My husband is a narcissist. I have gone through all that what you narrated. Immediately after marriage he said that he would change my smile into tears very soon. He literally did it. Life with him was hell. He kept on gaslighting daily. I am grateful to Almighty who saved me from this monster's clutches. I was waiting to undetstand this through astrology. Thank you 🙏

@saisiddhartha5375

Жыл бұрын

I can't imagine what you've gone through hope you have recovered from this .❤️

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

take care

@ashimadhingra

Жыл бұрын

You are strong enough to endure it and come out of it. This in itself is a testimony of your strength and smartness. 😊 We can always take the positive. I know its not easy but you are stronger for easy. God bless you

Thanks for this video! The way I deal with Narcissist is to ignore them. Starve them from the attention they desperately want.

@vr7554

Жыл бұрын

Same here

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

correct

My wife cheated on me ,while she was in iim shillong for her MBA..she gaslighted me for so long...aftr getting caught she said dt it was my fault she ended up cheating cos i pushed her away to iim....

Great, informative analysis. Another combination I have noticed in my study of narcissists and astrology; most of them have Sun and Venus conjunction. Basically, that the sunlight, the spotlight is on them, and they love the attention they get, since Venus is the planet of love and when it shakes hands with the star of light, spotlight, it means they LOOVE the attention to extremes!

@ExoticAstrology

11 күн бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

One who is full in six opulences-strength, fame, wealth, knowledge, beauty and renunciation-is Bhagwan... Shri Krishna 🙏

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

Jai

@Vnonymous12611

Жыл бұрын

🙏🙏🙏

@zombiebombay8720

Жыл бұрын

And one who has all five but no renunciation could very well be the Devil

@bishalpaul79701

3 ай бұрын

Did you came after listening to amogh lila prabhu😊?

Love this. Please do continue with videos on psychological astrology. I've seen narcissism in those with tight sun-moon opposition and also sun/pluto (Western astrology) conjunctions. I'm also very curious about genetic astrology. I see such a direct relationship between myself and family. It's like the genes and stars correspond exactly!!! How interesting, right? Any thoughts or suggestions on this?

@slq4358

Жыл бұрын

@@awesomed007 I have this and can confirm. Ketu's role is that of making you go beyond the mind after all, as well as dissolving your sense of ego/self. Before becoming aware through controlling rahu, one is bound to experience the tragic side of ketu's influence, that is basically losing your mind with all sorts of delusions and making you a stranger to yourself, empty, aloof, angry, moody and vengeful. The path to madness and that to enlightenment are strangely very similar and both require aloneness. Took me 29 years to understand.

@slq4358

Жыл бұрын

@@awesomed007 absolutely, it's nothing short of soul tearing. "Normal" people have no idea what it's like, at least speaking for myself. But without this much suffering I think it's quite difficult to find liberation, reason being that without being forced to face one's dark side one doesn't even see the illusion they are in and remains attached to the material world. People don't find liberation because they don't even look for it in the first place, as that implies deconstructing and letting go of every attachment, goal, relationship, value and even the illusion of morality. Why would anyone "sane" even think about doing this, the mind/ego needs attachment and security (he even says it in the video, "we are all narcissists to some degree" and so does every psychologist you might talk to, nobody dares go beyond that point and thinks that is it, like "hehe what can we do about it"). It really takes a crazy one to look for ultimate dissolution and merge with the source/void. I was referring to this and not just to spirituality like "the belief in god", that is more 9th house/jupiter. The ups and downs are intrinsecally connected to the illusory and tumultuous nature of the nodes. Without extremes and very unsettling experiences how does one even begin to question "reality" and oneself? A comfortable mind won't be bothered to look for answers, it will in fact only crave more of that comfort. But a tormented mind will have every reason to do so. Which brings us back to what I said earlier. Part of why I say this is prolly 'cause even my rahu (moola) is controlled by ketu lol. Truly a gem, this life.

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

sure, thanks!

