How to Deal with Self Doubt

Would you say that the most successful people doubted themself and believe that they don't deserve their success?
A large number of successful/famous people suffer from imposter syndrome, believing that the success they worked hard for, they don't deserve.
Believe in yourself and in your accomplishments.
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  • @aarleyswift5338
    @aarleyswift5338Ай бұрын

    2years later and this still slaps hard, who else is here in 2024

  • @opeserah7225
    @opeserah72252 жыл бұрын

    I didn’t know when I started crying... I wish I was born into a family that practiced genuine love and respect.. my people only know how to instill doubt into me and project so much insecurity .. it’s really hard fighting life alone and just learning how to figure life all by myself! I’m a strong lady but I just can’t help breaking down sometimes.. I just wish I had a place I can find genuine peace , I wish I had a home! Sigh..this video really brought back the spark and I’ll be back to my normal self tomorrow morning. Thank you Vusi 🥺! I’m grateful for you 🙏🏾

  • @UnpackItWithThando

    @UnpackItWithThando

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm sending love sis💟💟you are not alone, many of us are walking that road with you but It will be well and we will make the homes we desire 😇

  • @SoftRod

    @SoftRod

    2 жыл бұрын

    God Has a way of bringing into Your life journey the necessities of where He is Taking You.. Find Your tribe of people that encourage challenge and are rooting for You to Win in Life.

  • @kayondothomas7392

    @kayondothomas7392

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're not alone me too...I came down to three conclusions, Different mindsets Different characters Different work ethics Only solution is to stay focused on pursuing your dreams

  • @ovilhelha

    @ovilhelha

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sending flowers 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @opeserah7225

    @opeserah7225

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@UnpackItWithThando thank you so much ❤️

  • @dithatomogoiwa9424
    @dithatomogoiwa94242 жыл бұрын

    "High achievers are high achievers because they doubt themselves therefore they prepare more, work harder, commit more time." Eishhhhh Vusi....hits home.

  • @thequeenmidas

    @thequeenmidas

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is very true. You are plagued with doubt and analysis paralysis tends to be way to work through them. It's a find line.

  • @priskela1

    @priskela1

    2 жыл бұрын

    Best thing i have heard today...i will take it and use this all the time

  • @investirenbourse-brvm1328

    @investirenbourse-brvm1328

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes this is great.

  • @thabonyawohandymanservices

    @thabonyawohandymanservices

    11 ай бұрын

    Thanks

  • @ZeliaHaruna_
    @ZeliaHaruna_2 жыл бұрын

    I felt it when he said “it’s not because they are succeeding all the time, it’s because they are highlighting” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @RealTalkWithNthabi
    @RealTalkWithNthabi2 жыл бұрын

    When it comes to pursuing new opportunities everybody starts at 0, make sure you are the most prepared 🙌🏾

  • @gumanimashavha46

    @gumanimashavha46

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow very true

  • @pleasurizebaloyi9991

    @pleasurizebaloyi9991

    2 жыл бұрын

    Powerful

  • @rismaamalia4939

    @rismaamalia4939

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for saying this because i need this kinda word

  • @marcoribeiroinvestment3449

    @marcoribeiroinvestment3449

    Жыл бұрын

    Do the company have a expert trader? Because this is one of the reasons that people lost their money in trading

  • @neliswanoah7663

    @neliswanoah7663

    Жыл бұрын

    Powerful👌

  • @KamogeloMaponya
    @KamogeloMaponya2 жыл бұрын

    Self doubt is the root of a lot of my problems. I am a first year student in a highly competitive degree and school. Being surrounded by the most intelligent people has made me anxious , made me question whether or not I am even capable of achieving this degree. This video came at right time. Thank you for your words of wisdom

  • @wawerumaina2570

    @wawerumaina2570

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're there as the very best....worst case scenario you're an equal. Give it your 💯.

  • @nenesibanda4171

    @nenesibanda4171

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am anticipating your graduation. You made it that far cause you too are intelligent 😊🎓

  • @naumiyomi15

    @naumiyomi15

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes we measure our intelligence and capabilities based on how others project themselves around us. Let's bring it to the assessments and assignments, how are you doing...because that's the greatest measure in this regard. I bet you are kicking ass. Best wishes ❤

  • @makabongwensibande1038

    @makabongwensibande1038

    2 жыл бұрын

    I can relate but the time taken assessing others is the time we could have been using for our benefit... I bet they feel the same (about u). Focus on you, you will make it at the top❤️🔝

  • @properpsychology1276

    @properpsychology1276

    2 жыл бұрын

    "The person most in control is the person who can give up control." -Fritz Perls Hi Kamogelo, you should check out our "Powerful Quotes to Expand Your Mind" video ft. Fritz Perls. Our channel is passionate about psychology education so that everyone everywhere can live a healthier life. Our goal is to create a free source of #DigitalTherapy for our subscribers.

