earned
him several national prizes, including an Edward R. Murrow award for radio documentary. Through his eclectic radio show he’s interviewed hundreds of people, including Grammy™ winners, Emmy™ winners, monks, authors, snipers, chemists, composers, lawyers, speed freaks, hobos and toddlers. He claims that they’re all equally interesting.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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  • @guiabohol9525
    @guiabohol95254 жыл бұрын

    Making the other person tell you how they are the "good guy in their own movie" -- that blew my mind.

  • @fernlulham8837

    @fernlulham8837

    4 жыл бұрын

    I loved that quote too. Although I can imagine someone using it about another person who can never accept responsibility for their own actions: "He's always the good guy in his own movie!" Is that just my cynical mind? 🤔

  • @limathiam

    @limathiam

    4 жыл бұрын

    100 💯

  • @mutalemalama

    @mutalemalama

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aren’t ted talks great!

  • @AkankshaThokade

    @AkankshaThokade

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agreed! I loved that part too! Also this one - "Bored people are boring. Interested people are interesting."

  • @ThomasJordanTV

    @ThomasJordanTV

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agreed! Great quote!

  • @secondpsycho6577
    @secondpsycho65774 жыл бұрын

    Step 1: Do Prep Work. Me, who is just trying to get some tips for an interview in 15 minutes: "Oops."

  • @fernlulham8837

    @fernlulham8837

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bonus tip: Find out tips on how to interview a good week in advance! 😃😉

  • @LizY9271

    @LizY9271

    3 жыл бұрын

    😆😆😆😆😆

  • @Gloryfs

    @Gloryfs

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can relate but it is in 5 mins :|

  • @anishathete4123

    @anishathete4123

    3 жыл бұрын

    So how was it? Also, how do get to interview people? I have a lot of questions for a lot of people but I am not sure as to how I can approach someone to sit down with me to answer them all

  • @ExoticNibbles2

    @ExoticNibbles2

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@anishathete4123 easiest answer is to just ask

  • @calebbunch3990
    @calebbunch39905 жыл бұрын

    Before interview: 1. Do some prep. 2. Find interviewee's answers in other interviews for followup questions. 3. Find verbal interviews for social cues and intangibles that interviewee will bring. During interview: 4. Break the ice. 5. Listen. 6. Use dead air chicken. 7. Set the table for your guest to be comfortable. Make curiosity your hobby.

  • @syedtaju

    @syedtaju

    4 жыл бұрын

    Binx

  • @thefootballplanet5784

    @thefootballplanet5784

    4 жыл бұрын

    we coulda just watched the video.

  • @alexwodi2245

    @alexwodi2245

    3 жыл бұрын

    Caleb Bunch - You nailed it Bro.

  • @iSpike

    @iSpike

    3 жыл бұрын

    Cheers mate 👍🏻

  • @adamdeshon1275
    @adamdeshon12753 жыл бұрын

    Great advice not just for interviewing but for life. I use the line that "only boring people are bored" with my kids (which they don't much care for!). When I speak to Middle / High School kids about being an engineer I always include the advice to be curious. It is hands down the best thing you can have to a fulfilled life. Great Ted Talk Mike!!!

  • @emilioflores8052
    @emilioflores80529 ай бұрын

    Love this! Some really great tips here! I myself am a journalist for two local papers and am wanting to expand and have my own podcast and become a better interviewer. Some notes that I made: Curiosity is a muscle, strengthen it and be curious about EVERYTHING! -Find fascination in everyone you talk to. Set the table and show the uniqueness that every individual has. I loved the quote you left with: “Every man I meet is my superior in some way and in that, I learn from him.”

