How to find a Godly man (and happiness along the way) + how I met my husband

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If you've found yourself dreaming of finding a Godly man, then please stay as i chat about the complexities of longing for marriage in a world fixated on romantic ideals. In this deeply personal video, I share my own struggles with idolizing marriage and the transformative power of surrendering to God's will.
Ultimately, this video serves as a testament to the profound joy and fulfillment found in surrendering to God's plan for marriage. By prioritizing our relationship with Him above all else, we pave the way for His blessings to unfold in our lives, exceeding our wildest dreams.
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  • @ovidiudrobota2182
    @ovidiudrobota21822 күн бұрын

    As I was letting go of my ego, I found God. When a man has God at his side, worldly needs disappear (addictions to various foods, lust, internet, materialism, superficial relationships, and so forth). We're not driven to treat others poorly - we're no longer under the influence of negative or positive emotions. The spiritual path is rewarding! We go beyond the egoic mind and find that awareness comes from God. The Holy Spirit guides us on the spiritual path, and we're abiding by the Spirit. The truth is that any form of attachment to anything in the world is wrong. We must not be of the world; we should only be in the world. There's a similar Bible verse: "Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him." - [1 John 2:16]

  • @sofialjndr

    @sofialjndr

    2 күн бұрын

    Very true 🙌

  • @alexiscastillo3194
    @alexiscastillo31946 күн бұрын

    I’ve always wanted to be a father and a husband. To give those desires up to Christ and let Jesus take wheel has been the hardest thing ever😅. Lovely video, God Bless you and your marriage.

  • @sofialjndr

    @sofialjndr

    6 күн бұрын

    it can be so hard!

  • @ellurivelluri
    @ellurivelluri2 күн бұрын

    But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.

  • @sofialjndr

    @sofialjndr

    2 күн бұрын

    Mathew summarizes the whole idea beautifully!

  • @Yram0018
    @Yram00183 күн бұрын

    Waiting season feels like forever but praying helps out a lot!!! I don’t fantasize anymore about meeting my future boyfriend. It messed me up SO much. I was hiding behind a false narrative in my head. I stopped thinking like that about two years ago and it helped me out so much! I prayed and talked so much to God about my future boyfriend… and I met my boyfriend last year! He’s my first everything! I love him but I now face so many problems in this relationship because of my insecurities. I pray to God to help me with these insecurities and not end something so beautiful that God sent to me. 🙏🏼 pray pray pray!!! Everything in GODS WILL AMEN 🙏🏼

  • @sofialjndr

    @sofialjndr

    2 күн бұрын

    Prayer is key!

  • @sofialjndr
    @sofialjndr6 күн бұрын

    Talking with my husband after uploading this, we agreed that focusing so much how "high-value" your partner is often leads to constant comparing them to others and a fear that "someone better is out there." What do y'all think about this? x (also, is the music too loud in this video?)

  • @therealsubaekhyang

    @therealsubaekhyang

    5 күн бұрын

    I like the music you chose but maybe it couldve been a little quieter but I can still here what youre saying well

  • @sofialjndr

    @sofialjndr

    5 күн бұрын

    @@therealsubaekhyang thank you! I never want it to be too distracting.

  • @faithvandenberg3218
    @faithvandenberg32186 күн бұрын

    This is such good advice, not only for waiting for marriage but also to be content in the waiting for whatever our desires are! God brought this video at just the right time.

  • @sofialjndr

    @sofialjndr

    6 күн бұрын

    oh, I'm so glad to hear it was a blessing! 🤍

  • @caroline5903
    @caroline59032 күн бұрын

    I genuinely can’t believe you have less than 1k subscribers, you are so well spoken! thank you so much for this!

  • @sofialjndr

    @sofialjndr

    Күн бұрын

    Thank you so much 🥰 I'm getting there, stick around!

  • @aggelikhpz
    @aggelikhpz3 күн бұрын

    Thank you for this , I'm very happy to see your video, hello from Greece 🇬🇷❤❤😊

  • @haydongonzalez-dyer2727
    @haydongonzalez-dyer27279 сағат бұрын

    Very interesting story

  • @jennifert5120
    @jennifert51206 күн бұрын

    Beautiful video! Where did you get your dress? I love it!

  • @sofialjndr

    @sofialjndr

    6 күн бұрын

    thank you 🤍 this dress is from Cotton On:)

  • @lizz34
    @lizz343 күн бұрын

    I am a girl.always anxious about marriage 😭 thank you for suxh great advice. How old are you ? I am 22

  • @thomasj.loebel9809
    @thomasj.loebel9809Күн бұрын

    Follow one lord [love] to find another.

  • @markh3376
    @markh33765 күн бұрын

    Keep pray and ask to God will show your heart lead to right a men who believe in Jesus. It will be wonderful ✨️ in Jesus' Name, Amen 🙏 🙌 ❤️

  • @Cocovanberg
    @Cocovanberg5 күн бұрын

    So was your husband an unbeliever when you met him? And he became a Christian after?

  • @sofialjndr

    @sofialjndr

    5 күн бұрын

    Yes, when he first messaged me, he was an unbeliever. However, we never dated until he had been a christian for a good time! I definitely don't think it's in the best interest of any christian to marry someone who is not a believer.

  • @jeloxtv8467
    @jeloxtv846723 сағат бұрын

    I'm a modern day Boaz yet women even in our denomination are hypergamist or just into bad boy...

  • @MorenitaBonita19
    @MorenitaBonita195 күн бұрын

    Really needed this..❤️‍🩹 I have to surrender it all.

  • @sofialjndr

    @sofialjndr

    5 күн бұрын

    God bless you 🩷