  • @cookingwithnajeebah
    @cookingwithnajeebah Жыл бұрын

    The qualification you need is the dream you have.. Needed to hear this 🙏🏽

  • @njidekaasuzu9489

    @njidekaasuzu9489

    Жыл бұрын

    Can't be said any better than you did. Your dream is the only qualification

  • @consoleadaolisa6437

    @consoleadaolisa6437

    Жыл бұрын

    True! I'm worthy. I believe in myself

  • @zedhrpodcast
    @zedhrpodcast9 күн бұрын

    This is bigger than us all 😌. The older I get, the more I appreciate how I was raised and who I was raised by.

  • @DevineCyrus5
    @DevineCyrus52 жыл бұрын

    And the min he confessed that Jesus is his lord and savior 💓🥰🥰I just fell more in love with everything about you sir... thank you for allowing God to use you to change lives... All the love from 🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼

  • @asnetojoel6778

    @asnetojoel6778

    2 жыл бұрын

    Jesus is lord

  • @nicogoliath4902

    @nicogoliath4902

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this comment.

  • @dlepuno

    @dlepuno

    2 жыл бұрын

    I find it very disturbing that such an intelligent guy could believe in Jesus Christ, the myth. The man who has never existed but created by the Roman's to manipulate, control and to enslave the stupid. Jesus Christ is just the disillusionment, in other words believing in Jesus the Asshole is utter nonsense. He should stick to entrepreneurship without indoctrinating or coercing us into believing in his religious beliefs. I mean you don't need the so called God or Jesus to succeed.

  • @matakamotanyane3257

    @matakamotanyane3257

    2 жыл бұрын

    Indeed dear, that brilliance can only come from Jesus Christ. I have fallen in love with him. It's my 1st time to listen to Him him and I believe my God leaded me to this speech, I needed to hear everything he said. As a woman who has just started pastoring, I have always thought am not good enough to do it, now I know that I must shift my focus, and put more effort on developing my skills. Thank you Vusi, to God be the glory.

  • @dlepuno

    @dlepuno

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@matakamotanyane3257 What an illogical reasoning! Jesus Christ plays no role in somebody's success, in fact many successful people and including some countries are atheists. Take for instance the founders of the computer that you're are all atheists and they're all extremely successful. Many well known engineers, medical doctors and scientists are atheists. The so called God and his/her/its son of a bitch Jesus Christ have done nothing for us Africans and as long as we still believe in this nonsense we'll never go anywhere. Religion as whole is a stumbling factor for a black child period.

  • @lydiaoctober26
    @lydiaoctober262 жыл бұрын

    It's so unreal how I ended up watching this out of nowhere, I woke up from a dream where I was asking God to give me answer as to what to do next. I felt this message deep within my soul, I understood the message, thank you Lord and thank you Vusi for being a vessel and making sure that I received this encouragement ❤

  • @flowwithmildred

    @flowwithmildred

    2 жыл бұрын

    It just showed up in my feed. It so happens I had just finished praying and resigned myself to just focus on the next step of what I have been avoiding.

  • @lydiaoctober26

    @lydiaoctober26

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@flowwithmildred wow, God is good 🤍

  • @vedawattieram1974

    @vedawattieram1974

    Жыл бұрын

    I discovered that l if l lean in to the challenge, l build confidence. I lean in...It's not easy. But I do lean in , time after time. Be strengthened, friend!

  • @lhjadriaanse

    @lhjadriaanse

    Жыл бұрын

    I also prayed to God to ask him for answers - because I felt I was not going anywhere - I felt undervalued and overlooked, despite the efforts I put in and ridden with doubts about my abilities - and here this message just popped up on KZread. A Truely profound experience!

  • @abamotechnology8794
    @abamotechnology87942 жыл бұрын

    Thumbs up for your open declaration of our Lord Jesus Christ. its a very rare one. God bless you

  • @mihlalihoofman8970
    @mihlalihoofman89702 жыл бұрын

    I asked God for a confirmation to join moot court, and this video popped up on my screen🥺 this is it! I’ll take one step up the stairway

  • @TheChatrooom
    @TheChatrooom2 жыл бұрын

    I am good enough, I am competent, I am worthy and I am NEVER EVER doubting myself again!