  • @lennon_richardson
    @lennon_richardson5 жыл бұрын

    "Curiosity is a muscle" - Mike Dronkers

  • @fernlulham8837

    @fernlulham8837

    4 жыл бұрын

    I loved that quote too! I'm always gonna be flexing it now. 💪

  • @AkankshaThokade

    @AkankshaThokade

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ain't that beautiful ✨

  • @DJK-cq2uy

    @DJK-cq2uy

    2 ай бұрын

    How original..I too can tupe..u 🤪

  • @moshefabrikant1
    @moshefabrikant13 жыл бұрын

    1:50 Just be quiet 2:03 Prepare. Show your guest how much you know about them. And if they have a book look at other podcasts that interviewed him 4:10 Find verbal interviews of them 5:20 Look at the smallest podcasts. That interviewed the guy 6:08 Ask small question that bring you to other big topics 6:56 Focus and be present. 8:35 Set the table for your guest. Be interesting, and have curiosity. 10:40 Good guy in there own movie.

  • @theresnoi9792
    @theresnoi97923 жыл бұрын

    "how did you even know that" i immediately thought of hot ones

  • @jasongiddings372

    @jasongiddings372

    2 жыл бұрын

    Narduwar is the undisputed goat for this

  • @tessayasmine3673
    @tessayasmine36732 жыл бұрын

    Any journalism students here? 😄

  • @AbdallahH2

    @AbdallahH2

    2 ай бұрын

    Here 😅

  • @BuildLessons
    @BuildLessons4 жыл бұрын

    Awesome advice!!! I've noticed through my limited interviews for my social media videos how hard it is to shut up! thanks for the great advice.

  • @athathoitayenjam4770
    @athathoitayenjam47703 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. This has been an eye opener

  • @user-cn2yq9by3z
    @user-cn2yq9by3z4 жыл бұрын

    I like how it is short and to the point!

  • @rasktattoocraze5320
    @rasktattoocraze53205 жыл бұрын

    Thnx sir..being a student it was of great use for me

  • @fernlulham8837
    @fernlulham88374 жыл бұрын

    How many people have heard an interviewer who needed these tips? 😃 Loved this talk - so insightful and definitely something I will pull from in the future. Thanks, Mike! ❤️

  • @Winwithmonifa

    @Winwithmonifa

    3 жыл бұрын

    I will be conducting interviews and I need some tips

  • @seanwoodburn2616
    @seanwoodburn2616Ай бұрын

    It's predictably brilliant... Mike is one of the best interviewers I ever had the privilege of listening to. Cheers!

  • @pattsoyao2056
    @pattsoyao20567 жыл бұрын

    Awesome talk, very well said. I'm a Headhunter and I always tell my team that curiosity and enthusiasm is key to an interesting and engaging interview.

  • @stephenjemyers

    @stephenjemyers

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ask a question you fear being asked in an interview

  • @nextcent
    @nextcent4 жыл бұрын

    Awesome content. Well delivered!

  • @zach.bashir
    @zach.bashir8 ай бұрын

    this guy was great, and straight to the point and flowed seamlessly

  • @losmisteriosdeltarot
    @losmisteriosdeltarot5 жыл бұрын

    Awesome, ready to see some interviews on KZread and to shut up. Thanks!

  • @MARK-hk7bh
    @MARK-hk7bh6 жыл бұрын

    I'm really happy for you I'ma let you finish but nardwuar the human serviette is the best interviewer of all time

  • @VeraciousVignettes

    @VeraciousVignettes

    4 жыл бұрын

    Damn right!!!

  • @reverbqtbullettproof4280

    @reverbqtbullettproof4280

    4 жыл бұрын

    A true human gem.

  • @4GAudioPodcast

    @4GAudioPodcast

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @davidberry3126
    @davidberry31263 жыл бұрын

    My take away. Set the table for others and don't step on their answers. I think this is great advise.

  • @heyLORDitsme
    @heyLORDitsme3 жыл бұрын

    He’s so right about being curious about everything!!$

  • @LotusHoshi
    @LotusHoshi Жыл бұрын

    This was fantastic! God Bless!

  • @melvinbowen2nd
    @melvinbowen2nd5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Bryant for real love you bro!

