"if you live by people's praise, you'll die by their criticism" - Bill Johnson

@OmarHamza-nz9ob

8 ай бұрын

Exactly... Need some help regarding one thing .. How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?

@Unknown-us5gc

6 ай бұрын

This is so trueee

@OmarHamza-nz9ob

6 ай бұрын

@@Unknown-us5gc 📌 *REALITY OF ALLAH* ⚠️ *WARINING* ⚠️ 🎊 *HUMOUR ALERT* *ALLAH IS AN ABUSER BECAUSE HE SAYS:* *ALL PRAISES ARE FOR ME* *IF YOU LOST IN A WAR, ITS YOUR MISTAKE* *IF YOU WIN, THEN ALL THE CREDIT OF YOUR VICTORY BELONGS TO ME* *MY ENEMY SHOULD BE YOUR ENEMY* (EVEN IF HE IS KIND AND SINCERE TO YOU) *THOSE WHO REFUSE TO SUBMIT TO ME ARE THE WORST OF "MY" CREATIONS; HOWEVER, I AM THE BEST OF CREATORS, Oops I FORGOT, THE ONLY CREATOR* *KEEP FIGHTING TILL EVERYONE SUBMITS TO ME* *DON'T BE UNGRATEFUL TO ME* *DON'T GET DECEIVED BY THE WORLDLY CHARMS, ONLY LOVE ME EVEN THOUGH I AM THE BEST OF DECEIVERS* *I WILL GIVE YOU MORE ONLY IF YOU THANK ME* *I AM THE ONE WHO KNOWS THE BEST BUT YOU CAN'T QUESTION ME* *YOU ARE MY SLAVE* *FIGHT FOR ME AND DIE FOR ME* *I LOVE YOU MORE THAN 72 MOTHERS (EVEN THOUGH A LOVING MOTHER NEVER CALLS/MAKES HER SON HER SLAVE)* *IF YOU EVER DECIDED TO LEAVE ME, I WILL KILL YOU* *THOUGH THERE IS NO COMPULSION IN RELIGION*

@_EGM_

4 ай бұрын

I just realized that by the beginning of the video

@OmarHamza-nz9ob

4 ай бұрын

@@_EGM_ Yes. Its true.

When the world needed him most he vanished

@sannii2222

2 ай бұрын

he'll be back

@AnudeepTatireddy

2 ай бұрын

Who

@chaitanyavasamsetti8177

2 ай бұрын

What happened why aren't they uploading?

@carlboers4179

2 ай бұрын

he's not the hero we deserve but the hero we need

@cyclez6317

2 ай бұрын

@@chaitanyavasamsetti8177he*

When people think bad about you or say bad things about you is, for the most part, is a reflection of how they feel about themselves

@Nmdixon-cu7vm

8 ай бұрын

Not always. If the person being talked about is a terrible human being, then the problem is them. Not everything is some convoluted, psychological projection.

@FriendlyDawn135-kn5wq

8 ай бұрын

@@Nmdixon-cu7vm Yes I understand that, but for a lot of situations this is the case, I understand sometimes people are just jerks, just like my coworkers who don’t like me, but I understand your point.

@yamilet7933

8 ай бұрын

agreed

@hollynelson2626

8 ай бұрын

This is so true. A few years ago hearing someone said something bad about me. Made me feel aweful. Like it shook me. But now that I get this. If I know it's untrue or just to be unkind. I genuinely look at that person and think. How sad must your life be that you think that. Or have time to think that about me. Changes everything. Its freeing

@FriendlyDawn135-kn5wq

8 ай бұрын

@@hollynelson2626 Exactly like how sad do you have to be to talk bad about other people for no reason

I haven't joined the program but i must say, this channel has been a huge part of my growth in the past two years. I'd always been someone who was looking to learn and grow. Having grown up with crippling (and I mean Crippling) social anxiety, I was always forcing myself outside of my comfort zone with karaoke, door-to-door sales, public speaking and more so that by the time I was about 20 I'd gotten myself to a point of just being shy instead of completely incapable to speaking to anyone new and having constant panic attacks. Then I discovered this channel a couple years ago, met a supportive girl and worked my way up at my job and now I walk into parties and bars like I'm already everyones best friend 😅 it feels great to have this much progress and I can't express enough how amazing the free content alone is from you guys!