  • @TinaChristinaTD

    @TinaChristinaTD

    11 ай бұрын

    Amen

  • @andilemahlalela5991
    @andilemahlalela59912 жыл бұрын

    Thanks bhuti Vusi. You just reminded of the Alchemist -"And,when you want something,all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it". I needed to get this assurance.

  • @properpsychology1276

    @properpsychology1276

    2 жыл бұрын

    “Your visions will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.” -Carl Jung Hi Andile, you should check out our "Enlightening Quotes to Find Yourself" video ft. Carl Jung. Our channel is passionate about psychology education so that everyone everywhere can live a healthier life. Our goal is to create a free source of #DigitalTherapy for our subscribers. "The Alchemist" is an amazing book!

  • @rosa629

    @rosa629

    2 жыл бұрын

    God of heaven, I need you more, than ever ...

  • @maureenkimani1519
    @maureenkimani1519 Жыл бұрын

    At the verge of giving my dreams up and then this pops up..."most high achievers work hard because they feel they're not worth it" bless you Vusi

  • @alexolabode7557

    @alexolabode7557

    Жыл бұрын

    stay strong sis!!!

  • @mncedisilindokuhlesibiya5928

    @mncedisilindokuhlesibiya5928

    Жыл бұрын

    Love and light ❤️

  • @olusegunadedeji3713
    @olusegunadedeji3713 Жыл бұрын

    The qualification you need is the dream you have. This is powerful! Thank you, Vusi.

  • @Lisziomania

    @Lisziomania

    2 ай бұрын

    Amen 🙌

  • @nosimathebula
    @nosimathebula2 жыл бұрын

    You know what? This came at the right time. Tomorrow I will be at that spot i had decided on with my mobile kitchen. I am done being negative.

  • @WorldAthletesRecruitsWAR
    @WorldAthletesRecruitsWAR2 жыл бұрын

    Vusi you are a blessing to the young entrepreneur in Africa

  • @justicehybridmukaro944
    @justicehybridmukaro9442 жыл бұрын

    I really loved the closing words, He who put the vision in me will manoeuvre the world to surround me with people who’ll help me get it done ✅

  • @noelstruben1426
    @noelstruben14265 күн бұрын

    " the qualification you need, is the dream you have" 💯

  • @abongileprudencemagandela9682
    @abongileprudencemagandela96822 жыл бұрын

    I follow you alot, I like your mind and personality. Truth is I wouldnt even want fund from you but mentorship, just learning from you. I wanna be a business woman working on a few things but I still pray for your mind.

  • @nothandondlovuraw7388

    @nothandondlovuraw7388

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm with you here, the mindset is amazing

  • @lelobuys769

    @lelobuys769

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm with you on this one sis❤

  • @shaymo2020

    @shaymo2020

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too 🙈

  • @illlaw5523
    @illlaw55232 жыл бұрын

    6 minutes in i can picture everything hes talking about. What an amazing storyteller.

  • @lesegontsoele6678
    @lesegontsoele66782 жыл бұрын

    " The qualification you need is the dream you have" wow! This is what I needed to hear. All of it. Is what I needed. God bless you sir.

  • @extrovert5829
    @extrovert58292 жыл бұрын

    Well I don't know why I bumped on this 3 am. I grew up feeling like am not good enough something that has affected alot. Interesting when I'm pushed to do something I end up doing it better than I thought. Lesson to self: everyone starts from zero Focus on what you can fix and good at . I won't doubt myself again I will train my mind to focus on what I'm good at.

  • @candy4087
    @candy40872 жыл бұрын

    I needed to hear this today.....I was feeling so down and funny thing is I didn't even search for this video,it just appeared and Lord am I glad that I opened it❤😊🌻 I will achieve all my dreams😊 Thank you Mr. T

  • @properpsychology1276

    @properpsychology1276

    2 жыл бұрын

    “Your visions will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.” -Carl Jung Hi Candy, you should check out our "Enlightening Quotes to Find Yourself" video ft. Carl Jung. Our channel is passionate about psychology education so that everyone everywhere can live a healthier life. Our goal is to create a free source of #DigitalTherapy for our subscribers.

  • @candy4087

    @candy4087

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@properpsychology1276 I'll definitely do😊👌

  • @noble9944
    @noble99442 жыл бұрын

    VT has a great gift to lead 🙏 get so focused when listening to him

  • @phyllismbugua4186

    @phyllismbugua4186

    2 жыл бұрын

    So true.

