apathy is weird: i don't really care, but since i noticed that i don't care, i cared enough to understand why i don't care

@emillyazevedo1669

Жыл бұрын

you actually care, but you can’t find strength to do something about it...

@jadaaa1791

Жыл бұрын

this is the best thing ive read in awhile

@tinnn777

Жыл бұрын

@@emillyazevedo1669 EXACTLY AND IT'S KILLING ME

@KingSausage74

Жыл бұрын

Who cares???

@fitriani4501

Жыл бұрын

Thank you

i feel apathic with everything im in a constant state of not caring what goes on..

Apathy has been a relief for me. I think my mind got so tired of worrying about sht and other peoples problems that it has begun to shut down at any sign of it. I welcome it. It has given me incredible relief from the anxiety that has haunted me. I’d rather be completely apathetic than filled with anxiety. It is what it is.

I like to wake up during a Sunday and find a video that talks about what I need. I think family support, at least from my experience, is hard as hell because my mother or my uncles/aunts are more pragmatic and think apathy is just laziness. Sports are my best cure for apathy so far.

@bryanssuarez866

Жыл бұрын

That's actually right

I'm glad I came across this video. I think I suffer from 'general apathy' and 'emotional apathy'. Taking small steps a great advice.

My apathy is so terrible that I watched this vid on mute and read the comments. 🤦🏽‍♂️

@arkangeldaitenshi5182

Жыл бұрын

I did the same thing

@lannies

2 ай бұрын

I did this too

Glad I found you today! Thank you for this video, I will be watching more and just subscribed.🥰

I feel like nothing matters, I don't care about anything even about being apathetic

Excellent suggestions! Much appreciated!

Part of me loves not caring

It also helps to find comedy in the apathy you’re feeling, such as how some of the comments to this video, including this one, display sarcastic hopelessness inspired by apathy. Lol, it’s a sure sign that your message is reaching the right crowd.

Had an emotional outburst yesterday and today I woke up feeling numb.

@chelseathecreativeFox

9 ай бұрын

Guess your emotional outburst made you feel numb the next day.

I'm in that state, lost interest in everything, but I'm slowly recovering, thanks to Cole Hastings I've started to take cold showers, it's really hard, but when I force myself to do it, I feel better after, I feel, if I can do this, I can probably do other stuff, that is uncomfortable, it's the little steps like you said 💝

@sneakerbabeful

2 жыл бұрын

Right. And I start each day slamming my hand in a car door. If I can do.that, I can probably do other things.

@TAYGETAnguyen

8 ай бұрын

How are you now ?

@briangroboski3429

Ай бұрын

Cole Hastings is a real G

Routines may help people with Parkinsons get through a day and a week. Also many people with Parkinsons with clinical apathy also have executive functioning problems so breaking big tasks into a sequence of small steps is impaired. This is a barrier as well.

Sometimes I feel like apathy is just the will to live a simple life without any changes....I feel apathetic towards approaching people, socializing, go outside in general....this was probably because I grew up in a household where everything was timely even in the worst days

For some reason these pieces of advice irritate me and make me feel hopeless and disappointed. It’s like “I know it’s good to take small steps, but what steps exactly? Towards what? What should I do with my life in general?”. Changing my routine is a nice thing, but sometimes I just DON’T want to do anything. Has anyone experienced that, and if yes, what would your recommendations be? Seems like my problem is not apathy, but rather something else. Or maybe I don’t understand something.

@Smileeeyyyy

8 ай бұрын

Oh you don't know how much I was looking for this comment here. You wrote everything I'm feeling....!!!

@GMS8201

2 ай бұрын

Yeah, I hear you! It's like, what small steps?! I don't feel like doing anything. The only thing that has ever helped me break out of the rut is doing something uncomfortable, like walking in the woods at night or rock climbing (maybe not too high that you can die if you fall) but just something outside of your comfort zone. It (sometimes) invigorates me.

I have also gave up on some things, I don't know if it's apathy or just bring fed up. I decided to completely stop praying for so many people, they will never change. You can pray for parents, for Israel or even for grace. But what I'm tired of is caring for people that don't change their behaviors, let them pray for themselves. May Jesus Christ give me grace to not give up on people

I started feeling this a few days ago. I stopped logging in for school as the assignments stressed me out. I had a mental breakdown a few days ago, and now I don't even get excited to hang out with my partner. The work I'm in, I've started canceling out when I'm supposed to meet co-workers. I don't care anymore. Whatever happens, I'll accept it. I believe it's my brain becoming tired and having physiological problems and eventually saying to myself, “F this. I am not gonna make myself do things I don't want to and weigh out relationships. It's all about me.” yet I'm doing nothing. Can someone relate?