Hey, today at school I got an award for the most socially improved student. You are only one of the people who's advice on learning how to speak well helped me to acheive this big W in my life, can't thank you enough.

My key takeaways: - Reframe the question "How to stop thinking about what other people think of you?" to "How do I not let other people's opinions stop me?". - You should have something more important to care about. What would be your ideal life? - Have a set of core values, such as honesty, and promise yourself to not break them, even if it's bad for you in the short-term. - You are not going to like everyone. You should aim to be liked by, at most, your inner circle, but ideally just yourself. - Leave the validation casino. Don't rely your happiness or unhappiness on people you don't care about. - Other people's judgments affect you, because you think a hint of it, it's true. They can't make you feel shame, they can only trigger you to feel it. That's why you should fully accept yourself. - Use the best friend friend trick. - "You can't get where you want to go, until you accept where you are".

@Fotbollshugo

8 ай бұрын

nice

@johnp.johnson1541

8 ай бұрын

OK: How to put your self-opinion above all other opinions. Better: How to Become Dominant

@d.f.9064

8 ай бұрын

"What other people think of you I none of your business. "

Most of the people in my life don’t know this, but I didn’t have friends during my middle school. I was completely alone for years, and struggled to make friends even later in life because of my terrible social skills. Then I ran into this channel years ago, and it helped me become a better leader, friend and sister and aunt. I created relationships, and help so many people I can support with what I learned from you. Your channel is a huge part of what made me who I am today, and I can’t even describe how thankful I am to you for that. Yet I still want to write you - thank you so much, because of you, I can smile ❤️

The self-flagellation certainly makes every step 100x harder. This video came at the perfect time. Thank you 🙏🏼

@EmbraceTheStruggle24

8 ай бұрын

💯♥

1. Find your fire 2. Create an inner circle 3. Decide your core values 4. Leave the validation casino 5. Self-acceptance

@OmarHamza-nz9ob

8 ай бұрын

Need some help as I am suffering from low confidence.. How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?

@Vivi_9

8 ай бұрын

@@OmarHamza-nz9ob I think the real question you're dealing with is, what do I hate about myself so much that turned me into an online troll, and how do I fix that so I get satisfaction in areas of life that doesn't depend on hurting other people. Good luck with your self improvement journey!

@OmarHamza-nz9ob

8 ай бұрын

@@Vivi_9 Yes.. A kind of like that... You are so experienced... You just reached the depth of my comment... Fantastic... ! Anyway... If I answered them like this "I am not interested" 👳 Why you aren't interested? 🕵Because its a waste of time for me. 👳 How dare you called going to mosque as a waste of time for you? What will I reply.... Also what would ypu have replied if they said. " Is that the arrogance you have towards Allah?"

@WynneL

8 ай бұрын

​@@OmarHamza-nz9ob I think you can defuse the situation the same way with any proposition you aren't interested in: "I appreciate your enthusiasm, but I have already made my decisions about this. Have a nice day." Respectful, but firm. No value judgments, simply letting them know that you are not vulnerable to their pitch and you are now choosing to move on with your life. Then--here's the important part--DO move forward. Keep walking, head held high, eyes straight ahead. You are silently communicating as your stride matches your words.

@OmarHamza-nz9ob

8 ай бұрын

@@WynneL Also another thing...... How can a non Muzlim🐬🏵 (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim👳 if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Accept islam otherwise Allah will throw you in hell."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation? Also sometimes they say this sentence.. *"is that the level of arrogance you have with Allah?"* How to respond to these mean statements from them?

A wise man once said “it’s none of my business what other people think of me”

@nevermindmyname9153

8 ай бұрын

... "As long as it doesn't Physically affect my Life or the Life of my Child" a Wise Man added.

@RPKGameVids

8 ай бұрын

Definitely a good way to look at it.

@ImDreats

8 ай бұрын

Amen

@MYGmusic97

8 ай бұрын

Marcus Aurelius

@tomtom8786

8 ай бұрын

@@nevermindmyname9153 your addition was irrelevant. what does it have to do with the original message? I agree with the originall message completely

Just wanted to thank you for your role in my personal development.❤

Thank you. I've been living in a nightmare, being judged by other people for as long as I know. This video really made me change my view on the entire world.