  • @coachclaudius8160
    @coachclaudius81602 жыл бұрын

    Every person is worth listening to ... well said Mike

  • @GiadaValenti
    @GiadaValenti4 жыл бұрын

    Very helpful tips.Thanks

  • @Marshal_Dunnik
    @Marshal_Dunnik4 жыл бұрын

    Excellent advice. Especially the part about shutting up and letting your guest speak.

  • @ThomasJordanTV

    @ThomasJordanTV

    3 жыл бұрын

    Best tip ever!

  • @pjgdba306
    @pjgdba3065 жыл бұрын

    Great vid, nice share. The Emerson quote is a great platform to use with anyone - being interested is being generous, too. That strong statement comes to mind "Are you listening or just waiting to talk?"

  • @Ricadamu
    @Ricadamu4 жыл бұрын

    Great tips Mike. Cheers.

  • @celebratelife865
    @celebratelife8653 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the great talk, it was very inspiring. I watched the TedX with Nardwuar yesterday and it was equally inspiring. I recommend it!

  • @heneedssomemilk4156
    @heneedssomemilk41563 жыл бұрын

    What he said: dead air chicken What he actually meant: minecraft chicken slowly falling

  • @CarolCarolDoddDodd

    @CarolCarolDoddDodd

    3 жыл бұрын

    Or trying to catch a chicken so you can fly in Fortnite

  • @oursmallmajority
    @oursmallmajority3 жыл бұрын

    This helped us improve our interview skills. Thanks a bunch!

  • @alexandrgretsky4395
    @alexandrgretsky43952 жыл бұрын

    Very very useful. Thank you.

  • @knight.jpeg.9334
    @knight.jpeg.93344 жыл бұрын

    This is fantastic

  • @evander7654321
    @evander76543216 жыл бұрын

    Great advice that I use for my interviews for my YT channel!

  • @steveshepherd333
    @steveshepherd3335 жыл бұрын

    Good stuff ... thanks 🙏🙂

  • @auyabbaby
    @auyabbaby5 жыл бұрын

    I don't know if i can like this video any more! I am currently struggling with this topic more and more that now since I've been interviewing on the regular. The message is trully insightful. Thank you TEDx! Creator name: raunchy_tacos.

  • @CalebErosa
    @CalebErosa2 жыл бұрын

    I think 10:24 is the most important unspoken rule… you have to genuinely care and be genuinely open to hearing and learning from your interviewee.

  • @lisaholmblad2831
    @lisaholmblad28314 жыл бұрын

    Sound quality could have been better, but I loove the content!!

  • @alexanderSnilsson
    @alexanderSnilsson7 жыл бұрын

    Great tips - gonna go out practicing them today when im gonna record my rejection therapy challenge and ask random people about the meaning of life!

  • @kulwamapunda4414

    @kulwamapunda4414

    6 жыл бұрын

    Alexander Nilsson its a duration of living born to death. Its a big gift god has given to living creatures.

  • @ZertMusic
    @ZertMusic4 жыл бұрын

    Awesome killer speech!

  • @abrahamleancorne7852
    @abrahamleancorne7852 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much !!!!

  • @NosebleeddeGroselha
    @NosebleeddeGroselha3 жыл бұрын

    I’m doing an interview for my college assignment in a few hours, it’s the first time I interview someone so I’m kinda nervous, I don’t want him to feel uncomfortable and the interview is about a culture I’m not 100% expert about so I’m scared of saying or doing something offensive. I’ll come back later saying how everything turned out!

  • @Anfangxs

    @Anfangxs

    3 жыл бұрын

    He was never seen again.

  • @dylanr4854

    @dylanr4854

    3 жыл бұрын

    rip

  • @ladykilljoy9864

    @ladykilljoy9864

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I’m doing the same thing! I’m so scared

  • @bethanyhoo3307

    @bethanyhoo3307

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m still hoping for u to come back tho ....... what happened we wanna know lol

  • @manufroster5851

    @manufroster5851

    Жыл бұрын

    How did it go ?

  • @mohammadsatidjoyo311
    @mohammadsatidjoyo3114 жыл бұрын

    thanks hombre for the tips

  • @davidberry3126
    @davidberry31263 жыл бұрын

    Awesome!