  • @paulocaldeira9649
    @paulocaldeira9649 Жыл бұрын

    Wow Vusi, this is powerful. I am 55 years of age, voted most likely to succeed at school, have 3 degrees and started quite a few businesses - some wins, some blow-outs, and many times just wanted to crawl into a hole and give up! Great to hear your story, and realise that even moguls like yourself have self-doubt sometimes. South African youth need more people like you giving entrepreneurship advice - that is how we are going to make them successful - by showing them our mistakes so that they can perhaps avoid some of our pitfalls !

  • @muchakazulu9258
    @muchakazulu92582 жыл бұрын

    I remember listening to this on my way home from night duty a few hours after it was posted. Today I came back here because this week I have an all important meeting which I know is going to positively change the trajectory of my career. I came back here because I have been doubting myself. I have been thinking, I don't deserve to sit in that room. However I will remind myself that on that day, everyone starts at zero, I just have to make sure that I am the most prepared person in the room. Thank you Vusi for sharing

  • @gweynnanettemhute4945
    @gweynnanettemhute49452 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this. I won't forget this line 'Focus on things that you can do better and not who you are competing with' .... God bless.

  • @praisebotha5123
    @praisebotha51232 жыл бұрын

    This video deserves a million views in the next 2 weeks

  • @erasmustettey2479
    @erasmustettey24792 жыл бұрын

    Growing up, I always felt like the least in the room even though I believed I was the most prepared. I got scared almost every time and told myself I’m not worthy. And here is the irony: I always won every competition I engaged myself in and in the next, I still doubted myself. Your video brought a huge smile on my face. Many thanks and God bless you 🙏🏻🙇🏻.

  • @choiceoliver8668
    @choiceoliver8668 Жыл бұрын

    Everybody starts at 0.. the only qualification I need is my dream This is my first time of listening to you, and it's so worth it

  • @sanelemeyiwa
    @sanelemeyiwa2 жыл бұрын

    Lord knows that I needed this. Thank you Vusi.

  • @designersworld7771
    @designersworld77712 жыл бұрын

    Exactly what I need to hear, let me take a seat first

  • @tlangimukoki1304
    @tlangimukoki13042 жыл бұрын

    It's weird how common this is yet we don't talk about it as much

  • @karojames8202
    @karojames82022 жыл бұрын

    As a Nigerian I'm 100% inspired by your teaching Sir...... We never give up, we never back down....we keep moving till we get it right.... May God help us all as well all strive to help ourselves positively

  • @pepianacoco

    @pepianacoco

    7 ай бұрын

    💯

  • @insightsfarmers

    @insightsfarmers

    6 ай бұрын

    That's us

  • @shafondjodilukaslukas3868
    @shafondjodilukaslukas38682 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir. Since I discovered you my life has changed tremendously. I'm a born again Christian now and I have attempted starting a couple of businesses that have failed, but just because my past has been following me refusing to let go. But I'm winning though, small victories maybe but victory's still. Thank you and God bless you chief!!

  • @mncedisilindokuhlesibiya5928

    @mncedisilindokuhlesibiya5928

    Жыл бұрын

    Keep going chief!

  • @karabomotaung3010
    @karabomotaung30102 жыл бұрын

    Evertime I watch your content. I leave with a renewed perspective. Thank you Groetman.

  • @the_prince_abdulkadir
    @the_prince_abdulkadir7 ай бұрын

    thank you i will remember "keep your eye on what you're doing not who you competing with "

  • @prosperplay6321
    @prosperplay6321 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Sir VT this is so inspiring. This reminds me of when I was trying to get my ACCA as a Nigerian at a point I felt I wasn't good enough but Jesus and my family kept encouraging until I qualified 2 years ago as a chartered Accountant ACCA.

  • @evansmokebe2280
    @evansmokebe22802 жыл бұрын

    For the fact that I have discovered you after I started dreaming again, it is complete proof of what you have just said and thank you VT for being that virtual mentor I need!!!

  • @olorato.mod.
    @olorato.mod.2 жыл бұрын

    It's the genuine laughter that comes from deep within his soul and the way he radiates light👌🏿

  • @nthabi_royaltymasango4915

    @nthabi_royaltymasango4915

    2 жыл бұрын

    This man is so loaded with light and wisdom, one can feel his spirit, I'm so touched.

  • @modestychinyeaka3650
    @modestychinyeaka36504 ай бұрын

    Self doubt is one of the biggest challenges I face anytime I want to take action or trying to do something new. Thank you so much for this Vusi.