@harewastaken

Ай бұрын

its really insane how something we are already introduced to can be something completely new to others.

What happened to this channel? Charlie we need more! Thanks for everything.

@blankforge7151

4 ай бұрын

Same. I still recommend it to people.

@ArchIVEDCinema

3 ай бұрын

I think it's just Ben now. Him and Charlie had a falling out of sorts and Charlie left the channel in Ben's hands, I believe

@blankforge7151

3 ай бұрын

@@ArchIVEDCinema then the channel is left to perish in the wastes of the internet archives. Who knows what's to come of these marvelous machinations.

@sebastianP46433

3 ай бұрын

The channel went downhill. Back when Game of Thrones was at it's peak Charlie's breakdown of characters and their behavior felt like watching previously unseen footage of Game of Thrones. This channel went from breaking down famous people and their charisma into quick cookie cutter tips.

@Thawhid

Ай бұрын

​@@sebastianP46433oof

Thank you alot brother, you are a blessing to not only mine, but millions of people. May God bless you ❤✝️

The biggest confidence game changer is progress and achievement towards the things you value. Once you are living your dream and pursuing it, you care 10x less.

@f4llenstarr

8 ай бұрын

100% - if you have a passion for career or such and see success in it, all else kinda falls short of what matters to it.

@RussellClausse

8 ай бұрын

@@f4llenstarr exactly. Most people have barely any confidence because they are living inauthentically - the dreams of society, not theirs

@EmbraceTheStruggle24

8 ай бұрын

Spot on ❤

@OmarHamza-nz9ob

8 ай бұрын

@@RussellClausse I am suffering from low confidence while dealing with bullies.. How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation? Help me... Please reply

@RussellClausse

8 ай бұрын

@@OmarHamza-nz9ob it depends, what happens if you refuse, saying that it's not for me? since you're saying the word "diffuse" i assume it gets quite confrontational and perhaps even violent. any way you can get help from somebody or avoid this person completely?

You guys have changed my life in such a great way. I started watching your videos 3 years ago and I have come a long way with my conversation skills. Thank you guys🎉❤

This had a lot of really good points. One of the best videos on this topic.

Absolutely beautiful video, guys. Just what i needed to hear.

Thank you so much this was the exact video i needed its so weirdly specific my problem. I struggle with insecurity and trauma that costed me my self esteem and this video gave me great advice. Thanks

always loving your work, your contents are a game changer for anyone who looks for growth in personality❤

Thank you so much for your videos, they are life changing!❤

Damn that last point hit home. My therapist has been telling me about self acceptance because I haven’t accepted my anxiety/perfectionist self 😅

@EmbraceTheStruggle24

8 ай бұрын

Self acceptance isn't always an easy thing, and if it was - there probably would be too much peace and not adequate progress. And often times, self-esteem; which is similar to self acceptance is meant to be a barrier to shield us from harm or danger, and is often interchangeable. But I suppose it depends on the situation.

So beneficial... I feel like this is what should be taught at school

I think as long as the people you like, like you, you're doing something right, but true about the tip of not letting that necessarily limit you.

Hey miss these videos. Hope you are doing well mate And hope to hearing something form you or your team Waiting and cheering you all on

Thanks to the videos, I have finally developed the courage to become what I truly am, and I find that I resemble God Of War's Brok in many ways. I am very brutally honest, I speak what's on my mind with no filter, and I am not bothered if I have to pay consequences for it. If something is good, I'll say it is good, if something is bad, I'll say it is bad. And I have developed more friends than enemies this way.

Really miss your videos one of the few channels on KZread I actually looked forward to seeing new posts!

Miss this channel glad you still killin' it

@TheNME

Ай бұрын

is he ok?!?

What a great video! It is evident that this was well thought out.

This was really good and not what I expected and something I needed thank you

5:41 Dropping bars man. Only way I was truly able to find peace and happiness within myself was through fasting. Took me years to figure that out and have a consistent energy level💁🏽‍♂️

good quality video, keep up the original content

Thanks for this video.

Video is like made for me, thanks a lot guys! Pure gold!

@EmbraceTheStruggle24

8 ай бұрын

Same 💯

Thank you so very much for this! 🙏💞

It takes loads of effort to create these videos. Thanks

Thank you. I needed this.