  • @dibyenduadhikary168
    @dibyenduadhikary1687 жыл бұрын

    Hi Tedx,I think it's an odd question. but for me it's important to know, can you help me out please. if I go for a Skype interview and my Webcam positioning at the bottom of the screen(like dell xps 9560). Then does it could spoil the interview impression?

  • @TheShutterSessions
    @TheShutterSessions4 жыл бұрын

    Great video

  • @imanilwilliams
    @imanilwilliams6 жыл бұрын

    I got some good tips :) Thank you!

  • @stephenjemyers

    @stephenjemyers

    2 жыл бұрын

    Podcast ?

  • @socoden2732
    @socoden273210 ай бұрын

    Good talk

  • @HaroldLathrop
    @HaroldLathrop Жыл бұрын

    1A. just listen, be quiet 1B.I learned to sit back relax and listen. 2A.I think making curiosity m a hobby is great advice iy will allow me to learn and connect with a multitude of individuals.2B. I see myself prepping on various culture's and different activities to connect ct with clients.3A no questions about the interview process at this time.2B.I am looking forward to learning new things and how others think.3A. My concerns are that I may be to direct.

  • @MissLesy
    @MissLesy6 жыл бұрын

    he reminds me of lew from ,unbox therapy

  • @sweetlife3623
    @sweetlife3623 Жыл бұрын

    Every single person is worth listening to

  • @sweetlife3623
    @sweetlife3623 Жыл бұрын

    Interviewing makes you a better person

  • @UrbanCraftTv
    @UrbanCraftTv7 ай бұрын

    Very nice

  • @JOSHOCEANS
    @JOSHOCEANS5 жыл бұрын

    Wow what a great vid

  • @westieweardogkilts9715
    @westieweardogkilts971511 ай бұрын

    very helpful

  • @FeelingIsHealing
    @FeelingIsHealing3 жыл бұрын

    "Just shut up" Love that!

  • @RobertPlank
    @RobertPlank2 ай бұрын

    I've never thought about using silence as a tool in interviews before. The idea of 'dead air chicken' is both amusing and genius. Can't wait to see how it works in practice.

  • @jt3512
    @jt35123 жыл бұрын

    I have my first interview on camera tomorrow. I have done my prep questions, I have watched many of my guest's vids on KZread, to get a real feel for her. The nerves are kicking in but I pray all goes well🙏

  • @hellohappyvegan

    @hellohappyvegan

    3 жыл бұрын

    How did it go????

  • @ThomasJordanTV

    @ThomasJordanTV

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@hellohappyvegan Looks like we had the same question haha

  • @hellohappyvegan

    @hellohappyvegan

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@ThomasJordanTV guess we’ll never know... hope it went well!

  • @ThomasJordanTV

    @ThomasJordanTV

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@hellohappyvegan Who knows, hopefully he replies sooner than later.

  • @voidnerdvs7660
    @voidnerdvs76605 жыл бұрын

    Amazing advice, even for my school paper that no one reads.

  • @Na9rawi87
    @Na9rawi872 жыл бұрын

    Larry king one of the few interviwers who listens to his guests silently also Marc Maron in his podcast. You can how comfortable the guest is.

  • @sweetlife3623
    @sweetlife3623 Жыл бұрын

    You are genuinely interested in your interview when you are learning from the person you are interviewing

  • @rishikachutani2508
    @rishikachutani25085 жыл бұрын

    Chandler 😁

  • @ojaswiishani372
    @ojaswiishani3722 жыл бұрын

    I am going to interview people in few hours for my sociology assignment.

  • @keepthemomentum
    @keepthemomentum5 жыл бұрын

    Awesome job.