@slq4358

Жыл бұрын

@@awesomed007 could you elaborate on this part "moon ketu is not taking one to the ideall that lasts!! The perfection is not detachment that hates!! Buddha is the man who walked both worlds at once. That is perfection, not moksha!! Moksha is selfish even"? Not sure I got what you mean, probably yes but not sure. In fact what you said later is 100% correct, about the spiritual ego, and it is very connected to that "spirituality coming from hatred/loneliness/pain" if this is what the first part meant. Basically spirituality becomes what achievements and career are to a rahu person: illusions through which the ego feeds itself. Illusion of knowledge and spirituality in the case of ketu-moon. Been there done (doing) that. Only time in my life where I stfu, gave up any spiritual crave (12th house ketu-moon and rahu in moola) and literally just took care of my daily needs and spent time with myself in the present moment (6th house) I've had a spiritual awakening lol. It took 29 years to realize that the search for spirituality itself was the illusion, it became an escape and a paradoxical situation in which I was desperately looking for myself, but the reason why I couldn't find myself is exactly because I was busy searching instead of "just being with myself". I'm like the idiot that when Buddha tells you to just be here and now, asks "yeah but where is it here? How do I get here? Which direction? What time is this "now"? How?" instead of simply doing it. "The real spirituality is one who loves everything, absolutely, but is able to detach and reattach.", indeed, the problem with ketu-moon is that you won't find yourself if you haven't lost yourself first. All that hatred and pain is what fuels the search, that is surely an illusion, but without falling into that illusion I would have never gained so much insight on life and myself, I would have been maybe happy but ignorant. Now I have knowledge but I'm miserable lmao, but it's all part of the process, about "coming back" and overcoming and reconjuncting the snake/duality, reattaching like you said. I was also scrolling other comments and found your reply to another person that linked ketu-moon to an abuse of God in past lives, it's interesting because I've been thinking for years that I must have been some sort of cult leader or someone who exploited God for their own benefits in past lives. Much knowledge but zero wisdom. Thanks for the insight

@pallasa2032

Жыл бұрын

@@awesomed007my mother i remember in her chart has moon ketu conjunct in aquarius in the forth house opposite 10th house Rahu Jupiter in Leo little to no compassion no emotion only anger my older sister received a lot of abuse and it didn’t end well

Opening and ending too good.. A latent actor for the role of mil and karmic husband..! Felt so realistic, got confused whether to smile at the acting or to get angry. But thanks for the knowledge sharing. Hare Krishna

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

hehe thanks!

Your so correct about them you let them know everything about you and yes they wait at your most vulnerable moment and they cut you down I cannot be close to women till this day because of being hurt by one ….they don’t want for you to be happy so true you don’t know how much ive dealt with depression all these years

This a great Topic as Narcissitic personalities are not discussed much in India. Innocent empaths get entangled in their web Unfortunately in India psychology is not given importance till it reaches psychopathic level. Please fine tune your presentation with a script to reach a wider audience . Perhaps have a Psychiatrist as a Guest for a joint session for a better Impact

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

true!

@mikhailbotnovik1594

Жыл бұрын

In Kali yuga, the reverse hold power. Narcissist win while the good/empaths lose. The only way to traverse this is to play both sides. To the world, I'm a cold person who only cares about money. But to my dear friends, I'm a fun and honest person to be around.

@siddharthr4071

9 ай бұрын

@@mikhailbotnovik1594 True the narcissists who manipulated me are hailed as heroes and winners by rest of the society and it's evident in kaliyuga and innocent ones are ignored by society as uninteresting and boring and no one comes to their rescue from the narcissist gaslighting.

Hello Sir, i have a cousin who has all the traits of a narcissist and she has sun rahu mercury together in 12th house and sun is in debility. She behaves in such a high handed manner that everybody in the family wonders the reason. Amazing content👍!

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

great! its typical....thanks!

I am born in a family full of narcissists, including parents. The traumas were unbelievable and it never truly stopped. I have Rahu and Pluto in 8th in Scorpio sign, with moon in shatabhisha nakshatra. I think some of my experiences can be connected to this placement.

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

Thanks :)

This was amazing session ❤ please do more videos on this topic!!! Thank you 🙏

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! Will do!

My guess was correct. Always wanted to correlate astrological predictions and DSM diagnosis of Personality Disorders and mental illness. Will get in touch, Sir.

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

thanks!

They cannot take no criticism not even small it's difficult for other person to even explain to him on normal level

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

true

I feel rahu is one planet that makes a person lose their control and drive to whimsical thinking

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

indeed

My soon to be ex is one. He checks every box. Successful, charming, impeccable manners etc etc but a monster at home. My son is terrified of him; we dread the sound of garage door opening ib the evening. He's extremely jealous of all our successful friends but pretends to be happy for them. Anyways, he has saturn in ashlesha, moon jupiter ketu conjuction and rahu in 4th.

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

oh, bad!

