HOW TO INTERACT WITH A SHY PATIENT (As a Pediatrician) | Dr. Paul | Retired
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A big thing with shy kiddos that I've often seen is that the parents often save their kids from answering far too much. No dissing on the parents, it's hard to see your kid uncomfortable, but they need to allow their child a chance to answer or they end up relying on parents to answer and be their voice
She is just precious! I have a shy 5 year old but as soon as she thinks you’re cool she’s a chatterbox! Lol
@Aiaiueueuej
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Haha! Bless you and your sweet daughter and family
@diplorablehomemaker
Жыл бұрын
@@Aiaiueueuej aw thank you blessings your way❤️
@Aiaiueueuej
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@@diplorablehomemaker 💗💗
@Aiaiueueuej
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@@diplorablehomemaker 💗 💗
This was kind of how I acted when I was kid even now. Turns out I had autism! Its so nice to see you treat shy kids nicely
@dimitryem0124
Жыл бұрын
I have autism too autistic people are smart and lovely I also found my autistic girlfriend and we have a good friendship
@timeisup6844
Жыл бұрын
Saara Mohamed you live in US?
@Ash01010
Жыл бұрын
so what about me? who didn't even had a voice unless someone tried to ask a question
@timeisup6844
Жыл бұрын
Saara - do you know your prophet had sex with a girl who was a little bit older than the girl in this video when he was at the age of 51??
@riscnx
Жыл бұрын
@@Ash01010 Just like this sex vrs gender confusion going on in USA. Autism is exact same bullshit brought up by US medical Science. The neurological condition present to signify possibility of autism is very much bogus & often contradictory to real life observation. People can have issues socialising or presenting their emotions or speak up, extraordinarily depends how they were raised & their knowledge. Autism, idea of Transgender, cosmetic surgeries, are just products disgusting capitalist culture to turn a healthy child & normal people into a patient! World will be find without medical machineries for such crapy things.
She's so cute it hurts. Also very well behaved for being sick. Congrats to the mom.
@antonitobendrito2243
Жыл бұрын
Exactly my thought. I got teary and emotional only because of her cuteness..
Hope she can grow out of it. Being shy has gotten me nowhere
@eleonoragiannetti3603
Жыл бұрын
Hopefully her mom decides to let go a bit
@midnight_x_edits
Жыл бұрын
Agreed it can all start with the parents and how they are with the kids at home usually a lot of yelling and getting in the kids face causes a lot of anxiety and shyness ik it did for me im an adult and i still struggle a lot with being shy and anxiety
@eleonoragiannetti3603
Жыл бұрын
@@midnight_x_edits based on their behaviour in the video I think it s the opposite, the kid seems over-protected. Yes, she might not be the most outgoing human being overall, but she answered and interacted as you would expect. The mother, on the other hand, seemed the one who was feeling the need to protect the child: always on her lap, talking for her, pleasing her for everything (like the purse: "it can stay here", smile and be excited for the toys don t give up as she ask for the purse)
@LeaEspinoza12345
Жыл бұрын
I felt this comment deep in my soul. I’m super shy and always has been. It’s not good. It’s actually prevented me from networking and going after great opportunities. I’m still single and unmarried and much too shy to date despite having a lot of interest from people. Sigh. People don’t talk about it but being shy is terrible. You can never really make the most out of life. I wish I was more outgoing
@theenlightenedone1283
Жыл бұрын
Shy people r very attractive 👌🏼but ego maniacs r ugly
Its so sad to know you retired. I watched you ever since I was such a little kid learning a lot. Thank you for working for these Adults and Children and I know you still care for those little Angels as much as you did when you were a doctor. I really appreciate that you still repost your old videos to still entertain us. Thank you so much Dr. Paul. we will all miss you so much and we appreciate all the hard work you have done to entertain us and still entertain us. You are such an amazing, loving, kind, intelligent and sensible doctor. you are such a caring person. Thank you and God bless you thank you so much for working for us and standing strong. We know what you did was right. Thank you Dr. Paul God bless you. From Ivy Shea.