Very helpful!

Good advices

In short. We still understand nothing, refuse to address the source of the issue and have nothing to offer other than "set small goals" or straight up antidepressants, gotcha Lol, this is going great :D

@trappart9209

Жыл бұрын

We have to process our emotions and be good to ourselves - don't ignore our feelings, find and rethink toxic beliefs and choose to accept whatever we feel and work towards taking care of ourselves and break free of shame and guilt

@lukeaustin4465

Жыл бұрын

No one really has the answers, knowing this will make your life slightly easier.

@archivesofarda986

Жыл бұрын

@@lukeaustin4465 there actually is somewhat of an answer. Authorities and society must stop making peoples lives miserable and offer support on improving life quality. Depression and apathy is not a disease. You dont just catch it like the flue. Its a result of very bad long term circumstances. And the social structures and systems we build for ourselves literally cause such circumstances

Apathy because life feels like there's no real purpose.

It is too hard to concentrate on this 5 minute video.... I tried, but I cant. My eyes wander off to a white wall and my brain turns the sound off.... And even if I manage to keep my eyes on the screen, I don't understand shit... Is this apathy... idk... I am so fkin tired of life, it is just exhausting af and no fun at all. I just wanna sleep all day everyday.

I feel like that now

No motivation no desire no fun it's blankness inside hope to recover all of you suffer from this curse it's a bludy shit

@munirabbasi9713

Жыл бұрын

How long

Are you taking a break? Hope you are doing well.

Even no desire for sex

@sobanabbasi2294

Жыл бұрын

Thek hoo jy ga bchaa sbr rkh

Y es!! That happens from time to time! I wonder if it links with woman's hormones every month?

I have Major, severe what my Dr. says i'm trying to explain, no motivation, no enthusiasm. no interest, no desire to do anything etc. is Apathy. It came on over night 2mos ago. Dr. says its from depression. I am taking Klonopin and Lexapro. any suggestions?

@Lazer5051

2 жыл бұрын

@Catarina Vergueiro Better YES cured no

tbh I’ve never really cared much for apathy

What should a person with schizophrenia do about apathy?

How can you not have it all your life and then just have it in a major form? I do suffer from Depress. Anxiety, panic disorder all my life, now5mos later i have it and the dr. can't recomend anything

I don't have any of these illnesses but still expierence apathy is dis normal?

Dont deal with it. Embrace it. It is truth. A god worthy of worship. Embrace it.

@Kiki-xs1iw

2 ай бұрын

Embracing it doesn’t help. I know I have it and embrace it but It doesn’t do go any good, I cant change it

I’m not sure why apathy is even considered a bad thing! I have come to the realization that perhaps apathy is the best thing to happen to me! I think this world is full of contradictions and places too much unrealistic expectations on people hence people either endure suffering for the rest of their life and fake it until they die living a lie that everything is alright that life was purposeful or they can surrender and accept by coming to the realization that life is not designed to have any meaning or purpose and such ideas are self centered considering we are merely tiny specs in comparison to the entire universe so we are no different than the ants 🐜 we step on! Apathy has made me realize that all efforts are usually wasted in vain for pursuits designed to fail or are unsustainable to maintain in the long run. I noticed the day I stoped caring and went with the flow my life was actually giving much better results than trying to achieve the unachievable! Apathy is a negative label used by those who want to continue an exploitive system by allowing to enforce the expectations of others hence happiness will always be temporary at best. This World is waking up and apathy is showing up in many forms such as the “quiet quitting” movement in the workplace and declining birth rates as more young adults are not motivated to have kids. Of course it’s the interests groups such as employers and government agencies that rely on pension distributions making the complaints about this not because they care about your well-being but because their self interest is not being fulfilled at the expense of your suffering! I’ve accepted to live my life until I naturally die but only under the condition that I will live it with apathy and going with the flow! No longer caring about the expectations of this strange world! I honestly think life is just like prison and by choosing to live I just see it as serving my time in prison until death comes to take me! We weren’t given the conscious freedom to decide if we wanted to be born or not but was forced to whether we like this life or not!

@darkskinisalwaysin

Жыл бұрын

Perfectly stated; wished I could like this comment infinitely.

@KingSausage74

Жыл бұрын

Why are you stepping on ants though???