  • @dennisnganga2883
    @dennisnganga2883 Жыл бұрын

    Keep your eyes on what your doing not who you are competing with,,,,hit me differently 🎯

  • @BrandonPMotsilanyane
    @BrandonPMotsilanyane2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this from Botswana its been a tough time for me as a young person since graduation varsity last year been trying to apply for jobs with no luck a guy who is looked down in an interview cos i had no viable experience against the people i applied with i have also tried my hand in starting my business but i met problems after problems and I'm still looking for one thing today just to start small even though i was told just give up by my family by strangers who when i asked permission to rent out space from them shut door in my face but I gotta keep going cos I can't quit.

  • @SoftRod
    @SoftRod2 жыл бұрын

    I've have been in a Rut In my Job application Process and I have been struggling with a feeling of imposter syndrome and I have been ignoring and disqualifying myself from applying to Certain opportunities that I know deep down I am more than competent enough to take Up. This Mesage is timely from God through You; It has liberated my thoughts rather than suppress and ignore. When You Have a Good enough why You can face any How.

  • @angellaalakit

    @angellaalakit

    2 жыл бұрын

    You have described me in a way I only know how to in my heart. This has been eating me up for a while now.

  • @keillanhadden798

    @keillanhadden798

    2 жыл бұрын

    You will get a good job! You are good enough. Be confident ❤

  • @SoftRod

    @SoftRod

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@keillanhadden798 Thank You For the Vote of confidence ❤️

  • @keillanhadden798

    @keillanhadden798

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@SoftRod no prob.. have u found anything as yet?

  • @Limcyy_0fficial
    @Limcyy_0fficial9 ай бұрын

    Self doubt is unarguably the Hallmark of my life,it precedes everything i do in life

  • @mncedisilindokuhlesibiya5928
    @mncedisilindokuhlesibiya5928 Жыл бұрын

    I’m actually shaken by this. I grew up being told I was not good enough and a lot of insecurities emanated from all those experiences. I’m currently trying to redefine myself. Not there yet but I’ll definitely reach my best level! Thank you Vusi

  • @academiae-learning7424
    @academiae-learning74242 жыл бұрын

    What i have realized in life is that your story is not a story if there's no success story. People will de-value your journey if there's no Wins. But it can only be a story if there's a combination of wins and losses. Even if there's only losses, that is value for the next person who is going through the same path and wants to figure out how to win. I always say this "if you've never tripped, then you are not human". We all stumble at some point, it's never easy to get back up but we carry the power to choose to stay in the fall or get back up.

  • @nozibuzematwa8689
    @nozibuzematwa86893 ай бұрын

    “ I’m good enough, I’m competent, I’m worthy”🤞🏾

  • @ricmaster2860
    @ricmaster28602 ай бұрын

    VT🔥🔥🔥Road to 1M views. Masterpiece. The one video that I always come to when I feel like I'm not good enough. Thanks VT, Big ups! "Focus on next"

  • @blessingdivine4686
    @blessingdivine468611 ай бұрын

    Wow, the people that are successful only highlights the success. Your qualifications is your dream. I'm good enough!

  • @glitterrose1810
    @glitterrose1810 Жыл бұрын

    This man personifies black South African excellence. I am glad I can come here to find excellence when my current immediate environment doesn’t provide me that.

  • @amandamagawu5194
    @amandamagawu51945 ай бұрын

    Thanks bra Vusi! Your words means a lot of sense to me . I resigned from work because of the passion I have for business. Last month I opened a cooking business and it's not doing well , I even thought maybe I don't belong there coz everyone who sell next to me theirs are doing well. But something said to me don't give in keep pushing. Now that I here your words I believe that one day I will be proud of myself.

  • @beatricethuo5878
    @beatricethuo5878 Жыл бұрын

    Insecurities are learned.... That got me. That means we can learn new things.

  • @johnmthembu5321
    @johnmthembu53212 жыл бұрын

    "The qualification you need is the dream you have" that hit home 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @folayanayodeji9921
    @folayanayodeji99212 жыл бұрын

    Thank you VUSI, I'm fired up again, going to give my next attempt all my best effort. I'm going into my next business attempt more prepared than ever before

  • @derricknakile4532
    @derricknakile45322 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Vusi. We all start at zero. This is the attitude I’ll take with me for the rest of my days.

  • @AllThingsLindo
    @AllThingsLindo2 жыл бұрын

    Going through a season of self doubt in my career and this video was just what I needed to hear "Everyone starts from zero, just make sure you're the most prepared!"