@Hambonehoven
Жыл бұрын
God bless the unvaccinated children who die from preventable diseases.
@andystauber3717
Жыл бұрын
He literally would follow his own vaccine schedule and caused few of his pediatric patients to get hospitalized...
@diegos.loayza3706
Жыл бұрын
@@Hambonehoven unvaccinated?
She is so cute like a doll...God bless her and her family 👪
Awe, you were so gentle and reassuring to the cute little girl. So sweet at the end when you let her pick out a gift! It was like Christmas because her eyes lit up and she was so excited. Hope you are doing well in your retirement, Dr. Paul.
Amazing, loving, kind, intelligent and sensible doctor! God bless you! Thank you for standing strong and doing what is right!
I still remember my pediatrician and I just turned 43 years old! This child reminds me of me, as I was very shy, but always felt safe and comfortable when I had my doctor visits with him and then got a sticker and lollipop afterwards and left with a smile! 😊
@HMMC101
Жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday!! May the best years be yet to come!! 🥂 🥳 🎈 🎂 🎉 I remember mine as well and I’m 27. I had one that I didn’t like very much before we switched pediatricians and it made all the difference in the world having someone who was kind, caring, and had a great bedside manner. ❤
@mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat
Жыл бұрын
@@HMMC101 Thank you so much! Yes it really does make such a difference to have a good doctor! Dr. Paul is a great example! ❤️
@space_quartz
Жыл бұрын
@@mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat Happy birthday!!! 🥳🎂 I'm 17 and I actually don't remember going to a pediatrician but it's really sweet that you still remember yours. I remember my dentist when I was a kid and I would always cry but later, she would pull out a box full of tiny toys and I got to pick one. But one day, I didn't cry during my appointment and she didn't give me anything, and that did disappoint me. And I remember keeping my milk tooth in a tiny pink box I got
@mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat
Жыл бұрын
@@space_quartz Thank you for the birthday wishes and sharing your memories!
@addict4165
Жыл бұрын
@@mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat Is your doctor still alive or dead?? Just asking
I think being shy is super cute and can be positive if everyone is kinda shy. It just gets a Problem when a shy person interacts with a person who is literally crossing all bonderies and super loud, aggresive etc.
@cosmicreef5858
Жыл бұрын
No it isn't It is a hold back Being anxsious about everything around you can serious affect your life negatively This is not a trend, this is a state of mind Stop glorifying it or straight up lying about it
@Ready13
Жыл бұрын
@@cosmicreef5858 shy just a personality trait it doesnt mean your anxious, just means your not overwhelmingly outgoing. Anxiety is a different issue
@lordhuebi
Жыл бұрын
@@cosmicreef5858 I have been shy my whole life (I'm 38) and it can be a hold back, but I also wouldn't want to be any other way. I despise loud, obnoxious people who always have to be the center of attention. Much prefer quiet people. Being shy is also not equivalent to being anxious, those are two completely seperate things.
It's such a breath of fresh air to see a REAL doctor on KZread and not some chiropractors pretending to be medical doctors.
A huge smile on my face throughout the whole video! What a great guy Dr. Paul is!
Many thanks for ur amazing way of treating kids and parents 🎉
Being shy and too "polite" got me the sunburn of the century, skin peeling and all. This is not as good as it seems, but parents tolerate problems that make the kids calm and silent.
@9core
Жыл бұрын
a lot of people mix up inhibition with maturity. they want to believe that their child is voluntarily well-behaved when they are, in fact, just too anxious to act anything out (which is never healthy).
@itv5610
Жыл бұрын
@@9corepeople who assume you're anxious for not being talkative are just as annoying. It is just a personality thing. Not everyone needs to be a chatterbox.