I truly needed this thank u❤

@EmbraceTheStruggle24

8 ай бұрын

We all did.

Thank you command on charisma ❤❤❤

Thank you charisma on command ❤

@EmbraceTheStruggle24

8 ай бұрын

🙏🙏🙏

Easier said than done, but I keep trying!

Any new videos coming up? Miss watching your content man...

@sydneymerrill5888

4 ай бұрын

For real it’s the best motivatio

@abrilcb5749

4 ай бұрын

Charlie has a podcast. Dropping in podcast

@acylan5281

3 ай бұрын

@@abrilcb5749 whats the podçcasts name?

Bro please come back I’m becoming more insane by the day

@ThePowerMoves

25 күн бұрын

Grow up man

Read "The subtle art of not giving a Fu** " by Mark Manson. One of the best books

This video is life changing!

@EmbraceTheStruggle24

8 ай бұрын

Yep

It's been awhile since I've watched your channel but I dropped by to say this: ever since I watched your videos on body language, behavior, correct speech, I have been a wreck. I've become so hyper vigilant of everything I do down to how I speak, posture, eye contact, everything, trying to do what you say in these videos I just can't relax and be myself anymore. Every ounce of my behavior has to be micromanaged now. I'm hyper aware of myself and every imperfection that's there and it's hell

@noslinon2470

6 ай бұрын

because you must not force yourself to become like said in the video, it must become an habit which means that it takes time. You can't change everything in one day, just take your time

@Babooshka47

6 ай бұрын

That’s called anxiety. I agree to some extent that watching videos like these can negatively affect you if your goal is to become socially accepted. However if you use it as a tool to improve certain parts of your personality. It can be extremely helpful. It’s more information on how you can act if you want to be more open, genuine and confident in yourself. Not to affect others

@ric6611

5 ай бұрын

If you're having these issues, I suggest just forgetting all the tips they give. A lot of these tips focus on communication skills, but the most important thing, just like they often talk about, is really just relaxing and being genuine. So, not micromanaging everything you do will probably make you more charismatic than being so hypervigilant - even if you are not applying all their tips. To improve, you must first accept yourself. It sounds paradoxical, but think about it this way: to improve who you are, you need to first know who you are. Otherwise, you won't really be improving who you are, you'll just try to be someone you aren't. Remember that you're imperfect and you will always be. However, you shouldn't ever think you are not enough because of that. No one is perfect, and I don't think you hold anyone else to that standard, so don't hold that standard to yourself. I know that everything I'm talking about is easier said than done, it's close to telling someone who's depressed "just be happier", but sometimes I find that I need to be reminded of everything I just said, and hearing it helps and motivates me just a little, I'm hoping it helps you too, however slightly it may be. If that really continues to be an issue, then just seek professional help if you have to. I know there's still a stigma about that but it makes no sense to hold a stigma against trying to feel better, and seeking the help of someone qualified for that.

Just discovered this channel! Loveeeee it

Why did Charisma on Command stop making videos??

Perfectly timed

I don't know about other people, but i'm 34 and all these inner demons and doubts i feel like i don't have them on my own, but my parents make an effort to remind me to instal these flaws to "self regulate". The feeling of not being as good as others or not deserving of something or to bash yourself is to fuel improvement as other examples... I know it's taboo to blame the parents for your weaknesses, but i trully feel that i am a "perfect" healthy human by myself before their active meddling.

@Djoee05

7 ай бұрын

I.. have had these thoughts before

Thank you!

Thanks for the video Ben :) You provide a lot of value. How much of this video reflects your personal experiences? Charlie spoke about his feelings of co-dependence on you and you stopped hanging out. Hope the two of you are doing well!

@RcsN505

8 ай бұрын

some hot internet tea being spilled here

Great video

Charlie your the best you have helped me so much with your videos thanks for everything.

"Opinions are like assholes, everybody has one." Clint Eastwood as Harry Callahan

This video change my totally mindset

I’d like your analysis of The Breakfast Clubs interview with Vivek Ramaswamy. It’s a very fast paced back and forth with so much material to unravel between him and the female Q&A.

Know thyself. Decision is the ultimate power.

@OmarHamza-nz9ob

8 ай бұрын

Brother please help me.. How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?