Ooh very Juicy. I’ve been wanting to understand narcissism through Vedic astrology. I’ve been looking at my ex’s chart where I walked away with CPTSD and realized it was covert narcissistic abuse (idealized self through doing good deeds and being the giver, sort of like spiritual narcissism). His friend called him a saint. Not the traditional overt narcissism where they are arrogant. It was a very confusing and karmic time. There was gaslighting, shiftblaming, not taking responsibility and generally when friends and family weren’t around. He called me a narcissist. I was so worried I was one lol for a long time. In his chart rahu is in cancer (Kapiel KRS said rahu in cancer ♋️ could be manipulative but you have to look at moon). His moon is gandanta 0degrees Aries, sun in libra debilitated. Can you please 🙏 tell me your thoughts? 😅 Thank you, so much!! 😊 That relationship catapulted me to find Vedic astrology and deep life healing so I know ultimately I have to thank him. But I’m so curious 🧐 about gandanta moon 🌚.

Expecting this video for a long time😂😂 from KZread astrologers, but you are first sir.. better late than never🙏🏻🙏🏻

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

thanks!

Im not only fan of your astrology but your laughs in between

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

hehe, thanks!

I think Pluto conjunct/square Sun or Moon or Mars will cover all the behaviors that you listed for a Narc.

4:10 Exactly 💯 I faced all these consequences from 2019 @workplace... I became clinically depressed... Trying to get out of it... The only shelter is Lord Krishna... Hare Krishna Hare Krishna Krishna Krishna Hare Hare... Hare Ram Hare Ram Ram Ram Hare Hare...

@manishaaggarwal1316

Жыл бұрын

Hare krshna🙏

What did a narcissist do in his past life that he would be born as a narcissist in this life? Incapable of giving or recieving love?

Your “narcissistic” acting was so cute 😂😂 . Awesome topic 👍

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

hehe thanks!

@Vnonymous12611

Жыл бұрын

@@ExoticAstrology don't fire me, I smashed like and subscribe 😂😂😂

Sun conjunct Venus or in close aspect to Venus (the closer they are the more narcissism they display)

@Amamay315

9 ай бұрын

Lie

@winnieamar9368

4 ай бұрын

My husband has this placement in his 9th house. Venus combust. He's a covert narc. Hopeless

Your teaching is easy to digest, Sir. Also i am here because of the way you laugh. 😂❤

My husband is one! On many occasions, I've told him that he's behaving like Ravana and Duryodhan

Actually I wanna learn astrology and find the links with narcissistic personality disorder and CPTSD, as in how can these things b seen, what r the causes, etc and specifically with CPTSD- how u can heal it. Havnt seen the complete video yet but am so glas someone finally discussed this topic!!! First time

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

sure

@vyaptimehra

Жыл бұрын

@@shankarkerala yes I too hav a feeling rahu is behind those themes in life which are very unclear, which have an air of confusion around'em, and ppl who hav CPTSD are so fragmented/frazzled sort of that they cant see Or make sense of whats happening to'em or what exactly they hav gone through even....... Clarity is LOST I haven't properly learnt astrology so I can't be sure of my conjecture

I have seen these traits in people who have Sun as their atmakaraka, also in people who have moon+rahu combination. Very prominently noticed in people who have both Sun Atmakaraka and moon+rahu conjunction. 😢

I have so many of these placements: lagna lord moon in the 12th with ketu, rahu in the 6th, 12th lord mercury in lagna, R 7th house saturn exactly opposite mercury and 8th from moon making ashtama shani. Truly a joke of a chart and a joke of a life path, if you have any questions about narcissism AMA 'cause boy am I unfortunately an expert on the subject. The video describes the "classic", grandiose one only though. Ketu in my experience gives more of a covert/vulnerable type of narcissism, closer to BPD and more difficult to spot as it manifests very differently.

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

thanks!

Please make further videos on uncovering narcissism via astrology. Thank you

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

sure

I have a lot of these sun conjunct Saturn moon in 8th. I think in my case I redirect the judgement back on myself. My head is a war zone 😢

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

indeed

I have been interested this topic for years. Yes, disease is the right direction to go. It is one of the cluster B personality disorders. Envy, jealous, hostility, internal emptiness and deprived of grace are nails on the head. Cannot wait for the relevant Nakshatras involved. Thank you for the interesting research you have done.

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

thanks!