@jon6309

Жыл бұрын

@@KingSausage74 I’m sure everyone does at least once in their life whether they intentionally did it or not 🙄

@likeatree7825

Жыл бұрын

I feel like the attitude of going with the flow and being apathetic are separate things. From my personal perspective, I experience apathy as a general lack of emotion, while going with the flow is just having the ability to move through life, thoughts, emotions, and experiences without getting hung up on them. And while emotions can be messy and negative, they serve such a wonderful purpose and hold the essence of life. Experiences on this earth are meant to be felt, it’s just learning how to deal with them that determines whether the emotions will be fruitful for you or a hindrance to you. But you can experience all the emotions that exist on the spectrum while still going with the flow and having no expectations for the outcome. I guess everyone is different, but I like that I’m so caring, even at the expense of having to feel deep pain and sadness sometimes. I draw a lot of creative inspiration from that place, so the absence of any emotions at all, even the less enjoyable ones, kind of scares me. It’s all a balance.. I’m just wondering why I don’t feel things as deeply as I used to:/ this is just a random girls opinion though

@Lukaazas9

11 ай бұрын

Apathy hugely impairs my ability to function. Its not good if you want to survive.

Mystic Flour = Apathy

Does being nonchalant fall in this category…?

@chelseathecreativeFox

9 ай бұрын

Nope.

오~~특별난 영상입니다~심령에 관한 영상이군요?? 상당한 관심이 갑니다. 무관심에 대처?? 흥미진진합니다~ 나는 한국입니다. 색소폰을 연주하죠~~관심주시면 고맙죠~~

I value your video and its information. However I wish there were no typos or accidents in your speel with the captions. Two spotted the description of 5 types of apathy. ' Poor' is written twice. The caption writes intervene in the 5th type...whereas you say interfere...I'm sure there are more...I just lost interest after witnessing these. I write only because you have a valuable presentation that isnt upheld by these errors.

Apathy is the reason I can get out of bed now, most see it as a negative thing, but for me all I want is too feel nothing

@Kiki-xs1iw

2 ай бұрын

That’s not just what it is though so it’s probably not that..

I thought you were talking about the rapper

I don't care that I have Apathy

@dollface3391

Жыл бұрын

Same

every day for the last 40+ years

@Kiki-xs1iw

2 ай бұрын

Are you better now?

@RoadMechanic

2 ай бұрын

nope@@Kiki-xs1iw

Apathy is a huge symptom of Parkinson's Disease just an FYI!!

I reject apathy in Jesus’s name! 🙏 I want to feel His joy & peace again😭

Don't keep scrolling. Call your Doctor

@lukeaustin4465

Жыл бұрын

Doctors don't have the answers, they'll just prescribe you pills.

@biancat7761

Жыл бұрын

@@lukeaustin4465 yep.. Medication can help!

@michaelrey2159

5 ай бұрын

@@lukeaustin4465 Medication actually can be an amazingly useful tool that can help. When dealing with something like this, nothing should be off the table. Throwing a blanket statement such as, “Doctors don’t have the answers” is just straight up not practical. Many doctors in various settings and specialties actually do have the answers since we generally know there are various causes to apathy. There are plenty of professionals out there that work with the individual suffering to get to the root of the problem, whether that be physical or mental. Nobody claims for these pills to be magical cures, but they can certainly add a much needed boost when all else fails. Sure, plenty of docs chronically overprescribe, poly pharmacy is a definite problem, but that’s not every single prescriber. It all depends.

It’s funny that I’ll watch something like this and it won’t be directly related to the video, but I’ll still end up getting what I need. It’s like going to an AA meeting, barely paying attention, and you figure out what you need to do. Thanks. Edit: The short version of what I figured out was in line with the winner effect. I didn’t feel like going after any wins though. I thought about indulging in a hedonistic activity, but really didn’t even want to do that much, and then I counted to 5, opposite of Mel Robbins’ technique to countdown, because there’s no anxiety so I don’t actually need it for that, but it helped me complete something, a win. Then I counted to 10. Another win. Started chanting God’s name. Another win. Then I thought about pranayama. I just kept building from there, and even sharing this with y’all is another win. Funny thing is I’ve been building a way for my students to process their emotions and I’ve been moving just fine for a good while without any issues, and then I just didn’t feel like doing anything. I think I was possibly feeling overwhelmed without realizing it. I did some EFT tapping right before, which I still found useful because I know it gets both sides of the brain talking to each other.

Anti psych meds for "apathy?" Huh?

@Kiki-xs1iw

2 ай бұрын

@emu1028I’m sorry, is it better now?

She's stunning ❤❤❤

If I wanted to read a text book I'd read a text book. This is such a pointless video

@chelseathecreativeFox

9 ай бұрын

What are you complaining about? This is talking about dealing with apathy? It's not pointless.