Will miss this channel

Thanks ❤

Nice one with good text presentations🎉

I don't care so much about what people think; but, I do care very much about what those thoughts propel them to do against me. Furthermore, when they make their thoughts known to others and those people also take the actions against me.

I Just Bought Your Course Complate Pakage ... Ready To Learning Now

We miss your videos!!!!

The clip in the elevator from "Mad Men" says it all. Michael Ginsberg: "I feel bad for you." Don Draper: " I don't think about you at all."

If you check all the boxes but still feel sad, then your are not really checking all the boxes. Be honest to your self, it helped me too

@OmarHamza-nz9ob

8 ай бұрын

Will you please help me a little... How can a non Muzlim (christian, hindu, buddhist or atheist) respond to a arrogant muzlim if the muzlim starts to bully the non muslim by saying: *"Come to our mosque even if you aren't a Muzlim come to our mosque, leave everything."* How can a non Muzlim respond to diffuse the situation?

Thanks!

We need a video on Neal Caffrey from White Collar, the most charismatic character of all time

The point, I liked most was, " Behave kindly to others but ignore the the discriminatory things which they tell about you and your passion"

We need more!!!

Can you do a breakdown on the characters from Friends and their personalities? Would be interesting to hear your thoughts!

When I'm worrying about others opinions it can make me take comments with negative intent. So I gotta snap myself outta that.

Thanks a lot 🙏❤

Visualizing is powerful my friends ❤

Plz come back

@ThePowerMoves

25 күн бұрын

Would be cool if they did. The founders had a fallout in their previous best friendship, hopefully they can find a way

Who needs personality when you got youtube videos to watch on your own... in the cold and dark...

@FilmThePoliceFTP

Ай бұрын

😂😂

One caveat with the letting other people make you happy/unhappy part is only about external validation. You can let people make you feel happy/unhappy by caring for them. For example; I love my mom, she goes through depressive periods, every time I see her like that makes me feel unhappy. That's not because I care what she thinks or care what I think about her but because I care about her happiness. And the 'they can't grow because they can't admit to themselves they need to grow' part is really contradicting. If I hate myself because I feel like I'm not good enough then I'm already admitting I need to grow. The mindset is toxic not because you don't have that realization but because you're in your own way by being too busy beating yourself up about it and won't even try because if you fail even in the slightest bit you've just proven that you're loser. Once someone feels like they will never get where they want to go it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Interesting thinking 🎉🎉🎉

❤there's no embarrassement in struggle🤔🤔🤔💯🎯🍓🌶🌞

Thank you❗️💥😊👍

I Support This.

The art of not giving a f*ck

Charlie we need more videos!!!

Thank you

Why has this Chanel stopped posting? This video was uploaded 4 months ago.

@abrilcb5749

4 ай бұрын

Charlie has a podcast. Dropping in podcast

Where did they go?!

Awesome video, and interesting that this was the last one you posted. Your fire calling to go into a different direction perhaps? Wish you the best with it if so

@ThePowerMoves

25 күн бұрын

Founders had a fallout in their previous best friendship

thank you

Where did bro go?

Apparently the best formula for extreme confidence is to watch a lot of clips of actors in Hollywood movies.

I struggle with the part of, someone saying something and you slightly believe it. Although this has been carved in my brain from bullying and such. I am a great person with strong values and workmanship, I strive for the best in life and have taken away the bad/toxic/negative things away from me. But when someone says something to me it's like I want to prove them wrong. Any advice on combatting this? Just self acceptance/validation is it?

Amazing content...Just wondering (and i would appreciate a reply from anyone if you know this), but where do you get the clips from movies for your videos, and can you get them for free without copyright?

Just came to your most recent video to say that you guys should take a look at Action Bronson, not like you should do a video on him or anything like that, but I think he is extremely good at meshing with all sorts of people. When I think of a charismatic person he's the first person that comes to mind for me.

Wya?

The edit was amazing iam impressed your presentation in youtube video. so, please tell me how you edit your video?

Where is the new content!

@ball3677

2 ай бұрын

Yo mamas azz

Excellent

Can you guys make a video on Calvin Grindz? This man has amazingly charismatic interactions in his prank videos, being able to quickly communicate, connect, and deescalate.

This video is me except the only person telling me I can't do things is myself

Really missing your new videos ❤