I remember seeing this channel over a decade ago and then remembering it years later. Out of fluke, I found the channel again and resubscribed on the day Dr. Paul retired, as usual I hope all is well
People who are blaming the mom - She understands that the Dr ain't got all day to treat a single patient. She can practice training her child to be an extrovert at home instead of making the Dr wait 2 min for every single answer, if he asked the girl directly.
Dr. Paul you remind me so much of Dr. Michelle who looked after both my Mom and I and my sister when we were small, he also decided to keep my mom on as an Adult patient and saw me right after I was born, thank you for all the work you have done, and I'm sure going to miss watching your videos.
I wish I had a pediatrician like you! GB you are amazing ❤
model doctor. EVERY pediatrician should be just like this guy =)
You're such a great Doctor! I love your more natural approach to healing. You help me take care of my family. Please never stop making videos!
What a great doctor! ❤
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i would also maybe be anxious and overprotective when being filmed and put online to watch over 100k times. Seems only in US this can be ethical. The kid doesnt seem shy btw. Acting as a quite usual kid, looking in the eye, answering questions, being excited…and that all while filmed.
Doctors look at every detail. Amazing doctor he is.❤
You just made my day! Thank you!🙂
my pediatrician is going to be my son’s pediatrician. i can’t wait 💙💙
Don't worry kid I am shy to
Great channel for all new parents!
Even you retired, you know you will never stop caring for these Angels 😇
@randomvintagefilm273
Жыл бұрын
Is he retired? So these are old videos?
@frang2023
Жыл бұрын
@@randomvintagefilm273 Nov 2022
she's so pretty, she looks gothic
Thankyou for your service sir
Thank you for your service sir
Great Great Doctor!
I love this!
Wow and good job, all three!
Happy Retirement 🌻
If my children were your patients I would be raising hell with the medical boards and those forcing your retirement. Its so difficult to find good doctors these days. Beside the fact you did nothing wrong, this is so unjust. But, its good to know your still out there advocating. I believe God can use you mightily wherever he puts you. Thanks for sharing your practice with us.
@Aimzify
Жыл бұрын
What happened? Sounds like a big pharma story
@frankish5314
Жыл бұрын
@@Aimzify he got struck off for spreading mis information on vaccines. One of his patients ended up in the ICU after getting not getting his tetanus vaccine. Thats just what I read from the article on "Medpage today".
@highelectricaltemperature
Жыл бұрын
@@Aimzify Just from doing some brief googling, it looks like his license was suspended because it was found he was harming patients by recommending against vaccines, including things like a tetanus vaccine for someone who had just had a severe cut.
@UndeadSlayer5
Жыл бұрын
@@highelectricaltemperature probably because those vaccines were bad I can see why
@hittheroadjack2014
Жыл бұрын
@@highelectricaltemperature even against the tetanus vaccine??? Jesus christ
studying to be a nurse! i want to work with children or infants cause i never got to love my inner child live gracefully!
Thanks Dr. Paul! Big love from Asia.
You're the perfect doctor
I really love all your videos! I'm a highschooler and I'm very sure I want to study medicine and specialize in Pediatrics. I was really inspired by you because you're so kind and loving and I want to be like that too because I just love kids so much
As a wise person once said - "Children are our mirror". It's been so good watching videos showing how to respond to children of all ages. Thanks for these informative videos. Regards.
Those little legs wiggling made my day. She is feeling comfy. Not nervous but happy girl. ❤❤❤
You are such an amazing person.
she looks like an angel , i've never seen one , but if i had to imagine an angel i'd imagine her
i hope to be a pediatrician like you one day
@HMMC101
Жыл бұрын
Me too! Or at least a doctor like you!
@happymedicalstudent7772
Жыл бұрын
@@HMMC101 you’ll do great :)
@miaosov
Жыл бұрын
me too, good luck with your studies!
@HMMC101
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@@happymedicalstudent7772 Thank you! Same to you!! And just as good as Dr. Paul!