  • @ana_goncalves
    @ana_goncalves2 жыл бұрын

    Jimmy fallon missed that first tip of "just SHUT UP"

  • @jinamatcharia8027
    @jinamatcharia80272 жыл бұрын

    And I always thought I fall in love with humans after interviews

  • @itsaditya9832
    @itsaditya983210 ай бұрын

    I have my first interview tomorrow and i don't even know who i am interviewing but gona try my best

  • @Gulchik_Art_pet_portraits
    @Gulchik_Art_pet_portraits5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @humblekellie7464
    @humblekellie74645 жыл бұрын

    He looks very good in those jeans , like they fit him perfectly

  • @WickN
    @WickN4 жыл бұрын

    Sean Evans is a master of this.

  • @ThomasJordanTV

    @ThomasJordanTV

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes he is! He asks the best questions!

  • @frankie7275
    @frankie72756 жыл бұрын

    Holy ear bleeding loud clap....

  • @chavanne3

    @chavanne3

    4 жыл бұрын

    +Frankie rightttttttttttttt

  • @leowhogoestothedojo8523
    @leowhogoestothedojo8523 Жыл бұрын

    Cool.

  • @sweetlife3623
    @sweetlife3623 Жыл бұрын

    As an interviewer you wanna hear from your guest "how did you even know that?"

  • @bethesdasupport5846
    @bethesdasupport58464 жыл бұрын

    Bethesda approves

  • @davanmani556
    @davanmani5567 жыл бұрын

    Trial and error

  • @abdullahatif7854
    @abdullahatif7854Ай бұрын

    Thanks man, I just spent the last hour on similar topics, they had good content but they didn't have your style. Like seriously, as an interviewer or a starting-out interviewer I don't want to dehumanize the conversation with the traditional tactics.

  • @sweetlife3623
    @sweetlife3623 Жыл бұрын

    Definitely use icebreakers

  • @jinamatcharia8027
    @jinamatcharia80272 жыл бұрын

    I always thought that 8:50

  • @fatimazayed6010
    @fatimazayed60104 жыл бұрын

    let curiosity be your hobby

  • @trshxgod8040
    @trshxgod80403 жыл бұрын

    I’m watching this bc my teacher made me

  • @snvwflake

    @snvwflake

    3 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @MrMelnur

    @MrMelnur

    2 жыл бұрын

    S1me

  • @alexanderpadalka5708
    @alexanderpadalka57084 жыл бұрын

    🗽

  • @anishathete4123
    @anishathete41233 жыл бұрын

    Hey guys, can you please tell me how you get people for you to interview them? I would love to conduct these kinds of interviews but I don’t know how to approach people to come and sit down to let me interview them.

  • @anishathete4123

    @anishathete4123

    3 жыл бұрын

    What is a polite way of asking, can we make a video interview because your life intrigues me (This is for the not so famous people, like they’ll probably respond to my DMs but might get awkward and suspicious of my intentions)

  • @wesleypatterson2284

    @wesleypatterson2284

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is really late, but start small. Go for local entrepreneurs, politicians, media personalities, etc. As you gain more traction in whatever it is your conducting these interviews for, famous people will start coming to you

  • @anishathete4123

    @anishathete4123

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@wesleypatterson2284 It’s not late at all, I’m still searching for ways, so thank you! I’ll be on the lookout for local newsworthy events and people to write about. Thanks again!

  • @wesleypatterson2284

    @wesleypatterson2284

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@anishathete4123 No problem! Good luck!

  • @pabloalonsorodriguez8339
    @pabloalonsorodriguez83394 жыл бұрын

    I was going to add a thank you comment but I think I rather shut up

  • @flashmodeify
    @flashmodeify4 жыл бұрын

    Speaking of curiosity, I wanna know why one side of his shirt is tucked in and the other side isn't.

  • @sethbarbour6596

    @sethbarbour6596

    4 жыл бұрын

    Fashion.