  • @marcoribeiroinvestment3449

    @marcoribeiroinvestment3449

    Жыл бұрын

    Do the company have a expert trader? Because this is one of the reasons that people lost their money in trading

  • @tsabanimasilela7280

    @tsabanimasilela7280

    Жыл бұрын

    Good stuff bra Vusi ,this powerful.

  • @davesaunders7457
    @davesaunders7457 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Vusi. I have struggled with self doubt and esteem issues all my life, but what you said at the end of this video is something I've been telling myself and my sons for a long time: the gift is the desire

  • @winnie-ex9jq
    @winnie-ex9jq2 жыл бұрын

    If you catch yourself having a negative conversation with yourself, stop and call out yourself on your own BS. I can imagine the few times I have done this and the many times that I didn't.

  • @properpsychology1276

    @properpsychology1276

    2 жыл бұрын

    "Thoughts become perception, perception becomes reality. Alter your thoughts, alter your reality." -William James (The Father of American Psychology) Hi Winnie, you should check out our "Powerful Quotes for Overcoming Negativity" video ft. William James (The Father of American Psychology). Our channel is passionate about psychology education so that everyone everywhere can live a healthier life. Our goal is to create a free source of #DigitalTherapy for our subscribers.

  • @Global_financialGirl
    @Global_financialGirl Жыл бұрын

    I can do all things through Jesus Christ that strengthens me. Thank you sir for this!

  • @MsVovolicious
    @MsVovolicious2 жыл бұрын

    Watched this video at the right time. Such a confidence booster. Vusi, thank you for candidly sharing your experience with the world. I am also glad that you brought up the imposter syndrome in the discussion. A syndrome affecting a lot of people subconsciously and stopping them from pursuing their dreams. I wish we lived in a kinder world where we all could just be supportive of each other.

  • @preciouseyakndue1723
    @preciouseyakndue1723 Жыл бұрын

    I stumbled on a short video clip on a friends' status, I decided to search for you... I think God led me here.. Thank you Vusi....

  • @blessedwoman5219
    @blessedwoman5219 Жыл бұрын

    This popped into my life just when i needed it.I needed to hear that.So much self doubt in my life it's almost crippling.Thank you for sharing.You are a blessing.

  • @kayboyo
    @kayboyo2 жыл бұрын

    Oh Vusi. I follow you like a leech and listened to every word you said here. This is for me as I stay back home jobless and doubting myself after working for over a decade. Thank you for adding the faith part as well. I trust that I am being prepared for my NEXT!

  • @Alaminjos
    @Alaminjos Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Vusi , I needed that. But above all your ability to pass the message so eloquently and peacefully without coming off as arrogant is one skill you've mastered to perfection.

  • @simplytammyful
    @simplytammyful3 ай бұрын

    I am launching a new service coupled with the interactions of my clients through a weekly podcast. Im scared as hick😮 this teaching had given me so much insight and validation. Stay focused on the next is the space I will move in. Thank you, I tumbled on your platform, I am so glad I did.

  • @Tom-yj3sc
    @Tom-yj3sc2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the invaluable work that you do for each and every African wo has a dream to be best that they can be. You embody the kind of teacher & leader the entire world needs.

  • @blantinakamanura797
    @blantinakamanura7972 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate how you put everything across...and thank you for always laughing and having a good time, it enables us the viewers to connect and have a good time as well.

  • @tshegofatsokekana9972
    @tshegofatsokekana99722 жыл бұрын

    I find myself questioning some of the decisions before I make whether they are right or disasters waiting to happen. I have learned to approach life as it is and give my best at all times, most importantly following my instincts and letting situations. I love Vusi's content and give you a ton of respect man. Your integrity and principles make me look up to you. Thank you !! Keep up the good work and may the good Lord continue to bless you.

  • @official_jay2167
    @official_jay216710 ай бұрын

    Thank you vusi. thank you for bringing me back. i really did loose myself. i dont loose myself that i gave up and accepted ill never get to live my dreams but when u said " everyone tomorrow starts from zero" it hit different. when u gave reason to how we feel ( the cause and effect philosophy) i finally got grip onto my life. i have direction. i have responsibility towards how i feel. that is competing with my limits. and my limits are not defined by other people's achievements or le alone their opinions. im only 22 and ive been battling with my way of life, especially with my feelings. (childhood trauma) but today i learnt that i can define my world and it take no doubt to win. its okay to feel low. its okay to feel like a stranger in ur own skin but at the end of the day, i got to claim proud od my efforts.........but vusi, is okay to feel stuck. it scares me that ill be stuck for a long time

  • @kenyamckenzie7108
    @kenyamckenzie71082 жыл бұрын

    Hi Vusi, your words in this video appeared to me like an angel. "...the company u work at has got a job posting, u think u can do the job...think you're not good enough..." the very same day I listened to this was the day I applied for the position at my job. This helped me. Tks Vusi!!