Rich, Fame, Beauty, Strength, Knowledge, Renunciation and Influence these are the six opulences present in a godly person or a true "Bhagavat", Bhag means six kinds of opulences denoted by God. Anyone who possesses all these qualities in fullness, not partially, that is God.Hare Krishna🙏🙏🙏

Really a guiding session as we have to deal with all kind of people in day-to-day life. Thank u so much.

I am stuck with a Narc husband leading half dead life. I have gone through umpteen videos and readings and there seems to be no remedy other than radically accepting it...sigh... .Is there any astrological remedy for it either to empower myself or get rid of this person?

Strong Sun and Mars, weak Moon and Venus. Every 20th person is a narc. I am a scapegout in a narc family.

Mercury in 6th house! Isn’t it exalted there? What about moon-rahu or sun-rahu conjunction & moon in Scorpio sign? Just wondering…Thanks for valuable information.

Oh Lummy! lol - That was my mother's phrasebook. Thank you xXx

Badly needed this video 😂

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

thanks!

Definitely dig your yummy content. My brain gets hungry and needs things to chew on that are....not what I have in the bank there already. So thank you. I got scientific with the narcissistic person. I just called him an A Hole until further investigation got real interesting real quick. And down the rabbit hole I went. Quick like a bunny. Bobbing and weaving because.....training lol

Very nice explanation, thank you for being authentic

What about Rahu placement? What if Rahu is conjunct with the Sun? The delusional mindset combined with Ego...

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

it can also contribute

@chiranjeeviroopa2136

Жыл бұрын

Yes specially if its in 5th house or leo..... check out

Sun rahu Saturn Venus in scorpio my father, Leo ascendant Capricorn moon

Every Narcissist in my life has a poorly placed Sun. Sun+Rahu or Sun+Ketu or Sun+Saturn or debilitated.

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

I see

@chandrikarao6590

Жыл бұрын

Yes agree with that… sun in first house is image and projection.

Raavan says Ek o aham Dvityo na asti Naa bhuto na Bhavishyati. I am studying Vedic Astrology as well as Western psychology thru MBTI and Enneagram as well as understanding remedies thru Therapy as well as Vedic methods. To wit Moola nakshatra was Raavan and I know close family members who have NPD symptoms (it is on a spectrum and not all folks have all symptoms) I dream to see a hybrid system of East meets West where such mental health issues can be correlated from one system to another and there can be peace and well being for all.

i have 6th lord in 1st and 1st lord in 6th.. and my sun and moon are in saturn ruled uttarabhadrapada.. 4th house has saturn.. i for sure am insecure and a bully sometimes.. what to do?

Best narcissistic video I seen thus far

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

thanks!

How about Cancer ascendant having moon conjunct Ketu in 8th house, Mars in Leo aspecting from 2nd?

Thanks for choosing this subject... Pl suggest remedies also sir... Most needed

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

sure

You are Spot ON Sir... Every single planetary position you spoke about brought various case studies in front of my eyes... Please let us know about the Nakshtras that induce a narcissistic attitude in a native... 🙏 TYSM for such a thought provoking video🙏✨️🙏

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

indeed

Can't believe I just watched this video 10x

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

thanks!

Ravana and Duryodhana are spot on

My Lagna lord in 6th opposed by Pluto in 12th conjunct Asc both square Mars lord of 8th on the MC Mother was narcissist & I the scapegoat.Check out videos on scapegoats in families one of the parents is usually a narcissist.

My 8th hkuse is strong..what does that mean?

I have My lagna lord Mercury in 6th house conjunct with Mars & Venus. I also have my Moon afflicted by Saturn in 5th house. Yes, I am insecure, under confident, depressed and have mood swings. What I am not is a Bully, but I have been bullied. I have been in love twice, ended up being a victim of toxic bully controlling manipulative possesive Cheater partners. Have been loyal throughout but ended up forgiving several times. Yes I do hold grudges, I have shared my side of story with my closed ones based totally on Truth and not made up facts of my toxic partners. My reactions have been consequences of years of Toxic abuse from several relationships but we are the Narcissist bcos of these placements..

Aishwaryasya Samagrasya Dharmasya Yashasah Shriyah] Gnanam Vairagyayoschaiva Shannam Bhaga Iteerana]] - Lordship, Dharma - duty, Yashas - fame, Shriya - wealth, Jnanam - Wisdom, Vairagya - dispassion. When all these qualities are in abundance they are called Bhagavan.