  • @drebr9721
    @drebr97215 жыл бұрын

    Tips: Study Nardwaur The end

  • @iamryanman

    @iamryanman

    4 жыл бұрын

    Dre Br doot doot

  • @blueneckbeard47

    @blueneckbeard47

    3 жыл бұрын

    I've got an even bigger, better tip for you: 8=D

  • @civilizeddiva
    @civilizeddiva2 жыл бұрын

    Step 1: Prep: Research your interviewee: online, print interviews Review curriculum vitae (academia) Step 2: LISTEN Don’t think of your next question or joke Listen intensely Look for connections: your background research and new information presented during your talk

  • @lucialu2x
    @lucialu2x2 жыл бұрын

    1 prep 2 relevant icebreaker 3 shut up and listen 4 be interested. Be curious.

  • @PokeBaltz
    @PokeBaltz8 ай бұрын

    Bored people are boring, interested people are interesting.

  • @dracohendrix1668
    @dracohendrix16682 жыл бұрын

    CURIOSITY!! BE INTERESTED AND YOU’LL BE INTERESTING! Research the interviewee before the interview! Prep and practice before the interview.

  • @perdykool
    @perdykool4 жыл бұрын

    Okay I'm here to do some prep work because I am planning to meet with a celebrity I look up to and I have no idea how to talk to this person who is way "out of my league". I need to know how to make a conversation flow and not make it awkward be the one rambling. I need to learn to "shut up"

  • @gee2541

    @gee2541

    3 жыл бұрын

    Who was it and how did it go?

  • @perdykool

    @perdykool

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gee2541 was missing Amber Liu with her tour X starting I California. She was super chill, the sweetest personality and easy to talk to. Not awkward at all, just like meeting up with a best friend you haven't seen in awhile. Made a video of it to

  • @gee2541

    @gee2541

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@perdykool Oh wow I hadn’t heard of her before but that must have been exciting :) Glad she was friendly and it went well! I’d love to do interviews like that in the future one day and get experience talking to public figures.

  • @perdykool

    @perdykool

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gee2541 I've met a few celebs before and it's always been fun, they're people to, with feelings and anxieties like anyone... just better looking and with more money. Lol. Jk but seriously had great times.

  • @pavanshinde1634
    @pavanshinde16343 жыл бұрын

    Hisenberg lite

  • @queenk555
    @queenk5554 жыл бұрын

    In curious to see how 'dead air chicken' works. I'm the type if I'm being interviewed, I'll ask, 'Are you done or are we finished?" Instead of keep going. Lol

  • @ThomasJordanTV

    @ThomasJordanTV

    3 жыл бұрын

    Have you got to try it yet? If so, how'd it go??

  • @onlyguitar1001
    @onlyguitar1001 Жыл бұрын

    Lex Fridman watched this video.

  • @jakescott5857
    @jakescott585727 күн бұрын

    Cool hair do

  • @100peopledislikedyourcomme6
    @100peopledislikedyourcomme66 ай бұрын

    Takeaway: Shut up 😂😂

  • @adamdavis9343
    @adamdavis93434 жыл бұрын

    Joe Rogan breaks all of these rules. 😂

  • @CamerieriZeppoleMix

    @CamerieriZeppoleMix

    4 жыл бұрын

    who is joe rogan? j/k

  • @propertycentreuk

    @propertycentreuk

    3 жыл бұрын

    Are you sure about that? He does prep.

  • @chideraosih8214

    @chideraosih8214

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@CamerieriZeppoleMix Joe Rogan is a podcaster hosting the highest paying podcast in the industry.

  • @CamerieriZeppoleMix

    @CamerieriZeppoleMix

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@chideraosih8214 I know

  • @stephenjemyers

    @stephenjemyers

    2 жыл бұрын

    Apart from curiosity

  • @nicolelathrop8629
    @nicolelathrop8629 Жыл бұрын

    1a.shut up. 1b.learned too shut up.2a,i think making curiosity a hobby makes sense so that I can connect with multiple individuals.2B.means I can better understand and help people.3a.looking forward gaining others insights.3b I do not have any concerns at this time,

  • @obeytweety
    @obeytweety2 жыл бұрын

    Hobos in a bush... YUP

  • @sebastianalejandrogonzalez114
    @sebastianalejandrogonzalez1145 жыл бұрын

    f