  • @jabulanisphiwekubeka7654
    @jabulanisphiwekubeka76542 жыл бұрын

    This came at the exact time I need it, currently started working a a big international corporate and I just felt exactly that I don't belong here I just felt like I got lucky and thought to myself well at least I made it here but after hearing this I think it has change my view.

  • @ugandareacts1994
    @ugandareacts1994 Жыл бұрын

    I was locked out of my house 2days ago left my job to focus on my company my fiancé just texted me leaving saying am not stable my family thinks am a failure but after hearing this it’s like God speaking straight to me through u am not giving up and one day I pray I will be able to motivate others too thank u Vusi

  • @Vv-fl2rm

    @Vv-fl2rm

    Жыл бұрын

    She doesn’t have to stay if she doesn’t believe in you and if she believed you are reckless in your decision making which will ultimately affect her too in the long run. You are free however to make a decision that suits you best.

  • @yoniemfengwana9042
    @yoniemfengwana90422 жыл бұрын

    I got so teary eyed because this is exactly what I needed. I had an interview 2 days ago and I have been shook ever since. It was the caliber of people in that organisation and the person I was replacing. I just felt so small. I mean this was my dream and I was getting closer and closer to it ,but instead I just freaked out . I wish I could have seen this before.

  • @banjilubobya284
    @banjilubobya2842 жыл бұрын

    I really love the setup of this video. It feels very personal, like he's speaking directly to me. Great message too, I cannot count the number of times that self doubt has crippled my resolve to act. Thank you for this.

  • @thechiman
    @thechiman2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Vusi. This sparked a lot of courage in me to pursue some dreams I had shelved and ignored because of doubt

  • @LadyLucille12953
    @LadyLucille1295310 ай бұрын

    ❤ I am Good Enough, Competent and Worthy!🎉

  • @roosy1953
    @roosy19532 жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate this uplifting message. Self-doubt has done nothing but trying to derail me from starting at 0. This gives me a push to move forward with a novice career path. May God keep blessing you to the extreme, Thank you.

  • @abimbolaidowu8343
    @abimbolaidowu8343 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Vusi, for this uplifting piece. I had always doubted myself. I grew up in a family where I had to walk on eggshells. I was often criticized by my parents. It took me time to heal. I still doubt myself sometimes, but it pushes me to be better. Now I am more focused on myself and what I want to achieve.

  • @moiponephatela6690
    @moiponephatela66902 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this 🥺👏🏽. I’m in Matric and want to make it into Med school next year. The academic standard scares me so much and I often doubt myself whether I am “smart enough” to get in 😔. This made feel better and motivated me so much 🤗. Thank you very much sir ❤️

  • @Kyle-Codes

    @Kyle-Codes

    2 жыл бұрын

    You got this ✨🔥 do your best

  • @AimeeinParis

    @AimeeinParis

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey you! You’ve made it this far and nothing or anyone can stop you from achieving what you have set your mind to. Believe in yourself and have a strong conviction of who you are! Look within and know that you are smart and capable enough to achieve your journey into medicine. You are worthy and smart! Know that and believe that because it is true! Go future dr. Go!

  • @mncedisilindokuhlesibiya5928

    @mncedisilindokuhlesibiya5928

    Жыл бұрын

    You will make it, believe in yourself. God wouldn’t have placed that dream within you if you didn’t have the capability to see it through. I want you to not give up on it no matter what happens. I was exactly in your shoes as well and now I only have a year left to finish my med degree. Self doubt will be there but always try focus on the controllable. All the best!

  • @SharweKok
    @SharweKok7 ай бұрын

    Hay My Brother. The last 2 weeks I have felt like I am not good enough. I Left school at 15, I struggled my entire life. But I work harder than anyone I know 12-16 ours a day. My dream I sometimes think is way to big for my capability's, But I work towards it every day. Thank you for this message. Actually want to give you a hug brother. Your the man.

  • @ziboshobamarobela1995
    @ziboshobamarobela19959 ай бұрын

    keep your eye on what you're doing, not your competition! I felt that! Thank you Vusi, we are grateful for your existence!

  • @redartnaynek_
    @redartnaynek_ Жыл бұрын

    Brooo this is legit stuff, I always wanted to participate in Public Speaking but I never got the chance, I will begin persuing it now. Love from Kenya.