OMG 6th lord moon with Rahu in 4th house and moon is aspecting with 8th lord Mercury, Mars and Saturn😊 how to overcome this biggest narcissist mind

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

by doing spiritual practices

Waiting for this topic . Thank you

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

Welcome 😊

Just when i was thinking am i borderline narcissist idk i wasn't like this before but i feel like I might be slowly turning into one...what about taurus rising people since venus is 1st and 6th lord mine asc lord venus is in 8th house and moon and saturn conjunction in 12th house..also lately i have been thinking that how people who have insecurities will try to show off more and lack humility

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

indeed

My moon is with saturn in saggi aspected by jupit in Gemini Sun is in lagna being 12th lord Mars is combust in lagna being 8th lord Mercury in lagna being its lord I am sweet as per my frnds But one tough nut to crack I wudnt call myself narcissist as u explained.😂 but i feel i am surrounded by many.

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

hehe, Thanks :)

Waiting for this video for a very long time

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

thanks!

I really do believe that saturn in ashlesha in lagna and moon ketu conjunction contributed to NPD development.

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

ok

In my D9 Navamsa my 7th is Aries with Rahu sitting there also. Lord of 7th sitting in 6th house Pisces. Screams that my spouse would be narcissist qualities 😒

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

don't judge by 1-2 placements alone

Nice topic , thank you so much sir 🙏

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

Most welcome

I would like to add a narcissistic combination which is "Sun-Jupiter" conjunction in horoscope.

I have a question. How to deal with narcissist family members. I just watched your other video too on "5 radical steps to de-addict yourself of anything ". There you said about cutting contact with people who gave you or you practise your bad habits with. The thing is i have a narcissist family background. My father is a very bitter person and has to literraly be negative about everything. Growing up, i must accept, that qualities came into me too. I just finished my saturn return last week with shani antardasha still going on and it was the most difficult phase. I realised all my wrong doings, but i also realised i become a better person on my own. now the problem is i am in no contact with my parents and i have tried to make them act better but its no use. i have seen so many videos on psychology and i dont agree with western world to just let go of your toxic parents. my heart is breaking and i want to make things better but i know they will be back on their BS as soon as we start talking. and that makes me angry everytime i am in contact with them. I think u being an indian will be the best person to understand our values and to tell what to do in such situation. my bad habits, bad behaviour stem a lot of times from their influence, it makes me angry person. thanks if u read this long comment.

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

I have a video on toxic family members. Do watch it

@pjm4653

Жыл бұрын

@@ExoticAstrology that's great. thankyou very much. i will watch

Very good topic taken Sir

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

Thanks!

I know one narcissist who did whatever u said& still he is doing so misusing tantra& computer knowledge

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

thanks!

🙏 Namaste Sir you are amazing Astrologer we need you .

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

So nice of you

Best definition of a narcissist clip 8:05 - 8:29

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

thanks!

wow!!!! thank you!!!

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

Excellent!

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

Many thanks!

Moon rahu in libra can also be narcissistic?

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

could be

Thanks!

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

No problem!

Sir please make a video on combust vargottam planets

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

sure

Plz make more videos......regarding narsassist ...🙏🙏🧿😔

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

Sure

Smear campaign! Spread nonsense about you! Had First hand experience!

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

hehe thanks!

sir congratulations on your wedding I didn't know

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

thanks!

11:52

I have sun in 12 Saturn 8 moon 4th so sometimes I bully those bully 😁😁😁😁😁

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

hehe good!

Oh my gosh. I have many of these 😂 except mercury exalted in 11th yikes

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

lol

Ravan and dhuryodhan 2 narcissistic personalities

īśvaraḥ paramaḥ kṛṣṇaḥ sac-cid-ānanda-vigrahaḥ anādir ādir govindaḥ sarva-kāraṇa-kāraṇam

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

great, thanks again!

Kamsa is a narcissist too

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

indeed

aishvaryasya samagrasya viryasya yashasah shriyoh, jnana vairagyayoshchaiva shannam bhagam itim gana

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

great

Narayan Narayan 🙏

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

Jai

my ex was like u described.

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

thanks for sharing

@shakthisekar187

Жыл бұрын

@@shankarkerala yup it's old news

Narcissist e know someone

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

thanks!

😀🏆

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

thanks!

🙏🙏

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

thanks Nielke!

Scorpio moon women and hasta moon men

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

thanks!

👍😂

@ExoticAstrology

Жыл бұрын

thanks!