How To Get Better At Receiving Feedback
The single best way to grow as a leader is to lead and then get feedback. It is to act and interact with your team and learn what can be improved upon through feedback. Receiving feedback, and applying that feedback, makes leaders better. But there’s a problem with receiving feedback once someone is in a leader role. The nature of feedback changes-teammates minimize unpleasant messages or don’t want to offer any constructive feedback at all. And the response to feedback can change-leaders receive feedback but may not internalize it because “they don’t see the whole picture.”
So in this episode, we’ll outline four steps you can take to get better at receiving feedback in order to grow as a leader and grow as a team.
Start With Thank You
Restate What You Heard
Mention What You’re Changing
Seek Out More Feedback
Because feedback is an ongoing process, it’s best to imagine these four steps as a flywheel. It maybe be difficult the first or second time you’re in a feedback conversation to meaningfully hit all four steps. But it will get easier over time. Not only because you’ll get better at receiving feedback, but also because your team will feel more comfortable giving you more feedback. And as that flywheel of feedback speeds up, it will set you well on your way to become the best leader ever.
Or at least the best leader you can be.
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A former business school professor, Burkus holds a master’s degree in organizational psychology from the University of Oklahoma, and a doctorate in strategic leadership from Regent University.
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