  • @getrudelucyamondi947
    @getrudelucyamondi947 Жыл бұрын

    Self doubt has been killing me inside, even communicating with my own family I felt i I don't match them to even speak among, and even my friends, even my colleagues at work, even my clients that I plan to meet, Thanks Vusi, I need to do everything to ensure I am the most prepared and focus on myself.

  • @ngoziona1594
    @ngoziona1594 Жыл бұрын

    Didn't know when I let out a loud cry at the last minutes of the video...Thanks Vusi for this, I really needed it. God bless you for lifting up someone's spirit🥺

  • @evachukwu855
    @evachukwu855 Жыл бұрын

    U really madee cry this morning. Like I woke up asking God to help me, to change me, and He directed me to this video. Thank U.

  • @charles.m.molema4758
    @charles.m.molema47582 жыл бұрын

    I can tell it played a pivotal role within your grooming or sculpting for lack of better phrasing... 25 with R3.40 in my acc & no matric - not aiming to be RICH though Attaining Generational Wealth beyond my lifespan would be a feat worth Achieving . . . (Actually just saw a 1-Life ad on Generational wealth/it's different from my initial vision) (find a strong woman, have children as a result your legacy will be cemented - not here for the likes... A BA NE MAATLA-!) *"See yourself within others , only then can you overcome yourself..."*

  • @nickcheruiyot9353
    @nickcheruiyot93532 жыл бұрын

    Powerful sharing Vusi,am learning that when it comes with new opportunity everyone starts from zero my assignment should be I should be the most prepared

  • @heidibezuidenhout8708
    @heidibezuidenhout87085 ай бұрын

    Thanku Vusi for your advice. Very often as a child of God, I feel like I don’t fit in, I’m not good enuff & being ‘old school’ my values are not appreciated, fought against & someone somewhere is always using me as their scapegoat to cover up their failures or mistakes and then I am left to clean up the mess & do the right thing. I’m a loner & work better on my own so when working in a department with other ppl, I expect them to do what is right, be honest and put the integrity of the place we work for 1st like I would do..this does not always happen & it frustrates me because when something goes wrong, we ALL get put into the same basket & judged. I often forget that because I am God’s child, HE will fight for me, vindicate me & his glory will be seen in & through me. I have lost my ability to believe in my God given talents that make me stand out for Christ in an environment where ppl are self absorbed & only care abt what they can gain by using others as a stepping stone for their self gain instead of being an instrument/vessel for God to use for His glory & not my own🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @nondumisomkhatshwa1165
    @nondumisomkhatshwa11652 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing Vusi. I struggle a lot with self doubt and lose focus on what I’m good at . Thanks for being so real 😺

  • @TheAlchemistDavid
    @TheAlchemistDavid2 жыл бұрын

    Powerful Vusi! I didn’t know you were this young. I was blessed to have discovered you a few years ago. I share the last belief. 💝💯👑

  • @matakamotanyane3257
    @matakamotanyane32572 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Abuti Vusi, I needed to hear this, you did not only inspire me but you also gave me confirmation that I can achieve whatever I want to if I can focus on me not on competition. I thank God for using you to deliver this message to me.

  • @thembelairene4644
    @thembelairene4644 Жыл бұрын

    I need to hear this today. "Focus on the things you can fix" .

  • @thechiman
    @thechiman Жыл бұрын

    Hi Vusi, I am listening to this probably for the 7th or 8th time and it is inspiring me afresh to go for my scary goals and dare myself more. Thank you for being light and for letting your light shine.

  • @treskaroHQ
    @treskaroHQ2 жыл бұрын

    "Keep Your Eyes on what you are doing, the small things you can fix and not the big whales you can't fix". "EVERYBODY STARTS AT ZERO, JUST ENSURE THAT YOU ARE THE MOST PREPARED" @Vusi you are great. I will meet you personally very soon. I LOVE YOUR OPEN DECLARATION THAT YOUR SAVIOUR IS JESUS CHRIST

  • @phyllismbugua4186
    @phyllismbugua41862 жыл бұрын

    This really hit me deeply. Everyone starts at 0. Thank you sir for sharing this with us. Thank you . Much love and respect from Kenya 🇰🇪🙏

  • @PaulinKantue
    @PaulinKantue Жыл бұрын

    Awesome story Vusi. Thank you for sharing your story. It resonates with me and thanks for the reminders! "Impostor syndrome" is something I keep fighting for!

  • @sarajngonyani
    @sarajngonyani Жыл бұрын

    Will keep my eyes on you, brother Amen 🇹🇿🇹🇿🇹🇿