You are Amazing Doctor
I miss watching Dr. Paul and his patients. 😢 It’s already been 6 months since he retired from his practice.
Bless her
Good style of checking the patients
Aww she’s a wee cutie bless her! x
wow it amazing, i love his skil. :-)
I'm watching more videos of this as a paramedic student because pediatric patients terrify me. Maybe once I learn they aren't so scary, how to interact with them, they won't be so bad.
awhh such a good doctor!
Big respect.
Awe reminds me of myself when I was younger 😢❤
The innocence of children melts my heart and kills me. That's why I don't have any kids. I wouldn't be able to handle it.
i am subscribed
I'm gonna try this on my co-workers.
Thank you fr your love
Omg she is so adorable 😭
she's so cute aweee🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈💗💗 hope she'll be fine
Omg her cuteness overload 🥰🥰
That's great. I can sort of remember doctor visits when I was that age (I'm 46 now). I remember that my doctor's name was Robin because I always thought of birds when I saw him.
Jesus Christ she’s so cute . Her mom is lucky she looks like a doll.
@ninopink1598
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Maybe say ....My goodness she's so cute.
@sharonspencer2312
Жыл бұрын
'Thou shalt not take the name of the LORD thy God in vain/carelessly. He shall not hold him guiltless who does so.' Dueteronomy
@user-s0m30n3
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@@sharonspencer2312Sharon, not everyone is a Christian or adhere to the rules of the Bible. Nor are they obligated to.
@sarahmccarthy4462
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@@user-s0m30n3 That's true, however since there is only one God, it will be that God that will judge everyone when they die and it is that God that will determine where souls will be going whether that be heaven or hell. No one should use His name in vain. Funny people don't say oh Satan when using names in vain, it's always God's name
Wow. Such a beautiful.
Hi. Dr. Paul
Dr. Paul, I want a Mickey animal with a signed book!!! Never mind about Mickey, I’ll just take the signed book!! 📕 📖 🖊️ Such a fan!
COOL!
So cute!!! And I want him as my doctor and I dont even like male doctors. Seems like such a sweet man.
❤️
I hid under the bed of the office when I was nervous
So pretty she is ... ❣️ Adorable girl be well soon
Blessings from 🇦🇺
@mohamadazam2545
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New Zealand of Australia i'm confious 🤔🤣
God bless her
She is adorable. All shy kids are cute.
❤ ❤ ❤
You remind me so much of the Harbormaster from Theodore tugboat. In quiet energy and appearance.
What a darling baby girl.❤❤❤❤
This little sweet girl is so so so cute
i focus on her hair, looks so dark.
@violetlunna
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Yes and she is so pale! It's giving Snow White
👌👌
Oh my God I remember watching you
I wanna go back to childhood, become ill so I can visit this doctor.
@Escalated401
Жыл бұрын
aww lmaoo😭
Omg adorable
What's that intro music called man? Remember hearing it years ago in a vlog or something.
You remind me of my paediatrician from 20 years ago. He was the sweetest human ever. Always left his office feeling better. He passed away 15 years ago due to a road accident😢. I was heartbroken.
@sterlingmatsui154
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♡♡♡♡♡♡
CUTE!
this reminds me of myself
Soooooooo cute! ☺️
She's adorable!
She is indigo child, the eye the look angel on earth
She is good
god bless
She is perfect. Shy girls are so good at keeping little secrets
I was/am very shy at times and usually only around certain people. I wish I could just come out of it. 😢
A thousand emotions at the same time, total chaos, it feels like certain functions in the brain are surrounded by high walls or simply shuts down. Fortunately, it gets better with age, but the risk of suffering from panic attacks hangs in the air in certain situations. How can I know …
It was my mom's birthday on the 18th of April
6:30 I'm in my twenties and I'm so jealous hahah, I want stuffed toys after my doctor appointments too!